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My girlfriend told me her top came off at the beach, and a whole bunch of her guy friends saw her tits. Me as her boyfriend how should I react?For some reason I was pissed,its not her fault... but I acted supportive and ok. why is it still bothering me? It seems to be rooted in the feeling that she's 'yours' and the vision of her naked breasts should fill your head only. That can lead to jealousy issues! Good for you to act supportive, it can be embarrassing to unintentionally flash people.

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What's something stupid you did as a kid where it's lucky you or a friend weren't maimed or killed? Tons of junk, I used to make a statement 'I'll probably be dead by 26.' So now I have no plans for life as I'm quite a few years older! Geesh I was a wild child, never thought of the consequences. If I hadn't had such good friends I would definitely not be around today. The hubby probably had a hand in it too. :)

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Does it make you feel uncomfortable if your parents fight in front of you? No, it never did even when younger. I try not to fight in front of the kids but sometimes I feel overwhelmed with anger/pain.

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Is it rude to clean your parents house when your visiting? (there both very busy and still kids living in the house) I usually do as I know they've gone to extra trouble for my visit. I know I'd appreciate it! Are you visiting the Southeast US anytime soon? =)

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Are you a picky eater? What kinds of food do you like and dislike? Nope, I have a trash can stomach and eat many different things. Some even say I have a trash can mouth. ;) There are some foods I don't care for, but I can't think of a food I dislike! Unfortunate for me!!

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Fun has decided to throw in the towel and leave AB. Who wants to help me convince her to come back? Fun: Take a break from any craziness and then come back! Don't let anyone drive you off. I know I'm not the only one who values your quips and strong opinions. You add great flavor to this site, and it's not only bacon! ;]

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If you had one last chance to write a sentence to a loved one before he/she left home in the morning, never knowing if you'd ever see he/she again. What would it say? (THIS IS POSSIBLE EVERY SINGLE DAY PEOPLE)? Thank you for being with me through such hard times of pain and misery, know that I've always loved you and it's stronger than ever.

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Why are so many people unable to give compliments to others? It's not as if they really cost you anything...or do they give someone psychological power over you if you are 'weak' enough to give them a compliment?Anybody understand this question? I do my best to notice good things about people and point them out. When people are unable to give them out it's usually for the following reasons: -insecurity, you don't want to give someone an 'edge' over you -jealousy/envy, makes you unable to pay out a compliment -depression, when you just can't SEE the good things -self absorbtion, once again, not being...

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What was your favorite class you ever took in any grade of school or in college? Oceanography in high school. We lived on an island and one of my tankmates was a scuba diver... we had stonefish, Portuguese man of war, lion fish, porcupine fish and some other goodies. We kept getting points off for cleanliness though, no one wanted to put their hands in the tank to clear it out, lol. Our teacher was fabulous, she was active in the marine biology community and was...

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Do emotions distort our perceptions? Absolutely. Take a look people suffering from depression. What about 'seeing red'? There are plenty of examples of emotions distorting our perceptions.

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What are your thoughts on cremation? It's the way to go, there are way too many people on this planet to keep setting aside land for bodies. Let my ashes be free to rejoin the cycle of life as the essence of me will be elsewhere. I will live on in the family genes.

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When was the last time you went to a concert? In the early 90's, Rush. It was great!!

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What was your biggest surprise about your S/O after you were married or started living together? Sleeping farts... and I think I picked up on that bad habit.. o.O Maybe it's just getting old(er)!

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Describe your wedding ring. Is it the original ring? Plain gold 'comfort fit'. It is the original, although it's been resized once!

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In Hawaii and Japan, it is customary in most homes to take off your footwear when entering a home. What about your home? We do, too. Not only is it respectful but it helps keep my home clean and sanitary as 'outside dirt' isn't tracked all over the place. Of course it's kind of moot as we have two dogs... but it helps. :)

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Hey, killdrphil is a Maestro now. Even though it sucks for him that he doesn't get to be a Sage anymore, I think reaching level sixty is an achievement worthy of some praise, don't you agree? Do you want to give some to him? A belated congrats! Careful with that baton, Maestro!! ;)

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Hey, killdrphil is a Maestro now. Even though it sucks for him that he doesn't get to be a Sage anymore, I think reaching level sixty is an achievement worthy of some praise, don't you agree? Do you want to give some to him? Ooops, duplicate! Not that KDP doesn't deserve double congratulations. :)

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Do you like cornbread made with or without sugar? (or not at all?) Both, it depends on what I'm serving it with. I usually add at least a pinch though, sugar brings out the saltiness without adding as much salt. Always cook in cast iron for the best crispy edges. YUM!

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I'm with a guy who is controlling he won't even let me have a n email address without telling him, checks my phone a lot and even checks up on me on the net.. is this right? Any tips? Not to be rude, but does he have any reason to be jealous? If there is/was a reason then some time will heal the hurts and rebuild trust. I know this because I am the person you are describing, with unfortunate good reason. If not and this is the way he pretty much always has been then he has control/anger issues. Unless he deals with them you will have to decide if this is something...

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What is the biggest purchase you have made in the last year? A house. :) Might be my biggest sale this year, lol.

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Women; what percent of the time do you "FAKE" and orgasm? with your one man and/or all guys EVER, a few times. Lately, never, I don't have to both in quality and being ok in occasionally not.. very occasionally. :)

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Ok i've recnetly been texting my ex and its nice cause we used to be friends then we dated ...not good so we dodn't talk for a while now were texting each other everyday but.. he has a gf we flirt text sometimes should i keep doing this or stop Stop. I'll be the first to admit a little flirting is fun, especially from someone who knows you so well. It seems so harmless. But what's the point? The end result is nothing good. Were you planning on seeing if you should resume being a couple? Obviously it didn't work out. Plus - this is disrespectful to his girlfriend. I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate...

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Do you want to list your top ten (Can't be any less) favorite movies so that - based on these - I can reveal your personality out of 16 different types? (This question takes the place of my similar question about movies that I had to abandon). The Fisher King Shawshank Redemption The Color Purple Toy Story Memento Love Story Jurrasic Park Indecent Proposal Monty Python and the Holy Grail Clockwork Orange

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Have you ever thought that you should have told someone: "If I were you, I would run away from me"? If so, who and why? Yup, I have though not in those exact words. It was my hubby and he's taking my advice.

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I really like Cadbury products, especially the Mini Eggs. I just picked up a package, and the chocolate tastes different this year. Has anyone else experienced this? We were just talking about this! The chocolate doesn't taste as good... saltier I thought. I like the big ones but the mini are much better portion/calorie-wise. It hasn't stopped me from indulging, they're still very tasty. ;)

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My ex husband, who is married, has a new girlfriend. He has known her alittle over a month has just moved in with her. he wants me to let our kids go to the new girlfriends house for his visitation. Our kids are 13,11,& 2. Am I crazy for feeling uncomfort Ok, even taking out the fact it looks like he has a WIFE in addition to the girlfriend I would say you are absolutely NOT CRAZY for feeling uncomfortable. Shame on him for not thinking of his kids and how this could be confusing to them not to mention his obligation to teach morality. I would suggest alternate meeting places. If he gives you a difficult time take a look at your divorce...

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I am getting ready to be a first time mom. Are the Lamaz classes necessary or not? I thought they were very useful and actually used the technique. I was trying/did avoid having an epidural (only 20 mins pushing, yeay!) I would advise going to some type of baby classes whether you use Lamaze or not because it's good to have that camaraderie with other pregnant folks and to get some more understanding of the whole process. Plus the atmosphere is better to ask...

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Did the last year just fly by while you were too busy thinking about 2008? Yes it flew by but it was because there were so many things happening... I'm looking forward to a much better 2008! Happy New Year, Frank. =)

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High School Reunions: Good time or Should have stayed home? The reunions I have are every year and cover all years since our school was overseas... haven't gone to one yet as they're on the opposite coast most years. Who knows, I'd love to catch up with some people! I can't imagine I'd have a bad time.

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What is a reasonable cuefew for a 19 year old boy living at home. It depends on the living situation and your temperaments. For example, if he lives in an in-law suite and won't disturb people coming and going it would be later than for a 'boy' whose room is next to the parents'. Some parents would still worry about their son still out late, some would consider him an adult and not be concerned about his activities. When I was...

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Me and my boyfreind is thinkin bwt havin baby i have bin on pill for 3 years ppl sayin it will take bwt a year to get pregant we aint gona try till bwt may time is it true it will take me a year No, it's not true it will take a year. With all the low dose pills on the market you could get pregnant the first month you are off the pills. For the best answer that applies to you and the type of pill you are using consult a doctor.

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Have you ever gotten your hopes up for something you knew wouldn't happen? Were you still disappointed when it didn't? Yes, instead of a certain piece of jewelry I received a very nice jewelry armoire. I liked the gift but was still a bit disappointed although I knew it was never going to happen.

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Do you think other people consider you to be "elitist"? What do you think qualifies someone as an elitist? No, I'm not considered elitist. Sometimes I'm a little snobby because I think for certain occasions there should be a protocol followed, but never elitist. A person who is elitist has a specific high standard everyone is measured against and anyone who doesn't fall into their narrow definition is dirt. An extreme example of an elitist is Hitler...

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Have you ever dressed as Santa Claus and given out gifts? Never done Santa or Mrs. and I don't think I would since the latest Santa groping! It wasn't the 65-yr old man groping. =0

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Have you ever ruined someones joke? Yes, usually when I'm trying to repeat it, lol.

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Do some families celebrate both Christmas and Kwanzaa? Or is it either/or? Great question, Frank! I had always thought it was an either/or however Kwanzaa appears to have no basis in religion: http://www.tike.com/celeb-kw.htm Reading that it sounds like it can be both. As a side note, my friend who was Jewish had a mixed marriage and they celebrated both Christmas and Hanukkah. Throw in Santa and it was a very mixed-up holiday for them!

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What kind of surprises do you enjoy? Flowers for no reason, I love fresh flowers!

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Do you think you are a good Answerbag member? Why or why not? Good - maybe. I do my best to have something pertinent, even insightful (hopefully!) to say on the questions I answer however I don't answer as wide a variety of questions I could nor am I on here every day. Plus I don't ask a lot of questions. Well dang, I'm starting to sound like a bad ABer! I think the good points are the most important here. I haven't been...

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Have you acted as a "Best Man," or "Maid of Honor"? Any suggestions to others? Read about traditions for your position such as the parties you are 'supposed to' host and the things usually done. However the #1 most important thing is to communicate with the bride/groom about what is most important to them. Your real position is to make the wedding as wonderful and stress-free as possible, to be their support through the whole process!

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Do you think health nuts are going to feel stupid someday, lying in hospitals dying of nothing? No, it's always good to believe in something. The only thing certain in life is that it will end someday.

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Has anyone seen the VH1 90's music special? Who else can sing almost every song like me? What's your favorite song/artist of the 90's? I enjoy watching those looks back and can sing along to every song on the 90's one, too! My fave... I listen to too much music to have one from the 90's. I'll say one of my all time favorite artists who appeared on that list: Prince. What an underrated musical artist he is!

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If a neighbour lets his dog out the front instead of walking him and teh dog continues to foul our front lawn-who can i complain to? One thing I wanted to add besides Animal Control and possibly the police is if you have a Homeowner's Association they may also be of assistance. This is assuming you have already spoken with the neighbor. One other thing my friend did which I wouldn't do but worked was take the droppings, put them in a bag and drop it on the person's porch with a note that the dog left his...

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Tori Amos or Fiona Apple who is the better of the two? Fiona Apple, I really enjoy her music while I have never connected with Tori Amos'.

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What milk do you drink?Cows,Soya,coconut,rice,oat or Goats? Mostly skim Cow however I do get Soy milk on a regular basis, especially since the kids like it! I also get it in my lattes frequently.

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When you have a teacher/professor whose approach to a subject you disagree with, do you address it with him or her? As long as it isn't approached as a right/wrong situation an exchange of ideas can be very insightful for both parties. I think this would apply more for college than high school, but it really depends on the teacher/professor and what about the approach you disagree with.

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Do you want to become famous, or just live a simple private life? A simple, private life. I'd just like for my loved ones to adore me. =)

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Do you have a treasure box filled with your kids stuff? Or love letters from your S/O? Yes and yes. There's not many of the latter now that I think about it. :(

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Does your meteorologist predict snow for your area for Christmas? Would that be bad for your plans or are you excited if it snows? No snow, we can't handle the snow! Everything shuts down as there aren't any plows or salters... at least that's what I hear since it's been 8 years since it snowed in these parts. 2 inches shut everything down! I'll visit family in NY if I need a snow fix, they have plenty, lol.

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What should I get for my upcoming new bathroom shower stall - clear or frosted glass? I've had both and I prefer frosted. I like feeling cocooned in my own little world with the steam! Plus it's easier to keep looking clean and it's more 'fun' in other ways. ;)

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Should i use garlic powder or garlic when seasoning creme cheese stuffing for celery? Garlic powder because it will blend better, the bits of fresh garlic would pack quite a punch. This will taste the best especially if you give a couple of hours for the flavor to settle in. The exception would be if you use a pestle and mortar on the fresh garlic, that would be ideal. :)

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How do you regain a women's trust when you have made a mistake and she thinks you are not being honest? It takes time. Continue to show you care and make sure you are scrupulously honest from here on out... and give it time.

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What would you do if you found out your life was a television show just like "The Truman Show"? I would really wonder why it hadn't been canceled yet...I'm sure the ratings would be dismal. ;)

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Is there really such a thing as true love or is it just a force of attraction? Yes, there is such a thing as true love. Usually it involves a force of attraction, or that force of attraction carries a relationship to true love. One thing I find frustrating, people don't realize in order to truly love someone they need to love themselves. It's not a cosmic force that carries you away to a state of bliss it's about having a real relationship with...

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Would you date someone with kids? Yes, I would definitely date my husband. ;D Seriously, if I were single I would... although quite honestly if there were more than 2 or 3 involved I would most likely think twice.

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How important is humour in a relationship? Essential. There are some things which need to be taken with humor when you are that intimate on all levels with another person.

