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What do you think of when I say the word: EVIL? Dr Evil.

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Whats the difference b/w loving someone and being IN love with them? iv never really understood the whole"i love u but im not in love with u" thing... "I love you but I'm not in love with you" Often times it's a tactful (cowardly??!) way of telling someone you don't/no longer love them in the romantic sense. The difference between the two for me? I love my siblings and my closest friends. But I am not IN love with them. There is no passionate feelings of HAVING to be with them above anyone else . No...

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Later in life... what happens to the "pretty, smart,rich,narcissistic" people later in life? Like everyone else, they've gotten older.

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What do u do when a boy u love dont love u back? Know that there is nothing you can do to change his mind or heart. Keep your love for someone who wants to love you in return.

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Is there something to it when he says: your my youngest gf. your the only girl i've dated with brown hair.. Is this him saying he doesn't really care for me? It doesn't sound like anything more than him just making an observation. Instead why not talk to him? Ask HIM what he meant by what he says. Share your thoughts and feelings with him. And listen to his. Good luck!

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Is it true that you should never trust anybody 100%? Perhaps viewed in a more positive light... given that we humans are complex and even the most rational and self aware person can & will be motivated to act/react by unconscious forces at times. In that sense, yes I believe that statement to be true,

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Should straight people go `Gay` for one day a year? 'Gay For A Day' day? While its intention may be to unify people and engender greater understanding and tolerence... in actual fact it trivializes people who aren't playing at being gay. And suggests our sexuality is something that anyone can put on and off at whim - like a fancy dress costume.

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When/what made you realize that you were in love? When I *recognized* I was in love, it hadn't come as a revelation or something I'd even consciously considered or debated in my head. The knowledge was just *there*. And it didn't surprise me in the least. I can't think of any other way to explain it!

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If you could date one fiction character who would you choose? Brian Griffin

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Help - one of my best mates emmigrates to Australia on Sat to live with the love of her life. Her leaving party is this Fri - we need to make a giant Kangaroo as cheaply as possible - ANY IDEAS HOW? Make the giant kangaroo do what exactly??

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What is the difference between cute and cutex .. ? ; ) Current girlfriend/boyfriend. Former girlfriend/boyfriend.

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Do use a condom or any other sex toy? While they do come in many funky colours, I wouldn't have considered condoms as sex toys?!

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He says "SLUT" you say__________? Emotionally immature.

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Okay i have a girlfriend who apperently has a rep. of having sex, but she claims that they are not true and that she made out with someone. Should i belive her? Believe your girlfriend or the talk of others? If you trust her, then there's no contest who to believe is telling the truth.

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Are you as boring, hapless and generally emotionally cripple in real life as you are on Answerbag? Yes. Completely. It's very important to me, that I always maintain personal integrity.

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What's the secret to Mr. & Mrs. Claus' marriage? Separate holidays once a year.

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Does anyone here, actually have a life outside their own computerized world? Yes. Absolutely. I can easily log off whenever and attend to other things. I have no problems with staying disciplined about the time I spend online. For example I'm just about to turn off my computer as we speak. The Sims PS3 game will have been loading up in the meantime. Maintaining a healthy balance of interests I truly believe, is the key.

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I just realised i have pink lips... Not that pink but do you think it'll ruin my image as a boy? No it won't ruin your image as a boy. Or a man for that matter. Or indeed as a human being of either gender. It's indicative of blood flow in living creature with lips. If the blood isn't flowing, then somehow 'image' would be the very least of anyone's concerns I imagine.

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What is your favorite number and is there a reason why or did you just happen upon it? Number 9. Why? Dunno it just 'resonates' with me. Which in actuality, I believe is illogical, magical thinking. Nonetheless the number 9 - and all factors of - are considered the Skeptic's lucky numbers in Cosmic Lotteries. And when rolling the Dice of Divinity.

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What would you do if you find a conservative talk show host in your bed? A conservative talk show host?? Hmmm that'd probably be okay. But it could be an issue if they were one of those controversial ones.

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My friend just went into the adult section when I told her not to... She's pretty scared now, can you offer her some kind words? "...but let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals... Source: Desiderata alternatively, "... didn't I specifically ask you not to?? So don't come crying to me now! Source: My mum

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Have you heard of sockpuppet porn? See video. LMAO!! Sock it to me baby! That was funny!! Do you know though how long it takes to complete each movie? They're always having to look for the other missing one.

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Have you ever called a tadpole a "polliwog"? Yeah! I have!! I'd forgotten I did till now! In fact I suddenly feel inspired to find a preserving jar and head for a creek bed. "Bugger The Housework I've Gone Taddy-ing"

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Why do religious people want to take a beautiful girl and hide her away from the rest of the world? Don't know but it seems a pity, because girls just wanna have fun....

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Answerbag user keithold goes for level 100 and will reach it any minute from now. Will you join me to count down that moment , be a whitness of it and congratulate him by attending a party? Thanks! http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8284479 Congratulations keithold!

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Should we have a communications test to measure intellect instead of IQ tests? Wouldn't that be similar to an EQ (Emotional Quotient) test?

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Are you well educated yet dumb about relationships? Actually I'd more likely be the opposite.

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What is something you have trouble wrapping your mind around? Fanaticism in any shape or form.

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Describe your day in one sentence using rhyme? Sublime.

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I seem to end all or most of my comments with lol, what alternative would sound better? Did you know that always laughing at the end of making a comment or statement is often a gesture of feeling overly self conscious?? By laughing at the end you are trying to downplay your opinions and/or thoughts. Next time, boldly state your case/thoughts. And leave it up to others to lol!! :)

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_____________basket Hell in a handbasket.

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What are some things that would be totally useless when trying to trap a bear? Sound reasoning.

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Their is this girl in my class I flit and shw flirts back, lately she been telling me about how lousy her boyfriend. Is she hinting something here to me? Yep it's a clue that: A) she is not being honest with herself or her boyfriend. If he is so lousy why is she still with him? B) she is playing you for an ego boost

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Is it worth trying to return a sex toy to Amazon? The thing broke after 5 uses! It was only $10 though. I'd look at it as working out to be $2 per use. On that basis, was it such a bad buy?

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Whats constamated marriage? A consumated marriage is one where sexual intercourse has taken place.

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So i was messing around with my new guy and now he's backed off a bit. i'm thinking it might be coz well i'm due for a wax next week so i was a little natural. could i be right'? For argument's sake, let's say you are right. Do you really believe that a guy (or anyone for that matter) could be so shallow/fickle? And if he so, how genuine is he about you and the r/ship if he he could so easily be put off?

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To anyone I have offended I apologize. I hope you will accept the apology. I'll be out for the count for a while. Bye :-) Things mostly seem to deteriorate when we 'attack' the person instead of the question.

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Do you look good when you wake up or do you have "morning face" My morning face is evolving/devolving into "brunch face"!

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Do you hate it when someone gives 10 answers to the question and ruins the question for everyone else? I admit, I've done it. And it was very likely ego driven, rather than for points!

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Does anyone have any advice because i like this girl and i have asked her out, we have dated before but she just wont now, i need some advice to approach her better about it The issue to me sounds like it's not a matter of getting the approach right, but the fact that she doesn't want to be approached again. Seeing that you have already dated, she would very likely have decided that after you and she got to know each other a bit more - it wasn't going to be the r/ship for her.

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What might someone need a knife for? When you're cooking toast and it gets stuck in the toaster.

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Why are we often unsure who we have told a story or joke to? It most likely happens when it's more about wanting to tell a story that's particularly interested us or a joke that we've liked. The mindset is primarily wanting to relate the information for entertainment value rather then get feedback from any specific person or people. (Or something like that??!!)

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How do you like your playing cards: shiny & stiff, brand new out of the box - or - an easily bendable, well worn deck? I like them slippery so they can be dealt faster and don't stick together. A light sprinkling of talcum powder on each card can renew a deck!

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Is it better to fight for what is morally right and die for it or sit back and play it safe and live in misery? Life is rarely that dramatically polarized, for the most part.

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AHHHHH! GHDTDGFJKKNKNNNNNHNGYJHBTFY? Ha! The cat just jumped up on your keyboard didn't it!

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Do you really have the right to be upset with someones opinion when you asked for it? Right or wrong, we feel what we feel. Though when we specifically ask for someone's opinion, then we leave ourselves open to just that, their opinion.

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What do you have figured out? That it's less about what happens to us and more our perception of what happens to us that defines our state of mind.

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If i threw a rock at you, what will you do? Hopefully duck in time. Then question why you did it.

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What has a handle? An internet forum user. Or someone who is in control/has understanding of a situation. Though they would then be a 'who' not a 'what' ...oh well :)

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Can you name something that will never change? The inevitability of change. \\\\\\\ is inevitable.

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Who would like to snuggle? Normally yes, but the weather is far too hot at the moment to feel like it.

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What do you think of a co-worker who was extremely rude and wouldn't let you talk when you tried to talk to her about something she did that was inconsiderate. Then she made a public spectacle of herself by crying outside the front door. I think that maybe she had issues that were probably largely unrelated to the incident. I'd distance myself from her & this situation as much as was possible in the meantime. Unless she approached me first.

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Who whould win in a one legged race a one legged person or a unbalenced guy You'll never win anything with an unbalanced person.

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How do you get someone out of your memory? How do I get thoughts of my ex husband out of my mind. Sounds silly I know. I wish I did not think of him. I still feel something for him. He chose to divorce me and Im still hurt, why would I still feel like I m Sadly, from my experience there's no quick solution. It's only time that will lessen the memories. Finding acceptance meantime may help a little. Accepting that they have chosen to divorce you and maybe things may not have been all that you thought/hoped they were. At least from their perspective. Good luck.

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Would you wear the "shoes" shown in the link below? No. Definitely fetish material.

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Would you ever use this "welcome" mat? Tempted...not because I'd seriously mean it, just coz I think it would be funny :))

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Mind if I sit down? Can I buy you a round? Haven't seen your face before, Are you new in town? Sure you can sit down. :) However one more cliche and I'm gone!

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How do you feel about prostitution? How do you feel towards prostitutes? Like any profession/business. It can be conducted with integrity. Or not. Ditto the people involved.

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Would you rather someone sugarcoat the truth or just hear it bluntly? Well more inclined towards bluntly - but with a little tactfulness please :)

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If a persone you like is about to kiss another persone but gives you a sad look before kissing this guy what does that mean? Sad? Why was she being forced against her will to kiss him??

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Who should move out of the house, the cheater, or the cheated? Whichever arrangement is most practical. i.e if there are dependent children involved.

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What do you think of this story.. I cried when i first read it.. ( see my answer ) Honestly?? Schmaltzy!

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Do you believe in fate or is life just a bunch of unrelated random occurances? We can ascribe as much or as little meaning to what ever occurs in our life and outside of it.

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What are a few 'must have' qualities when finding someone to be with? (as in forever) Mental health. Emotional stability. Similar outlook on life. Similar level of intelligence. Similar goals.

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Girlfriend thinks it's ok to go out and get free drinks from guys at bars with her married sister. Its exciting. she told me she would get mad if i came in to the same bar and bought drinks for 2women at the other end of the bar. is itdouble standard? Yes. Without question.

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If a women is on the pill do you think the man in the relationship should remember when the pill needs taken everyday, or should it just be the women's? While I'm all for shared responsibility in a r/ship, I'm hoping (whilst still sound of mind and body)I can remember to take a tablet around the same time each day, unaided!

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What is the soup of the day? "NO soup for you!"

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What's another word for thesaurus? Uhmm...thesaurus

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FOR ALL AB MEMBERS Thought for the day. ..........Have you ever wondered if the one dollar bills in your wallet were ever in a stripper's butt crack? If not, you're wondering now. Have a nice day.. Oh, and don't forget to wash your hands. It doesn't bear too much thinking about where money has been period! I have read that 90% of all US$ analyzed had traces of cocaine on them.

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I'm 21 and 170cm tall . I'm quite tall for a 21-year old but I often date guys who are shorter than me and its quite obvious . I am okay with that but it just feels wierd when you go out and have people staring at you . what do you think? That would suck. As if you haven't got enough staring people to cope with when you have to bend down in low cut tops and mini skirts.

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I am a 13 year old male, and my cousin is around 12 and also male. A few weeks ago, we were daring each other to do stuff almost naked or naked, and I found out he doesn't know how to masturbate. I want to teach him, would that be bad? Is he the same 12 yr old cousin that also asked you about circumcision recently ?

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I often wear a low cut top and a mini skirt . when I bend down to pick up something , people often stare at either my boobs or my legs . how do I avoid this without changing my outfit? Is this the SAME outfit that you wore to your b/f parent's place?? Your clothes seem to give you a bit of grief.

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Wonder Women, Wonder Bread or Wonder Bra? Wonder Wall??

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There's guy who is in one of my classes, and i really like him, but we never talk to each other (he doesn't have anything to say to me). I've tried to strike up a conversation before, but he's not really interested. Help? A guy who's interested would make the effort - even if it was to stammer, blush, stumble & bumble! You baited the hook, he didn't bite. He's not the fish for you :)

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What goes up, must ______________. Fill in the blank. come down. Spinning wheels round and round...

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What if u had zero money and ur gf says u dont have to get her anything its ok, would u still get her something and what would u get her with no money? Make a card. Draw a picture. Write a love letter or a poem. Pick some wild flowers. Brush her hair. Present her with something of yours, that has meaning to you.

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When you're in a Relationship with someone you love, Do you pretty much say yes to anything that they ask of you? Within Reason of course. Not unconditionally, no. But always willing to hear them out and find some compromise.

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Did you fall in love quickly or did it take time to develop love for your special other? Neither. But I was in no doubt when I did.

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My GFs and I wonder, "Do porn stars ever have affairs with their leading men?" Do their husbands ever get jealous about their "work?" Can you imagine getting caught red handed with your leading man and telling the hubby "We're just rehearsing?" That's funny :) A (un) dress rehearsal at that! Yeah, it would be as problematic as proving a charge of sexual harassment in the work place...

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Does being on this site cure your loneliness, or does it make it worse, knowing your Friends on Answerbag, might not Really be your Friends in real life For me it's more about feeling more in touch, than about loneliness. The definition, criteria and expectations from online friendships and that of friendships IRL is different. Not comparable. Which is not to say, that an online friend couldn't become a friend IRL. I'm who I represent myself to be and I'd hazard a guess, hardly an anomaly there!

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OMG!!! Would you consider this guy the world's luckiest man? Whoa!!!! I confess, I nearly didn't bother to watch... Thanks for posting it. Ps a second and third viewing helps you really appreciate how truly amazing the whole thing was. I've gotta watch it again...

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My girlfriend looks at other guys and says stuff like, "hes hot," or "oh, hes pretty cute" and i dont think that she expects me to say anything about it. but if i say, "oh wow, shes pretty," or "shes kinda hot," i get bitched at. how do i deal with this? Just ask her straight out. "So how come it's okay for you to do that but not me??!"

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I met a girl in a party , and i really care for her but my friends want to rape her should i stick for the girl or my reputation? Your *reputation* or the girl is not the issue here. It's your screwball thinking that having friends who talk about rape is somehow matter of fact conversation .

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What men see in ugly women ? I have seen a lot of good looking guys with ugly wives. What is considered 'good looking' to one person may not be to another. The same goes for what someone considers 'ugly'.

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CAN you tell me what you really think of CHRISTMAS,even if you do not like Christmas,and if you do your thoughts too. At 48 I still feel a longing and nostalgia about Christmas. In reality I haven't recaptured those feelings I had as a child (and understandably so!) but to this day, the hope I will every Christmas morning, remains.

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What is average depth of an pussy? From the entrance of the vagina to the tip of the cervix is approx 3cm.

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Me and my bf had a fight and it was my fault,now he does not want me to call for the meantime,i asked for forgiveness a lot of time but he just ignore it,he said he will only talk to me when he is ready,please advice You can't force him to talk, but I'd ask myself about his level of commitment to you and your r/ship. Why he couldn't talk things over with you instead? What does it matter really in the end, proving whose right or wrong if you still care for each. Ideally it's about two people sorting stuff out together - not punishing the other person by withdrawing. It just...

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Which sex (male/female) loves their partner more? It's an individual thing. However it seems that when men do fall in love, they fall hard and fast. Or not at all.

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So, my mother in law is getting married, and im putting together a scrapbook with advice from strangers and loved once on how to stay married happy, sad... through it all..what your advice please respond?? Thanks! "Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of joy, you must have somebody to divide it with." - Mark Twain That's a lovely gesture to do for your mother-in-law. Good for you :)

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What is the best way to make a man fall in love with you? You can't make anyone fall in love with you. But that's what makes it so special.

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Do women prefer men shouldn't show how much you love her No! Not me. Unless of course, I didn't love him back.

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Does it hurt to shave your pubic hair? Also, will I get stuff like rashes, ingrown hairs, etc.? Please give me some tips for a first time shaver, because I've never shaved down there before and I'm pretty nervous. Use shaving foam formulated for Sensitive Skin. The disposable double bladed razors with a comfort strip are ^really^ worth paying a bit extra for. Moisturize the area daily with a non-perfumed sorbolene based moisturizer.

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What would you do if you miss someone you know ignore you? If they continued to ignore me, after a while I'd stop missing them.

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The guy that I am talking to thinks that all girls are liars. How do I convince him that I am not a liar? You can't convince him. Except maybe with time and by example. Then again why bother.

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If hate was a flavor what would it taste like? Like licking a leaking battery...

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Let's play the word association game! I'll start: forest. Forest...trees...dogs...

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What do you do when he no longer cares for you and ignores all of your calls. how do u move on from this and how do u know when your ready to have the courage to get up an leave.? You move on because you have no other realistic option when someone doesn't return your feelings. And when they've already got up and left, then there's nothing to stick around for. Nothing to leave because it's already left. Making a new start by yourself, that's the part that takes courage!

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What should I wear to my boyf's parents' place? the last time I wore a mini skirt and a low cut top to her place , she didn't approve of it . but its not even revealing ! what should I wear to please her? Asking what you should wear "to please her" (your b/f's mother) seems a bit skewed thinking somehow?? Putting the onus onto her - when it's entirely your choice whether you want to make more of it by what you wear there - or simply use common sense. Truly it isn't that complicated.

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Person A tells something to Person B. Person B feels bad about this. Now, Is it the fault of Person A to have spoken that way? OR Is it the fault of Person B to have taken it that way? Maybe it wasn't either person's fault. Just the way that the two people involved, reacted in that particular situation .

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Do you believe that viewing porn (soft and non-nude included) is immoral? No. Then again I don't believe viewing 'hard' porn and nudity is immoral either. With the overriding disclaimer, that all parties are of age and consensual.

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What is one of your GOOD habits? Returning things I borrow from others.

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You want to borrow my shovel? Give me a good reason why! Because it will be returned to you promptly and in good condition as it left you! :)

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Are you in a relationship where your s/o has Commitment phobia? Fortunately no. When I hear of someone being 'committment phobic', I can't help but wonder whether it's as much about the person not wanting to be committed to that particular person. And it's a way of softening the blow, in lieu of telling the other person, they're not the type of partner they're looking for. And if they truly are 'committment...

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What are some good ideas for a first date with someone that you met online. (Preferably cheap) A walk in a park and an icecream and feed the ducks??... Where ever it is, make sure a friend knows where you are going to be. Take a phone with you. Meet in a public place where there are lots of people about. And have a quick escape route planned if things don't pan out as you hoped or expected.

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How do i deal with a man that keeps on coming and going with me and one minute wants me in his life the next he doesnt and cheats on me.he tells me he loves me the next he treats me like garbage what can i tell him or do? Seriously. Cut your losses. Nothing you can say or do will change how he is. There's a really great book and an easy read, "He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Behrendt I honestly couldn't rate it highly enough and the positive impact it had on my views on men & dating. All the best.

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"Sorry Jim, I've decided to give the promotion to Barbara here"--as the boss lightly patted Barbara on her behind. Now, Jim worked there longer, and had more experience. Does this scene seem FAMILIAR to anyone? A porn scene??

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I been with my guy 8 years we are going through cheating issues and he told me that he wants to live for today because the future isn't promised. What does that say about a relationship? He isn't committed to you or the r/ship.

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Do you tend to doubt yourself a lot? Less and less. And when I do it doesn't throw my entire equilibrium our of balance. That's a decided bonus of getting older!

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Are you a physically affecionate person? Not especially with people other than those very close to me. Having said that, I have a grudging admiration, envy even for people who are very 'open'.

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My girlfriend that i broke up with recently said the only way she will take me back is if i change my number and delte my myspace is this right? Your question seems posed in such a way as to elicit a specific response possibly to suit your end. Why did your girlfriend ask you to do this?

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Are you like everybody else? Yes, for the most part. And I'm content with that.

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HOW SHOULD I READ THIS? i met a guy about two months ago and started talking. we got on very very well. joking and lauging. we went on our first date on monday and we both agreed that we both had an amazing time. he left. i wasnt expecting a txt but late Wait for him to reply now. Try not to let you insecurities get the better of you! Easier said than done I know, but just let go and let it find its own course for now. Especially when it's all so new.

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Maybe I'm being silly but... My bf (32 y/o) has a large sexual past. He says he loves me more than anybody else before but,can someone with such a "conquer list" REALLY fall in love? You can fall in love without having sex. You can have sex without falling in love. You can have both at the same time.

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Can you give me three words which sound the same but are complete opposite, ex: orange-orange Raise - Raze Peel - Peal Boy - Buoy Load - Lode Net - Nett Sun - Son Loan - Lone Fate - Fete Mat - Matte Gate - Gait Sign = Sine Rain - Reign Dane - Deign Feet - Feat Meat - Meet Bean - Been Jean - Gene Seen - Scene Teem - Team Know - No Row = Roe Sew - So Toe - Tow Where - Wear Tare - Tear Stair - Stare Fair - Fare Pair - Pear Bare - Bear Tear - Tier Beau - Bow ...

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If ONE more person steps to the mike, and says, "Throw your hands in the air. And wave'em like you just don't care!!!", I'd say, "Let's BUMRUSH the MC, up there. And beat him--til he stops breathing air!!!!" What say you? Yeah!! Why not?! We'll SHAKE it like it's hot!!

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I have just been accepted as a COAT, I'm not sure what COAT I want to wear though. Do you have any ideas? If you're hoping for a really good end result...

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If you laugh your head off what happens next?lol You'll just have to shoulder the burden of being headless.

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If you have a pet hate..do you hate your pet? :)) yeah and if it's raining cats and dogs does that mean you've stepped in a poodle?

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Name of person , animal , food and city all starting with the letter P Penelope Possum purchased pancakes in Paris.

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My wife had an affair with another man, I forgave her and show that I love her so why does she keep pushing me away? Why does she not show remourse, Why wont she let allow anyone to help her? I usually avoid making blanket statements from limited information... but from what you write, she doesn't want help. She wants out. She sounds like she is all but physically gone.

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If I told you that I was actually a cannibal, would you believe me? I'd find that hard to swallow.

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How would you handle it if you didn't like your child's friends? Ask myself what is it about them I don't like. Is it because I think they are a negative influence on my child? Perhaps I feel they aren't an overly good friend to him/her? Or simply that I don't particularly like their personality type? Understanding why you feel a dislike for them, may give you more clarity to handle the situation.

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There are jerks and then there are nice guys... but what do women think about the guys in the middle, and what do you call them? Balanced. Average. Regular. And to my mind at least, they are good things.

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Recently my partner told me that he no longer had romantic feelings for me. He cited my inability to provide him with the quality of advice and support he needed. He is the great love of my life. How do I win back his heart and show him we're meant to be? It might be a very difficult undertaking. <<He cited my inability to provide him with the quality of advice and support he needed>> His statement strongly suggests that he has differing expectations and wants from what he has in this r/ship. To lose romantic feelings really spells the end. It's not easy to recover. Especially if they don't feel they want to find...

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What are some sweet things to say to a girl that you like? If you are at stage of asking her out or just beginning to date - forget the sweet stuff for now until you know her better and you can make the sweet stuff personal and about her - meantime just be natural, friendly and use your manners! She'll still know without the 'verbal flowers' that you like her and whether you appeal to her or not.

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My chiuld just gotta B+ on hur spelling test. Do u thinck its wright for me to spanck her? No. She already has enough to deal with. Having a lame humored parent...

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Recently many guys stare at my breasts when i go out. A friend of mine told me to kick them in the balls next time. Have any girs done this? But what about the guys YOU might like the look of who have looked at you? Surely kicking THEM in the nuts could be cutting your nose off to spite your face.. Did your genius friend consider that?

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Why do women still choose the jerk over an assertive yet nice guy with character? I'm thinking that as an adult comparing other's unfavourably with ourselves could intimate a certain pettiness and pervasive character trait. Perhaps some women pick up on this?

