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Answer to Which of Penn and Peng is better as a first name? Thanks!? I am a guy, not a kid. My original name is Pengsheng. Which short do you like? Thanks a lot!

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 13:53:30 -0800

Which of Penn and Peng is better as a first name? Thanks!? I am a guy, not a kid. My original name is Pengsheng. Which short do you like? Thanks a lot!

I like both. It depends on what you are trying to acheive. Penn has more of an English sound to it while Peng retains the ethnic flavor of the full name. I woudl lean toward Peng as being more yours, less common, and therefore hard to forget.

Answer to Does stealing another woman's husband make you a WHORE?

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 13:50:09 -0800

Does stealing another woman's husband make you a WHORE?

No, but it does make you guilty of bad judgement. A relationship that is based on someone else's pain has a very shaky foundation.

Answer to What is your screensaver?

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 12:07:39 -0800

What is your screensaver?

I use pictures of my daughter as a screensaver. Her face is an image I never tire of seeing.

Answer to Do you own a flour sifter? Is it really important that such an item be used when adding flour to recipes?

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 12:04:38 -0800

Do you own a flour sifter? Is it really important that such an item be used when adding flour to recipes?

It really depends on what you are making. Most flour now is so finely milled, it doesn't really need it for most things. However, if you are making a particulalry delicate cake or souffle, that sifting can be quite important. Older recipes call for sifting because older milling methods were...

Answer to Does your pet seem almost human?

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 12:01:20 -0800

Does your pet seem almost human?

My pet loves unconditionally. Can you think of anything less like a human? I find my dog, Mystic, to be quite superior to most humans, me included.

Answer to Do you judge people when they use poor grammar?

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 11:58:57 -0800

Do you judge people when they use poor grammar?

I once stopped dating a guy because he said "they was". It drove me insane. However, I didn't think he was stupid. I just knew that at some point I was going to scream, "They were! They were! Subject and verb must agree!!!!!" I didn't think that would be conducive to...

Answer to Why do so many people think of Benny Hill when they think about British Humour, there is so much more :-) What British humour do you find funny?

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 11:34:52 -0800

Why do so many people think of Benny Hill when they think about British Humour, there is so much more :-) What British humour do you find funny?

My husband just reminded me of Absolutely Fabulous and Fawlty Towers. I loved both of those as well.

Answer to Why do so many people think of Benny Hill when they think about British Humour, there is so much more :-) What British humour do you find funny?

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 10:25:44 -0800

Why do so many people think of Benny Hill when they think about British Humour, there is so much more :-) What British humour do you find funny?

I am a huge Monty Python fan and viewed the death of Graham Chapman as the loss of a great treasure. Though I have enjoyed the work of the surviving members, the whole was definitely more than the sum of its parts. Although I do think Terry Gilliam has emerged as an amazing film maker.

Answer to Are you or were you bullied at school? Do you feel frustrated for not getting the chance to get back at them?

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 10:10:53 -0800

Are you or were you bullied at school? Do you feel frustrated for not getting the chance to get back at them?

I had a horrible time in school. I have red hair, freckles and I'm smart - talk about asking for it. And I made some bad choices in response to it. However; all of that goes into making me who I am now and I like me. So....no frustration...no regrets...only lessons learned and hopefully...

Answer to How difficult do you think it is to be monogamous for life?

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 09:57:33 -0800

How difficult do you think it is to be monogamous for life?

Just as difficult as keeping any commitment. It's a choice. Some mornings love is effortless, some mornings you choose to love. It's a road. There are curves, strightaways, speedbumps, unpaved sections, cracks, and unmapped areas, but the discoveries along the way are well worth the...

Answer to What are the health benefits to eating chocolate?

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 09:48:13 -0800

What are the health benefits to eating chocolate?

Dark chocolate is an antioxidant and I find this an excellent excuse to have a piece every day! LOL! I'm also sure my husband sees the benefits, as it really perks me up and my daughter is just as big a chocoholic as I am. There is no problem a little chocolate can't make better! LOL!!!!!

Answer to Is having a born again missionary as President a violation of church-state separation?

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 09:45:35 -0800

Is having a born again missionary as President a violation of church-state separation?

This is the real problem, in my opinion anyway: Separation of church and state is not in the constitition - anywhere. It is a phrase lifted from a letter written by Thomas Jefferson and it was about protecting the church from the government, not the government from the church. At the time there...

Answer to I love documentary films, could you recommend any?

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 09:39:14 -0800

I love documentary films, could you recommend any?

"Born into Brothels" Wonderful film about what happens when you place cameras into the hands of children born in Calcutta's red light district. It will break your heart and inspire you.

Answer to What's the latest thing you bought that you'd advise others NOT to buy because. . . .?