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What does it mean when your hands are shaking, not like a seizure but enough to mutate your handwriting? I saw your other comment so it could very well be caffeine hitting your system. It could also be anything from sugar, nicotine, cold (haha for you, although it could be from AC), meds, etc. Sometimes drinking water will help balance/flush your system if it's from one of the first ones.

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Would you like to help me welcome back our very own "Jay Was Here"? Jay- I was taking a bit of a break and was mad to miss your departure... but glad to be here when you came back. :D

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What have you fallen behind on? Where I wanted to be in life... doing a fair catch up job though. WB Jay.... I JUST said last night I didn't get a chance to say bye to you but maybe you'd be back, lol. Here you are! :D

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What was the last thing you told yourself not to do? Not to be so darned bitchy in the mornings especially before some coffee... unfortunately I got so irritated with myself for being such a wench it didn't work out. ;)

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Do you think that in years to come, it'll be interesting to look back on the person you used to be, by reading answers you've given? I do that now unfortunately, wondering what the heck I was thinking that day, lol.

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Would girls rather date a cool/funny guy or a classy/mature man? Considering my hubby is younger than me and considers going anywhere nicer than Olive Garden 'putting on a front' I would say funny is much more important. =D

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My best friend (male) has a hugh pantyhose fetish and wears them everyday. When he goes to the store to buy a new pair he likes to ask for help then asks the sales person if they wear them. If you were asked what would be your response & your thoughts? It depends on how it was asked... if it was honestly informational then I would answer as appropriate. If it was a sleezy thing, such as following the question with 'how do they make you feel?[' and heavy breathing then I would ask them to leave as that's bordering sexual harrassment. The reason I say that is I have had a person do that to me before about regular women's...

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What was your last blessing in disguise? The bad turn my marriage took... I'm really hard headed and overall things have been much better since. It has made me appreciate things much more although there's still a ways to go. The process has helped me as a person even if things don't work out, I can be very self-destructive.

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I have a tattoo on the back of my neck. Someone said it was dumb because no one can see it... but it isn't for show it is for a personal reason. Do you believe all tattoos are for show? Why or why not. I do not believe all tats are for show. I have one on my stomach I have because I designed it for me and my sis, and believe me I don't show everyone my stomach. (No, it didn't stretch out when I was pregnant either) Tattoos are a personal permanent statement, whether you want to make that statement to everyone or yourself.

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Name 2 things u a Accomplished today Helped to finish the last bottle of Pinot Noir during our company Christmas lunch... and bought the gift for our boss who shelled out for said wine. Office gifts, DONE! :D

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What do you think of when you think of Mexico? Warmth first comes to mind - I'm cold plus our boss just came back from Cancun *sigh* Other than that the Spanish language, liveliness, the cuisine, jumping beans (the hubby just came back with some from El Paso), etc... I hate we need a passport to go there now. More paperwork! :P

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Do you ever ask a question hoping certain ABers will answer? Yes and no... yes I've hoped certain ABers will answer because I was interested in their views however I have never been pointed questions at them, big difference. Of course, I could count all I've asked on my fingers and toes, lol.

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Are you scared of dying alone? We all die alone. Sounds a little bleak... but that's the bare truth. We don't cross the line with a crowd no matter what the circumstances.

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Are the majority of people on your friends list male or female? Female by a hair, a long one it looks like. ;)

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How often do you take a quiz online? I take a quiz maybe 3 times a month, about as often as KDP posts one, lol.

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I have always been one that my ex husband had to lie to. This new guy doesn't lie whether I like it or not. I don't always like to hear what he's doing. My question would you rather be lied to or hear what you don't want to know? I'm starting to wonder I can definitely see where all truth all the time can cause some resentment and bruised feelings but some people have no tact. I would much rather deal with that than having to ferret out the truth, becoming a human lie detector. This is even after being told, without having asked, that I was bigger after giving birth to our children.. I'm not talking about the scale. :( Some...

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Are you more naive about worldly subjects or do you consider yourself sophisticated and usually in-the-know? I don't listen to my inner cynic enough... I usually try to stay informed but there is so much that still boggles my mind. Of course, some of it I would prefer not to become too sophisticated about.

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Have you ever heard of someone who had a vegetable phobia and wouldn't eat any vegetables at all? I don't know that it was a full out phobia but my sis has a friend who wouldn't eat any veggies or fruits. She eats meat, meat and carbs. The woman is skinny as a rail! Of course, she had difficulties with her recent pregnancy because of it. :( Thank goodness for multi-vitamins.

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What is something that people are fanatical about? Around here it's sports, if you don't have a team you are a fan of tailgating. Roll Tide! T fans need not DR me. :)

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Who wrote "A Clockwork Orange"? Anthony Burgess- right here on the bookcase next to me.

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Why is the expression "fell in love too easily" considered a bad thing? I think when it's used in a negative manner it means the person isn't taking the time to evaluate the situation/person. When it's deserved it can be a great thing.

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What are your thoughts on re-gifting? It's better than trying to return and get 10% of the original price thereby wasting the givers money and I know I appreciate it when I don't have to shell out. Mind you, I actually love the whole gift giving process so it does steal a little steam from my enjoyment. :)

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Does it bother you that Oprah is always pushing her influence around? Telling people what books to read, which candidate to vote for, etc? I think she takes the attitude she is helping people, and she has helped many. I need more help than she can give me ;)

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How many of you said I love you to your s/o last time? Have you ever just said it ,because it is said so much through out the day? I said it last without return. We no longer say it every day or even every week because we are in a rebuild stage of our relationship and there is still a looooong way to go. Previously, before he stopped telling me, yes, it had gotten a little routine.

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Well, she's finally gone and done it! Who would like to join me in congratulating the one and only Fun on becoming a Guru? Congrats, Fun!

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Is there a difference between being fashionable and being trendy? Trendy doesn't stick around because it's the extreme of being fashionable. Fashionable is your look with a nod to the current trends. EX: Animal prints are hot and you get a nice Dooney giraffe patterned bag. Trendy is the extreme version that brings in the fashion. EX: Animal prints are hot so you wear head to toe dalmation print (haha).

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Do I intimidate you? No. I do brace myself in case I need a smack upside the head, which I'm sure you wouldn't be afraid to administer. ;)

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If you took or thought about legal action against a company, due to a faulty product or whatever, would you go back to using it? Isn't that hypocrisy at its finest? My initial reaction would be "No" however it depends on the problem and what the resolution was. If I had to go all the way to legal action to get resolution I think I wouldn't go back to using it, I'm not a fan of the legal system. As a side note, I had a customer service issue with a certain pizza company seven years ago... haven't ordered a pizza from them since...

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Here is a Christmas Card to all fellow ABers.....would you like to add your avatar to it or even add your own card.Card bellow A nice generic Happy Holidays to all!

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Can I please have a round of applause for the following people? Babycakes, Da Ben Dan, M.C.S., SIS 1227,Kedar, redcatt, SPUNTS 51, L Anon, Buxtonite & Rince. You people are great thank you *Clap, clap, clap* for everyone! Thank you for including my name with such fine people. :)

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We just came through three nights of below-freezing temperatures. Have about 3 dozen tomatoes that froze, at various stages of growth.Do you have a recipe that uses thawed, frozen green tomatoes? Maybe a green chili salsa? Or should we just discard them? They would need to be used in some kind of stew as thawed tomatoes are mushy and not aesthetically pleasing at all, so no salsas (unless canned/jarred but I wouldn't recommend even then) or fried green tomatoes. You could use some of the more mature ones in a beef or chicken stew of some type, just use a regular recipe. I would mix in some of what you normally use with them as the...

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Ladies: How often do you go braless? If not often, why not? Usually I only go braless at bedtime. Why? OUCH! That's why! It can hurt to walk sometimes from the bounce, it sweats under the breasts and against the chest, nipple irritation, etc. A well-fiting bra isn't that restricting, I actually like the boost over-the-shoulder-boulder-holders give me. =)

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Do you think there's anything wrong with feeling as though you don't want to have kids? Nothing wrong at all. I love my kids and wouldn't change the fact of their birth but some days I could definitely picture a life without children... so I can say I even understand not wanting to raise children. Equally I have days where I think about having another child, lol.

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Hey everyone, have you noticed that AUNTIE EM IS BACK?! Welcome! ;-) Welcome back! *happy dance* Shoot, that doesn't mean your 126 point bashful rose answer gets reinstated, does it? ;> EDIT for bad color memory, lol. You can see why I don't work for Home Depot!

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Is love absolute or are there varying degrees of love? Varying degrees. I love both my sons equally but not the same. Then of course there is the love for their father, my sis, my friends, etc, all different in different ways.

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What is the minimum age for a teenager to go on a date? You opinions? I would say 15-16 for double or group dates, 16-17 for individual.

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I am a college student who ended a long relationship 4 months ago. my ex BF got a new gf in 3 weeks. She keeps tracking me down and wanting to talk to me. I do not want to talk to her...what could she possibly want to say to me? If it was a good guy she probably wants to check out his taste in women, possibly he has said some stuff that's made her curious.

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What is your favorite natural hair color in a partner? Brunette. I like it curly, too. :)

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Opinions. You receive a Holiday card from a family member and inside in an ad for there sons new business. How would you feel? A bit taken aback. I would love to hear about it but an advertisement would seem a bit tacky in a Holiday card... ah well, tacky wouldn't be unusual coming from our families! Gotta love them!!

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When a Special Report comes on TV do you get hopeful that something destructive happened or do you get fearful? Neither, I hit fast forward. Seriously, I never watch live TV, everything's TiVo'd so I should have already heard about whatever topic is on the Special Report. News is sensationalized anyway so I'm always looking for the spin. I guess I'm just an optimist that way. ;)

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Do you know any women who were done having children & never thought about it again then met a man who never had children & he asked them to marry him & have a child? If you know any, did they regret it? Yes, I actually know the man in this situation. So far they seem happy, although it's only been about 5 months since their son was born. Her youngest child (of 3) is already 15... whew!

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What is depakote 500mg tablets? Depakote is valproic acid. It is primarily known as an anti-seizure medication to treat epilepsy and also used for depression/bi-polar disease and migraines. 500mg is usually the starting dose. It's been 5-10 years since I used this myself (for about 6 months) however I remember at the time they suggested I wear a medical bracelet advising I was on this due to the amount of possible...

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Thank you to all the great people on AB who have given me such great advice. Please read my answer Lisa, I have enjoyed your answers and we've interacted a bit, I'm glad to hear you are happy. I have to say I looking from outside I would have some reservations but at the same time I have a similar situation. Since then I've been on here a lot less and been much more careful about what I say... sometimes I just can't 'go there' even for a joke... my eventual...

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Do you wish you were like me: easily amused? I guess everything's my fault, I'll take all the blame. Heh, great song with near meaningless lyrics - except for that line or two but they're awesome. I AM actually easily amused, too bad I'm almost as easily irritated!

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When you were a kid did you ever insert thumb tacks into the bottom of your shoes and pretend to tap dance? No, I waited until I was in my teens. =)

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Last night i fooled around with my best friend and he happens to have a girlfriend. he says he loves me, and i love him, but how do i deal with the fact hes with someone else, and is apparantly in no rush to leave the other girl? Take a look at your wording..'he happens to have a girlfriend'. It's not like 'he happens to have a copy of last month's Stuff magazine', he has a relationship! So, how do you deal with the fact he's with someone else? Respect yourself and her by leaving him alone since he obviously cannot control himself. That's not love, that's taking all he...

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If you woke up tomorrow morning as any Earth creature other than a human, what would you want to be? A Black Widow. Pretty and deadly with simple relationships. Haha, I think!

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When you are at the supermarket, do you bag you own groceries? Also, if you do, what is your reason behind it? Usually not because I'm juggling kids along with paying, putting the stuff to be rung up, making sure no side items got flung in the cart... However - I'm really AR about how I put the stuff on the conveyor belt, frozen together, refrigerated together, produce, all the boxes together, cans, non-food at the end, etc. It usually means the bagging also makes sense and is easy for the...

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Would you rather be overdressed or underdressed at a party? Underdressed. It's better to look comfortable with yourself than pretentious and uncomfortable, unless that's the way you really dress all the time. Either way the most important thing is to wear something which is flattering in color and cut. :)

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What are some suggestions for stocking stuffers for a 15 year old boy? Movie tickets/gift certificates, wallet, sunglasses, tools, magazine subscription to Stuff (haha - actually Wired would be a good one if he's tech minded).

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In all seriousness, I have nothing, am nothing, and no one gives a damn. My friends have forgotten me and my family never liked me to begin with. Why shouldn't I kill myself? (Ask for details if you like, I'll answer. No religious responses, please.) We make impressions on people we don't even know we are touching. Unless you live in a cardboard box with NO interaction with people there's always someone, even if you don't feel connected. Obviously that is not the case because you are here. As someone mentioned, sometimes all you have is the little things, try to adjust your expectations. That is something I have...

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How long could you be dead for before someone would find you? A couple of hours, someone would want something at work or if at home something to eat (or Daddy said 'no'). Whether or not they would realize I was dead or just caught up in another book might add another few hours, hehe.

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Ladies: What is one request you would definitely not grant your partner? E-ghads, all I can think of is 'midgets and a stick of... shortening' (since I *like* butter, lol). At this point I think anything involving a 3rd party would be a no-no, either way. So I guess that means midgets, too. ;)

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Has anyone seen any early snowfall yet this season? We'll be adding it to the record books if we have ANY snow this season. People still talk about the 'one day it snowed and every thing shut down 8 years ago' - mind you, this was over 2-3 inches of snow! Hehe, glad we moved from NY right about now. Not to rub it in or anything!! :>

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Babycakes is now a Guru! Would you like to join me in congratulating her? A belated CONGRATS to you, Babycakes!

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What would be a good wine to bring to my parent's house for Thanksgiving? Anything white because the majority of people would drink a white, plus you don't have to lay as much money out for a good white. Good ones: http://www.thewinebuyer.com/sku40915.html%22 http://www.crushwineandspirits.com/detail.aspx?ItemNo=10061 Personally if I know there aren't a lot wine aficionados and want to make it simple I will go with a Riesling or Gewurztraminer. Both...