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Whats the difference between a double major and just picking up a minor? One is potentially a criminal offence.

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If you too tired to agrue and fight what do you do? Sleep.

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My sister-in-law (my husband's sister) has accused her husband of having an affair with me. I am disgusted at her accusations and very much offended. My husband know better and says not to pay much attention to her. What should I do? You've denied her accusations. There isn't much else you can do besides ignore her as your husband suggested. It's very likely that it's an issue between her and her husband and she is unable to cope with it. Is there any reason at all, not matter how small that may have prompted her to single you out? Have you thought about talking with her? Asking her if she...

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What is it called when someone says they will do something for you if you do something for them FIRST, but they really won't (won't put any specifics in writing, has broken oral agreements in past) and are just using the "offer" to get what they want? Being conned.

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Is porn fake? Define fake? Is the story line scripted? Yes Is the sex real? Yes Are the actors, acting? Probably...

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What would you do if your significant other never says "I love you" and claim they don't like using the "L" word but they care for you and would take a bullet for you? It's unlikely that they will ever be put in the position of literally having to take a bullet for me. So that wouldn't mean a whole lot. I'd probably believe while they truly may care for me, they also weren't in love with me. And that wouldn't be enough for me to want to stay.

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What have you gotten for your troubles for falling in love? Being loved.

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If you love someone, would you let them leave you because that's what they think they want, or would you fight for them? (Fight figuratively, of course! :D) It's not up to me to "let" someone leave me or not. That's their decision to make. And theirs alone. Whether I 'fight' for them or not. In the end they will do exactly as they want to do. And I wouldn't want it to be any other way.

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Would you continue to love someone if s/he is lukewarm towards you? No. For me to continue to feel love for someone, I'd want and expect to be loved in return. It's a soul destroying and pointless exercise otherwise.

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If you you were going to leave your estate to a charity, which one would it be? RSPCA. Royal Society Of Prevention Of Cruelty To Animals.

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Im in a relationship wit a married guy, we have yet met in person, he claims he loves me lots & wants to be wit me, he just need time to settle his current status coz his wife is ill-health (depression), at present, there's no love between him & his wife. His wife won't give her husband privacy so he can plan a new life with another woman. And insists knowing details about what her husband is actually chatting about. Little wonder he wants to be rid of the interfering, clingy old dragon. Nonetheless though ( apart from when he is spending "lots of time on web cam) he is otherwise fully committed to helping her recover from her...

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If love can end then why love at all? It is as much about the journey - as it is about the destination.

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Is it just me or is this month (October) really dragging on & on? Nope jessalin. It is just you I'n afraid.

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My mate sed he saw a pink rabbit. What drug do u think he is on? lol Obviously some drug that alters the pigmentation in a rabbit's pelt.

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Im in a relationship wit a married guy, we have yet met in person, he claims he loves me lots & wants to be wit me, he just need time to settle his current status coz his wife is ill-health (depression), at present, there's no love between him & his wife. Which part is the main stumbling block to happy ever after? His current marital status? That you've yet to meet in the flesh? That a depressive illness is not something that you can put a get well expiry date on, like a case of measles? Or that you have no way of verifying the facts of what he has told you?

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Does a person really ever lose that "loving feeling" for another person in their life? Yes. Or to the degree that memories of that person may still surfaced from time to time. Beyond that however, that same person no longer influences not impacts upon your present life or future plans.

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Do you let your love flow freely? ...like a mountain stream!

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Should someone who sexually assults someone ( 4th degree) and then later Rapes another (1st degree) be considered a serial rapest? A violent sex offender?

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I think when you send text messages you are charged per letter which is why people abbreviate. What if you had a "counter" implanted in your brain and were charged per letter for each time you spoke? Would speech die? Idk...prolly.

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Would you ever jump off a balcony knowing you may brake a few bones for money? A bumper sticker... "I Brake For Cash"

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What is your policy when dealing with friends who start feeding you with a whole bunch of lies about themselves? Eliminate all bovine byproducts from my diet immediately and permanently.

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After break-up will accept being friends ifyou are still desperately in love with the person? If I'm still in love with them? Not unless I want to further torture and torment myself. And NO, they won't suddenly realize they ARE in love with me after all, if I just stick around long enough either.

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Okay, which guy would you pick to date? A) Good looking, sweet, talented (amazing body) travels for work and is away at least half the year. B) Gorgeous, British, poetic visits the US several times a year but is anorexic. Option A. That was a very easy choice to make! I have a r/ship rule for myself. Only room to fully pander to one person's neuroses in a r/ship. And I always 'bags' that role first.

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Have you been in love with someone who treated you like dirt? Still, you clung to them. Why? Mud sticks.

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What's it called if you aren't friends but have slept together a few times, and still keep in touch (even when they move across the state) and call each other at random times but never meet up. Convenient.

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Why do so many women (and even men) feel the parson they are cheating with will leave their spouse to be with them? Especially if they have been in the affair for years and the other person has not come close to leaving yet. I'm not certain, but perhaps even in this day and age, many people still like to believe a person of the cloth would be sincere and someone who would be true to their word, eventually at least.

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Would you rather a house-shaped dog or a dog-shaped house? Well either one really... both would provide you with a roofff over your head!!

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Aren't ice cubes cool? The ones I've come across seemed kinda square...

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What should be the charge against the two pilots that missed the airport because they were playing around on their laptops? Looking on the bright side, it would have been more catastrophic if they hadn't missed the airport, I guess...

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Should women weed out "toxic" friends? I might give them a spray first, but if that doesn't make any difference - yep, weed them out. Prune off the dead wood... clear space for new ones.

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My ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago because she has been to busy for a relationship and wasnt sure what she wanted. Since then in the very sparse contact I have had with her she has said she still doesnt know what she wants and hopes we can ... Truthfully? I think she is trying to soften the blow/avoid any major confrontation. She wants out of the r/ship altogether. I really do believe that people can always seem to find the time for the things they want to do. Work may "cool down" for her, then there will be some other reason why she hasn't got the time or energy to give you. Give her space she needs or...

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Are you good at reading body language and facial expressions? Providing I avoid (as much as is possible )projecting my own thoughts, feelings and wishes onto the other person, then yeah I'm quite perceptive usually.

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My husband is hours late coming home from work, wont answer his phone. im trying not to think the worst, but with his history of cheating....any words get my mind off of the worst? Given that he has a history of cheating, together with what is happening now - to get your mind off the worst, would be like crossing the street to avoid having to speak to yourself. Or like gathering up bits of your heart & soul, shoving the lot back in the wardrobe and closing the door quick before it all falls out again...?? Perhaps you still want/need to maintain the marriage...

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When ppl say he wants to get back together with you...how do you know if there just meessing with you or not? If you b/f tells you privately face to face, that he wants to get back together then maybe they weren't... Until such time, anything anyone else says is mostly just hot air.

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Your cheek is red ......what happened? I'm not sure if I embarrassed myself or not...

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My ex bf was feeling another guys leg a copule months ago and he woulndnt stop untill the guy said he liked it....what does that mean? That he's persistent AND a bit pushy...

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To women: How do You feel about a premature ejaculator? (see link) :) Huh?! Come again?

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Is there no such thing as a "bad vegetable"? Hmmm dunno... I knew this potato some years ago and man, he had a serious chip on his shoulder.

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I have a secret crush on this guy but he has a girlfriend. But then he invited me over to his house to watch a movie alone, and he acted really flirtatious. Why would he do that? His girlfriend had already seen the movie??

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What's the acceptable limit of physical contact for married people? Recently was at my coworker's farewell party, and my wife was sitting on some guys lap while playing Craniam. My friend said that's not acceptable, but I thought its a innocent gesture Trying to imagine myself in the same situation... and all I can think of is what would motivate me to do want to do it in the first place?? ps craniam? did you mean cranium? As in head? 'Playing head??'...

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Lefties: Have you faced any difficulties being left-handed, and in the minority? (I think my baby is a leftie!) No, nothing that hasn't been anything more than momentarily inconvenient. Being forced to use your non dominant hand (as was once common practice in schools) would be very distressing and can cause learning difficulties. Being left or right handed involves much more than simply the hand with which we write with. Given that being either left or right handed is determined by...

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Are you looking for a partner right now? Yeah, I just can't for the life of me remember where I'd put him down last.

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Does rejection ever stop hurting? Probably not. But it can be more quickly overcome with experience.

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Wouldn't world be a better place to live in if instead of 6 billion people, only 3 million people would live on this planet? Maybe. So who among is going to put their hand up to be one of the 3 million to sacrifice themselves for the greater good??!

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Would you laugh if a complete BITCH/WHORE you knew got pregnant and doesn't know who the father is? No, what for? But do find it 'funny' why someone would expend so much anger over someone else's life. And describe them in such belittling terms. It's really saying more about their own selves than someone else and their less than perfect life choices. That's probably the funny part.

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If you went through 'Hell' what would you emerge with? Singed eyebrows?

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My bestie is in LOVE w/ a married man,he LOVES her2(both r my friends) Hes had probs w his wife way before meeting my friend.Now loves my friend so he asked 4divorce.She threats 2kill herself and harm my friend.she thinks its my friends fault.ANY ADVICE? Yes, be her friend but stay out of the rest of it. It's his wife and his marriage. And for the couple involved to sort out.

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What do you think about sexless marriages? It may very well work for some if they are both content with the way things are.

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How would you react if you discovered your husband had a large sum of money in a separate account? He says he had it before you were married, but he would share some of it with you. Surprised and very curious as to why he chose not to tell me about it when we were preparing to get married. Begin to question what other secrets he may be keeping. And wonder if he would have told me, had I not discovered it. Definitely would shake my trust and belief in how well we really know each other.

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Do men really have emotions? That might sound stupid but it would really help if someone could just give me faith back heh. -lol i chose deep thoughts- How many love song have been written by men? How many poets are male?

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Ladies: What do you see first in a man of the following choices(you can list in order if you like)? - 1) eyes 2)Smile 3)body 4)personality 5)spirit. What I see *first* in a man? 1. Overall body type/height 2. Smile & Eyes equal second 3. Spirit & personality for me usually reflect the other.

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Isn't it interesting how people like the movie maker Michael Moore, denounce Capitalism, while they themselves are making money hand over fist because of capitalism? Such hypocrits. Isn't that assuming in the first instance, that their prime motivation is to make money?

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Women, would you object if I placed my jacket in a puddle, or would you step on it to avoid getting your shoes dirty? I'd object because it's silly! Why should my shoes not get dirty any more than your jacket should?

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After watching a movie, play, or tv show with someone else, how interested are you normally in their opinion/critique? Very interested. I do find it most enjoyable when it's in the form of a discussion where we put forward reasons for our point of view.

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Can you describe yourself in one word using the letter "R"? Reasonable.

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LOL or LMAO LMFAO??!!

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Do you believe in karma or is it just a way to console ourselves? A consolation. Right and wrong can be highly subjective.

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Am I crazy or is this life?? Help...? I have been having allot of crazy thoughts going through my head. First things first though, 2 years ago my husband cheated on me with one of his coworkers (who happened to quit before I found out), she was telling ev Maybe it's because you haven't dealt with your feelings about you husband cheating on you. Have you and he discussed it? Is he willing to be open with you about what happened?

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Have you any dating rules that you have picked up along the way? The date may go really well, but that doesn't guarantee that there'll be a follow up date. It's more than likely that it's nothing to do with what you did or didn't do 'right' - just that the 'spark' wasn't there for them. Of course, it works equally in reverse too!

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What should a relationship with your brothers girlfriend be like? Potentially like any r/ship. Some people we simply get on better with than others. Relatives or not. In these situations, for the sake of your r/ship with your brother and as a show of respect for someone he cares about, his g/f - then it's worth making a special effort to find some common ground with her.

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Has something totally out of the blue happened to you which has turned your world upside down in a good way? If so, what and is it still good? Well one could argue it's not a really dramatic event ... but that was a (very) spontaneous decision to get a dog. And subsequently 3 cats. That was 3 years ago. Their presence in my life has given me a deeper appreciation and regard for ALL living creatures. And a good feeling about myself being a consistent, responsible caring pet owner. So yes, globally not overly...

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Do u watch Family Guy? Yes! Never tire of it. Brian especially rocks!

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I love my best friend but afraid to propose her please tell me beat way to propose her Propose? As in marriage? Is she even aware that you are in love with her?

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How many tasks do you do during a typical day? Too many to count. It would be far more productive however, if I tackled 1/10 of those tasks and actually saw them through to completion.

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Has anyone ever divorced their husband to marry their lover? How did it work out? My boyfriend is encouraging me to divorce my husband and marry him. Depends. Would you be divorcing to be with your lover? Or divorcing because your marriage is over? A subtle but important distinction. Then again if your husband knows how you're feeling, the decision may well be made for you.

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Do you enjoy tormenting people just for fun? No. Never. Torment + fun is an antithesis. And indelibly stains the souls of both the tormentor and the tormented.

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When is a good time to 'see the light'? During your 'darkest hour'.

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If your childhood had a taste, what would it be? Salty and sugary and sticky.

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What are the qualities that you admire most in a person? Empathy, the ability to relate to and laugh about themselves and the human condition, reliability, fair & reasoned thinking. Kindness towards all living creatures.

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My folks want me to be with a guy who's wealthy but I want to marry for love. Am I wrong? I feel that being with a guy b/c of money isn't a good reason for a relationship. They won't accept ANY guy unless they approve of his wealth/status. AM I wrong? Is it a 'wealthy' guy your parents want for you? Or more, a man who has a job and means that enable him to provide well for his wife and family?

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I was with my boyfriend for 2 years and we broke up a little over a week ago and everyone i am still in contact with in his family says they think we will be bk together if we do would it be wrong to ask him to get tested for stds? Any of his family can think you could get back together again but that really doesn't mean much. The only person who knows whether they want to get back together, is your ex boyfriend. And until that time, if it happens - thinking about STD tests is largely irrelevant.

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MEN: Do you think withholding information that your S/O would want to know is lying even if you are just doing it to avoid a fight? When we withhold information from a S/O it's usually an ass saving exercise. And it begs the questions; What am I actually protecting myself from? And am I being fair if I'm withholding information from my S/O that impacts them and precludes them from making informed decisions? It makes for a 'stacked in you favour' playing field. Where the 'winner'...

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Is it wrong to expect a single dad to involve you in his kids' lives after 2 years of dating? He and I don't do things with the kids, at all, and I'm close to breaking up, even tho I love him, because of it. I've tried, but he won't plan anything. It's a big issue and definitely a potential deal breaker, I agree. It also seems indicative of a certain distance in the r/ship itself. After two years of dating, surely by sheer proximity you and he and the kids would have found yourself in the same place? If you are an important part of his life, then it would seem a natural progression that this would include wanting you to...

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What is something you should not use as lube for sexual activities? Sports liniment.

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Right or wrong . my girlfriend left me because i would not let her 14 year old daughters kids smoke at the dinner table Most likely wrong. A r/ship that is otherwise working well can usually withstand differing points of view. There's every chance if not this incident then it would be some other issue and the r/ship would have fallen over in time anyway.

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True or false? You have a special place that you can go so you can be alone? True. That place is my house. And I feel very fortunate for that.

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Dont you hate it when people dont own up to their mistakes? Yep it can be very frustrating. Especially if they blame someone/something else and constantly complain about it being out of their control to auger any changes.

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Do you think your life would be the same without television? No it wouldn't. While I enjoy other's company, like doing other things... I also like watching television every bit as much!

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Do you think u can still work out a marriage even if you are not 100percent sure you really want to marry that person in the first place? Probably not. But it may be worth your while to candidly explore what aspects are causing you doubts. Then make your decision from there.

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Why are you still there? What are you waiting for? "Hope springs eternal" versus "Flogging a dead horse" A self imposed dilemma, alas.

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Whats the deal? a womans best friend is a diamond and a guys best friend is a dog . A dog over a diamond for me too!

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When my husband is drunk he says things that we contradicts when he's sober . So when is he telling the truth? He has issues with alcohol consumption. That's the biggest truth he is telling you.

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Can a man sue his wife for sexual harassment because of continued unwanted sexual advances? Surely a maturely adult and realistic approach is to divorce the spouse on grounds of incompatibility??? Not to mention more dignified for all concerned...

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What was the worst prize you ever won in a contest? A VERY VERY large bag of dry dog food! Had to go up on stage to be presented with my prize. I didn't have a dog at the time. Now I do. So I guess in this instance, being a 'bad' prize was relative in its timing :)

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How do you get a girl to invest in a relationship not necessarily money The only way it will truly happen, is if the girl decides you are the type of person that appeals to her. (It seems to work that way in reverse to!)

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What is one food that you can eat over and over again that you never seem to get tired of eating? Baked beans on toast!

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Can you name me a song with a number in the title? 'Eight Days A Week' - The Beatles '500 Miles' - The Proclaimers '24 Hours From Tulsa' - Gene Pitney '99 Red Luft Balloons' - Nena 'My Sweet 16' - Billy Idol

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There are times when I will not give anyone's answer points because I don't want my answer to be all alone without any. Does anyone else think this way? No, not at all. It would seem petty & unhelpful to withhold points for an otherwise relevant answer just so my answer had 'company'. Pointless all round.

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Does 'i dont wanna be in a relationship' always mean 'i dont wanna be in a relationship WITH YOU'? 99.9% of the time, yes.

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Bf of 2.5 yrs: When we met he said he didnt talk to his exes. A yr later we fought and he said he'd still be together with an ex if it wasn't for long distance. The other day I found out they still IM/facebook. Am I wrong to want him to cut contact? I'd think it was the right thing to do, for him to cut contact. Any contact with ME that is! I couldn't continue to be second best to an ex. Whether they lived in the North pole or in the next street.

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Are you lookin' at me? No seriously, are you lookin' at me? Seriously nup. Not to the extent that it's an issue - coz I can just as easily NOT look at you too!

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My girlfriend of 3 1/2 years won't let me cum inside her. She's on the pill, were committed, but she's still afraid of getting pregnant and she want's to save something for after marriage. Am I a jerk for thinking this is silly? No not a jerk for thinking it's silly. Only jerky attitude, if you don't at least try to understand her and acknowledge her feelings on the matter.

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When I tell you "don't sweat the small stuff". What do you think I am talking about? Not over personalising situations involving bad drivers, crappy service or talk back radio programs!

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My roomate thinks that if I leave something in his car or room longer than 24 hours then it belongs to him. Is there a name for this disorder? A distorted sense of entitlement. Always try and keep track of where you leave any person you're dating.

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Can you ever let a woman know she is cute or beautiful too many times? Yes. When she is not interested in the person who is telling her.

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I have just fin my 5th serious relationship & worried I will muck up my next. I suffer badly with trust and jealousy. However I normally find my fears to be justified as they all have cheated/lied. I'm worried I'm too damaged to try again. Before you venture into another r/ship, it could be worth your while to take a break and have a tough and realistic look at the type of person you keep falling for and understand why you do.

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You're a guy: How do you get a 'hard to get' female to go out with you?:) Thank you All:) I understand what you're asking, but throw this out there too... however 'hard to get' she is, unless she fancies you as well then any effort on your part ultimately is going to be futile. Good luck!

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Whats the most annoying sound that you hate and it tends to bring out the evil in you? Someone whistling a tune. I know it's probably unreasonable to find it so annoying, but it grinds my gears big time!

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I recently went grocery shopping with a friend,she spent $150,most of it was on expensive meats & gourmet food to feed her 3 dogs.I kept quite but I thought it's wasteful & blasphemous for anyone to feed an animal in such manner ! What are your thoughts? If she had kids and they were going without, bills unpaid - then sure it's insane. But hey I think there's a lot worse things you can 'waste' money on! A lot worse things you can do, than indulge your pets. Whose companionship is obviously very important to her well being.

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Are you right handed or left handed? Very much left handed. I don't think I'm especially creative (as is believed of left handers) but I can write upside down mirror writing! How I discovered that 'talent' I've no idea....

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Do you eat big, saucy, messy burgers in public where others can see you? Yeah, though I'd eat it far more carefully than I would if it was in my own home. Eating really sloppily in public is quite gross and antisocial!

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Do you consider yourself to be "normal?" Why or why not? Yes, I consider myself normal. My thoughts, opinions, reactions & actions are much the same as the majority.

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Why am I jealous of other girls on an emotional level even though my logical mind knows better? He isn't cheating(as far as I know) but he doesn't treat me well and admits as much. What on earth do emotional/logical/jealous mindsets have to do with anything in this situation??? You say he doesn't treat you well and actually admits to it. What more do you need to read into that??!!

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For those that live alone: do you use the bathroom with the bathroom door open? Always open. Wouldn't even occur to me to close it. The dog would only whine and scratch at a closed door anyhow!

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When you know your boyfriend doesn't treat you well cause he's admitted it and he goes out of his way to be attentive to another girl.. is it just too obvious? Obvious that he's just not that into me?? Very, very obvious. I wouldn't need to hear it a second time!

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Do not walk behind me, for I may not lead. Do not walk ahead of me, for I may not follow. Do not walk beside me for I might _________________________. inadvertently trip you up.

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I really fancy this girl who I am a good friend with. Problem is, so does my mate and he isn’t such good friends with her. He wants me to find out if she likes him and he doesn’t know how I feel. What should I do? Will it ruin both friendships? Simply it's not your role to find out how she feels about your friend. That's his gig. Yours is to see where YOU stand, by asking her out if that's what you want to do.

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I have just broke up with boyfriend i love him very much but we are suppose to hate each other cus we a big fight wot do i do i still love him . You don't have to hate someone you've loved just because of an argument! But what you can do, depends not only on whether you want to get back together, but whether they want to work things out too.

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What do you do if your friend is marrying someone wrong for them? Say your piece to them. Then let it go. As hard as it can be, we don't get to decide for other adults what is right or wrong for them.

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A man said to me that he thinks all women are prostitutes, what would you think about this particular person? That he has some very deep seated anger issues regarding women in general.

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What do you think of women who do not wear bras? I have heard alot people say girls not wearing panties as nasty but when it come to bra its either no reaction or that ok? What your opinion? Personal choice. But bras do serve a practical purpose at times. Ps, I've personally never heard even one person ever comment 'that girls not wearing undies is nasty' How do these people know whether the person is wearing undies or not?? That's the disturbing part!

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Okay question im 20 years old and i have two kids and i rent a house does that make me a good mama or a slutty mama and there both by the same dude we still together How you treat your children, in my opinion is what defines what kind of mother you are. The other stuff is far less relevant.

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What is the craziest fortune cookie you ever got? Mine was "Buying more chinese food is good for your health." O_O 'This insert has a protective coating'

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I want to impress my bf he earns so much and he makes me feel so under him ... It's like he doesn't need to impress me anymore bcause he's good looking and succesful wat can I do to be as good Relationships aren't meant to be a competition. But a mutual acceptance of the weaknesses and acknowledgement of the strengths that EACH person contributes to the r/ship. No matter how fantastic you consider your b/f, he'd have his flaws and insecurities.

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How can you counter an insult? For example: A.Fuck You B. Sorry I'm not gay. Silence. It's often the loudest insult of all.

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How would you rate your lovemaking? PG-13, R, X, XX or XXX Yet To Be Classified.

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Are you baffled/ surprised by the amount of secrecy and privacy people are prepared to give up, by posting their profiles and day to day banter on social networking sites such as MySpace, Twitter and Facebook? Surprised and kind of impressed even!

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What's a good gender-ambiguous name for a girl? Ashleigh, Billie, Bobbie, Brodie, Danni, Georgy, Jacquie, J'amie, Jesse, Kelly, Kieran, Kym, Leslie, Madison, Mickey, Nicky, Peta, Rikki, Sammi, Toni.

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Why do men, even unattractive men, think that they are qualified to make comments about women's looks? "A cat can look at a king"

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After I had sex with a guy for the first time he stops talking to me and calls me a slut, when I confornt him. Is it ok to post something mean on his facebook wall? If so what should I post so that others know how terrible he is? Honestly why would you bother with him any further? Whatever you wrote is just going to draw attention to yourself. I doubt it's going to affect him, more likely just something to twist around to snigger over with his mates. Silence is your best and most dignified response.

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My boyfriend of over a year confessed to me that about 8 months ago he had texted his ex-girlfriend saying that he thought they were going to hook up after she got a boob job. They never hooked up. What do you think? That he must have either just reached puberty or is intellectually challenged. What type of guy even *thinks* like this? To his credit though, he was honest about telling you something you probably wouldn't have found out otherwise.

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Do you wear your wristwatch on your right arm or left....And do you notice when someone is wearing it on the opposite wrist of you? I wear watch on my right hand. I thought it was because I'm left handed. But I have noticed right handed people who also wear their watch on their right hand. And yes, I do notice stuff like that :)

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I aked my partner to move in is it okay to ask for rent even if my house is paid off This is your partner yes? Not a friend? Wouldn't it be something you'd discuss jointly ? Assuming that you are both committed to the idea of sharing a life - isn't sharing the financial responsibilities and living expenses part of the r/ship?

