http://www.answerbag.com/profile/200398 New Answerbag answers from DorkPangs Tue, 29 May 2012 16:30:37 -0700 Tue, 29 May 2012 16:30:37 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10341362 Should I trust my boyfriend?<br /><br />It was wrong of him to keep that from you. Personally, if he had done something like that to me, I would've been very upset. Admittedly, you've been dating for two months, but once you guys got past the whole 'finding out about you' stage, he should've told you. Also, you shouldn't have to talk... Sat, 19 Feb 2011 18:35:39 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10341362 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10341312 Ok, I like this boy, don't see him often, but really want to spend more time with him, but everytime I see him, I don't know what to do.<br /><br />Start a conversation. I'm not sure where it is that you see this boy, but if it's in an activity or group that you do (i.e. like in a club or at a church), discuss it with him. Once you build up a rapport, you should then ask him to hang out, maybe go to a movie or play video games or something... Sat, 19 Feb 2011 18:25:47 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10341312 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10327565 What does it mean if somebody tells me I have a shiner?<br /><br />Typically, it means you have a black eye, or a bruise on your face. The term has racial overtones that most don't recognize anymore. Wed, 16 Feb 2011 15:44:40 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10327565 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324850 Is it wrong/shallow of me to not want to get involved with women who have children already?<br /><br />My personal opinion? No. Everyone has their own limitations and preferences when it comes to relationships, and don't let them tell you otherwise. It's better to know, than to go against your own feelings on the matter. Children aren't for everyone, and especially other people's children. It's... Wed, 16 Feb 2011 01:02:07 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324850 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324844 Am I gay if I get erect when I look at my penis? I am not 100% sure if this is what erects me and honestly, my penis is small so why?<br /><br />Really, I don't quite understand why people tend to worry about whether they're gay or not. You are what you are, you like what you like, and you don't need a damned label to prove it. But back to your question; men tend to get erect often, and often there will seem to be no real reason behind... Wed, 16 Feb 2011 00:56:39 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324844 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324834 Do you turn to sex when you feel lonely?<br /><br />I have, and probably will again. Sex is a lot of things for me. It's a release, euphoria, adrenaline, and the one thing that makes me feel really sexy. When I'm feeling lonely, sad, or negative in general, I might turn to alcohol first, but I always end up at sex if I have a willing partner. ... Wed, 16 Feb 2011 00:39:46 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324834 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324792 How much should a person compromise in a relationship, in terms of dealing with jealousy? My boyfriend is probably just being human when he gets a little jealous (I work with all men, and nearly all of my friends are men), but I never get jealous.<br /><br />It depends on the relationship and the people obviously, but you should know how far you are personally willing to go to compromise. Set yourself a rule or rules (i.e. I will not let his jealousy stop me from going out with my friends). Else, you might finding yourself resenting him from stopping... Wed, 16 Feb 2011 00:14:03 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324792 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324770 boyfriend has been with men. help<br /><br />Obviously, you don't want to be in this relationship anymore. For whatever reason, his sexual experience bothers you, and since he tried to hide it, it seems to bother him as well. You are obviously set on not being with him in any capacity, so I think you know what you need to do. Tell him you... Wed, 16 Feb 2011 00:02:42 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324770 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324733 i made my gf jealous by asking somebody else to be my valentine. is that good?<br /><br />Jealousy is never a good thing to encourage or invoke. It ruins relationships, and it causes friction and tension in your life. I don't know why you asked this other person to be your Valentine, but it sounds like you were trying to make her jealous, and I think that's just plain moronic. Why... Tue, 15 Feb 2011 23:44:04 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324733 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324698 A nice person got influenced by a bad attitude friend, and have the only friend, should i let it be?<br /><br />We all have to find our own way, and often when someone else, even somebody who loves us, tries to steer us in a different direction, we rebel violently. Honestly, I really don't think that there's anything you can do to change what's already in motion. We all have to experience things for... Tue, 15 Feb 2011 23:22:26 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324698 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324636 i need some help when to ask a girl out in grade 8 im grade 7. please help ASAP<br /><br />I don't know if you've heard phrase but I think it really applies: "Nothing ventured, nothing gained." You should start with something simple. Ask her to hang out playing games or going to the movies. If you're already friends, just wait to get her alone and ask. You may worry about it hurting... Tue, 15 Feb 2011 22:51:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324636 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324605 Do you have somebody who sexually arouses you and who is he/she?