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 09:33:02 -0800

What's the latest thing you bought that you'd advise others NOT to buy because. . . .?

The One Touch can opener. I have arthritis and this looked like it would be great for me, BUT it doesn't work well at all. It stops and starts and you have to keep messing with it to get it to work properly. The worst thing about it is if it stops in the middle of opening a can and you...

Answer to What was the first concert you attended? How old were you?

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 09:26:28 -0800

What was the first concert you attended? How old were you?

The Who at Anaheim Stadium in 1975. I was 15.

Answer to Why do people always associate gay and lesbian relationships with sex?? Why can't people comprehend gay/lesbian love?

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 09:23:21 -0800

Why do people always associate gay and lesbian relationships with sex?? Why can't people comprehend gay/lesbian love?

Which "people" are you referring to? I understand love in all of it's guises - the sex of the person loving has nothing to do with understanding their realtionships. What blocks understanding is fear. When we fear something, it helps to put it in the basest terms. Gays are not the...

Answer to For you, what is much harder, trying or quitting?

Sat, 26 Jan 2008 09:17:12 -0800

For you, what is much harder, trying or quitting?

Quitting. Until I have given it everything I've got, I do not stop. The worst thing that can happen is I fail and failure is a learning experience. No experience is a loss if you learned something and you only learn if you try.

Answer to Any tips about adopting a dog from the pound?... we are going to look and maybe adopt tomorrow..

Fri, 28 Dec 2007 18:08:57 -0800

Any tips about adopting a dog from the pound?... we are going to look and maybe adopt tomorrow..

First of all KUDOS! to you for going to the pound for your pet. Now, most shelters have a get acquainted area - use it. Pay close attention to the dogs interactions and reactions. Ask lots of questions i.e. history of the animal, shots administered, observations of employees, etc. Hopefully, you...

Answer to Cheaters....whats your opinion? should u trust them again??

Fri, 28 Dec 2007 17:52:10 -0800

Cheaters....whats your opinion? should u trust them again??

It has been my experience that barring a life changing experience, i.e., near death or religious revelation, people do not change - so, NO.

Answer to Do you know anyone who simply would not listen no matter how well and hard you explain to them?

Fri, 28 Dec 2007 17:44:59 -0800

Do you know anyone who simply would not listen no matter how well and hard you explain to them?

Anyone who has children that have gone through puberty has had that experience at least once.

Answer to Have you ever eaten Spam?

Fri, 28 Dec 2007 10:39:01 -0800

Have you ever eaten Spam?

Yes, when I was a kid. My dad loves the stuff and he made me try it - UGH! too salty. FYI: It is popular in Hawaii because Hawaii was the staging ground for the Pacific front in World War II. Meat was rationed at the same time the US military presence increased. Spam was a regular part of...

Answer to What saves your life everyday?

Fri, 28 Dec 2007 10:33:06 -0800

What saves your life everyday?

My morning quiet time - after that I'm up for anything. But I think it would be more accurate to say my morning quiet time saves everyone else's life everday! LOL!!!

Answer to Jackie chan or Jet li ? why?

Fri, 28 Dec 2007 10:28:22 -0800

Jackie chan or Jet li ? why?

I don't know if "actor" is the right term. John Wayne was John Wayne whatever he was in - his skill was in picking parts where that worked for him. I think the same applies to Jackie Chan and Jet Li, However, I think Jackie has a more approachable persona and therefore is the more...

Answer to What are your usual complaints when you're in a long flight?

Fri, 28 Dec 2007 10:19:13 -0800

What are your usual complaints when you're in a long flight?

I CAN'T FEEL MY LEGS!!!!! And I have two words for the person next to me - toothpaste and deoderant.

Answer to Do you often just rush through life with your to-do list?

Fri, 28 Dec 2007 10:18:02 -0800

Do you often just rush through life with your to-do list?

Thank goodness NO! I learned it's very important to take the time to enjoy life - the TO DO list isn't going anywhere, but my daughter is growing up as we speak.

Answer to What are some really bad tattoos you've seen?

Fri, 28 Dec 2007 10:16:46 -0800

What are some really bad tattoos you've seen?

A 60ish woman with a demon clawing it's way out of her back. I'm sure it was a good idea at the time, but the demon was looking a bit long in the tooth, if you know what I mean.

Answer to AB Writers out there: How do you portray the sound of a shriek in writing, besides the usual "Aaahhhh!"?

Fri, 28 Dec 2007 10:14:43 -0800

AB Writers out there: How do you portray the sound of a shriek in writing, besides the usual "Aaahhhh!"?

EEEk! ARGHHH! She responded shrilly... with an ear piercing shriek.....with an agonized cry....sounding as though her soul was being ripped from her body....etc.