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My girlfriend is still trying to keep her exboyfriend as a friend. I don't give a damn about him, but she says that she dated him for 3 yrs, so to respect her I have to respect him. Even though he hates me, and wants her to go back to him. What can I do? I'm sorry Jake, but I am of the opinion if she respects YOU she should limit her contact with her ex. It would be different if the Ex respected her new relationship however obviously he does not. I'm not saying she would cheat or anything like that but for most ex-relationships to turn into friendships there needs to be a cooling period to get over some of the intense feelings...

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After hanging around a person for a while, have you noticed that you started acting a little bit like then? Like talking similarly? If I'm with that person a lot then yes I will pick up certain sayings or possibly even mannerisms. The most common thing is cursing, I try not to use a lot of swear words however if someone has a dirty mouth I tend to swear more. Damm, that's a bad habit! I have yet to jump off a bridge after my friends, though. ;>

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Take a famous quote and replace one word with "bacon." What do you get? Bacon is the beauty of the soul -St. Augustine [love] =]

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Does it concern you now that books are going to be available like music in a new device called Kindl? They went on the market today on Amazon.com/kindl. Everything is going paperless! Overall better for the environment but this does make it harder to share a book? It will be interesting to see how this will affect bookstores, but I can see some fabulous applications like for frequent travelers. Who knows, maybe these won't catch on and my dad will have one in his basement right next to the laser disc player which is on top of the Beta...

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If a woman calls another woman ugly, is she usually being sincere or is she usually being envious and catty? And if a man calls another man ugly what does that usually mean? I don't know that I've heard a guy call another man ugly, most times it's 'nerdy' or some other descriptive term.. but for either I would have to say beauty and ugliness is in the eye of the beholder. There are very few truly visually ugly people, something that a good primping or accessories change (think the TV show 'Ugly Betty') can improve. With that in...

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What can almost always instantly change you from sad to happy? This will sound cheesy but almost anything. From a joke to catching sight of a rainbow to having a perfect plate of pasta put in front of me. Right now, a pristine, newly painted bathroom would make me extremely happy. Anyone in a cleaning and painting mood? ;)

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What is the difference between a cyclone and hurricane? I thought it was north and south of the equator, but I'm wrong. Interesting, you must have been thinking of hurricane and typhoon, so I found something that covered them all since I didn't really know what a 'cyclone' was either: http://www.aoml.noaa.gov/hrd/tcfaq/A1.html The terms "hurricane" and "typhoon" are regionally specific names for a strong "tropical cyclone". A tropical cyclone is the generic term...

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When a high-level ABer changes their name to Anonymous for reasons other than to cease using AB, do you think they're trying to hide something or just attract attention? I've seen that with a few folks recently... I think they are actually trying to detract attention from themselves. I am actually surprised they didn't take the pictures down from the 'post a picture of yourself' question!

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Do you prefer to give presents or to receive them? Most of the time giving, I find it a (mostly) rewarding challenge to come up with a good gift. People tell me I give good gifts so I guess I do a pretty good job! I also love to wrap them, it's a fun creative process. The hardest part is keeping quiet! ^_^

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Have you ever argued with an idiot and then realized you're just arguing with an idiot and your point will not be received? CJ, well then quit arguing with me! Or maybe I should quit arguing with you? Or maybe I should quit talking about it because we don't argue? :P hehe. Yes, most people will at least see that you have a view even if they don't agree. Unfortunately some folks are so bullheaded or just plain ignorant and cannot budge from their view. It's rather sad because isn't that...

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FREE AT LAST!!!! Who's excited? Welcome back!! I'm very excited!! Can't you tell?!! :D Seriously, good to see you on again.

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Has a spider ever rappelled down from the ceiling and landed on your head? That would be a Stephen King moment for me, UGH! One recently rappelled from a ceiling fan to the floor, I watched it like I would a hypnotizing cobra. Once it hit the floor I ran for a shoe and POW, POW, POW!! I'm still not sure it got it. Why can't they be afraid of heights? Heh.

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If the Hollywood screen writers stay on strike for a long time, will it affect you at all? Or do you not rely on TV shows and movies for entertainment? Nooooo, I just got hooked on Heroes, don't take away my Heroes! I guess I'll have to finally watch Gone With The Wind. :)

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Who else thinks the singer Pink should be far more popular than Britney Spears? Britney can be a big drama/reality show in herself and her name will be well known for a while yet. She had the people and backing for the whole package: catchy songs, good entertainment (performance) and 'the look' (conventionally pretty). Pink is a much more talented singer and has always known herself. I think her songs are much more interesting and the tone and emotion in...

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You met the most wonderful person in the world? What is the one negative physical feature (if any) that could prevent you from having a relationship with them? They aren't my husband. ;) Sure that's a cop out. You know what? I've changed my mind at least 5 times reading other answers. Hmmm, what does that say about me? ... :( My first thought was someone who had to use a forklift to get out of bed so I'll roll with that one.

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Do you think a lot of people have left AB because of a couple of bullies? Or because AB loses its grip on a person after a while? I think it's the latter. A bit of both. AB loses its grip and then a bully or group of bullies comes along and you think, why bother?

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Have you ever gotten stitches? Yes, twice. I have 2 children to prove it. Make that 3 times, I also had some when my wisdom teeth were removed. Ugh, now I'm feeling faintly ill thinking about it.

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Do you have any plans for your next birthday? I'm getting a mammogram, lol. Other than that, it's now 9 days away and I'll let other folks make a plan. Happy Birthday to you!

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Who has the best profile on Answerbag? Blank Savage's. He gave a part of himself in it.

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Do you complain when there is no rain? Yes I do, we just came out of a drought season. This puts things into perspective (looks like there isn't a video made by the artist yet):

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Do other people's bodily functions disgust you? But with your own are you like, "Hey, it's all perfectly natural".? It depends on how extreme they are. A short, simple one-noter isn't anything but if they become musical and sound wet I'm disgusted no matter whose. Sometimes even sneezes can make me say 'uck!'. EWWW! I just disgusted myself!

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What's your favorite question or answer that YOU posted on AB? I don't ask that many questions. My favorite of yours (and I think yours, too) is http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/395212 Ah, memories. =D

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Do you ever wonder if you're already dead and this is just your life flashing before your eyes? If so it's going in slo-mo! There are times, like when I'm looking straight up at all the stars on a clear night, I get dizzy for a second and don't feel like I'm real. But then I think '42' and move on with life. ;)

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What's harder for you going to bed or getting out of bed? Going to bed is easy, falling asleep is another matter. Staying asleep is usually just as bad. Getting out of bed most mornings is not too bad, pretty amazing considering how late I stay up!

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Hey Y'all Cowboy22 just hit Maestro, Ya want to join me in congratulating him? Lol, nice visual. CONGRATS COWBOY22! Yeee-haw! =}:-)

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What do you think about companies that charge more for health insurance to employees that are obese or out of shape? The fact is folks who are obese or out of shape tend to have more claims than the people in better shape. More claims in a company = more cost to everyone when premiums are figured by the insurance company. This also makes it difficult when the company is shopping for better insurance coverage. It's equivalent to new drivers paying higher car insurance rates. New drivers have not...

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Why do people who align themselves with the so-called "Party of tolerance" show SO little tolerance toward those who don't fall in line with their beliefs and agenda? Because they are using the electrical term for tolerance. It gives the the range of values acceptable...

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Do you think that sometimes you need to be your own hero and dig yourself out of the hole? I try, I hate to ask people for help. It just seems I dig some pretty deep holes for myself, it's hard when you're trying to find the way out in the dark.

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Is there one special day or weekend next year that you are looking forward to? Yes, we just started planning a trip to DC. Thank goodness for miles and free airline tickets. :)

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Will you post one of your favorite poems? Do Not Go Gentle into that Good Night -Dylan Thomas Do not go gentle into that good night, Old age should burn and rave at close of day; Rage, rage against the dying of the light. Though wise men at their end know dark is right, Because their words had forked no lightning they Do not go gentle into that good night. Good men, the last wave by, crying how bright Their frail deeds...

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Did you begin today with a positive attitude? It depends on what you classify "Oh heck, why can't I fall back asleep! Mind as well make some coffee." That was at 6AM after a restless half hour!

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In turning the clocks back, do you really take advantage of that extra sleep hour or do you waste it by staying up later? Yeay, I can finish watching the catch-up episodes of 'Heroes'! :)

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Was there one negative thing that put a crimp in your wedding day or was it pretty much perfection? It was a good day at the JOP. Not too much could go wrong in a 5 minute ceremony! We remembered the rings and weren't struck by lightning or tornado (we were in Texas).

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When you were a child did you ever use or call a your parents a four-letter word? What was their reaction? Well I'm feeling like a bad daughter, I can't believe all the negative responses... The only time I remember it was more like a 7 letter word (ending in -hole). My mom looked offended for a second and then she reached for the closest item. I think that was the time the wooden hanger broke right across my deserving tush.

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Have you ever heard a song and thought, wow thats my life story? Yes, for me that's the purpose of music to touch a chord within ourselves, whether it's a specific emotion or the whole life story. There's one song I heard last night that I just started tearing up because it's exactly how I feel and my situation. Bleh, I hate that!

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Do you think Hillary Clinton is asexual? No, I think she's a hermaphrodite. She can bust balls with the best of them and still screw them over when she's done. Guess how I feel about her? (boy I'm going to get DRed for this!)

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If you dislike someone, do they know it right off the bat or do you try to hide your disdain? I try to hide all my stains. What? Oh, DISDAIN! I'm not obvious about it however I do not pretend to like them. Most people have something positive they can contribute, I believe that firmly. Just as most people have something negative about them. There have been very rare occasions I have disliked someone enough to actively be a hater.

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Killdrphil has finally asked and answered his way to Sage. Who would like to join me in congratulating him on this fine accomplishment? Congrats, KDP! May your Sagedom lead you on a great path:

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If you were a guest at someone's house, and they let you sleep in their guest bedroom, would you sleep in the nude, then not change the sheets afterward? I wouldn't because I really don't like to sleep nude. It's a 'what if there's a fire in the middle of the night' thing. I would hope my hosts would change and wash the sheets afterward anyway. I would/do, since it's for guests we never know when they'll be used next; they shouldn't be sitting there with the natural skin cells and oils to mellow...

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If your ex wants some stuff back and refuses to let a mutual friend hand it over, claiming that he 'needs' to see me, what could this mean? It's a control issue. Either they are trying to get back together with you or just control the break-up - either way it's not a great thing. You are the best judge if it's a possible threat but in most cases it won't be. Unless you're really interested I would tell them it's the handoff or you'll donate the items by a specified date. That'll get...

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Is pleasing you difficult? No, it's very easy to please me. It's keeping me pleasured that's the hard part. ;)

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What company purchased the American Broadcasting Company in Feb 1996 making it the world's largest media and entertainment conglomerate? Disney. Well, The Walt Disney Company. :)

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There was a murder last night, what's your alibi? I don't remember anything after the little green men beamed me up...

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Has anyone ever been rude or inappropriate to you on AB? One or two but it's only blown up once that I remember. The person's comments got deleted, they were that rude. All in all I've had a very positive experience here. It started with a sweetcakes welcome, I think she was my second friend. :)

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I know some kids are hard to keep an eye on while in the store but do you really think putting a harness on them and attaching them to a leash is the answer? Honestly I don't like seeing them however the feeling of safety cannot be denied. Not only will it keep them from turning things over in stores and running out into the street but they cannot be lured away by strangers. Some parents are very aware at all times of what is going on around them, others become more focused on whatever chores they are doing. If you know you become absorbed...

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Who would win in a battle of the witless: Homer Simpson or Peter Griffin (Family Guy)? Peter Griffin. It seems like he'd do whatever it took to win. Remember Petoria? :)

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I have been so broke I have had to live on 'fried crispies' until the next pay-day... have you had to do something similar? Yes, when I got married we ate Rice-A-Roni because the local grocer had buy 2 get 3 free or something like that. It least we got to choose from different flavors. The only break from that was one meal the hubby got from the mess hall... he would bring it home and share it with me! Those were the good ole days. :)

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What was the best Halloween costumes that you saw tonight? We didn't get many trick or treaters so I thought my youngest was the cutest. He was a pirate and it was especially effective because he's missing his top front 3 teeth. =) EDIT: Oh wait, I just got pictures of my niece. She may have beat him out with this pict:

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What did you wear at your wedding? If not married, do you intend to wear a white dress/dark suit or something else? I wore a white suit and he wore slacks, shirt and tie. What can I say, we were living on Rice-A-Roni at the time and we were lucky to dress up even that much. I think we still have that tie, it's the only thing that would fit 14 years later!

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Do you like Snickers or Twix? Yes. :) Ok, ok, I would choose a Twix over the Snickers if I had to. I like the cookie crunch!

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When is a nice day for a white wedding? No day, it's the worst reason to marry!

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Recently, I was waiting at a health clinic and some guy's cell phone started ringing. His ring tone was the theme to The Exorcist. I can't believe someone would use that. What is the worst cell phone ring you have heard? Maybe the ring tone was for his mother-in-law... The one I've least enjoyed was 'Turning Japanese' my friend's boyfriend put on for her calling... she's Asian but not Japanese and I dislike that song anyway!

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Hi, buddies. :) It's me, your pal -- ArchieandJughead! Well, I need some help... the whole question and explanation does not fit in here, so I will explain this "thing" to you in the first answer. ;) Please read, thank you. :) This is important to me. :) I liked yours, you got my 5. =)

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Which movie and it's sequels would you most want to see in one day? Would you believe Harry Potter? It's especially getting interesting now that they're becoming active in the movement and not just pawns. I think for a whole day's viewing that would be the most fun.

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Is it okay for a joke to be offensive as long as it is funny? Sometimes even the mildest jokes can be offensive if it's a sore subject with someone. You really can't be afraid of being offensive. With the obviously offensive ones (raunchy topics, poking fun at stereotypes) you just have to be more careful of your audience.

