Answerbag: SelahWrites's answers http://www.answerbag.com/profile/210461 New Answerbag answers from SelahWrites Tue, 29 May 2012 08:42:17 -0700 Tue, 29 May 2012 08:42:17 -0700 Answer to Can anyone recommend a book to help cope with grief? I lost my mother 4 months ago and am really struggling. I love to read so a self-help book idea would be appreciated. Thank you. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2245183 Can anyone recommend a book to help cope with grief? I lost my mother 4 months ago and am really struggling. I love to read so a self-help book idea would be appreciated. Thank you.<br /><br />I am so sorry for your loss. I&#039;d recommend You Can Heal Your Life by Louise L. Hay. Sat, 09 Feb 2008 12:21:01 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2245183 Answer to If you could smack anyone on Answerbag, who would it be and why? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2245156 If you could smack anyone on Answerbag, who would it be and why?<br /><br />I wouldn&#039;t smack anyone. I abhor physical violence. Sat, 09 Feb 2008 12:14:54 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2245156 Answer to I asked a guy I liked out to play tennis with me. The whole time he put me down and made nasty comments about my ability even though he knew I'm just learning the game. Should I move on? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2245136 I asked a guy I liked out to play tennis with me. The whole time he put me down and made nasty comments about my ability even though he knew I'm just learning the game. Should I move on?<br /><br />Run. Don&#039;t walk, run away from this guy. If he&#039;s making nasty remarks now, imagine what he&#039;ll do if he thinks you are looking at some other guy. If he&#039;s that insecure that he&#039;d have to put others down in order to shore up his own ego, he&#039;s 50 miles of bad road. Sat, 09 Feb 2008 12:11:45 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2245136 Answer to Are there any beliefs you grew up with, but as an adult you've changed your mind? If so, what? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2245120 Are there any beliefs you grew up with, but as an adult you've changed your mind? If so, what?<br /><br />Yes, I used to believe a person was either good or bad, now I realize we all have potential for both, and that the best realization is that &quot;good&quot; and &quot;bad&quot; are but labels. Sat, 09 Feb 2008 12:09:08 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2245120 Answer to How many Baggers live within 10mi/15km of an ocean or sea? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2245090 How many Baggers live within 10mi/15km of an ocean or sea?<br /><br />I do. Within minutes of the Gulf of Mexico. Sat, 09 Feb 2008 12:04:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2245090 Answer to Does anyone have any 'mom-isms'--things your mothers used to say that are typical of mothers? Like "I'll give you something to cry about".."one day you'll thank me for this", "think of all the starving children in China". http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2239417 Does anyone have any 'mom-isms'--things your mothers used to say that are typical of mothers? Like "I'll give you something to cry about".."one day you'll thank me for this", "think of all the starving children in China".<br /><br />Ah Mom.... she used to threaten to send us to Finishing School. We knew she couldn&#039;t afford it!!! &quot;I hope you have 6 just like you!&quot; Fri, 08 Feb 2008 14:23:36 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2239417 Answer to It's harmful (as opposed to just a bad idea) to wrap up your self-esteem in your looks. Agree or disagree? Why? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2239383 It's harmful (as opposed to just a bad idea) to wrap up your self-esteem in your looks. Agree or disagree? Why?<br /><br />Agreed. Any time something as critical as self valuation is based upon something transient - and face it, it&#039;s all transient, then there is bound to be a downward spiral when the house of cards caves, as it inevitably does. Fri, 08 Feb 2008 14:19:31 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2239383 Answer to How many parking tickets have you received this year? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2239360 How many parking tickets have you received this year?<br /><br />I recently got a parking WARNING - which could have been a $34.00 ticket. Things like that happen to me all the time. The last time I got a parking TICKET - I approached the meter reader, explained why I parked there, and she voided the ticket. Then again, I have wonderful things happen to me all... Fri, 08 Feb 2008 14:16:51 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2239360 Answer to OK so try this one. are men evil? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2239330 OK so try this one. are men evil?<br /><br />In my Universe, no one is all &quot;good&quot; or all &quot;evil.&quot; I endeavor to see everyone and everything through a filter supplied by the Creator that all are whole and perfect. Fri, 08 Feb 2008 14:14:09 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2239330 Answer to Is it acceptable to use corporal punishment on your elderly parents if they physically abused you as a child? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2232345 Is it acceptable to use corporal punishment on your elderly parents if they physically abused you as a child?<br /><br />It is never acceptable to strike anyone. Period. If you feel you may resort to physically harming your parents, please get someone else lined up as caregiver for everyone&#039;s sake. Thu, 07 Feb 2008 13:46:52 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2232345 Answer to What song never fails to put a smile on your face? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221514 What song never fails to put a smile on your face?<br /><br />My Baby Just Cares for Me by Nina Simone Wed, 06 Feb 2008 05:12:45 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221514 Answer to You are on your shopping tour through the malls and by a random chance of luck your clothes vanish into a parallel universe leaving you naked. What do you do? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221507 You are on your shopping tour through the malls and by a random chance of luck your clothes vanish into a parallel universe leaving you naked. What do you do?