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Can anyone recommend a book to help cope with grief? I lost my mother 4 months ago and am really struggling. I love to read so a self-help book idea would be appreciated. Thank you. I am so sorry for your loss. I'd recommend You Can Heal Your Life by Louise L. Hay.

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If you could smack anyone on Answerbag, who would it be and why? I wouldn't smack anyone. I abhor physical violence.

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I asked a guy I liked out to play tennis with me. The whole time he put me down and made nasty comments about my ability even though he knew I'm just learning the game. Should I move on? Run. Don't walk, run away from this guy. If he's making nasty remarks now, imagine what he'll do if he thinks you are looking at some other guy. If he's that insecure that he'd have to put others down in order to shore up his own ego, he's 50 miles of bad road.

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Are there any beliefs you grew up with, but as an adult you've changed your mind? If so, what? Yes, I used to believe a person was either good or bad, now I realize we all have potential for both, and that the best realization is that "good" and "bad" are but labels.

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How many Baggers live within 10mi/15km of an ocean or sea? I do. Within minutes of the Gulf of Mexico.

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Does anyone have any 'mom-isms'--things your mothers used to say that are typical of mothers? Like "I'll give you something to cry about".."one day you'll thank me for this", "think of all the starving children in China". Ah Mom.... she used to threaten to send us to Finishing School. We knew she couldn't afford it!!! "I hope you have 6 just like you!"

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It's harmful (as opposed to just a bad idea) to wrap up your self-esteem in your looks. Agree or disagree? Why? Agreed. Any time something as critical as self valuation is based upon something transient - and face it, it's all transient, then there is bound to be a downward spiral when the house of cards caves, as it inevitably does.

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How many parking tickets have you received this year? I recently got a parking WARNING - which could have been a $34.00 ticket. Things like that happen to me all the time. The last time I got a parking TICKET - I approached the meter reader, explained why I parked there, and she voided the ticket. Then again, I have wonderful things happen to me all the time! Why should it surprise me?

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OK so try this one. are men evil? In my Universe, no one is all "good" or all "evil." I endeavor to see everyone and everything through a filter supplied by the Creator that all are whole and perfect.

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Is it acceptable to use corporal punishment on your elderly parents if they physically abused you as a child? It is never acceptable to strike anyone. Period. If you feel you may resort to physically harming your parents, please get someone else lined up as caregiver for everyone's sake.

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What song never fails to put a smile on your face? My Baby Just Cares for Me by Nina Simone

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You are on your shopping tour through the malls and by a random chance of luck your clothes vanish into a parallel universe leaving you naked. What do you do? Find the closest fitting room and take out my transponder, request a beam up, and arrange myself in a fetal position covering the fun parts with Tribbles until the crew stops laughing long enough to retrieve another uniform jumpsuit from my compartment.

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Historically, what was the most beautiful and incredible gift of love a man has given to a woman? I'm certain it doesn't fit the "beautiful" criteria, but I find it incredible that the gift of the head of John the Baptist was traded for the virginity of Salome.

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Hhay fnrd how i can hack yahoo passward? how can i hack wondows passwoard? First, you'll have to pay very close attention to the spelling and punctuation in the passwords. Most are case sensitive, and all must be spelled out exactly as the original and legitimate creator of the password, and sole owner of the account typed it in and verified it. For example, in your question you used two variations of the word "password" both of which are spelled...

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Someone who hates me gave my email address out to many spammers. The emails are all "Thank you"s for joining a mailing list that this person signed me up for. I'd like to do the same thing to this person. What are some great spam "mailing list" sites? I'm sorry I felt compelled to downrate your question, but I did it for virtually the same reason as Athrael plus some. Here's the rub - generally when someone signs up for a mailing list (whether legitimate or not) the list sends a verification email to the address provided. Therefore, I find it VERY difficult to believe that "someone" did this to you. If you want to...

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Our friend Sakhalinski has made Guru! Who would like join the love-fest? Congrats! You inspire the rest of us to achieve such lofty goals.

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My mom is on her way from oklahoma for my sons anniversary of his death the problem is she is the one that took his life...she is staying at my house!!what or how should i treat her? My deepest condolences to you and your family, my dear. You've received some valuable and loving advice here, especially from Just Kesha- Thank you. When I read what happened in your comments to another AB member, my heart went into my throat. What a tragedy for everyone involved!I cannot imagine how you grieve, and I wish I could ease your suffering. I will be praying for you to find...

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Enumerate two redox reactions that take place in the environment and in industrial processes. This sounds like a homework question. Is it?

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What would you do if your ex just showed up at your house right now? If ex-husband..... I'd call Ghostbusters! If ex-boyfriend.... last one? I'd ask how I might help him, because clearly his car must have coincidently broken down outside my door. I'd call AAA and give him coffee or tea as he preferred, ask how he was, be otherwise friendly and polite, and when the AAA truck arrived, wish him well and say goodbye (again.)

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Can you desribe you mother in one word? Deceased. Interestingly enough, she visited me in a dream last night. Seems she bid on a comic book I was selling on ebay, and when she won the auction, I emailed her to get her mailing address and shipping instructions. I thought I recognized the email addy..... and thought, nah! Well it WAS her. She wanted a chance to communicate with me, and eBay was her venue. So I think I might...

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Describe your emotion in one word right now? Happy

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What are some practical gift ideas for senior citizens? The gift of time. Give them the promise that you'll call/visit/take them to the library/out to lunch/on a walk/to the barber/hairdresser or bank. Listen to them. Ask pertinent questions. Give them respect and compassion. Give them love. Also, it doesn't hurt if you ask them what they need, and provide it, such as stamps, talcum powder in the flavor they like, a chance to see...

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If marijuana become legal and readily available in the United States, where in the supermarket or grocery store do you suppose it would be located? In the back so people would make random purchases on their way to get it. Just like they usually put milk and bread closer to the back of the store. Put the Cheetos next to the reefer, and Frito Lay stock goes out the roof!

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When you mow your lawn ..do you always do it the same way? Yes, I wait for my young neighbor to need some cash, give him the cash, and ask how he's doing in school and life.

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If someone cooked you dinner, and they served you fish sticks and bacon, what would you do? I'd politely decline to eat. I'd explain I hadn't eaten either in years, didn't intend to start, and wonder how they'd missed the message that I was a vegan.

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If you were a cat, would you chase birds and mice? What makes you think I am not a cat?

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Are there any baggers here that were born with no siblings? I gave birth to a singleton. Once I figured out what caused THAT I stopped doing the other thing immediately.

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Do you ever answer questions on AB just because you want more points, rather than because the question is something worthy of your time? I kind of go with a mixed bag on this one, Rosie. If I see something just too silly (irresistible - like that one from Police L.A.P.D. in Hot Pursuit) then I'm likely to chime in for the giggles, assuming, of course that no one's feelings would be hurt. Other times, I feel I genuinely make a contribution, and can make someone feel better, or add to the general knowledge base, or offer...

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Do you believe that children are our future? I believe our future will be contributed to by our children in the collective consciousness of all humanity.

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Who, in your life, is the least trustworthy? Why would I continue to have anyone who was not trustworthy in my life?

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The founder of Transcendental Meditation ,Maharishi Mahesh Yogi died today at 91.He was a great spiritual leader and will be missed by millions.Do you wish to offer your condolences and have you ever done TM? My condolences. His contributions to the world are legion. Re: TM, no, haven't done it. Trying to quiet my mind is something I seek, have yet to find for more than brief seconds.

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How is everyone's year going so far? Happy 2008 It has been a time of great revelation and personal growth for me. I've learned the phrase, "this too, shall pass" applies to all circumstances and conditions. I'm getting better at letting go of that which I cannot exert control (just about everything) and learning that ego is the root of all unhappiness. The whole concept of happiness is found in being here, now, and...

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What was some common parenting advice before Dr. Spock came along? Children should be seen and not heard.

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How do i get my monster truck sponster Go to MonsterSponster.com

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ARE ALL YOU PEOPLE REALLY THIS SHALLOW...? How shallow? Me shallow? I don't think I'm shallow.

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I wanna plan my funeral before i die, like.. arrange for what kinda food they'll serve & whos invited. Is that morrally wrong? Can you do that legally? My mom made all the arrangements beforehand and we were very grateful. She chose the music, set the tone, even told them what kind of fresh baked cookies to serve. It was a wonderful thing to do for her daughters.

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Will you be flying solo on Valentines day? No, but it was sketchy over the weekend! Whew!!!! I almost blew it.

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Do you take bubble baths? almost as much as I like giving them!

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Why won't you just lay on the bed...and do what the nice officer tells you? Because if like last time, I'll end up going to work in handcuffs again. You got any idea how hard it is to apply mascara while wearing handcuffs? And about that Billy Club.....

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IMac, iPod, iPhone are all nice, but what you really need is an i....? an Ilighter, I need it to Ilight passages in a book I'd like to reread later.

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Ladies do u get jealous on Valentine's Day when you ar in the office and all the other ladies get flowers but u? I cherish other people's happiness and find joy in their successes. I'd just be grateful to be able to see their faces light up when the delivery is made. Of course, there was a time when I might have answered this differently. Seems the older I get, the more I am grateful for the moments that are really worth scrutiny, really being in the presence of the present.

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My dog loves to eat ice. Does your pet like to eat anything strange? fo schizzle.

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Vegetarians, do you ever get a great craving for meat like I do? Just about as often as I get a craving to commit murder!

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Would you rather be a vegetartian or a carnivore? (aside from health issues, like becoming overweight) Oh oh oh. Let me answer this one! I have NEVER seen any meat eater who was overweight. To be sure, I've had people say such vapid things to me like "you know.... I've seen some CHUBBY vegans in my life" as IF the only people who are overweight are vegans/vegetarians. There is a person who lives two houses down, who eats EVERYthing, and guess what? She weighs as much as her...

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When someone says that they don't eat meat, do you ask them if they eat fish or seafood? (no judgement at all! I've just found it common.) No, I assume they don't eat fish or seafood because I have yet to encounter a field of fish growing in any rural area.

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Is it Morally correct to be a vegetarian? Is it Okay to kill animals? What is your take on these? I choose to live life cruelty free. I choose to not consume any animal product. What is alright according to anyone else's moral compass is for them to decide.

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Have one/more of your close family members or friends chosen to be a vegetarian or vegan? How did that affect you? My BF is having serious issues with my food choices, but I think it has more to do with his outlook on life in general than my choices. We have been together for nearly 4 years, and there are bumps in the road. We hit one this weekend, and my diet was mentioned..... and well.... it's a bump. I love and adore him. I hope, pray, and hope and pray some more that we can overcome this bump. ...

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How many people on AB are vegetarians? Me. Vegan chiming in.

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What is the largest amount of weight you ever lost? I've lost 30 some odd pounds since June by going vegan.

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Does it matter to you what a restaurant looks like, or is the quality of the food the only thing you care about? Yes, hehehehe one time, we were at a restaurant I dearly loved. I knew the chef, I worked with her husband, and liked him, and the restaurant held special memories for me. My BF, however, was nonplussed due to "too many" plastic and silk plants. He spent much of dinner complaining about them, which was annoying me endlessly. I told him he had a bunch at home, he said he didn't...

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Tomorrow, Feb. 02, is Groundhog Day. Where you live, do you think he will see his shadow (meaning early Spring), or not, (meaning six more weeks of winter)? I thought the determination was made by that single groundhog in Pennsylvania. Of course it goes without saying that in Florida, it's difficult to determine when "winter" ends and spring begins. It's 60 degrees and a gorgeous day here, just like I put on my request for the day!

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What comes to mind immediately when I say southern comfort? Doing the big spit and getting the advice to not drink anything brown again, ever.

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How do I become less responsive to my emotions, especially in stressful situations? My brain seems to trail so far behind sometimes . . . I've experienced "trouble" with co-workers to the point that I quit working for a company I loved. I've come to realize I contributed much to the problem. My solution today would be very different. I've taken the 21 day challenge outlined in A Complaint Free World by Will Bowen (you can find it online at a complaint free world.org) I'd apply the knowledge...

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This is Patti jo , I've been gone because America Connect has been messed up and I want to say I sure have missed you all , have you missed me ? - Hugs I've thought of you. Be well. Welcome back.

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Would you cook me a meal, if so what would it be and why? I'd love to! First, tell me, you have any food allergies? I want to avoid hurting you. Second, you may not be aware of this, but I am vegan, which translates into a cruelty free dinner for you and me. I was watching Alton Brown last night, and translating recipes into vegan. Likely I'd whip us up a sort of Mexican Lasagne with tofu crumbles instead of meat, and margarine instead...

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I don't know what to get my 9 year old nephew for his birthday (I have daughters). Any suggestions? Sure, I'd ask him what he wanted. I'd look at his interests. I have two grandsons - one is 14, the other 15 and their tastes and interests change nearly weekly.

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Is there another "questions and answers" community website which is for more intellectual people? I have posted questions here about literature and gotten no responses. Is there somewhere else I should be posting (about all topics). Thanks. Dear Jenny, Will you please give me a chance? I've got lots going on in my life and I had not yet noticed your arrival. I'll head on over to see if perhaps I have something to contribute in the way of any constructive answers to your questions. It may take me a few minutes.

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California or Florida? Never been to Cali, lived in Florida for over 40 years. So, I'm going with home. Florida... warts and all.

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Pick a card, any card. What is the first card that comes to mind? The Chariot. Here's a charioteer who, without reins guides his trusty steeds into battle, sideways, like Cancer, the astrological sign associated with the card. Think about how a charioteer approaches the enemy, from the side, always protecting his vulnerability while exposing the soft underbelly of the opponent. All this, with no reins. Makes me think of Lao Tsu, aboard his trusty...

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Is it wrong to ask your daughter's "suitor" to write his name on a rifle cartridge so you "have a bullet with his name on it?" I don't think so. Give me your best "shot" if you disagree. (Dad of 4 girls, so be careful!) Only if you don't decorate the rifle for the shotgun wedding by hot gluing tiny white bows with pearl centers and trimming the trigger with ribbons in the bride's color choice for the bridesmaid dresses. Oh, and have the ring bearer's pillow be adorned with a tiny little Smith & Wesson, not loaded, of course. In the famous words of Martha Stewart: "It's a good...

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In the film Forrest Gump, what is the song that is played when they are in Vietnam and it stops raining?-Just before they get shot at. Thanks. Who else thinks this is a very clever and generally great film? soz i didnt put this in a category, i wasnt able Oh how I LOVE this movie! I have the sound track on cd! You may know this, but in the event that you don't, Forrest Gump's bus bench is in the museum in Savannah Georgia, where much of the film was shot. Savannah is my very favorite place in the world. I've never lived there, but even thinking about it, I get so homesick for a place I've never lived that I start tearing up....

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Parents: what is something good that you experienced as a child that your own child will never be able to do/have? Halloween trick or treating where we sat at Mrs. Freeman's kitchen table, ate doughnuts and drank apple cider. You just can't do that anymore. Ah, thank you for making me remember dear sweet Mrs. Freeman. Such a nice lady.

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What is the last movie you have seen and how was it? Juno, this week. Amazing! The Bucket List, last week, AMAZING!

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What the most annoying song that gets stuck in your head? It's a small world afterall It's a small world afterall while in the It's a small world ride at Disneyworld.... seemingly for days.

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What is one thing you'll never hear Paris Hilton say? Never mind, Grandpa. Give it ALL to charity. I've become an ascetic.

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Do you believe in hunting animals for fur? No. I don't eat meat, or wear fur.

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Whats the worst thing that anyone has ever said to you? We did everything we could.....

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Americans: can you fake a British accent? I can.... just about as well as Britney Spears.

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What are you grateful for today? And today I am grateful for this truly magnificent day, a balmy 60 degrees F., a walk around the lake on two healthy legs with 8 healthy paws surrounding me. I am grateful for Cesar Millan, who has given me the tools to keep he who would gladly chase every squirrel up every tree from yanking me off my feet. I am grateful for the encounters with several beautiful babies and children whose...

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My little sister died this morning unexpecticly, Would you all say a prayer for her? I know this not the place to post this kind of a think, but have to stay strong for my mother. Sorry about this post if I offended anyone with it. Oh how my heart goes out to you and your family. Of course I'll pray for you, your family, and your little sister. May you and your family find strength in each other, and may you find peace and solace. Blessings to all of you.

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Hi, my wife tried to use a credit card online by inserting it into the floppy port of our pc. I have tried to fish it out but looks like it will have to come apart to retrieve the card. Is that a easy task to do? Thanks. Bless her heart! I have no idea how to get it out, but I'm sure you'll find a way. Hey, is it possible to get something to stick to it, like a post it note, and pull it out that way?

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Ok, black holes don't emit anything, what celestial thing does not ADMIT anything? This may not be a trick question. A human cell where the potassium and sodium have switched places and locked down as a result of adrenalin rushing through the bloodstream.

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Do u agree or disagree whether schools should or should not allow the listening of MP3 during a reading period? If the teacher designates a specific reading time, then that should be the use for the time frame. The whole idea for a reading time is to encourage reading. It isn't called "free time to do anything you wish" period. It's reading time. I believe it is realistic to establish limitations and limiting MP3's is within reasonable expectations.

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There was a massive blackout where I live. When was the last time you experienced a power outage? I live in Florida, and we had quite a round with Charley, among others. I went without power most of August that year. Spent a lot of time at the mall, soaking up the A/C. Fortunately, it was just the 220 leg and I had some limited power to the refrigerator, for example. So my repair was on the back burner, with elderly and those with larger needs coming before us in this neighborhood. So I had...

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I am a very depressed 55 year old. alot of health problems stop me from living life . I am angry with people in general. I have a business and people , clients take advantage and just leave without paying. How am I to support my family Marsy. Dear Marsy, I wish for you a happy tomorrow. I wish for you to find a way to be at peace, for you to live happily. I will be thinking about you and sending out positive thoughts to the universe. Try to find something to be grateful for, and make a list of those things in your life that ARE good, and read that list, add to that list, and stay in the moment with what you are grateful to have....

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Besides a bookmark, what is something you use to keep your place in a book? Greeting cards, bits of yarn, booklets, coupons, whatever is closest when the doorbell rings, you name it.

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For you, personally, what are the criteria for down-rating a question/answer? (If you ever do!) I have only downrated answers that give people in pain advice on how to successfully commit suicide.

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Looks like our friend Buxtonite just make Maestro, Anyone want to offer their congratulations? Congrats Buxtonite, and thanks Johnthepyro for sharing the news.

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Is Answerbag fun because it's a place where it seems everybody does know your name? Answerbag is fun for me because I get to see lots of interesting people, lots of interesting questions and answers, and stretch my muscles of compassion and empathy while strengthening my resolve to be a better person than I was yesterday, each and every day.

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How would one deal with someone who insists on Offering help/gifts, then when they are refused (no mater how politely) this person takes it as a direct attack on them like you were "slapping them in the face"? Tried asking them to stop helping. I'd wonder what they expected in return, and ask them point blank what they thought you should do since you don't want to be in a position of being beholding to them.

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If it all started with just Adam and Eve, isn't the rest Incest? I've pondered this very thing.

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Are you happy with how you are and what you have now? I am happy.

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How would you rename my avatar, if asked to? Jack Be Nimble, Jack Be Quick, but not too quick, more like the opposite of quick, as in Jack Be Slow Hand.

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Does satan get hungry?If yes,What does he eat? You forget Deviled Ham?

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Is there such a thing as a "grouch" gene? Many people lead very difficult lives, and only a few of them are grouchy, dour and grumpy. Why aren't they all grouches? I think grouchy people complain out of habit, and to get attention. I think people who complain get caught up in one-ups-man-ship of misery that feeds into each other's misery and adds gasoline to the roaring fire on the windy day near the Interstate in the middle of Florida causing 87 car pile ups from the smoke. Seriously, I believe if I complain about something, anything, it puts it out...

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It being sunday morning would any like to join me in a morning devotion to st brendans irish creme in their coffee? Yeah, sounds good. Can we do this before 8:30am? I gotta be at church.

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What determines the quality of a person-character or education?Or anything else? I go for character every time.

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Are you an "ORKUT" member? No. But I have a flour sifter, does that count?

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If you could write a campaign slogan for one of the presidential candidates, what would it say? Visualizing World Peace - hoping you'll join in.

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How would you feel when you are at your best? That what I think about will become my reality. That all is right with the world. That I can be part of creating the world I want to see.

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How would the sound of heart-break be? A door slamming, followed by deafening silence.