Answer to What would you give to know the truth you've been dying to know?

Fri, 28 Dec 2007 10:12:23 -0800

What would you give to know the truth you've been dying to know?

The truth about what? It has been my experience that truth is subjective and people are VERY touchy when you challenge their version of it, hence all this politically correct nonsense. What I believe to be the truth is not currently in fashion, but it certainly has set me free. However; if I were...

Answer to Can I become "cleverer" or am I genetically stuck at a certain level of intelligence?

Sat, 15 Dec 2007 07:44:24 -0800

Can I become "cleverer" or am I genetically stuck at a certain level of intelligence?

I don't like labels. I think there is always room for growth and improvement. Genetic inheritance is a baseline, not a ceiling!

Answer to Hey I think stillme just slid by the Sage zone. How about congratulating my fellow Hoosier on her latest accomplishment!

Sat, 15 Dec 2007 07:39:42 -0800

Hey I think stillme just slid by the Sage zone. How about congratulating my fellow Hoosier on her latest accomplishment!

I bow to your superior wisdom oh sage one!! Congrats!

Answer to To paraphrase 'Men falling in love is as much of a myth as Big Foot. It's all 'lower instincts' and has nothing to do with the heart.' This came from a grown man with children. Thoughts?

Sat, 15 Dec 2007 07:32:50 -0800

To paraphrase 'Men falling in love is as much of a myth as Big Foot. It's all 'lower instincts' and has nothing to do with the heart.' This came from a grown man with children. Thoughts?

That makes me very sad for his family and for him. When I hear things like that I always wonder what deep hurt did that person suffer to make them so bitter?

Answer to Do you ever really like a movie that everyone else hates? Which movie?

Sat, 15 Dec 2007 07:30:30 -0800

Do you ever really like a movie that everyone else hates? Which movie?

I usually find myself in the opposite position of hating a movie that everyone else likes. For example, I really hated "Forrest Gump" and I have never found "Star Wars" to be that big of a deal. I have taken a lot of flack for my opinion and have been the object of many a...

Answer to Why is it okay to make your child sit on an old mans lap...........JUST because he's wearing a red suit and gives false promises? And then they proudly display pictures of screaming kids!!!!!!

Sat, 15 Dec 2007 07:21:46 -0800

Why is it okay to make your child sit on an old mans lap...........JUST because he's wearing a red suit and gives false promises? And then they proudly display pictures of screaming kids!!!!!!

I don't like it when a I see a parent so intent on getting that picture, they ignore their child's fear. I have never forced my children to sit on Santa's lap. I have so many pictures of them enjoying other aspects of the holiday season, I have never felt the necessity for that...

Answer to I'm sorry for the depressing topic, but what do people usually do with the remains of your pet when they pass away?

Sat, 15 Dec 2007 07:08:38 -0800

I'm sorry for the depressing topic, but what do people usually do with the remains of your pet when they pass away?

My little papillion, Hannah, passed away just this last Tuesday. We buried her in the back yard garden where she liked to play. I have always tried to bury my pets in a favorite place in our yard. Many times I have planted a tree or bush on the site in memory of them. I plan to plant a Rose of...

Answer to What is the funniest, most hilarious joke you've ever heard?

Sat, 08 Dec 2007 14:05:25 -0800

What is the funniest, most hilarious joke you've ever heard?

This guy walks into a bar and tells the bartender he'll have the usual. The bartender replies, "Do I know you?" "Everybody knows me," says the guy, "I'm Harry. But I'll play along. Give me a scotch and water, hold the water - single malt." "So...

Answer to When did the world begin to end?

Sat, 08 Dec 2007 13:46:06 -0800

When did the world begin to end?

The day it began. As soon as the clock begins to tick, there will come a time when it will stop.

Answer to If you love someone, but deep down, think its not gonna work, how the hell do u finish it and cope afterwards?

Sat, 08 Dec 2007 13:44:00 -0800

If you love someone, but deep down, think its not gonna work, how the hell do u finish it and cope afterwards?

It is never easy when you come to the realization that love does not cover everything. And there is no easy way to end a relationship where there is still love, but in the long run, the sooner you end it the better for both of you. If you are recognizing a problem, chances are the other has felt...

Answer to What do you miss the most about the 1990's?

Sat, 08 Dec 2007 13:39:46 -0800

What do you miss the most about the 1990's?

Not having gray hair! LOL!!!

Answer to Would you name your child with a popular name, a rare one or just in the middle?

Sat, 08 Dec 2007 13:38:37 -0800

Would you name your child with a popular name, a rare one or just in the middle?