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Have you ever left AB for a while? What was the story behind that? I recently was off for 10 days. The story was I was having RL stress, there was a bad happening related to AB and I was feeling anti-social. It's a good thing I smoke otherwise I would have sat at my desk not speaking to anyone. Well, ignoring people because my immediate co-workers are both Talkers!

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When you found out that your partner had cheated on you, what kind of affect did it have on you. Did you develop eating problems, become depressed? I don't think most people fully understand how deeply cheating can hurt another person. For about a week I was in complete shock, couldn't sleep or eat. I literally had roughly an hour or two of sleep a night. I was completely disconnected from my feelings, always cold and couldn't think straight. After that I was just straight depressed, feeling hurt, angry, worthless and confused. I lost 25 lbs quickly. I was obsessed with finding out everything I could. ...

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Wife left, took car. I got custody of kids. She says I'm not on title. I think I am. How can I find out? Repeat: DMV/courthouse. Check for and/or on the title, and means she needs your signature, or means she could sell without your consent or signature. Either means you have legal access to the car. New: If it's financed your financial institution should have the title or a copy of the title, depending on the state. Good luck to you, congratulations on custody of the kids. :)

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How do you convince your woman to be a housewife? You don't. I have that situation, I have always wanted more stimulation than I would get staying at home. If the person does not have the temperament to stay at home it would be a disservice to the relationship to try to force the issue.

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Just curious..why do so many people get offended when you express a dislike of Wal-mart? I don't get offended. I just get irritated because the hubby HATES Wal-Mart and makes me gets things from there, lol.

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Has anyone ever had the feeling of having a constant adrenaline surge, like they just barely missed a car accident - but it lasted all day? Yes - it's called being manic and I can expect a crash the next day. :(

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If there was one tv show you had to watch for a week wat would it be In fact I have been watching the same show for the last 4 days: Heros. :)

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Have you ever been arrested by the grammar police? The hubby has made several reports however they couldn't garner enough evidence for prosecution. I done showed them. *snicker*

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What board game would you rather play: Scrabble, Monopoly, Life, Risk or Candyland. I don't play board games that often but recently I got hooked on Literati- which is a knock-off of Scrabble on the computer.

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What is the worst thing about a menstrual period? Controlling the flow. There's little more embarrassing or frustrating than leaving a red mark on your seat!

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Do you have any item in your home that is over 20 years old? people and pets do not count. I have a bunch of odds and ends but the biggest pieces are the rosewood curio cabinet and a cool amp my dad bought from this bar that went out of business a while ago. It's from the 70's and never had the screen changed out, it's completely yellow from the smoke.

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Most of us have some type of physical or mental infirmity we have to deal with. Would you please share your challenge(s) and how you are coping? I am bi-polar. I take meds and am trying to change my life around to make it simpler (more structure, sleep and exercise, less 'stuff' and complications) and build a healthier relationship with my loved one. Like any major reconstruction there's a big mess right now, but it is getting better. :-P

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How do you handle meeting someom for the first time in twenty seven years who broke your heart and made a fool of you? I'm tired of having to worry about it every time I go visit my hometown.......what does one say to the person so there is no troube? Twenty seven years is a long time. I would contact them just to say hi and let them know you had wondered how they were doing, in a curious rather than caring manner. Remember, you were both younger when everything occurred. They may even have regrets about what happened! Of course, they may have turned into an even more cruel person in which case they would have done you a favor. You...

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When trick or treating as a child, which treats were you most happy to receive? Mary Janes or peanut butter kisses. I still really enjoy them. Current day: the kids voluntarily give up their Nerds as I keep pilfering them, hehe.

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When trick or treating as a child, which treats were you the most disappointed about receiving? Banana chews. YUK! Eww, still can't stand banana flavored stuff. Except moon pies. :)

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What or who has brought you disappointment and/or sadness today? Myself for the way I handled a conversation this morning. It's hard when you see the same old bad habits played out in a relationship. :(

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Last week this guy was head over heels for me and wanted to be with me but i said i need time and he said he would wait as long as it takes, he lost his football game and now it seems like he just wants nothing to do with me right now, what should i do? Wait it out or just be supportive. It sounds like he's bummed and doesn't have the energy to put into a new relationship. Even if you had an established relationship together he may have withdrawn, I would just give him some time. Maybe now is the time to get him a favorite protein bar and slip it to him? Good luck!

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Please join me in singing happy birthday to ROSIE GHM!... Answer by singing a line. Happy bday Rosie. Rosie Rocks! Happy birthday =)

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CJ has become a Sage! Who will join me in offering congratulations! Congrats, CJ!. A new Sage and a new marriage, how are you going to juggle it all?

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Our lovely sweetcakes has made sage today; who would like to join me in welcoming her upon reaching her sagedom? Congrats sweetcakes! Well deserved, you are a lovely (sweet!) woman, one who always brings a smile to my face. =)

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If I were to ask your parents/guardians what their fondest memory of you during your childhood would be... what do you think they would they say? Apparently I dumped a large can of powdered Nestle Quick out on our carpeted kitchen floor and made some hills to drive my cars on. I guess they should have made me a sandbox!

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What’s the highest honor or award you’ve ever received and what was it for? I got sent on a 3 day trip to a Top Achievers Conference for one of our vendors and got a certificate and wood box (it's beautiful!) with a plaque saying I was tops. That was a great trip, I love San Antonio!

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Is anyone around the same weight they were when they graduated high school? (Not fair to answer if you are under 21!) No, I was underweight when I graduated. 2 kids and many years later I'm 55lbs heavier. I'd like to lose about 30 of it!

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Who is/was the most convincing Magician in show business? Criss Angel is pretty awesome. He is definitely one of the most entertaining.

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If I invite you to go to my buddies' wedding next February and I pay all your expenses, would you go with me? Absolutely, I love to see a couple's hope and anticipation of a new life together. Plus I know you would dance at the reception. :)

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If you just found out that your s.o. had a terminal disease that would require you to either quit your job or hire a home health care company to care for them, which would you choose? Quit my job. I would want to spend as much time as I could with them.

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If love was a flavor, what would it taste like? Blueberry pomegranate frozen yogurt. Sweet with a rich thread of tartness through it! Light and creamy so you can just keep eating and eating... but if you're not careful it will melt and if you neglect it you're left with a curdled puddle.

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Did you ever have anyone welsh on a bet? Did you do anything or shrug it off? I don't really remember the last time I had a serious bet going. I would imagine I bugged the person in a kidding fashion at least several times simply to be able to crow over it. The only 'real' bets I've done are at the OTB, back in the day. I had fun handicapping horses. :)

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What puts you in a better mood for making love, bad weather or good weather? Both? ;D Storms make me want to cuddle in bed, so I would say bad weather over the good.

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What's the difference between a belief and an opinion? A belief is a leap, a part of your thoughts and feelings which may not have any basis in fact. An opinion is a conscious consensus based on facts, other opinions and your beliefs. As a person comes across new information these can change. My example: I believe in beginner's luck. It's my opinion this in actuality really silly...

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Asweetguy...who is just that....got a new badge! Please welcome a new SAGE!! Congrats other L! :) Wow, you have sure made your mark quickly and have been a very supportive person to many ABers.

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Do you believe its easier not to deal with your problems, or just face them and get over it? I believe it's easier to just face them and get over it. I should take my own advice on this one more. Not dealing with problems works very rarely.

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Soda tastes better from the: fountain, bottle or can? Fountain - although when the syrup is off it's an unpleasant surprise. Bottle has the best consistent taste. Can is ok.

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A study done by London researchers shows that regular swearing in the workplace boosts team spirit while allowing employees to better express their feelings & develop better social relationships. What benefits would this have in your place of business? Wow, a link please! I would imagine it would depend on the field you are in. No body would have to worry about putting up a front I guess? Lol.

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"Irreconcilable differences" is a common reason cited for divorce. Does this make getting divorce to easy? No it does not make getting divorce too easy. In fact it paves the way to have an amicable split, at least as much as the personalities involved will allow!

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What kind of internet connection do you use at home? Dialup, DSL, Broadband, Satellite, and at what speed? DSL, I believe it's 8Mbps download speed.

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If you could play around in a pool full of any substance(i.e. jello, spaghetti, etc) what would it be? Why? 'Clean mud' There's some yummy smelling stuff by Borghese: http://www.amazon.com/Borghese-Fango-Active-Face-Body/dp/B000B6AKSU

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I get irritated VERY VERY easily....for simple and stupid small things. I get mad at anything, even at my boyfriend although he has done nothing wrong. Everything just irritates me!!!!!! What would you recommend for me? Take a look at several things~ Sleep: Are you irritable because you are tired? Anger management: Do you just need a different way to let out your anger/frustration? Counseling: To see if there is a deep seated reason for your reactions. That is just what it is, a REACTION, you definitely want to take ACTION for your behavior! It could be: -depression -bipolar disease -ADD/ADHD...

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First when was the last time you donated Blood? Secondly if I were to ask nicely would you please make arrangements at your next earliest convenience? You do realize it could save a life, don't you? I give blood several times a year. Not as often as I could since the time I fainted (first and only time in my life!). Plus I had to skip a few years because of tattoos and piercings.

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What was the first really expensive thing that you bought? A car. It was a Nissan 200SX SE-R. We enjoyed that car, ended up selling it to my brother-in-law since we wanted to get a sedan. The last time I saw it the back seat had been removed and replaced with a custom sound system, lmbo. Pimp my ex-ride, babee!

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Have you ever dated a co-worker? How did that work out? Yes, we got married. =)

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In what ways are you like your mother? I'm bi-polar... thanks for the gene, Mommie Dearest.

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In what ways are you like your father? I'm very conscious of my wording most of the time and I overthink things.

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Which of your qualities or personality traits do you hope to pass on to your children? Love of learning. They're doing well so far. :)

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Which of your personality traits do you hope to not pass on to your children? Irritability. When I'm caught up in something I hate to be interrupted. Or when I'm tired like this morning and first thing the boys start arguing - I really didn't like the 'shut up' that came from my mouth. :(

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Yeahwell has just made sage today. Who wants to join me in congratulating our favorite pumpkin on her achievement? Yeahwell, congrats! Here's a nice mug to commemorate the occasion:

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Asweetguy...who is just that....got a new badge! Please welcome a new SAGE!! Wow, you've really put your mark on things, sweetie! Congratulations for the SAGE ranking. :)

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Who has the sexiest vocals? Fergie. Sometimes she gets so into her stylized vocals you don't realize what a versatile (and sexy!) voice she has. Take a good listen to Big Girls Don't Cry, especially in the middle:

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(White ladies, assume you’re at least 18) How would you feel if you found out an attractive, healthy, nice black man 7-13 years older than you had a serious crush on you? The same way I'd feel if I found out my husband had a serious crush on me, flattered. Only the hubby would get my interest, though. ;) You just never know. To some the race would be a factor, to others the age difference. I think the majority would entertain the idea of a romance. If you are gently direct then I would hope you would get the same back. Good luck!

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Are you stylish? Yes. Sometimes it doesn't translate to my clothes but, yes. =)

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Is there any word or phrase that makes you seethe in anger? "I'm sorry you feel that way." Usually said in the middle of an argument to shut it down. I'm afraid I use it in the same manner sometimes.

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Since just about every possible "educational" question can be looked up on wikipedia, doesn't that just basically make answerbag a place to get to know one another better? Yes and no. This is certainly a more social format than Wikipedia with much more human interest content than true educational. It also allows the educational answers to be put together in more of an personal article format than a a basic report. In other words conclusions can be presented which may not be 100% proven fact, which is another part of the social aspect. An example of what I...

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Wedding issue: I don't want to invite my verbally abusive parents. Only my supportive relatives. My future mother-in-law hates them for what they did to me. I don't want a conflict. Is it ok to not invite my parents but invite grandma/aunt,etc? I also believe you should invite whomever your heart desires. My sister almost didn't invite our mother because she did not want the stress (Mom says some thoughtless things) and didn't want to deal with the dynamics between her and my dad (divorced). Everything ended up fine. On the flip side my sister-in-law didn't invite my mother-in-law, only her father and his...

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When measuring for a healthy waist-to-hip ratio, do you measure around the fullest part of the buttocks or around the hip bone area? Around the fullest part of the buttocks.

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Do you enjoy being in a goofy mood? Yes, I don't do it enough! Sometimes I get bogged down and forget to just take a breath and notice all the good things within my grasp. =]

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For those of you who are married... The American Institute of Family Relations claims that the wife's mother is the most frequent troublemaker in marriages. Do you find this to be true? Yes because she stresses me out which makes me a wench. Well not anymore because I stopped talking to her. Umm, that leaves the biggest troublemaker trophy to go to... his female co-worker who moved less than a mile from our house? Yeah, I think she gets it.

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Studies show that women tend to be attracted to men they can look up to intellectually. Men, on the other hand, tend to shy away from women who have more intelligence than they do. Would you agree or not? I know I enjoy the intelligence in my chosen. I guess we fit 'the profile' ... ...but I can still take him in some categories of Jeopardy! :)

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How many emails would you say that you typically send in a day? Send, around 50-100 every work day. On the weekends subtract a zero. :)

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What is the longest you have gone without watching any television? What do you do instead? A month or two while visiting family who do not own a television. Instead we: -visited with family (obviously) -worked on drawings -shopped -visited with more family -traveled to visit with more family (see a pattern? ;>) -visited local attractions -cooked and ate -read -played cards -tried other new things, like dieing our nails with flowers, learning the piano, working our...

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If you believe in ALWAYS telling your children the truth, would you still tell them about the Easter Bunny, Santa Claus, & the Tooth Fairy? Why? We have never even hinted these were real. It's one thing to use your imagination to create something, another to believe in a fabrication. They have been told some people believe they are real and they need to respect that. We have told them they embody the spirit behind the holidays and have introduced some of the background. It's not so much that the rest of the parents are...