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Ii need to know how to tell a guy that you like him but you don't think he likes you and i want to tell him but i cant because he is in 2 of my classes! how do ii tell him?? please help me! Make eye contact, smile at him and say hi next time you see him. He'll know then that you like him. If he seeks you out to talk to you after that, then you'll know he likes you. And if he doesn't respond then you'll know he's not for you.

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I buy my cat toys and what does he want to play with? Remote control, pen, rubber band, and his favorate my phone card for the lap top. You? Recently I bought my cats a scratching post with a tunnel attached. They had a great time playing. In the cardboard box it came in.

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It is said some people are 'born evil' do you think thats true? I do think it's possible that a small percentage of people are born without a conscience or the ability to empathize.

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If i give my 3 week boyfriend, a card, and a massive bar of chocolate for his birthday.. is that enough?..is that lame? ... advice? :) (he'll be 16) Truly that's plenty! And it's thoughtful (assuming he does like chocolate!)without being over the top. And not a gift that is too personal too soon. Three weeks is a very new r/ship.

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The guy I'm dating compares me to his ex all the time. He's told me stuff like she only wears pads, where she gets her fave burgers and what she'd do if someone looked at her funny. He says I'm insecure but am I crazy to think he's not ready to move on? <she only wears pads>>, that really is more than you need to know about his ex g/f. No you're not crazy, he's still processing the break up.

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How many new starts can someone fit into a lifetime? As many as you need.

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Is it true that dogs have a master but cats have a staff As someone who has both, I'd say there is a fair bit of truth in that. My cats do seek out affection from me, but still it's on their terms and when they decide. Still I love dogs and cats equally. Yet for qualities unique to their species.

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My ex-boyfriend of 2 months got me pregnant and left me... hasn't called me in 2 weeks, does he deserve to know i had an abortion? Deserving to know or not? Well he hasn't shown any concern for you so far. How would you benefit or what do you hope for by telling him?

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How can you know if your exbf still in love with you If he told me that he wanted to be with me again. And did something about it. ***Why did you ask this in the 'Abusive relationships' category though?

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"I dont give a damn"...did you ever feel like this? It's rather more that I'd think ... "Ok <shrug> whatever."

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Do you like spending more time alone or more time around people? I do like people by and large! But I'm happiest by myself or with someone else who also enjoys being alone. (A contradictory statement, I know) :)

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What is One thing a Parent should Teach their Child? Personal responsibility.

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Someone on freecycle was giving away a pig and said "pet only not to be killed". When did it become to the point that you tell people how to use your "free stuff".? Well strictly speaking you can't. But while you are still in possession of that free item, then it doesn't seem unreasonable to stipulate how you would best like it utilised. However once you have relinquished it then you no longer have a say. In this instance though, we *are* talking about a sentient being. I'd have no qualms about putting provisos on the pig's...

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What is color is love? Love is color blind.

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Women, assuming I don't get married again, I'm planning retirement for about 25 years from now. What do you think of older guys on cruises who get paid to dance with/escort you? I think it would be a good gig. Free vacations, good food and other FUN stuff I'm kind of hoping I'd still have enough to offer, that I'd be able to find someone to be with who found my company payment enough.

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I was watching the Tyra Banks show today and it was about a 16 year old girl who is a stripper and says that she would have sex for money and l8er on she would get into the sex industry and her father was totally ok with it! What do u think about that? I'd say she's a bit confused. Or naive. Then again at 16 that's understandable I s'pose. If you are working as a stripper and would have sex for money, you are already in the sex industry. I dunno about her father, but isn't it illegal to be a stripper at 16?

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So he says he wants to put the relationship "on hold". What's he really saying? All answers welcome lol It's a gentle (cowardly?!) way of saying, it's over.

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Which pet rules your home? The dog. Manipulates me by being cute and needy. Lords over the cats with Guerrilla Warfare tactics.

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After break-up the other person wants to be friends, but I need some time and haven't replied yet after two weeks because I need to think about myself first and it would hurt to be in touch as of yet. On the other hand am scared to lose him. What do I do? Being friends after break up (especially if they were the one to break it off) is to cause yourself uneccessary pain. And you can resent them for being able to just go on as if it's all okay. And that they think you're happy with the friend thing. You can't 'lose' him any more than you already have. And being a friend, I don't think will help with that...

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Are you sober? Yes. Alcohol holds no interest at all for me. I don't know why, it wasn't ever a conscious decision to abstain or indulge even.

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When you mess up or make a mistake do you tell yourself off? Yeah, probably more harshly than I would when someone else stuffs up.

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Complete the phrase: jungle ____ fever

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What's the most uncomfortable thing you ever slept on? A guilty conscience.

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What's your favorite error? Having pets.

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How do you get high? Step on a ladder.

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Are you nice on the outside but mean on the inside? No. probably much the same way inside and out either way.

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Why do some men fear that a woman might have an emotional link to them.Why do men fear intimacy with a woman? Do you feel its a control issue? My experience is that men have feared an emotional link or intimacy with me if they weren't interested. I've felt exactly the same thing when I haven't been interested. *Maybe in some instances it could be an issue of losing control when a guy fears intimacy and connectedness. Even if it was the case, I'm outta there anyway. It's too much to overcome in a r/ship.

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Whats something you can fix? A snack.

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My roommate is bothering me and messing with my head, what do i do? She's gripped my wrists, pretended to call the cops and acted like it was a big joke afterward. She smokes tons of pot but when she's not high she plays mind games with me. You can't change her behaviour. And it's a pointless exercise trying to understand it. Change your living arrangements.

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Why does everybody think that blonde girls are just clumsy and stupid? The same way 'everybody' thinks redheads are fiery and brunettes are mysterious. It's a gross generalization.

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How many times have you been in love? Twice. If you'd asked me when I was in love the first time whether it would be possible to happen a second time with someone else - I would not have believed it.

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What are some stereotypes that contradict what men want in a woman? *That men don't want companionship - just sex. *That men don't want to fall in love like women do. *That men don't suffer as deeply as a woman might after a break up. *That men don't appreciate that sex with someone they love *is* different than with someone they don't.

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I like this girl and I want her to be my girlfriend but It seems she is not prepared and I know that she will evade me if I'll continue... T-T please help! Accept that she is not interested. Respect her right to decide what is best for her. If you persist you'll look like a stalker. You wouldn't want her to be fearful or feel threatened by you?

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Found out the man I love more than anything was still with his last gf when we got together, even when we first had sex. He's been nothing but wonderful to me, but now I feel it's all a lie. What do I do? I feel cheated. When you first got together, had you had any discussions about being an exclusive couple? Was this before or after he was with his then g/f?

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I've been referred by people as and i quote as'your something else' and 'your out of this world'. My mate jesse said that to me expressing how different i am, but it was in a good way. What does this mean? Thoughts, comments? It means that you are an individual. You don't think or act in quite the same way as other people. You see the world through your own eyes. And your own experiences. It makes you a unique person. Like everyone else.

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Ladies: Could you love a guy and not see him? By that I mean he geographically undesirable. Not if it was a permanent state. You'd be in love with the idea of the person. Not the person themselves.

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Is the thinking the hard work? No. It's putting the thoughts in action. That's the hard part.

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What's your favourite midnight snck? Anything that doesn't require any preparation.

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Is it right to behave like a jerk, just to teach other jerks what it feels like to be treated badly? "Never wrestle with a pig in mud. You get dirty. While the pig enjoys it."

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What is the difference between love, romance, and sex? A few dates.

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What is something you would not be able to do anymore if you lost both of your thumbs? Hitch hike with the option of getting a lift in either direction.

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Does this ever changing world in which we live in make you give in and cry? If so, what do you say to that? "Live and let die..."

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What is the name of the song that is synonymous with stripteases? (sounds quite big-band ish) It's an instrumental piece. 'The Stripper' by David Rose Orchestra It may well have been *snicker* 'covered' by a few people.

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When is talk cheap? When it's not followed up with actions.

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...when was the last time you used a band-aid?... Two days ago. A razor cut on my ankle bone. Ouch! And man! So much blood from such a tiny nick!

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Is it important to be punctual in your first date? Why? Yes. Without question. If you're not going to show courtesy to the other person on the first date, when would you?

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Does your dog love the Garden Hose? About as much as she loves the vacuum cleaner.

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This guy asked me to the school ball and I said yes although I didn't really want to. Since then he is constantly texting me. I am now going out with this other guy from my school and I want to go to the ball with him. What should I do Be honest with guy number one as soon as possible. Then he has enough time to ask someone else if that's what he decides he wants to do.

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How much can I get away with and still get into heaven? Is there a limit? It's as much your conscience allows.

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I met a guy who calls me baby and says he wants to be with me. I found out he is engaged to a girl 3000 miles away. We kept in touch through text and he recently broke up with her to be with me. Am i wrong to worry he'll do the same to me? Not necessarily. Ideally though, he'd have broken off the engagement because it was the r/ship was no longer working for him. To say you have "broken up with your g/f to be with you" can put extra pressure on that other person. As if the success or failure of the new r/ship will rest on that person's shoulders. They may feel they pressure of proving somehow that they...

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How would you end "para__________? ---dise

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If a gay boyfriend says I need some time does that really mean its over? Gay or straight, when someone tells you they 'need some time' it's not a very hopeful sign at all. I mean what do they actually need time for?? To do their washing? Catch up on their reading?? Decide whether they like you enough?? Check out other options?? See if they miss you or not?? What's the point of more time?

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I am really confused? Began speaking to a girl as she showed signs she had a crush on me, asked her out after 2 weeks but she rejected me. So we became friends but she still shows signs she likes me, staring at me, eye contact, flipping hair and sliming. All the smiling, hair flipping whatever doesn't mean much in light of the fact that she had an opportunity to be with you, knew you were interested in her but chose not to. She may just like flirting, knowing it's having an effect on you. An ego boost for her. Who knows?! But the bottom line remains. She still isn't wanting to date you.

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I know sum ppl dont class kissing as cheating.but if a guy blackmailed u 2 b exclusive with him (when u were vulnerable) then kissd a girl 2 weeks later (arrangged to meet with her at pub), told u after but for 6 months kept her as a friend-wat wuld u do? I wouldn't have got involved with a guy who tried to emotionally 'blackmail' me into anything in the first place. But if by some miracle I had he would have been dumped as soon as he told me he'd arranged to meet up with this other girl. (No less after demanding I be exclusive with him?!) Seriously what a creep.

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If I say " rubber gloves." what comes to mind? Washing dishes.

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Are you afraid of clowns? Coulrophobic? It's not a real fear as such. As a child, the slapstick clown routine bored me. As now as an adult I find them sinister looking. the whole clown concept creepy in fact.

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If you had to lose a body part-what would you part with Tonsils, appendix...

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How much do you think he is into you if he holds you and falls asleep everytime after sex? Is he toying with my emotions or is he seriously into me? Not nearly enough information to really know. However does he also fall asleep holding you when you haven't had sex? When you've just been hanging out together, say watching tv?

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When I am happy I________(fill the blank) am creative and productive.

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If a family member who was dumped in their relationship somehow dispised your engagement and fiencee' calling your wedding an abandoment of the family. Would you call off your wedding so they can be happy? Not for a minute. Coz they're miserable, every other family member should be too? How would that benefit them? Or me??!

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What kind of kiss do you like on a first date? None. At most a friendly peck on the cheek. It's not that I'm prudish. Not in the least. It's just that I don't feel the inclination or desire to kiss someone unless I feel a real attraction to them. And for me, that would take more than one date.

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Did it hurt? When you fell from Heaven. No. But I skinned my knees quite badly when I fell from grace.

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You are at a fancy dinner party in the presence of many royals when you notice your underpants creeping up on you from behind, how do you discreetly solve this problem? Very deftly on the spot. I'd be thinking there's a fair chance that the focus wouldn't be on me!

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How wasteful are you? Extravagently so. But I'll mash up slivers of soap together to make a usable size bar. Melt down candle wax scraps and make a new candle... swish out empty bottles of detergent or shampoo to get the last dregs. It's nonsensical really.

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How long should you wait until having sex in a relationship? There's no hard and fast (if you'll pardon the pun) rule. I don't think it ultimately has much bearing one way or another on the success or failure of the r/ship either - the timing of sex thing. Providing both parties are comfortable with it.

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Do you let your dog lick you on the mouth? I don't encourage my dog to, but then I don't actively discouraged it either!

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How often should you visit a sick relative in hospital? It's largely up to them. And how close we are to them. Sometimes when a person is quite ill, it can be a burden on them to feel they have to 'entertain' or converse with too many visitors.

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You are asked to close your eyes, put your hand into a small box, whose contents you cannot see, you put your hand in, move it around, what do you feel.............? Soft downy feathers for some inexplicable reason.

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How good are you at talking people into doing something that they don't want to do? Not very good. Mostly because I don't like being pressured or manipulated!

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Don't try to _____________ my brain.Which is the best word to fill in the blank? drain...

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Have you ever ended a friendship because all the other person wanted was somebody who would agree with them? No. But it would certainly be a very valid reason for ending a friendship. Indeed even questioning whether it really was a 'friendship' in the first place.

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Which the most down fall of person you would like to withness before you die.? No one's.

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When stating information people always say "THEY said this" or "THEY said it was supposed to snow" etc. Think of the last time you said/heard this. Who is the "THEY" that is referred to? Usually a collective, anonymous group of unspecified people of whom remain on hand to back up a statement made, opinion proffered, opinion refuted, statistic quoted, give credence to or be a scape goat for whatever suits the person's stance or position at any given time.

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What is something you would not do for your husband or wife? Maim, kill or steal.

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My boyfriend got another girl pregnant while we were broken up. He told me about the baby one month ago and the baby was born today. he is currently with her @ the hospital. i'm in love with him. i feel so confused. i need help! what should i do? How long had you been back together when he told you about the pregnancy (which was well advanced by then)? If you stay with him, will you be able to cope with any involvement he has with their child? Which will of course, include the mother. Sadly as much as you may love him, he is choosing to be with her at the hospital right now. Is he concerned about how you might be feeling at this...

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I can not do much about ________? ...what other people think.

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Met a guy couple of months ago through a mutual friend. We shared a kiss, but at the time he wasn't single, which he has since rectified. We speak every day, yet he says he wouldn't want to ruin things by taking it further. do I wait for things to develop No. He has had plenty of opportunities if that's what he wanted to do. And if he hasn't by now, then it's not going to happen.

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If you were born as the opposite gender that you are now, what would you like your name to be? Josh.

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Deep down does A/B fill a void in your life? Yeah. And it ain't that deep down!

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Im a junior in a new school, alot of the guys are looking and staring at me in class, i dress to show off my figure but i dont show flesh, im also quiet. why do guys do this? are they just wanting to see who this new girl is? or is there something more? Is there something more? You mean aside from that load behind your question??!

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What you think of wedding gowns made mostly from toilet paper? They're very pretty.! I'm not sure anyone would know that it was. That is of course, unless you unwittingly walked down the aisle with a piece of it stuck to the bottom of your shoe.

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I think each of us can find something to celebrate every day. ....something ordinary/normal, typical....do you agree? What ordinary/normal/typical thing do you celebrate daily? The way my animals greet me, each other and the day like it's all still shiny new.

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What are some inappropriate things to sell in a garage sale? Family members.

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I was told to grow up im a 52 year old female i thought i was very adult i dont know how to take this comment It would very much depend on who said it. And for what reason they said it.

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Why are brown-eyed guys seen as less attractive than blue or hazel-eyed men? Not in my eyes they aren't!

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What would be your worst nightmare come true Being sent to jail.

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Could an employer legally stipulate that "long haired freaky people" need not apply? I don't know what the legalities are...perhaps the person could try this approach first - Tuck their hair up under their hat and go and ask them why?

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Would you be upset if you were planning a Christmas party and one of your FEMALE guests showed up in a VERY short ice-skater RED Santa suit dress, red panties to match and cleavage down to THERE? Oh . . and a MATCHING little red hat with a white ball? No. Not unless the Christmas party I was hosting was being held in a kindergarten, preschool or a nunnery!

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Does it bother you (as it does me!) that some posters in here cannot put a QUESTION MARK at the end of their question I hadn't really considered before, but now you mention it. Do you think people assume that others know it's a question. Is it lack of grammatical knowledge. Or maybe is it just an oversight.

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Is it cazy to be in love and want to marry a man I have never met and want to start a life with him??? We met on a dating site ..... To feel it, maybe not. But to actually do it before you've actually met and spent time together, yes!!

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If your dog could talk, what would (s)he be saying right now? I honestly think she would tell me that she loved me. And loved the life she has.

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Were you bullied in high school or were you a bully? Bullied. It made my school life a living hell. To this day - some 30+ years later - if I enter a school yard I get a sick, yucky feeling. I don't feel like a 'victim' still. Yet do wonder.. only I knew then what I know now!

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Ladies: do you have to have matching shoes, clothes and purse or are you just satisfied to have each of the above? I like having more than one of each. But for variety's sake. Not to match up. It's far more satisfying to me to match up mismatches!

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My doctor reckons we are all Bisexual to some degree, do you agree with this or not? As a female, I'm not in the least sexually repulsed by females. Conversely I'm not in the least sexually attracted to them either. So I'd disagree.

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I have a math test tomorrow, should I wear my alga-bra? It's a cute angle to take to boost your confidence! Definitely a plus. Good luck with the test.

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There is this girl i like when i walk in the office we both stared at each other... I looked away so she looked away i look bak at her. She didnt look that comftable.. then i wakl pass her talk to my frds she looked at me couple of times.. why? For goodness sake, just ask her out. Then you'll know if it means anything!!

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Would you be friends with someone who repeatedly led you on into sex, only to then reject you or distance themselves harshly from you afterwards? As if!!!!

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My bf and I broke up because we had so many off nights that we were sort of losing feelings for eachother. I had this other guy I "thought" I was gona miss out on, I went on a date with that guy, NOTHING. and now im feeling like a lonely idiot. What now You broke up with your b/f because it wasn't happening. That's a separate issue from the second guy. You gave it a shot and it wasn't to be. Give yourself time to hang out, enjoy being single for a while. It's not a fate worse than death!! And you'll get to know yourself better and have a clearer picture of what sort of guy is best for you.

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My MIL has multiple personalitys and is really f*** up in the head. Well she's a constant guilt tripper and well I confronted her the other night and told her she was the most selfish person I had ever met ect... I don't know if it was the rightthing todo Right or wrong? Who is to say. But you have your limits too. And MIL or not, that doesn't preclude you from speaking out as you see fit.

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Are we part of something bigger? what? Humanity.

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It's all about the______? ..attitude!

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My baby's father hates my boyfriend spending time with my daughter, is it true that he can actually legally stop him being around her? My boyfriend isn't a danger to her or anything,my baby's father just doesn't like him!! Unless your boyfriend is a danger to your daughter, then no. This may in fact be more about his unresolved issues about his past r/ship with you..

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I have been a naive silly girl.But i guess we all are at one stage.I've been abit promiscuous but i want to change! Sex only in relationships etc,would you still have less respect for me even though i have taken a positive change for my life? Respect yourself and your ability to grow and learn. And people you meet/have yet to meet, especially those who will matter to you will follow your example and treat you as you treat yourself.

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I just got a job after over a year of not being able to find one. It's closer to my boyfriend's house and I'll be there more often. My mother has dementia. When I told him my schedule he told me my mother needs me. Is he trying to get rid of me? Not based on his comment alone. However seeing that you're closer to his house, that means he is also closer to YOUR house! So if he's genuine, he'll be happy to come to your house whenever possible - that way you will be there for your mother. But he will still be able to spend time with you. Time will tell then how much he wants to stick around. Ps And congrats on...

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I had a dream that my boyfriend of 2yrs is cheating on me. He has in the past but he doesnt know that i know that he did. Its not with jus one girl its with three different girls. what should i do? I had ask him if he was but he told me no its not true. I'm thinking that it's playing on your mind thus the dreams. When you made an attempt in the past to address it, he denied it. And even with knowing what you know, you didn't challenge him on it. Or tell him what you already knew. You may fear the repercussions of what could become of your r/ship if you press the issue and bring it into the open. However your...

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Who would win an arm wrestling match between you and me? Well being left handed as I am - unless you are too! - would certainly put me at a disadvantage. Add too a gender difference... So I'm backing you!!

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What is the last thing you read? Your question! Before that, the back of a video movie cover.

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My cat poos in the bath and not in the litter box. I've tried many ways to teach it. But in vain. What should I do? Leave a small pool of water in the bath, enough to wet their feet. Hopefully they will soon associate the bathtub with the discomfort of the water and avoid it. And for the time being leave puss's litter tray close by the bathtub. Ps if the water doesn't work, a few empty soda cans - enough to rattle against each other on the bottom of the bathtub might also work.

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Whenever I get up to go to the bathroom, my boyfriend says "Somebody has to go potty" Whenever I go into the kitchen, he says "Somebody is hungry" Whenever I start getting ready for bed, he says "Somebody is getting sleepy" How can I get him to stop? "Someone is irritating me with their 'someone is remarks'"

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What kind of person you would term normal ? A person who has empathy.

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Does light cheese come from an under weight cow? It actually comes from a calorie conscious cow with low cholesterol.

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Is it right that my boyfriend thinks his friend comes first before me?? he spends time with me but wants to be out drinking instead! If he doesn't want a r/ship then that's fine and dandy to put your friend first... but if he DOES want to be in a r/ship then he needs to decide which r/ship he wants to protect most.

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Do you donate to your public library? Books that were mine I've finished reading? Yes.

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Do u think the person who rejected t your love will regret it One day? I very much doubt it. They would have contacted me again to make amends if it mattered enough to them.

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What would you do when you KNOW a guy is attracted and interested, but not in a situation to ask you out (i.e. being at work with supervision)? Do nothing. If a guy wants to ask you out badly enough, then there's little that's going to stop him.

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How many dates should you go on before sleeping with your partner? I dont want to look easy bc we are both looking for a long term relationship. I don't know that there is any specific number of dates to go on before you have sex. Though I'm inclined to believe that it really doesn't make much difference to the success one way or another for a long term r/ship. Wouldn't it be more important to date the person with the thought in mind "is this person going to be someone I would want a long-term r/ship...

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Is it true Nice Guys end up with used up old hags; the left overs of what the bad boy thugs had? Why are nice guys only capable of landing women out of their prime? A *genuinely* nice guy wouldn't think of women in terms of 'used up old hags','leftovers' and 'out of their prime'. That's the ironic thing about 'nice guys'. They usually aren't.

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My husband and I RARELY argue or dissagree on anything that will cause a fight. We tease eachother and just enjoy our marriage. People think I'm lying when I say I have a happy marriage.Are they jealous?Do they want me to be miserable just as they are? You're happy - what is there to prove to anyone. Why would it matter whether you are believed or not??

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If someone is mean and/or hateful to you or just downright rude, do you try to "kill 'em with KINDNESS" . . . . . .or. . . . . . .avoid them like the PLAGUE? Avoid. I'm not going to change them. Nor do I want to be bothered.

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I said horrible horrible things to him because I was angry that he was texing his ex.I wasn't comfortable with the things he said.How do I get him to believe that i'd never say anything like that again and I want to work things out? But in the first place wasn't it in relation to him texting his ex? And you not being comfortable with what he said? Shouldn't it be HIM explaining why he did that in an effort to work things out with you??

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When innocent, simple people become ensnared by evildoers, do they become evil as well? Perhaps if they don't try to free themselves, they can become corrupted.

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Why do Ducks or Geese fly in a V shape It's to do with aerodynamics. It's the most energy efficient way for a flock to fly,

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Is it true that if you keep onloving your wife extra ordinarily one day she would start loving you with same deep intense? Not necessarily. People's capacity to experience love and their demonstrate it can vary greatly. Read about the 5 Languages of Love. http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/learn.html This may interest in you that it explains the predominant 'language' in which an individual expresses their feelings of love. And what makes them 'feel' loved.

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How do i make a girl feel sorry for dumping me? What you'll most likely get is pity. And truly that isn't attractive.

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How do i get a guy to break up with me? You don't. You take the responsibility of doing it if you no longer want to be with him.

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A friend and I are after the same girl but he isn't playing fair. He'll lie about me to her and reveal thingsht make m look bad. How can I beat him without lowering to his Lv.? Give the girl some credit for having a mind of her own. And her own ideas about what type of guy appeals to her. And the possibility that it's neither of you.

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My cat is seven years old, female, and weighs 20lbs. She has blood in her urine, has to go quite often, and can only go a little at a time. What should I do? Puss has a urinary tract infection. It won't go away by itself. She'd be in pain. And needs to be taken to a vet ASAP. It would be cruel not to do so.