My oldest son is named Ariel. And yes, it was prior to Disney's Little Mermaid - I would never have done that to him on purpose! Ariel mens "Lion of God". My son was 2 1/2 months premature and had to fight like a lion for his life. His name meant something to me. So I guess, for...

Answer to Do you miss your high school years? If so why?

Sat, 08 Dec 2007 13:17:24 -0800

Do you miss your high school years? If so why?

NO!!!! I was the proverbial square peg. Square pegs flourish in the broader reality of the world outside high school, but wilt in the lemming culture of high school.

Answer to What does it mean to be "good on paper"?

Sat, 08 Dec 2007 13:13:02 -0800

What does it mean to be "good on paper"?

It's like the idea of communism - you read about it and it sounds wonderful - all equal and everybody sharing and living in harmony. Unfortunately, the competitive nature of humnan beings makes it impossible. Somebody always wants MORE and some will do whatever it takes to get it. So,though...

Answer to Have you ever lied about being in a relationship in order to keep an ex from stop contacting you?

Sat, 08 Dec 2007 13:09:36 -0800

Have you ever lied about being in a relationship in order to keep an ex from stop contacting you?

Yes, and it worked. However I was much younger then and had trouble with confrontation. Now I would just tell them how I felt and no longer respond to any attempt at communication.

Answer to Why are people so inately disturbed by the sight of a human skeleton?

Sat, 08 Dec 2007 13:07:34 -0800

Why are people so inately disturbed by the sight of a human skeleton?

It's a reminder of our mortality - death is not a popular idea - especially one's own. Though speaking for myself, it doesn't bother me and my 6 year old daughter finds them really fascinating.

Answer to Do optimists frighten you?

Sat, 08 Dec 2007 13:00:53 -0800

Do optimists frighten you?

No, they give me hope.

Answer to How do you write a good English paper? It only needs to be 2 pages long, but I have a very particular English teacher.

Fri, 30 Nov 2007 06:29:34 -0800

How do you write a good English paper? It only needs to be 2 pages long, but I have a very particular English teacher.

Since I do not know what kind of paper we are talking about, I will give you some general tips. Stay away from passive voice. "The car had crashed into a wall." does not have as much impact as "Glass shattered, metal screeched, as the the car collided with the wall." Also keep...

Answer to If a girl sleeps with a guy on the first date does that guy loose interest in her automatically?

Mon, 26 Nov 2007 20:26:02 -0800

If a girl sleeps with a guy on the first date does that guy loose interest in her automatically?

Unfortunately, it usually eliminates any need, on his part, to get to know her better. Also, he tends to make assumptions regarding her character that preclude him wanting to get to know her better - he has gotten what he was after. Please understand I am making no judgement calls here, just...

Answer to Is this it?

Mon, 26 Nov 2007 20:17:36 -0800

Is this it?

Definitely! :>

Answer to Do you believe that "good looks" are "everything" in a relationship?

Mon, 26 Nov 2007 20:03:20 -0800

Do you believe that "good looks" are "everything" in a relationship?

Faces wrinkle, taut muscles sag, boobs droop - face it, eventually eveything goes south. The outside is subject to change without notice. It's what's inside that lasts and if the inside looks good to you, the rest doesn't matter. In fact, when you see someone through eyes full of...

Answer to I stay at home and take care of the kids so I don't get a paycheck for my job, is it ok to buy my husband a gift with his own money?

Mon, 26 Nov 2007 19:57:55 -0800

I stay at home and take care of the kids so I don't get a paycheck for my job, is it ok to buy my husband a gift with his own money?

That money is also yours. As one mom to another - you have earned the right to share the bank account. I'm sure your husband agrees. Mine sure does. We sat down once and figured out how much it would cost him to pay someone to do what I do. First of all, he would have to hire 4 people - a...

Answer to Have you ever fallen in love with a character in a book?

Mon, 26 Nov 2007 19:48:48 -0800

Have you ever fallen in love with a character in a book?

Many times! But the literary love of my life is the sad and solitary Tristan of CJ Cherryh's Fortress series.

Answer to Does anyone have any ideas for a homemade Christmas present from a 4 yr. old boy to his father?

Mon, 26 Nov 2007 19:40:25 -0800

Does anyone have any ideas for a homemade Christmas present from a 4 yr. old boy to his father?

Buy a small wooden plaque from a hobby or craft store, coat your son's hand with paint and press onto the plaque. Using a paint pen, write the date. Let your son sign the back - it really doesn't matter how he does this - it's a snapshot in time. His father will love it.

Answer to Who LOVES painting their nails? I do!!

Mon, 26 Nov 2007 19:33:25 -0800

Who LOVES painting their nails? I do!!