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I'm in my early 20s independent in a professional career. I had been dating a man from my work who is 40. We have a great emotional connection. Despite how happy we are, he is really struggling with doing the "right thing". How should I deal with this? "Right thing"? The only potential problem I see is if he doesn't want children and you do, or vice versa. If he's worried about dieing first or some such thing, well, you never know when it's your time to go. Don't borrow trouble. If you are both happy grab it with both hands and run with it, together!

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Can you admit when you find a member of the same gender sexually attractive? Absolutely. I've pointed it out in the past to the hubby. Of course, he always played it down with me ("She's ok"). I'm sure he told his friends later about the hot chick he saw!

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1.5 year serious relationship, 47 man, 39 woman, both divorced. Both love each other & want a child, not getting younger. He's not ready to commit yet but thinks he sees future. She feels anxious & vulnerable. Words of wisdom? Patience? How long to wait? A similar situation happened recently to someone I work with and I will pass along what this woman's EXTREMELY religious mother told her: Marriage is not a prerequisite for a grandchild (child in this case). If the woman has the means to support the child no matter what I would say go for it. Especially if the father would be supportive. This is of course assuming they would like a...

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Girls these days seem to be willing to disclose their bra size to total strangers on the net. Have you done this or said or done things you wouldnt normally if it was face to face, if so what and why? Yes I have said things I wouldn't normally say in person. Reasons: I can edit if it doesn't come out right. I don't have to judge reactions. In general I don't have to deal with the daily upkeep of the relationship when spilling the beans. In this forum format there's no worries about conversation flow, it's one item randomly at a time.

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What's the most embarrassing thing that your young child has said to a total stranger and how did they react? what was your reaction? When my son was around 4 we were seated in a restaurant, looking around and waiting for our meals. He noticed two ladies seated by us and said very loudly, "Wow, Mom, those ladies are BIG!" *died on the spot* Those lovely ladies started laughing and saying, "Whew that's right, out of the mouths of babes!" Yet another example of life is what you make of it. I...

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Do you agree that Wicca is on course to be the US's third largest religion by 2012? (Link in my answer.) Why or why not? It makes sense when you think about how popular Harry Potter and Lord of the Rings are. Unfortunately I think there are more practitioners or people who pay lip service than true believers but you have to start somewhere. I used to be (still am) quite interested in Wicca but I was raised a Christian and that is what is strongest in my belief system.

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Can marijuana get into your system without smoking it Yes, second hand smoke, brownies (thanks to Desperate Housewives for the recent reminder, hehe), other food items. You would have to take in tons of second hand smoke for it the register in your system for most tests.

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What's your weakness in chess? Which one moves in an 'L' shape again? ;)

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If my boyfriend can afford a $1000 fish tank, then am I asking to much of him to get me an IPod Nano for my birthday thats comming up next weekend?? He seems to think so and is saying I'm greedy! I think he only cares about himself! Yes, asking for anything is asking too much. If a fish tank is something he has wanted then be happy for him, don't measure tit for tat (an expensive gift to himself = an expensive gift for you). I really don't blame him for saying you are greedy. Money is money, a gift from the heart is worth far more. If that is your issue, you don't feel like he is thoughtful in his...

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I discovered that my husband of 17 years has for the past 8-9 months been looking at porn because he wanted to hurt me. I now feel so many different emotions. How can I get over these feelings?? He said he wanted me to find out so I would be hurt. I really don't think the question is how you can get over these feelings or why he's looking at porn. Why did he want to hurt you? To 'blame' you for him looking at porn is a ridiculous statement from him, it's nothing but an excuse. If he intentionally wanted to make you feel bad that is the big item you need to look at and use to evaluate your relationship....

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Do you know people who do not watch the news? Does it scare you? I neither watch the news nor read newspapers. They are both sensationalistic, their primary goal is not to report the news it's to sell news stories for ratings and circulation. I get informed by talking with people and researching what I deem necessary or interesting. I do watch comedic news shows such as the Daily Show and Colbert Report as that is more likely to catch my interest...

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Hey everyone, break out the old spice, Curious Frank just made sage; will you help me congratulate him? Congratulations CuriousFrank! I just knew you were an herbal kind of guy. =)

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If you're married, do you wear your wedding ring? No, we are experiencing difficulties and as my lovely husband told me last night, he does not feel married. That really helps my trust issues.

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I saw on the news that "Chester the Molester" has finally been taken into custody. What kind of punishment should a person get who sexually abuses a 3 year old child while he films it? Death Penalty. Bring back electrocution, no gel. In reality, I am sure the inmates and guards will take care of him just fine...

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When you think of answerbag users, which member pops into your head first? Right now it's Riff-Raff. ;)

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If Drew Carey is marrying a chef, do you think Lindsay Lohan will hook up with a bartender? I think that would be a good question for the SAT's. ;) If Lindsay's smart she'll hook up with the Sheriff in town but alas, I think she'll end up with a nightclub owner.

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What is your favorite Archie Bunker quote? Jesus was a Jew, yes, but only on his mother's side. Thanks for the trip down memory lane, I hadn't seen most of these in a while. :)

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What are some of the sexiest or dirtiest songs that you actually like? Gillette/20 Fingers "Short Dick Man" Three Days Grace "Pain" (I find this one erotic, quite possibly I should be a little disturbed by this ;>) Warning, unedited:

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If you were to be a columnist in a newspaper, what are some topics you would like to write about? I'd like to write a PG-13 version of the one like Sex and the City. Thoughts about life/sex lives expounded upon daily, fun. I don't know that I'd look half as good in the 'naked dress', especially plastered on the side of a bus. Sure would like to try it on to see. ;)

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Have you ever been able to successfully "talk your way out of" being sexually assaulted? If so, please share. Yes. I was out very late one night because we were overseas and I was calling my friend who was Stateside. When I was walking the 2 blocks back to the place I was staying I ran into someone who was a DJ at a local club, so I knew who he was, he knew who I was. He started asking if I wanted to go to this afterhours club and I said no. He started insisting and pulling on my arm. Since I...

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On the Kinsey scale, 1 being exclusively heterosexual and 6 being exclusively homosexual, what rating would you say you were? Since I'm married to a conventional guy I would have to say 1, just The One. :)

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If homosexuality is such a "going-to-hell-worthy" trait, why didn't Jesus Christ condemn it, specifically? I have two things to say on this: #1 The bible was not written in English. To take the King James or any of the other versions too literally is ridiculous (check out http://www.geocities.com/bible_translation/english.htm). #2 We do not live in the times of the Bible. Some of what they talk about doesn't mean the same as how it applies today. Furthermore, fundamentalists are...

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If you have a resume that is active on an employment website and your boss discovers this, would it be right for him to fire you? 'Right' no. Legal, most likely. I know my state is an employment-at-will state, they could fire anyone they wanted to at any time with no reason (in theory). There are many reasons someone would have an active resume on an employment website, the boss would be well advised to talk to the employee rather than fire them as a knee-jerk reaction.

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My bank wants an appraisal on a foreclosed home up for auction in FL for my mortgage loan to buy it, but you can't appraise/inspect a home on a foreclosure. What now? This may help. Your best assistance should be your mortgage lender or real estate agent, you may want to shop around if they don't give you thorough information. This is one of those things experience can make a huge difference in your outcome. Here's some good background information, this is the first time I've seen this site: ...

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What type of cookware do you cook with? i.e., stainless steel, cast iron, teflon,etc. I use Circulon (non-stick). I do keep some stainless steel because they are best for my butter fried eggs. Crispy edges, yumm! :)

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I am 29, single, and never married. I have such a hard time finding nice, single men at my age who don't already have children. Is there any hope for me? Yes, my brother-in-law married my sister when he was 33, no previous children or marriages. He's a great guy. :)

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On Answerbag I've had to apologize more than once for hurting someone inadvertently and have always been able to work it out. Have you been hurt by an AB member and were you able to work it out with no lasting hard feelings? Hmmm, I haven't been on here that long but I don't recall any big issues with anyone, yet. I'm sure someone will catch me on a bad day or vice versa and I usually do not hold grudges. I am very slow to forget a bad trampling of the feelings but I find it fairly easy to get past that episode. :)

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What is your favorite spice to add to your pizza? Hot sauce after it's cooked. Fresh garlic before, yummy!

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If you could, would you put your mind up for auction on ebay? I wish someone would, I lost mine a long time ago. ;)

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Can you think you're in love with someone but it's actually lust in disguise? Yes, you have a euphoric feeling which could be described as love but only lust... the only way to tell is time. Lust tends to fade rather quickly.

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Is laziness an disease? As much as bad grammar is... It can be a symptom of a medical condition (being tired/lethargic) but for most people it's a matter of no self-discipline.

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Do you like to wrap presents, or when you buy it at a department store do you have someone do it for you? I love to wrap gifts! It gives me a nice creative outlet plus I like the feeling of anticipation when someone knows I have put thought into both their gift and wrapping it.

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Has anyone ever made a piece of clothing for you? I designed my prom dress Junior year of high school and my friend's mom made it for me. It came out nice. :)

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How many times would you say that you have been in love? Three times. The first we were separated by the military, the second loved his music more and I am with number 3. :)

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I like this guy and have a boyfriend. I've been with my boyfriend for a long time. I don't know if this other guy likes me or not! Me and other guy talk all the time and I don't know what to do! Stop at 'I have a boyfriend'! Do you really care if the other guy 'likes you or not' if you already have someone in your life? Don't get into this habit, if you have a boyfriend choose to be with him or don't be with him. Do yourself and your 'loved one' a favor and end it if you are considering getting another person involved romatically in your...

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I'm proud to consider Blank Savage a friend & honored that he called me his AB brother. We all feel saddened over his passing, but do you believe that our friend would've wanted that? Would you please post happy memories, words, links involving him here? I am happy to have participated in several fun conversations with him, from a virtual moonlit dance session to a general pouncing sessions with several other esteemed AB members. He was consistently courteous with gentle humor. You always knew what was on his mind. He wasn't afraid to share and care. It astounds me that he was an answerbagger for only several short months. Step...

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Who loves the smell of coffee being made in the morning? Me, me, mememememe!! Coffee, I luv coffee!! Ooops, sorry, too much caffeine today!!

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What is the difference between a certified cashier's check and a money order? A certified check and a cashier's check are two different things. Certified checks are rarely seen as cashier's checks are easier to issue and mean the same thing- guaranteed funds - without the hassle of processing twice. A certified check is a check from a personal account which the bank certifies/signs off as funds guaranteed. In other words, not only does the bank have to...

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What part of your home requires the most cleaning? The kitchen. Thank goodness for the dishwasher. Oh, and the Whirlpool machine that does the same thing.. ;D

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In The U.S.A we seem to have so many school shootings, what do you believe is the root cause of this? (Please, no rehashed rhetoric thank you!) Children don't get the time, attention and love they once did. In 2 parent homes many times both are working, people move all over the place so the extended families are not there to help guide and love the children. School can be a fabulous place to learn, make friends and to taste the experiences life has to offer. It's also very self-focused and harsh, cruel at times. It is...

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When you have your friend's kids (under 6) over and they run wild and misbehave, will you scold them directly directly or ask their parents to put on lease on them? I only allow close friends in my home and they are aware I believe it takes a village to raise children. =)

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What is a life lesson you had to learn that you wish you hadn't? Bittersweet experiences leave only a bitter aftertaste.

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Do I have legal rights to a vehicle I cosigned on? My ex moved out of state with a vehicle titled and registered in her name. They are coming after me because she lives so far away. Can I legally take it from her and what do I need to make it legal? No, you do not automatically have legal rights because you are cosigned. You may want to double check the title, many times financial institutions will automatically title in both names, especially with a married couple unless otherwise instructed. Since she's your ex, check your divorce decree. If she is obligated to pay the loan that will give you more legal avenues... however if...

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Today is my wife and i's 42 wedding anniversary. today, married people do not stay together, anymore. what could be the problem? I don't know, but you'd better fix it soon! It's a huge problem, 42 years is way too long. ;) The problem with today's mentality is it's an instant world. People expect instant gratification, instantly perfect relationships with no effort and a happy ending. The last time I checked 'happy endings' are still illegal yet you are more likely to get one of...

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Have you ever given a name to a plant or tree? Other than calling it 'pain in the a--' because it wasn't growing/I was having to treat it for disease, no. :)

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Hello! Where have you been? That's exactly what I thought when I saw you. :) I was in the pumpkin patch planning my next dastardly death of orange lusciousness!

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How many different state or country drivers licenses have you had? One out of country (DoDDs) In the States: NY, FL, AL

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The AB staff has rejected the notification question concerning the death of Blank Savage and has marked it as nonsense. Will you please join me in my effort to have the question restored? If so, please post to the blog!!!!!!!!!! ==A little late to the game but I also posted. Here's a recap of what went I put on the blog==: I would also like to add my name to the people requesting the Blank Savage post to be reinstated. Let me quote directly from answerbag in the 'About Us' - 'What's in the bag': "Answerbag is a *community* of people helping others. Have a question? Ask it...

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Is there an ABer that inspires you? There was. :( There are other ones but it seems I'm not in a good frame of mind right now.

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Momma Bear just became a sage today would you like to join me in congratulating her? Go Momma Bear of the sweet voice! By the way, MB, I was singing 'Dark Blue' in the shower this morning. Weeeelll, it was light blue at first, then navy blue, then just blue blue. I think I figured it out, lol.

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Do you feel old or "dated" when you hear a song on a commerical that was considered edgy from your time of influence? Yes, Wendy's spicy-whatever commercials recently which featured Violent Femme's 'Blister in the Sun'. I'm still rather wondering about them using a song with the line "I'm high as a kite". I don't even know what the commercial was for, I don't eat at Wendy's, lol. I can just imagine some younger exec snickering as he presented this...

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Isn't Rice a Roni fantastic? What do you eat it with? UGH, when we first got married we were exceedingly poor. Like, we received $5 in an Easter card and were celebrating because we could buy milk poor. Anyway-it seemed like Rice a Roni was always on sale at the local Albertson's buy 1 get 3 free. Guess what we ate for months when we couldn't share his mess hall food. I say again, UGH.