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An artist I am not..but I had an art teacher who gave me a C- when I deserved worse because I tried so very hard. Does trying hard, even though one doesn't quite hit the mark, cause you to be extra tolerant with such people? I love love love your questions! Not an artist indeed! You painted a wonderful picture for us with this question!!! Yes, if I believe someone is really trying, it will make me extra tolerant.

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What time of the day are you most likely to be crabby? So not going to complain anymore! I'm taking the 21 day challenge to not complain as explained in A Complaint Free World - and switching my bracelet from wrist to wrist fewer times every day.

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What would be a really bad name for an AB level? Village Idiot?

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What is the angle of inclination of the pointer on the monitor?And why is it tilted? Because the differential on the Posomotor needs to be constantly lubricated. Doesn't everyone know that?

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What - or who - gives you your peaceful easy feeling? The thought that prayers are always answered.

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Fountain pens are still considered professional than ball points(atleast here).Do you feel so? I love them, but I'm left handed, and they make a mess with the angle with which I write.

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What is unknown inspires fear..whether a group of people, a country or an idea. Do you try to overcome that fear or do you stay with what you know? I have had to face some fears.... one of the worst that comes to mind was learning to self inject (in my tummy) two syringes of meds a day for a week. Conquering that fear was one of the most powerful events in my life. If I can do that, I feel I can do anything I ever need to do. Which is not to say I'm going cave diving anytime soon!!!

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You know who you are..you like yourself. You have a wonderful support system of family and friends. Why would you care if someone doesn't like you? They don't even know you! :) I used to care deeply. Then it dawned on me (that brick up side the head helped : ) ) that what others think of me is NONE OF MY BUSINESS. I have to sweep my own front step if I want to clean up the world. I'm too busy with my own broom to worry about what they're trying to fix up when it might even be me.

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Do people with s.o's always celebrate v-day? why or why not? I usually do something extra nice for my Boo. I think it just adds a positive reminder that I care about him, and I don't expect anything in return, but he usually does something nice for me as well.

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While joining here or later when it got updated, did you read AB's "Terms of use" and "Privacy policy" FULLY? Not so much. Is it good? Like edge of your seat riveting? Does it have a back beat you can dance to?

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If we are supposed to be complete and whole within ourselves, what do we need a partner for? I think maybe we don't NEED a partner, but we may feel we want a partner. Unless you are speaking of procreating, in which case we do need a partner, even if that partner's role is in a turkey baster. ....

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Do spacemen pass dead souls on their way to the moon? I think they might......

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Have you ever seen one of those fallen rock zone signs when driving down the highway?did you know that rocks had morals and would fall so low? Oh my word! You're almost as bad as me! I get to a bridge , see a sign and demand paper and pencil.... it says Draw Bridge ahead!!!!

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Was the beatles greatest music wrote before or after they broke up? Before, but not long before. I think I like Abbey Road the best.

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Do you think Cannabis is a bigger cancer risk than cigarettes? I don't think we'll ever get accurate information to make that decision because our gov't (US) wants to keep cannibis illegal, due to the number of jobs interdiction (which always fails) created.

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Why do you think I put SMZ after my user name? And is SMZ your initials? Great question.... I wondered.

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Have you ever been so cold that when you shivered it hurt? Yes, and I don't wish to repeat the event!

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Can you tell me what outdoor noises are happening where you are now? A siren! Someone's life is getting saved! Dramatic gusts of wind make it feel like a good day to read Stephen King novels. Off in the distance, a car door shuts. Someone's work day has ended and they are looking forward to dinner with the family.

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Has anyone ever heard of something called Silver Water as a cure all? And if you have what have you heard? My friend swears by it, but it just sounds too good to be true. I saw a video of a man who drank it every day for years and his skin turned blue - so blue that he had to leave and find another home to avoid discrimination.

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How would you describe your day today?( in less then three words) Blessed, productive, happy.

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Do you have a "list" of people that have wronged you in life? If you feel comfortable let us know your #1 Gratefully, I've FINALLY figured out that forgiving those who I perceive have wronged me sets me free. I've learned that by forgiving others, I am so much happier and physically healthier than before.

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What are you grateful for today? I am grateful for you, Highlander. I am grateful for this gorgeous day, truly a gift from G-d. I am grateful for discovering a small door to my closed off mind that with diligent pulling (both of my feet planted firmly on either side,) I've opened it a crack, then further, creaking and resisting every inch until finally enough of an opening to allow light into those locked corners where...

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What family/genetic physical trait do you thank the heavens everyday you DON'T have? Diabetes, many in my family chose to burn out their pancreases way too early by overeating, indulging in entire coconut cream pies at one sitting, living lives of anger and bitter resentments, and rarely getting off their half moons to get any exercise.

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What is your internet nickname? (take the first two letters of the last site you visited, the first two letters of your home page site, and the first two letters of your first bookmarked/favorites site to spell it) (see answer below) Reseac. RE - revolution health Se - SelahWrites Ac - A complaint free world.org

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MOSQUITO'S Does anyone know a good cheap method that works to ward off Mosquito's when on holiday. I suffer badly from bites especially on my legs and usually get bitten in the evenings. I have tried numerous remedies some of which are very expensive. Tuck snippets of fresh basil in sweatbands worn on head and wrists. Tuck more in the top of socks, and anywhere else it will stay. Rub some on exposed skin. I understand from an organic farmer that this method works great, and basil is easy to grow and inexpensive.

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Does "thou shalt not judge" make us all sinners for being AB members? Very interesting question. I am using AB for my own purpose to get in the habit of being LESS judgmental. I endeavor to find ways to answer questions in a kind and compassionate fashion, and to remember I was once young, or not so knowledgeable about the ways of love, or not so aware of the traps we can lay out for ourselves. It's a powerful tool, this AB, when used in conjunction with...

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Are you still Committed to your New Years resolution? e.g Giving up smoking etc Yes, I am committed to a plan of character building, and am getting better and better at it every day. I am also committed to walking my dogs every day. They need it, it's good for me, and I am doing it.

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My Granddad died yesterday. Is it ok that I don't want to go to the funeral? Or should I still go even though I really don't want to? I am so sorry for your loss. The decision to attend your grandfather's funeral is one best made by you and your family and it would be irresponsible of me to tell you what you SHOULD do. I think we'd all be better off if we put the word SHOULD to bed, and chose "could" instead. Could implies a choice, should implies an error. Without knowing your age, I cannot possibly...

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Are gay people normal in your opinion? "Normal" is a subjective term used to judge others. I try to avoid judging anyone, for a number of reasons, the largest being that I am not in a position to judge, and I don't like being judged. Homosexuality is a definition of human sexual contact where the genders of the participants happen to be the same. Just that, and only that.

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Be honest now, who did you say I love you to, come on don't lie to me about it? I've said it to men I really didn't love, and that is too bad. I've said it to loads of people along with loads of pets. I don't say it very often, so it stays meaningful when I do.

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I think having 40 cats is unhealthy and cruel to the cats does anyone agree? At one sitting? Or like, over a week's time, some done with oh, I don't know... a satay, and some done up in tacos. Seriously. It would be relevant to add what sort of environment you were referring to. Like, if it was a cattery, and it was clean, ventilated, the cats were well fed, saw a veterinarian regularly, then no, 40 cats in a well cared for situation is entirely reasonable.

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Are you Married, single, taken, engaged or I dont know. I am widowed. I simply adored my beloved husband of blessed memory. I have been gifted, since his passing, with a significant other of nearly 4 years who serves as a reminder to me of how fortunate I truly am. To have been loved, and loved well, once in a lifetime is a gift. To have been the recipient of that gift, and to be loved again, well, that is a miracle.

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What do you do to make yourself feel better when you are feeling really ill? I pray for guidance, strength and faith.

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If you are high ranked, sage or above, would you answer another high ranked person's question before you would a beginner? If it gained the same answer? Good question. I've often wondered.

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Have you ever heard of a dog having more then 19 puppies at one time? Oh my goodness. I'd hope not! Generally the number in a litter is in proportion to the number of available nipples (in mammals) and I'd be amazed to find that many puppies in a litter.

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If your family dog seriously injured your small child, would you get rid of it? How is it that my dog would be in the presence of a small child unsupervised? I cannot fathom how this could happen.

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Have you ever been told by others that you complain too much? FANTASTIC question!!!! I have been reading A Complaint Free World, How to stop complaining and start enjoying the life you always wanted and I have committed to the 21 day challenge. Today I've changed my bracelet 4 times, down from yesterday. I've been told I was very judgmental, same same. I am so very hard working on that.

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How do you see your life changing in the next 12 to 24 months? I see my life changing drastically for the better. I see myself growing as a person, becoming more balanced, centered, successful in all that I want to accomplish.

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If you saw a mother hitting her child in a store, what would you do? Ask how I could help.... if she's hitting out of frustration, maybe I could step in for a few minutes until she re- collected herself.

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Do you have a dictionary in your home? Which kind? I subscribe online to several, and have several physical ones here in the event of power outage.

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Who was the last person you hugged? My dog. He's the best.

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What do you like in your tea/coffee? Tea - lemon and organic sugar. Coffee - soy creamer and organic sugar.

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How do you feel about how obese people look? I feel they look through their eyes, just like I do.

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Did you ever recognize someone on AB whom you know in real life, but wasn't aware that he/she was on AB, too? No, but I'd love to!

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Do you feel lucky to be living in this day and age, high-tech and comfy, but with resources running low and environmental issues? Or would you have rather lived in another era, so many things yet to be invented/discovered, when life may have been simpler? I feel gifted to be living in this space and time.

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What foods can you eat with braces Ah, I had braces. I was told anything that wasn't sticky, like caramel was fine. I also didn't eat popcorn for that time.

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Do you speedbag? Meaning do you go through answerbag with the purpose of answering a lot of questions quickly, or do you take your time answering less questions but with a higher quality of answer? I endeavor to give quality answers, albeit possibly fewer of them. I also make conscious decisions NOT to answer questions that I feel I cannot answer without making the asker feel looked down upon.

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''Dont worry...be happy. Every life we have some trouble, when you worry your face will frown, and that will bring everybody down... so dont worry be happy''.Do you agree with Bob Marley? is the path to happiness not worrying about anything, stress free? I believe the path to happiness is to stop complaining and start acting like you are happy. I believe if we send out to the collective consciousness of the universe that which we want, instead of that which we don't want - we will begin to be happier by degrees. I am living proof that it works.

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Girls, there are two big ball bearings in your house that you use every day. Where are they? My hips.

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Have you ever know a man who is constantly and continuously on the prowl even when he is in a relationship? What's that called? Is it an addiction or a mental illness? Generally, I believe people will treat me the way I teach them I will tolerate being treated.

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Don't you think its funny when someone says "no offense" then insults you? why say "no offense" in the first place? I think they are putting you on warning that what they are about to say will be offensive, and they want an easy out. It gives me pause.....

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Name 3 people who made you smile today? LOVE this question - POINTS!!!! 1. The post office guy who gave me a Hershey's Kiss filled with some really great kind of variation on the usual.... not because it was chocolate (don't get me wrong!) but because he did it because I treat the Postal Workers like the dedicated hard working people they are. 2. Ghostwriter - whose comments and positive reinforcement are priceless...

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What is the first thing you do in the morning after you get out of bed? Thank G-d for the gift of another day.

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How much butter would you say you or your family consumes in a week? (my steak and potatoes is loaded with butter...so good!) Not much, unless I'm out and I didn't get a vote on the restaurant. I use margarine - mostly vegan reporting in. My dogs don't eat butter either.

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What comes first to mind, when I say "awesome"? No.....hehehehe but I'm sure it's as camp as Christmas.

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What do you do when everyone around you is irritating you? Go to that very green place inside my head and meditate on the beauty that is all around me if only I would view each and every person as a child of G-d made in perfection.

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If YOU came with Instructions what would they say? Feed only vegetables, grains, fruits, and legumes. Provide plenty of opportunities for exercise, and sunshine. Give ample affection and let her know you appreciate her.

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I have three pets at my place. How many pets do you have at your place? Are your pets beautiful and healthy? Are your pets large pets or small pets? I have the 2 most well balanced dogs on the face of the planet. One is a standard poodle. The other is a rescue girl. They each weigh around 45 pounds, get daily walks, regular check ups, great food, exercise, limitations, and affection.

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Do you prefer padded or unpadded bras and why? Padded on one side, not on the other.

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Cars - Do you prefer leather or cloth upholstry? Oh wait! I had a really great answer - then reread the question.... I was about to tell you how I felt about what I preferred on CATS - and the answer would be cat leather (skin) and I'm very much opposed to dressing up cats AND dogs in those silly cloth outfits. But never mind. That wasn't what you wanted to know at all.

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My son needs to bing in a snack that begins with "N", but no NUTS. Any suggestions? Will he have to bring in something that begins with O tomorrow? I'd like a head start. ; )

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Remember when making Sage was rare and Maestro even more so? No, but I admire those who are Sages AND Maestros.

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What comes first to mind, when I say "awesome"? Overused phrase. : )

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Do you recycle? If so, what kinds of things? Yes I do. I recycle paper, plastic, glass, aluminum, and steel. I also make purchasing decisions based on packaging, and endeavor to reduce, reuse, recycle.

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Did you know that mayonnaise makes a good conditioner for hair? Yes, but as a vegan I'll stick with coconut oil. : )

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If there is more evidence of UFO's than God, why do we make those people who believe in aliens out to be freaks? Judgmental people will make anyone who believes in anything they question themselves out to be freaks.

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My dog loves to eat ice. Does your pet like to eat anything strange? My Lacy (see my avatar for details) of blessed memory used to eat my panties, and anything else of mine that I'd worn. I think she loved me so much she wanted me VERY close to her, and eating those things.... well.... Once she ate my nightguard, a very expensive piece of equipment to protect my teeth from grinding to shreds while I sleep. Another time she got into a whole package of rat...

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Hey, killdrphil is a Maestro now. Even though it sucks for him that he doesn't get to be a Sage anymore, I think reaching level sixty is an achievement worthy of some praise, don't you agree? Do you want to give some to him? Congrats to him and points to you.

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Why is "bra" singular and "panties" plural? I think it might be because bra is a shortened form of brassiere, a French word. Panties is a cutesy variation of underpants - which describes how they are worn, as in under pants. Pant is sometimes a singular, and then there are trousers, which I've never seen as simply trouser unless used in conjunction with another word, like trouser snake. But now I've gone rather far afield, I...

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How long does it take to make a habit? to break a habit? 21 days. Which is why I am attempting to make it 21 consecutive days of not switching my bracelet from one wrist to the other if I catch myself complaining. I'm taking the A Complaint Free World 21 day challenge. See www. a complaint free world.org for details. So far, I have not been successful making it one day, but I'll keep at it. Will Bowen (the author of the book) says it takes...

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Whats your favourite quote/ catchphrase? I can fix my own house, but I cannot fix my neighbor's house.

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How long can you hold a grudge? I used to hold grudges, seemingly forever. I've only recently been searching for the knowledge of how to let it go, and how to forgive. John Pennington is right on the money. Resentments (grudges) are poison in the bloodstream. They rear their venomous heads with cancers, coronary issues, and other health disasters. Grudges, and anger are the bottom line source of Dis-ease. I've...

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What do you think of a father who uses stun gun to make his toddler 'tough'? I believe I'd be in touch with Children and Family services, pronto. Not to mention the police. And if I was the mother in this scenario, I'd be making those calls from a women's shelter where my children would be safe from this criminal abuser.

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Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can get my husband to put the toilet seat and lid back down once he has finished? No but I can tell you that I'd be delighted to have that "problem" over losing my beloved husband eight years ago. If faced with the toilet seat thing today, the new and improved me would look toward figuring out how *I* could find a way to not let it bother me, and I would put it down myself without judging him for not being "thoughtful" about ME potentially falling...

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Would you enter a store where you are a regular customer(and people know you well), with something you purchased from another store? Yes, and I generally mention I'm bringing it in to someone so there are no questions in anyone's mind about the source of the item.

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When your walking home you see a big Rottweiler in your way. What do you do? I walk with a calm assertive posture (I'm a big fan of Cesar Millan!) and I claim my ground. I hold it in my heart that everything will be fine. I put out to the universe that I am in control of the situation and that this Rottweiler will be aware that I am powerful and not fearful, that I am the pack leader. I'm assuming you mean I am walking my dogs during this encounter - I...

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How has anger affected your life? It brought out some serious health issues, such as cancer, which I believe may be attached to resentments - old angers festering, it caused me to lose sight of living in the here and now, which meant I lost any number of years in the process, and it kept me from being happy with the goodness in my life.

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Any vegans (or vegetarians) out there- How far do you go? Do you consider your veganism/vegetarianism a diet, or a lifestyle, or something else entirely? Do you limit your clothing/product choices as well? I'm bordering on vegan- still slipping up on cheese and other dairy when in restaurants, and have a difficult time resisting blue cheese dressing. I view my vegetarian/vegan views as lifestyle choices. I don't buy any NEW garments constructed of leather or suede, nor do I wear cashmere, or silk, attend circuses, or go for buggy rides. I don't buy bettas and I am not going to...

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If you could have anything ,what is the one thing that you want from life at this moment in time? No matter how bizarre it may seem. I want to successfully reach my goal of going 21 days straight with no complaining, whining, criticizing, or judging.

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What is the movie that when you her it music you know it? When I hear Skylark, I know I'm going to see Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil.

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Who do you go to when you need the most helpful advice on very important matters? I pray for guidance and knowledge.

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Would I be blowing on my own trumpet if I say, "Hurray,I've made sage!"? Possibly, but I wish to congratulate you and I wouldn't have known had you not told me. Have some points, and congratulations.

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Ok, can some1 tell me how to tighten a virgina You can perform Keigel exercises to strengthen the muscles that support the pelvic floor. http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/kegel-exercises/WO00119 will provide you with instructions.

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Which animals have the strongest sense of smell and what are basic reasons for this particularly strong sense? My grandsons told me they saw a nature show that stated bears have the very best sense of smell of mammals. I would imagine it would be necessary to locate food.

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Which did you believe in first, love, faith or magic? I believe in love first. Then faith, then magic.

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Do you sprout your own mung beans? Oh my word! I'm not alone in Silver Cypress land, eh? Perhaps fly by's dropped those seeds. The erosion..... I'm afeared mine went too far, now every time there is a change in wind direction, the dam breaks loose and the creek overruns the banks at the most inconvenient times. The good coming from that is with the flash flooding, seems the red tide problems have abated. Thank...

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Would anyone like to join Ed The Headbanger and I in making sure that Blank Savage's account makes at least Guru level, in tribute to his memory? how do I help? I didn't know him, but I'm willing.

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Im 14 and i've never kissed a guy before is this okay? It's not only okay, it is admirable. Don't rush. Take your time. Kiss boys that you like, in due time, when YOU decide to kiss them.

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What comes first to mind when I say "Impossible"? Fox news.

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I'm gay, and I want to know the truth on the amount of people on average who are okay with it and who have a problem with it. Thoughts? I just want you to be happy. It matters to me not, not one iota, who you are physically attracted to, as long as the other person is equally as content with the decision. Love is love, and I would love for all to have it, live in the moment with it, be it, have the world revolve around it, immerse themselves in it, and enjoy it. Love is actually, what it is all about.

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Looking for a place to cook and learn to cook for recreational fun in the metro detroit area as a couple for a hobby Huh? Did you hit enter too soon?

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Does anyone else think all the questions regarding" What is this pill" then give #'s and such on the pills, are just alittle suspicious? I'm thinking someones in their parents meds cabinet. That's scary. What do you think? Yeah. Exactly.

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My 6 year old still wets the bed or pull up every night? We limit his liquids. Any suggestions. His 3 year old brother has been dry at nights for months. His Dr. just says, boys take longer to potty train & stay dry all night. My grandsons experienced on again off again problems up until recently. They are now teenagers. Boys sometimes are so busy being boys they wear themselves out, I think, and when they get to sleep, it's like sleep apnea of the bladder. As long as they are physically healthy, I'd worry not. The only drawback for my boys was their reluctance to participating in sleepovers. I think with a...

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What does your AB name mean? Selah is sort of a difficult word to translate - it is generally looked upon as a prayer which ends a piece of music, an amen, if you will. My husband of blessed memory used it to end his email missives, and I adopted it as my soul's name, and my pen name upon his passing. Clearly, the Writes part describes me. I am a writer. I write fiction, have been published (only state that because it...