My mom wouldn't let me paint my nails when I was a kid so I did it with crayons. I couldn't wait until I was old enough to use nail polish. Unfortunately, being both a pianist and an artist, long nails were not an asset and I tended to chip the polish almost before it had a chance to...

Answer to Is the most erotic image in the world a semi naked, unshaven nun covering herself in chco chip ice cream?

Thu, 22 Nov 2007 08:37:41 -0800

Is the most erotic image in the world a semi naked, unshaven nun covering herself in chco chip ice cream?

Thank you so much for a completely unwelcome image that is going to haunt me all day. LOL!!!!! There is a downside to a vivid imagination. Oh, and erotic is most definitely NOT the word I would give to that image, but whatever flips your switch, I guess. Although it might be best not to share....

Answer to Could you do a "Home Alone" if robbers were trying to get into your home?

Tue, 20 Nov 2007 21:22:46 -0800

Could you do a "Home Alone" if robbers were trying to get into your home?

Actually, I would be more inclined to do a "Dirty Harry".

Answer to Do you think justice has already been served to the victims of the Holocaust? Why or why not?

Tue, 20 Nov 2007 21:20:02 -0800

Do you think justice has already been served to the victims of the Holocaust? Why or why not?

How do you recompense someone for something like the Holocaust? Sorry, doesn't do it. Money doesn't bring back the dead or restore the damaged. Monuments are inanimate objects - at best they make sure we do not forget the horror. But is that justice? I do not think justice can ever be...

Answer to Best way to get rid of an irritating fly?

Thu, 15 Nov 2007 18:12:14 -0800

Best way to get rid of an irritating fly?

"God in His wisdom made the fly and then forgot to tell us why." Ogden Nash Roger gave you the best answer - they are attracted to light.

Answer to The urge to cut myself is almost overwhelming. I thought I was doing better but I guess not. Can someone please help me talk myself out of this?

Thu, 15 Nov 2007 18:10:30 -0800

The urge to cut myself is almost overwhelming. I thought I was doing better but I guess not. Can someone please help me talk myself out of this?

You're doing it. You're are recognizing the urge and reaching out for help. Kudos to you for that. Know that there are a lot of people praying for you. See if you can find another outlet for the pain. I put my pain into my artwork. When I was younger I always kept a few dishes on hand...

Answer to My mother-in-law got mad because I painted my 4 yr.old son's toenails.She says he will "grow up gay". I don't think there's anything wrong w/ homosexuality.What's her problem, and what do you think about this?

Thu, 15 Nov 2007 18:00:15 -0800

My mother-in-law got mad because I painted my 4 yr.old son's toenails.She says he will "grow up gay". I don't think there's anything wrong w/ homosexuality.What's her problem, and what do you think about this?

How ridiculous! I bet you guys had a blast. What he got out of it was a good time with mom. What could be better or healthier than that?!

Answer to What was the last movie you bought? How long ago did u buy it?

Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:58:05 -0800

What was the last movie you bought? How long ago did u buy it?

I bought "Meet the Robinsons" this afternoon for my daughter.

Answer to Everyone has that one person in their life that is just a little twitchy. So who in your life mans the phones at 1-800-URtwisted? Or is it your home phone?

Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:56:41 -0800

Everyone has that one person in their life that is just a little twitchy. So who in your life mans the phones at 1-800-URtwisted? Or is it your home phone?

Here I am sitting all alone with a switchboard in front of me and nary a caller in sight. I guess I am the only twisted sister in the bunch - but wait, I have been reading your answers - I know I am not the only one....come on...I'll even go so far as to throw a family member or two into the...

Answer to Are you a jaywalker or do you cross the road at the crosswalk?

Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:49:37 -0800

Are you a jaywalker or do you cross the road at the crosswalk?

I cross at the crosswalk. I am trying to teach my daughter to be safe and the best way to do that is by example.

Answer to Have you ever been the cause of a traffic jam ? What reason?

Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:46:13 -0800

Have you ever been the cause of a traffic jam ? What reason?

I thought I could make it that last mile before I got gas - WRONG! The worst thing about it was how nasty people were. It's like they figured I got up that morning and thought to myself, "Hmmm, what can I do today to piss off the most people at one time?"

Answer to Name the closest thing to your left foot

Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:42:12 -0800

Name the closest thing to your left foot

my sock

Answer to What does the "i" in iPod, iBook, etc mean?

Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:39:36 -0800

What does the "i" in iPod, iBook, etc mean?

insecure, impolite, insurrection, ignorance , illiterate, inadequate, intercourse, incoherent, idiot, impunity&#8230 - according to the "Mac Roundup" webblog - LOL! Actually - it's Interface.

Answer to What time do you put your kids to bed and how old are they?

Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:36:13 -0800

What time do you put your kids to bed and how old are they?