<br /><br />I'm a proud sexually active female --- quite a few people strike my fancy. However, the current focus of attraction would be my fairly new boyfriend. Tue, 15 Feb 2011 22:40:10 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324605 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324561 Should the US government legalize prostitution?<br /><br />Personally, I have always felt I never understood prostitution. He wants it, she's willing to give it, he'll pay her for it, she's wants his money --- Where's the crime? Plus, I feel if it was legalized, that would be one more taxable revenue stream that would actually contribute to society. It... Tue, 15 Feb 2011 22:15:39 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324561 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324483 Would you knowingly allow your children 13-16, to have sex of any kind, in your home?<br /><br />Personally, I would not. Sexual activity that's PG13 --- i.e. making out, caressing over clothes, etc. --- would be okay with me, though. However, I would always supply them with condoms, just in case something happened outside my home. I can't help what they do, and I would rather my theoretical... Tue, 15 Feb 2011 21:52:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324483 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324470 sexually comfortable<br /><br />Everyone varies in their level of comfort, especially sexually. I mean, the average guy will have all the expected equipment, but his interests and sexuality will greatly vary from the next average guy. I really don't think you have anything to worry about, especially if he's jumping in the... Tue, 15 Feb 2011 21:47:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324470 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324459 how to undergo surgery for sex change if only 14 years of age<br /><br />You're only fourteen, so your body is still developing. I find it unlikely that any doctor would agree to commit to the operation, even if you have parental consent and the money to do it. Most insurance, if any, will not cover a sex change operation. However, if you do have the consent, you may... Tue, 15 Feb 2011 21:40:40 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324459 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324451 If you lived by a quote, what would it be?<br /><br />Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. --- attributed to Theodor Seuss Geisel (a.k.a. Dr. Seuss) Tue, 15 Feb 2011 21:33:58 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324451 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324440 Why in a world where there are so many F**ked up individuals who are just plain cruel, spiteful, vindictive,<br /><br />Well, in answer to your question: the reason someone would choose to be the 'nice guy' in a world full of degenerates, louts, bastards, Neanderthals, bints and bimbos, is because our parents/family/life taught us better. Admittedly, it's hard not to become jaded. You put so much out and get so... Tue, 15 Feb 2011 21:28:15 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324440 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324385 Would you date someone whose self-pride is more important than anything and anyone else?<br /><br />I think a person's ego is always more important to them than anything else - we just don't always admit it. Admittedly, I have dated some people who were way more into themselves than I was comfortable, but there's nothing wrong with having pride in oneself. You just gotta know where to draw the... Tue, 15 Feb 2011 21:11:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324385 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324379 My boyfriends friend is making him chose between us, should I make him choose<br /><br />Personally, I have one rule when it comes to any relationship with anybody: do not tell me who I can or cannot associate or be with. Often, that leads me to doing the exact opposite of what I was told to do. So, my personal opinion is that your boyfriend's buddy is an uncouth idiot, and that you... Tue, 15 Feb 2011 21:09:00 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324379 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324334 How to let go off someone i truly love that already rejected me?<br /><br />Honestly, it's not easy. It sounds like you've been already holding on to this hope that this other person is gonna be with you for about two years now, and if they still are doing the relationship tango with their ex.... If they've known of your interest and have shown interest in the past and... Tue, 15 Feb 2011 20:57:38 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324334 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324276 how do you know whether monogamy or polfidelity is right for you im trying figure out what i want. and im single now what should i do?<br /><br />Really, the best way to figure it out is to try it. Since you're asking about polyfidelity and not polygamy, I assume that it's not just sex you want, but an actual relationship. Find the right people for polyfidelity is difficult, but definitely worthwhile if it works for you and the people... Tue, 15 Feb 2011 20:48:30 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10324276 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9606370 women are just naturally lesbians/bi arent they?<br /><br />I really dislike labels, and putting people into boxes seems extremely close-minded. Everyone is different, and what we find sexually appealing vastly differs from person to person. Don't get me wrong; some things are found to be appealing to a vast number of people and certain activities will be... Fri, 03 Sep 2010 13:22:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9606370 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9606251 If given a chance how many of you would go back to your ex and why?