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I have a very thin chain necklace, it has 3 knots in it, how can I get these knots out I use a magnifying lens, and 2 straight pins. It requires much patience. I suggest laying it on a flat surface and teasing out the knots gently. Start the way you start a long trip - one foot in front of the other. Focus on the knot closest to one end or the other, and leave the middle one for last.

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Would you know that someone told me that a troll is like medicine: it tastes bad, but it might actually do you some good? Do you agree with this perception or is it all out of whack? Anything as negative as trolling cannot possibly be good for the general health of a community such as AB. I'd wonder if the person with this perception might be trying to justify his/her trolling activities to you.

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If you could have any animal, what animal do you wish you could own as a pet? I'd have a boatload of dogs. Currently am owned by only two, which is low population for this household. I'd never want exotic pets, preferring to see them on the Nat'l Geo channel or at Busch Gardens.

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If I made a pass at your man, what would you do? I'd find it flattering... and I'd be amused when he pretended to not understand English, or didn't hear you, or whatever he'd likely do. One time, we were walking my dogs, and this cute young lady wearing those Juicy couture sweatpants walked past us. I said, gee, she's really cute - she's got a great body (or something like that) and he said, "who? I...

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What do you think is the most common cause of divorce? I think relationships get into murky waters over sex, money, and other family members - in that order. Divorces happen when communication and trust break down, when respect for each other is lost.

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Why are people afraid of haunted houses?Ghosts can be friends right? I think people are afraid of the unknown. That said, I LOVE LOVE LOVE going to Savannah, which is purportedly the most haunted city in America, and hanging out in a few spots frequented by spirits whose presence I've experienced personally.

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Is tap water full of fish poop? Define "full."

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Do you find that some people give what I call "Dr. Phil answers", meaning they give some deep answer that doesn't really answer the question and everybody laps it up? Well you don't need to throw a shoe at a nun holding an ice pick to see that one coming around the corner when you're in the position to call the shots.

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What will you do for your loved one for Valentines? Make him a valentine.... last year's will be hard to top. I made him a valentine the size of a pizza box, and went to a pizza place to get a box to use as an envelope. It was really cute, with some special paper from this scrapbooking company. It had an old timey feel of a chocolate shop, and each window opened to reveal a little sentiment. I spent hours making it, he still keeps it...

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Do you get frustrated when some of your quality questions go unanswered for a long times, but questions like "What is your favorite ________?" get a dozen hits per minute. Funny, I was just thinking that exact thought. Yes, I totally agree. Well thought out questions (and answers) I have given have been down-rated and I used to get a little hurt, but I've come to the brilliant yet inevitable conclusion that we are seeing a society inhabited by the mature, the immature, the egocentric, the bigoted, the narrow minded, along with the learned, the truly helpful,...

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What do you look for in a friendship? I concur with Mirigotquestions - and can only add that I look for what *I* can bring to the friendship table too. I couldn't be friends with someone who regularly bashed other people, or who committed crimes regularly, for example, and if I was that kind of person, I couldn't expect them to be willing to venture into a friendship with me.

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Is everyone cocktaling at this very moment? Have just this minute poured a Cuba Libre. It's nearly 7pm EST.

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Can limes be sliced and frozen for later use in cocktails? I recommend this technique: squeeze the juice, and fill an ice cube tray with it. Then put the tray in the freezer. When they freeze, remove them from the tray and store in a zip lock bag or other container to free up the ice cube tray.

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Whens the last time you had a really good, deep, face-to-face conversation? Who was it with? Thursday, my BF came for dinner. We'd had a conversation on Monday that felt more like a lecture, and I wanted to share what I walked away from that convo with. I got my ideas across to him in a kind and gentle manner, and he was grateful for my insights. I was grateful he was open to hearing what I thought. Most of what I talked about was stuff I'm working on in my own character,...

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What is your favorite ice cream flavor? Tofutti soy ice cream - chocolate.... ah, dreamlike.

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Does it bother you that English hasn't been declared the official language of the United States? Not at all. I have no issue with any language spoken by any person, anywhere. I don't see any value to foisting standards upon others that are not necessary to get along in life. I don't believe we need an "official language." I think we need to be more compassionate and empathetic to those who may have left their homeland for any number of reasons when in fact, they might...

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How are your neighbours? good, bad or ugly? Mixed bag of tricks - dearly loved friends in 3 houses nearby, a couple I believe look down their noses at everyone immediately to the west, and the residents catty corner from me occasionally do their own version of Animal House - which I overlook, because I really endeavor to not be judgmental.

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Is it possible to have a baby at 16 and be a good mum? I did it. However, that said, I would have been a better mother later, when I had a chance to get some valuable life lessons. I'm grateful G-d watches out for fools and little children, because I was foolish, and my baby was safe in spite of me. She just left an hour or so ago, taking my delightful 3 grandchildren home after they spent the night with me. She drives a tour bus, which,...

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I am an 18 year old 5ft 9in female. I weigh 269 pounds. I am more than ready to lose weight. I have studied up ways to do so & I have lost 10lbs in Jan. I am a vegetarian. Any suggestions on food or exercises that can help my weight lose be quicker? Yea!!!! Another vegetarian!!! Funny, a friend showed me a photo of me from 5 years ago, and I was enormous - lost a ton when I resumed my vegetarian ways. I've dropped even more when I went vegan. Do you have any dogs? My dogs are more than happy to accompany me on walks every day. We do 2 miles, and are gearing up to move that to 3. I find that helps a great deal. Good luck in your...

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I miss my dog he passed away last labor day I lost one in May. It's tough, isn't it. Is your question one of "does anyone care that I am in pain?" The answer is, yes, I care. I'm sure your dog was very special to you, and I know what it is like to lose your beloved friend.

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I'm constantly criticized & met with sarcasm,here on AB, because I am a police officer. So many seem to have a problem with authority/police, Why?...theres laws, break them, theres repercussions, it's not that difficult to stay out of trouble is it? I like police. I like canine police officers especially. I have dated detectives, patrol guys, even a sergeant. I would simply ignore those who treat you with sarcasm or derision. Don't forget we get to see a cross section of society on AB. We get the young, those who are not fabulously educated, those who are rigid and closed minded, those who are reasonable, and every degree in...

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If I were a carpenter and you were a lady, would you marry me anyway? Would you have my baby? I'm afraid I couldn't. It's too late. I've shut down the womb with a view. We'd have to get a surrogate to have your baby.

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When sunbathing, Do you do it the old fashion way and lay out under the sun or use a tanning bed, or perhaps both? Skin cancer survivor chiming in.... I don't sunbathe. Won't do it ever again. Three surgeries in a 2 month period of time, stitches from August until November. Nope. I'll pass on the tanning beds AND use tons of sunscreen.

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Do you visit your dentist for a teeth cleaning every 3 mos, 6 mos, 1 year, or some other schedule? I go quarterly.

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US cattle are fed slaughterhouse remains added to their food.Obviously cattle are vegetarians forced to be cannibals thus affecting their health with the possibility of Mad Cow disease or worse .How is the public protected with this practice continuing? Excellent question - and they are NOT safe from Mad Cow and other diseases. Yet ANOTHER really good reason to go vegetarian, if not vegan. In depth facts about the industry can be read in Skinny B*tch.

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Do you have an age limit that you have put on yourself as to the age where you will stop having children? Yes, I stopped immediately after the first one was born.

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A "Welcome" mat at your front door is somewhat cliched. Can you give me an alternate message? (Humor "welcomed") How about, "Go Away"?

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When I say: 'This is madness' what comes to mind first? Salvador Dali.

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Does stealing another woman's husband make you a WHORE? I am truly sorry you've endured this - but at the end of the day, she may have done you a favor. Just imagine a couple years down the road.... can she ever trust him to be faithful when they started this business while he was married to you? I agree with Firebrand, that no adult person can be "stolen." Children can be kidnapped. Employees can be poached, but they've got...

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If one of the following professions was completey eliminated, which one would truly affect your quality of life and have the most immediate impact - Hollywood actors, ONE of your U.S. Senators (not both), or your local sewage treatment plant? HMMM Definitely the sewage plant would have the most immediate impact.

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If bad judgment was a crime, would you be in prison? Excellent question! I've been working VERY hard on being less judgmental, and more forgiving. While I was in prison, I'd throw myself on the mercy of the Court and beg the Governor for clemency. Which, on its face, would be similar to the guy who murders his parents and throws himself on the mercy of the Court because he's an orphan. ; >

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You are in a large garden with thousands of flowers..there are also a few weeds here and there. What do you focus on..the flowers or the weeds? I focus on the flowers and am grateful for the weeds. If not for the weeds, no gardener is needed (Buddha). Furthermore, weeds are: "Any plant whose virtues have not been discovered" (Emerson). "No more than a flower in disguise" (Lowell).

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What do you do when you encounter or have to deal with mean, really mean people. I'm trying to remember to see them as they are, that is, through the eyes of G-d, as perfect human beings. I am trying to view their meanness as coming from a place of insecurity or fear, and that makes me better able to respond in a positive fashion and keeps my blood pressure normal.

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I am seriously bored, can anyone give me something interesting to do? Oh, and feel free to bring a friend.

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How much do dildos cost? I do believe there have been multiple climaxes in this thread...... mostly due to your finger on the trigger of what is and is not important.

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Unless you are a perfect individual, it is wise to tread cautiously when you fling accusations at others. Do you agree? To be sure, I'm endeavoring to not put myself in the position of judging others, so I'd really hold up a mirror to myself before I accused anyone of anything, these days. : )

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What’s at Earth’s core? You know this.... earth's core is where the universal plumbing goes. When we flush a toilet, anywhere on earth, it goes down a series of pipes into the gigundus big ole honkin' earth core pipe.

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What is a good way for a SAHM to make money besides baby sitting? Ebay works pretty well.

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I just became a Sage today. Does anybody want to celebrate with me? Good on you! Congratulations!

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Why is homosexuality accepted in Buddhism, while it is not in most religions? I believe that most who offer "biblical proof" that this or that action is bad, are overlooking the 1000 verses that contradict what they offer up as tangible evidence. I believe the bible has been reinterpreted, revised, and otherwise edited to fit the agenda(s) of that particular group/denomination/etc. I believe G-d created all of us perfectly, and that each of us, when viewed...

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Is it polite to tell someone they've got whipped cream on the end of their nose? It depends.... for example, I'd tell my BF he has something on his face if we were in a restaurant setting. Sometimes, in fact, he'll find me listening intently and ask if he has something stuck in his teeth. I'd certainly tell him if he did. I'd like to think he'd tell me if I had whipped cream on my nose. That said, flagging a person from the other side of a...

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What do you want from the store? I'm thinkin' parsley, firm tofu, and those great big pasta shells, some organic spaghetti sauce, and some organic fruit - apples and bananas. Oh, also, can you please pick up some unsweetened coconut and more rice milk?

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If you are asked How are you? by a stranger and it isn't the best day do you say good or do you go into detail and talk about why it wasn't good? I'd say "good" and try to turn my day around to meet the description!

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Should senior citizens pay school taxes? I am delighted to pay taxes to help educate children, all children. Educating children is in the best interest of the community, and if I wish to have educated people on, oh, say, the police department and fire department in the future, I will want them to have opportunities to learn what they'll need to know to get there.

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What does the sign taped to YOUR back say? This is the result of that 1956 New Year's Eve bash when Shirley and Bob got trashed on Cold Duck and dragged out the condom from Bob's wallet that had been causing a circular indentation on it since 1946.

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I think relationships that begin dishonorably will not last. What do you think? I concur. Things need to be started right to finish right.

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When I was a child I couldn't pronounce 'lipstick' properly. I called it 'sticklip'. I still have trouble with 'werewolf' and mispronounce it 'wollwerf'. Have you had trouble with a certain word, and if so, what was it and how did you mess it up? I have trouble with colloquial. Which is really silly when you consider I can spell the bugger without thinking about it much.

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Do you really care about the environment? Yes indeed I do. I care enough to maintain a vegan diet, endeavor to reduce, reuse, and recycle, wear sustainable clothing - and avoid things like chlorine bleach. I buy recycled paper products, and use fabric napkins, fabric tablecloths, etc. I have replaced most of my bulbs with the ice cream ones, and use my bike whenever possible (instead of my car.) I work from home, don't take...

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Which celebrity death most upset you? Princess Diana. I adored her.

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These days does an engagement ring have to be a diamond or is it acceptable to be a bit more adventurous? Absolutely no reason I can think of would preclude you from wearing a cigar band as an engagement ring. It's a symbol, as the other answerer pointed out. It's a gift of love from one to the beloved, and it's a nice thought for me to think about how excited and happy you both are. Thanks for sharing.

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What is the best amusement park in the entire world in your opinion? The Appalachian Trail - which you may not view as an amusement park, but you said in my opinion!

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Any horse owners? What kind? Good question. Here, have some points.

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If my license gets suspended can I still drive from home to work and to school? Wait.... no, don't tell us.... you are REALLY Paris Hilton and you just can't believe that mean old judge really means you can't DRIVE when he suspended your license. Really.

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How much do dildos cost? They charge by the inch.

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When someone says, "Thank you," what's your most common response? (ie "you're welcome" "anytime" "you bet" etc. My pleasure.

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We are getting engaged, but are on a limited budget. When it comes to the engagement ring, what is the most important thing to spend the money on? Have you thought about alternatives, like sapphires? Princess Diana's ring comes to mind. I don't know how or who decided diamonds are the only way to go. I think a nice sapphire would make a splendid ring. Good luck to you both. May your marriage be a happy one.

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My 1st love who just became my ex told me that she Wished i was dead?? I treatd her like a queen.. i dont know y she would say that. she won't talk to me.. what do i do? That's too bad. I'd say you are better off without this negative Nancy.

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Are you a vegitarian? if so do you take an iron supplement or other suppliments you need from meat/protein? I am a vegan most of the time. I do eat eggs on occasion but only from happy hens kept by a 4H girl I know. The hens lay eggs whether or not there is a rooster around, so it doesn't hurt them a bit, and since they are not fertilized, the eggs wouldn't hatch, so they are okay by me. Anyway, to answer your question, I take a B-12 supplement. I get plenty of iron from foods like...

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Does the number 867-5309 means something for the Author of the song, or is it just a number that he created for "Jenny"? I can tell you this much - my husband of blessed memory worked for the phone company for much of his life. 867-5309 was never an available number because of this song. They didn't want the unfortunate recipient to be pestered by people trying to reach Jenny.

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Would you date a bald man? ABsolutely. Why wouldn't anyone?

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Have you ever had an operation and if so how old where you? Yes, honey bunny. In August of this year, I went to the doctor due to pain where I'd previously experienced a blood clot and she found a mole on my back that looked not so great. Turned out to be a malignant melanama (cancer of the skin, the worst of the three kinds) and it took a punch biopsy followed by three surgeries to get it gone. It was a terribly terrifying time. If you are...

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How do you know you are ready to do a backflip? When one of my dogs is titled, or finished.

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How is your Tuesday evening going for you? I did this amazingly articulate answer and it went into the ozone layer. To be sure, fine, Sm00z. How bout you?

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If your significant other were a vegetarian, would you follow the same diet? What if your significant other were a vegan? My BF of nearly 4 years eats meat, and shellfish. He also smokes cigarettes. When he pays my bills, he might - underline MIGHT get to call my shots, but until that day (when hell freezes over) he won't be stooooopid enough to make judgment calls on what I do or don't eat. He knows when he's here, he'll be treated to vegan, and be happy with it. He knows I won't deviate,...

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If you lived in the dark ages, what would your job be? seamstress to the Queen

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Your pop star name: Take the name of your first pet and your mother's maiden name. It is really a bad idea to publicly broadcast one's mother's maiden name because it is an important security question for prevention of identity theft.

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Is it just me, or are people not in a very good mood at the moment? I'm in a good mood.

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What kind of love is the toughest? Loving your enemy.

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Is Hillary playing dirty? (I don't want comments from women who will vote for Hillary just because she is a woman) Do you want comments from women who may vote for Hillary because she is the most qualified candidate whose views are the the closest to their own?

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My daughter is going to school most days in tears, i spoke to her and she said one of her friends keeps making horrible faces at her (she is 6) would that really upset her and apart from what ive done:-speak to her teacher what else can i do? It sounds like she's reacting to a bully. I'd have a conversation with her to see if that might be the thing. Dealing with bullies is difficult for all of us. Bullies have an uncanny ability to locate where our particular goat is tied and then go after that goat every chance they get. A six year old can still effectively rattle another psychologically pretty well, and that is what my...

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If chances where that doing some repeated action would kill you, is it still considered suicide? I would think it would be a matter of determining what your intentions were. Are you trying to come up with a "plan" or strategy to commit suicide without anyone knowing?

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If you have children, have you ever thought for one second, you wished you hadn't? I've wished I hadn't - I was a teen mom. However, now that I've gone through it all, and grown up, I now realize if you change one thing, it changes everything, so I wouldn't wish that anymore.

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Have you been in the situation, where you're told you have a brother or sister you never knew you had? If so how did you take the news? I learned I had a half brother about a year younger than me when I was 15. My uncle broke the news to me so I would know that my unexpected and unplanned pregnancy was not something that had not happened to my mother. I was pretty shook up already to have to reveal my situation to my mother, and adding this tidbit did little to help. Years later I discovered my mother trying to locate...

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Were are you? Do you mean "where are you?" I'm here, now. Where are you?

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I notice that there are some users who keep on posting questions and yet, don't rate or comment on the answers to their questions. Has anyone else noticed this? What's the purpose of their asking anyways if they wouldn't rate, or even just comment? Ummm maybe they want to see their avatar repeatedly?

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Is it abuse to overfeed a child? I think it might hinge on degrees. I think parents have a responsibility to provide a balanced and varied diet to their children, but I don't wish to impose my vegan lifestyle, and therefore am in rather a quandary about how much intrusion is responsible, helpful, and necessary. That said, I've witnessed parents (frequently exogenously obese parents) with children who are overweight,...

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A woman commits theft to feed her starving children. Should she be punished? (Read my answer first) I don't need to read it. My heart says no, no punishment. My heart says any punishment should be assigned to any who deny her food for her children.

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Do you have a valentine for the upcoming, Valentine's Day? Yes, but he was bein' a stinka' this morning!!! Last year, I made a gorgeous Valentine's day card that was 14 inches square and went to Pizza Hut to ask for a box to present it in. They did supply the box. I don't know what I'll do to follow that one up. I might make him some vegan cookies or cupcakes, maybe with cherries!

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Who has "the brawns" in your family? I am the pack leader.

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Have you ever had someone go out of their way to hurt your feelings anonymously and succeed at doing so? I just did, see answer Awww! SaraSmile, don't let an insecure individual make you feel less than about yourself. Clearly this person comes from a place of fear and insecurity, and feels threatened by your beauty. You are a gorgeous young woman, and that makes other young women feel threatened. Blow it off. It doesn't reduce how other AB'ers feel about you. Really.

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If you're healthy now and want to stay that way, do you know what to eat? After enduring an episode of Deep Vein Thrombosis, and learning I had high blood pressure, I resumed my vegetarian lifestyle, and within a few months, dropped 30 pounds. Then I began leaning toward a vegan lifestyle, my weight has further done a closer to reality turn, I've added much more exercise, and gotten closer and closer to being a healthy person with every step and or meal choice....

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Should people have to pass a urine & drug test before they are eligible for any public assistance (food stamps, welfare, etc.)? No. I think they should receive opportunities to learn things like how to budget, child care guidance, ways to learn how to have better self esteem, birth control advice, and compassion.

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Am I alone in not caring if I offend someone due to my twisted sense of humor? I don't know if you are alone, but I'd like to think I don't offend someone, anyone - I just don't want to be amused at anyone else's expense.

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What is The Buddha's favorite food? That which is offered by a charitable person.

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Don't you hate having to shave? Ladies.. you too. You know... those of us who are premenopausal have an advantage. The hair growth under my arms and on my legs has slowed dramatically... which gives me much free time to trim my newly acquired beard and moustache.

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Shouldn't smoking be banned especially at amusement parks? I believe smoking should be banned from all public places. I think they should open smoking halls where those who wish to smoke could pay (like pay toilets) to go in, burn one, and not expose the rest of us to unwanted and unwarranted second-hand smoke. I also believe I'll get double blasted for my answer....; >

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Why do you beleive in reincarnation? Personally, I think there has been alot of strong evidence that it may exist. But what makes you beleive this philosophy to be true? I believe we choose our gender, our parents, and our nationality to fulfill our quest to finish previously unfinished business. I don't think I can opt to come back as one of my dogs, although that would be a life of luxury, but I digress. What makes me believe in this philosophy is a lifetime of study, reading, absorbtion of ideas of those more learned than myself, and faith.