<br /><br />Find the closest fitting room and take out my transponder, request a beam up, and arrange myself in a fetal position covering the fun parts with Tribbles until the crew stops laughing long enough to retrieve another uniform jumpsuit from my compartment. Wed, 06 Feb 2008 05:09:40 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221507 Answer to Historically, what was the most beautiful and incredible gift of love a man has given to a woman? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221464 Historically, what was the most beautiful and incredible gift of love a man has given to a woman?<br /><br />I&#039;m certain it doesn&#039;t fit the &quot;beautiful&quot; criteria, but I find it incredible that the gift of the head of John the Baptist was traded for the virginity of Salome. Wed, 06 Feb 2008 04:57:25 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221464 Answer to Hhay fnrd how i can hack yahoo passward? how can i hack wondows passwoard? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221453 Hhay fnrd how i can hack yahoo passward? how can i hack wondows passwoard?<br /><br />First, you&#039;ll have to pay very close attention to the spelling and punctuation in the passwords. Most are case sensitive, and all must be spelled out exactly as the original and legitimate creator of the password, and sole owner of the account typed it in and verified it. For example, in... Wed, 06 Feb 2008 04:55:05 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221453 Answer to Someone who hates me gave my email address out to many spammers. The emails are all "Thank you"s for joining a mailing list that this person signed me up for. I'd like to do the same thing to this person. What are some great spam "mailing list" sites? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221434 Someone who hates me gave my email address out to many spammers. The emails are all "Thank you"s for joining a mailing list that this person signed me up for. I'd like to do the same thing to this person. What are some great spam "mailing list" sites?<br /><br />I&#039;m sorry I felt compelled to downrate your question, but I did it for virtually the same reason as Athrael plus some. Here&#039;s the rub - generally when someone signs up for a mailing list (whether legitimate or not) the list sends a verification email to the address provided.... Wed, 06 Feb 2008 04:48:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221434 Answer to Our friend Sakhalinski has made Guru! Who would like join the love-fest? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221423 Our friend Sakhalinski has made Guru! Who would like join the love-fest?<br /><br />Congrats! You inspire the rest of us to achieve such lofty goals. Wed, 06 Feb 2008 04:43:26 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221423 Answer to My mom is on her way from oklahoma for my sons anniversary of his death the problem is she is the one that took his life...she is staying at my house!!what or how should i treat her? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221346 My mom is on her way from oklahoma for my sons anniversary of his death the problem is she is the one that took his life...she is staying at my house!!what or how should i treat her?<br /><br />My deepest condolences to you and your family, my dear. You&#039;ve received some valuable and loving advice here, especially from Just Kesha- Thank you. When I read what happened in your comments to another AB member, my heart went into my throat. What a tragedy for everyone involved!I... Wed, 06 Feb 2008 03:46:52 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221346 Answer to Enumerate two redox reactions that take place in the environment and in industrial processes. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221328 Enumerate two redox reactions that take place in the environment and in industrial processes.<br /><br />This sounds like a homework question. Is it? Wed, 06 Feb 2008 03:30:00 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221328 Answer to What would you do if your ex just showed up at your house right now? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221321 What would you do if your ex just showed up at your house right now?<br /><br />If ex-husband..... I&#039;d call Ghostbusters! If ex-boyfriend.... last one? I&#039;d ask how I might help him, because clearly his car must have coincidently broken down outside my door. I&#039;d call AAA and give him coffee or tea as he preferred, ask how he was, be otherwise friendly and... Wed, 06 Feb 2008 03:27:27 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221321 Answer to Can you desribe you mother in one word? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221309 Can you desribe you mother in one word?<br /><br />Deceased. Interestingly enough, she visited me in a dream last night. Seems she bid on a comic book I was selling on ebay, and when she won the auction, I emailed her to get her mailing address and shipping instructions. I thought I recognized the email addy..... and thought, nah! Well it... Wed, 06 Feb 2008 03:17:50 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2221309 Answer to Describe your emotion in one word right now? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218726 Describe your emotion in one word right now?<br /><br />Happy Tue, 05 Feb 2008 17:26:42 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218726 Answer to What are some practical gift ideas for senior citizens? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218719 What are some practical gift ideas for senior citizens?<br /><br />The gift of time. Give them the promise that you&#039;ll call/visit/take them to the library/out to lunch/on a walk/to the barber/hairdresser or bank. Listen to them. Ask pertinent questions. Give them respect and compassion. Give them love. Also, it doesn&#039;t hurt if you ask them what... Tue, 05 Feb 2008 17:24:57 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218719 Answer to If marijuana become legal and readily available in the United States, where in the supermarket or grocery store do you suppose it would be located? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218623 If marijuana become legal and readily available in the United States, where in the supermarket or grocery store do you suppose it would be located?<br /><br />In the back so people would make random purchases on their way to get it. Just like they usually put milk and bread closer to the back of the store. Put the Cheetos next to the reefer, and Frito Lay stock goes out the roof! Tue, 05 Feb 2008 17:12:04 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218623 Answer to When you mow your lawn ..do you always do it the same way? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218592 When you mow your lawn ..do you always do it the same way?