<br /><br />Of course it depends on the ex, but really it also depends on how I'm feeling about myself and where I am psychologically. I do not regret breaking up with any of my significant others, because really that's was what was right for me. I know, though, with particular individuals that I could be... Fri, 03 Sep 2010 12:55:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9606251 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9606213 When a male "cums" during oral sex, can you continue to give him oral or does he get "over stimulated" or whatever it is called..?<br /><br />From my experience, a man's penis tends to get extremely sensitive ejaculation, and continued stimulation may even cause pain. I do not recommend continuing oral stimulation after ejaculation. Fri, 03 Sep 2010 12:48:36 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9606213 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9606189 If a married man watches porn every night, is that a healthy marriage or is there something sexually wrong with him or her?<br /><br />Having stimulation from alternate resources is natural, however if the behavior is becoming grossly abused, I think that the individual could have psychological/emotional issues. If it's becoming a problem you should sit your spouse down and discuss it. Fri, 03 Sep 2010 12:44:12 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9606189 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9606166 Last night I told hubby that I was tired & did not feel like sex BUT we did it anyway, is this acceptable for him?<br /><br />If you enjoyed it, I really don't see the problem. Fri, 03 Sep 2010 12:38:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9606166 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9606142 What's the longest time you went without sex? If you're not a virgin.<br /><br />Uh, the longest? 18 months. I didn't really miss it until I had sex again, and since then I can hardly go a month without. Fri, 03 Sep 2010 12:34:17 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9606142 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7774814 How do I know if I am Bisexual? I can't see myself being sexual with a girl, but I am turned on by two girls being sexual together. Recently I've started to think romantic feelings about another girl, but more emotionally, and nothing physical.<br /><br />First, I&#039;d like you to ditch the label. You are who you are, and trying to define it in such limiting terms is unfair to you and really the rest of the world. Now that that is out of the way, you know how you feel. You care about this woman, but you do not feel it is sexual. Why does it... Sat, 19 Sep 2009 04:31:26 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7774814 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6725834 What do you think when you see a very attractive person of the opposite sex?<br /><br />&quot;Wow, they&#039;re hot.&quot; Sun, 07 Jun 2009 04:28:13 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6725834 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6607623 What is social phobia?<br /><br />&quot;Social anxiety is the fear of social situations that involve interaction with other people. Put another way, social anxiety is the fear and anxiety of being judged and evaluated by other people. If a person usually becomes anxious in social situations, but seems fine when they are alone,... Tue, 26 May 2009 08:46:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6607623 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6607461 If your 19 what do you think the lowest age of a mate for you.<br /><br />I have a tendency for older individuals, though I would date someone younger than myself. When I was 19, the youngest would probably be 17. Tue, 26 May 2009 08:26:02 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6607461 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6607449 What does it mean when a girl begins to tremble after I kiss her?<br /><br />For me, it means that I&#039;m aroused. Once, one of my partners asked me that question and I giggled and answered thus: &quot;No, I&#039;m not scared. No, I don&#039;t want you to leave me alone. Yes, keep kissing me.&quot; Tue, 26 May 2009 08:23:14 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6607449 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6607426 Is it ok to have feelings towards one person of the same sex (kissed before) but not attracted to others? I've always been straight<br /><br />Don&#039;t get caught up in the labels. You can be emotionally attracted to someone as much as you can be physically attracted to someone. Sometimes one creates a bit of the other (emotional attraction can create physical attraction or vice-versa). For me, it&#039;s not about gender -... Tue, 26 May 2009 08:18:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6607426 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6607377 Would you start or continue a relationship with someone if they told you they were bi?<br /><br />Since I&#039;m bisexual, it&#039;s not really something I&#039;d have an issue with. Tue, 26 May 2009 08:10:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6607377 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6607339 I commented on a question yesterday about gay marriage and read all the comments and was just wonderin' what you guys thought about people who say they are bisexual...do you think it's more accepted for girls than guys? have you ever considered it?