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What is your favorite fruit? Bananas, they keep me from having leg cramps in the middle of the night.

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Riddle: your stuck on a riverbank with a dog, a cat and a mouse. you have one boat and the boat can only carry you plus on animal. the dog or mouse cannot be left with cat. how do you get you and the 3 animals over the river? Take the cat into the boat and cross. Return, pick up the mouse, return. Load the cat back in the boat. Bring the cat back, load up the dog. Bring dog across. Drop dog. Return, pick up ticked off and very seasick cat, return.

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For those of us over 30 or so... do you wish you had the Internet when you were growing up? Good question! Really good question.... To be sure, I'd not change a single thing (even the really bad things) that have transpired over the 50 years I've been on the face of the planet. For if one changes one thing, it changes everything, and I wouldn't be the person I am.

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Why do we scream at each other? Out of frustration, or perhaps we've not learned how to communicate well.... I can't remember the last time I screamed at anyone, but I remember speaking out of anger, and my thought processes were not all that clear, or well thought out.

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What do you call four naked men? No, seriously, you call them by their names if you know them. "Hey you nekkid guys" might make them feel self conscious.

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What do you call four naked men? Tennis doubles at a nudist resort, silly!

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The answer is maybe, what is the question? Will my BF quit acting like such an old fart anytime soon?

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What is "spam" made of? Bits of dead animal carcasses.

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Do you consider yourself "comfortable in your own skin"? All except for the place where there is a scar on my back. When I'm not balanced and centered, it hurts still. It's not been happy lately.

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Where on earth are you least likely to find intelligent life? Oh oh oh.... inside a homemade hippo suit!!!

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Where on earth are you least likely to find intelligent life? On that reality show where you have to do really scary stuff. I forget the name.... help me here, folks.

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Do you talk to yourself? Nearly constantly. The dogs roll their eyes, look knowingly at each other like, there she goes again! I talk to myself, write letters to myself, give myself pep talks, you name it.

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Have you ever googled yourself? If yes, what showed up? I found a newspaper article where I was quoted, fortunately saying something nice. I'd forgotten the incident...

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Does your dog bark and growl when it hears animals on the TV (or in my case the Computer)? My dogs get alert when I watch The Dog Whisperer, but they don't bark or growl. They just act interested.

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If you walked around your house naked,would you be offended if your significant other told you to put on clothes? I'd be delighted to hear from him, and surprised he felt that way. He passed away 8 years ago.

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Do you think that today has been a really weird day on AB with a lot of sick questions and names of users showing up in questions? Look to the sky for the reason....it's a full moon.

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I spend $160 a week at the supermarket for my boyfriend and I. What the heck am i doing wrong? (my b/f looked at the bill and said he didn't see any crazy $$ items either) Deep six the processed foods, learn to make rice from scratch, go vegetarian, or better yet, vegan.

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What is something you wouldn't want to put on your pizza? Any animal products - ie pepperoni and cheese.

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Be honest: do we treat your pets the right way? My dogs are walked for at least an hour every day, are consistently trained and rewarded positively for learning new things and acting appropriately. They get nothing but the best food, have access to clean water at all times, see a vet regularly, are bathed and groomed regularly, sleep in the house (in the bed they call their own or their crates - their choice) have a whole basket of toys,...

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Could someone give me a non-religious reason to not kill myself? Yes. Here's the gig - my older brother killed himself when I was 16. I had a month old baby, a terrible marriage, and a totally screwed up family all the way around. When he made that decision, he made a decision that impacted me every day for the rest of my life. Not a day goes by, over 30 years later, that I don't wish he'd reached out for help. Suicide is a permanent way to...

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What would life be like if humans had wings? Hair dressers would have to return to school to learn wing styling?

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I guess this is mostly for the women in a relationship. Would you like to have breakfast in bed everyday or anytime your partner could do it? I'd prefer to save this for special occasions.

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When I turned 18 I could gamble legally. At 21 I could drink. When I turned 23 I felt that I became an adult though. At what age did you realize that you had become an adult? Fifty! Really, I think I'm only beginning to "get it."

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How old were you when you left your parents home? 16 - and pregnant..... got married the last day of tenth grade after taking 2 final exams. My advice is not to do things in the order I did.

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Whats the longest you have kept a secret? Can't tell you. It's a secret. ; >

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Do you think how you view others mirrors how you view yourself? If you are open and optimistic, that is how you see the world..if you are closed off and suspicious, that is how you view the world. What do you think? Excellent question! I've learned that when I see something in others that pushes my buttons, it is a strong indicator it is something within me that I dislike about myself. I'm currently reading Sacred Contracts by Caroline Myss. Ms. Myss explains we have loads of archetypes. One of mine, for example, is Storyteller - big surprise since I am a fiction writer. However, the storyteller,...

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What would you teach your parrot to say? "Striker, you're the best canine partner an officer could ever ask for."

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If you found a celebrity cell phone, what would you do? Do you mean a celebrity's cell phone? I'd return it, of course. Which, on its' face might require placing a call to one of the numbers in memory. I'd look for that person's manager's number, or maybe a security guard. I would not risk turning it over to someone else, for fear their ethics may not be as honest as I'd like and the cell phone would be used to...

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Why is it that alot of women wont admit when their wrong? Isn't that rather lumping a lot of people together in one catagory? Don't you think it's more than a little judgmental to do so? I frequently admit I am wrong. I also frequently say, "I don't know." I know many of my lady friends do too.

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What is the name of the cat inside your bag? Aybee

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Have you ever felt so heart broken ,that it really feel's like your heart hurt's? Yes. Can you imagine a doctor standing before you saying, "I'm sorry, his mitral valve just ripped off the heart wall. His heart failed." And you screaming, "then give him mine!"

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What is the best defense a person has against alien abduction? Stock up on alien deduction.

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If a talking (insert your name here) doll were made, what phrases would it say? Oh sweet niblets! (Hannah Montana)

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It is said that time heals, what other things does time do? slips through my fingers at an increased rate with every passing day.

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Can you describe how you feel today in one word? Balanced.

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If you had a chance to ' Add on ' to your home at no cost to you , what would you add --? Solar panels, replace windows with ones that were more energy efficient, and add on to the upstairs back of the house to increase the size of the bathroom.

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I am in the need to talk to someone. I am very down and feeling blue. I was in a accident back in January and someone was killed. I was the passenger. I am also in a relationship that I'm not sure I want to be in we have been together for 9 years. My heart goes out to you. I'm sorry you've had such a dreadful time. It must be incomparably difficult. Is there someone close by that you might talk to? Perhaps a clergy person? While I don't know you, you must know I will keep you in my prayers. I will pray for hope that you might find whatever, whoever you need to help you through this difficult time. Namaste'

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Do you believe in interracial relationships? im white and married a black man....my parents look down on me. I believe in love. I don't think love sees skin color as criteria. My best to both of you, and a prayer for your parents to find a way to be less judgmental.

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Is it okay for a joke to be offensive as long as it is funny? No. It is not. You never ever know who might be listening, reading, or aware of an offensive "joke" that could be hurtful to them, or someone they love. Offensive jokes are just that, offensive. Even if they are only heard by someone you are CERTAIN would find it "funny" it is offensive that you'd have to search out said individual and be circumspect about who...

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Would you rather be rude or stupid? I'd rather be stupid. Being rude would mean I was cognizant of choosing to be rude, and for me, that is the equivalent of choosing to be mean spirited. Being mean spirited is about the worst hell on earth I could figure out to wish upon my worst enemy.

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2 politicians. #1 shares your values, beliefs, & even your faith. He's not really good at being a leader, though. #2 is very well-spoken & although he does not share all of your values and beliefs, he is known to be a very good leader. Who gets your vote? Number 1. I trust in the universal subconscious to teach him/her how to be an effective leader.

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What is your most irrational pet peeve? When I see people with dogs out of control. I cannot get every dog owner in the world to commit to getting proper training prior to obtaining a dog, and I want all dogs to have good homes. Both are so not happening. I need to find middle ground, and be satisfied that dogs who might have been euthanized may have to settle for less than perfect homes. That said, with the available sources for...

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Right at this moment in time, are you looking your best? No. But I'm feeling pretty good.

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Where do you go to see all the weird hippy chicks? My full length mirror?

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Ok I'm in my 50's and I am now officially a cranky old man ...are you a cranky old man/woman? I'm 50, running a personal heating system, not sure what might happen or might not happen..... Yeah. I'm cranky. Welcome to MANopause.

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Has anyone noticed all the questions are being changed? mixing up everyones answers and comments! I haven't ever seen this happen before! I thought I had seen this happen before and thought maybe I misunderstood. Glad to see I'm not going bonkers.

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Did anything worth mentioning happen to you today? Yes, I received two loving telephone calls before 8am, followed by meeting two girlfriends and attending a knockout good church service. Considering I am a Reformed Jew who dabbles in Buddhism, enjoying a church service as much as I did this one was mind expanding. After church I had coffee with more of my friends, and came home to find my male dog being so cute I could explode. Then I made...

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How do you make gravy? I make Punk Rock Gravy using garbanzo beans, loads of spices, flour and nutritional yeast. The recipe can be found in Vegan With a Vengeance, my very fav source for vegan recipes.

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What are some fabulous vegetarian jalapeño recipes that you've tried and tested? You know.... this is interesting and worthy of experimentation. I'd like to try to "veganize" it by filling the jalapenos with a basil tofu ricotta recipe from Vegan With a Vengeance. The recipe is: 1 lb firm tofu, pressed 2 t lemon juice 1 clove garlic 1/4 t salt Dash black pepper Handful finely chopped basil (I'd substitute cilantro for Spanish feel) 2 t olive oil ...

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What is the worst food combination you can think of? Saurkraut and sliced bananas with cranberry sauce and liver pate'

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Anyone got a vegan pancake recipe? I just had banana pecan chocolate chip vegan pancakes. I got the recipe from Vegan with a Vengeance, by Isa Chandra Moskowitz. I only had a cup of soy milk, so I pared down the dry ingredients - 1.5 cup all purp flour 1.5 tsp baking powder .5 tsp baking soda .25 tsp salt 1/8 tsp cinnamon 1.25 cup well mashed banana 1.5 cup soy milk + 1 tsp vinegar (let sit for 5 min) 1 Tbls....

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Why do we peel our carrots? I peel mine to be sure I get all the dirt and the tough outer skin off. Then I sometimes use the peeler to continue cutting thin strips of the carrot for salads and stir frys.

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A woman, while at her mother's funeral, met this guy whom she didn't know. She thought this guy was amazing,her dream guy! She fell in love w/him right there,but never asked for his number and couldn't find him again. 3 days later she killed her sis. Why? My favorite mythical creature is the unicorn. And welcome to AB.

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What is the stupidest tattoo you've ever seen? The classic for me is this: a young lady (?) I know who had an absolutely gorgeous body had the last name of Nabors. So, she decided it would be fun to have The Nabors Bitch tattooed in 3" tall solid black letters along her bikini line. Except she had a tiny problem with punctuation.... and has a tattoo that reads "The Nabor's Bitch below her growing baby. I can only imagine...

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Could I use bic pen ink to give myself a tattoo or is that dangerous? (please dont comment about tattooing being dangerous anyways, I'm just looking for a simple answer) Theoretically you could, and of course it will look amateurish and you'll regret it long after the infection clears up.

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Grab the book nearest to you, turn to page 18, and find line 4, What does it say? If the nearest book is a stack of books, can I choose from the stack or must I go with the top book, which is nearest by virtue of being the smallest, but further away than the border of the larger books beneath. IOW, from which plane shall I determine proximity? Oh, and is it alright that I answered a question with a question? From the one on the top of the stack, #7 Personal Year)....

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What do you think of those people who "look down on" or feel "superior to" a whole country? You know the type.. "those lousy Americans", "those lazy Mexicans"..."those emotionless Brits". How does someone get to be that way? Who do they think they are? I think they are as deep as bathwater. I think they are 1. Judgmental 2. That they lump everyone into categories unfairly 3. That they are not all that bright or they would realize the ludicrousness of their generalities.

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What kind of meat do you want on your sandwich? Tofu. I'm a vegan.

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Do you sleep in pajamas? Generally, I sleep in my bed. My dogs tend to sleep in their crates. That said, sometimes if I don't put the laundry in the laundry room, they may choose to sleep in my pajamas. Was that what you were looking for?

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I catch my 14 year old son looking at gay porn , does this means he is going to be gay he denies it. What if he is? Are you going to stop loving him? He is the person he is, and I'd hope that you'd accept him for the person he is, no matter what.

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You are at your lowest point, you've hit rock bottom. you're on the edge of a ravine of emptiness and you see no reason to continue holding on. what makes you climb out, what makes you keep going? Excellent question! What keeps me going is the faith that where I am is exactly where I am supposed to be. In the last 10 years, I've lost a number of people I loved dearly - most of all my beloved husband and my parents. I've survived that, and cancer. I've lost pets I treasured. I've had to rethink, relearn, and reconnect with what is truly important. I recall my...

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Why do people insist on asking questions they already know the answers to? (e.g. Should I leave my cheating partner?) Perhaps they really are reaching out to other AB'ers.

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Are you more interested in people or in objects? More interested in dogs.

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What is your main goal in life? I've got many. A virtual Bucket List, if I may. My current biggest goal is to get my novel Tallulah and Posomotor, the Curse of CREGA edited and write a successful query letter to get it agented and off to a publisher. Then, to have to go all the way to the bank, where I can deposit the check.

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What is the number 1 characteristic (physical, personality, etc.) you look for in a potential significant other? Self esteem.

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Where do you feel our spirits and all we have learned in this life go after we pass on ? To a new level of life ? Please don't bash me I believe we reincarnate to learn some lesson we didn't get this time around. I believe we choose our gender, our parents, our country, etc. I don't think we go from being a snail to being human, for example, but I do think we come back and gratefully forget the past, along with the future before we are born. I believe this time around, I am here to learn to be more forgiving,...

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My name is on my house, but my name and my boyfriends name are both on the loan. Can I legally kick him out? It depends upon the state, and the status of his legal address. For example, in Florida, it is unreasonably difficult to evict even a tenant who is months in arrears because tenant rights far exceed landlord rights. If your boyfriend has that address on - for example, his license, and other legal doc's you may be in for a fight.

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What should you do if life hands you lemons? Grab my copy of Vegan with a Vengeance and make a batch of lemon bars.

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If you could have any fresh-cut flowers delivered to your home each week, what one type would you pick? Whichever ones were the least negative impact on the environment, that is, locally and organically grown.

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How would you feel if your child told you they were gay? The very first thing I would do would be to hug my boy/girl and reassure them that as difficult as their revelation was, that I loved them, no matter what. The second thing I would ask is how I could make them feel more comfortable revealing their truth to the rest of the world. The third thing I would do is announce it to all my friends and other family members proudly, and ask if...

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Anyone has felt adverse effects from eating foods from mcdonalds? right side of my tummy is always hurting now... Oh my goodness! I get so sick, it is not funny. I most recently ate at a fast food restaurant over 2 years ago. Still remember not feeling well for days afterward.

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What was/is your favorite pet, what did you call it, and why did it mean so much to you? Tough call! I've been the fortunate one in most cases. I've had horses, chickens, ducks, dogs, cats, turtles, fish, and more. That said, the girl you see in my avatar is Lacy. Lacy died in my arms in May of this year of an apparent stroke. Lacy is dog number, oh, I'm guessing 45 or so (I lived on a working cattle ranch with up to 25 dogs at a clip.) Lacy came into my life...

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What was/is your favorite pet, what did you call it, and why did it mean so much to you? I adore dogs. I've been in the company of dogs since I was a child, have been training as a dog trainer since I was twelve. I've titled many dogs in both rings. I've worked with hunting, non-sporting, terrier, and rescue. I love what dogs teach me every day. Dogs remind me to be in the here and now. Dogs forget the second I step on a foot or tail, dogs forgive when I make...

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I have a plastic bottle in my bedroom so I can pee in, cuz it's convenient and if I wake up in the middle of the night I need to walk all the way to the toilet and I can't fall asleep afterwards. My roommate found out and was disgusted, is it a bad habit? My daughter's husband has this habit. Both she and I find it absolutely disgusting. But you knew that, already, didn't you?

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If you could open a buisness, what would it be? I have in mind a business for raising funds for kid's school projects that would be environmentally friendly.

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If God knows I am hurting, why doesn't He help me? I believe G-d is present in each of us, and I believe we put out to the Universe what we receive. If I am hurting, I think I may have (albeit inadvertently) put out that I wish to be hurting. If, conversely, I put out to the Universe that I deserve to be at peace, be loved, be in a place of no pain, that is what I shall have. It is like Mother Theresa is credited with saying - I...

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Do you own a flour sifter? Is it really important that such an item be used when adding flour to recipes? Yes! And I've used it recently. It reminded me of getting in deep trouble in home Ec for washing it. I made two batches of vegan cupcakes last weekend for my granddaughter's eleventh birthday - of course Hannah Montana was well represented - in napkins, plates, games, etc. I used the sifter for both flour and confectioner's sugar, and remembering the chastising for washing...

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What do you think of when you think of Pirates? Captain Jack Sparrow. Yum!

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Why would someone not want to congratulate another for increasing their level? @EdTHJG, we jetpack around a lake 2 miles everyday. I have a philosophy of only jetpacking my dogs on days I intend to feed them. ; > @Warden - I know what you mean. I've got only a short way to go before level 13 already!

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If you entered a beauty pageant, what would you do for the talent portion? Well, I'd have to resort to reading some of my work, which probably wouldn't go over too well with my best stuff being horror fiction.....

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Other than your own country, which country attracts you most?Why? I like lots of Indian food because a goodly amount of it is vegetarian, or can be prepared to be vegetarian. I especially love Samosas.

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Why would someone not want to congratulate another for increasing their level? Yeah Warden, I made it to twelve - thanks for the congrats. 12 = 3, represented by laughing and having fun. It's a social number, radiating joy and expressing oneself. So thank you slothmister for clearing up for me that it is such a minor achievement, and for "guiding" me to the proper way to offer up a left handed compliment and discounting the accomplishments of others....

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Do you know how much you don't know? (serious question) The older I get, the more I realize how little I do know and how much remains to be learned.

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Where is the worst place to shout i'm horny? If you are the clown and are performing at a children's party.

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Where is the worst place to shout i'm horny? When playing Hamlet at the Met, and you are in the middle of the soliloquy. I'd hazard a guess that if you said, "to be, or not to be. That is the question. No, the question is: I'm horny, is anyone else out there in the audience horny?" one might expect to be not eligible for rehire.

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Do you like to visit art museums? Love to visit museums! Except Dali's museum, just don't care for much of Dali's work. I live very close to it, and have been a couple of times, but I don't go anymore.

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What was your worst experience from early childhood? I had a boatload of horrible experiences that no child should experience. That said, I wish to put all of that behind me. There are two questions I need to ask and remember at all times; 1. What time is it? Now. 2. Where am I? Here.

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Would you stay with your emotionally abusive spouse if it meant a better life for your children? No. There is no way that children viewing an emotionally abusive spouse abuse the other parent and grow up emotionally balanced and secure. The "better life" is a contradiction in terms, and is a way for the abused spouse to justify staying with someone they know is abusive. In each abusive relationship both parties get something out of it. It might be that the abused chooses to stay...

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How do you feel about the way your parents raised you? I am grateful for my parents for a number of reasons. They were both good people who did the very best they could to raise us - with very few parenting skills acquired from their parents. It was my mother who instilled in me my love for writing and my belief in myself that I could do anything I put my heart and mind to with everything I've got. It was my father who instilled in me...

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Can I give some of you some advice?1 week ago I was the happiest person in the world. I just got home from the ER & was told that within a year, they'll be sticking tubes down my throat so I can breathe. PLEASE quick smoking b4 it's too late My heart goes out to you. Gratefully, I can report I quit over 10 years ago. It was the best gift I ever gave myself. If you find yourself in need of support, I am but an email away. You'll get better every day you don't smoke.

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If a rooster is blind, will it still crow at dawn instinctively, will it crow randomly, or will it stop crowing? I had a rooster, and he was not at all concerned with the time of day. He crowed all day long, requiring us to rethink having a rooster in city limits. We took him back to the farm where we'd acquired the girls.... it's hard to tell the gender of chicks and we'd named HIM Rachel.