8:30 - However; we usually read a story together before lights out so actual to sleep time is close to 9/9:30. She's 6.

Answer to AB is full of over-zealous liberals and conservatives incapable of seeing any other side of any issue. Aren't there any non-extremists left? Can we have a shout out for all the moderates and people who will admit they don't have ALL the answers?

Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:30:36 -0800

AB is full of over-zealous liberals and conservatives incapable of seeing any other side of any issue. Aren't there any non-extremists left? Can we have a shout out for all the moderates and people who will admit they don't have ALL the answers?

HELLO...o...o...o...o...! I think I hear an echo. It's lonely in the middle of the road, but we make it work.

Answer to Do you find NASCAR entertaining?

Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:28:07 -0800

Do you find NASCAR entertaining?

I have to say the fans are extremely entertaining in an, "Oh my god, I am in a Jeff Foxworthy routine!" kind of way.

Answer to Have you found out more about yourself since you started ABing?

Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:23:26 -0800

Have you found out more about yourself since you started ABing?

No, but I have found out a lot more about my fellow ABers - enough to both encourage and scare the crap out of me.

Answer to Do you think pregnancy at 16 is good for your health?

Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:21:36 -0800

Do you think pregnancy at 16 is good for your health?

I think pregnancy at 16 is poor planning. It's not unhealthy. There are still cultures where 16 year olds are considered of marriageable age. However; this culture does not teach young women to be responsible adults, does not allow young women of that age to marry without parental consent,...

Answer to Can a man and woman really be "just friends?" Or is one person hoping for something the other person isn't?

Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:15:16 -0800

Can a man and woman really be "just friends?" Or is one person hoping for something the other person isn't?

According to Harry in "When Harry Met Sally", the answer is no. The sex thing is always out there. I thought I had a real friendship with a guy for years only to find out much later that he was in love with me. I have had guy acquaintances, but no really close male friends. My sister...

Answer to If Santa and his elves work at the North Pole, why do all the children's toys say 'Made in China?'

Wed, 14 Nov 2007 14:09:52 -0800

If Santa and his elves work at the North Pole, why do all the children's toys say 'Made in China?'

Let me break this to you gently - SANTA IS NOT REAL. Sorry. If he was, he'd probably outsource anyway because the elves would have a union, would strike periodically for better wages, fewer hours and a better working environment - The north pole is COLD, and it's all about the bottom...

Answer to Have you ever disliked someone just because you dislike them? If so, did you have a reason secretly, or why?

Wed, 14 Nov 2007 14:02:48 -0800

Have you ever disliked someone just because you dislike them? If so, did you have a reason secretly, or why?

Sometimes I have an adverse reaction to someone I have just met and I am not sure why. I always feel badly about it, but 9 times out of 10 I find out later that my instincts about that person were right. I believe we take in information we are not even aware of at the time that effects our...

Answer to Do you know how to check the oil and tire pressure of your car or do you get someone else to do it?

Wed, 14 Nov 2007 13:56:14 -0800

Do you know how to check the oil and tire pressure of your car or do you get someone else to do it?

Of course I know how, but as long as my husband is around and willing - I let him do it.

Answer to As a female, I obviously poop, like every other person in the world. But why do some girls and guys get so grossed out when the subject of a girl pooping comes up?

Wed, 14 Nov 2007 13:52:59 -0800

As a female, I obviously poop, like every other person in the world. But why do some girls and guys get so grossed out when the subject of a girl pooping comes up?

Immaturity. But I have a question? Does this subject come up often? I can think of only a few times in my life where I had a conversation about girls pooping and all were with my daughter when she was potty training. So I can't say that I have ever really run into this.

Answer to My boyfriend wont talk to me, and idk why. He wont break up wit me. And he tells people he just likes me as a friend. i talk about breaking up, And he says he doesnt want too. any suggestions?

Wed, 14 Nov 2007 13:47:19 -0800

My boyfriend wont talk to me, and idk why. He wont break up wit me. And he tells people he just likes me as a friend. i talk about breaking up, And he says he doesnt want too. any suggestions?

Walk away. Never stay with a guy who says one thing to you and another to your friends. Don't settle for a relationship that is not good for you just because it's there and it's safe. Do yourself a favor, make a list of the qualities you want in a man. Then use it - don't...

Answer to Have you ever had the privilege of riding a mechanical bull?

Wed, 14 Nov 2007 13:41:29 -0800

Have you ever had the privilege of riding a mechanical bull?

No, and my butt just thanked me for it! HEE HEE

Answer to What's everyone having for dinner tonight?

Wed, 14 Nov 2007 13:40:44 -0800

What's everyone having for dinner tonight?