<br /><br />Being bisexual, I often see the way people change once they learn about my sexuality. They can be sweet and charming and suddenly turn viper-like; others tend to be more awkward, doing their best not to offend me, because I suddenly don&#039;t fall into any category they can clearly define.... Tue, 26 May 2009 08:05:28 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6607339 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6607176 Do you wish you were Bi? Why / why not?<br /><br />Since I am bisexual, I don&#039;t really wish I was. I will say I like this question because it infers that bisexuality isn&#039;t something you merely choose to be, but are, like the way people are homosexual or heterosexual. Possibly I read more into it than there was, but for me, being... Tue, 26 May 2009 07:40:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6607176 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6607128 Do you think it's risky to go out with a girl who has alternated between male and female lovers?<br /><br />Being a bisexual woman, I kind of find this question ridiculous, at least until I read the answers, and then I was a tad horrified, but only slightly because I&#039;m used to the way people judge me based on my sexuality and not my personality. Just because a person is bisexual it doesn&#039;t... Tue, 26 May 2009 07:33:07 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6607128 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4500593 How do you feel about California's Prop 8 (Anti-Gay-Marriage proposition) being passed?<br /><br />Personally, I am shocked and disgusted and angry. I never thought it would pass, and I&#039;m am amazed at the result. The Pro-Prop 8 campaign was sending out bogus television ads about how the prop will stop the teaching of gay marriage in elemenatary schools, when schools were never teaching... Wed, 05 Nov 2008 19:33:47 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4500593 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4500151 MY BOYFRIEND IS ALWAYS HANGING ON ME AND CALLING ME.HE WOKE ME UP AT 3 O'CLOCK IN THE MORNING JUST TO SAY HI AND THAT HE MISSED ME. IS THIS LOVE?<br /><br />Some would call it immature puppy love, others would simply call it immature. By your phrasing of it, it would seem you find it annoying. You know, you have to tell him how it makes you feel, because some people are convinced that girls need to be lavished with attention in order to keep her.... Wed, 05 Nov 2008 18:47:17 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4500151 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4500118 What's the number one reason couples break up?<br /><br />I&#039;ve heard it was communication - no one expresses themselves very well. Though I&#039;m convinced that vile conflict fairy has something to do with it. Wed, 05 Nov 2008 18:43:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4500118 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4500094 Why do people have the proverbial "baby teeth?" Wouldn't it make more sense if we went straight to our mature teeth?<br /><br />Because children aren&#039;t equipped to hold 32 adult teeth in their mouth. Hell, as an adult and born without a pair of adult teeth, I still had to have some pulled out because there wasn&#039;t enough room for my teeth. Imagine what it would have been like for me as a child. Wed, 05 Nov 2008 18:40:45 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4500094 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4500055 Can you describe your father in one word?<br /><br />unreliable Wed, 05 Nov 2008 18:37:18 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4500055 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4500032 Would you stand by your partner if he was going to prison? I will be sentenced to 1-3 years, am 22, and hoping that my gf will stick around.<br /><br />It depends on several factors. Myself? I know I&#039;d stick by my love, but you and your gf isn&#039;t my situation. Pending on your relationship, contact, obligation, and a multitude of other factors, your gf may or may not stick around. She&#039;s definitely less likely if you two... Wed, 05 Nov 2008 18:33:53 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4500032 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4499901 Have you ever gotten a bad kiss?<br /><br />Yes, yes I have. Drunk, sloppy, terrible-tasting kisses to last me a lifetime of sorrow. Wed, 05 Nov 2008 18:22:44 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4499901 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4476592 Your magical dwarf name?? add the first 2 letters of your first name to the last 2 letters of your last name and the middle letter in your middle name.<br /><br />Amero Huh, I&#039;m potentially transnational currency. Mon, 03 Nov 2008 14:15:42 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4476592 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4328317 Can you describe in words your love for someone?<br /><br />My skin hums when I am around you. The rest of the world seems so much duller in comparison. The things I love to do are so much better when you do them with me. I love to share your joys and your pain, because it seems to enhance your smile and alleviate your burdened shoulders. When I&#039;m at... Mon, 20 Oct 2008 03:39:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4328317 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4327765 What were some of the reasons you were teased, picked-on or ridiculed while you were in school?<br /><br />While I was in school, I was picked on because, quite simply, I was different. I had a different taste in music, in books, in people. I liked the people everyone hated, I hated the people everyone liked. I had many sexual relationships in school, but never with any fellow school mates - I, in... Mon, 20 Oct 2008 01:03:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4327765 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4314561 What is the best way to get a shy guy to like you?