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What are your dogs called? Colin (named after an old boyfriend) and Chuck ( a female rescue who was chucked out to fend for herself.)

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In addition to giving points to people for being smart, would you also give them points for being a good sport or for being joyful and uplifting? Absolutely. The older I get, the more I learn that while it is nice to be important, it is important to be nice. Or, alternatively: Being smart is nice, being nice is smart. Birds have two wings, or they could not fly. Buddhism teaches one must have a wing of compassion and a wing of knowledge. If both wings are not the same size, one cannot fly.

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What's one thing you wish your loved one doesn't do to you? I wish he didn't worry about me so much, but I know he does because he cares. What I REALLY wish he wouldn't do is "prescreen" movies to see if they are something I would watch. He does so to ensure I'm not exposed to things that upset me. For example, recently I watched Sophie's Choice for the first time - and he wasn't around - and I got very upset, and...

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Other than your own country, which country attracts you most?Why? I have felt a strong pull toward India for many years. It's a spiritual connection for me. I love learning more and more about India, and enjoy reading about the culture, eating Indian food, and looking longingly toward the day that my feet touch Indian soil.

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Does a circle have a side? Interesting question - it has an "inside" and an "outside" so it made me think.... ships have sides, stern and port, and they are curved.... circles are curves that are connected.... so yeah, I think a circle has a continuous side. Which begs the question - why don't we say we are thinking "outside the circle?"

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What should I say such that the first thing that comes to your mind would be AB? "Are you being trolled?"

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I know this may sound harsh but i really dont like fat people. like im talking about the people who eat at McDonalds for every meal and are severely overweight. Have you ever wanted to say to them " Stop eating you fat pig" or something like that? Here's my problem with your question - and please try to read this the way I intend it to sound, as in kind and compassionate: 1. Learning to not be judgmental is one of the best ways to improve your own life. If I find myself judging others harshly, like thinking "stop eating you fat pig", then I can be pretty sure I'm judging myself just as harshly, if not worse....

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Does anybody have anything positive to say about O.J.Simpson? He did a great acting job pulling on those gloves as if they were too small! I'm positive he's hurt his children beyond all hope of them ever having the kind of life they deserve.

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Would you ever date someone from another country?? like China or Africa? My BF of almost 4 years is from Hong Kong. He's the best ever. I once dated a man from West Africa. He was kind of cool. His father was so thrilled to have an infant son live longer than three days that they sacrificed a cow in his honor.

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In a civil medical malpractice suit, it’s necessary for the patient to prove that the physician A. had no relationship with the patient. B. conspired with other personnel. C. was guilty of negligence in the past. D. breached duty to the patient Breached duty to the patient - but it is important to realize that there is a "standard of care" threshold to be met. And also, it's not about "proving" in civil, it's about convincing a jury that you are more correct than the other guy.

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Have you ever had someone close to you die of cancer? How did you deal with it? Yes, I lost my brother in law to lung cancer. When we heard the diagnosis, I walked over to the closest trash can, threw away a pack of cigarettes and lighter, and never smoked again. I couldn't imagine putting my family through what we were experiencing over again. Getting through the grieving process with any loss is probably the most difficult thing any of us have to cope with. I...

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Would you change your number if someone kept calling and you told them not to call...considering you don't want to get the police involved? If you don't change your number after a year, would this send a sign that you might like that person? I'd definitely look into call block, and consider rethinking getting the police involved if this person had the potential to stalk, and if you've asked them to not call anymore and they still are, then they clearly don't have very good boundaries.

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Is dating allowed within an AA group? Yes, but it is recommended that if not currently active in a relationship that one dedicate oneself to sobriety for at least a year before engaging in dating.

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What is the best way to make an egg? The very best way for me is to only buy eggs from my local young lady who has hens as pets. She names her hens, pets them, loves them up, and feeds them no antibiotics - only healthy grains. When I am eating eggs that come from such a wonderful source, whether fried, scrambled or in an omelet, they taste wonderful knowing that no chicken was caged in a foot square stack of cages. I also...

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If you could bring back a group who no longer perform, have gone their separate ways, or some of whom may have died, and attend their concert, which group would it be? The Beatles!

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Arh you need hair of the dog, Why hair of the dog? It dates back to an ancient (and ineffective) treatment for rabies. Seems they thought applying hair from the dog that bit you to the wound would prevent you from acquiring rabies. Shakespeare is credited with it in his works, as well, but by that time it was already cited as a cure for a hangover.

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Have you ever disliked someone that you never met personally ,just over the internet? Oh yes, and been disliked as well.

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If you seated next to a guy on a plane who is mid-eastern...Be honest would you feel comfortable? Would you be able to sleep on that flight? Of course I could sleep seated next to him, but I'd probably try to strike up a conversation with him and learn more about his culture.

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I don't know how to cook even simple plain fried rice. What should I do? I start with cold leftover cooked rice. It has to be cold so the oil in the wok can coat each kernel and they won't stick to each other. I stir fry chopped veggies, then add the rice, stirring thoroughly. Then I push that to the side, add an egg if I have one from my local 4H member (I only eat happy eggs from happy hens) and scramble it. Then mix everything together, add some soy sauce...

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What is your opinion of squirrels? I don't like them. They eat the avocados off my tree before they even ripen. They carry fleas and I am constantly battling flea problems. They are little more than rats with fuzzy tails in my mind.

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What are your thoughts about a first date being at a movie? I would think it would be a good idea since she gets to feel more comfortable around you when ur closer and get used to you. What do you think? good idea.. bad idea? I think Jenn is correct, that it's better to do an activity where you can talk, and get to know one another. Maybe a walk on the beach, or through a park. Maybe someplace like a mall where you can have a snack and a drink and people watch.

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If all I told you was that I owned a BMW, what would your first assumption be about me? I'd say (to myself) why is this person trying to impress me? Does he lack self esteem that he has to talk about his mode of transportation? Next is he going to pull out a bank statement and show me his stock portfolio?

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Why would a vet's office request your social security number and state driver's license id on paperwork for bringing in a new pet for care? I don't know, but I wouldn't give it to them. As far as I'm concerned, my vet bills are due the second my dogs are treated. The only reason I can think of for having that info on file would be to check your credit, and they sure don't need to do that if I'm paying up front.

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Whats the best invention ever?(in your opinion) The Internet.

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Whats a good date idea for a winter day(cold), thats not to exspensive, but still is fun? I'd make a picnic lunch of tomato soup and some sort of sandwiches, add some fruit, and eat it someplace unexpected, like at the mall while window shopping and people watching.

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Why are there lots of questions pertaining to Homosexuality suddenly cropping up on AB? or was it always there? Good question! And why does someone's gender predilection matter to anyone else?

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When is the last time someone demonstrated an act of kindness to you? Five minutes ago, my BF brought me something I needed and asked me to have dinner at his house tomorrow.

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Like I go to college now and I told my mom that when I turn 18 I'm going to move out and now shes really upset with me as if i committed a crime.Why do parents freak out when they see that their children are changing and growing up? I'm sure they are proud of you, and know that you are growing and changing. Perhaps the prospect of you moving out reminds them that they are getting older, and that is what they are reacting to. Maybe she depends upon you for companionship and fears she'll be lonely when you are not there full time. I'd be grateful she cared. Good luck!

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Wouldn't you be mad if a cow came and took your milk? I sure would! This is part of the reason that I use soy, rice, and coconut milk. I wouldn't dream of drinking horse milk or cat milk, or dog milk, how is that different from cow's milk? I detest the idea of forcing a cow to have a baby, then stealing away her baby so that *I* can have the privilege of drinking milk, eating ice cream, cheese, and butter. Eating a vegan diet is a...

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I have a pug/pomeranian mix dog that is about 1 1/2 years old now. She is honestly the cutest dog I have ever seen and I've grown fondly attached. She is for the most part a great dog. She went through her puppy phases of chewing and and your question is?

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Ho`omaika`i (congratualtions) to me! I just made BRAIN! I can't wait to start awarding more points for questions. Who wants to celebrate with me? Good on you!

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What do you wear to bed? Anything but fur.

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I am planning for my second kid. I would like to have a boy. Any methods to make sure that, it will be a boy? Find a dad that has a whole passel of boy children and conceive with him. (GRIN!)

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Can we have a question where all the answers are questions themselves? Like this?

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What is the legal name for your nearest relative? Gee, why WOULD you ask?

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What is your favorite number? 7 - Key word for seven is faith. With 7, everything is possible.

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What do you believe? I believe I should only walk my dogs on days I plan to feed them (GRIN!)

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Howdo I teach my baby to go to sleep by his own? I'd recommend establishing a regular bedtime routine, starting with a warm bath (I understand there are some nice products with lavender for babies' bathwater.) I'd be sure baby is cuddled, fed, dry, and comfortable.I'd dim the lights, and ensure relative quiet prevailed. I'd put baby in bed, calmly pat his/her back for a few minutes, and leave with the expectation that...

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Is a lime merely an unripe lemon? No. Limes have a totally different flavor, and there are even differences in lime varieties. I have a Key Lime tree that produces the most wonderful Key Limes - they are smaller than the limes you think of, and they are yellow when ripe. I bet if you did a taste test of limeade and lemonade you'd be able to taste the difference even blindfolded.

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Do you rate questions and answers according to them being helpful to yourself, helpful in general, or according to your opinion of the person submitting it? I rate them according to how thoughtful they are. If it seems not much thought went into asking, or answering, I don't rate it one way or the other.

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Who do you trust the least? Those sort of people who embellish "stories" about their own "heroism" or feats of strength to the point of being unbelievable. If they lie about that, what else do they lie about?

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What is one of the most creative profession you can think of? Fiction writer - MY profession! I've written everything from stories suitable for children to thrillers involving murders and child pornography.

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Are you for or against the death penalty? I believe it is wrong for a number of reasons. That said, from a strictly pragmatic point, we'd save lots of money by issuing life sentences rather than putting someone on death row because it is less costly to maintain prisoners in the general population than death row inmates who, among other massive expenses, are guaranteed a certain amount of automatic appeals for which we must...

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IS it a sin to marry a non believer? I believe not.

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Do you drink Soft drinks Yes, diet Coke - a LOT of it. I heard on the radio the other day that drinking 1 sugary soda a day over a period of 4 years can add up to 10 pounds to one's weight and increased the odds of type 2 Diabetes by 83%!

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An average person farts about 25 times a day, that’s a lot. Does it make sense that on any given day someone who is talking to you is farting without you knowing it? How do you feel about that? Where did you find this information about how many times a person farts? That sounds rather far(t) fetched to me!

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To you, what is the worst type of discrimination? It's all terrible. Discrimination is simply judging another based on some physical aspect that cannot be changed or perceived "trait" that is in some way troubling to another. Judging others is something I try to avoid. It's hurtful for the judged and judgment maker alike. To the person discriminated against, it's unfair. To the person passing judgment, it's...

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Will it be a sit down dinner or buffet style? It'll be a buffet... and I'll make it all for you. We'll have an assortment of Thai, Chinese, Vietnamese, and Korean treats. I'll make spring rolls, some noodle dishes, a fried rice, something steamed. I'll do a curry dish, maybe yellow with some Kafir lime and coconut milk. Some dishes will be spicy, some mild. I'll marinate the tofu in Tamari and garlic, and bake...

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Does any one think that the media, in general, is brain washing our children with oversexed and violent images? or do you think that it is the parents that is at fault for allowing this to happen? I think the media has figured out (and it's been going on my entire life) that sex sells products and is just continuing to do what works. There's not a lot of new stuff under the sun. I think it is the responsibility of parents to monitor and ration the amount of TV time. Too many let the TV take over the role of caregiver, in my opinion.

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What is the most important to you in Answerbag: distinction and ranking, commaderie or accumulating as many points as possible? OK, I admit it... I use AB to work on myself, to remain committed to my goal of being kinder, gentler, nicer, and more compassionate to other people. I'm trying to become a better person, and the best way for me to practice is by answering - (kindly) questions even when it seems the answer is obvious to the naked eye. It humbles me. Humility is good. I'm not concerned with ranking...

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If you had a chance to spend one more day with someone close to you that had died, who would it be and what would you do? My husband of blessed memory (gone 8 years now)- I don't care what we'd do. Just being with him for a day would be more than I could hope for.

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Do long distance relationships really work for teenagers in high school? YES! Bonus - it would make for some really effective birth control/STD prevention.

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Do you sometimes think that there are more guardian angels on AB than there are trolls? Great question! Nice to know someone appreciates the way some of us endeavor to truly provide help - (when I'm not goofing around.....)

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Is your boss doing your head in? Yes. Of course it goes without saying I am self-employed. :>

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If every one on AB had a meeting next door to you and you showed up, would you be disappointed if they were all in costume? Don't we all wear "costumes" every day? Think about it, what we wear tells the world who we are by our choices in garments, makeup, hairstyles, visible tattoos, etc.

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What is so great about your State? Our policy of only counting votes from "certain" groups? Our proximity to Disney World, the Tragic Kingdom? Seriously, Florida is the goal for so many millions of tourists that I endeavor to remember that I can get to a gorgeous beach inside of ten minutes any day I choose to. The weather is usually on my side, the sun is generally shining, and the people are generally nice...

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Could you ever commit yourself to a snorer? I've awakened MYSELF by snoring, so it's not as if I have an option. I'd also commit to earplugs or other strategies in order to find peace and love in another - assuming I'd commit to a long term live in - or marriage (which is highly unlikely.)

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Why aren't you in bed yet? I was.... and got up (3:30am) to check for an email. Seriously, I wake up around this time EVERY day and have done so for the past 8 years. It's anxiety.

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Where are the most painful places to get a tattoo? on your skin.

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If someone puts ... at the end of a sentence or phrase does that mean they want a reply? I think it means they've sort of trailed off, like they were talking and faded out.

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Do you wait patiently and quietly or does waiting drive you nuts and "patient" or "quiet" don't begin to describe you? I can be patient for eons. I can be quiet for as long as it takes. What I don't like is the kind of individual who stands in line at the post office complaining about how long they have to wait. Every single time I've gone to the P.O. (and I go a lot) I've had wonderful service. I bring a book to read while I wait. Anyone who doesn't understand that they may have to wait...

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You have been given full control of all weapons of mass destruction on the planet, what will you do now? See that they are disarmed immediately and divide each part among every monastary on the face of the planet with the instructions that no monastary is to ever send any of the pieces to any other place.

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Ladies, which of these make-up brands do you prefer: Mac, Lancome, Revlon or Clinque? I lurv lurv lurv M.A.C. Their prices are fine, and they have a recycling program called Back To M.A.C. where if you bring back 6 empties, you get a lipstick. They also have made huge donations from Viva Glam sales to HIV research. I think any company that cares about people and the planet before profit is a winner.

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Is there a way to block questions from someone who is clearly obsessed with something that is just so boring as to not deserve the AB bandwidth? Even if they are relatively harmless, if they are asking vapid questions about say, oh I don't know, how many times a day I think about what size boobs I would prefer to have, I simply am not interested in spending any time or energy reading their completely boring questions. Know what I mean?

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Do you believe that humans are either inherently good or evil? Or is life just one big grey area, where there are no extremes and everything is up for review? I am not asking IF these characteristics exist. This is strictly an opinion question. Yes, I believe they are. Misguided, judgemental, unforgiving, uninformed, but inherently good. We all get the same set of misinformation from our own misguided, misinformed, judgemental parents, and what we do with that misinformation - whether we seek out the truth or simply absorb what has been doled out to us is purely and simply up to us to do with as we see fit. We can accept the status...

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Why do some people call themselves vegetarians but still eat fish? With the same mentality as those who call themselves Christian but still judge others.

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For the Vegans who take being Vegan very seriously, would you not take a prescribed medication that would be very beneficial to your health because that company tests on animals? Why or why not? In December of 2007, I was diagnosed with Deep Vein Thrombosis. I was hospitalized, sent home with a prescription to inject stuff into my belly twice a day for a week. YIKES! That was distressing enough, but to add insult to injury, I later unearthed info that what I'd been self injecting (and WHO thought I could ever do THAT) was derived from pigs (guess who is Jewish, to boot!!!!) Would...

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How many people on AB are vegetarians? Most of the time, I am. Although I think I may need a 12 step program for cheese. ; > I find the vegan soy and rice cheese is useful, and use it for topping spaghetti and tacos, but I really love love love cheese. So, I get the small quantity of cheese from a woman I know who has a small herd of goats - goats that are well loved pets.

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What qualities do women honestly look for in a man? Self confidence.... hands down.

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Do you think its possible- after completely scaring off someone youve had a die hard crush on forever- to rebuild and eventually try to get them to like you without being overbearing? any tips..im desperate im going to fall apart without him. That you used "I'm DESPERATE" is telling. I would hazard a guess that you will not "fall apart' without him. Imagine this: (disclaimer - this is going to be harsh - work with me) imagine he was suddenly unavailable, as in, shipped off to Iraq, married someone else today, or died. What would you do? Guess what, many of us have had exactly those experiences (my husband...

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If I said, May I please have a hug? What would you say? I'd be right there, hugging you. I'd say namaste'.

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What kind of mother allows her 16 year old daughter to have a 28 year old boyfriend? One who didn't get the instruction book that arrives with the birth of each firstborn child. Everyone knows we women are born with a natural knowledge of how to be a great parent. Everyone knows that, right?

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If you could name something amazing about yourself,what would it be? I love what I write. I love writing, and I am good at it.

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Should I wax before sex? Wax on, wax off?

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Do all women like a nice soothing massage by there lover, with scented candles and relaxing music? I'll take it! Or - give it! I understand I give a pretty good massage, and everyone knows what goes around comes around..... and I am recipient of many a good massage.

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What characteristics or traits make you proud of your children? Do they have to be financially successful, educationally advanced or powerful leaders to please you, or is simply being a great person enough for you? I love that my daughter is kind, forgiving, and empathetic. I am proud that she has a commercial driving license and is currently driving a big honking tour bus full of happy clients. I am proud of my daughter's mothering techniques.

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Is it illegal to beat up this really gay kid in my class named will? It is clearly just plain wrong to strike anyone - regardless of how you feel about him/her. It matters not one whit what you think about him/her. If this person is doing something TO you - then you may feel free to try to get them to stop, but you can CHOOSE nonviolence as easily as you are looking for a fight.

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What are the 3 most important things in your life right now? And do they change based on circumstance, or personal desire? My relationship with my higher power The knowledge that I am a child of G-d and as such, am well loved. The knowledge that I have all that I need, and any and all future needs are to be provided. The changes that take place, are a direct result of my thoughts. Every thought is a prayer. If I want to live in a world full of love, compassion, kindness, and forgiveness, then I need to sidle...

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Is the chance of love worth the risk of a broken heart? No race was ever won by a horse not entered. Love is a verb, requiring action. You've got to take a chance in order to find it.

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Why can't you mix alcohol and beer? Because mixing any alcohol - vodka followed by tequila, for example, will give you a hangover that will make you wish you were dead.

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We have a miniature daschund that we acquired aged 2 years old. she is fine with our other daschund but when taken for a walk attacks not only people but is hysterically aggressive towards other dogs. to the point of twisting free from her har Firstly, a harness is not what I'd recommend for walking. I think that Cesar Millan is correct, if you have a collar high up on the dog's neck, you can control the dog. If she's twisting out of her harness, she's in danger of getting hurt or hurting another dog. This would be a disaster to watch. Secondly, I think you and she would benefit greatly from going to your...

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Which room in your house most need a make-over? The bathroom! It is a disaster the size of a closet.

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Has anyone here ever had a lover who took them to the Bahamas, if so, how did u like the islands? Yes, and it was an amazing time - the beginning of a 7 year passionate relationship. I think of him fondly, even after we broke up years ago. So fondly in fact, that I named my dog after him because I liked his name so much.

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Can you describe your father in one word? Forgiving.

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LDS Why is it that people think they have the right to critique this church in any fashion that they choose to do so? This church is insulted and lied about more than any other church, and more often! why do people think they have the right to do this? I'm not sure why people take issue with LDS, unless they are still convinced about the multiple marriage thing. My personal experiences with LDS members have been very positive. They helped me a great deal with geneological research. They are willing to help anyone and everyone who wishes to find records of their ancestors, and I think that is a wonderful thing.

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What's your favorite fabric? 100% organic bamboo! Alternatively, soy silk - I just finished knitting a beautiful scarf from it.