I was planning to have a roast chicken with garlic and rosemary, a spinach salad with pine nuts, craisins and feta with a rasberry hazlenut vineagrette, and some of the bread I made today. However, my husband, who is working nights right now, didn't get to bed until a few hours ago so he...

Answer to At 35 am i too old to find a new woman

Wed, 14 Nov 2007 13:34:35 -0800

At 35 am i too old to find a new woman

Your'e never too old to love. But you didn't specify what you wanted the new woman for?! LOL!!!! For all I know you need a new cleaning lady. But, if I am right in assuming you wish a new relationship - Go for it. We do not lose our capacity or need for love as we grow older - that need...

Answer to When you wear glasses, do you look intelligent or or nerdy?

Wed, 14 Nov 2007 13:25:24 -0800

When you wear glasses, do you look intelligent or or nerdy?

I can't speak for everyone, but I look fabulous!!! LOL!!! Seriously, it depends on the glasses.

Answer to Would you flag as offensive answers which state that "interracial mixes" are evil? Or are those answers okay because we have freeedom of speech?

Wed, 14 Nov 2007 13:23:40 -0800

Would you flag as offensive answers which state that "interracial mixes" are evil? Or are those answers okay because we have freeedom of speech?

I don't flag anything offensive. Free speech applies to all, not just to those who agree with me. It would be good if people remembered that. Unfortunately we have way too many in this world who think thery should be able to spend their whole lives never hearing anything they don't want...

Answer to What would be the worst thing you could find in your stocking this Xmas?

Mon, 12 Nov 2007 16:24:09 -0800

What would be the worst thing you could find in your stocking this Xmas?

A foot - not only would it be disgusting - there would be no room for presents! LOL!!!

Answer to If your significant other makes you happy you lose 5 lbs, if they disappoint you, gain 5 lbs... Would you be fat or skinny?

Mon, 12 Nov 2007 16:20:21 -0800

If your significant other makes you happy you lose 5 lbs, if they disappoint you, gain 5 lbs... Would you be fat or skinny?

Man I wished that diet worked!...no..wait a minute...I would have wasted away to nothing. Never mind.

Answer to If the mother's nipples were inverted, would she be able to breast feed?

Mon, 12 Nov 2007 07:57:03 -0800

If the mother's nipples were inverted, would she be able to breast feed?

It depends on whether or not the nipple is truly inverted. There is a simple pinch test you can perform to dtermine this. If they are inverted, it does not preclude nursing it just make it more dfficult. However; in women who are pregnant for the first time, it is very common for the nipple to...

Answer to I was in the 911 attacks on the World Trade Center. I was fairly religious before it happened. Unlike many others, I pulled further and further away from God. I now consider myself an atheist. Did you draw closer to God after those attacks or apart?

Sun, 11 Nov 2007 13:31:40 -0800

I was in the 911 attacks on the World Trade Center. I was fairly religious before it happened. Unlike many others, I pulled further and further away from God. I now consider myself an atheist. Did you draw closer to God after those attacks or apart?

Closer, definitely closer. I find it interesting that so many people blame God when bad things happen in our lives. "If He is so loving, why would He allow this to happen?" We are not puppets on strings, we make our own choices. We make our own world and,as such, are responsible for the...

Answer to I was the other girl for 6 months. Now I am his girlfriend. I am having such a hard time trusting him that he won't cheat on me. It is difficult because I love him, and I tell him I don't trust, but I want to learn how. How do I trust again?

Sun, 11 Nov 2007 13:21:22 -0800

I was the other girl for 6 months. Now I am his girlfriend. I am having such a hard time trusting him that he won't cheat on me. It is difficult because I love him, and I tell him I don't trust, but I want to learn how. How do I trust again?

He has to earn your trust - the burden is on him. Trust is so important in realationships. You can have all the love in the workd for someone, but lack of trust will eventually errode that love and turn it to resentment. It works both ways too. You will get tired of questioning everything and he...

Answer to Why is it that most people pray to God but never go to church or practice their religion?

Sun, 11 Nov 2007 13:15:11 -0800

Why is it that most people pray to God but never go to church or practice their religion?

People tend to turn to God when things are going badly and forget about Him when things are going well. And before anyone gets their panties in a twist: I am not questioning the faith of people who do not attend church - just making an observation from personal experience.

Answer to How do you keep your attitude hopeful when it seems like you have a mountain to climb?

Sat, 10 Nov 2007 21:40:30 -0800

How do you keep your attitude hopeful when it seems like you have a mountain to climb?

Consider the adventure of climbing the mountain - the things you will see, the people you will meet, the experience you will gain, and the things you will learn. Then consider the view from the top - how diferent everything looks from there. And last but not least consider how much fun it is to...