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What is the most recent poster that you've purchased? Pokemon.. :D

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I have an Aristide Bruant print near my computer. What is the painting or print nearest you? My youngest's latest book he made in school. It has printed on it D-'s Bees. :)

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I have racing thoughts all day. Sometimes I feel lifeless, but other times I have endless bursts of energy. I can be told something and will forget moments later cause my thoughts are always running. I can barley sleep at night. What can cause this? My first thought is Bi-Polar disorder. http://www.mentalhelp.net/poc/view_doc.php?id=457&type=doc&cn=Bipolar%20Disorder My second is adult ADD/ADHD. http://www.helpguide.org/mental/adhd_add_adult_symptoms.htm Best course of action: Check out home remedies, maybe herbal, but definitely eating well and exercising along with meditation, maybe some yoga. Next, be checked out by a...

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18 yr old college daughter living with guy who wouldn't get a job (jobs are plentiful). Has a job as of today. But not before I said something. Her sister blew up at her today. Big trouble. Will have to finish this in a comment, so click & read on. I still think the same. Great, he got a job now, but you are enabling them. Some people have to learn the hard way, hopefully she won't learn it by getting pregnant. All you can do is be there for her if she really needs it, but do not offer. I think you had told her you would pay for part of her bills still? I would taper that off, too, if your daughter continues to allow him...

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What color shoes should be worn with a navy suit, black or brown? Traditionally brown. If it is a dark navy suit I would agree. My personal preference is for a brighter navy I would wear black.

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How did you attract your s/o into your life? I was hired in as his supervisor. Me bossing him around hasn't worked since then, hehe.

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My poor 2 nieces can't go trick or treating for some ridiculous religious holloween belief. I say "Let them trick or treat!! what do you think? I think the parents make that decision. Just as some parents are horrified that I never raised my children to believe in Santa, other parents believe All Hollow's Eve is not an acceptable celebration. They may or may not appreciate it when they're older however standing up with your beliefs is not a bad lesson to teach your children.

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Please no points for this. Who will join me in a moment of silence for our dearly departed Blank Savage? *bows head*

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Would it be unethical for us to find out the true identity of Blank Savage? He said that was his true identity (real name).

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I appreciate when other women look at my guy. For me, it just means I choose a great guy! How about you? I wouldn't say I appreciate it. In fact I would say I've become possessive, with unfortunate reason.

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Blank Savage's passing has really gotten to me today. I think we should try to be more respectful and considerate as much as we can of each other. We never know what tomorrow may bring. Who is with me on this? I try to do this, some days with more success. His passing has hit me in a strange way, he became such a presence in such a short time. He was always so courteous and true.

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I have just recently recieved bad news from Blank Savage's brother. Sadly it seems Blank was found dead in his barn yesterday. The autopsy said heart failure. He left a poem in the event that something like this would happen. Poem in the answer. :( I am extremely shocked and saddened by this. One question: Why did his name say "Blank Savage Yadalanh" the past few days? I believe it was changed on the 8th. According to what I found on the net it's the Apache word for 'farewell'... *shiver*

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Have you ever been through a hurricane? If so, what was it like? I have been through many, luckily nowhere with horrendous flooding. Loud is how I would describe it. The prep work and the power outages and clean up are a pain. Usually there are also water problems. It's never fun to feel powerless against nature but it does really puts things in your life into perspective!

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Is it okay to occasionaly eat the skin of a baked potato? My husband said he knew someone who had a colonoscopy and the Dr removed impacted potato skins because they don't break down & digest properly! Anyone know the medical implications(if there are any This could be a problem with any fibrous food if there was a problem with the colon, or some type of extreme eating. The skin of the baked potato has fiber and most of the nutrients are just under the skin so it is healthy. Beware of green skins or sprouts - those are toxic. The skin of the potato is rough so needs to be carefully scrubbed to remove pesticides.

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How do you tell that your with mr. right. my hubby and i have been together for 9 years only married for 4 years. sometime i just be thinking is this right we are so different, but who want someone just like you. Being different can be a great thing as long as you communicate well and accept your differences. Many times the very differences we love and adore are the ones which aggravate you the most when you have been together a while. Compromise is important. A good example is money: if one is a saver and the other a spender it can be very beneficial to your family. As you probably are aware,...

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What affect do finances play in our being? Of course there is the obvious, you need enough to feed and clothe yourself and family. As one of the biggest hot topics for relationships it's huge. It can affect people's self worth, be used as a weapon/bribery, utilized for access to inappropriate things (the movie Hostel, anyone?), besides the general overspending and commercialism, etc, etc.. All of that is mostly about...

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Do you think that white women that date only black men have a fetish for black men? No, everyone usually has a preference for romantic interests. My usual type was 'tall, dark and handsome' but I dated across the board. I married tall, medium and handsome. :)

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Is there really any benefit to using high-priced salon shampoos and conditioners, rather than those available at target/walmart/walgreens? The basic ingredients are almost the same. I do notice a difference in my hair from the very cheapest to the moderate/expensive brands but the main thing is what is good for YOUR hair. The main differences are: -the salons are supposed to keep tighter control over freshness of the product -if you get your hair colored at a salon in order to warranty their work you usually have to buy...

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Will the Harry Potter books still be read in twenty years time? Yes, absolutely. Between the bestseller status, the movies and all the 'junk' you can buy it will still be well known, well read and well loved. Just as every age enjoys them now, today's children will re-read them and want to pass them along to their children in 20 years time.

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A lady once complained that she fell into the toilet because her husband left the toilet seat up. Is this like walking into the door because he didn't open it for her? I'm afraid I have done this on occasion (and the opposite, getting quite intimate with the toilet seat cover) when it's the middle of the night and I'm still half asleep. As a general rule I don't complain about it.. good analogy about the door, lol.

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How do you like your hotdogs cooked? Fried with onions or grilled almost black. YUMM!

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What fantasy novel[s] do you reccomend? The Diamond Age - Neal Stephenson Tarot - Piers Anthony Anything in the Shannara series by Terry Brooks Anything in the Pern series by Anne McCaffrey If you want an easy read The Talisman - Stephen King & Peter Straub is very interesting.

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What is the most hurtful thing anyone has ever said to you? (i know somethings are unmentionable but anything you can post would be greatly appriciated) I still love you in some ways but I am completely apathetic about this relationship. Leave or stay it's up to you.

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What could make you kill? Extreme harm to my children or me. Imminent threat to life of my family or closest friends, possibly to anyone but I really don't know if I'd hesitate in the latter case. There has been once or twice I sincerely have had to hold back from mowing someone down with the car. I guess that would have fallen under extreme harm to me and my family at the time.

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Ladies, do you send your man out specifically to buy your female products? That was a test I put my husband through way back when. He passed. ;)

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Do you ever run errands in your pajamas? Yes as long as I can stay in the car. I've dropped the kids off, picked up dinner/lunch, picked up prescriptions, etc. It's back fired on me several times, lol, once when I was in my pj's and robe!

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How would you sum up life, the universe, and everything in one sentence? Right now I could sum it up in one unfortunate word: Clusterf*ck.

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Would you trust a homeless person to spend the night in your home? Definitely not since I have children. If this were not the case then if I didn't know them I still probably wouldn't. A big percentage have issues that could put my person or property at risk. If I knew who they were I would be more likely to open my home to them.

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Is it possible to go through child sexual abuse and not be affected by it? Why does everyone think one has to come out for the worse? In the end. Can the child be strong and still be happy? I don't think you can 'not be affected by it' however you can certainly still be a strong and happy person. It depends on how the person comes to terms with what happened. Who did the abuse and what exactly it was also plays a big part. For example: it's much harder to come to terms with losing your virginity to your step-dad at 8 than an older neighborhood kid playing...

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I recently read a statistic that said 43% of men cheat and 38% of women cheat. If this is the case, why are men looked upon as unfaithful 100% more often than women? If a marriage fails due to infidelity, why do most people assume the man was the culprit? I think it used to be truer before (majority men as the cheater) and now it has unfortunately evened out more.

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Have you ever lost a friend over one silly fight? Yes. I had a bad break up with a guy and I was pretty wrapped up in feeling miserable... my good friend told me, "Quit bitching about it." When I asked her (in shock) what she meant she told me, "What do you want me to do, sit here and blow sunshine up your (insert nether regions here)." Needless to say I didn't feel like talking to her anymore. Since my best...

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Why did your imaginary friend stop playing with you? There was an incident with a high room beam and a noose... we were only playing 'wild west'! It was quite tragic. :(

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Have you ever seen a stranger who looks just like you? Yes a few, which is really weird, right? A couple times I had a double-take because I was like, 'what's a mirror doing there?'.

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Have you ever felt like its you against the world? I have felt like the world is conspiring against me at times but my sister always has my back so I usually don't feel *completely* alone. And the people at the other end of the 1-900- numbers really seem to care, they want to talk to me for a long time. ;) JK!

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I have a dirty sock fetish. do you think i should tell my date tonight? does anybody mail out such socks? I'd probably stay off the topic of dirty socks on a first date, unless theirs are especially fragrant. Hmm, I guess then you don't own a plant that eats dirty socks, do you? http://www.amazon.com/Plant-That-Ate-Dirty-Socks/dp/0380754932 Ah well, that's what I need, I'm not good at mailing stuff out. ;)

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My husband had a sexual, and emotional relationship with a woman we both know. We were seperated at the time. And he say's it meant nothing to him. I found emails they sent to each other and it sure didn't seem like nothing. Should I believe him? If you have the proof why ask us? The thing to keep in mind is you were both separated. If you can't accept and he had this relationship then you need to rethink things or see a counselor, or talk to someone else to work through it. It will be no use if you are angry and don't work on reconstructing your relationship rather than dwelling on what they did and didn't mean to...

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Who is your favorite Peanuts cartoon character Snoopy. I like the self sufficient silent type. :)

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I recently found out that my husband paid to get a lap dance from a fully nude stripper in a private room. He said that it wasn't that great and more happens out on the chow line. if its a private room how can I trust that nothing more happened? As other people have stated it is illegal for anything further to have happened. What I wanted to add is the problem seems to be 'trust'. There is a bigger issue than what happened in that private room, it sounds like a talk with the husband is in order. Why is he doing these things without discussing it with you? Is it that big of an issue to you or is it another reason you are...

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What would you do for a million dollars? I would do anything that wouldn't endanger my family's health and happiness. As for me, they'd be just fine with the million bucks and I'm not happy anyway. :P

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Why are more people blogging? Instant fame and fortune has brought it into the limelight. Some folks are receiving incredible attention from their blogs. Other folks like to network and connect with others by posting items. For yet others it's just about a diary they can access from anywhere. Me, I just answerbag. :)

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What popular, classic films have you never seen? Ironically the next one on my list is Gone with the Wind, too. :)

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I love my best friend, she knows it- She loves a man she can't have,still tells her he loves her-but wont leave his wife. We've been intimate a few times, but her heart's still with him-Do I fight for her heart or tell her to fight for his? I love her so! Where to start? How about with a no and no? There are times you should fight for love. For the love of a married man or someone who is cheating on their 'boyfriend' with you isn't one of those times I would suggest it. Biggest item for me - marriages are hard enough without other people getting involved. Shame on him for cheating on his wife, and as a single girl I...

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How can you tell if an egg has gone off?? is all mouldy? Smell, if you have ever smelled a rotten egg you will never forget it. It's extremely distinctive.

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What do you like to add to your oatmeal? Brown sugar, fried apples and cinnamon. Yum!

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Do you know anyone who thinks they are "God's Gift" to the opposite sex? Yes I work in the building with someone who does. WHEW, he sure is easy on the eyes. Plus he drives a convertible beamer, the icing on the cake. Come to think of it though, I haven't seen the top down, it might muss his hair I guess, lol.

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I need the help/opinions of you guys. My family has always been troubled. I had an email exchange a few months ago that has disturbed me I would really appreciate an objective view. BTW it's long (see answers) GL, what a plethora of issues. I know any family feud in my life wouldn't look good to outsiders either, thank you for opening up. First, as with most touchy issues each party was ready to take offense at the littlest thing. This escalated amazingly quickly. The original e-mail could be construed as condescending, the reply could be taken very sarcastically. Neither was out of...

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Whats the downfall and perks of being a military spouse? My friend was wondering what to expect before she marries her bf in the army and goes to the base when he comes back from deplyment in late 2008. Downfalls: You never know where you might be in 4 years, being separated from your family, being separated from your spouse (and being responsible for your entire family), having everything come down on your spouses head (ex: you mistakenly bounce a check), pay (depending on grade), military hospitals. Perks: Travel to places you never dreamed of and learning about other cultures,...

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Do you prefer French or Italian bread? Italian, because it tastes better with tomato sandwiches. But I'm a bread eating fool, I'd take a loaf of each.

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What's the hottest temperature you've experienced? Where and why? 108 F in San Angelo, TX. We were there because the hubby was finishing training, lucky us we were there for an extreme heat wave. Some have since been broken but we had record highs for around 8 days straight, with about 15/20 days being record highs. Crazy.

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Who believe's that we are in heaven right now? That is an insane thought. At best we are in purgatory. We might even be just a figment of your imagination...

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Do you think it's good for parents to be closely involved in their college aged children's lives, or is it time to cut the apron strings? As long as the parents are not trying to control their children's lives and both parties are amendable why not? Personally I plan on cutting the apron strings as soon as they graduate from high school or at 18, whichever is later. My goal is to raise my children to be productive adults, a high school graduate of 18 qualifies as adult in my eyes.

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Do you prefer cooking with olive oil, butter or fat (lard)? Most things I use olive oil because butter scorches. The big exception is eggs, I have to fry my eggs over easy in butter.

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Would anyone be interested in signing a petition to stop the senseless flagging of questions in the 'Crazy Thoughts' category as senseless? If so, here is a link for you. http://www.gopetition.com/online/14639.html Great idea, Cyn! Added my anon signature, hehe.

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When was the last time you felt betrayed? 6-3-07. It took about a month for everything to come out and I still feel betrayed but that was the day I found out the worst of it.