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I just asked my mom could i get my tongu pierced, she said no... but i think imma secreatly get it pierced profesionally! good idea? Really bad idea - your mom is responsible for your health care, and may not be in a position to afford (or want to risk) to care for your secretly pierced tongue if it were to get infected. If I were your mom, and you found someone who would do it without parental consent, I'd march into that piercing studio and have those bad actors for lunch - then I'd hire an attorney and sue them.

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Do you eat watermelon during the winter? No. I try to buy locally grown produce, preferably organic produce, and I certainly try to avoid eating fruits and veggies out of season for environmental concerns. It takes a lot of energy to keep veggies growing in artificial situations so we can have all kinds of fruits and veggies year round. I don't feel entitled to use up that much fossil fuel for my personal enjoyment.

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You see an abandoned litter of puppies in a cardboard box on a pavement. What do you do? Take them to a shelter and report where and how you came to find them.

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Today I found out I was pregnant,and when I told my boyfriend he hit me,and said that the baby not his,and he called me names....,Im only 14 years old,I don't know what to do...any advice? Aww - bless your heart. I wish I could give you a hug. Talk to your parent(s) or another trusted adult at your school, perhaps. Stay away from the boy.

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Does anyone have any tips for a female road triping by herself on safety etc? I've done many solo road trips. I made sure my car was in good repair, had maps from AAA, a backup charger for my cell phone, and a massive supply of common sense. I let people know my travel plans, checked in regularly, and avoided situations that looked even remotely risky.

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Do you feel you have to defend your family, just because they are your family? No, I let people defend themselves.

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Absent minded things you've done? The number of times I've put soap on my toothbrush is too high to count. Had to call a friend to verify I'd locked my door the other day. I'm beginning to wonder if I'm coming down with "some-timers" disease. I find myself wandering around wondering why I felt compelled to go to a particular room and what I was doing 10 minutes ago.

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Alright then, ladies, if I posted a nude or semi-nude pic - how many of you would look at it before I got banned to hell? 2 seconds

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What do you like to add to your oatmeal? I add raisins or other fruit. Sometimes I stir in some cinnamon, and some sugar, top it with soy milk and eat it. It's great for reducing cholesteral.

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Wheres the weirdest place you've ever slept? In the cot within the pop-up of a 63 VW Transporter with my older brother - I was 10, he was 14, we were on our way from Massachusetts to Florida. I spent the whole time balanced on the edge of the cot where there was a wooden rod that supported the canvas cover. HUGELY uncomfortable, and potentially dangerous - it would have been a bad fall had I lost my balance.

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What time of the year is worst for family disputes? Chaysgirl is right. Boy, talk about dredging up some awful memories!!! My version of Christmas always had some talk of divorces, police involvement, alcohol abuse, screaming, and fighting. Is it any wonder I converted to Judaism?

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The book "Blink" by Malcom Gladwell was a good read; Have you ever had a blink moment? Wasn't it an awesome book! Yes, I've had blink episodes, and been correct most of the time. Most recently, it was about a person who immediately struck me as trouble, and boy was I right!

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Would you give your male dog a big stuffed toy or a pillow to hump on to help him get his sexual needs met? (He desperately tries to rape our legs from time to time...) No, I wouldn't. I believe the problem is that you don't understand why he's doing that behaviour. It isn't sexual, it's dominance. If you become his pack leader, he'll likely stop humping everythbing in sight. My first order of business would be to take him for really long walks every day. I'd also recommend you take a look at Cesar Millan's website...

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My HP printer is not printing anything. Its just saying " An error occurred while printing" and isn't showing any further information. Any ideas??? ((I have tried using troubleshooter. Have you tried rebooting it? Also, if the color cartridge has not been used in a while, it can cause problems. I have recently solved my HP PSC2350 series problems, and those were the things I did.

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Does anyone remember the book title for the story of Rags the dog? Rags: The Dog Who Went to War by Jack Rohan

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With regard to the person in your life who let you down or disappointed you the most, do you still harbor resentment and anger or have you moved on? Interesting that you would ask this question; I've been working very hard to try to find a place of forgiveness - and I thought I'd let go of a problem person who caused me to have to leave a job I dearly loved. In between preparing to answer your question, I received a telephone call, and the person calling told me she'd seen that person recently. Suddenly all the bad feelings...

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I am very interested in the background of a pets name. I would like you to share with me your pets name and why you chose that particular name. I'd love to hear your answers! Piccadilly is the kennel name, just like LeeFran. Lacy died as a result of some neurological "accident" like a stroke or something similar. I'd had her at the vet's the day before for observation - I sensed that something was wrong, but didn't know what. I woke up around 4a.m. and she was not in bed. I went to her, and it was clear she was in trouble. She began...

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Is stripping a feminist act? Nope. Sorry - stripping is not "brave." It is an act that requires a woman to subjugate herself to the wishes of a male to make money. Therefore I conclude it is one level higher than prostitution. That the strip club managers don't scout out potential victims has no bearing. Indeed, many strippers get sucked in by "amateur nights." It is indeed selling oneself. No...

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I have had personal mail sent to me at work from state agency. It has been open, passed around an rumor over the office. Dose a company have the right to open personal mail at work. Is there any law that I can copy to give to this person. Why don't you have it sent to your home address and avoid all the trouble?

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How much daily excercise do you do everyday? I walk my dogs, daily, about a half hour's worth - about two miles.

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How to tell your wife you have a child with someone else? Ouch! If the child were from a previous relationship and you married without telling her, she's got a bone to pick with you. If the child was the byproduct of an extramarital affair, even more so. Tell her you have made a serious mistake and you need to set the record straight. Ask her to forgive you either way. She may need some time to get over being extremely hurt, and you need to...

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I have mental issues. Anger, depression, joy. I flip flop through them all. I don't trust the girl I love most even though I have no reason not to. I need pro help, medication. Something and everything. I'm scared though and don't know how or who to ask? Please find professional help. Facing our fears is the only way to go. We all have them, and you seem to be aware that there is more to life than living in fear. Best of luck to you. Get well.

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Other that Addison's disease (dog does have small adrenal gland but follow-up bloodwork was negative), what can cause a dog to have transient, extreme lethargy? All basic bloodwork is normal. He did have Rocky Mtn. Spotted fever last year. Any ideas? What does your vet say? My girl Lacy - my avatar, was an Addisonian dog. I don't remember her having lethargy ever. I saw her on the pool deck weaving back and forth and off to the vet we went - forthwith.

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I have had the flu for just over a week now and for the past two days my dog ( a min-pin) has had diahreah and been vomitting. Could he have gotten sick from me or what would be causing this? Please take your dog to the vet. He or she could have HG, a very serious and very rapidly debilitating condition that only a vet can diagnose.

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I am madly in love with one of my dogs. I have had a lot of pets over the years, but I have a special bond with him. Have you ever had a connection like this with a pet? Please share... Yes, my avatar is of my special girl Lacy. She passed away in my arms in May of 2007 and I miss her so much. She was a very special girl, and had a great sense of humor. We trained together and got her companion dog title in the first three tries. I have two other dogs, but there is only one Lacy per lifetime, I fear.

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Do you think eating raw meat is disgusting? I think eating raw meat is only slightly more disgusting than eating cooked meat - so I eat fruits, veggies, and the like.

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What do you call a person who cannot stand imperfection? Judgemental.... or just mental.

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I am 15 and think about sex all the time. Is this normal? Most decidedly.

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Do trolls contain cholesterol? I'm reasonably sure they are not kosher, so I wouldn't eat them. Besides, I'm a vegetarian.

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What's the best thing that's happened to you this week? I was inspired to pick up a novel I wrote last summer and do some revisions to get it to an agent. I got take my lovely dogs for walks every day and they remind me to live in the now. I spoke with my BF every morning and every evening - and he's off Thursday so I am looking forward to seeing him. I was taken out to dinner Sunday by my best friend of over 30 years with whom I'd had...

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Men and women, do you prefer being asked on a date or asking yourself? IGNORE THIS ONE PLEASE ! sorry i posted it twice :( I've been in a monogomous (not monotonous, though) relationship for about 3 years now. There are times when I have told him I wanted to take him on a date, and there are times when he's come up with the ideas. I'm reasonably sure I wouldn't want to have a relationship with anyone whose idea of who was to ask who on a date was rigid about the protocol of "the man is...

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I am very interested in the background of a pets name. I would like you to share with me your pets name and why you chose that particular name. I'd love to hear your answers! "Chuck" is a rescue girl who was chucked out on a busy street. Colin is my standard poodle guy who is named after an old boyfriend. His kennel name is Ch. LeeFran's Flight of Fancy. Lacy (my avatar) was named after a friend's neice. Her whole name was (she died in May) Piccadilly's Black Lace Teddy, C.D. Her mother's name was Piccadilly's...

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Whats the very first word You can think of when I say "Staffordshire Bull Terrier " ? ( Breed of Dog) Fear.

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My boss found this dog this past week and asked me to dog sit for the weekend. We are thinking of keeping her and would like to know what everyone thinks her breed is. I am pretty sure she is young because her teeth are still razor sharp. She looks a lot like my dog (who is here beside me) Chuck is a combo platter probably containing some Rottweiler, some German Shepard, and whatever went over the fence last. Good luck with him/her - those Rescue dogs are great pets.

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If your partner strangled your cat to death while you were visiting your family, how would you react? I would call the police, report the atrocity, and I would terminate the relationship.

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How do i give my parakeet a bath? do i just fill the sink with water and plop him in? Possum, line drying parakeets is almost as difficult as herding cats, as you well know. Of course in nature, the birds line dry themselves. You'll see them lined up on the electrical wires along the roads. They just prefer the upright position to that hanging by the feet style.

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Do you get upset when people ask about their health issues and animal issues on here instead of going to a freaking doctor??!! Some are so obvious that the person or animal are in sever harm. I was about to ask the same question. There are times when I've wondered what in the world is going on? Is it someone making stuff up to have something to ask about? However, that said, there are questions where a person took the time to come back and explain the outcome, which I percieve as helpful to the rest of the community. And that is a good thing.

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Would Veganism be a relatively healthy diet if you took vitamin and iron tablets etc? For sure! An added bonus is the added health to the planet by doing so. Not to mention how much you are adding to the health of animals who would be factory farmed if not for the vegans and vegetarians among us.

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Do schools keep a supply of old yearbooks from years past for purchase by former students choosing to replace lost ones? You possibly could find a yearbook at the public library, but I doubt they'd sell it to you.

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2day is Wed. and my dog hasn't been eating since Sat. & she has been acting weird. She get's impatient out of no where and if we don't pet her then she wants to bite us. what do I do? Plus she looks at us very different like if it's not her anymore. HELP! The Dean's answer would be my immediate response. Something is definately wrong. This could be a dangerous situation. Get professional help like yesterday. Please let us know what you find out.

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My 7 month old cocker spaniel convulses (shakes EXTREMELY bad) when she 's waiting for her food. No matter how long we make her wait she won't look away from her food dish or stop shaking. Her body becomes really stiff too. how can we First I'd have her checked by the vet to rule out physical problems (like epilepsy). It sounds (I'm an amateur, but have been training my dogs for years)like she's obsessing over food. I'd recommend taking her for a long walk prior to feeding. Cesar Millan recommends feeding dogs on a regular schedule when they are quiet and calm. Feeding after a walk is a form of love, and...

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Whats in the box? My hat.

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Brief stay in hosp, come home and one of the dogs appoints themself my shadow..now has developed a growl and block attitude when I go to leave the house..today he bit me..Any idea what to do..vets opinion is not one I will accept It sounds like fear biting to me, but anonymous was correct when s/he suggested getting a professional trainer involved. This is a case for Cesar Millan, the Dog Whisperer. You might consider going to his website and asking the question there. Oh, my thoughts are that your fear and anxiety are being interpereted by your dog. When you regain a sense of calm, your dog may reflect those...

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I love story chains. I wanna try to keep this going so write as much as you'd like and as often as you'd like. ~ The young girl crouched over the hole. She peered into the darkness and swore..... In her haste to capture this unknown thing, she neglected to take the time to put on her heavy gloves with the high cuffs designed to prevent animals from breaking the skin if they bit. Dr. Camille Levy, a genius who'd graduated college before her Bat Mitvah; reached for her prey with practiced determination.

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Is it racist that my local bus company runs a concessionary bus scheme only for ethnic minorities but doesn't run one for me, who isn't in an ethnic minority? Do you mean they give a discounted rate to people of color, for example? Are you sure it isn't based on need? I'm unclear who the individual who suggested reporting this would suggest who to report it to. Is it a county bus line?

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I'm so going to be DR-ed for this -- if we are supposed to be all equal as humans, and the purpose of equality is to NOT single out any group for any reason... what is the purpose of minority celebrations, i.e. Black History Month, or Disney's "Gay Day"? I believe the purpose of equality is to treat each culture, indeed, each person equally. It isn't supposed to homogenize everyone into a massive melting pot of sameness. By not singling out someone for "different" rules and opportunities (rules like same sex couples not being able to get health insurance for their partners or, as in the past, African Americans having to sit at...

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What's been your biggest influence in making you a better writer? Continued learning and practice to improve my craft. I attend writer's conferences and talk to other writers. I also find editing and critiquing their stuff improves MY stuff.

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Do you have an "absolutely must" literary habit? Example: do you HAVE TO have that favorite pen and a coffee in your special mug before you write anything? Or do you HAVE TO freewrite on a yellow paper? I have many rituals, from burning sage, to reading How To books on writing, to writing three pages in longhand. I keep an excel spreadsheet of my word count (how's that for being wrapped too tight?) I don't like pencils, or yellow legal pads. I always use the same type of pens, Pilot Precise Ball-writers or Pilot P700 in fine point. Most of my writing, like RedHawk's is...

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What's a good cure for writers block? I use rituals. I do the 3 pages of longhand to get the junk out of my head to make room for new ideas. I deal out a card from The Observation Deck and use that as incentive to do some small improvement on something I'm revising. I take long walks with 2 dogs handled like briefcases beside me. I sit my butt down in my "button chair" (butt in chair - get it?)and insist on doing...

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Have you ever had ANYTHING published, if so, what and give a brief synopsis? Yes, I have. 1. I have had a short story published in a hunting dog magazine (print!) and was paid $250.00 for it. 2. My first novel made it to the top ten and stayed there for nearly a year on a writer's site. 3. I've won several contests with several short stories. 4. My comments regarding a friend's novel are on her jacket cover.

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Please, write a paragraph about the night, if you dare? Night creeps in on bended knee bearing gifts of dreams - of magically transforming me into a flight attendant with an emergency shift at a strange airport in less than an hour; of beasts struggling for world domination on the roof of my house; of recollections misremembered from a childhood a half century ago. Nightly, I surrender to the siren call of night's promise of entertainment and...

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I love story chains. I wanna try to keep this going so write as much as you'd like and as often as you'd like. ~ The young girl crouched over the hole. She peered into the darkness and swore..... she'd never seen a mole that large, not to mention one that glowed in the dark like this one. She wondered if it were an alien life form or perhaps it was radioactive. Perhaps she'd stumbled upon some new species. She didn't have the first clue that this discovery would put her in the public spotlight - exactly what she needed to avoid if she were to stay alive!

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Do you like writing short stories? Yes, I love writing short stories. I like writing GOOD short stories, and am constantly working to perfect my craft. In the famous words of Mark Twain, if I had more time, I'd write a shorter story. What I really love is when someone actually READS my short stories - and when I get paid for writing them.

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I met this older guy whose English is bad so he asked me to help him. I agreed and we exchanged e-mails. Tonight I was really busy and told him I had night school. He sent me an angry email saying I let him down. What do I say to him? I have a life too! Wow! That's terrible. I'd be careful if I had released any personal info to this character. Sorry you got a bad case of kicking the stove (at least it sounds like that.) The other AB'er's answers were all good advice too. I'd be calm, firm, hold my ground and tell him that I wouldn't be able to help him due to the level of anger he expressed in the email....

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Every time i believe i could be half happy - something always happens to bring me back down. doesn't God believe i love him by now? I believe in putting out to the universe what you WANT to have happen, and I think maybe you are putting out there that you are okay with being half happy. FTR, I don't write out the name of G-d so that there will be no chance of someone printing out a piece of paper with that name and discarding it. The name of G-d is too holy for that. I believe you are a child of G-d and I wish...

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Are you likely to be more kind or unkind to a person that is obese? I'd like to second Jenn is here's answer. There is too little kindness in the world. If we could find a place of compassion for everyone then the world would be a better place. That said, I can tell you this song is somewhat relevant to your question and I'd LOVE it if you'd all take a look.....http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LmcPE--d3P0 YouTube video of Karen Taylor Good...

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If you were going to write a Fictional thriller where would you place the setting and why? In a locale I was very familiar with, so I could accurately describe it. You know, write what you know, and all that.

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I need to write some historical fiction story for class. I need help on coming up with a good topic. It can be recent as well. Im open for all ideas. Can you "interview" someone from your past? Like an ancestor - the person doesn't actually have to still be alive, you could simply write what you think that person would say if you had met them and asked such things as: 1. So what was life like on a whaling ship sailing from Fall River in the mid 1800's. The questions seem to be almost endless for me. Good luck!

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How to get started writing a novel? There are tons of other writers out there who will be happy to help. I also recommend reading Story by Robert McKee. It applies to screenwriting, but the basic stuff is there for novels, short stories, or any other fiction writing. Write what you know. Study stuff you like and figure out what it is about the book or story that captured you. Good luck!

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In some instances I have met a man and these men are functional business people but after they met me (a woman) they got nuts. They would call me 3/4 times a day, watch for when I come on the computer and accuse me of basically being a whore. So, what is the question? You don't tolerate people speaking like that to you, do you? Please say no.

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My boyfriend will try to start arguments over anything. If I don't answer him like he wants or do what he wants at any point he shoves me or starts breaking things in the house. He'll take a baseball bat and hits my things off the balcony. This abuse? Yes, it most certainly IS abuse and you should seriously run as fast and far as your feet will carry you away from this potentially lethal situation. Clearly this person has an anger management problem. Get some help and for crying out loud, talk to someone about getting some help with your lack of self esteem. Do you think anyone deserves to be treated so shabbily?

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Would you purchase a taser for personal protection? No. I think it's asking for trouble. Like a gun, it can be taken from me and used to subdue me - making me the victim of my own stupidity if I were to buy one.

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Can you go a whole week without eating fast food? I can go YEARS without fast food. Every time I ate fast food I was disappointed, and got sick. Add to that the fact that I've recently resumed a vegetarian diet and you can see that fast food chains hold little appeal for me.

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I just made Maestro, where do I get the keys for my new car? (You do still get a new car, right?) Not to mention a black helicopter.

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What would you do? My uncle left my aunt for a woman younger than me. I'm close to my aunt & her. My cousin is getting married in May but his wife is not invited, whatever I do, I'm going to hurt someone but part of me wants to go Gee - tough spot to put you in. I'd go to all parties involved and explain that you want to go, but you don't want anyone's feelings to be hurt. If they are able to forgive your uncle, then there shouldn't be. Remind them that the act of forgiving is the higher ground, and that “To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.” ...

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What was the last thing you made by hand? Currently working on a knitted scarf. Last completed project was a knitted baby washcloth. Also make quilts, which make me smile when I see them.

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What (if anything) do you collect? Thank you cards - a reminder of kindnesses. They make me feel good about the person who sent them, and about whatever I gave them, or did to generate their gratitude.

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Have you ever gone robeing? As in going into a judges chambers and donning a robe? Do you mean something else? Like "robbing" as in taking things that don't belong to you?

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Has anyone noticed that aproximately 98.9% of bus drivers are evil? My daughter drives a bus, and is not evil. She's tiny, but not .1 tiny. Where did you come up with this theory? ; >

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What do you think helps more for pain in your back & neck the Chriopractor says ice ,physical theoropiest says heat which do think helps the most? Ice reduces swelling which may be pressing on nerves, causing pain. I'd go with the advice of a chiropractor over a physical therapist since they have a higher education requirement.

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OK, who still faces the rather saddening task of taking all their decorations and lights down and packing them away for another year? I think I will wait till the weekend. I got so very bummed out that I took the hannukah decorations down right after the holiday was over and put out the Valentine's day decorations so I could pretend the holidays were over!

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Do you think San Fransciso's ban on plastic shopping bags is a good idea? Absolutely! I have a counter on my blog that shows how many plastic bags are used - and it is scary! I've got canvas bags made from the scraps off the cutting room floor. I'd suggest you get some. Try the ones sold by www.shirtsofbamboo.com

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I'm a car salesperson. As customers, would one be offended if I "asked for the sale"? For example: "So, sir. What's holding you back from buying this car today? Is there any way we can get you in it today?" No race was ever won by a horse not entered. As far as I'm concerned you MUST ask for the sale - assuming you want to be a successful used car salesperson.