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I really like this girl at school and she flirts with me sometimes but shes told me she likes this other guy... what should i do? Ask her out! That will give you some indication of where you stand here.

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Fill in the blank: Life is full of________ Twists & turns!

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I married a guy with a kid from a one night stand. the mom is psycho and always asks him to leave me for her. he says no and she attacks me with letters and texts about how he is cheating with her, trying to break us up. what do i do? How is your husband reacting to the situation? And what steps is he taking to protect you and your r/ship in all this?

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Anyone else tired of foot fetish & wet bed questions? YES. It's probably the one thing on AB that can grind my gears. When someone uses the site to manipulate people into answering in such a way, so they can get their jollies titillated. Surely there are plenty of other more relevant sites where you can go to indulge your fetishes with like-minded people.

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At what point do you KNOW your are Bored? I start feeling irritated and antsy.

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What game token did you always pick in monopoly? Mine was the hat. The iron. I did like the car too, but my brother always got to it first.

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I been with this girl for a week. she says she wiped her hands clean of her ex. but i found out when she was going to come over my house she was at her ex's house. should i think she is cheating or what? i dont know what to do please, help. (2009-0 You keep repeating the same question.

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I been dating this girl for about a week and every time we plan to hang something comes up. and last night when we planed to hang out, i find out she is at her ex's house. what do i say to this? What more can you do or say really? You've shown your willingness to pursue a r/ship with her. And acted on it. In turn, she then chooses to hang out with her ex. You could ask her but really what can she say to you, that her actions aren't already saying?

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Would you ever date someone that does porn? Does porn?? You mean involved with the production of pornography? Has acted in pornographic movies? Directed them..?? Or simply watches or looks at porn?

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What gets in your way in your pursuit of happiness? Myself usually.

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First thing that comes to mind when you hear the word "dome?" Snow dome

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How do you get over wanting to be with someone when s/he is involved with someone else? By never losing sight of the fact that they are (for whatever their reasons) choosing to be where they currently are.

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Which irks you more : empty ice cube trays in the freezer or empty toilet paper role on the spindle in the bathroom? Actually empty milk cartons in the fridge!

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When was the last time you had ethnic food? What kind was it? Pizza. Well they did originate from Italy.

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How do you make someone love you with out affecting free will? It's not possible. Even in the absence of free will.

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So I'm finally divorced now, I'm super elated, but what should I do now though? :) Take it a bit quietly for a while. It could be an hysterical reaction.

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Pay first and then pack groceries or pack groceries first and then pay? Both simultaneously. That's probably why I routinely have to cancel & replace my card and/or have a handbag forever littered with coins and notes.

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Do you keep your ketchup in the fridge or at room temp.? In the fridge. Ever since the incident. It was a particularly hot summer that year, the bottle had stood too long unconsumed and began fermenting. Eventually flipping its lid. The psntry looked like the scene of a massacre. Since then I always buy the smaller size too.

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Females: Do you find it flattering when a male you see daily "hits" on you when you see him or do you find it uncomfortable and annoying? Pathetic mostly. If he's not going to do anything real like ask me out - then it's just self indulgent ego stroking for him. Nothing really to do with anything about me.

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I have very long hair that needs washing often, could this cause it to fall out? No it wouldn't. To prevent your hair and scalp from drying out though, a milder shampoo formulated for frequent use is a good idea. So too are regularly trims just on the very tips to prevent splits ends which if left can keep splitting further and cause your ends to break off.

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What do you consider the defining moment in your life? Conception.

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My bf's parents are very strict.he cant g out and if he goes he has to give justification.his mom is doing ok health wise.but he hardly ever calls me or sms's me.he is never ready to meet.we love each other but he seems least botherd.wat do i do? While his parents may be strict, they wouldn't be able to control how often he calls you or sends you text messages would they? Loving someone is not about words but actions.

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When can you say the person is already in love with you? How do you weigh the actions and words spoken? They are interested in what matters to you. And they take notice of your likes and dislikes. They want to please you. Be the one to make you smile. And spend as much time with you as possible. Even if it's hanging out at home watching tv, walking the dog, weeding the garden, no matter if you feel miserable, spotty, unwell, grumpy or happy. They walk the talk. And don't...

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Have you ever met a guy who calls himself a "nice guy" and complains that "nice guys finish last" who you don't actually find nice at all? Please explain! A great piece on the 'Nice Guy Syndrome' http://divalion.livejournal.com/163615.html

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Why would a man leave his dream girl? I don't believe he would. Unless he was betrayed by her and couldn't get past it.

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I am one of those people quite content with my own company. Currently I am being annoyed by a person who must have company and can't amuse themselves alone. Help! What can I do? As someone much the same way, I'd gently but clearly tell them how I like to be. Unless pushed, I wouldn't make it about how they are as it could imply criticism of their way of being, I keep it about what I prefer.

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If a guy has cyber-sex with a girl and he has a gf...but he tells you it was just a fantasy and thats it, is it really just that, or is there more? Will it end at that or continue? In real time or cyber space - it's still a betrayal. Whether or not it continues is largely irrelevant. And once you cross the line, it can be easier next time.

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Why we all have this foolish idea that we can have happiness without misery? An all too human desire to avoid that which can hurt us.

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You open your refrigerator and a demon head floating on fire says "ZOUL." What do you do now? Great! There's actually something in there to potentially consume.

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Test your relationship, can you name 3 great qualities about your partner right now? 1/ Empathy 2/ Reason 3/ Humour

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How do you explain - after having dated a person who turned out shallow - that he hurt me by judging me as emotional when trying to have a slightly serious conversation and by treating me disrespectful, without getting labelled emotional and complicated. More than likely, you were simply two people whose personalities and temperements weren't suited to each other. Sometimes it's no more complicated than that.

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The guy I like just got out of a relationship. How long should I wait to let him know I'm interested? I wouldn't. If we know each other already, then it's up to him to make the move. I'd live my life meanwhile and let him catch up to me if/when he's ready and interested.

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Life is not a bed of roses If you take into account that roses also have thorns, then maybe it can be.

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What do you enjoy most? Understanding the nature of things.

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What's certain within uncertainities...? That we can be certain that uncertainty exists.

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I find myself laughing at people who are suffering because they cheated. it feels saying "I told you so" to my wife. I feel bad and am sorry I can't sympathise. do you forgive me? It's not my position to forgive or otherwise...though I'm not so sure it's good even for our own 'souls' to take pleasure at the suffering and struggles of our fellow man. Even if it's self-afflicted.

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Ok guys, would you ever wear a pair of jeans like this? And women, what would you think if you saw someone walking down the street in these? (see pic) As a female, I'd think it would make me smile. Perhaps a bit crude, but not offensively so.

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What's the best advice your father ever gave you? "Don't get involved with a no-hoper"

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What is the best way to ask someone out? Face to face, one on one. Sincerely with a light hearted touch. And some sort of plan as to where you'll go on your date.

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Do you ever go out to a movie to remind yourself why you don't go to the movies? No. When I go to the movies and it re enforces why I love going.

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What songs do you sing in the bath/shower? Cheesy old country & western songs. "sometimes it's hard to be a womaahn..."

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If you were in a garden and you saw the most beautiful flower you had ever seen in your lifetime, but knew it was the last of it's kind, would you pick it? Very tempted, but no.

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Are you pets allowed to sleep in the same bed as you? Yeah, like I have a choice in the matter!

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Do you believe that tarot cards can actually predict the future? If you choose to believe they do.

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I never went on a date in high school. Is there anyone else (who finished or dropped out of high school) who could make that same statement? Yes, me. But I made up for any lost ground :)

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I'M 23 ND I'VE DECIDED NOT TO MARRY IN FUTURE,BECOUSE I CAN'T TAKE RESPONSIBILITIES.IS IT A GOOD DECISION OR I SHOULD CHANGE IT? Be wary of limiting yourself or backing yourself into a corner by making hard and fast statements. People grow, circumstances change. You just never know.

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Why are you doing this to me? I'm not. It simply takes more energy than I'm willing to expend, to mess with other people's heads.

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What's the first thing that comes to mind when the lights go off in a movie theatre? Excited anticipation. The movie is about to begin!

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What is your preferred nickname? At most some derivation of my first name. Nothing in reference to any character trait or physical appearance.

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If you're proposed to you in public and you don't want to get married, would you say yes so you won't embarrass the person in public, or would you be honest and say no right away? I'd ask that we discuss instead, when we were alone.

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What do you think the human soul longs for most? Acknowledgment.

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When is the right time to scream your head off>? To attract attention if your life or safety is in danger.

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Say your friend owes you $100, she has a bday coming up, without ANY mention of the $100 she owes she calls you up & SERIOUSLY asks you to loan her $80 to go to beauty salon, would you think she takes you for an a** by doing this to you? Yep. For sure. But I'd even question more whether her head would ever be out of her bum long enough to warrant spending $80 at a beauty salon in the first place.

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Has invisibilty become possible yet? I don't see it.

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What does it mean when a guy says he just wants to be friends? does that mean he doesn't find you physically attractive? It means that that intangible something, that 'spark' isn't there for them in this instance. It has very little to do with physical appeal one way or another. It's more about the 'attraction factor' of one person for another. How and why it does or doesn't happen is impossible to pinpoint. Or even really make sense of!

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How can i get over someone that never cared about me Perhaps by looking inside yourself to understand why you chose that over seeking a r/ship where you were cared about. What was the pay off for you in choosing that? Understanding your motives better may help you avoid making this a pattern in any future r/ships.

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How do I move on from a man who I still love but whose needs I can't meet? Consider that he was unable/unwilling to accept what you were offering him. So even more importantly where you're concerned - he was unable/unwilling to meet your needs.

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What's one thing that You, can always depend on? My dog being excited to see me when I arrive home.

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Having a couple of debates on this issue: when a woman gives consent to sex, is she obligated to perform or allow ANYTHING he wants? Did she forfeit her right to say stop when he hurts or abuses her? As much as he forfeits his right to choose if she straps on a 14 inch dildo and bends him over the bed.

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I watched a psych conf: it said that men feel greater hurt and insult when their wife cheats with a woman rather than a man. Do you agree? If so, why do men push so hard to get their wives involved with other women if its not what they want? Cheating on your spouse suggests it's done without their knowledge. And usually involves a level of emotional attachment between the two people sharing the secret of their affair. Wanting the sexual titillation of seeing your wife with another female is potentially a shared experience and without expectation of any ongoing future or involvement outside the bedroom.

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What might someone, nail down? ...a suspect.

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MENS i always wonder, when a girl call you up and say she needs some money, what does that mean, to take care of them? Is she and the guy in a committed r/ship? Is she a very close friend he has had for a long time? Has she lent him money in the past? If none of the above apply - then she is ill-mannered and disrespectful to put someone in that awkward position by asking them for money.

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Do you believe in love at first sight? Feelings of love take time to develop. But I do believe that we are either drawn to wanting to know someone better or we're not. Almost immediately after seeing/meeting them. This is often an unconscious reaction. And our initial feelings aren't always an indication that a r/ship will ensue or even whether the other people feels the same attraction we do.

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My girlfriend and I broke up because i was a jerk. I've since changed and she says that she wants nothing to do with me yet she still calls, has pictures of me, and the ring I bought her. What does this mean? Unless she actually wants to go out with you again, then all that other stuff doesn't really mean very much.

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Of all the "hats" you wear, jobs you do, titles you own, which is your favorite? A caring and responsible pet owner.

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Th people that are nice to you, do you know if there being fake to you or real? And hoe do you know? Their actions match their words. In conversation they listen to what I have to say, and share stuff about themselves too with me.

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What repluses (disgusting and sickning) you quicker than anything? Cruelty to animals.

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Does the husband makes sure that his wife has had organism. If you mean orgasms? ...to degree yes, be concerned with her satisfaction. But just like men, women can feel pressured to 'perform' too. And when the orgasm becomes the whole focus of 'success' or 'failure' during sex, then the female's sexual responses can shut down in protest at the pressure.

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I say JUMP! you say_____? ...Van Halen

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Is it easier for you to sympathize with others when you are happy or when you are sad? Happy or sad. Either way. It's more about when I can personally identify with the other person's feelings/experience.

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What does it mean when a guy tells you that he lies to his friends and tells them that he doesnt know whos calling him when he does to know who it is? If he needs to lie about such stupid unnecessary things (and even admit to doing it?!) - it means I have good reason to wonder if he lies to me as well.

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After the marriage if husband finds that his wife is frigid or the husband is impotent what will be the consequences. Ideally they will face the problem as a joint issue. Not seeking to apportion blame but to find a solution together for the betterment of their r/ship.

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Why does a boy want to say to his girl friend that rather than mails we will talk throu phone.evnthough that girl is not a lover.? You say they are not lovers, but he calls her his girlfriend?

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Is it true that every girl will eventually fall for her FWB and the guy won't care or is that just a stereotype? Will at least one person always get hurt or is that just a stereotype, too? Personal experience stories preferred, please. *Disclaimer for any generalisations. *It's not a given that the female will fall for her FWB. Though more often than not females are more inclined to associate sex with their feelings for that person. *FWB rarely work well unless BOTH people aren't (secretly) hoping at any level that it will develop into a deeper r/ship. That's where the hurt comes in. *Females are...

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My girlfriend never lets me look at her messages on her cell phone and when i did she was talking about being in a love triangle with some other guy... she says it's nothing to worry about and that's all she ever says. am i crazy or is she cheating on me? On what you write, you're anything but crazy. But if you continue to allow your g/f to fob off your very real and completely valid concerns & questions then you WILL send yourself crazy. Find out what is going on. Your sanity and where you stand matter here. Best regards.

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If I a dollar for everytime I__________in a day, I would have alot of money? ...procrastinated

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What makes a good first impression? Appearing open and receptive - and not on the defensive.

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Ladies: Let's say that your boyfriend rates your physical beauty on a scale on 1-10 and gives you a 9. Would you be pleased or offended? Faintly amused.

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NUNYA asked if anyone had ever jumped on a Trampoline. That question inspired me to ask this one: Have any of you ever jumped on a BAND WAGON? Opinion Band Wagons I try to avoid...but show me a gimmick or a fad and I'm leaping on board.

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I ran in2 someone I haven’t seen in 3 years. We reminisced flirted found we have alot in common. He later said we should hang out.Our hangout consists of movie, dinner, lounge. Is this a date or just a hangout? Is it ok to ask him what it is, if so how You could ask him. Or just let it go and see how it playa out. He may not be sure himself and doesn't want to back himself in a corner. Perhaps after 'hanging out' with him you may even decide you aren't that keen. It really doesn't mattet too much what you label it at this early stage - if a r/ship develops it will regardless. Then again if he is only...

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How can we encourage the next generation of Moslims not to hate and to blend in with us? Who is the "us"?

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Why is my exboyfriend, who said that we "should be friends", is quickly dating again and is seems to be avoiding me? The " we should be friends" thing is merely a line. It's meant to soften the blow of the break up and ease any guilty feelings they may have for dumping you. And maybe to ensure that you don't get all pissy at them and hassle them after the break up.

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Everyone needs a little __?__ ...space

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On a first date, would you wear a fright mask when meeting the other person, like to show your sense of humor, or would it be considered bad taste? I would think that launching any BIG statement about myself on a first date, smacks of egocentricity, inconsideration and little regard for the other person's position.

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Should I get my pet rock neutured? I take it for granite that any responsible pet owner would automatically neuter all their pets.

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I hear that people "Cry over spilled milk".What else could be spilled that a person could cry over? Their guts....

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Do you believe in soul mates or perfect match for everyone? Once upon a time I would have said yes. But I now know for me at least, that we can have more than one soul mate r/ship during our life time. And one soul mate experience doesn't compare to or negate the other. Someone's idea of their perfect match when they are in their 20's, may differ from what appeals to them

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If you really and truly don't want something to be true, can you convince yourself that it isn't? How about the other way around? Can you convince yourself that something which isn't true, is? I may try to if it means avoiding pain or disappointment. But in my heart of hearts, no I can't/won't.

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How do you open up to people that you don't want to open up to? It sounds conceded and I need to start socializing more. Conceded?? Conceited did you mean? Find people that you do feel like opening up to then! Or even just one person.

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What is something YOU think is different about you? I have an unshakeable belief in and deep faith that I'm much the same as everybody else. That's where my individuality lies.

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Ive known this guy J for awhile through mutual friends...he just started working for my company about a month ago. Im his dispatcher. I had the weekend off and went over to a friends house. J was there. Im at our friends house every weekend and j hasnt be It's anybody's guess if he was there by chance or not. If he asks you out, only then you'll know for sure! Good luck.

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Name one thing that can not be taken away in your life. My belief that examples of goodness and kindness can be found everywhere.

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What comes to mind if I say Welsh. Welsh rarebit! Yum.

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Why Do Women Ignore Advice From Men? Because it wasn't advice they were seeking. But to be heard. Then again it may also have been simply because it was bad advice!

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How do i respond to others answers? With integrity.

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If you have had more than one marriage, would you be considered 'used'? That would be a state of mind. Not a state of being.

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If you have power to rule a country? what will you do? Employ very sound & knowledgeable people. Then DELEGATE!

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Is it hard to find new relationships at this age, between 40 and 50? As easy or difficult as any other age! Each age would present its own hurdles and plus factors. The downside *may* be that often people in this age bracket have had partners & children and lived a life. These experiences and factors could affect their ability to move onwards and upwards.t On the upside ar this age we are more likely to know ourselves reasonably well and thus have...

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Can you sum up your life in two words? Uniquely ordinary.

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If you were to lock Adrian Monk and Dr. House in a room, which character would drive the other one crazy first? It may even turn out to be a positive 'meeting of minds' a battle of wits etc. They are both clever characters and if they remained impassioned, could find mutual entertainment value in the other. Good question :)

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Whatever happened to Little Jacky Paper? For a time little Jacky Paper was sharing a pad by the sea with Puff. They had some sort of scrap, subsequently Puff got arrested for assaulting Jacky with sealing wax and other fancy stuff and ended doing time in the Pen. Their friendship was a write off. Jacky Paper left Honalee and it's believed he spent some time rustling. However he was never formally charged. Jacky...

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If you tell a man how u been with for 4yrs that ''U KNOW WHAT SINCE U SEEMS CAN'T BREAK UP WITH UR EX FROM NOW ON I LL PLAY UR MOTHERS ROLE DO THINZ UR MOTHER DOES BUT NO MORE INTIMATE WIT U UNTIL U BEAK U WITH UR EX''.can u actually hurt that man feelng? If he can't break away from his ex even when you have been together for 4 years, no threats or talk from anyone is really going to change his feelings and behaviour. Not unless he sees it's a problem and makes a decision ON HIS OWN to get help from an outside person.

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What have you gotten at a convenience store? Over a period of time, varied consumable and non consumable items from a limited range of marked up stock at odd but convenient hours.

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What's something that is striped? Zebra.

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Does suffering help people in this world? surly without suffering there would be no compassion? So who gets to do the suffering so that others may learn compassion?

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Are you in agreement with this verse, "you reap what you sow"? Sometimes 'weather conditions' can work for/against us. But by and large, yes.

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Besides food, what might someone chew? ...the fat

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If you have a brother or sister with a diffent parent ( not shared), do you ever get jealous because their other parent is better than yours? Nup. Coz they're still stuck with having the other parent regardless. And me as a half sibling on top of that!

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Do you hate because I'm black(Partially),Beautiful(So I've been told),or a bad liar(I have to admit)?*:)* Hatred??! (Beyond acknowledging you as a fellow human being) what about simple indifference? That's a credible option!

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Do you believe Love will find you when the time is right? Conversely I believe we find Love if/when the need/want in us is great enough.

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Could you give up the girl/guy of your dreams purely because you thought they might hold you back in life from being the best you can be? If they were a person I felt would hold me back from being my best - then they wouldn't qualify as my idea of a dream partner in any case.

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When do you pretend to know or don’t know something? To avoid getting involved.

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Do you know a one word compliment beginning with the letter "b"? Brave...bright...benevolent...brainy...beguiling...bountiful...bubbly....blessed....brazen

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Were you ever touched or physically harmed by a ghost or "spirit"? I was laid very low by several Tequila shots once.

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What is your cats best and worst trait? Best - their self sufficiency Worst - their self sufficiency

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Need advice on how to handle a 17 year old step child that insists on hating me an will not give and is very forthcoming with her hatred towards me even though she cannot name a reason for her opinion. For better or worse, she doesn't *need* a reason! None of us do for that matter. It's more rational, helpful etc if we do apply logic, but sometimes we just want to feel what we feel. Perhaps approaching your step daughter more from this angle may at least keep communication (of sorts!) open? It may not improve greatly, nut while the lines of communucation stay open -...

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Is subscribing to a pay television service a good way of cutting household costs? Yes. Ostensibly at least.

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Should Mary McKillop be made Australia's first saint? But isn't there the matter of one miracle still outstanding?

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What do you think about a wedding with about or over 500 guests? A lot of gifts to open and man thank you cards to write!

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This girl 6 months divorced and i were togeher for the last 4 told me she wasn't ready for a relationship n I asked if it was me n she said it was the ex husband cuz he wouldn't allow her to talk to her kids while they were w him n she was happy w me.? It may have been an excuse to get out of this r/ship. Or she may be letting her ex husband control her even after a divorce. Unless she is very simple minded or has been an abusive parent(or has a b/f who is a danger to her children - what mother is going to be told she can't speak with her children - and the children with her, whenever they wish?

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Positive pregnancy test today at doctor (urine based). Blood test was taken but no results 'till Monday. Home test came back negative (Answer brand). Waitin' stinks - anyone have false positive? Wondering if it's possible to be. Hubs had vasectomy 7yr ago Pregnancy tests measure the level of hcg. It is produced by the developing embryo. The hormone increases dramatically every day in the first 12 weeks of pregnancy. Sadly my false positive results meant that the hormone levels were dropping off as the embryo was no longer viable. A spontaneous miscarriage would follow. In which order did you have the doctor's test and the home...

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My friend was seeing a married man for a long while, she told him (by email or txt) that she was getting married, he responded with I am happy 4 u, my friend. She then said, thanks couldn't wait on your forever, then he said nothing, what does this mean? He responded with a friendly but polite text/email. And that was it for him. He didn't want to engage further and/or have any interest in rehashing or revisiting the past. He's moved on.

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Have you ever had a friend that you really didn't know if they fell in love with you, or just being goofy? How do you tell? Have they asked you out on a date - just the two of you? That I think would be the difference in whether they see you as a friend or a potential GF or BF.

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Did you see on I now pronounce you chuck & larry when Kevin james character told Adam sandler that the garbage wasnt gay enough, & sandler said they had to gay the sh** up then, did you laugh? lol I can't recall specifically - I just wanted to say you might enjoy the movie 'Stepbrothers' (Will Farrell). Lots of laugh out loud silly stuff in that movie too :)

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Whats more important, love or friendship? No. Just different.

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Fill in the blank: He who cheats ___________? ...cheats him/herself

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What song have you listened to in the last hour? 'Hallelujah' - Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds.

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Lets paint it black, shall we? Okay, sure.

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Have you ever been truly hungry? Truly hungry, yes. Truly starving, no.

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Will God punish me for believing that he/she does not exist? It won't matter if he/she did. Because you can't react to the action of something that doesn't exist. Or if you did, you would ascribe the action to something that you do believe in. Coz if you acknowledge that god was in fact the punisher, then you would believe in their actually existing . Or something like that. Either way, your truth will reveal itself to you...

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I mean really, what do guys want from a girl? Companionship for one. I don't know that it would be too much different to what girls might seek out a guy for.

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Must you like someone in order to love them? For it to have any real chance of developing into a life affirming, life enhancing, mutually beneficial hook up for the long haul - then yes.. Most definitely!

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I think it is much easier to be kind and accepting than to be mean and judgmental. What do you think? No I think it's harder! But worth the extra effort more often than not.

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What's a good sign that you've had too much to drink (mean to be humorous)? When you find yourself thinking that you are by far the best mover on the dance floor bar none.

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What's probably not a good idea to use as body soap? Rendered animal fat... oh, that's right

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I'm A 23 year old male athletic and attractive and I have a a large 8in. Love handle to boot and have been considering doing porn professionaly does any one have any advice for me on how to breakinto the idustry and earn some BIG cash? You need lots of exposure first.

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How do you optimize happiness in life? Perspective. Whether you see your glass as half full or half empty..

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What doesn't go very well with coffee? Me. Ick!

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If you say to your s/o, do you see me more as a friend than your s/o and they reply "don't know, never thought about it", what does that mean? There's every likelihood, they meant what they said precisely what they meant! They may understand the two states of being - friends & a S/O - as one and the same of the whole r/ship 'package If you are treated well, heard and respected as an individual in your r/ship then that is the real proof of the pudding!