Answer to Is there any age that you think a person is already way too old for getting married?

Sat, 10 Nov 2007 21:35:52 -0800

Is there any age that you think a person is already way too old for getting married?

Any age after death would probably be bad. On this side of the grave - love has no age limit!

Answer to Do feminists have more fun?

Sat, 10 Nov 2007 21:33:26 -0800

Do feminists have more fun?

Happy people have more fun - so if feminism makes you happy, then yes.

Answer to Which is a better place to visit - Peru or Bolivia?

Sat, 10 Nov 2007 21:27:15 -0800

Which is a better place to visit - Peru or Bolivia?

I have not been to Bolivia, but I have been to Peru. It was an incredible trip and one I would highly reccommend. We visited Cuzco, toured the valley of the Incas and climbed up to Machu Picchu. The people are friendly, the food is very good and the scenery is gorgeous!! It is also relatively...

Answer to Is art dead?

Sat, 10 Nov 2007 21:17:25 -0800

Is art dead?

Art is a very subjective thing. A black velvet Elvis is art if you appreciate it. The ability to find beauty and/or meaning in a created object is inherently human and as long as we have that ability - art will survive.

Answer to Is there a certain/special Veteran that you will be remembering this weekend?

Sat, 10 Nov 2007 21:09:29 -0800

Is there a certain/special Veteran that you will be remembering this weekend?

My great-uncle Samuel Herbert Gertsch served in WWII as a navy corpsmen attached to a marine unit in the Pacific. He was part of the third wave to hit the beach and was wounded on Iwo Jima after 13 days on the island and later served as part of the occupation force in Japan. My father served as a...

Answer to Will you/did you send you kids to public school, private school, pay for a personal tutor or teach them yourself?

Sat, 10 Nov 2007 07:47:53 -0800

Will you/did you send you kids to public school, private school, pay for a personal tutor or teach them yourself?

My 6 year old daughter is currently attending public school, but I make it a point to be involved - get to know her teachers, audit classes from time to time, do homework with her. Her father and I are also active participants in her education. Maddie explores science and math with her father and...

Answer to How do Ativisims work?

Sat, 10 Nov 2007 07:41:28 -0800

How do Ativisims work?

An atavism is a real or supposed evolutionary throwback, or in plain english: traits reappearing that have not been seen for generations. The theory is that the genes for previously existing traits are still present within the DNA structure even though they are not currently expressed. However;...

Answer to Do you do household chores eg dust/hoover/mop floors etc, daily or do you wait until the weekend?

Sat, 10 Nov 2007 07:32:27 -0800

Do you do household chores eg dust/hoover/mop floors etc, daily or do you wait until the weekend?

I have a large house, so if I don't do some maintainance daily, it can quickly become overwhelming. I break it up in groups - dusting and vacuuming one day, bathrooms, the next, kitchen and bedrooms...etc. with some things that have to be done everyday - dishes....etc. However, being an...

Answer to Ladies, what's the most successful pick up lines, u've used?

Sat, 10 Nov 2007 07:26:25 -0800

Ladies, what's the most successful pick up lines, u've used?

Do we need pick-up lines? I thought being what we are is enough. After all, we have something you can't get anywhere else and that's all I am going to say about that. LOL!

Answer to If I said women are better then men, do you think all the women would give me 5 points?

Sat, 10 Nov 2007 07:25:08 -0800

If I said women are better then men, do you think all the women would give me 5 points?

No, because we are equal in our differences. We are made to balance one another and when we don't try to compete, but just be what we are - we balance very well. But I will give you the 3 points I can give for the attempt to flatter. It won't get you anywhere, but ......LOL!

Answer to What's your least favorite food and how much would someone have to pay for you to eat a portion of it?

Fri, 09 Nov 2007 12:54:16 -0800

What's your least favorite food and how much would someone have to pay for you to eat a portion of it?

Brussel Sprouts and how much are you willing to pay? LOL!

Answer to How would i know im pregnant

Fri, 09 Nov 2007 12:51:38 -0800

How would i know im pregnant

Without using a test, it is hard to be positive, but here are some indicators: 1. You have missed one or more periods (stress, extreme weight loss, or illness can cause you to miss periods as well - so keep that in mind) 2. Tenderness or soreness of the breasts 3. Fatigue 4. Nausea without...

Answer to Do you believe children should be "smacked" when they are naughty?

Fri, 09 Nov 2007 12:38:28 -0800

Do you believe children should be "smacked" when they are naughty?

Spanking, when properly used can be very effective. Note I said when properly used. It should never be done in anger and only in response to deliberate disobedience - not for childish irresponsibility. Before the age of 2 and after the age of 5, it is really neither necessary or very effective....