<br /><br />Yes, I wait for my young neighbor to need some cash, give him the cash, and ask how he&#039;s doing in school and life. Tue, 05 Feb 2008 17:07:10 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218592 Answer to If someone cooked you dinner, and they served you fish sticks and bacon, what would you do? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218539 If someone cooked you dinner, and they served you fish sticks and bacon, what would you do?<br /><br />I&#039;d politely decline to eat. I&#039;d explain I hadn&#039;t eaten either in years, didn&#039;t intend to start, and wonder how they&#039;d missed the message that I was a vegan. Tue, 05 Feb 2008 17:00:36 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218539 Answer to If you were a cat, would you chase birds and mice? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218508 If you were a cat, would you chase birds and mice?<br /><br />What makes you think I am not a cat? Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:56:47 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218508 Answer to Are there any baggers here that were born with no siblings? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218489 Are there any baggers here that were born with no siblings?<br /><br />I gave birth to a singleton. Once I figured out what caused THAT I stopped doing the other thing immediately. Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:54:08 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218489 Answer to Do you ever answer questions on AB just because you want more points, rather than because the question is something worthy of your time? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218466 Do you ever answer questions on AB just because you want more points, rather than because the question is something worthy of your time?<br /><br />I kind of go with a mixed bag on this one, Rosie. If I see something just too silly (irresistible - like that one from Police L.A.P.D. in Hot Pursuit) then I&#039;m likely to chime in for the giggles, assuming, of course that no one&#039;s feelings would be hurt. Other times, I feel I genuinely... Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:50:14 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218466 Answer to Do you believe that children are our future? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218446 Do you believe that children are our future?<br /><br />I believe our future will be contributed to by our children in the collective consciousness of all humanity. Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:45:57 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218446 Answer to Who, in your life, is the least trustworthy? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218437 Who, in your life, is the least trustworthy?<br /><br />Why would I continue to have anyone who was not trustworthy in my life? Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:44:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218437 Answer to The founder of Transcendental Meditation ,Maharishi Mahesh Yogi died today at 91.He was a great spiritual leader and will be missed by millions.Do you wish to offer your condolences and have you ever done TM? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218421 The founder of Transcendental Meditation ,Maharishi Mahesh Yogi died today at 91.He was a great spiritual leader and will be missed by millions.Do you wish to offer your condolences and have you ever done TM?<br /><br />My condolences. His contributions to the world are legion. Re: TM, no, haven&#039;t done it. Trying to quiet my mind is something I seek, have yet to find for more than brief seconds. Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:40:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218421 Answer to How is everyone's year going so far? Happy 2008 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218406 How is everyone's year going so far? Happy 2008<br /><br />It has been a time of great revelation and personal growth for me. I&#039;ve learned the phrase, &quot;this too, shall pass&quot; applies to all circumstances and conditions. I&#039;m getting better at letting go of that which I cannot exert control (just about everything) and learning that ego... Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:36:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218406 Answer to What was some common parenting advice before Dr. Spock came along? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218356 What was some common parenting advice before Dr. Spock came along?<br /><br />Children should be seen and not heard. Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:26:48 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218356 Answer to How do i get my monster truck sponster http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218348 How do i get my monster truck sponster<br /><br />Go to MonsterSponster.com Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:24:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218348 Answer to ARE ALL YOU PEOPLE REALLY THIS SHALLOW...? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218326 ARE ALL YOU PEOPLE REALLY THIS SHALLOW...?<br /><br />How shallow? Me shallow? I don&#039;t think I&#039;m shallow. Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:19:46 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218326 Answer to I wanna plan my funeral before i die, like.. arrange for what kinda food they'll serve & whos invited. Is that morrally wrong? Can you do that legally? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218321 I wanna plan my funeral before i die, like.. arrange for what kinda food they'll serve & whos invited. Is that morrally wrong? Can you do that legally?<br /><br />My mom made all the arrangements beforehand and we were very grateful. She chose the music, set the tone, even told them what kind of fresh baked cookies to serve. It was a wonderful thing to do for her daughters. Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:18:32 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218321 Answer to Will you be flying solo on Valentines day? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218313 Will you be flying solo on Valentines day?<br /><br />No, but it was sketchy over the weekend! Whew!!!! I almost blew it. Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:15:41 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218313 Answer to Do you take bubble baths? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218306 Do you take bubble baths?<br /><br />almost as much as I like giving them! Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:14:30 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218306 Answer to Why won't you just lay on the bed...and do what the nice officer tells you? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218302 Why won't you just lay on the bed...and do what the nice officer tells you?<br /><br />Because if like last time, I&#039;ll end up going to work in handcuffs again. You got any idea how hard it is to apply mascara while wearing handcuffs? And about that Billy Club..... Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:13:28 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218302 Answer to IMac, iPod, iPhone are all nice, but what you really need is an i....? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218260 IMac, iPod, iPhone are all nice, but what you really need is an i....?<br /><br />an Ilighter, I need it to Ilight passages in a book I&#039;d like to reread later. Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:06:58 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2218260 Answer to Ladies do u get jealous on Valentine's Day when you ar in the office and all the other ladies get flowers but u? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2216751 Ladies do u get jealous on Valentine's Day when you ar in the office and all the other ladies get flowers but u?<br /><br />I cherish other people&#039;s happiness and find joy in their successes. I&#039;d just be grateful to be able to see their faces light up when the delivery is made. Of course, there was a time when I might have answered this differently. Seems the older I get, the more I am grateful for the... Tue, 05 Feb 2008 12:38:18 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2216751 Answer to My dog loves to eat ice. Does your pet like to eat anything strange? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2211748 My dog loves to eat ice. Does your pet like to eat anything strange?<br /><br />fo schizzle. Mon, 04 Feb 2008 17:31:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2211748 Answer to Vegetarians, do you ever get a great craving for meat like I do? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2211732 Vegetarians, do you ever get a great craving for meat like I do?<br /><br />Just about as often as I get a craving to commit murder! Mon, 04 Feb 2008 17:29:17 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2211732 Answer to Would you rather be a vegetartian or a carnivore? (aside from health issues, like becoming overweight) http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2211728 Would you rather be a vegetartian or a carnivore? (aside from health issues, like becoming overweight)<br /><br />Oh oh oh. Let me answer this one! I have NEVER seen any meat eater who was overweight. To be sure, I&#039;ve had people say such vapid things to me like &quot;you know.... I&#039;ve seen some CHUBBY vegans in my life&quot; as IF the only people who are overweight are vegans/vegetarians. There is... Mon, 04 Feb 2008 17:28:19 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2211728 Answer to When someone says that they don't eat meat, do you ask them if they eat fish or seafood? (no judgement at all! I've just found it common.) http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2211700 When someone says that they don't eat meat, do you ask them if they eat fish or seafood? (no judgement at all! I've just found it common.)<br /><br />No, I assume they don&#039;t eat fish or seafood because I have yet to encounter a field of fish growing in any rural area. Mon, 04 Feb 2008 17:23:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2211700 Answer to Is it Morally correct to be a vegetarian? Is it Okay to kill animals? What is your take on these? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2211685 Is it Morally correct to be a vegetarian? Is it Okay to kill animals? What is your take on these?<br /><br />I choose to live life cruelty free. I choose to not consume any animal product. What is alright according to anyone else&#039;s moral compass is for them to decide. Mon, 04 Feb 2008 17:21:13 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2211685 Answer to Have one/more of your close family members or friends chosen to be a vegetarian or vegan? How did that affect you? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2211668 Have one/more of your close family members or friends chosen to be a vegetarian or vegan? How did that affect you?<br /><br />My BF is having serious issues with my food choices, but I think it has more to do with his outlook on life in general than my choices. We have been together for nearly 4 years, and there are bumps in the road. We hit one this weekend, and my diet was mentioned..... and well.... it&#039;s a bump.... Mon, 04 Feb 2008 17:17:18 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2211668 Answer to How many people on AB are vegetarians? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2211631 How many people on AB are vegetarians?<br /><br />Me. Vegan chiming in. Mon, 04 Feb 2008 17:11:34 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2211631 Answer to What is the largest amount of weight you ever lost? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2211468 What is the largest amount of weight you ever lost?<br /><br />I&#039;ve lost 30 some odd pounds since June by going vegan. Mon, 04 Feb 2008 16:46:58 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2211468 Answer to Does it matter to you what a restaurant looks like, or is the quality of the food the only thing you care about? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2185094 Does it matter to you what a restaurant looks like, or is the quality of the food the only thing you care about?<br /><br />Yes, hehehehe one time, we were at a restaurant I dearly loved. I knew the chef, I worked with her husband, and liked him, and the restaurant held special memories for me. My BF, however, was nonplussed due to &quot;too many&quot; plastic and silk plants. He spent much of dinner complaining about... Fri, 01 Feb 2008 04:48:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2185094 Answer to Tomorrow, Feb. 02, is Groundhog Day. Where you live, do you think he will see his shadow (meaning early Spring), or not, (meaning six more weeks of winter)? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2185081 Tomorrow, Feb. 02, is Groundhog Day. Where you live, do you think he will see his shadow (meaning early Spring), or not, (meaning six more weeks of winter)?<br /><br />I thought the determination was made by that single groundhog in Pennsylvania. Of course it goes without saying that in Florida, it&#039;s difficult to determine when &quot;winter&quot; ends and spring begins. It&#039;s 60 degrees and a gorgeous day here, just like I put on my request for the day! Fri, 01 Feb 2008 04:42:51 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2185081 Answer to What comes to mind immediately when I say southern comfort? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2185078 What comes to mind immediately when I say southern comfort?<br /><br />Doing the big spit and getting the advice to not drink anything brown again, ever. Fri, 01 Feb 2008 04:40:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2185078 Answer to How do I become less responsive to my emotions, especially in stressful situations? My brain seems to trail so far behind sometimes . . . http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2185070 How do I become less responsive to my emotions, especially in stressful situations? My brain seems to trail so far behind sometimes . . .<br /><br />I&#039;ve experienced &quot;trouble&quot; with co-workers to the point that I quit working for a company I loved. I&#039;ve come to realize I contributed much to the problem. My solution today would be very different. I&#039;ve taken the 21 day challenge outlined in A Complaint Free World by... Fri, 01 Feb 2008 04:38:00 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2185070 Answer to This is Patti jo , I've been gone because America Connect has been messed up and I want to say I sure have missed you all , have you missed me ? - Hugs http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2182399 This is Patti jo , I've been gone because America Connect has been messed up and I want to say I sure have missed you all , have you missed me ? - Hugs<br /><br />I&#039;ve thought of you. Be well. Welcome back. Thu, 31 Jan 2008 18:29:11 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2182399 Answer to Would you cook me a meal, if so what would it be and why? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2182155 Would you cook me a meal, if so what would it be and why?<br /><br />I&#039;d love to! First, tell me, you have any food allergies? I want to avoid hurting you. Second, you may not be aware of this, but I am vegan, which translates into a cruelty free dinner for you and me. I was watching Alton Brown last night, and translating recipes into vegan. Likely... Thu, 31 Jan 2008 17:55:12 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2182155 Answer to I don't know what to get my 9 year old nephew for his birthday (I have daughters). Any suggestions? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181942 I don't know what to get my 9 year old nephew for his birthday (I have daughters). Any suggestions?<br /><br />Sure, I&#039;d ask him what he wanted. I&#039;d look at his interests. I have two grandsons - one is 14, the other 15 and their tastes and interests change nearly weekly. Thu, 31 Jan 2008 17:25:01 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181942 Answer to Is there another "questions and answers" community website which is for more intellectual people? I have posted questions here about literature and gotten no responses. Is there somewhere else I should be posting (about all topics). Thanks. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181892 Is there another "questions and answers" community website which is for more intellectual people? I have posted questions here about literature and gotten no responses. Is there somewhere else I should be posting (about all topics). Thanks.<br /><br />Dear Jenny, Will you please give me a chance? I&#039;ve got lots going on in my life and I had not yet noticed your arrival. I&#039;ll head on over to see if perhaps I have something to contribute in the way of any constructive answers to your questions. It may take me a few minutes. Thu, 31 Jan 2008 17:17:56 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181892 Answer to California or Florida? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181851 California or Florida?<br /><br />Never been to Cali, lived in Florida for over 40 years. So, I&#039;m going with home. Florida... warts and all. Thu, 31 Jan 2008 17:12:07 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181851 Answer to Pick a card, any card. What is the first card that comes to mind? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181819 Pick a card, any card. What is the first card that comes to mind?<br /><br />The Chariot. Here&#039;s a charioteer who, without reins guides his trusty steeds into battle, sideways, like Cancer, the astrological sign associated with the card. Think about how a charioteer approaches the enemy, from the side, always protecting his vulnerability while exposing the soft... Thu, 31 Jan 2008 17:08:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181819 Answer to Is it wrong to ask your daughter's "suitor" to write his name on a rifle cartridge so you "have a bullet with his name on it?" I don't think so. Give me your best "shot" if you disagree. (Dad of 4 girls, so be careful!) http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181685 Is it wrong to ask your daughter's "suitor" to write his name on a rifle cartridge so you "have a bullet with his name on it?" I don't think so. Give me your best "shot" if you disagree. (Dad of 4 girls, so be careful!)<br /><br />Only if you don&#039;t decorate the rifle for the shotgun wedding by hot gluing tiny white bows with pearl centers and trimming the trigger with ribbons in the bride&#039;s color choice for the bridesmaid dresses. Oh, and have the ring bearer&#039;s pillow be adorned with a tiny little Smith... Thu, 31 Jan 2008 16:49:54 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181685 Answer to In the film Forrest Gump, what is the song that is played when they are in Vietnam and it stops raining?-Just before they get shot at. Thanks. Who else thinks this is a very clever and generally great film? soz i didnt put this in a category, i wasnt able http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181627 In the film Forrest Gump, what is the song that is played when they are in Vietnam and it stops raining?-Just before they get shot at. Thanks. Who else thinks this is a very clever and generally great film? soz i didnt put this in a category, i wasnt able<br /><br />Oh how I LOVE this movie! I have the sound track on cd! You may know this, but in the event that you don&#039;t, Forrest Gump&#039;s bus bench is in the museum in Savannah Georgia, where much of the film was shot. Savannah is my very favorite place in the world. I&#039;ve never lived there, but... Thu, 31 Jan 2008 16:40:48 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181627 Answer to Parents: what is something good that you experienced as a child that your own child will never be able to do/have? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181563 Parents: what is something good that you experienced as a child that your own child will never be able to do/have?<br /><br />Halloween trick or treating where we sat at Mrs. Freeman&#039;s kitchen table, ate doughnuts and drank apple cider. You just can&#039;t do that anymore. Ah, thank you for making me remember dear sweet Mrs. Freeman. Such a nice lady. Thu, 31 Jan 2008 16:32:46 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181563 Answer to What is the last movie you have seen and how was it? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181233 What is the last movie you have seen and how was it?<br /><br />Juno, this week. Amazing! The Bucket List, last week, AMAZING! Thu, 31 Jan 2008 15:49:08 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181233 Answer to What the most annoying song that gets stuck in your head? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181225 What the most annoying song that gets stuck in your head?<br /><br />It&#039;s a small world afterall It&#039;s a small world afterall while in the It&#039;s a small world ride at Disneyworld.... seemingly for days. Thu, 31 Jan 2008 15:48:18 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181225 Answer to What is one thing you'll never hear Paris Hilton say? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181208 What is one thing you'll never hear Paris Hilton say?<br /><br />Never mind, Grandpa. Give it ALL to charity. I&#039;ve become an ascetic. Thu, 31 Jan 2008 15:46:06 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181208 Answer to Do you believe in hunting animals for fur? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181200 Do you believe in hunting animals for fur?<br /><br />No. I don&#039;t eat meat, or wear fur. Thu, 31 Jan 2008 15:45:06 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181200 Answer to Whats the worst thing that anyone has ever said to you? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181191 Whats the worst thing that anyone has ever said to you?<br /><br />We did everything we could..... Thu, 31 Jan 2008 15:43:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181191 Answer to Americans: can you fake a British accent? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181179 Americans: can you fake a British accent?<br /><br />I can.... just about as well as Britney Spears. Thu, 31 Jan 2008 15:42:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2181179 Answer to What are you grateful for today? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2178162 What are you grateful for today?<br /><br />And today I am grateful for this truly magnificent day, a balmy 60 degrees F., a walk around the lake on two healthy legs with 8 healthy paws surrounding me. I am grateful for Cesar Millan, who has given me the tools to keep he who would gladly chase every squirrel up every tree from yanking me... Thu, 31 Jan 2008 07:16:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2178162 Answer to My little sister died this morning unexpecticly, Would you all say a prayer for her? I know this not the place to post this kind of a think, but have to stay strong for my mother. Sorry about this post if I offended anyone with it. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2178142 My little sister died this morning unexpecticly, Would you all say a prayer for her? I know this not the place to post this kind of a think, but have to stay strong for my mother. Sorry about this post if I offended anyone with it.<br /><br />Oh how my heart goes out to you and your family. Of course I&#039;ll pray for you, your family, and your little sister. May you and your family find strength in each other, and may you find peace and solace. Blessings to all of you. Thu, 31 Jan 2008 07:09:36 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2178142 Answer to Hi, my wife tried to use a credit card online by inserting it into the floppy port of our pc. I have tried to fish it out but looks like it will have to come apart to retrieve the card. Is that a easy task to do? Thanks. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2178134 Hi, my wife tried to use a credit card online by inserting it into the floppy port of our pc. I have tried to fish it out but looks like it will have to come apart to retrieve the card. Is that a easy task to do? Thanks.<br /><br />Bless her heart! I have no idea how to get it out, but I&#039;m sure you&#039;ll find a way. Hey, is it possible to get something to stick to it, like a post it note, and pull it out that way? Thu, 31 Jan 2008 07:07:31 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2178134 Answer to Ok, black holes don't emit anything, what celestial thing does not ADMIT anything? This may not be a trick question. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2177758 Ok, black holes don't emit anything, what celestial thing does not ADMIT anything? This may not be a trick question.<br /><br />A human cell where the potassium and sodium have switched places and locked down as a result of adrenalin rushing through the bloodstream. Thu, 31 Jan 2008 05:30:08 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2177758 Answer to Do u agree or disagree whether schools should or should not allow the listening of MP3 during a reading period? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2177749 Do u agree or disagree whether schools should or should not allow the listening of MP3 during a reading period?<br /><br />If the teacher designates a specific reading time, then that should be the use for the time frame. The whole idea for a reading time is to encourage reading. It isn&#039;t called &quot;free time to do anything you wish&quot; period. It&#039;s reading time. I believe it is realistic to establish... Thu, 31 Jan 2008 05:27:13 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2177749 Answer to There was a massive blackout where I live. When was the last time you experienced a power outage? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174506 There was a massive blackout where I live. When was the last time you experienced a power outage?<br /><br />I live in Florida, and we had quite a round with Charley, among others. I went without power most of August that year. Spent a lot of time at the mall, soaking up the A/C. Fortunately, it was just the 220 leg and I had some limited power to the refrigerator, for example. So my repair was on the... Wed, 30 Jan 2008 16:33:17 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174506 Answer to I am a very depressed 55 year old. alot of health problems stop me from living life . I am angry with people in general. I have a business and people , clients take advantage and just leave without paying. How am I to support my family Marsy. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174456 I am a very depressed 55 year old. alot of health problems stop me from living life . I am angry with people in general. I have a business and people , clients take advantage and just leave without paying. How am I to support my family Marsy.<br /><br />Dear Marsy, I wish for you a happy tomorrow. I wish for you to find a way to be at peace, for you to live happily. I will be thinking about you and sending out positive thoughts to the universe. Try to find something to be grateful for, and make a list of those things in your life that ARE good,... Wed, 30 Jan 2008 16:24:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174456 Answer to Besides a bookmark, what is something you use to keep your place in a book? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174347 Besides a bookmark, what is something you use to keep your place in a book?<br /><br />Greeting cards, bits of yarn, booklets, coupons, whatever is closest when the doorbell rings, you name it. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 16:08:32 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174347 Answer to For you, personally, what are the criteria for down-rating a question/answer? (If you ever do!) http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174335 For you, personally, what are the criteria for down-rating a question/answer? (If you ever do!)<br /><br />I have only downrated answers that give people in pain advice on how to successfully commit suicide. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 16:06:37 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174335 Answer to Looks like our friend Buxtonite just make Maestro, Anyone want to offer their congratulations? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174319 Looks like our friend Buxtonite just make Maestro, Anyone want to offer their congratulations?<br /><br />Congrats Buxtonite, and thanks Johnthepyro for sharing the news. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 16:05:15 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174319 Answer to Is Answerbag fun because it's a place where it seems everybody does know your name? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174307 Is Answerbag fun because it's a place where it seems everybody does know your name?<br /><br />Answerbag is fun for me because I get to see lots of interesting people, lots of interesting questions and answers, and stretch my muscles of compassion and empathy while strengthening my resolve to be a better person than I was yesterday, each and every day. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 16:03:25 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174307 Answer to How would one deal with someone who insists on Offering help/gifts, then when they are refused (no mater how politely) this person takes it as a direct attack on them like you were "slapping them in the face"? Tried asking them to stop helping. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174299 How would one deal with someone who insists on Offering help/gifts, then when they are refused (no mater how politely) this person takes it as a direct attack on them like you were "slapping them in the face"? Tried asking them to stop helping.<br /><br />I&#039;d wonder what they expected in return, and ask them point blank what they thought you should do since you don&#039;t want to be in a position of being beholding to them. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 16:01:48 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174299 Answer to If it all started with just Adam and Eve, isn't the rest Incest? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174285 If it all started with just Adam and Eve, isn't the rest Incest?<br /><br />I&#039;ve pondered this very thing. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 16:00:06 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174285 Answer to Are you happy with how you are and what you have now? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174231 Are you happy with how you are and what you have now?<br /><br />I am happy. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:49:02 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174231 Answer to How would you rename my avatar, if asked to? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174202 How would you rename my avatar, if asked to?<br /><br />Jack Be Nimble, Jack Be Quick, but not too quick, more like the opposite of quick, as in Jack Be Slow Hand. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:42:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174202 Answer to Does satan get hungry?If yes,What does he eat? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174186 Does satan get hungry?If yes,What does he eat?<br /><br />You forget Deviled Ham? Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:39:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174186 Answer to Is there such a thing as a "grouch" gene? Many people lead very difficult lives, and only a few of them are grouchy, dour and grumpy. Why aren't they all grouches? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174172 Is there such a thing as a "grouch" gene? Many people lead very difficult lives, and only a few of them are grouchy, dour and grumpy. Why aren't they all grouches?<br /><br />I think grouchy people complain out of habit, and to get attention. I think people who complain get caught up in one-ups-man-ship of misery that feeds into each other&#039;s misery and adds gasoline to the roaring fire on the windy day near the Interstate in the middle of Florida causing 87 car... Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:36:15 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174172 Answer to It being sunday morning would any like to join me in a morning devotion to st brendans irish creme in their coffee? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174146 It being sunday morning would any like to join me in a morning devotion to st brendans irish creme in their coffee?<br /><br />Yeah, sounds good. Can we do this before 8:30am? I gotta be at church. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:31:42 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174146 Answer to What determines the quality of a person-character or education?Or anything else? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174138 What determines the quality of a person-character or education?Or anything else?<br /><br />I go for character every time. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:30:44 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174138 Answer to Are you an "ORKUT" member? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174132 Are you an "ORKUT" member?<br /><br />No. But I have a flour sifter, does that count? Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:29:54 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174132 Answer to If you could write a campaign slogan for one of the presidential candidates, what would it say? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174093 If you could write a campaign slogan for one of the presidential candidates, what would it say?<br /><br />Visualizing World Peace - hoping you&#039;ll join in. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:23:29 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174093 Answer to How would you feel when you are at your best? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174077 How would you feel when you are at your best?<br /><br />That what I think about will become my reality. That all is right with the world. That I can be part of creating the world I want to see. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:21:29 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174077 Answer to How would the sound of heart-break be? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174058 How would the sound of heart-break be?<br /><br />A door slamming, followed by deafening silence. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:19:17 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174058 Answer to An artist I am not..but I had an art teacher who gave me a C- when I deserved worse because I tried so very hard. Does trying hard, even though one doesn't quite hit the mark, cause you to be extra tolerant with such people? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174046 An artist I am not..but I had an art teacher who gave me a C- when I deserved worse because I tried so very hard. Does trying hard, even though one doesn't quite hit the mark, cause you to be extra tolerant with such people?<br /><br />I love love love your questions! Not an artist indeed! You painted a wonderful picture for us with this question!!! Yes, if I believe someone is really trying, it will make me extra tolerant. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:18:16 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174046 Answer to What time of the day are you most likely to be crabby? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174039 What time of the day are you most likely to be crabby?<br /><br />So not going to complain anymore! I&#039;m taking the 21 day challenge to not complain as explained in A Complaint Free World - and switching my bracelet from wrist to wrist fewer times every day. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:16:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174039 Answer to What would be a really bad name for an AB level? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174029 What would be a really bad name for an AB level?<br /><br />Village Idiot? Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:15:18 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174029 Answer to What is the angle of inclination of the pointer on the monitor?And why is it tilted? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174023 What is the angle of inclination of the pointer on the monitor?And why is it tilted?<br /><br />Because the differential on the Posomotor needs to be constantly lubricated. Doesn&#039;t everyone know that? Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:14:26 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174023 Answer to What - or who - gives you your peaceful easy feeling? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174015 What - or who - gives you your peaceful easy feeling?<br /><br />The thought that prayers are always answered. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:13:04 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174015 Answer to Fountain pens are still considered professional than ball points(atleast here).Do you feel so? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174010 Fountain pens are still considered professional than ball points(atleast here).Do you feel so?<br /><br />I love them, but I&#039;m left handed, and they make a mess with the angle with which I write. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:12:11 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2174010 Answer to What is unknown inspires fear..whether a group of people, a country or an idea. Do you try to overcome that fear or do you stay with what you know? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2173986 What is unknown inspires fear..whether a group of people, a country or an idea. Do you try to overcome that fear or do you stay with what you know?<br /><br />I have had to face some fears.... one of the worst that comes to mind was learning to self inject (in my tummy) two syringes of meds a day for a week. Conquering that fear was one of the most powerful events in my life. If I can do that, I feel I can do anything I ever need to do. Which is not to... Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:06:58 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2173986 Answer to You know who you are..you like yourself. You have a wonderful support system of family and friends. Why would you care if someone doesn't like you? They don't even know you! :) http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2173976 You know who you are..you like yourself. You have a wonderful support system of family and friends. Why would you care if someone doesn't like you? They don't even know you! :)<br /><br />I used to care deeply. Then it dawned on me (that brick up side the head helped : ) ) that what others think of me is NONE OF MY BUSINESS. I have to sweep my own front step if I want to clean up the world. I&#039;m too busy with my own broom to worry about what they&#039;re trying to fix up when... Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:04:54 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2173976 Answer to Do people with s.o's always celebrate v-day? why or why not? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2173952 Do people with s.o's always celebrate v-day? why or why not?<br /><br />I usually do something extra nice for my Boo. I think it just adds a positive reminder that I care about him, and I don&#039;t expect anything in return, but he usually does something nice for me as well. Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:00:25 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2173952