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Whats ur favorite quote? mines: "it's a man's obligation 2 stick his boneration in a women's seperation. this sort of penetration will increase the population 4 younger generations" im a girl but i think its real funny :D o && the quotes by eric cartman "Screw you guys, I'M going home" - E. Cartman

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Can you name a tv show theme song that uses the title of the show in the song? Gilligan's Island.

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What is the most successful way to convince someone they are selfish and its ruining their relationship? Perhaps by addressing the issue from a different perspective first and foremost! It's not a competition of whose right or whose wrong. It's trying to listen to & understand each other in the spirit of being in each other's corner. There's no guarantee of success but if *both* people still want to be in the r/ship then that's a good place to start from.

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Lobster - love them or hate them? Love them! Yum. One time though I heard lobsters described as 'cockroaches of the sea'. They are scavengers and not fussy about what they consume. I try not to dwell on that side of them too much.

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What celeb did you most mourn the death of? Princess Diana. For a long time after I missed reading about her in magazines. It wasn't the same without her presence in the media. Mourn though? Not that personal perhaps. But definitely 'missed' her being about.

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Why is it, in every James Bond movie, for every gadget James Bond gets he uses it in some way shape or form in the movie? Uhmm coz it would be otherwise pointless to have introduced the gadget into the movie in the first place??!!

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Women: I'm the person your daddy warned you about. I'm also the person your mama dreamed for you. How do you feel about that? At my age, when it comes to affairs of the heart anyone else's thoughts on the matter would be of little consequence!

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Can you describe how well you cook, in one word, using the letter "b"? Blue moon (once in a...)

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Im currently dating a girl that I dont "love" but she loves me like crazy. Ive told her this but she still wanted to date. I really want to find someone I feel like that towards. Any Ideas on how to move on with minimum damage? Tell her honestly how you feel. Be tactful but straightforward with her. It's not a crime if you are not in love with someone who professes to love you. However while you are 'dating' her she may mistakenly believe that you will have a change of heart or grow to love her or are simply 'confused'. So this is where the mixed messages occur. And damage is...

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Do you , like I, find singer Celine Dion to be extremely annoying? Annoyingly overrated too.

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You are going through the automated checkout at a supermarket, and the robot voice says "PUT THE ITEM IN THE BAG" although you know the item hasn't been scanned yet. So you put the item in the bag. Is this stealing? Yes. Though you may be able to convincingly plea 'diminished mental competence'.

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Penis girth of 4.5 inches, is that to small? That would depend upon the species.

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What is the point of saying something like "that was hilarious! +4" I don't get it... Thanks in advance for taking the time to answer my futile question. That was superfluous! - 5

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Signs he wants you back, but the only communication is through emailing? If he is genuine, he would man up and speak with you in person. Emailing is wimpy and serves no real purpose.

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Does it bother you when people dont know the difference between 'their, there and they're' as much as it bothers me? sorry....pet peeve. Yes! and I had only just moments ago, edited one of my old answers because I'd typed you're instead of your. *Blushing* Oh yeah and the use of "might/should of" instead of "might/should have" grinds my gears I must admit.

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What has been your biggest ever fashion mistake? Pretty much anything I wore in the early 1980's.

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Besides a pie, what is something that is good with fruit in it? A fruit bowl.

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Who was the most memorable child star? Shirley Temple.

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Why do people lie when the truth would be 1000 times better To avoid conflict.

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Can anyone tell me whatever happened to BUBBLES michael jacksons chimpanzee? After a protracted custody battle, Bubbles is now living under another name, with his biological mother. He has gone back to school. And hopes to become a Social Worker.

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What songs would you find on a jukebox in heaven? Probably not 'Limbo Rock' - Chubby Checker or 'Devil In Disguise' - Elvis Presley or 'Hells Bells' - AC/DC Maybe 'God Only Knows' - The Beach Boys 'Heaven' - The Rolling Stones

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Who sang "I Want to Know What Love Is"? Foreigner. It would be one of the songs included in my hand picked Jukebox From Hell compilations.

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Are you a cat lover? Then you will probably like this video! It's a toss up for who was the cutest in that video. Gotta love a guy who openly likes cats. Thanks Nunya :) Ps Have taken one hug from you. And left one from me. okay.

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What would you do if you found a Pitbull in your hotel room? Ask them for some extra towels.

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Can you buy a home in your local area for less than $100,000? Australian dollars? No. Not even a unit or flat. It would probably be due to (I'm guessing) 70% the area. And 30% to general housing prices in the state. Ps Oh and congratulations on your Genius status :)

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What does it mean when someone says they miss you so much, they can't be without you, so they get together and then one is treated like a perfect stranger, but they love you........ What do actually mean when you say treated like a 'perfect stranger'? They ignored the person? Found making conversation difficult? It's hard to really know without knowing more detail.

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Whats the worst movie you've ever seen? 'Death At A Funeral' and 'How Stella Got Her Groove Back' These two movies in particular come to mind as I remember leaving the cinema half through both times.

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I am trying to work out whats the most spirit lifting , up beat song you have ever heard ! 'Move On Up' - Curtis Mayfield.

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On a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being the most), how much did you hate Borat? 1 being not at all? Then 1 :)

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If you have stalked someone in the past can you still become friends with them as long as you don't stalk them anymore? It would be a one-sided friendship I'm guessing. So you'd be back where you started.

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What does it really mean if a girl is braking up with someone she lived with and saying that she love him but want to be alone? is there a possibility that she find another guy and don't have enough of courage to tell him that? It might mean she has found someone else. Or it might be that she does just want to be alone. Either way, she is telling him she doesn't want to be together any more.

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What's one kind of gun? A Sonova

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Think of a song with more than two words in the title and replace one of the words with the word "chicken",what can you come up with? Blame It On The Chicken The Chicken Is Mine P.Y.C (Pretty Young Chicken) Chicken In The Mirror Heal The Chicken Chicken On The Dance Floor

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Is there truly a somebody for everybody? Yes, I believe there truly is somebody for everybody who truly wants somebody.

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In my trying to find a good girl, around my age of 21, I always seem to find the ones with that have bad personalities, think they are too good for you, swear a lot, etc. Why do these types of girls at 21, seem to be so easy to find? Easy to find? Or is there something (subconscious) at play when we consistently *stumble* across a certain personality type?

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Talk is ........... Cheap.

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Hi i want to earn money on internet by doing work i m 14 year old child plz suggest me a way i realy want money I'm curious, what 14 year guy refers to himself as a 'child'?? Well obviously here's ostensibly an example....

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How long does it take a girl to know I am the one she wants forever? I know its different for every girl... but there is always a minimal Probably about 3/4 months.

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The guy i like and me r really good friends and he asked me if i wanted to go dancing with him and his gf what could this mean?(it sounds like he really wants me to gohes practically begging me) It could mean he wants you and her to know each other better? She might want to meet his friends..?? errhm He's a crap dancer or hates it?? You'd keep his g/f company on the dance floor..?? He's hoping for a threesome....?? Honestly who knows! But while he chooses to be with this girl, then it's a moot point.

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What are the things you should NOT do during a date? Bitch about your ex/es.

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What do u think of a man who u r in a relationship with who gives u money but who doen't take you out but another woman although u are a very actractive woman.by him giving u money,yes,u cook4him and wash4him, can you call that love? No. It's not love. It's not a r/ship. You're his employee. He's paying you to do his housework and cooking. That gives him more time to go out with this other woman and anything else he wants to do,

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Lets say you are in love with your best friend. You are a girl and he is a guy. He's told you he was in love with you before but now he has a girlfriend. Now you've realized that you love him. What do you do? Do you think that seeing him with another girl has convinced you that it's love you feel for him? Or is it more a feeling of possessiveness we can have for someone we share a close friendship with? (Which is not to say it isn't a very intense emotion still!) But is it the same as 'being in love' with someone?

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Do you wash your banannas?My Mom is really this crazy.She actually asked me this question. Have you ever washed a banana? Yes. But not in with my undies.

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Which celebrity should take up permanent residence in a cave? Sharon Stone? Kid Rock?

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What is your favorite song of all time? Too too many to single out just one song...but I'll go with 'Yesterday' The Beatles

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Why i cant download any music to my ipod http://www.apple.com/support/ It's been helpful for me.

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What is the saddest rock song you can think of? Changes - Black Sabbath

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My girlfriend was raped by her babysitter when she was 6. no one knows but me, not even her parents. what should i do? and i keep getting mad bc idk y someone would do that. she is now 17 and the person who molested her still lives in our city You may want to disguise your style of writing. It's the same as when you were an Anonymous poster formerly known as Anonymous. Just my 02... maybe it's not an issue for you *shrug* who knows.

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Do you believe in pansexuality, the ideal that you don't see gender, only the person? It doesn't represent my sexuality. But I understand it in principle and believe it to be true for some. Without doubt.

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Why does my cat stick her butt in my face? I turn her around and she does it again. This is how cats communicate with each other. Their scent will tell the other cats what they've been up, into, what they've eaten, state of health etc etc. It's sharing information. And the bond your cat feels towards you, means that she is inviting you into her world!

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We went out three times and the chemistry was there so.... we had sex. He hasn't called me yet. Why hasn't he bothered to contact me afterwards? The chemistry you felt may have only existed for you. I actually believe it's more about how much a guy is keen on you. And less about whether you had sex or not. How interested he is in you, will likely be what motivates him to make contact again or not.

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If you ask a good friend to watch your daughter while hes gone and then he sexually abuses her would you be after him? You need serious help. http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1567558 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1567494 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1566940 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1566882 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1566935 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1565460 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1566802

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I told my Boyfriend of 3 months that i have genital herpes, 2 weeks ago (before sex)We went to my GYN.(last fri.) things seemed fine, he said it was a lot to think about and now i havent heard from him in 4 days. we had sex once. what is he going thru? He's probably going through to the next county right about now. You've done all you could by being honest with him. Anyhoo genital herpes is actually not so uncommon. I'd think it is a pretty lame reason to toss a r/ship aside.

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If a pride of lions attacks and kills several wildebeest, would that be a slow Gnus day? While it isn't polite to play with our food - it's fine to play with our words :)

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Why do some AB'rs tell you what points they've given( i.e.+6)when it shows on your feedback anyhow? I wouldn't read too much into it. It seems like a friendly enough gesture and shows a bit of exuberance and engagement. +5

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Honestly (and I am an animal lover), do you think you can love an animal as deeply as a person? Nope. I wouldn't have thought so. But that was *before* my dog arrived into my life.

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Which Disney Star(s) do you think is/are ACTUALLY TALENTED? I found Minnie Mouse to be a bit stilted and wooden in dramatic roles. Far better with more light hearted roles where she showed a real comedic flair and brilliant timing. Daisy Duck? a method actress who dined out far too long on that sexy waddle, pouty beaked ingenue thing. Probably as much the result of typecasting as much as anything. The nephews of Donald Duck showed great...

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Where did my husband put his passport for safekeeping? It's not in the safe, it's not in the freezer. Has he checked on top of his head? Nup hang on...that's where you look for your glasses isn't it.

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My husband constantly talks about "open relationship" or not wanting to stay in this marriage. One day it's I love you and want/need you... the next it's I DONT WON'T this but I love you. Help.... im confused It's hardly surprising you feel confused. Your husband sounds like he is going through a major crisis himself. Maybe he's having an affair or considering it? That would be my strong gut feeling. Have you suggested that he seek counselling pronto? I doubt it's an issue that's going to go away by itself. How committed is he to keeping the marriage intact? Is he...

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Why are vegans soooo flatulent? That answer my friend is blowin' in the wind...

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My ex and I expressed caring for each other. He is in a relationship and said it wasn't right and needs to take care of that. But he said when he thinks about me, he continues to "process" and there is never an answer. What does thi It sounds like you and he are exes for reasons that aren't clear to either of you. Even if you understood the reasons more clearly, they'll still exist. And you'll still probably be exes. Personally I don't think r/ships need to be this problematic. At the very least we should have some confidence in what the other person means to us and *decisiveness* in knowing...

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I build up castles,I tear down mountains,I make some men blind,I help others see.What am I? Faith??

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Can you please finish this sentence? I wish I could ____________________. .....conduct my life in a way that would reflect my true belief that *wishing* achieves zip. And embrace proactivity instead.

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I have a man coming to mend the refrigerator. What do I do if he has a Swedish accent and a moustache? Keep learning your lines ( even though it will most probably be overdubbed eventually ) confirm your appointment time for your brazilian....and relax! Break a (trim tanned & toned) leg!!! You'll be terrific!

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Is there something that you'll never understand about people? (To my good fortune or to the detriment thereof) No, there isn't.

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I say "As Seen On TV" you say? I don't see why they always assume it's a given that it's going to give their product credibility. Heaven knows I've watched some crap on tv in my time.

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Who is/was your favorite sictom brother? Showing my age, but it would have to be David Cassidy in 'The Partridge Family'. Sure he was cute, but I thought his character was funny too.

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My boyfriend blames me for everything that has gone wrong in his life. Be it, loosing his PhD, his happines, etc... I have dealt with this for so long and I feel I have made it okay. I love him but things are really bad now. I lost all confidence in mysel When your self confidence is lost, you are in a very vulnerable position. And probably beyond the scope of being helped by strangers on the internet. Professional guidance to help you physically remove yourself from this situation is your priority. Providing that you DO want out of it. Knowing that people like your b/f don't ever change. However much you keep trying and loving...

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Do you think all men want to rape and hurt women but stop themselves? ABSOLUTELY NOT.

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How do i break it to a stalker ex that i am eloping with a new guy I met- without him getting wierd and spiteful? Why would it even be any business of your ex (especially an unstable ex) in the first place?? Is it to get his attention or get revenge somehow?

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Does the show M*A*S*H appeal more to those that served in the military? I have NO military background, am apolitical. Nor even American born! Yet I very much enjoyed (can still enjoy) the tv series. Both for its humour and its spirit. Along with each of the characters and how they interacted.

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I have to leave my girlfriend for a month because I'm going out of town about 1,500 miles away. Is this going to make trouble for our relationship? Not in itself. Though it may highlight or bring into focus any issues if any, that already exist in the r/ship. Reliable and consistant contact while you're apart is important.

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What is the song and its like ahh ahh ah ah ah ah ah ahhhh... It is sung by a lady and it soudnds kindd of sad andd beautiful 'Loving You' Minnie Riperton perhaps?

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Don't you think dogs are great? Yes! And it wasn't until I got a dog of my own that I fully understood the expression "man's best friend". And just how much they look to be around you above anything else. I feel a tremendous sense of responsibility of care and affection towards my dog.

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So my sister owns a Yorkie that she keeps caged 24/7. Poor dog is neglected in every way possible other then food. I'm going to take him tomorrow since my sister is away but I don't know what to tell her when she comes back. Any suggestions? Take the dog into safety. Who gives a rat's ass about your sister's reaction. She is so in the wrong that any explanation would be lost on someone who could do this anyway.

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I know that men look at women and it's completely ok, but my boyfriend likes to engage other women through eye contact and suggestive smiling. This really bothers me as i see it as innapropriate, especially when he's with me - what are your thoughts? I was actually quite surprised by just how repulsed I felt when I read how you described what he does. "Inappropriate" is burping loudly in front of your parents! This however apart from negating you, is flat out creepy. What does he have say about it, if anything?

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Why do you take offense? Is it because there is an element of truth in the insult or you are unsure whether there is or not? On the odd occasion that I might, it's less about what's actually said but more about the ignorance it implies.

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There is something I want to give you. I'll enjoy giving it, but will be none the poorer for having given it. You'll enjoy receiving it, but will be none the richer for having gotten it. What do you think it is? A smile?

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What does it mean when my lady says she wants to bone other guys? That she is a little confused anatomically speaking?

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My ex wants to still talk to me after we broke up and asked to be friends , even though i broke it off, i still had feelings and i told him its going to be hard to be friends coz im still attached. he never answered me or said something..bad sign eh? Nah probably a good sign :) I mean, how are you supposed to 'be friends' with someone while you still have romantic feelings for them? Why put yourself through needless pain.

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Why do people come back to your life?does that mean i am really special or i played the important role in their life? Maybe. And it could mean they have unfinished business themselves to deal with. If it is an old b/f or g/f, there was some reason why they went out of your life in the first place. Will it be any different this time round?

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Is premarital life the culmination of events to put into your portfolio to show your potential mate that you are worthy of being with him/her? "Worthy of being with him/her?"..... Marriage is a shared journey between two people. Not a job application!

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The person you like is getting a divorce, and is totally into you. Do you choose to date them, or just be friends? Is the person getting a divorce in the sense of filing papers and seeing a lawyer type divorce? Or dreaming out loud that one day they just might actually up and pack their bags and move out? Having said that, if two adults are attracted to each other, then where is the cut off point between being their friend or being their date?

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What is the best way to get over someone who you have been with for years. keep in mind they are not leaving you, they just are mean as hell Given that we can't change someone else... perhaps it may help looking inwards to better understand what drew you to and kept you with someone who hasn't been/isn't a positive presence in your life. What the payoff was for you. Kind regards and all the best :)

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Do you like a planned or spontaneous date? If we were in the very early stages of dating, then some sort of plan is best. It shows they are interested enough in me that they have given our date some thought beforehand. It's also a considerate gesture - having some sort of activity pre planned as a bit of a distraction - when you're still new to each other, so neither of you feel too pressured or 'put on the spot'.

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What's the best way to hint around but not be too obvious that you'd like to join a guy you like on a camping/fishing trip? As well to find out if he'd like one of the many massages you owe him? 'Hinting' is perilous - if it's too subtle it could fail to register. Too obvious and it could sound manipulative and annoying. What about a light hearted breezy "Would you like some company on your trip?" comment? Nor (if I've understood your question correctly) do you need to dangle any bait e.g. the massages 'owed'. It sounds desperate and...

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How can you make your mom happy? Easily. Just by giving her a quick call to say hi.

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I got involved w/a guy who broke up w/his ex gf cuz she cheated him.he used me as a rebound n had her email me telling me they luvd each other n were meant 2 be.i feel so hurt,what do i do. As hurt as you feel, be very glad that you are free of their drama and of a guy who could be so cowardly and cruel as to get his g/f to send you that email. Instead of being a man and a decent person by talking to you face to face.

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Someone you like but don't know very well has just texted you the following message: "You are crazy about me. You are in love with me." What is your response? Silence. That's a lame text.

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"I am your father's brother's nephew's cousin's former roommate." What does that make us? Psternal flatmates twice removed.

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If antiquity had a scent, what would it be? A musty, muted mix of camphor wood and lavender.

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In private my white ex-hus demanded me to be a submissive, his "whore" and would forcibly rape me while I slept. I'm attractive, black, and more educated than he was. Publicly, he appeared proud to have me and played the doting husband. Is it my race? No. The need to be dominate or submissive are personality traits first and foremost Their specific choice of partner/s would then reflect that.

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Is there anything more I can do to stop thinking about the love of my life, except thinking "stop"? The more you try to stop yourself thinking of something the harder it is. Accept your thoughts and let them pass by.

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If you wanted to spend time with someone but that someone wasn't "approved" by your friends, what would you do? Sneak out and spend secret time with him/her or tell your friends this person was important to you and spend time with him/her out in the open? I wouldn't 'hide' anyone from my friends. If I like someone, enjoy their company and think they're a good person then that's good enough for me!

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When I say '1980's fashion' what is the first thing you think of? My era. Tragic. I think I even realised it at the time even.

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If fiance don't want me to call him, visit him but I loved him, for 5 yrs.we never sexually been together we want married 1st, says I serious trust issues, what to do Loving a person doesn't make ii into a relationship. The other person has to want to be in the relationship too.

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Do you believe in Spanish fly? It's a secretion from a beetle that irritates the delicate skin of your genitals. If you believe that an irritating sensation makes you feel horny, then sure. If you think it might just feel plain uncomfortable, then that's probably true too.

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What is something that you have to drag everyday of your life? My ass. Ir's not something I *have* to do strictly speaking... it just ends up happening.

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If someone killed a loved one with a gun, would you wear a gun on a chain in memory? No. Misplaced sentimentality at best. Bizarre at its worst..

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Do you have something "strange" about your body? like an extra bendy finger or extra long tongue for example? Extra nipple. Albeit underdeveloped.

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Do they really use cats in Chinese restaurants? I knew of one who cleared tables and washed dishes during his summer break.

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The last time we had a problem he told me to watch my side i.e. to be careful otherwise he will break the relationship. what do i do Wonder how much I want to be with such an arrogant pr*ck! And a long distance one at that. Is he worth it to me? And does he ever take any resposibility too?

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If a girl says she wants to give you a BJ does that include cumming or could it mean any oral action and not necessarily cumming? Ex: "ooh baby I want to give you a bj"- does that mean I could just sit back and enjoy 'til the end? I wouldn't assume anything. If you can find a way to talk about - not in heavy,clinical way - together then it could be a great experience for both people then. No niggling questions on your brain to distract you from the moment.

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What if your boyfriend is the nicest guy on the planet, you are best friends, he is a stellar step dad but you are just not attracted to him? What if? Then he is still my best friend. And all those other great things. But sadly we wouldn't continue as boyfriend and girlfriend.

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Do you believe that if we all lived in the dark,we could never judge people for anything other than what's inside?* We would still be unconsciously attracted or repelled by an individuals unique smell. In fact our sense of smell may well be even more acute without the bebefit of being able to see clearly.

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FRIEND is having bday party, you are type of person who NEVER likes to go anywhere, would it be NASTY & CRUEL for you to wish that party could get cancelled somehow cus you just do not feel like going to it, eventhough this person goes to your events? It sounds more like a waste of energy and head space! Simply thank them for the invite but you won't be attending but please know it's not personal. But your decision not to go doesn't in turn require that the event be cancelled, depriving others who do wish to go. And whether your friend continues to attend your events or not still, is their choice.

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Why would a man be determined to end a relationship on good terms, why would he care? Because he is a reasonable and mature adult? Because he harbors no ill feelings to the other person? Because he wants to minimize any potential drama? Because he wants to move on with the next part his life as painlessly as possible?

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How would you feel if you met someone who later turned out to be wonderful. but one of the first things he/she told you when you met is that he/she prefers to not have sex until after marriage. Maybe once before marriage, but no more until after marriage I'd find it nonsensical!! You either don't believe in premarital sex or you do. Even "maybe just ONCE before marriage" stills counts!

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Dating BF who had crush on me at age 14 in jr high for 3mths now; He found me after 32yrs on FB we're so in love & planning a future. His Daughter 21 doesnt want to meet me/go to their house - it hurts. BF met most of my family. Pls advise what 2 do thx! While it's wondrous and totally exciting for you both, in reality to his daughter it's all very sudden and new to her. And it doesn't follow that she would or should feel quite the same enthusiasm as you and her father are feeling I'd back off a little with her. What's the rush?

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Master or servant? Eventually we all have to serve somebody.

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Why do pakis stink like they are still livein in there 3rd world country Is there any proven correlation between bigotry and semi illiteracy in an individual? Just curious.

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How many psychiatrists does it take to change a light bulb? None. The light bulb has got to WANT to change.

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My friend asked me for no strings sex he said he likes me but he don`t want a girfriend right now. i have got feelings for him should i tell him how i feel? You could tell him sure. But it's not going to change how he feels. Please don't buy his bullshit about being 'too busy' for a g/f. People always find the time if they want something or someone badly enough. He is really saying to you that he isn't interested in a r/ship with you. But if you're willing to have sex with him and expect nothing beyond...

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What was the last thing you painted? My toenails red.

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Does showing compassion sometimes mean letting go? Absolutely. Letting go of our own expectations of how things/people should be ...letting go of our own need to be 'perfect'... these come to mind

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Would you consider marrying someone you met online, talked online with cam and voice for two years, and met in person twice for three weeks each time? It would depend largely on why we had only met twice for a total of six weeks in those two years.

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I've fallen for a best friend, to me she's perfect in every way, I'd do anything for her. But a long time ago we established that nothing can happen between us.. I've tried everything to get rid of these feelings for her with no luck.. What do i do? Then don't try to get rid of these feelings! Just acknowledge them as they come to mind and carry on.

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When you were a kid did you ever eat or taste a crayon? Yes. I really liked their smell! but otherwise waxy & tasteless.

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What do you hate doing most? I really dislike the word itself.

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What's another name for a girl that like to have relations with many different men? An enthusiastic genealogist?

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Would you ever consider calling your siblings sexy to their face? Not even behind their back! Moreover I wouldn't even be thinking of them in those terms in the first instance.... <shudder>

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My girlfriend farts when she orgasms. At times it's like the 21 gun salute. Is this common practice amongst women? I only hope you remain standing at attention on the occasions when your valiant efforts are acknowledged and lauded with such ceremony.