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How long after a first date is it appropriate to call a man to chew his ass out for not calling sooner? About 4-5 days if things went really well. About a week if it went ok. Glad to hear you and KDP patched things up. :)

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What percentage of strippers are also part time prostitutes? I'm sure there is a percentage but all the ones I've known have not been. I would guess around 10%.

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What could someone say that would have you yelling "too much information"! Pretty much every answer to this question: http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/421211

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WHATS YOUR FAVORITE MONTY PYTHON FLICK The Holy Grail. I could still watch that over and over, although it does help to be under the influence. ;) Kind of like Rocky Horror.

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Is there a band that you never get tired of listening? The Beatles The Smiths Depeche Mode Jane's Addiction NIN (if you want to call him a 'band') Prince (ditto)

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Everyone I know hates to eat turnips, except me? I can make a meal out of them. How about you? A MEAL out of turnips? Please, describe one! =) I like a pickled turnip side dish my mum makes, other than that I don't recall eating turnips in another form.

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Is there something that means more than love to you? Honesty. I have met some pretty deluded lovers. It should be part of love but it isn't always.

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Do you think your clergyman is next to God or just another regular human being? A regular human being who has chosen to be of service and devote themselves to understanding the connection of the divine to current society. A great sermon can make you feel the wonder of what is written and the hope of a human saved soul. That is what I believe but unfortunately I struggle with it. It has been awhile since I have feel this in my life.

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Anyone ever wonder why we even bother to test athletes for steroids and other substance anymore? Should we just accept the fact that 90% are users, 10% are losers and just move on? Who can even watch the Olympics anymore? I may be a little naive here but I don't think the amount of users is that high... I would probably say (depending on the sport) there is more marijuana use then steroids. I still watch the Olympics because I still enjoy the international flavor/interaction. There are still plenty of phenomenal athletes showcased, and some sports I don't normally get to see.

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Do you find tone deaf people who sing out rather annoying? And if you do, do you say anything to them? No, I find it faintly amusing as I have my moments when I sing totally off key, too. Usually it's ok, at least to my ears, hehe. Yes, I usually say something to them in a good natured way, or outdo them by fooling around and purposefully singing off key, very loudly. It's all in fun. =) Most people who are completely tone deaf know it.

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Real or Fake Breasts? Small, Medium or Large Breasts? (i'm sure this has been asked before ... but I am debating having my breasts done because I am so little and have a small rack lol) For most people real suites your body type. Unless you are completely flat like Kate Hudson I wouldn't advise anyone to get a cook up their rack for purely cosmetic reasons. There is the surgery pain, recovery time, scars, possibility of things not looking quite right afterward, etc. Now if this has always been an issue for self esteem, then I say go for it, moderately. I don't...

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What's the sexiest part of a man's body? Reason? Laugh lines. I love a man with a sense of humor. A close second comes man hands (on a man, haha). My hubby plays guitar so they are strong and supple.

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If you have a problem with someone, is it best to let them know... or simply try to avoid further conflict and just try to get along with them? (especially having to deal on a day to day basis? It depends on the problem. Some things it's best to let a supervisor handle, other things aren't worth mentioning and yet others you need to tell them where to draw the line. Examples of each: Co-worker who talks too dang loud on the phone: friendly chat from the supervisor, which resulted in a desk change to make it easier on me and everyone else. Touchy person (hand on...

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How far are you willing to go to prove your love? It seems I'm willing to give up everything in hopes that love will be enough.

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Have internet forums ruined your spelling? They have mine. And I was once the Regional South East Alabama Spelling Bee champion. Now my spelling has gone to hell. Anyone else now suck at spelling because of the internet? Why do you think that is? What? You used to live in my neck of the woods? :) My spelling has always rotted, but now I find myself at times correcting my work correspondence for such silly things as 'ne1' 'ur', etc. Very sad! The other part to this is I sometimes DEPEND on spell checker, so if I mistakenly spell their/there I'm not as careful at proofreading so I end up leafing the mistake....

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Lately i have questioned that my bf wants 2 get back with his ex(they have 1 kid). I have seen that everytime they talk on the phone he will walk away from me/talk when im not around. His voice is different & i can tell who he's talking to Whats this mean You might be suspicious for no reason... but then you might be picking up on clues. Talk with him about it, watch his explanations and reaction. He may simply be going to a spot more comfortable to talk. My first reaction, based on the information given, is there is something going on, at least some feelings. One clue would be if this behavior just started all of a sudden, it would be...

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Can saying, "Let's agree to disagree." be counter-productive in the exchange of ideas? Yes, it's counter-productive if everyone is still being rational. I find sometimes people don't want to back their opinions (they see it as 'conflict') or sometimes they just don't have the time. "Let's agree to disagree" is most useful when someone's getting all fired up and isn't interested in the exchange of ideas but rather only in...

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How would you classify the reaction between hydrogen chloride and water to form hydrochloric acid? (ie. What reaction type is it?) It's just dissolution of gas into water.

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Do you ever avoid answering questions from certain members that you know will do nothing but challenge every statement you make and ask you questions until the comment thread is two miles long? Yes, there are one or two members I will not answer. It has to do with the fact they are narrow minded, argumentative b*---rds more so than the million mile comment thread. It's one thing to disagree, it's another to think yours is the only correct way to see things.

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I need to know if it would be cheating if I (women) went to a male strip club and recieved a lapdance from a fully nude male dancer in a private room? Is this different than a man at a female strip club? I wouldn't call that cheating however it can be a roadblock to trust and communication in a relationship. Which is pretty much the same reasons cheating is so harmful to a relationship. So no, this is no different than a man at a female strip club. Either one would need to be discussed with the partner before being done to avoid negative repercussions in the relationship. As a...

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Yesterday I saw a little boy stealing candy out of a store. He stuffed it into his pocket, I told his mother and she told me to mind my own Business. Should I have told the owner? Or was I right to just stay out of it? Nobody likes to be shown the bad side of who they love so I'm not surprised at the mother's response. Telling her is the same thing I would have done as it is a parent's responsibility to instill honesty into their children. If I had gotten that reaction I would have told the owner (if they were right there - imagine if the boy had a chance to pull the candy out of his...

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What specific age group is Family Guy targeting? I am 32 & I get MOST of the jokes. I have never seen a specific marketing statement but I would guess right around our age. Usually if I don't 'get' a joke my hubby will, we've actually had to look things up before. However, that's the case with pretty much everything we watch in this genre. Fun show, isn't it? :)

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What kind of M & M are you? Go to http://www.quizilla.com/users/Mollyroxsox/quizzes/What%20Kind%20of%20M&M%20are%20you?/ and post your answer here Hi, MM! *batts eyes* ACK! Confirmation! Of course, I am a self proclaimed stalker, what else could I expect? ;) 254 other people got this result! This quiz has been taken 11619 times. 8% of people had this result.

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How do you deal with a controlling new employee that thinks they know the best way to run a business and wants to make lots of changes? Tell them you appreciate their enthusiasm and don't want to burn out their ideas. Let them know after a probationary period (60/90 days maybe?) you will give them a project or something else to head with a submitted agenda/project synopsis for your approval. Many times if you let them know they will be appreciated it will tone down that burning need to make an impression. If they are...

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I just saw a Celine Dion Concert. It was spectacular and widely viewed. Why do people make fun of her? I don't get it? It might be partially because of her style (she's not "pop") partially because of her accent, partially because of her citizenship. She also has made it clear her career is just that, a career, and doesn't play into her legions of fans so I think some of it is sour grapes. The main thing I equate people making fun of her is like William Shatner - who hasn't seen the...

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Are you surprised when kids have manners anymore? Or did that go out with the Dark Ages? No, I'm not surprised as I live in the South and it seems it's still expected, but I appreciate it more because overall the number of kids with manners have gone down. I do have to add, when we were in NYC every time we took the subway someone (young and older) offered their seats up to my pregnant sister. Chivalry is not dead. :)

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What's the most readily available form of public transportation where you live? Buses in the city. Out where we live there's no public system.

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Do you like the band evanescence? why or why or why not. I have enjoyed the songs I've heard. Amy Lee's voice is really incredible and they are rock without being too heavy.

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Do you get jealous when the guy you like flirts with another girl? Yes, I get extremely jealous when my husband flirts with another woman. Unfortunately with reason.

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Who's your favorite James Bond? Sean Connery. Hubba hubba (still!)!! Daniel Craig was very good.

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I am getting married soon and I have always wanted to be married in a church that my grandfather built (moms side) but mom does'nt want dad there, they have been divorced 25yrs.. What should I do? This basically happened to my sister and here's how it worked out. She sat down with each of them and told them her thoughts and feelings. IE. She loved them both, would enjoy seeing them there and was concerned about any additional stressers. She asked them to commit to being happy for her and letting go of any bitterness for that day, and tried to make them see how important this...

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No booze and inflated courage = no drunk dialing. How hard is that to understand? ... and the series continues, hehe. I don't remember the last time I drunk dialed. Actually, it might be why I'm married. ;) Kidding! Really! I swear! What do you do about drunken typing??

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Do colleges avg your SAT score if you take it more than 3 times? From what I remember taking the test that many times does not look good no matter what your scores were. The important part is the overall admissions package (grades, activities, etc. along with the SAT scores) Really the bottom line is it depends on the college. Here's some good info: http://www.studybeans.com/sat/college.html Good luck, study hard!

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What is you favorite Stephen King Book and or movie? The Dead Zone. I really enjoyed the premise and characters.

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Whos your faveroute skater??mine is weeman...does anyone skate?i do I feel so old... I thought you meant ice skater. The movie 'Lords of Dogtown' rocked.

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Which Dustin Hoffman film do you like best: The Graduate, Tootsie Kramer vs. Kramer or All the Presidents Men? The sad part is, I've only seen 'Tootsie' out of that list. :( I did read All the Presidents Men with Mr. Hoffman on the cover! Geesh, time to add some stuff to the Blockbuster list. :)

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Do you ever think about space? Like space goes on forever, but what if it ends at some point. Then that means that it is in something, and thats in something. It's mind boggling. I go crazy thinking about it. Any thoughts? I'm glad to know I'm not the only non-scientist who thinks about this stuff. Usually it's at night I think about it, how far away and how old everything my eyes can see is. Then other thoughts about it will cross my mind, the other planets, the milky way... pretty soon I'm cross eyed and just feeling how much (or little) is out there. It makes me breathless. Then I...

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I was at an ATM and it let me make a deposit and then request a withdrawal. It then it told me it was unable to dispense money at this time. What is the purpose of an ATM that would do that? -Out of money -Dispenser was broken -Communication issue -There could have been an automatic hold placed on your funds depending on what else you deposited and used -The account withdrawal max could have been reached via ATM. There are usually two different 'buckets' for debit purchases and ATM withdrawals, sometimes further separated by card, sometimes not. Usually this...

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If someone denies your 'friend request', should you take it personally? No, I wouldn't. Everyone has different requirements... some have no requirements, lol.

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Does anybody else really hate it when questions are asked in "txt spk"? Would it really kill them to spend an additional 0.879 seconds to complete the sentences? In a forum setting I dislike seeing text speak, unless of course they run into space restrictions. I guess in this instantaneous world the extra 0.879 seconds cld b nothr txt or 2. :)

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Have you ever surprised your s/o by sending them flowers at work? No, my sob thinks it's a waste of money, so I don't get any either. The last time I received them was from my job, lol.

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Do you check out what the person in front of you bought at the supermarket? Lol, yes, if I have time after doing all I can (putting the groceries up, getting card ready to pay, etc). I find that much more interesting than reading about Britney's latest stupidity or the best place for UFO sightings. Of course, if Matt Damon is on the cover of something I am all over that mag or rag instead. ;D

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If the doctors gave you six months to live....would you keep the news very personal or tell anyone you came into contact with? I'd keep it close to my chest. I would tell immediate family and close friends so they could prepare and realize why I'm going to be taking that cruise, sky-diving, traveling to Europe, taking tons of pictures and writing notes and stories to the boys, etc, etc. Once it got very close to the end I would tell folks, but I try to tell people when I notice the good things about...

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I know a guy who is working that 3yr old girl video rape case. I asked him if he is not tempted to beat this man to a bloody pulp when he gets him alone. He says to get a confession, he has to be friendly with the guy. Do you think you could do that? I think to a certain extent I could because it would bring so much satisfaction to nail him to the wall legally. The only problem would be usually things like this take time, and I know at some point I would lose sight of that goal and *POP* him right in the mouth. At the very least. Maybe I could play 'bad cop' instead?

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If lotion starts to smell, does that mean its gone bad? If it smells noticeable different from what it was originally I would not use it. Partially because I would rather enjoy the scent of my skin but mainly from the possibility of bacteria growth.

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I went to a restaurant with my sister, her hubby and kids. The restaurant messed up on my nephew's order but his parents didn't want to take the food back and have them correct it as a result my nephew was disappointed. Was that a mistake? It depends entirely on the situation. If it might take too long to get corrected I'll tell my kids that's the reason and try to reach a compromise, like switching some food or saying we'll get a dessert somewhere. Usually I will say something because it teaches the child how to ask for something they want and how to deal with a potentially negative situation.

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Are you licensed to carry a gun? Yes, I have a license to carry a concealed weapon.

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What factors are contributors to wrinkles in people's faces? Besides drugs or treatments, what can we do to prevent them? Contributors: Age, sun, smoking, genetics, the faces you make on a regular basis (for example, wrinkling your forehead when putting on mascara) Prevention: Use sunscreen, stay hydrated, stay moisturized (including using a humidifier if you are in dry air all the time), don't pull on your face, no frowning/smiling, find the fountain of youth.. Let me know if you have any luck with...

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I sometimes feel like i have a lump in my throat and its annoying when i swallow and i keep feeling i need to swallow. any ideas The hubby had the same problem and started tracking what he ate at the time... it turned out to be acid reflux and too much coffee, too much grease or too much tomato sauce products (acidic items) brought it on. It could be a wealth of other things though, definitely have it checked out by a doctor.