<br /><br />...talk? I mean, how do get anyone to like you? It&#039;s a sort of chemistry thing, right? And the only way to find out if you have chemistry is to start talking. Yes, even the taciturn can speak, just give a try. Sat, 18 Oct 2008 15:32:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4314561 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4314547 What do you think of men wearing bras?<br /><br />Nothing really. Just, &quot;Huh, he&#039;s wearing a bra.&quot; And that&#039;s the extent of it. Sometimes it might even go so far as, &quot;Where did he get that one, it&#039;s so cute!&quot; Sat, 18 Oct 2008 15:30:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4314547 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4314458 When you lick your lips, what are you really trying to say?<br /><br />It usually means my lips are dry, especially if it&#039;s extreme weather of any kind. However, I&#039;ve known myself to do it if I&#039;m preparing myself to do a speech or if I have to confront someone about something. When I&#039;m frustrated or daydreaming, I do tend to bite my lower lip. Sat, 18 Oct 2008 15:17:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4314458 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4314442 Do you grieve in public or are you a private person?<br /><br />I&#039;m a private griever. If I feel the tears comin&#039;, I retreat to a secluded place. If a close friend knows I&#039;m crying, and decides to come comfort me, I won&#039;t push them away, but I would never be able to do that group grief counseling I&#039;ve heard about. I have nothing... Sat, 18 Oct 2008 15:13:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4314442 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4314430 Your in detention. What did you do?<br /><br />First, I&#039;d spell it &quot;you&#039;re,&quot; and then I would simply sit and read. Sat, 18 Oct 2008 15:10:59 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4314430 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4299977 There is a cross dressing person, she lives her life as a woman,but has male anatomy. Should work be able to make her go to the mens bathroom? Where do you think she should go?<br /><br />I&#039;ve never truly understood why the restrooms are gender-segregated, and no one person has ever been able to tell my why it&#039;s necessary in today&#039;s world. In response, though, I think that if she lives as a woman, what reason is there for not allowing her to go in the... Thu, 16 Oct 2008 21:29:04 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4299977 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4299959 Is referring to a gay person as a fag offensive to you?<br /><br />I don&#039;t do it, and no one I like does it. I wouldn&#039;t say that I would get outright upset about it, but a little piece of me inside gets a bit enflamed when I hear it. Thu, 16 Oct 2008 21:26:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4299959 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4299952 Would you go to a Gay Wedding? Have you gone to one?<br /><br />Yes, why wouldn&#039;t I? Thu, 16 Oct 2008 21:24:40 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4299952 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3773799 Question for lesbians: aside from Desert Hearts and Forbidden Love, what Hollywood movies are there that are as good as the TV show "The 'L' Word?"<br /><br />Personally, I wasn&#039;t that into &quot;The &#039;L&#039; Word,&quot; since it seemed more like soft porn than an actual show. Lesbian movies I&#039;ve had the pleasure of watching, however, would be: Saving Face But I&#039;m A Cheerleader! Better Than Chocolate Kissing Jessica Stein Sat, 16 Aug 2008 21:50:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3773799 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3306107 Till what age can Men/Women have sex?<br /><br />Really, I think it&#039;s individual. You hear stories of older men dating young women all the time. If you listen to stereotypes, they claim usually women stop having sex at about 50, while men stop having it at about 70. Physically, I think humans, male or female, can have sex until they... Mon, 23 Jun 2008 03:21:02 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3306107 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3239765 For women who have worked in bars: would it REALLY upset you if your boyfriend would never come in, because he said it would make him feel uncomfortable? would this affect your feelings for him negatively? would you think he wasnt right for you?<br /><br />No, it wouldn&#039;t. Actually, it&#039;d make me like him more. I&#039;ve had so many jealous s/o&#039;s that I wonder if I&#039;m not a magnet for them. In any case, the fact that he knows himself well enough to know he wouldn&#039;t enjoy watching me flirt with customers for tips would make... Sat, 14 Jun 2008 11:40:11 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3239765 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3222475 What is the best Nirvana song? If you say Teen Spirit I'll come to your house and kill you.<br /><br />Personally, I&#039;ve always liked &quot;Heart-Shaped Box&quot; and &quot;Rape Me&quot; but they&#039;re horrendously over-played and I can&#039;t say what my favorite is, really. Thu, 12 Jun 2008 09:45:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3222475 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3217675 Have you ever been called ugly?<br /><br />Yes, but mostly when I was a young girl and really only by boys I was in stupid arguments with, and that was the best insult they could come up with. I don&#039;t remember the last time I was called ugly, but it obviously didn&#039;t leave an impact on me. It&#039;s not worth listening to... Wed, 11 Jun 2008 19:04:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3217675 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3217654 I haven't dated since 1967. Do men ever open doors for women anymore?