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Will my car warranty cover a broken knob? Not unless you can prove that a malfunction in the car was directly responsible for the injury.

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Does knowing a lot of people guarantee more opportunities later on in life? Possibly. Although not if it's the motivating factor.

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Ive just spent the last 4 nights out of the last 6 sleeping over at my GF house. I think she wants it again tonight. If we sleep together (overnight in a bed, not just sex) often, do you think it could lead to her/or me wanting that more and more? Yes. That seems to be the standard progression in a r/ship that is working for both people.

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My cats' names are creepy and spooky (aka creep and spook). What should I name my next cat? I want it to match. Eerie.

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Did you like Mickey Rourke in "The Wrestler"? Yes. A flawed but wholly likable and believable character portrayal. Mickey Rourke played the role with integrity and without ego imho.

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What are your thoughts on Paris Hilton? Personally I prefer the London Hilton. More centrally located and better service. Though the rooms are generally smaller.

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Why do i love the one i can't be with? Sometimes it's easier and less painful to be in love with a fantasy of what *could* be/have been than take the risk of rejection with a real life r/ship with an available person.

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[Relationships are like watermelons: In the store they look so wonderful. You take them home anticipating their wonderment. You cut them open and they look oh so sweet. Then you bite into the bitterness and they turn your face upside down] Do you agree? No. While they may appeal to me superficially - enough to take them home, my level of anticipation is positive but neutral. Until such time I slice the watermelon open and see what the inside looks like, take a nibble then decide whether I want to taste a bit more.

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What is the best way to tell someone you love them? uhhmm establish eye contact and say "I love you."

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Does anybodys neighbours complain about the noise when they have a thresome Yeah strangely enough they do! And I always wonder whether complaining ( ie drawing further attention to) their noise is supposed to be for the benefit of impressing their neighbors with how wild & edgy they really are. Or maybe it's just to convince themselves. The louder, the more convinced they feel... who knows!

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I like my manager,he has a gf 2yrs hes cheated on her with a coworker last year noone knows he doesnt know that I knowhe flirts with EVERYONE.I DONT want to date him but I get jealous when hes not flirting with me,I think he knows I like him whatshouldido Create and nurture a social life independent from your work place.

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Without asking the recipient her bust size (or finding out) which is a better gift: a bra that is too large for her cups or one that is too small for her? Neither would be comfortable nor do its intended job. It would come across as all about the giver. And nothing about the recipient.

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If you are the third wheel in a Love Triangle, the single one, are you also cheating somehow? or what? Maybe cheating yourself out of the potential to be in an open, committed r/ship with someone ( who is not conflicted and torn)but knows what they want.

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I went out to lunch with my sister and her friend we met up with this guy my sisters friend met. We talked and he looked interester he gave me his business card and as we said good bie he wispered in my ear that i was a very pretty girl should i call? I wouldn't. He'll find me if he really is genuinely interested enough.

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What makes the perfect couple? In how they perceive their r/ship.

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If your significant other went missing with your winning lottery ticket, which would you be most worried about? In my character assessment.

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What would you think of or say to someone who gets in a relationship with Megan Fox and then cheat on her? Nothing. But I'd be perplexed as to how one's physical appearance could make them any more or less likely to end up in a r/ship with a partner who turns out to be a cheater..

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I have dated a man for awhile, become what I thought, was really good friends. I find out he has never really be honest to me at all. He was married a few years now had two kids, etc.. why does he keep telling me lies? Because (despite knowing what you know) you're still willing to listen to them.

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What can i do to make my gf love me more, i love her so much, but for example when i ask her where r u goin or what are you doing 2day she tell me that it is non of my bussines:(((why is she getting rude? what should i do, i dont wanna break up! You know how YOU feel about being with her. But I don't think you want to hear how SHE feels and what she is trying to tell you. That she doesn't feel the same about you. And we can't force someone to feel more deeply about us no matter how we try.

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Is wanting to sleep together overnight after making love a reasonable need to have (and ask for) in a relationship? If you've discussed and then *BOTH* agreed one's definition of 'relationship' matches up with the other's - then YES, it's not only reasonable, it would be part of the natural progression of the r/ship.

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What are the dangers of not expressing ones needs in a relationship? Potential disappointment and frustration if the other person can't and/or wont deliver. But it can relieve you of the guesswork. And instead help you make more informed decisions on whether the r/ship is ever going to be what you want. Ultimately ONLY GOOD can come from asking for what you need.

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A serial rapist is jailed for life and is dying of kidney failure, the kidney transplant people call and say you are a perfect match, if you donate one of your kidneys you will save his life....do you donate the kidney? If I'd put myself down as a living organ donor, then I would feel (in my mind at least) morally obligated. And so would go ahead. But I would have some misgivings. Damn that would be a dilemma for sure!!

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Ladies, how would you handle this delicate situation? Let's say a guy you were with was not the sexual dynamo you had hoped for - i.e. he's under-endowed and doesn't quite last long enough and as a result you were not being satisfied. The reasons would ultimately be largely irrelevant - if the r/ship wasn't enhancing my life, I'd opt out of it. No explanation beyond that would be needed. edited: given now that you are the guy in question. If I was really into you, the above issues together, could be overcome.

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If i dont love my boyfriend anymore...is there anyway to fix that? In your heart if you really don't, then no. It can still feel very sad & a bit scary even, facing the knowledge that you are no longer in love with that person. That feeling will pass. Staying in the r/ship will just postpone the inevitable.

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I was just eating an apple and wondering why a group of writers or god/gods would want to forbid them??? is there a motive you can think of?, a worm, and greed to collect all apples aside, why else would you get rid of one of the longest lasting picks? I think the apple is actually metaphorical.

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Is sleeping together and making love intrinsically linked, or can making love exist as a standalone separated from sleeping together (and still be emotionally healthy)? They can be two separate states. Either state could exist on its own. Alas one person almost inevitably wants the whole package if not in the beginning, down the track. Differing expectations then result in one of the two people compromising.

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I think my friend likes this guy and when I first met him, he a was nice, ok guy, but the way my friend "flirts" with him consists of hitting, grabbing his stuff, asking about everything he holds. Do guys like being flirted with like this? If he really likes her too, it wouldn't really matter much one way or the other.

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Does every person share at least 1 common dream/desire in life? Perhaps the need for self-expression.

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If you are going to choose your lifetime partner, would you rather choose the one you dearly loved (but you feel that he is not that madly in love to you) OR the person whom you know/feel truly loves you (but you are not so much in love to him)? Very definitely. Neither. Given these two choices, being single - even if for ever - is by far my preference in this case.

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I know this guy that slept with a girl and her mom and the girl was okay with it and he ended up with both of them. WTF is wrong with people? what is that even called? Poor parenting.

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A guy gives his life for the girl he loves and she finally falls in love with him as he dies and she tells him she loves him and he smiles then fades away. anyone else think that is romantic? Yes, it's romantic...... Romantic clap+trap. He 'gives his life' (how does that actually work anyway??) for this girl with whom he is having a one-sided love fest.. When she finds out he is actually dying on her account she conveniently falls in love with him but tells him as he literally gasps his last breath. He smiles because he got his girl. Shame though he won't...

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My bestfriend and i were sleeping together and acting like a couple till he said he wants to keep being just friends again. i was hurt and didnt talk to him for a few days. now i told him i think we could come back to being friends. am i making a mistake? Yes, you're setting yourself up for just more hurt. He doesn't feel for you, as you feel about him. If you resume having sex as part of being just friends, you may start to feel resentful that he is okay with the situation as FWB (friends with benefits)

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A friend has asked for serious space. It severely hurts my feelings, but when I view it as a deserved punishment, it's easier to bear since punishment is my fetish. Should I view it as punishment to make it easier to cope with or will that contort things? While I understand the fetish thing, in this instance could it be an opportunity to look at the situation in real time. What was it about your actions that resulted in this friend asking for 'serious space' from you. Is it really a punishment for you to view it as such? Or is it in fact, a way of protecting yourself? Comforting yourself? You feel hurt by their rejection....

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My co-worker who sits next to me, speaks spanish all the time to another co-worker, makes me uncomfortable. I think it is rude. Anything I can do? Teach yourself how to say "hey guys, share the gossip with me too!" in Spanish. Say it with a smile :)

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Your boyfriend comes to your house to eat every night then after hes eaten he goes home??What do you make of this? Does he contribute to the groceries? Does he help with the dishes? Does he ever bring take out food with him? Take you out for a meal? Cook for you sometimes?

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What is the role of a husband in god's eyes. If his behaivor is hurtful t his wife is he obligated to change it? Is this husband looking for an escape clause to justify why he doesn't need to change his hurtful behaviour towards his wife? Because even a small child is able to understand that they as individuals have the power to hurt someone else by what THEY CHOOSE to say and how they act.

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Does your mood impulsively change sometimes? No. Uhmm yeah. Perhaps. Dunno...

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Do you cringe when you see a guy wearing a speedo? Probably only if we we're related.

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My aunt married and divorced aman years ago..what relation does his nephew and I have to eachoter? His nephew is your former step-first cousin

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How many three letter words can you make out of education? eat cat tin ton din don cud not net nut tun ion dun due cue tad den con can tie die duo ace one toe act oat dot ode tat ant

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At what point to call you boy/girl friend a boy/girlfriend. After a certain amount of dates, a period of time, what? I'm just entering the dating scene after a very long layoff and am no longer sure of the answer. When BOTH people agree that they want to be with each other exclusively.

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THEORY: No guy can really be gay, because every guy will always like boobs. Your opinion please, also I will listen to counter theories. A person could like breasts. But not in a sexual way. Just as an aside, Okay as a female, I like how my breasts look. I like the look of other women's breasts. But I feel NO sexual attraction towards either the breasts or the women to whom they are attached! :)

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How a girl think when she have sex with a male 4 the first time? It would depend a lot on the circumstances, her age and how she felt about her sexual partner.

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What do you think of a person who, after being told TWICE that you only LIKE them you do not LOVE them, but they still continue to push and push till they get you? Is this selfish or caring or what? I'm not sure which it is...but no matter how pushy you might be, how do you 'get' someone in the first place who tells you that they don't love you?? The person must have sounded very unconvincing, maybe that's why the other person persisted?

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When i was 6-7 a male teacher would ask me to follow him into the toilet..he'd ask me to touch his thing and he touched mine..After a while he'd ask me to go out first..i didn't understand what he was doing..But now i do..But am i still a virgin??i'm boy. vir·gin (vʉr′jÉ™n) noun a woman, esp. a young woman, who has never had sexual intercourse an unmarried girl or woman a man, esp. a youth, who has never had sexual intercourse yourdictionary.com

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Can you believe she lived with this for 20 years? (See photo) I believe it because she obviously did. But otherwise, no.

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"If (your name here) is really a good girlfriend, she would please her man." If someone said this about you behind your back and you found out, how would you react? Change the sexes around if necessary. Think it was quite peculiar! How I conduct my r/ship is between me and the other person involved. A third person can have their opinions all they like, but they're are not the one in the r/ship so it has no relevance to me.

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Ya im in love with my best friend and i need advise and im scared of loosing her i already told her about 2 months ago and things havnt been the same since. she ses she doesnt love me and has a long distant relationship, but i want to be with her badly Nothing you can do or say will make her feel differently. Could you be just friends with her, feeling about her as you do?

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A hypnotized B to hypnotize C to kill D,who apparently was going to commit suicide..So,whose sin it is??And where'll D most likely be after he died? The person who actually killed D is responsible. It is believed that even under hypnosis people will not act in a way that is against what they believe to be right and wrong. D will still be in the same location where he/she was killed, unless someone has moved the body.

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Have you ever had a leech on you? Yes. After swimming in a water hole. I had several of them on me. I'm not normally squeamish but seeing them literally burrow into your skin and watch their bodies swell up with your blood before your very eyes... Yuck! I couldn't (get someone else to!) pick them off me quick enough!

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What's the first thing that comes to mind when I say "color"? That I spell it 'colour'!

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I keep hearing that guys dont date girl who dont put out, really? Maybe if they have the maturity level of a 13 year old!

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Two guys: One is nice & outgoing but im not sure if we could ever have anything serious. The other is funny & has made some mistakes but i have had a relationship with him before there was love & it was great. Do i stay with the old or try something new? You sound quite indifferent to the old and not overly enthusiastic about the new. I'd go for option C!

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When you think deeply, do you sometimes find that you have equal belief in contradicting ideas? It is more that I can equally see both sides of the coin.

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Spongebob appears in your kitchen sink....you_______________ Sterilize him!

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If you had to paint yourself from head to toe what color would u paint youself? It would have to be many colours!

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My girlfriend likes chillin with her guy friends alone. Is there something to be worried about? If it's in preference to hanging out with you. Or you are excluded when she hangs out with them - then Yes.

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Aside from all the dreamy stuff, when do you know for sure you've met the person who's worth spending the rest of your life with? You prefer their company above (but not to the exclusion of family & friends) anyone else's. When there is something important to tell, they are the first person you think of. The first person you want to talk to. You are concerned about their well-being as you are your own.

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If a female sex counsellor is convinced that an elderly man needs to have his sexual confidence restored, may she herself "co-operate" with her patient towards this end? My professional friends are divided on this issue. This is a real life dilemma for me If she is a registered counsellor it would be illegal and unethical. Beyond that I'd seriously question her agenda and credibility. Not to mention the 'professionalism' of your purportedly 'professional' friends who would even consider it an option.

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How do you tell when a girl is really friendly, or likes you? (The girl I like made me ice cream for studying together and we spend 3.5 hours at a coffee place well into the morning) Thanks guys! Ask her out on a date! Then you'll know for sure :)

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When my grandma passed away, not even 2monthes later my grandad got a new gf. do beleive that is right? after spending a lifetime together (together since they were 17) I imagine your grandfather sought companionship so soon after because he WAS in a r/ship for the most part of his life. NOT in spite of the fact he was. He would have been accustomed to having a companion and it obviously left an enormous gap in his life when his wife, your grandmother died. Your grandfather doesn't want to be alone. And that is a very human feeling.

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What is the most romantic thing anyone has ever done for you? Continued to love me even in my most appalling moments. There have been romantic gestures but those I remember less.

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What would you do, think, or say, if you realized your teenage daughter was a slut? Firstly I'd ask myself why I had even used the term 'slut' in reference to my daughter's behavior. What does this say about me and my attitudes? Only then, would I talk to her and find out where she was at.

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Can you name a thing which is 'groovy'? Lounge music.

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Examples of input and output which we are use in routine life Eating (creating energy) Exercising (expending energy)

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If your death WILL (not would) definitely save uncountable people in the world,would you? No. Why would their lives of any more relevance or less expendable than mine??

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What is the first thing that comes to mind when I mention the word crux? ...of the matter.

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♣ Fill in the blanks .. ___________ irritates me. ♣ That plastic thread used to sew tags on clothing...

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Is today's music culture responsible for influencing young people to exhibit bad behaviour? At one time Elvis Presley's records were set on fire publicly. So if it *is* in fact responsible, then it's not a new phenomena. Nor likely to change.

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What do you feed your brain with? Avoidance tactics! Not a healthy diet.

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How do you get a hard person to open him\her self .My girlfriend is extremely hard and have very little or no compasion towards other people especially when they are sick. I don't think it is something any one person can change in another. Unless they themselves want to change the way they are. Perhaps and only perhaps the person may become more compassionate with time, experience and maturity.

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Have you ever tried to trick a vegatarian into thinking their eating a new form of Tofu; only it was leftover meat that you cooked up yesterday & had to get rid of today? ;) No, aside from being a non-meat eater myself - I wouldn't feel good about doing that. Having said that, I once served up my b/f tofu 'hot dogs' without his knowing. He enjoyed them. Until I told him they weren't actually meat.

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Older people,mostly girls love to tease and play me,lil kids seem to be comfortable hanging around me and dogs and cats aproach me without hesitation and let me pat them..Do you think i have some kind of pheromone or something??I'm a 18 boy,BTW.. That's all really good stuff! Who really knows what biochemistry is at play :) If however if bothers you and you want more than teasing & being played by girls, perhaps you may need to find a greater balance and get in touch with your 'inner maleness'.

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Do men get scared of women who are genuinley sweet caring and loving beings, and really treat others with respect? because it seems like all the women who are disrespectful get men. Men will say the exact same thing. The 'nice guy' syndrome. Perhaps people regardless of gender, like someone with their own style of being! Not concerned with comparing themselves with others. Whose better. Whose worse etc. Someone who doesn't think of themselves in terms of how sweet, nice, genuine, loving etc they are. Someone who knows that being a kind,...

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In your perfect world, who would you have as your neighbors on each side? No one!

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First thing that comes to mind when you hear the word fatal? Attraction.

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What inspired you to do something? Desperation.

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Gravy goes best with_________? (fill in the blank) Train!

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I started seeing this girl a few days ago, we had sex, now she wants to have an affair with me, the thing is no one can know, will the realtionship be too stressful if she starts falling for me? Obviously. <rolls eyes> And even more so for you, if you start falling for her.

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♦♦♦ [Fun Q] Do as I say or I will _______ ? ♦♦♦ ...throw a tantrum!

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I"VE BEEN WITH MY BF for 6yrs. he is going on a road trip to canada with a girl who i dont like.and i feel really uncomfortable if he were to go. Should i be ok with it? Nope. Why should you be okay with that?! And how come she is going and you're not??

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Has anyone ever fallen deep in love with someone not for their physical appearance but for their romancism, compassion and true concern? You love this person so much sexual contact is not the most important aspect of your relationship. Not initially, no. But that's how r/ships seem to evolve with time.

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You have 5 minutes what are you going to do? Procrastinate further most likely!

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I tried calling me ex today from my old and new number. He answered the call from the new number and just said hello and remained silent, pretending he didnt hear me. I feel bad nd wanna speak to him. I sent him a bitter sms few months back. Unless we put a gun to someone's head, ultimately we can't make them want to talk to us.

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I have found my friend repeatedly starring at me and even waving at me from a distance when we make eye contact, even gazing at me from a distance could this mean he has feelings for me for more than friends> The only way to be know for sure is if he approaches you and asks you out on a date.

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Describe marriage in three words. Hope springs eternal.

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How can prostitutes put ads on craigslist and get away with it? I don't think the site sets itself up as a beacon of virtue in the first instance!

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Hey!What if Desperado married Witchy Woman..would they live in Hotel California???..or is it time for sleep? down Penny lane then through the bathroom window? Nup. Not a second time...

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Do you agree, forgivness is a gift you can give yourself? Absolutely. We can do it without the 'permission' or knowledge even of the person who trespassed upon us. More often than not, their life will go on, oblivious and unaffected by our suffering. It's definitely a gift we can give ourselves.

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Starting to have feelings for my best guy friend he liked me first but i didnt like him, and we slept together 2 times now i have strong feelings what do i do, how do i know he feels the same? A r/ship will develop if it's going to happen of its own accord. Regardless of the two people's initial intentions or how the r/ship began.

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Whats the worst thing you did in school? Allow myself to be bullied. Without doubt that was the worst thing I did.

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What is your interpretation of world peace? Well intentioned idealism.

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Do You use Hallmark Cards to say what you mean to Say? No, the sentiments are generally far too schmaltzy &/or generic. Unless it's humourous , I much prefer a blank card card to write my own message.

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Ok i met this guy a couple of days ago. I got his phone number and we just had a good conversation. I think hes interested but I'm no good with these things. How do I know and what do I do if he is? Does he have your phone number? If he's really interested nothing short of death will stop him ringing you.

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Why would a man tell you he is going out on a date and you were thinking he was interested in you, and he was complimenting me left & right probably out of not wanting me to feel bad, but he still kept telling me he was single and handing out compliments He may be fishing to see if you're interested. Or he fancies himself as a player. If he is genuine and not just a tosser, he will cut the the crap and properly ask you out on a date.

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A philosopher says that you cannot feel an emotion that you do not know the name of. Agree or Disagree Agree. It is an ability that increases and matures through education, experience, observation, the ability to empathize ,self-awareness & self-knowledge.

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Sounds crazy but...i guess it's better for everyone if i die..I mean,beside my So-called-babyface,what else can i do?? i'm being a burden for everyone.. So,if i'm gone,i guess they won't be troubled anymore.. You seem to do the Martyr thing okay!

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The wealthy and powerful skate and the rest of us fall through the ice. How do we change that? With cunning and stealth. Anytime you see one bending down and unawares ,slide up behind them .. take aim with your foot... Then thwhack! Kick em fair in the icehole..

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Do you always look for the good on people, no matter how hard this might be sometimes? Not always. But I don't go looking for the worst in them instead. Sometimes just feel neutral.

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Have you ever woke up and found a turkey in your backyard?(I Did on wed) Well yes. But it was when I was quite a bit younger and still quite immature. It was some time ago now.

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Is it appropriate for a minister to say some people you don't like when you first meet them when you should love everyone you meet in life according to God? Appropriate? Not sure. Realistic? Yes Perhaps he is referring to the feeling of love & empathy we can feel for our fellow man and humanity en masse. But it's not to say you could possibly expect or even want to befriend each individual part of the whole sum.

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If a guy asks you for girl advice.. for ex. says he likes her and asks what he should do, but at the same time has begun talking to you often does that mean he could actually like me? While he's asking for advice about another girl, no. And if you're patiently listing to him moon over someone else in the hope he'll forget about her and turn to you - that's not likely. If it becomes painful for you, tell him to try talking to the actual person . Or pay a counsellor to listen from here on in!

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What relation are my first cousins (my uncles' children) to my children? First cousins once removed. 'Once removed' refers to being separated by one generation.

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If you found your partner counting a huge amount of money, knowing a local bank had just been held up, and your partner admitted it was them, would you turn them in to the police? Directly turn them in? Probably not. But I wouldn't lie or cover for them either.

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If we decide to do something despite the fact that we likely are going to get ourselves killed,is it suicide? Probably acting in a 'suicidal manner'. Semantics really. Dead means dead.

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Hey!What if Desperado married Witchy Woman..would they live in Hotel California???..or is it time for sleep? yeah, Take It Easy.

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Are there any holistic ways of curing chlamydia or does one absolutely need antibiotics? I don't know, but very very doubtful there is. It requires prompt treatment with antibiotics. One single episode of chlamydia can scar & permanently block your fallopian tubes. It is a serious but treatable std.

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Have you ever forgot to put the lid on a milkshake maker, what happened? All the boys in the yard, got splattered with milk & syrup.

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Can you describe your bed in less than 5 words? Personal place. By Invitation Only.

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How do you deal with a "know it all" boyfriend that you live with? Maybe gently try to explore with him, what is it about for him - always needing to have the answers. What does being "right" mean for him? Is it a fear of losing control to others? Being seen as 'weak' or less than perfect?.....

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Do you feel you have a moral responsibility to answer questions here at anserbag to the best of your ability? For myself I do. When I think it's important.

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Who is greatest contributor to humanity? why Any one individual at any given time.

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When your significant other says, "We need to talk." what is the first thing that runs through your mind? Overspending.

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Should Hamsters be allowed to drive?...what are some of the risks? Personally I can't see any downside. Your average hamster is already familiar with being behind the wheel, albeit off-road...

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Why do females have a hard time getting out of a physically abusive relationship but have no trouble leaving a healthy relationship? I think the r/ship may likely be symptomatic & a reflection of the pre existing emotional health and level of self esteem of the female. . a

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I messaged the girlfriend about the boyfriend cheating. Perhaps she won't believe me but I did the right thing in dumping him after finding out about her. So even if she does not believe me, will it break her trust with her boyfriend/my ex? Just curious.. Did you want to break the trust thing between them? Do you want him back and single? Did you feel hurt and wanted him to suffer too?

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Do you know the name of your next door neighbors and their phone number? Yes, why? Are they making too much noise?

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Girls would you like to put on the little black dress and go out with the guy with the Armani and the hot car for a great evening on the town? Yep ,sounds great! Providing he doesn't genuinely take the image thing seriously!

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Saw someone left their dog in car on a warm day with window barely cracked for over 2 hours. Called SPCA and left a note on their car that said "how would you liked to be locked in your car on a hot day a$$hole?!" my gf thought I was out of line.Y or N? Yep. Out of line for sure. Over the top. I mean WTF is it to YOU anyway??? Well that WOULD have been my thinking very likely. That was until *I* became a dog owner. And now? I'd applaud you! Agree wholeheartedly it was the ONLY course of action to take. And think that the world is a far better & kinder place for the presence of people like you. Love your work! :)

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What keeps you HANGING ON? Phone calls that require you to speak to a specific person in a specific department on a specific matter.

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After washing, drying and brushing all 6 of my chihuahuas - how should I pamper myself? Get them to return the favour :)

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Would you consider the "world" and the "earth" as one? Sort of... The 'earth' refers to its physical, natural all encompassing form. A neutral energy. An exhausted host. The 'world' is all the extraneous stuff that lives off it!