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Why do alot of women think they deserve a huge diamond just for getting married to a man? Because the diamond industry has had an ad campaign for a long time that goes something like: buy her a diamond that is equal to 3 months salary. This is a signal to all of her friends that she's marrying a guy who can support her well, financially. It's another one of those traditions I'd like to see go away - far away.

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Have you ever had a date with someone you met online? Yes, I met my current BF of nearly 4 years online. He's the best.

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Is their anything I can do for a female dog that wets in the bed sometimes.She is house broken and knows this is bad because she will run and hide or just drop her head. I'd take her to the vet to have any infection ruled out. They tinkle on absorbant places (like a bed or rug) because they don't want to pee on their own feet. Obviously if she could get outside, she would have so it appears you may have missed her request to go out. Oh, I can look at my dog and depending on my tone of voice make him or her feel badly about global warming when...

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Would you buy a frozen bag of meat and vegetables to dump into a slow cooker? This idea seems to defeat the purpose behind using it. I agree. It does seem to defeat the concept. Those frozen bags o' dinner strike me as pretty expensive too.

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How often do you think about your significant other when you are not with them? Once a day, everyday, all day long. No, seriously, I think of him often, and how my life is better for him being in it.

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I love my gf. Weve been together for 2 years and weve gone through some really tough times together, and succeeded. Recently, ive been spending lots of time with a girl im seriously falling for, and the problem is, she has a great personality! Help!! It is so very difficult to figure out whether it is a case of sexual energy or just that you don't know how to be just friends with the other girl. I'd read Sacred Contracts by Caroline Myss to figure out why each of these women have entered your life and to figure out where you should go with that information. Good luck!

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What is one food that makes you say "yuck"? haggis!

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What are we doing for lunch? I'm eating a salad and leftovers from dinner last night - soba noodles with edamame, baked tofu, scallions, red onion, and snow peas. How about you?

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Do atheletes who use steriods deserve prison time? I think they do. Steroids are illegal, are they not? Why should an athlete be exempted from any penalty that you or I would incur? Furthermore, steroids are dangerous drugs that bring up lots of anger. Those who use them can be lethally dangerous to others around them. I have a friend whose love was taking steroids and pulled a knife on him during an argument. There were injuries and much...

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Is there anyone that brightens up your world just knowing that they're out there somewhere? Yes, a substantial number of people.

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My other computer's mouse isn't working. its stuck. my mom is getting me a new one. what should i do? First of all, welcome Kookie. Now, when you say the mouse is stuck, have you tried to reboot the computer? That is always my first order of business. If you mean the ball is stuck, you can open the bottom of the mouse (please unplug it first) and clean it, reinsert it, plug in the mouse, and see if that helps. Alternatively, you can wait for the arrival of the new mouse. Good...

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What is one thing that you can always get but never give? Cancer!

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My cavalier pup is just one year old and whilst in Kennels she had her first heat. She was in the same kennel at my cavalier dog 7 years old whats the chances of her being pregnant? Did anyone see the male mount her? Chances are pretty good that he did, and that she is pregnant. I'd say a vet would be able to tell pretty soon.

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On windows XP, can I uninstall IE and use firefox as the base for my file browser and desktop instead? If so, how? I just installed firefox and made it my default browser. I also have installed Opera, which has some cool features. I still use IE for many things because of the interface with MS Office OneNote. With IE, I can send a page directly to OneNote for later referral.

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What's the lowest you remember gas prices being, at any point in time, anywhere in the country (USA)? .37!!! Can you believe it???? I remember my brother buying gasoline to mow neighbor's lawns. I remember when 7 - 11's were open from seven until eleven! Now convenience stores are open nearly 24-7.

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With victorias secret (lingerie shop) whats the secret? The big secret is that they use really scandalous methods to produce the product - ie they use factories that use people as slaves. Victoria has a dirty secret, and that secret is that they use people who are not treated fairly, like humans.

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WHAT TOPIC DO YOU TALK TO YOUR BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND ABOUT Personal growth and spiritual enlightenment combined with, where do you want to go/what do you want to do next?

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Who ever had the best "number of question / rate" ratio? Hasn't happened yet.

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Don't you hate how people downrate you without any explanation or opinion why they did so. High level AB's do this to! PJ is right on. Tis the only way to fly.

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Am I the only person on answerbag tonight? I'm here. What do you want to think about? I had a nice date with a man I love. I made a beautiful dinner, we had a fire outside, and we were both too sleepy to think. He went home, I'm here. What is on your mind?

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Am i a loser if i dont have a boyfriend thats not cute? You are SO not a loser and it SO does not depend upon whether you have a boyfriend or not.

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If I passed you in the super market right now, is there anything you would want me to do or say to you, or just pass you by? I'd like you to smile.

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Have there been lawsuits in which everybody was a winner? If so, please tell us about all such lawsuits that you know of & provide links to their stories if applicable. In any lawsuit where the judge and/or jury finds middle ground, everyone wins.

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I agree that smoking is bad for you and folks around it; however, 'the war on smoking' has gotten to the point that some cases are coming up about people smoking on their own property. Has this gone too far? Is this just another item on the PC bandwagon? Can you be more specific about where cases are coming up about smoking on their own property? I'm very interested.

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Is anyone else creeped out by yogurt? I don't eat it anymore due to my concerns about how the cows who produce the milk are treated. THAT creeps ME out. I eat soy based yogurt.

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When authors are writing a novel and they use a famous place such as Yale University, do they have to get permission from Yale? No. But it is always a good idea to ask for permission if, for example, one were to use song lyrics.

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How can i get my wife to move back home since we have been seperated since may What is your motivation? Do you want her back because you love her? If so, then I'd consider looking at why you separated in the first place. Then I'd look at what responsibility *I* might take in the problem. Then I might consider finding an educated third party who may counsel me - and hopefully her. This could be a clergy person, or a professional couples counselor. I'd let...

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What are you supposed to eat (if anything) when your sick and not really holding things down to well? Try some Ginger ale, or tea and dry toast, or lightly buttered toast. Sometimes a couple of crackers help settle things down a bit. Clear soups, broths, and skip anything spicy or bulky. Definitely avoid meats until you feel better. Sorry you don't feel well today.

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How to get started writing a novel? I'd start by sitting my butt in a chair in front of a word processing program and write - every day. I call it "button chair" because Heather Sellers, one of my favorite people in the world who teaches at seminars and author of Page After Page, was misunderstood by one of the attendees about what "put your butt in chair" meant. I chuckle every time I think of that. ...

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Do you ever think....."Nobody knows how I feel"!!!!!!!!!!! I think it's more important for ME to know how I feel. If I question why I feel very strongly about something, I'm much more likely to gain insights into myself. Until I achieve balance and inner peace, I cannot expect anyone else to understand me, and how I feel. HTH

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Any great vegetarian recipes for crock pot/slow cooker's? Got a new one for Christmas and am dying to try it out! Ooooh I had some great 4 bean chili last Saturday. I'd be whooping up on that one. From the Columbus Dispatch: FOUR-BEAN VEGETARIAN CHILI Makes 8 servings Buy chopped celery, onions and green pepper from a trusted salad bar. Save time by using packaged chili seasoning mixes. Replace 1 can of beans with 1 cup of frozen corn, if you like. 2 tablespoons olive oil 2 ribs celery, chopped...

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How do i delete all my songs on my ipod nano?I want to start afresh? http://docs.info.apple.com/article.html?artnum=60940 Although I can't imagine why you'd want to delete all of them....unless you have someone else's Nano and they have different tastes in music. I just check the boxes next to the songs I want in the playlist and synchronize my iPod Nano.

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Do you always share your food ?? ( if you have more than you can eat at the house,bring it to work to share,or bring a little something over when your visiting someone) Yes, I enjoy sharing food with friends and family.

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What should I do if my dog has just eaten a bar of soap. What should I do? Call poison control. They'll be able to better answer your question. You can find the number in most telephone books (in the info pages in the front.) It will depend upon what KIND of soap, but I don't think it is life threatening - MY dog ate a whole box of rat poison bars - THAT was terrifying. You may want to call an emergency vet, since it is a holiday and most vet offices...

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Do you worry about the US going into a recession? I'd rather focus on a collective world consciousness for peace and justice for all. Please join me in putting out to the Universe that we find peace, and the rest will fall into place. Can you imagine how many jobs would be created if we were to take care of all who need help? Can you imagine how productive it would feel to help rebuild what war has torn down?

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Don't be a irreplaceable? You can't be promote otherwise agree or disagree? There is just no good answer to this amazingly well worded question, now is there?

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Her Father: What the hell are you doing in my daughters room boy and what were those noises!!!!!!!!!!! Your Excuse: ( Fill in the blank ) "Dad, Cousin John was helping me move my canopy bed. That's what made those horrible squeaks you heard. I think it's time to buy a new set of box springs, don't you?" Oh, and Cousin John won't be able to stay for dinner, will you John, I mean, 'Ram?' Ram's got to get back to the ashram, where he'll resume his vow of silence and austerity....

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What's the first thing to come to mind when you hear "Pre-schooler"? An innocent child who will soon enough lose that sense of wonder.

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Do you know anyone, that when they walk into a room the conversation stops or the mood changes into an awkward atmosphere? If so, what about the person causes that to happen? I worked with someone like that. I found when we were put in the same space the chi in the area went south immediately. We'd had such a bad time, and I just couldn't stand to be in the same zip code, so I ended up quitting a job I loved because she was constantly gossiping about me and I learned that through a co-worker who suggested that the atmosphere would not improve until the...

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What is a personality trait in others that really irritates you? There was this woman I worked with who lied constantly. It caused me such irritation that I ended up quitting a job I really loved. I found I couldn't stand to be around her. You have to understand, she lied so often that the way I could tell she was lying was I saw her lips move!

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If something in this list could was to be named after yourself, what would you pick? A charity, a street in your hometown, a stadium, or a piece of art? I'd pick a charity.

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Whats something you love, but cant get in your country? A permit to grow hemp.

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Why do some people think that a belief in everlasting life is foolish? Why is it so easily dismissed, even though they can't prove the belief inaccurate? Perhaps they answer to affirm what they believe, or don't believe, to shore up their convictions. In questions of blind faith, some think it makes them appear weak to hang on to an idea that may or may not be real. For me, I'd like a clearer definition of "everlasting life" since as it stands it is rather ambiguous. By that I mean it might be interpreted as a premise for...

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Which is correct? 1) The awards included "best in show", "best dressed", and "best presentation." 2) The awards included "best in show," "best dressed," and "best presentation." Great question! I agree with the first person answering that #2 is correct, but I wanted to verify, so I looked it up. Imagine I've cut and pasted an entire Wikipedia entry here. (Just kidding!) I found www.ncsu.edu/ncsu/grammar/Qoutes3.html where it is explained that #2 is correct under the American English convention. It would be different under British convention, which may...

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How can we train a dog to sit, beg, stay and roll-over? I'd suggest you enroll in a puppy class in either a reputable training center or your local dog training club. Sometimes 4H has classes, sometimes you can find classes at locations like Pet's Mart. There are numbers of good books with the basics and these would supplement training classes nicely. Mostly I believe the classes help "train the trainer." The basics would...

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Where will you be at midnight on New Years Eve? I'll be home with my dogs wishing firecrackers were not legal. My poor dog doesn't enjoy holidays any more than he likes afternoon thunderstorms. I'd explain he's safe, but it seems where loud noises are concerned, we develop a language barrier.

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Are you sick of your work? If I was, I'd look for ways to make it interesting again, or find another way to work. Perhaps the field is not one of my choosing, due to constraints like experience, or age, but I could use it to further my life career and utilize it to help me choose what my life work might be.

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My man is gong thru a cold turkey detox off of oxy.. how do I help him with the nausea, chills, etc.. I'd head for help from professionals. Going cold turkey can be dangerous, and is so difficult as to be dangerous to those trying to help. Best to you and yours. Good luck.

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My husband has been incarcerated since May 2007. On my tax return would I still file Married filing jointly? Yes, of course. The question is about your marital status, not the location of your spouse.

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My 2 year old Pit bull has what look like chicken pox's and is running a fever, he is an inside pet and I cant figurre out whats going on? does anyone have a clue what could cause thiis? See your vet - fast.

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How can I last longer? Don't smoke, drink, or drive fast cars unsafely. Don't have unprotected sex, don't participate in things like bungee jumping and you may live a few extra years. That's what you were asking, right? ; >

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My dog is so focused on treats during training, that he will bite anyone who tries to touch him when there are treats or food around. Why does he do this and how can I fix it? I'd try toys instead of treats if he's that food motivated. Also, I'd get a control collar on that dog and make sure he knows biting is not tolerated - ever. EDIT - Redhawk is correct, I should have asked the experience level of the trainer before suggesting a control collar. Perhaps this situation might call for finding a local source of professional intervention in the form...

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Can you name this carol? 'Red suited gentleman infant' Santa Baby

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My car needs new tie rods. I've never heard of these before. Are they generally expensive for an American-made car? My daughter just had an accident and her tie rods snapped in two! Apparently this is rare, but could cause one to lose control - not so good. I believe she had them replaced for under $200.00 including parts and labor. Good luck.

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I recently verbally abused my fiancee. I don't know why I said terrible things about him, he really is a nice guy, but I called him names and now he sent very mean emails. I am afraid that it is over. How can I get him to forgive me and come back? You got some very good advice here and I would print this out and read it several times until it sinks in. Ask him to forgive you. Apologize. No excuses, no promises that you will never do it again (you may slip and then you'll be back where you started.) Then, no matter what happens, forgive yourself. Learn from it, but let it go. You are human and you goofed - big time, in a very...

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How do you determine what nationality an asian person knowing their last name. If you are curious, why not ask the person about their native culture.

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I am dating a boy. We have been dating for a while. The problems is that I have never told my parents about any of my other boyfriends. They know about him and have known for a couple months. My mother caught us making out today. How should I react? 1. What have your other boyfriends got to do with this? 2. What you were doing when your mother caught you - was it age appropriate? Here's my advice (which works for almost any occassion) if I am doing something and my mother were to walk into the room, would I be embarrassed? If so, then don't do it.

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What is your New Years resolution? 1. To finish my manuscript and find an agent. 2. To sell off all my books and other stuff and clear out lots of clutter. 3. To finish lots of projects. 4. To improve myself, through meditation, study of Buddhism. 5. be less judgemental and more forgiving. 6. To practice yoga. 7. To be more positive. 8. To learn something new every day. 9. To move to Savannah.

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Can humans be taxidermized? Yes! http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=3461010 Body Worlds caused quite an uproar when it was exhibited in my hometown. It is my understanding that the bodies were those donated to science, and many were corpses of previously homeless people. Take a look and let me know what YOU think about the exhibit.

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In the name of free speech,shouldn't antiwar groups have the same access to schools,malls,and other areas that the recruiters have? Each group can hand our their pamphlet's and everyone can get a clear idea of what enlistment really means. I believe they should have the same access. I've participated in peace rallies near a prominent shopping center near here, called BayWalk. The police have been oh so subtle about making us move and then blocking traffic, rerouting it so that we are defeated by the way the traffic flows. There's nothing to be done about it, they win by might = right.

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What do you say instead of "I love you"? Too often those words are loaded in a relationship, yet the intended meaning could be simple and affectionate. My S/O and I rarely SAY I love you, preferring to believe that actions speak louder than words. I'm convinced every day by the way he always calls, always is there when I need him, always is kind and acts in a loving respectful fashion, that he loves me deeply. I wish my adult daughter and grandchildren would demonstrate their affections for me rather than the way they treat me, and...

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My 4 year old Akita has been sneezing a lot lately, with phlegm coming from her nose. Is this just a cold or could it be something more serious? You got two good answers. If it were my dog, s/he would be seen by a vet - soon!

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If I have a cold, will simply blowing my nose and coughing out the phlegm help "cure" my sore throat and all that? Or is it just one big endless cycle? It's my experience that a common cold will last 2 weeks without medical intervention and 14 days if you see your doctor. ; > IOW, it's just going to run its course. Treat the symptoms - drink plenty of clear fluids, like water and tea with honey for your throat and get plenty of rest. Wash your hands a lot. And please avoid going to school or work and exposing the rest of us!...

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Can i be pregnant if i'm on the pill i been on the pill for four months and my boyfriend and i have had unprotected sex but he pulled out. If you've been on the pill for 4 months, then it is not unprotected sex.

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Did Cleopatra die nobly? Historians mostly agree she died as a result of the bite of one or more asps, poisonous snakes. I believe she committed suicide, and no, I don't think that constitutes a noble death.

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My period is due today but I don't have any symptoms that it will. How long should I wait until taking a pregnancy test? That depends on whether there is any chance of pregnancy! It is also conceivable (sorry - it was there!) that you may be off a couple of days, especially if you have a BMI that is very low. It sometimes is an indicator of an eating disorder when one skips a period (or several.) Best to you. I hope this info helps.

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How can I train my 4 month old dog to not defecate/urinate in the house? Use positive reinforcement, just as you would when encouraging a child in potty training. Think of it like that, like when a child successfully potties in the appropriate place (the toilet) you would tell them they are a good boy/girl, right? Do the same with your dog. Feed the puppy breakfast, then take him/her for a walk - (bring a plastic bag or two, you'll need it!) Expect success in...

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My dad used to tussel with our old dog and she would clamp her jaw on his hand very softly. she was NEVER vicious and always very gentle when they would play together. how could i teach a dog to do that without hurting me? It depends upon the individual dog's personality. I always recommend against allowing any mouthing by all of my dogs. It's just good sense to not take chances. For the record, I've been training and showing dogs in conformation and obedience for many years. I've rescued at least 25 dogs of various breeds. Currently I am owned by a champion standard poodle and a mixed...

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Whats the most attractive trait a man can have? Self confidence - absolutely. Although kindness rates up in the top five personality traits I'd find most appealing. 1. Self confidence 2. Kindness 3. Compassion 4. Intelligence 5. Sense of humor

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Suggest options for presenting information to an audience It would depend upon the size of the audience, the alloted time, and the material to be presented. If I were able to use a PowerPoint demo, for example, I might utilize that. If it were a classroom situation where there was not the ability or the time, I might just use a chart or a hand-out of the key details.

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[What is the] Origin of the term big shot? I simply typed in the search engine box - origin of "big shot" and learned that it is an influential or powerful person and the term was coined circa 1905 to 1910.

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Imagine your a popular teenage girl and your mother posed as you on the internet and went into chatrooms and did "stuff" and your whole school found out what would you do? Based upon my age, I might look to legal emancipation. If a mother were to do what you allege, she might be held accountable for her inappropriate actions by such authorities as the FBI- assuming the persona she was impersonating was underage. The FBI doesn't look kindly upon individuals who put underage individuals at risk for potential harm on the Internet in this day and age of...

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Iam only 17 and iam afraid i might be pregnant from precum.i took a pregnancy test today(3 days after sex) n its negative.but i read it wasnt accurate till 6 days after sex.should i take EC since it can be taken till 5 days after sex? Molly, get real busy tomorrow going to a Women's Health Center. The people there will be better equipped to inform you of your choices, and will know what may happen, what may not happen. Best to you, learn from this experience, whatever way it pans out.

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Should you be in jail for your guilty pleasures? No.

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I have been seperated from my wife for over 2 years and have moved to another state since the seperation, do I still need to get a divorce or is the relationship just over? Also I have no idea where she lives anymore. Of course you would need to divorce this person if you ever wish to marry another person. Marriage is, beyond the moral and religious ceremony, a contractual and legally binding contract. That you don't know where she lives is totally irrelevant. You should consult with an attorney in the state of residence, and s/he can advise you about how to proceed to file.

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What is a reasonable cuefew for a 19 year old boy living at home. I'd say since he's living at home that you have every right to expect him to be reasonable and come home when it is convenient for you. If you are awakened by him coming in at night, for example, and you need your sleep to get to work in the morning, that he respect that and abide by your request - whatever you deem reasonable.

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Are you capable of loving two people at the same time? Yes. Of course there is more than one person out there for each of us. It also goes without saying that in any and every love relationship, one person loves the other one more. Sometimes I think people get confused about whether they are really in love, or are in love with the idea of being in love. I remember feeling that way, and frittered away over 7 years with a person who was never going...