<br /><br />I hold doors open for everyone, regardless of gender, age, or race. Of course, I&#039;m female, so... But, I do know of several men who are very insistent on holding doors open. And, I know a few who are completely oblivious. It really depends on the person and their mind set; sometimes people... Wed, 11 Jun 2008 19:00:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3217654 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211473 Girls, What pulls your eye to them?, a shy reserved guy, an outspoken life of the party guy, or something else?<br /><br />I like an odd combination: quiet, yet confident. I&#039;m not really into the talkative types, and I don&#039;t like the extremely insecure types either; though I&#039;ve dated both. The kind of guy I&#039;m really into is harder to find, but wonderful once found. It works for me. Wed, 11 Jun 2008 03:58:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211473 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211430 I 'm a woman. I LOVE to look at PLAYGIRL, Hot Naked Men and Porn. I get turned on and masturbate. Many of my friends do. We women are Visual Beings too! Any other ladies the same way out there?<br /><br />I&#039;ll admit to it: I watch porn, look at dirty magazines, and write up my own fantasies. I know of more women who do the same, so you&#039;re not alone. Just very few women will admit to it, though I don&#039;t think it&#039;s really anything to be ashamed of. It&#039;s what we like. Wed, 11 Jun 2008 03:48:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211430 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211403 What is your opinion on interacial relationships and biracial children<br /><br />We&#039;re all humans; whatever could be wrong about love between two humans? Wed, 11 Jun 2008 03:39:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211403 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211398 Would you date a GREAT person if they were NOT nice looking?<br /><br />They&#039;d be beautiful to me, so yes I would. Wed, 11 Jun 2008 03:37:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211398 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211392 Do you feel like your family is surrounded in chaos and just a ticking time bomb?<br /><br />Quite often, actually, but I&#039;m used to it. Just gotta roll with the punches, you know? Wed, 11 Jun 2008 03:36:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211392 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211368 Hi well im a 17yr old black girl and lately ive been feeling a bit sad.you see i sort of perfer cacasian guys instead of black guys. i mean i do like black boys but i like white boys more... well my question is u think they will accept me or n<br /><br />Your ethnicity is just one facet of who you are; you have so much more to you than skin color. You should remember attraction is a combination of personality and physical looks. You may find that you like white guys more than black or Asian or Hispanic, but it may be because of a certain... Wed, 11 Jun 2008 03:31:13 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211368 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211282 What is something that it NOT very fun to do naked?<br /><br />Paintball... It bloody hurts! And leaves bloody hurts... Wed, 11 Jun 2008 03:04:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211282 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211273 If I drink from half full glass, will I get full or remain half emply?<br /><br />Depends on how thirsty you are. ;) Wed, 11 Jun 2008 03:00:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211273 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211163 My friends say they seen my girl horse playing and being kinda touchy w/ her ex, when they were driving past her moms house, i confronted her she didn't deny horse playin but did deny being all in his face.what should i do. i was thinking polygraph<br /><br />From the way your question is phrased, I think you already know what you&#039;re going to do. In any case though, I&#039;ll tell you what I would do in your shoes: If my friends told me my girlfriend was messing around with her ex, and I asked her about it, but still didn&#039;t believe her,... Wed, 11 Jun 2008 02:32:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211163 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211117 Who Was The First AB Member You Really Took Notice Of And Why?<br /><br />AntigoneRising She&#039;s amazing, and I found her questions and answers to be extremely illuminating and hilarious. I don&#039;t know if she&#039;s still active or not (haven&#039;t seen her since I became recently active again), but she was the first ABer I friended. Wed, 11 Jun 2008 02:20:16 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211117 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211105 What do you put on your fried chicken? i use the most vineragy hot sauce i can find, tobasco or red devil pepper sauce :) YUM<br /><br />Ranch dressing. My palate is extremely sensitive to spices - I can&#039;t stand anything hot. Wed, 11 Jun 2008 02:17:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211105 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211098 Are you still in contact with your first love?<br /><br />No. I don&#039;t even know if he still lives in that old apartment, or if he still has the same phone number, or if he&#039;s moved on - I assume he has. He wasn&#039;t good for me, and though I still love him to a certain extent, I know better than to leave myself that vulnerable. I asked... Wed, 11 Jun 2008 02:14:54 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211098 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211080 Why are you so in love with me?