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You tell the truth..you report what you saw...and people attack you and accuse you of telling lies. You don't lie. Yet there you are..the accused..and the accusers believe they are in the right. So why bother? What's the point? Who cares? In a way that is largely not quantifiable - many, many, people will care. And these people also hold that the truth is its own *point* And one time when you've woken up because you've needed to use the bathroom. It's some ungodly hour, you're s all but asleep, off guard - catch sight of your reflection in the mirror. And you can look straight back at yourself.

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If you could just spend one day with your loved one for the last time, what would you do? In my small back yard, with the artificial lawn, my animals, a small table with 2 chairs and Scrabble tiles.

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I like this woman but she turned me down a few months ago. we still talk alot but nothin is happenin. if i play hard to get will she come around if she likes me? maybe ia m no challenge now At the very most, it may pique her interest. But fundamentally it won't alter or increase her feelings more than momentarily - if at all, from how she feels now.

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Does it bother you that people copy the answers you give here and get paid for them on a pay for click site. It very well could, yes. Especially if any of my answers they'd paid good money to get, were misinformed or not accurate.

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Have you ever gone over to a girls house and she wasn't there and her roomy seduced you? No but I've seen quite a few movies where that has been part of the story line... So it obviously must happen quite a bit.

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Have you ever dealt with someone with extreme parnoia? Yesterday, I lite my oven not knowing my stepmother had put cardboard boxes in the oven for storage and it solodered into smoke. She now believes I am attempting to kill her and I moved out of home! No, just mildly. Enough to know however, that if they genuinely are mentally ill with paranoia then no amount of patience, logic or reason will make any difference.

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How did you get over it? Mostly just with time.

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Why do people judge others by the way they look? i know i have many times, and its wrong We do it, because often times that's the only thing we have to go by initially. And to varying degrees, how we dress, groom ourselves, our general demeanor does reflect part of who we are and the image that we choose to convey to others.

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Can you go into relapse... basically after gettin over someone? like can you remember things and fall back in love with them... even though they are your best friend, and never liked you in that way. Yes, it's like a comforting habit if you feel alone or stressed and need to escape to somewhere familiar. Whether you can truly fall 'back in love" with someone who didn't return your passion in the first place, is highly debatable though, I think. Without imput from the other party either at the time or down the track - is it being in love with an illusion? A fantasy...

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I like this guy he is always staring at me when i just look around the room for a friend and when ever i see him in the hall way he just stops talking and i don' t get it. he always writes on my stuff and is picking on me. what should i do? What should you do? Maybe hope that he doesn't realise you're passing yourself off as a morally bankrupt mother of a 12 yr old just yet... <<<My daughter had sex with a muscular,sexy,18,well built guy and she is 12 years old and she thought it felt so good and all and i dont know. what to do what would you say?>>> By T-Stunna Asked 46 minutes ago

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VERY URGENT DATING ENQUIRY: She had fun and we shared and laughed and were attracted to each other, and she proposed future outings but the next day she did not seem responsive?Few days later I asked her again and she did not reply. Whyyyyyyy?Please reply She may have indeed enjoyed the date. Got caught up in the mood on the night. Then in the light of day, reflected on the situation and has decided that it's not going to be what she'd hoped or imagined after all. And though not much help to you, but it's hard to say that to someone, especially after seeming so enthusiastic.

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When i got married i use to have sex everyday but now my husban doesnt even wat to touch me i mean i think im a pretty girl what could it be? The only person who could give you an answer is your husband, truly. Anything else is just guessing. And may even add more confusion.

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When i got married i use to have sex everyday but now my husban doesnt even wat to touch me i mean i think im a pretty girl what could it be? ..

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My ex has said to others he really likes/might be in love a mutual friend of ours (but hasn't told me). Yet he's more than willing to cuddle/kiss/tell me he loves me. I still love him, how can I separate myself? Confront him straight out with what you've heard. His reaction will tell you what you need to hear.

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My daughter had sex with a muscular,sexy,18,well built guy and she is 12 years old and she thought it felt so good and all and i dont know. what to do what would you say? I'd say the way in which you described this person who committed a crime against a 12 year old child is extremely disturbing and twisted.

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What do you like most about women/men Women - their sensitivity and capacity for empathy. Men - their ability to be irreverent & not always particularly sensitive!

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After I broke up with my ex gf, she didn't really want to talk to me at all and told me to give her space when I tried to just be friends. Im confused because most girls chase after their ex. Could it be she was really hurt or she just lost all feelings? If she wasn't touched by & grateful for the 'I'm dumping you, but hey I'm not completely heartless so I'm willing to give you the gift of my friendship as some sort of consolation and solace in the dark days ahead that you'll inevitably be facing' - she's done. Phew! You may have only just got in before she did ?!

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I like this guy and he is pretty nice and i put a note in his locker and he asked me if i wrote it and i said no and then like two weeks later he is dating my bff and he is always staring at me and all Whether he does think you wrote the note or not - wouldn't make any difference. He could still have asked you out. Sadly though, he chose to date someone else. If you are aware that he always seems to be staring at you - perhaps it's because you could be staring at him?? He's where he has chosen to be - but hey he's only one of lots of guys out there! :)

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Im now pregnant and me and the babys father are not 'together' anymore but when we meet up sometimes that little 'spark' lights up between us and we end up in bed,which is better than ever.he is so loving now,could he still have feelings for me? In all kindness and honesty, it sounds like lust. True loving feelings would be consistent along with their presence.. Not just when you meet up sometimes.

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How do you feel about being with someone else after you've met your soulmate? a) Question the notion of 'soul mates' - if we shared such a connection - death notwithstanding - how come we're not together? b) Imagine there is probably another soul mate out there in any case.

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Aussies & Kiwis, is it 'color' or 'colour' for you? 'Moustache' or 'mustache'? Aussie here. Colour Moustache

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I met a guy3days ago in bar and went back to his4drink&kiss(no more)and he seemed really keen2meet again, i said i wasnt sure as had come out of relationship but was quite keen. he hasn't rung me yet. shall i call him given that i was giving mixed signals I honestly don't think it would matter whether you appeared interested or totally indifferent to him. If he rings it will be because *he* has decided he is interested in meeting up with you again! In my experience, if they're really keen there's nothing that will stop them getting in contact. Good luck.

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Do use Velcro around the house and for what? I use it to keep electrical cords and cables organized.

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What do you do when you unintentionally hurt someone emotionally and they don't give you a chance to explain or apologize. They just write you off w/o letting you explain anything. What then? If they don't give you a chance to explain or apologize then it leaves you with no other option than to accept that they don't want to continue the f/ship. Otherwise they would be open to hearing what you had to say in the hope of making amends.

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Could you ever trust someone again after they cheated on you? No. I may be able to understand why they did what they did. But my trust in them is irretrievably lost.

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When you break up, do you fight over the leftover condoms? If I really want out I'm not dragging it out to fight over furniture, much less condoms.

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Would a guy keep on looking at u all the time if he thinks u are a freak? No not necessarily. But *I* might find their continual staring a bit freaky unless though spoke to me at some point!

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Curiousity question: Where does the sterotype about glitter come from? I have never understood it. That it's the domain of little girls and not (otherwise tasteful)grown women! But I won't let that stop me loving/wearing it!!

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Why do people get mad at me if I tell them I don't want kids? Perhaps it's in the way that you tell them?

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If you only had one day to win back the love of your life,what would you do in that day to try to win them back? If they left me, what could I do? I am not 'the love of their life' in the same way. So I'd question the futility & future of continuing to feel that way about them.

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Ladies,are you all woman? Yes :) So much so that I'm quite comfortable being 'guy like' when I feel like it too :p

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It is a privilege to have a pet. Are you responsible and have your pet/s spayed and/or neutered? Yes I have. It's the least I can do for them in return. :)

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My sis told me she s leaving her husb.her husb is an angel..he cooks, cleans, takes gd care of son while she's always working - she's a very dedicated quiet nurse!she's goin thru a crises- no other reason.how can i convce her to change mind?pls help You can't change her mind. Regardless she feels as she does for a reason. Just listen to her, support her in ways you can. We can never know other people's r/ships from the outside and what goes on between the two people involved. Maybe your sister doesn't want an 'angel' husband. Or maybe that's not how *she* sees him. Who knows? it's ultimately...

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When a guy notices a girl looking at him and begin looking at her whenever he sees her even if she doesn't pay attention, what could that mean? It doesn't mean much really, unless he makes a move to get to know her better. Anything else is just speculation.

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Would a guy that likes you really feel jealous when you flirt with other guys around him or just won't care??i mean is it a way to attract him more??or to lose him more? You can't make someone feel more for you than what they already do. They either will be interested. Or they won't be. And it is ultimately out of our control.

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How to know if he's with her cuz he really likes her or just want to make you jealous??what are signs or gestures that can help? If he's with someone else there's every chance that's where he wants to be. People don't usually hang out with someone just to make someone else jealous. Unless they are extremely emotionally immature still. Even then it's unlikely. It would be a lot of effort to what end??! Surely they'd make themselves available and simply ask the other person to go...

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Would a guy who is really serious and not very social whith others like a girl who's his opposite or a serious girl like him? While opposites attract, birds of a feather also flock together. It could just as easily go either way. People's characters are complex and in what degree a personality trait exists, makes it near impossible to predict.

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Ok this guy that i really like well he is kind of a family friend and the last few times our families have caught up we always flirt but im worried it could be a bit akward, im nearly 15? please help me (I know I know...it probably won't seem helpful to you...but...) What's the rush? Enjoy each other when you meet up. Get to know one another even more. R/ships I've found in my experience have a way of happening - when both people are really interested enough - despite everything else! Good luck :)

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A woman is never happy if she doesn't have her_________? .....partner feel like he is really *hearing* her.

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Would a best friend steer you wrong? Not purposely set out to do it, no. Often people's actions are that - their actions. And it may not be a personal slight on you. Nonetheless, it doesn't mean though that what they choose to do or how they live has to be acceptable to your idea of what friendship means. And what you expect from that friendship.

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Anybody get there first boyfriend/girlfriend in there 20's? (20 and up) Yes. Me :) And though probably a bit immature til my 20's it wasn't because of lack of social skills or fear or shyness or not being presentable enough - I really just didn't find anyone that I experienced a *mutual* interest enough in to go beyond just being friends with. And investing emotionally in someone 'near enough' didn't sit right enough for me...

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What type of gifts do women / girl like? Things that smell nice :)

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My cat (male, 11 years old) likes to knock things off of my nightstand. He knocks off full soda cans, phones, paper... anything. How do I get him to stop? He is obviously short of money. Cashing in drink cans, pawning your phones etc. Perhaps he needs a second job and/or financial advice? Does he seem troubled or under the influence of anything - which could be draining his finances... communication is the key. Good luck!

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What three things in life that can destroy a person? Resentment. Regret. Unforgiving.

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My 40 y/o husband thinks it is ok to stay friends with his 26 y/o female friend who while drunk invited herself to a bachelor party he was at and she had gotten 8 lap dances from the same girl. She still wants to party with him without me. Am I wrong? The marriage involves you and your husband. What on earth do *her* wants have to do with either of you??? Unless of course, your husband is also willing to put her and her wishes above his wife and his marriage.

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If god is so great then why do all the pictures of him show him without a haircut or a shave? That is of course, based on then presumption that particular attention to personal grooming is one of the hallmarks of greatness!

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What is something you drain or can be drained/draining? Other people's company at times.

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Is it true.."he's just not that into you"..that if a guy likes you, he will ask you out? My guy friends I've known for a cpl years might have feelings for me, so says my friends, but he dosen't ask me out...? Yes :) It's the most simple (and painless) way of knowing if someone is interested or not.

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How do you win your boyfriend back whatever the circumstance? & when he tells you thatyou can 'do better' does he wantyou to make him feel wanted or chuck you? If a guy is really keen and interested in you - in his mind at least - how could you possibly do 'better' than be with him? Someone who can love you and care about you as he does and wants to??? And if he can't offer that and says you can "do better" then I'd believe him!

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What does it mean if my boyfriend forgot my birthday, and when he found out that it WAS my birthday didint even apologize or get me a gift? It means he is a dud boyfriend and/or totally self-centered. His age or how long you've been dating is no excuse for at least acknowledging your birthday. We can wish total strangers "Happy Birthday!" and it's not considered inappropriate even :)

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First thing that comes to mind. something that can be dropped A boyfriend or a girlfriend.

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Does an ex that broke up with the love of their life ever stop thinking of them or ever wish that they could be together again? When they broke up just because the time was not right and they didn't want to be in a relationship because of it. It could often mean that they are romanticizing the r/ship. How could "timing" alone really stop two people being together if they both want it enough?

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Why do some people start an argument with you if you disagree with them, and then try to say you started it? Bully tactics. A last ditch effort to be "right". Always a cheap shot and a not very endearing one either!

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Why do some people start an argument with you if you disagree with them, and then try to say you started it? Bully tactics. A last ditch effort to be "right". Always a cheap shot and a not very endearing one!

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You want to teach somebody a lesson in life- a valuable one. What is a better way to do it? By example.

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Have you ever felt so disappointed with someone that you just gave up? If you have let them know how you feel and heard them out. But still, nothing changes. Then for my own sanity & peace of mind, yes.

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How would you define "Power of the Mind"? Self-discipline?

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I am in a dilemna, all of my other bridesmaids have gone into bridal shop to be taped up, all but one, she told me she would go in last week but did not, I am annoyed with her, Monday is deadline, what should I do? Ask her straight out if she *really * wants to be your bridesmaid or feels obligated. Another thought...is she a significantly bigger girl in comparison to the other bridesmaids? Or has it in her head she is "less attractive" A self-confidence thing? Perhaps it may be something along that line?

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Yes or no. Do you prefer if men are clean shaved? Yes.

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I'm not sure how to put this. It's not you, it's me. I think that we are better off as friends. Are you ok? Either way. However you try and cushion the blow...it would mean I've been dumped still.

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Is it okay to casually flirt with someone else's boyfriend? Ask their g/f if they'd mind or not. And reassure them it's purely casual on your part.

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If prostitution were legal, would there be a pussy police? You mean the coochie cops? The squid squad?

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Why would anyone want to present him/herself as vulgar, rude and antisocial? As a barrier against perceived threats - like a hedgehog!

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Porn is wrong or I'm wrong? Neither of you may be wrong too...

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If all of my friends, a teacher, and other people think a certain guy likes me does that mean he does like me? Not necessarily. They are simply stating an opinion. The only one who knows for a *fact* if he likes you, is the guy himself!

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So my boyfriend and I broke up around mid-January.He thought we would be better off as friends, and I agreed.But the times I have said hi to him he hasn't ever really said hi back.He's said hi to the friends I was with at the times but not to me.Opinion? He doesn't want to get involved again and fears that saying hi will give you the wrong impression. People when they break up, will often play the "let's still be friends" card. Often as a way to soften the blow of a break up. And get out of the r/ship without feeling bad about you and/or themselves.

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Am i doomed that i sent him an i miss you text If he said he needs time to think bcause of family probs and we havent spoken in a week- ? (he hasnt said anything back- he also said he felt we got too serious fast- i helped him alot n its not fair) You're not doomed. The r/ship is already over. He is just not interested. And no, it isn't fair but there isn't anything you can do to make someone want you in return. A person does not fall in love with someone just out of being grateful or being given help. Don't given any more of yourself away to someone who doesn't want to give back to you. Good...

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My wife got asked out tonight by this guy she works with,dancing,then to his house.kinda late now to ask,should she go? he likes her alot This is all SO wrong. You are married right, not separated and dating others?? No. All too disturbing. You're trying to be funny right??

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Do you frequently find yourself starting something but not finishi It's a very real battle and an ongoing issue for me, I start so ma

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Im in love with one of my friends shes been emocinaly abused in every relason ship shes been in i want to tell her how i feel but im scared shell push me away in fear of getting hurt again i dont know what to do do you think i should tell her Yeah! Take a leap of faith and let her know that you feel more than 'just friends' towards and ask her on a date :) If she doesn't respond in the way you hoped, it's probably less about "fear of getting hurt again" and more likely that she feels friendship feelings for you, not bf/gf ones. Just a thought, but have you wondered why she seems to be drawn to...

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Whats God gonna say when He sees all those tattoos? You mean to say I'll still make it to heaven even if i have defaced, desecrated & defiled my mortal flesh??!!

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What's your preference, curley, wavey or straight hair and what do you have? I have wavy hair. I wish it was curly. And if it was curly...I wish I had straight hair.

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When you drop a dime on someone...what exactly is taking place? Sharing the wealth...

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What's your thoughts on lesbian rape, a female raping another female? It's one person committing violence on another person.

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If your life had a soundtrack what songs would it include? "Shout To The Top" by Style Council

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Is it possible to kiss and hold someone other than your spouse when drunk that you have no feelings for? And is it better/more acceptable that it was stopped by the person before it lead to sex and it was only kissing? It's possible. Being 'drunk' though is a cop out. But more acceptable if it stopped at kissing and before sex? Hmmm so how did you manage then to make the decision to draw the line there even though you were drunk? Yet unable to make the decision not to get intimate with someone other than your spouse in the first place??

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Whats the first thing that will come to mind when you think of an pandemic? An overrun of Panda Bears!

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Who wants to go to the dollar store with me? Me, me! Every time :)

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When is it the right time to ask a girl out like bf and gf? When you feel the time is right for you. Ps and probably best when there isn't anyone else around.

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My friend and I have plans to go to the humane society and take some of their dogs for a walk, and then go get some hot chocolate or something. Would you call this a date? I don't think so, but some of my friends do. If you're not clear r/ship wise, perhaps you may both get more clarity while you're casually walking your dogs or drinking hot chocolate whichever.. :) Meanwhile though, does it really matter too much, how you define the shared plan you've made? It sounds enjoyable either way, imo! Your feelings for each other and the nature of your f/ahip will unfold soon enough.

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Did anyone realize that other language people trying to speak English don't work??? I'm so fed up with this on telephone trying to talk to a company with NON-English speaking PEOPLE trying to pretend English, they STILL have an accent!. ..Your opinions? Yes. "...with NON=English speaking PEOPLE trying to pretend English, they STILL have an accent!" leaves this English speaking person trying to decipher that part of your post...

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What is something that has wings? Some feminine hygiene products.

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If life is a teacher, what is death? The ringing of the final bell.

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I have a boyfriend and im crazy in love with him..but the only thing is he is still married to his ex..what do i do..im too in love with him to leave..i mean he says hes going to get a divorce..please any comments..i need help!! They are still married. His wife is therefore not "his ex".

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I love my girlfriend but she is driving me crazy with the way she acts, i haven't done anything lately that i can think of, but her attitude towards me is so stand offish. when i try to talk to her she blows me off, wat should i do? Her 'attitude' isn't about anything you may or may not have done. She just doesn't want to be with you. It hurts when someone we want doesn't want us. But for your own sake and her's - you really need to LISTEN to what she is telling you by the way she acts. Instead of hearing what you WANT to hear. The girl for you, will treat you like you're the...

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Which movies would be better if they had zombies? Any teen horror flick! Then I might actually feel SOME connection with the characters - and maybe care who survives and who doesn't even!

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HOW WOULD YOU FACE DEATH? Probably not as bravely as I imagine I would.

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"If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with" (Stephen Stills). How does this line make you feel? Do you agree with it? It brings to mind the Hippie Era. Nice in theory, but less so in practise.

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How come some people on here ask no questions? Is it because they have all the answers? No. Personally it's more about me knowing where the answers might be.

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Let's say someone was to break up with you. What would you rather hear? a) the truth - I love you but I'm just not IN love with you b) a lie - It's not you, it's me or I'm getting back together with my ex The truth. But whichever way you hear it, doesn't change the reality. Because the bottom line is that they are no longer in love with you.

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A woman felt in love with me by talking on the phone for 2 months from a dating site. When we finally met she told me that I was "hot" and seemed very happy to see me. When we kissed she told me that I made her feel sick to her stomach and dumped me. Why She is either a cruel game player with men issues or she realized there was no 'chemistry', physical attraction for her with you. Ps the fact that she "felt in love" with you after only talking to you on the phone, is a bit of a red flag as to her character imho.

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Truth.....hurts or enlightens? Hurt can enlighten.

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When you break up with someone there is a reason. When you get back together with someone you are _________(fill in the blank). .....still essentially the same people with the same issues

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If you liked someone would you ask them out or let them get away? As a female, I've found going after a guy doesn't seem to work. If they like you too, then very little if anything will stop them pursuing you. If they aren't motivated enough to do something about it - then I don't see it as a lost opportunity at all. Because you can't lose something that doesn't exist in the first place.

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What does it mean when a guy says he wants time and space, when he has been really keen on you beforehand? Sadly, he has come to realize that this r/ship isn't going to be what he wants after all.

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Every time I a with my male companion it seems he wants to give me somthing to eat or drink after I eat or drink what ever he gives me I start to feel very sleepy and sometimes fall asleep, is there somthing he is putting in my drink or food? Unless his company simply bores the cr*p out of you - the answer is pretty obvious that is what's happening.

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Lets say its prom day. ok so the limo arrived at my house with all my friends in it. Do i wait for my date to come and knock the door and take me to the limo or do i just go straight to the limo by myself? Let him come to the door for you :)

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Which relegion girls are faithful, virgin, pure to be married with. Faithfulness and purity are qualities of a person's choices.

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How do you go about cutting a long story short? Just the facts. Omit observations, opinions, hypothesizing and any extraneous details that don't impact on the outcome.

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Do you think its acceptable for someone to wait 2 weeks before replying to your email? It would depend upon the nature of the r/ship between the two people.

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Is anyone else freezing at this very moment? Yeah freezing ice cubes and drinks! It's verrrry hot where I am.

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Why is it that women turn the light on when going to the toilet at night. Men go in the dark. Logic tells us that the woman sits down to pee, why does she need light. Men stand up and really need to see where they pee, yet do it in the dark? Logic would also tell us then based on this - the gender who does need the light to pee - doesn't turn it on. Thus the need for the light if you're female!

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Words that rhyme with amy? Gamy: Having the flavor or odor of game, especially game that is slightly spoiled. Ill-smelling; rank. Showing an unyielding spirit; plucky: a gamy little mare that loved to run. Corrupt; tainted: “those considerable forces in America that appear to be tired of the old politics (particularly the gamy municipal variety)” (Tom Wicker). Sordid; seamy. Sexually suggestive; racy. ...

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I was cuddling with my bf watching tv and a girl called his phone but while he talked to her he held be tighter and closer. He told me it was a girl but didn’t tell her he was with me. But why did he hold me tighter and closer? Coz he hoped it would put you off the scent and shut you up! He obviously knows how much you repeat yourself I'm guessing...

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Lately all my towels smell really bad after i take a shower. i use them only once and i shower once or twice daily. i'm afraid that my skin smells bad and that i can't smell it. can it be some kind of food causing skin to smell bad? Very likely the towels re being folded and put in the cupboard when they're not completely dry. Could this be it? Ps Regular cakes of soap (don't need to be exotically perfumed and expensive) slipped in between your folded towels gives them a nice, clean smell!

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Name one thing that may shock you in a kitchen? The top of the fridge most probably. Do you know just how much dust collects there?

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What famous person do other people tell you that you most resemble? Lassie.

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Are you are what you are because that's what you are? Hopefully not perversely so, to the point of stubbornness or ignorance!

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I am completelly outraged that someone should replace the Union Jack outside a police station with a Gay rights flag...do you agree? No. But nor do I disagree. I'd respect a country's flag but I wouldn't expect or demand it be beyond reproach of any other civil causes.

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...what is "over-done" in your life? Nothing if I can help it!

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What is a reason people will give for NOT leaving a tip? From another country where tipping is purely at the customer's discretion and not obligatory perhaps.

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I just had my ten year class reunion. I was a real nerd back then, and had a crush on the most popular guy who was really mean to me. At the reunion he stared at me all night, but never talked to me and his wife was glaring at me. Why? Perhaps they were trying to place who you were and why you seemed so focused on them all evening!

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In one word, what is an emotion that you hope to experience today? Balance.

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My husband claims that the woman he talks to behind my back is just his friend but i found out he tried to cheat with her a couple years ago. he says he didnt tell me because he knew i would be upset and that theres nothing going on..what should i think? I'd wonder what else he isn't telling you for fear of 'upsetting you'.... No man bashing here, but from what you write I'd trust him about as far as I could throw him over this. Why the need for a female friend that he has chosen to hide from you?

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Why is my partner so superficial? Especially when he isn't all that attractive himself. it's a case of "okay i can only control how attractive I am, to a point - but I *can* have control ( and thus 'power') over my opinions of other people". It is compensatory.