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If you had to name your newborn child after a country, which one would you choose? I like India for a girl, or maybe Chynna (I can vary the spelling, right?) And of course, Israel for a boy.

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What is worse than getting coal for Christmas? Lots of things are worse, for example going hungry, or not having the ability to get medical care or dentistry when one needs it. Amazing but true that humans could survive without Christmas at all!

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How do you deal with being lonely when you love some but they are not in a position to be with you? Ah, unrequited love - it's bittersweet, nu? How about you consider, the next time you are lonely, that you are not alone in your lonliness. I find helping someone else gets me out of my own head, and helps deflate that lonliness thing. If your love interest is 1. in a relationship, or 2. doesn't share your feelings, then I strongly encourage you to investigate finding another...

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Im 12 and my bf wants me to give him head, ive never given head be4 and if i do it to him i dont want it to be bad,do you think i should give him head?? also whats it like on your first time?? Thanks, Give me some advice Please :) My advice is to run in the opposite direction of this boy - run fast. You are 12. This should be a time in your life of sports, school, friends, and fun. This is not an appropriate time for any version of sex. I doubt seriously that anyone is ready at age twelve for the emotions that any form of sexual activity include. When you are ready, and significantly older, ask again, but for now,...

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Suppose you were faced with the decision to buy one of two diamonds. One diamond was very beautiful, but had numerous internal flaws not visible to the naked eye. The other was near flawless but was "okay" and pretty in appearance. Which one do you pick? I would likely choose the more "perfect" diamond, for its ability to hold its value for the long haul. Personally, my decision would be based upon which diamond was certified as conflict free - that is, originated from a place of peace. I wouldn't want to wear a diamond or own a diamond that I suspected had been the cause of suffering of those who mined it.

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If you could be an animal what would you be? MY dog! What a wonderful life he has.

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Do people work harder under pressure? They may, but I don't think their work is more effective than work performed when not under pressure.

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In order to get into Heaven you must come back to earth and help at least one person , what kind of person would you most want to help? I'd like to think I'd help the one least likely to receive help from other sources, the one placed in my path first.

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I'm feeling creative. I have material for sewing and lots of fun decorating items. What can/should I make? http://www.projectlinus.org/index.shtml Project Linus! Make quilts for kids! Every child should have a special blanket for comfort and Project Linus is a fantastic way to make sure kids get them.

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Deja Vu freaks me out! Does it freak you out as well? It doesn't "freak me out", I try to use it as a reminder to trust my intuitions. I believe it is the collective subconsciousness of all of us who have ever lived and serves as a reminder that we are all in this together. Then again, I believe in reincarnation and predestination - but not UFO's. ; >

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Do you think Barbie is a negative role model for young girls? Nope. But I think Ken was not so great a role model for what to expect from a boyfriend, considering his "demeanor." However, that said, G.I. Joe - also lacking in the "demeanor" department (disclaimer for "flat affect"), apparently was a war monger, so which is worse? At least Ken took Barbie bowling, and to the beach, and other wholesome activities other than...

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During sexual activity, i'm really not sure what turns him on. and when i ask him he doesnt answer me. how do i give great sex? and great oral? and what do you do when you don't want to swallow? can you not? I'm thinking he's frantic because you are pregnant by 1 week! Which, on it's face is fantastic, because it is crazy that you'd know a week after a menstrual period that you'd conceived, have had a chance to buy a pregnancy test, and confirm that indeed, you were carrying a child - a miracle in and of itself considering your profile states you are male! Wow! I...

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Two popular Hindu gods have been summoned to a court in India as witnesses in a property dispute, the Press Trust of India reported Friday, but found no one has been found willing to accept the orders on behalf of the gods. What are your thoughts? Which Hindu g-ds? The actions may be relevent to the identity.

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My step father got his gf pregnant 2 months after my mom and him broke up and shes having a boy what my mother always wanted and he has not told my mom yet that his gf is pregnant what should i do? Pay close attention to Molecule's answer. It is right on target, and I could not agree more. These are tough situations, and it is not, nor should it be your place to withhold information nor disclose information to your Mom. Please watch as these so called "adults" spin around in their own confused orbits and learn from their mistakes. Please endeavor to try not to repeat...

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What should I get my daughters? Ps3, XBox or Wii. They are 10 & 6. How about books? And time - time with a parent who cares to read books to his/her daughters. Now that's what I think. Your mileage may vary.

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I have now been with Answerbag for One year , how cool is that and would you celebrate with me? YUP! Celebrate good times, c'mon!!! Let's celebrate!

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Why do some men think that woman can't do a job just as good as a man or even better, or vice versa? I try to think that anytime anyone has something negative, or judgemental to say about anything, that it comes from a place of fear or insecurity. It really is none of my business if someone thinks I can or cannot do something - a job or an art, or anything else, for that matter. All that matters is what I think about what kind of job I'm doing. If I meet my own standards, the rest...

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I'm havin a xmas party for 20 close friends,all girls,i don't have many lad friends but want to get to know some.should i ask my friends to bring lads,i'm not that confident around lads and am worried what they'll think of me,lets just say i'm voluptuous Have yourself a great time! Stop thinking about what others may or may not think of you, of your curvy-girlness! LOTS of guys PREFER curvy, voluptous women. Be pretty on the inside and the outside will follow suit. Invite your gal pals, and invite them to bring along their friends. Don't specify, don't fret! Just have fun planning, and let it all shake out as it is going to...

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Just been to several stores....why do the clothing mfgr's think little girls (clothes sizes 12-24 months) need so many dressy xmas clothes choices, but little boys don't need to dress up? I can't find little boy's xmas suits ANYWHERE!!! Isn't that the truth! And the little girls clothing is too sophisticated, too "sexy" too everything! I don't like to see little girls in black and red dresses that look like they are on their way to go clubbing! Little boys clothes probably are not a big money maker, and money is what drives suppliers to make choices about what they manufacture. I work for a company...

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When was the last time you chipped a tooth? OH that brings back memories! I was riding in the back of a pick up, and I was about 7 years old. We were on our way to a day at the beach in Cape Cod. We stopped and I leaned around to ask my mom to buy something for me in a drugstore. She opened the door at the exact wrong second and chipped my front tooth off. It hurt like a bugger - and pretty much ruined my day.

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Would you leave work early if your pants ripped split down the butt? No. I telecommute. I'd change and return to my desk ; > But if I worked at an office, I'd probably go home, change, and return. Or, get my trusty sewing kit out, do the necessary repair in the ladies room, then go back.

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Willy is the short for William, Sammy for Samuel, Danny for Daniel... What is Peggy short for? Margaret is correct. Another interesting one, Sally is the diminutive nickname for Sarah. If you are doing geneology research, and you find a Sarah, look for Sally references as well. : )

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What are some good sites to serch for geneology, for free? I have tried a few, but to get the good answers you have to pay for it. Check with your local branch of the Church of Latter Day Saints (the Mormons) who will be extremely helpful in guiding you toward learning about your family. It's free, they are wonderful and knowledgeable, and I cannot stress how kind they've been to this Not so much a Mormon gal!

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What and where is the village, town or locale being referred to in the Russian surnames "Gerov", "Gerovich", and "Gerovsky"? RudyG, I would check your local telephone book or Internet for a local Mormon church, otherwise referred to as Church of Latter Day Saints. The Mormon people have been hugely helpful to millions seeking geneological information and they have a library filled with volunteers who will help you on your quest.

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Where to tonight? Staying home. Lighting the Menorah, patting the dogs, contemplating how fortunate I've been to have had such a full and rich life so far. How about you?

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What was your last faux pas? Just today.... I am a customer service rep and wholesale liason. I got an email (yet again) from a lady whose questions I had answered at great length. She made noises in her email that sounded like she was heading into "Selah isn't taking good care of me" land, and I wanted to head her off at the pass. So I sent a detailed email to my team expounding all the time and effort...

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What is something in your life that you NEVER want to go through again? Attend another funeral.

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Have you ever been diagnosed with melanoma, if so how dangerous is it? Yes, I was diagnosed with a malignant melanoma in August, had a punch biopsy followed by three surgeries to remove it. If you are experiencing, or know someone who is experiencing a similar circumstance, I'll be happy to answer any questions I can. As far as how dangerous it is/was - it depends upon how far the cancer has spread before being caught. Malignant melanomas, when detected...

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Have you ever yelled "FIRE" in a movie house, or "MOVIE" in a firehouse? It is illegal to yell Fire in a movie theater in most states and no thinking person would do so. Shouting Movie in a firehouse would probably ellicit a yawn from the firemen and women who'd heard it a million times before.

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Have you ever been asked if you were pregnant when your weren't? Yes, every time I go in for an annual Healthy Woman exam! They always ask if you are pregnant or might be pregnant. I'm wondering what you really want to know.

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Today is the 5th anniversary of the day my wife succomed to the cancer and left to be with her family in heaven. I feel like I should do more than just put flowers on her grave. Any suggestions? My heart goes out to you on this and every other day. I lost my own sweet Joseph in November of 1999. On his Yartzeit (anniversary) I do things like take a long walk on the beach where we used to walk together, or sit down and write him a long letter detailing what I miss (which is everything!) If you can do something for someone else in her cherished memory, like make a donation of your...

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When the person you're in love with moves away and you don't have many friends to pass the empty time with, what's a good way to fill that emptiness? I spend my days trying to be a slightly better person than yesterday. I try to learn something new, gain some new insight, work on becoming better at some skill I'd like to possess, that sort of thing. Stableboy's answer is pretty good too. Being able to be helpful to others makes me feel good about me. If I feel good about me, then there is no empty feelings left to fill. ...

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Since my other question was flagged... Vegetarians, are you allowed to "french kiss" when making out? I am "allowed" to do anything I choose to do. There is no law that dictates what a vegetarian or vegan do. Adopting a vegetarian or vegan diet is a personal choice undertaken for a variety of reasons, some ethical, some environmental, some a combo platter! Your question is analgous to asking if a non-smoker is "allowed" to French kiss a smoker. What is it you are...

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I've been trying to become vegetarian and today I ate meat and now I feel horrible....How can I get back on track? I'd say - quit beating yourself up for it. If you were quitting smoking and you slipped, what would you do? Try again. Keep trying until you become an expert on quitting. Oh, and you probably were way too hungry to avoid temptation. Maybe if you'd had a snack handy you could have grabbed that instead of grabbing the germ laden door handle of the local Mystery Meat King, home of...

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Question for vegetarians: how does it make you feel knowing im eating a 22 ounce steak for breakfast/lunch? It feels like you are out to incite a riot ; >

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Those of us who are vegetarians and/or vegans, Do you do it for health or ethical reasons? I am a vegetarian, mostly vegan because I am an environmentalist who is concerned about the massive impact of factory farming on our earth. I am also opposed to killing, and if that killing is done by someone else on my behalf (say - a butcher) then I am just as responsible as the person who actually wields the weapon used to kill. I use soy milk and soy creamer in my coffee because I...

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Why do people smile when there is nothing to smile about? There is always something to smile about. If there is nothing visible to you that would justify a smile from another person, then perhaps they are remembering something pleasant. If you put it out to the universe that there is always something to smile about, you will always have a reason to smile. : )

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My gas furnace fan motor made a very loud noise when it was turned on. So loud that I could hardly hear my TV or radio. Is there any noise cancelling device that will cancel out the motor noise and nothing else? I would strongly recommend you have a certified professional repair person look at it. As I understand it, fans are there to cool motors and that prevents fires. My A/C unit's fan blade became detached from the axle, making a horrible racket. The repairman told me it could easily have caught on fire had I let it continue to run without the cooling effect of the fan.

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Does anyone know anyone that worked at the Nebinger George W School in Philadelphia school year 1999-2000? I am looking for information on a teacher was forced to resign that school year. It is very important that I find out this info. Safety issue thanx Boy has this piqued my curiosity! Can you provide a bit more info?

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My husband was contacted by his 14 almost 15 year old daughter and she wants to come live with us. She is unhappy with mom - she mom drinks a lot, is gone a lot, and when she is home, she yells at the daughter. Will the courts consider all of this in SD? Don't lose sight of the fact that there are two sides to every story, and a story told by a teenaged girl who wants sympathy is a mighty fine tale indeed. In most states, a child of that age is considered to be able to declare which parent they'd prefer to live with. Should she move in with you, may I be so bold as to recommend family counseling to help with the transitions that...

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At what age should children be told about Santa Claus? I wouldn't tell. Ever. Most of the time children's schoolmates clear up all misconceptions about such things as the Tooth Fairy, the Easter bunny, Father Christmas, and sex; not necessarily in that order. ; >

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Has anybody very close to you ever died? How do you survive and go on? Can you ever be happy again? Yes, my beloved husband died 8 years ago this month. I often wonder how in the world I managed to survive. I would have to say that I have the capacity to be happy, now. I miss him so much it is blinding. But I am fortunate to have been loved by him, and loved well at that. I would not change having him in my life to avoid the pain of losing him, so I suppose I've had no option but to...

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What is the best thing to drink in a Night Club? Any drink that does not contain Flunitrazepam (AKA Rohypnol.) IOW, anything you drink anywhere should be watched at all times. Don't leave a drink unatte3nded while you are out on the dance floor. Alternate answer: depends upon whether you are the designated driver or not!

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I am fourteen and have never had a girlfriend in my life. Is this okay? You'd be amazed at the huge number of people who didn't have a first girlfriend (or boyfriend as the case may be) until much older than 14. I really think the other person who answered is giving you good advice. Do the things you enjoy, be it sports or other activities in groups of people. You don't have to be paired off to have fun. Indeed, those who do have...

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I want to please my boyfriend, but i want to wait until i am married to have sex. he has had other partners before. what can i do? I think it should please your boyfriend that you have enough self respect to trust that he loves you enough to wait until you are married to be intimate. If he agrees, you've made the right choice. If he doesn't see it that way, you've made the right choice. Either way, you've made the best choice for you and if he's smart enough to stick around, he's in for...

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What do you believe to be the reasons many people 'compare' one person's hardships to another, let alone to their own? In what manner may this be useful when they do? And, to whom? Perhaps they do that in an attempt to empathize with the person. Although I have encountered an individual who apparently enjoyed a rousing game of "one-upsmanship of misery" and "explained" to me that while she knew it must be dreadful that my husband died, her husband leaving her for another woman must be considered more painful because he had a choice, where my...

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Do you think mp3 players should be band on buses if you dont have head phones on. Yes, out of fairness to the rest of the riders who have no option to choose the music coming from the MP3.

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Do you think prayer and positive thinking are ond and the same? I believe positive thinking is an extension of faith. Faith is the belief that something I cannot see or touch is real. Every thought is therefore a prayer, for me. Since I view myself as a creation of G-d (to write the whole name is not something I wish to do, but you know what I mean) and I seek to find the G-d in each soul I encounter (namaste')then it follows that positive thoughts...

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What is the best comment to say to telemarketers? (sorry about my spelling) Some states have laws that prohibit telemarketers from calling if you are on a "no call" list. Check to see if that service is available in your area. Before I got on such a list, I told telemarketers that I am sorry they are reduced to such a miserable job. I have told a telemarketer attempting to sell dance lessons that I was in a wheelchair. ; >

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Whats the worst news you have ever gotten? That my husband had died.

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I'm gay, and I want to know the truth on the amount of people on average who are okay with it and who have a problem with it. Thoughts? The value of the love between two individuals is of greater significance than the gender of each. Anywhere love can be found - I am all for it. I don't go around discussing events that occur behind my closed doors, and I needn't know what goes on behind the doors of others. I doubt there was ever an angst filled adolescent who sat down one day and thought, "gee, my...

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Did you skip breakfast today? C'mon, 'fess up! Why did you do it? Yeah, and I skipped sleeping tonight. Are they somehow related? Probably not.

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Do you name your things? If so, what are these things and what are their names? Yes, I name things.... Just this week, I had a third surgery (within a month) to remove a malignant melanoma from my back. The first two surgeries were not fun. This one was something else entirely. Due to the repeated trauma to the area, the sensitivity is really out there. It feels (5 days later) as if there is a rattlesnake living in my shirt that bites repeatedly. It bites when I move, it...

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No father is on the birth cert. How do we get my name on it & change his last to mine? My girlfriend, our 1-year-old son, & I have lived together in Oregon for 2 years. She has been trying to finalize her divorce (husband out of state) for over 2 years. In Florida it is irrelevant that the man who a woman is legally married to is not the biological father of a child. It is assumed for the sake of the child that the father is the same person as the husband. I know this because I had a case (as a paralegal) where the biological father died and the child was not entitled to his benefits under Worker's Compensation (it was a work related...

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My fathers birthday is 2 weeks away, he is going to be 80 years old recently he had open heart surgery so he does not do much physically, what would be a good gift to get him? i always got him tools or household things but now he cant use them. The best gift we can give is to give of ourselves. Perhaps you could give him a chance to let you interview him for stories you could tell other family members so his legacy will live on. Bring in some old pictures to look over to get him started... ask what he most remembers about the coldest winter he ever experienced, the biggest fish he ever caught, the best meal he ever had, and the worst...

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Does the chance of melanoma scare you? if it doesnt why not? It certainly does! Getting telephone calls from your doctor where she asks if I'm driving before telling me the results of a punch biopsy - makes for a very scsry time.

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My grandma had skin cancer (Melanoma), What are the chances that I will get it? I have had a malignant melanoma removed recently. It was on my back and I have lived in Florida for over 40 years. I agree that sunscreen may prevent all three types of skin cancers, but be aware that melanomas are sometimes found where the sun has never seen. I would keep a close eye on any and all moles, freckles, "beauty marks", etc. Look for the ABCD. FROM...

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What scares you the most about YOUR future? Another bad biopsy

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What would you do if you were up the creek without a paddle? Change my perspective so that I could view it as being down the creek without a poodle.

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Has anyone else heard of the "Superman" flying over a town in Romania? http://www.canada.com/edmontonjournal/news/business/story.html?id=4108779a-202c-4807-9d2a-96ec3ea709f8 Someone asked for a source, and I am not entitled to comment yet (haven't received confirmation email) so here is yet another source for the info. I simply googled Superman Romania and got lots of stories from all over the place.

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Are stun guns legal to possess in Florida? One of my cosplay ensembles requires one for the greatest possible accuracy. They are legal for home use but you must have a carry permit for outside your home.

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What is a ewer? a vase-shaped pitcher or jug

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How do I teach my poodle to cross a tightrope? Start with agility training at your local dog training club for the basics. Then, when your poodle is confident about going over the A frame, the teeter totter and other activities, you can work ON THE GROUND by having him/her walk the wire and gradually raise it off the ground in inch high increments.

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I have winter root vegetables (carrots, potatoes, swede, leeks and red onion). What should I cook? A hearty vegetable stew sounds good.

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Give a quote from some famous person that has influenced your life. There's an old Yiddish proverb - If you want to see God laugh, tell him you made plans.

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I have a Phillips 27PT6441/37, I was watching it and it went dead. Can't turn it on. Wasn't bad weather, no power surge. Replaced the on/off fuse, still nothing Have you verified that power is good to the outlet? I ask, because I thought my sound system had crashed, and discovered the wall outlet was the problem. I plugged a working table lamp into the outlet and when it didn't go on, a lightbulb went off in my head. HTH.

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Has anyone else heard of the "Superman" flying over a town in Romania? Romania: Investigations are underway into claims by approximately twenty villagers from Gemeni in Mehedinti county that a figure that looked remarkably like Superman flew above their village for a period of time. According to local police all the witness statements are consistent. "He looked like Superman and was flying slowly at about 100 yards from the ground in a standing position....

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Grab the book nearest to you, turn to page 18, and find line 4, What does it say? Hah! I grabbed The First Five Pages, by Noah Lukeman. Page 18 is blank!!!!

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What do you believe is the difference between being wise and being an intellectual? Emerson said it best: http://www.ellopos.net/education/writersword_emerson_wisdom.htm

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Is it true that when electing a condominium board, 75% of owners must vote in person or proxy? No. Florida law states: 3.  The members of the board shall be elected by written ballot or voting machine. Proxies shall in no event be used in electing the board, either in general elections or elections to fill vacancies caused by recall, resignation, or otherwise, unless otherwise provided in this chapter. Not less than 60 days before a scheduled election, the association shall...

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Is there anything unhealthy about having a long pause in menstrual cycle at a young age? I would wonder if the young woman might be too thin. When one's ratio of body fat is too low, menses stop. I'd agree with the first person answering that I'd have the young lady checked by a physician.

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