<br /><br />Your confidence. :) Wed, 11 Jun 2008 02:10:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211080 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211075 What would you do if you found out an ex is not over you and wants you back, or they never forgave themselves for screwing things up when you guys were together?<br /><br />It depends on the break-up really.... If we broke up because we couldn&#039;t see each other enough, or if one of us had to move away, or one of us wasn&#039;t ready at the time for anything serious, then I would consider dating them again. If we broke up for some dramatic reason, like we... Wed, 11 Jun 2008 02:09:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211075 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211036 How many hearts have you crushed?<br /><br />Um... Regretfully, I know I&#039;ve hurt a few people. Nothing I can say or do make up for the pain I&#039;ve caused, but I do feel awful about it now. I was in so much pain myself, that I, in my stupid teenage drama, had to cause it to others as well. Example #1: Aaron, the only boy from... Wed, 11 Jun 2008 01:53:41 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3211036 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3210969 Relationships: How do you know when it's over (or when it should be)?<br /><br />I really like this question. It&#039;s something that took me a long time to figure out, really. I&#039;m one of those people who are committed in a relationship for better or worse, no matter how bad it gets. I&#039;m perfectly fine in casual relationships, because I know that it isn&#039;t a... Wed, 11 Jun 2008 01:12:55 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3210969 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3202232 Does acne ever go away on its own?<br /><br />It depends on the person, really. Acne does have something to do with hormonal imbalance, and sometimes certain scrubs can prevent it from coming up, and sometimes it just goes away once you reach a certain age, or it just pops up at a certain age. With every person it&#039;s different, which is... Tue, 10 Jun 2008 01:08:12 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3202232 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3202204 Am I the only one who comes on AB rather late at night because I am too busy during the day?<br /><br />No, other people including myself find themselves here late at night, just not as many people that are on during the day. Tue, 10 Jun 2008 00:59:07 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3202204 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3202194 If AB were to attend an expo of some sort and were going to sit in front of a large audience and answer questions about anything, which five members would you pick to represent AB?<br /><br />AntigoneRising Arisztid Buxtonite Lisa RiffRaff Tue, 10 Jun 2008 00:56:01 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3202194 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3202175 I'm in love, and my boyfriend (dating for 1 year) wants me to move in with him. We're both 19, he has an AA, I'm still in college, we don't drive, we don't have jobs yet, and we both still live with our parents. Would I be making a mistake? Any advice?<br /><br />It kind of sounds like you already know the answer to your question. The fact that you&#039;re asking if you&#039;re making a mistake makes me think that you&#039;re unsure, and you should never move in with someone if you&#039;re unsure. Especially if it&#039;s someone you love. I understand... Tue, 10 Jun 2008 00:50:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3202175 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3201960 My room mate asked me if I slept with her bf. I didn't and I've told her repeatedly but she doesn't seem to believe me... What should I do?<br /><br />There&#039;s no reason to put up with her accusations. Whether or not you actually did anything with her boyfriend is irrelevant; she isn&#039;t taking you at your word, and that&#039;s only going to make things worse further down the road. I know. So, I suggest finding another place of residence... Tue, 10 Jun 2008 00:08:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3201960 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3201919 I am married is it ok that my husband went to have dinner with his daughthter from a previous relationship and his ex<br /><br />I think it&#039;s fine that he wants to see his daughter, and I can understand you feel uncomfortable the he&#039;ll be seeing his ex. Maybe you should ask to come along with, to get to know his daughter. Technically, she is your step-daughter now, even if she doesn&#039;t live with you. You are... Tue, 10 Jun 2008 00:02:28 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3201919 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3201888 Do you hate your brother?<br /><br />No. I love him. I think he&#039;s the coolest person ever. I wish I could be more confident like him. Mon, 09 Jun 2008 23:58:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3201888 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3201882 How many people have/use myspace, msn or any other type of internet communitcation?<br /><br />Gawd, I hate that thing... But yes, I use it. Really, only out of necessity to keep in contact with old friends. Mon, 09 Jun 2008 23:57:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3201882 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3201697 Have you ever questioned your sexuality?<br /><br />Nope. For as long as I can remember, I&#039;ve liked both sexes, and I never felt that there was anything wrong with that to question. Now, I have questioned my tastes, occasionally, particularly from particularly abusive relationships, but that&#039;s a whole different bagged cat. Mon, 09 Jun 2008 23:21:02 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3201697 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3201597 What is the Kinsey scale?