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If your S/O put his finger in another womans ear would you be upset? Unless a dam in her head had broken and he was helping to stem the flow, then yes I would.

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Do you feel that people who come on ab just to flirt like mad with everyone are just sad individuals? No! How will it adversely (if indeed at all) affect my AB experience?

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Name Something you may discuss with a Lawyer...? Your will.

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Do you think if a female get pregnant and is not sure who the father of her child is... she a slut? What's the point of giving a female that title under any circumstances?

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How agreeable are you? Huh? Wtf kind of question is that??? What's your point here?

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Is it condescending to rest the arm on a woman's shoulder or wrap it around her waist? Not if your overtures are accepted.

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Are you 20/20, near sighted, far sighted? Left or right handed? Out going personality or shy? Very short-sighted. Left handed. An extroverted introvert.

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Is it so wrong to just want to think of yourself sometimes instead of always putting others first? To look at it another way: Do you expect the people you put ahead of yourself, to put you ahead of themselves? And is there a certain passive-aggressiveness and manipulativeness in being self-denying? In that you can relinquish a certain level of control & responsibility over yourself, because you are more inclined to be directed by the whims & moods of others?

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If you could have something daily what would it be? A massage.

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My boss and I were in a committed (sexual) relationship for over four years. He even asked me to marry him when the time was right: in about 10 years. He ended the relationship on 1/3/09. I have to see him everyday and it's very d He ended it? With long range plans to recommence in 1/3/2019? So how do you cope seeing him in the meantime?

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What do you do if you're engaged to love of your life nd your BEST guy friend (who happens to be married) wants to leave his wife for you? How do you let him down gently? Dunno, how did it get to this point? People don't generally leave their spouse for someone they haven't established some sort of romantic r/ship or understanding with. If he is your BEST guy friend, surely this would have been discussed and understood before now? It doesn't make sense...

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I like a guy, but Im mean to him without tryin to, think it's because I was mad at him for doin a bad thing to a friend of myne. He's given signs of liking me, but Im worried Ive given him a bad impression. Any tricks (eyes?) to let him know without telin You probably don't have to do anything special or tricky. Often times if a guy really likes you, it's all about 'him' and what he sees and wants. Whether the girl likes him or not at this stage, is largely irrelevant I think! :)

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I met this guy 2yrs ago n <3d him n he didnt bak bt we always had chemistry. Now I notice he stares/blushes alot n lks away if i notice, mirrors me and leans towards me wen we tlk coz we hav alot lately. he seems hapy 2 c me n helps me alot does he <3 me He seems to <3 you sure. If he fancied you as a potential g/f, I think he would have asked you on a date by now.

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If I said that I was lying, would I be telling the truth? There would be no way of knowing the answer to the question, based on that information alone.

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Do Bad things only happen to Bad people...? 'Bad' things and 'badness' in a person is subjective. And open to interpretation.

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When describing yourself, what is the first adjetive that comes to mind? Erratic.

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Is an emotional affair better than, equal to, or worse than a physical affair? Why? They are both damaging in their way. And a betrayal of intimacy. Emotional intimacy. And/or physical intimacy.

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I will never forget the little people that made me famous. What can I do to repay the little people that got me here? Gulliver?? Is that you?!

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Which animal would make the worst pet? One they can't/won't care for or look after.

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When I say waterbed, what is the first thing that comes to your mind? The 'tasteful' 70's!

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What are some books you would recommend to a 16yr old girl who loves reading nearly all genres of books. All suggestions are appreciated but please no classics, they are all already on my list. :) 'The Diary Of Anne Frank' 'Go Ask Alice'

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Are your good friends all you need? No, I want my animals as well!

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If an atheist has to testify in court, must s/he swear on the Bible? Yes, it's standard practice. But what you really think/believe while doing it, is another matter.

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Can you fall in love with someone who you are not physically attracted to? I would think, no. ps Finding someone physically attractive has little if anything to do with being shallow or superficial. We are drawn to what attracts us as individuals - looks wise. That is part of falling in love and doesn't lessen or discount a person's *heart*. Perhaps we are attracted to the face which reflects the person's inner being??!!

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Has anyone had real, lasting friendships or relationships with people that they first met online? Yes! The net is filled with regular, everyday people too I've found :) But the same as meeting new people IRL, I have taken time to know them and trust them - it's no different, once you meet them face to face.

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My daughter, 20, seems to have difficulty with dating relationships. She seems to be comfortable with boys who don't want to date, but just text her. If a nice young man comes along and seems interested and wants to date, she avoids him. Why? It could just simply be that she hasn't fancied any of the guys that have wanted to date her, so far. Just a thought :)

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What makes you cheat oh your partner? Nothing *makes* you. It's always a choice!

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Sometimes I pretend my cat's head is a record and I'm a DJ. Anyone else do this? Yeah but it won't be the DJ doing the scratching...

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I've been dating a single dad for over a year who shares custody. I haven't yet been on any outings with him and his two young children. He goes on fun outings with his ex-wife and the kids still. What gives? Have you asked him why? As it stands at the moment, you may as well be the 'other woman'. You may need to take a stand here on what you will continue to accept as normal in this r/ship - it doesn't seem that he is able to or willing to.

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Do you enjoy your significant other's company? Yes :) He wouldn't be a 'significant other' if I didn't!

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I told my man a few home truths cuz he said NO more lies now he thinks ive cheated and is now punishing me 4 sumin i didnt do! i dont know wot 2do im trying soo hard but nothings workin now he's bein distant. wot do i do please HELP!! Do you think he might be doing all this as an excuse to get out of the r/ship?

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What would you do if you caught you bf or gf sending naked pictures of themselves to someone else? Demand answers. There and then. Not budge until I got some.

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My boyfriend wanted to get me a cell phone last Christmas and he did but since I had the phone he wants me to be able to answer it whenever he calls no matter what. Isn't this a type of control? Yep. Remote control.

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Do you believe in Simplicity? Yes.

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I took a HPT this morning. the positive line was meant to be vertical but came through across the middle of the window!!! then faded 2 mins later and now it says negative,,,,, HELP!!! am i pregnant! it may have been the control line that showed up, to let you know you had peed on the test strip correctly or that it had been sufficiently wet enough to register. The enclosed instructions are generally comprehensive and clearly written to make the test/s almost foolproof.

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Your head.... do you like it? Sometimes it's my greatest ally. Sometimes it's my biggest foe.

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What do you think humankind's basic problem is? Its human - ness.

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Who is the real us, the true us: who we think we are or who others think we are? Somewhere most likely between the two..

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Can you still get money for old rope? I'm a frayed knot...

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Do you think there is a certain age in which woman should not become pregnant after? what are your thoughts? ( I remember reading about a 60+ woman having a baby, made me wonder...) Rrgardless of any personal opinion I might have on the age limit of becoming pregnant, I adamantly believe that it should not come under the jurisprudence of the law of the land. After 10+ years of IVF without success, I can well empathize with women who make the choice to become pregnant even past their natural child bearing years. I maintain, even aside from my lack of success -...

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Do you belive in happy endings!? Death is the only true ending.

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What is another name for "Crook?" Unwell. (Aussie slang)

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What lessons have you learned from your relationships? If someone is really into you, they will always make time and find opportunities to spend time with you. People seem to be able find the time to do the things they really want to do.

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What is something simple you find joy in? My animals. They have simple needs (by human standards at least!) and they always live in the here and now.

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My husband is blind, he has never done anything romantic...ever even when he could see. he asked what he can do now .... i am drawing a blank any thoughts? Drawing a blank wouldn't be of help to a sighted person either! Perhaps something that involves the sense of touch & smell? A scented bubble bath together - he could scrub your body from head to toe and shampoo your hair.

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Do you have any famous lines that come out of parents mouths? (mine is: This room is a pig sty. AND Money don't grow on trees) "Make sure people are laughing with you and not at you..." Kind of still haunts me that one.

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What does it mean if your guyfriend comes to visit you for no reason before he is gone for work for a week (never came with no reason) than during the week sounds like not having energy to talk to you, and when he's back he doenst call to say he's back? You posted this under 'Turning friends into lovers' - and from what you wrote, it sounds like he is very much still in the 'friends' category. ps what reason would he normally need to come over for then?

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Do you know exactly what is up in your attic? I don't have an attic, but I mostly know which things are right up my alley! :)

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Do we have to get lost to find ourselves? Get lost? Or go missing??

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I really like this guy and he told me that he really likes me but just resently he said that we need to slow down and that we was becoming something too fast... he lives a couple of hours away... did he get scared of his feelings and backed off some? I don't know really if you can get 'scared of their feelings' for someone to the point that you need to tell someone to back away - especially if you were brave enough to get involved in the first place! And when you can hardly be in each other's face being long distant already! It seems more like they are scared of the other person's feelings if they told them the...

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Can you create a humorous name for a new rock group? (ex. the flaming marshmallows) The Rubbers

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Has my work here been done? Uhmm, you missed a spot..juuust there ------> :)

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There is this guy I really like and I can talk to him on the phone and we text all day and night, but when I see him in person he just makes me speech less. Is that a bad thing or good thing Does he make an effort to put you both at ease too, by initiating conversation? And seem interested in finding out more about you, by asking you? And let you into his head space?

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Do you belive gay marrige is right in eyes of the world or int the lord? The 'eyes of the world' hold many differing views. Nor is everyone a Christian. Legally speaking, in several countries and US states yes. In many places, no.

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I havnt spoken to him in 3days and i'm dying to hear his voice. Should i call him? Sure, you could ring him. Is there any reason why he hasn't called you though?

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What kind of woman would fake a pregnancy to try and trap a man? A desperate & insecure woman. With no confidence inher ability to have a man simply want/choose to be with her, for herself alone.

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How would you feel if your boyfriend/girlfriend of 3 years said they didn't love you like that no more? Pretty devastated I'd imagine. But eventually even more devastated if I was to continue to hold onto to someone who no longer loved me.

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How do you make a Female interested in you if your not their type? Luckily you can't! Could we really find happiness & maintain our self esteem with someone long term, feeling that we weren't their 'type'? Having said that, how can you be so sure what is her type? And that you're not her'type'?

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Why would a guy call to ask something stupid, and than wont continue the conversation and make the feeling like he's busy? what's up with that? Attention seeking? It could also depend upon what 'stupid' thing he asked about...

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I like someone but david said he is trouble should i go for him? Do you trust david's opinions usually? Did david give any reasons *why* he thought this guy was trouble?

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What do you do when someone have strong feeeling for youdeeeply inside and you got nothing for him inside at all? Gently but firmly tell him/her you don't feel the same way about them. It's hard to do, but it's harder on both people in the long run, if they continue to believe you return their feelings when in your heart you really don't. And it's hard on you, when you are not being true to yourself. Good luck.

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How did you find the people(nature-wise) here on AB? A micro-cosmos of the world.

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Could you love someone that you know hates you? If it was romantic love, then no. Definitely not. If I wanted to p*ss them off further however, then continuing to love them would do it.

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What would you do if a crazed stalker was obsessed with your boyfriend and continuously spread rumors that they f**ked?(would you fight her?) I wouldn't fight her for any reason. But I would find out for definite from my b/f if there is any history there. And need to know if he was in my corner or not. It wouldn't necessarily mean I'd dump him or get angry if they had been together in the past. I just want to know the facts, for my own peace of mind. Meanwhile she can be as crazy as she wants. Providing I...

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If a ex says they dont wanna talk to your face is that them trying to hind? It sounds like they mean they want to avoid any contact

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MY HUSBAND WANTS TO DIVORCE ME BUT I DON'T WANT. HOW CAN I STOP HIM? Do you still want him. if you know he would prefer not to be there?

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HOW CAN I IMPROVE MY RELATION WITH MY HUSBAND? First you would need to try and identify what the problems are. And is your husband willing to join together with you to make your marriage better?

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What to do to try and win someone back? If you 'win' them back, it means they wanted to come back. if they come back for any other reason than that, it's unlikely they'll stay. Good luck :)

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What's a memorable flaw of your first house or apartment? The mortgage.

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If you know you are the antichrist, would you kill yourself or continue with your destiny? If you were the antichrist, then you mindset would be that of an antichrist.....no?

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Straight women, have you ever "Frenched" another girl? how was it? did it go any further? Yes. Pointy tinylittle snakey tongues.. fine downy upper lip, like skin on a ripe peach, lips soooo incredibly soft, it was disconcerting!.....like mashing a whole handful of marshmallows on your face... small smooth surface area of face - like just one false move and their entire head would have just slipped through the crack of my oral cavity..

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If at the end of a rainbow you find a pot of gold, what do you find at the beginning? A daunting trek ahead of me yet too a breathtakingly beautiful array of colours to light the way///

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Has a kiss ever caused you to wet yourself? No, not so far. But a sneeze has!

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Me & my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months (feels like so much longer) & broke up 3 times and each time was even harder than before. 2 of the 3 times, i was the one who did the breaking up. i do feel like i love him, and i sometimes wonder i The emotional toll of breaking up on average of every four weeks would make it seem loooonger for sure! Being so unsure (and unsettled in the r/ship) about how you really feel about someone, kinda holds the answer to that right there. A r/ship doesn't have to be so drama filled and uncertain. ideally (but by NO means impossible!) a r/ship provides a calming & comfortable,...

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What would cause you to abruptly stop being friends with someone? A repeat of any ongoing issue. That would finally break my "give a damn" ...I'd be through then with trying even to understand /be understood.

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Women, would you have a problem with your husbands if they were watching cartoons? I understand they find everything immature. I don't have an issue with any adult (self included!) in finding enjoyment and escape in immature interests. As long as they never lose sight of the fact that they *are* an adult and as such, be ready to act as one, where & when it matters.

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Why do so many women get insanely jealous if their men are watching porn or happen to look at another woman? It's something I just don't get... Perhaps because women are more inclined to associate sex as an expression of love and intimacy. So when they see their man showing any interest in a female, they are filtering it through *their* experience of sex/love being intertwined. And as a female, intellectually I fully understand and appreciate the difference between the two. Even too, for a male. But it is an almost knee...

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I've noticed that when answering relationship questions, 99% of the people are so quick to tell the person to dump their S/O and move on without a second thought. What ever happened to working it out? Mostly because an emotionally uninvolved third person, looks at the situation as it is presented. Their advice is not clouded by feelings that often make the two people in the r/ship overlook all the negative aspects out of fear of being alone or that somehow they CAN *change* how the other person in the r/ship is.

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What do i do if my sister is getting married and my parents forbid my interracial partner to join me at the wedding? While it's difficult to imagine adult people being so ignorant and backward - the most important person to consider on the day is your sister. It's a time when it is ALL about her :) and any really negative, festering issues in the immediate family especially can take the focus away from where it should be - on the couple getting married. How does your sister feel about your...

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When in a relationship is it ok for someone to go on a dating/ singles site Unless both partners are okay about 'job sharing' their r/ship. then the answer would be NEVER!

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What shouldn't you encourage your children to do? Est vegetables. (Reverse psychology)

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When women in into relationships with bad boys and marry then, is it highly likely that they'll fall into a abusive relationship in the future? Whether they have the 'bad boy'thing going or the charming to everyone else including their wife. But behind closed doors......., Rich, poor, intelligent, uneducated, PHD ,christian, atheist etc etc etc whichever... Abusers come in ANY form. Ps Is this along the lines of Why do Nce Guys Always end up finishing the last of the sour grapes thing?

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How can you tell if a ex still has feelings for you when they see you in person, but you dont keep in contact? The fact that you aren't in contact is probably the most accurate way of knowing how interested they are.

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At what point did you realise..."I AM IN LOVE" You somehow just know. Even though it's not like it comes to you as a revelation. But don't know how you know. And you don't know how you can't not know... Or something along those lines...

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My ex said she wasnt ready to be in a relationship again but still liked me after she broke up with me.I even got a drunk call saying how she missed me buteverytime i try talking to her or seeing her she just ignores my texts or makes excuses. This means? Whatever she might be saying, doesn't mean much. Talk is cheap She has no interest in having a r/ship with you. Don't put yourselfin her hands again and again, just so young van feel bad & sad, .

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Do all women prefer to have a relationship with a man who had experience from a relationship and sex? It seems like most do nowadays? There would be quite a difference between what experience in r/ships & sex is from an 18yr old compared say to a divorced 5O yr old .

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Ladies, what does your Prince Charming look like? Tall, dark and handsome.

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What do you think is the real key to happiness? The knowledge that there isn't just ONE key...

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I have been with my boyfriend for a year and some months i really love him. Last night when i was talking to him i told him that i have not been faithful with any other guy that i have been with and was it wrong for me to do that. Depends why you said it.. Was it to hurt him? Make him feel insecure? Are you angry at him for something he's done? Do you want him to care more about you and your r/ship? Do you want to see how much he does care?

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I caught my wife of 2 years in my bedroom with another guy she said they didnt do anything but they were in their undergarmets we are seperated now but i recently saw her and am starting to catch strong feeling for her should i ignore them or not? What more did she need to do than that??? Isn't that enough on its own??

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What shouldn't you encourage your children to do? Play with these.

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If you have heard the recent news about the man who donated a kidney to his wife, and they are now getting divorced because she cheated and he now wants his kidney back, tell me should he get his kidney back? I think so.! No. He has already given it to her. I do think though, fair enough if she *did* happened upon seeing her ex spouse on fire....then it's only befitting & just that she DOES put out the fire for him.

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My ex boyfriend and I broke up but we still love each other. A month later after we broke up I was intimate with someone new and now my ex wants to work things out. I want to be with my ex but will he be able move on knowing this? Until you talk about it with him, it's impossible to predict how he'll respond. However it pans out, never lose sight of the fact, that this occurred AFTER you and he had broken up. Good Luck!

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What do you *hope* complete strangers think of you when they first meet you? Now be honest, what are they really thinking? I'd be hoping they would see me as a normal, regular trustworthy kind of person. A bit scatty most probably.

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Ladies, does it ever bother you when a man assumes that just because he shows an interest in you, you're going to swoon and be his, no questions asked (or effort made)? No! Because any schmoozy-ness very likely would have been notcable, almost immediately! So I wouldn't have been around to know or care, what his assumptions might have been.

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Any Remedies for getting rid of very flaky dry skin on the face. very very fast? as in one day? Slather a *thick *layer of Vaseline on your face. Sleep with it on overnight (towel on pillowcase!). Upon waking wipe off with tissues. Then clean off remainder with face washer and warm water. That is the most effective.. Otherwise, leave on for 2/3 hours. It will still make a dramatic improvement.

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Does your significant other have to be attractive? Attractive in MY eyes? Yes!

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How many cats do you own? *cough*.....three! My last puss had been abandoned at 3 weeks along with his mum and the rest of her litter. They ended up at my local vets. And were taken care of there until they were old enough to be adopted out. I think of him as my change of life 'baby'. There were NO plans at all to add another. But he is a delightful little thing with a admirable sense of...

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Which Woman of Legend Are You? (take quiz) That was fun!

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If a woman is beaten by her partner and does not leave immediately, are any subsequent beatings she might endure her fault, or somehow deserved, for having stayed in the relationship? To make it anyway her fault or that she is deserving. is pointless, unhelpful and achieves nothing. Moreover it deflects from the totally inexcusable actions of the other person.

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I like this guy soo much Words can't even explain it but my bff doesnt like him and said if i date him she wont be my friend anymore. wutt should i do? Who should i choose? Im leaning towards the guuy but idk. Does your bff say why she doesn't like him? Is she scared that it will affect your friendship? Ask her gently what's going on in her head. It really isn't a matter of having to choose. One is a best girlfriend, the other is a potential boyfriend. A g/friend would want good things for you, that make you happy - even when they don't involve her. She wouldn't...

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Am i falling out of love with my girlfriend? We just had a big fight... and shes very hurt.. and its like i have no desire to fight for her... Is this it? Is it over for me? I dont know what to do.. i dont want to fight for her, and give her false hope That you end with saying you don't want to "give her false hope" answers your own question.

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Women are really dumb but think they're really smart. Let them continue to think that way and just enjoy the show. what would you think of your boyfriend if he sends you such an email after an argument? I'd think he sounds as if he is trying to hold onto his imagined superiority as a male because he finds females a threat. If he is a teenager, he is probably immature, insecure and inexperienced. If he's older, then continue at your own mental peril!

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If a girl forced herself on you she was kissing and carressing you is that cheating? Switch the scenario around; If you found your gf/wife being kissed and caressed by another guy would you be straight away thinking "hey that &*@#5! forced himself on her and is keeping her captive under threat of violence. That's why she is trapped sitting there and not trying to get away or screaming at him to leave her alone.

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Can someone who has only been with one person in bed ever be better in bed than someone who is more experienced? They are definately less experienced. But it doesn't have to follow that they'd be 'better' or 'worse' Their one sexual r/ship may have been with an experienced person who taught them what they'd learnt. Maybe both partners enjoyed reading sex guide books together and experimenting with each other. They could have been curious , highly trusting and...

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I don't feel anything for my husband anymore. We just live our lives together, but apart. Understand? I don't know what to do. I don't want to leave him, but I don't want to be unhappy. What do you think? Does he know how you feel? And do you know where his head is at? If you were both to sit down and talk to each other about how you both feel, it may give you more clarity about why you are both where you are. Perhaps you may find your husband feels equally as disconnected & alone. This won't go away, but will just get buried a bit deeper with each passing day, unless...

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Would you check someone's AB profile when they had made an excellent question or answer? Not every time, but quite often. And it's not always prompted the by brilliance of an answer or response either! More often, I'll look at a profile to find out the gender of the poster. That intrigues me as much as anything, looking to see if there is any particular pattern in how males and females react to or advise on certain posts.

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The more you give, the more you get back in return. Do you agree? Perhaps being generous - whether it be spiritually, monetarily, or emotionally - creates a mind set of openess which in turn enables a person to feel appreciation in a broader sense as well. It's most likely one of many phenomena that exists as as by product of our perceptions creating our reality.

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Are any of your favorite bands one hit wonders? No. But many of my favourite songs are. But that wouldn't mean the same thing.... or does it??

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What's the first thing that comes to mind when you hear "there's no way wrong way to do it"? A disaster in the making!

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Anna Nicoles death. Yay or Nay? Yes, sadly it is true. She is deceased.

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How do I respond to those people that know everything, have been everwhere, have done everything and just HAS to point it out to you in a very show off sort of way? They've made it very easy... You won't need to! :)

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If you could make one thing in the world absolutely free for everyone, what would it be? Health care.

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My wife wants to ask evolutionists and atheists what their 'Plan of Salvation' is?? Christians and others have plans or ideas about their salvation. What is yours? My Salvation Plan is in place and operational as we speak. It entails earning money to enable me to see my bills are paid & my mortgage payments are met. What I salvage from the remains, I use to pay my way through life, whenever possible. Should Plan A collapse... Plan B is to worry about it if/when it happens. :)

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Have you ever sniff someone's panties? No. But my dog has.

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Do you talk to your pet like some people talk to their infant babies? 'Pet'?? You must be referring to my little schnookum wookums?

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Why do celebrities give their sons ridicolous names like "Maddox" or "Lourdes"? Lourde only knows why. For celebrities, when it comes time to name their offspring - the Apple of their eye, eccentricity & the want to be individual seems to be the automaddox response.

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My boyfriend likes to play video games a lot. And sometimes after work he'll play them for hours and not talk to me (we usually talk at night) He already thinks I'm too attached. Sound familiar to anyone else? When he tells you, you're already "too attached" and not making himself so available to talk = perhaps he mightn't have the same interest/emotional investment as you do in the r/ship? Good luck :)

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My GF acts COLD. WHAT should i DO? Ask her straight up if she still wants to be together. If she doesn't, then you have done all you can do. If she does, then ask her what you can do.

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I met this girl a week ago.i personally have never met someone and felt this way. it seems shes the girl for me. its like shes the other half im looking for but the twist is she is in the middle of going to the marines. signing on monday. what do i do? If she is the girl for you and you are the one for her, then you'll both find some way of making it happen. Practically speaking, communication is now almost invariably possible where ever you are. Determination and interest will be what counts meanwhile. Good luck :)

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In what form do you most commonly take in chocolate? Pre menstrually No question, am I in good form then!!

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Im angel i want to buy a gameboy but it worth 6000 because where poor i cant buy such thing. Since i was a child im dreaming to have a gameboy. Could you help me to buy? PLEASE? There are free games you can play on the internet. It's not a Gameboy I know, but it's a compromise of sorts.

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If I look hard enough, can I see tracks of your tears behind that beautiful smile? No, coz my red swollen eyes, snotty nose & tear stained cheeks would be self evident! But when it's over and I've washed myself, there's no permanent & irrevocable damage to the smile I don't think..

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Is there an explanation to the human tendency to want to dominate rather than co-exist? Equally why do some humans have a tendency to want to submit rather than co-exist? Either way it's still about power & control.

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