<br /><br />I learned about it when I was 14, looking things up about bisexuality. I consider myself to be currently a 1, because of my current (hopefully permanent) relationship, but most of my life I&#039;ve been more of a 3. Mon, 09 Jun 2008 23:02:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3201597 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3187799 How fast are you at typing on a scale of 1-10?<br /><br />I&#039;ve been typing since I was a kid. I clock in at about 75 wpm, 90 wpm with mistakes. I don&#039;t look at the keyboard, haven&#039;t in years. So, I&#039;m always surprised to find how dirty it gets. In any case, I&#039;d say I type at about a 8, since I know people who type faster and... Sun, 08 Jun 2008 12:11:21 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3187799 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3187780 What would you like to hear someone say to you right now?<br /><br />&quot;Here&#039;s your tax-free million-dollar check!&quot; Sun, 08 Jun 2008 12:08:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3187780 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183792 Women: do you find confident and cocky alpha-male type of men attractive?<br /><br />I&#039;m more into the shy types myself. With a sardonic sense of humor. I tend to become best friends or fast lovers with the confident/cocky dynamo, because I find them too immature to have a real relationship with. They&#039;re fun for some things, but they&#039;d be too... Sat, 07 Jun 2008 21:39:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183792 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183741 How many of you know how to keep an open mind when it comes to spirits? Obviously not the people responding to my questions.<br /><br />I have an open mind about everything, or I try to. Though, I sometimes fear the thoughts will come leaking out of my head. In any case, I&#039;m sorry that you&#039;ve had bad luck with people responding to your questions. If you&#039;ve ever checked out the LGBT section, or the Religious... Sat, 07 Jun 2008 21:33:36 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183741 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183687 Did you know recent studies at the Christian science labs indicate that all 6-7 year olds are attracted to the other sex? That proves that homosexuality is learned later in life. I am not a homophobe, I just want to save gays.<br /><br />First of all, cite your source. You can&#039;t be taken seriously if you don&#039;t state where you found this information. And I have not seen or heard of such studies before, so who is to say that you didn&#039;t simply make it up? Secondly, if you&#039;re going to cite scientific research,... Sat, 07 Jun 2008 21:27:44 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183687 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183589 Grab the book nearest to you, turn to page 18, and find line 4, What does it say?<br /><br />&quot;Kaye ran across the carousel hall and swung over&quot; Tithe; a modern fairy tale - Holly Black Sat, 07 Jun 2008 21:13:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183589 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183531 What makes a man attractive that isnt physical?<br /><br />Ambition, Wit, Humor, Loyalty, Individuality, Creativity, Sensitivity, Human, Weird, Flaws that go with mine... All things I can think of at the moment, but incredibly sexy attributes, or at least to me, anyways. Sat, 07 Jun 2008 21:08:06 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183531 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183460 Women 21+ if you had been with a guy for almost 6 months, and he asked you if he could drive down with you and meet your mom, what would this indicate to you about how he views the relationship?<br /><br />Personally, if I&#039;d been dating him 3 months, he would&#039;ve met my mom. But, in any case, if he wanted to drive with me to meet my mother, then I would think he wanted to become more serious, and that was his way of displaying that wish. In a way, he wants to become an unforgettable and... Sat, 07 Jun 2008 20:58:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183460 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183418 Would you date someone your friend dated?<br /><br />Depends. If my friend was in a serious relationship with this person, than that would be a &#039;no&#039;. If it was just sex and fun, then my friend wouldn&#039;t mind if I dated their new &#039;friend&#039;. However, at the moment I wouldn&#039;t, because I&#039;m content with my current... Sat, 07 Jun 2008 20:52:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183418 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183389 What's in your house that's yellow?<br /><br />Table cloth in the dining room, place mats for the plates, curtains on the windows, lamps, my shirt... All I can think of at the moment. Sat, 07 Jun 2008 20:49:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183389 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183375 Do you personally believe that promises are made to be broken?<br /><br />No, I always keep the promises I make. I don&#039;t promise something I&#039;m not sure I can deliver, and I don&#039;t commit to anything unless I feel it&#039;s worth my time and effort. My father was the same way as me, but he&#039;d make you think he was promising something when he never... Sat, 07 Jun 2008 20:47:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3183375 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3176905 Have any guilty pleasures?<br /><br />Teasing my s/o. Takes me way too seriously some times. Fri, 06 Jun 2008 23:37:37 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3176905