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In slightly more than 1 month, Blank Savage has achieved the distinction of "Sage". Who would like to join in congratulating him on this awesome accomplishment. Congratulations, Blank! This is well deserved praise, I'm very glad to be on this site at the same time you are. :)

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I had a day from HELL. Could I please get a virtual hug to set me straight (well, not straight.... you know what I mean). Lol, you are a gem, Frank. {{HUGS}} and a twirl. Remember, petting your four legged friend is a proven stress reliever. :)

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Did your parents ever forget your birthday? I don't remember them ever forgetting my birthday.

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In your opinion, is 13 too young for a job? (there are no age limits where I live) No, as long as they aren't monitoring a nuclear plant. ;) Seriously, there are plenty of age and responsibility appropriate jobs that a 13 year old can do. It's a great opportunity to get into the 'real world' and earn a bit of cash for a car or college.

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In Halo 3, what does the "steaktacular" medal mean? It means you have won a multiplayer game by 20 or more kills. Fun. :)

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Lennon and McCartney touted as the best songwriters of the last generation? I agree. Who is this generation's best songwriter(s)? Kenny Chesney, one of the best. Plus I always thought Prince was underrated as a songwriter.

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What have you done for you lately? Made some sour cream pound cake. I ate it with some fresh pineapple! My honey even got some whipped cream.. Oh, that's another story, never mind. ;)

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Is Depression one of the hardest emotional states to get one's self out of? Yes. One of the usual symptoms is feeling hopeless which really makes it difficult to see a way to elevate your state of mind. Depression dulls your thought processes. It robs you of energy. It throws off your sleeping and eating patterns, making each day a constant struggle, forget about getting it together enough to get yourself out of depression. Bah, I'm getting depressed just...

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Do you think there are any overlooked baggers, ones who contribute greatly but aren't appreciated by the masses of the bag? Wanna give a shout out? Well, since *you're* over lvl 25, lessee... OK, I have to give a shout out to the only one on my friends list under lvl 25: GuitarPlayer92 We do have a lot of great contributors under lvl 25, everyone keep them coming! :)

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My dog is barking....he's well fed, walked, did his duty, is feeling well....what do you think he wants? He either wants to play or be petted... or he sees a ghost. o.O

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Like me... do energy drinks give you heart palpitations? No, but if I've had too much coffee they will make me hyper. And then you can't shut me up because I startgoingonandonabouteverylittlethingonmymindandthat'sascarythingbecausethedarkrecessesofmymindhideverynaughtythoughts..

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If you hear a really juicy rumour at work, do you repeat it or keep it to yourself? It depends on what it is and who it's about. I heard my friend's adult babysitter got impregnated by my friend's ex-husband. That one I kept to myself, especially since she later confirmed it to me. I heard a fancy lawyer in the building was stepping out for an afternoon delight. That one I repeated beginning with, 'Hey did you hear that rumor?' I'm sorry,...

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Can/Does the American armed forces deny applicants on the basis of bad eyesight/wear contacts/glasses? It depends on what area of the armed forces they are applying. For example.. Someone I knew had an application denied due to certain allergies. I think it was to SEALS. Last time I checked, color blind or people needing corrective lenses couldn't be pilots.

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What is the fear you'd like to be free of? Fear of being helpless in different ways. I think my greatest fear is going blind, which I legally am without vision correction.

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Mothers: how would you rate the pain of childbirth from 1-10 and 10 being painfully painful? My first one, a 9.5. The second a 5 because whatever they gave me drugged me out of my mind. I was hallucinating. Natural birth, I did not have an epidural for either one.

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Is it hard for you to be honest about how you feel? Yes, everything but anger and happiness. If I'm hurt, it comes out as anger. Confused, anger. Tired, angry. Irritated, anger. Happy, well then I'm happy. It's actually very easy to make happy, it's holding on to that happiness that's the tough part. I think that's where peace of self comes into play. Sometimes I have to delve deep to find the whys of how I...

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Do you think that people who are very self confident are just using that confidence as a facade to cover up their inherent insecurities? Some people do, yes. The people with real self confidence usually are more flexible in their lives. They are confident they can handle most of what life throws at them. People using it as a facade are very rigid in what is 'good' and sometimes even enjoy putting people down to make themselves feel better. A lot of times people who are 'harder on themselves than anyone...

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Is there a greater frustration than that of finding that your brilliant question has already been asked by a previous bagger? Yes, especially if it was asked differently and you don't feel it's a duplicate... ah well. How many questions are on this site? We can't keep up with them all. I'm sure you have many more brilliant questions to come. =)

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Jodie44 was nice enough to send me a microphone (for my birthday) to record my voice message to answerbag. What should I say? How totally cool of Jodie! How about making up some words to sing to this or just humming along: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7J7QURtyTxU =)

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If O.J. Simpson moved into the house next door, would you welcome him or put your house up for sale? I would not welcome him however I wouldn't move on his account. Well, maybe I would welcome him but the type of welcome I think he deserves. *insert evil cackle here*

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In your opinion - what percentage of Answerbag is fluff? If by 'fluff' you mean just human interest and other things which could be found in the 'Life' section of the newspaper...71% In other words, a majority. However, I find the 'fluff' at times thought provoking, interesting psycologically, and sometimes good for bonding. For me it the most interesting. :)

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Does anybody have people on Answerbag who want to be your Friend but have given you many disagreeable answers and comments in the past? Do you accept or deny? I submit a friends request when I like a persons answers and questions and wish to keep up with them. I would rather spend my time helping keep their questions in the forefront and giving points to the people I enjoy, even if I don't agree with them 100%. If I received a request and did not care for what the person says and find their answers and comments disagreeable I would not...

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Can you wear brown shoes and belt with grey or charcoal pants? That would be a tricky combination to pull off. It depends on if the brown had cool undertones and a shirt/tie with a combination of the colors helps. As a general rule, grey is best with black shoes and belt.

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Is cold cereal with low-fat or non-fat milk REALLY a nutritious breakfast, or is it primarily empty calories? As several people have said it really depends on your cereal choice. Here's one of my favorites: http://www.shopnatural.com/Merchant2/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&Product_Code=18186 Optimum Zen Organic Cereal with Cranberry-Ginger Nutrition Facts: Serving Size ¾ Cup cereal (55g) Servings per Container about 6 Calories 200 Calories from Fat 25 Total Fat 2.5g (4% DV) ...

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How was your first time?Good or Bad? If you could redo your first time what would you do differently? First time ever, bad. I would change everything but the location. Person, time in life, circumstances, actual act, all wrong...

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How could a question be rated as nonsense if tons of people answered it. Doesn't a quantity of replies indicate a question's worth? I have to agree with you. I think with certain types of questions the way it's answered is left to the individual's interpretation. It's more to catch people's minds and challenge a fun or creative answer. There are plenty of conversational questions, and they do 'answer': What's on people's minds? How do people think?

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No answerbag = no more of these questions. How hard is that to understand? No questions = empty bag. *sniff*

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How do I offer my own fine art paintings to 'regular' Jill's and Joes, while at the same time get paid to do so? I'm sorry to not have an answer to what you asked but I do have a suggestion to present your artwork without cost to you on a consistent basis. A few shops/restaurants in our area have it set up with artist to display their work, usually with a business card sometimes with pricing in one of the corner, in their establishment. It helps the place with 'free' decoration that...

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When you last said "It's not like that." what were you and hte other individual talking about When I said it, it was actually about a flippant answer here on AB, lol. When he last said "It's not like that" it was about a relationship with one of his co-workers. I guess he had a good reason she and I were the only ones on 'silent' ringer on his cell phone...

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When your spouse/significant other is mad at you, do you find that it's better to simply walk away and let them cool off? Why or why not? Walk away, we feed off each other's anger and seem to set each other off escalating the argument. The biggest problem is I'm ready to talk about it much sooner than the stew-pot.

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If you started dating someone and found out they had a child they never saw or cared about, would you be able to continue the relationship? In that scenario, assuming non-adult kids, it would put a huge question mark about continuing the relationship. It's one thing to not have access to your kid(s), it's another not to have a single thought or care about them. I would listen to their thoughts and explanations about the situation. There might be circumstances which would make it understandable, I just can't...

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I was on a cell phone call with my husband and thought I lost the signal. He told me tonight that he hung up on me. What makes you hang up on a caller? The most common reason for me is if an argument has blown into a fight and I don't want to say something I'll regret later. I don't consider, "OK, thanks, I havetogoBYE" as hanging up on a caller as they at least had a warning before the click!

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I was just crowned "Save By The Bell Trivia Queen". What emotions should I be feeling? You should be deciding if you want to add brillo-hair to your crown. ;)

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Who agrees that, besides an amazing personality, Retroglide has a stunningly beautiful smile? I agree. I called her a Southern Sweetheart before and, although I still don't know her that well, my opinion hasn't changed. Even though she's in the mid-West technically, lol.

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Would you post a link to a really weird item on Ebay? Gotta luv Ghost in a Bottle: http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=290165883310&ih=019&category=33798&ssPageName=WDVW&rd=1

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If you work in a restaurant do you smell like food ?? Yes, absolutely. I used to work fast food and I had a boyfriend who would ask me to shower before I got to his place after work. He was a non-smoker and I smoke and he didn't have a problem with the cig smoke smell.. Mmmm, mmmm, grease!

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Will Nicole Richie's baby come out deformed if she stays so skinny? It has nothing to do with how skinny she is. As long as she is taking in calories and the nutrients to feed her child the baby will be ok. The female human body is still geared to take care of a fetus if there is a shortage of food, as long as it's not only 200 calories a day for days on end (random extreme figure). This is assuming no other reasons for deformity such as genetics,...

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Is it attractive for pregnant women to show off their bellies? 'Show off'? No, that's not attractive. There are some unattractive things that happen like the dark line on the belly (linea negra), stretch marks, if your belly button becomes an outie, swelling, etc. I do believe it's beautiful and did not hide mine in any way. I actually felt sensual for most of the pregnancy, kind of an Earth Mother thing. :) I never...

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Do you believe that forgiving someone who has seriously wronged you is the only way to find closure? Yes, but the hard part is to mean it. Until you can acknowledge the hurt/pain/anger of this persons actions, realize why (or that you will never know why) they did it and come to terms with what happened you have not truly forgiven them. This does not happen instantaneously, forgiveness is a process - at least for me it is. This also doesn't mean you have to forget the actions but...

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Are you happy with your weight? If not are you doing something about it? No, I'm not happy with my weight. I have lost about 20lbs in the past few months, I'm trying to get more active now to lose the next 20-30. All I have to say is it's a good thing I'm 5'8"!

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You open the door to a Jehova witness; what not to say? "Come on in, don't mind the Sigil of the Baphomet drawn on the floor."

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Would you follow a foulmouth preacher? I'd follow him to at least hand him a mint. Then I would walk out the door because I find it inconceivable to believe in someone who used abusive/obscene language in what I would consider a haven.

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Are you trying to break a bad habit or want to change something about yourself? How are you doing? Smoking! Well, I'm planning on trying to quit.. o_O

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Once a week I have lunch with a male co-worker that is a very close friend (with my husbands knowledge), recently a supervisor started telling people in & out of work that we are having an affair. Should I handle it by going to HR or to her directly? What would happen if you went to HR? Would it be worth it? This is not a good situation no matter which way you look at it. People are going to gossip at times but especially for it to be your supervisor makes it worse. It's also very unprofessional on her part. She may get satisfaction from you confronting her about it, giving her something more to gossip about. Yet I would hate...

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Is there any parent or sibling on here that wishes their child/sibling wasn't gay? (For the record: I'm gay.....not a bigoted question). I wouldn't care based on my own attitudes if loved ones were gay, however I would worry about the reactions of other people. Let's face it, this sparks some high emotion in people. It is much more acceptable these days thanks to people being more open about their sexual orientation, (thanks Frank, other ABers and open people) but there are still many hate crimes and ridicule along...

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Do you think that you can cause someone to cheat on you? you know you don't give them enough attention. No, it's their choice. Deficits in the relationship can give them reasons but will not CAUSE them to cheat, which is ultimately a defect in moral fiber. In other words, it's about them, not something you did or did not do. If someone is unhappy in their relationship it's up to them to work on making it better or ending it and not becoming a cheater.

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What will happen to a liability account if the account is credited? It's decreased.. http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/418791

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Do you wish you were homecoming/prom king/queen when you were in high school? My boyfriend was homecoming king so we 'had to' go one year. I ended up buying a dress one week before since we were not planning on going. =0 I'm actually thankful because we had a Magic Moment memory - the sensation of floating on the clouds with a kiss while slow dancing. :)

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Is it wrong to repectfully talk to your ex-wife or does it just complicate current relationships? What other way are you supposed to talk to her? As long as you don't become 'chummy' it should not interfere with your current relationship. By chummy I mean running every single time she calls and she calls every day, intimate situations, 'just hanging out' frequently, etc. That's assuming you don't have children together, if you do then it's...

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Do you feel old? Considering I just scheduled my first 'recommended mammogram' YES. Just the birthday present I wanted, squished mammary glands. =P

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Do the terms debit and credit signify increase or decrease or can they signify either? It depends on the type of accounting journal you are using. In double-entry there is a defined debit and credit side. This could increase or decrease your 'bottom line'. Here's the common break down in a T-accounting, called so because it has the heading (account name) and have the two columns underneath: Debit Increase in asset accounts Increase in expense accounts...

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Can I get a high five? I am having a crummy day... Hey girl:

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If you were out of work on sick leave for a month and nobody from your office contacted you in any way, would you: A) be angry B) feel disappointed C) not be surprised? B if that actually happened... but that wouldn't. We have a small, close knit office. For example: (after family) they were the first people I called to tell when my niece was born. :)

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My husband just got mad at me last night for falling asleep w/ my 3 y/o daughter in her bed. I was exhausted. Is he out of line for being so mad about it? Why was he mad? Address whatever issue he actually had. If he wanted you in your bed 'to keep him warm' or something equally selfish then tell him you wanted to sleep with your other child. Honestly, I can't think of a good reason for him to actually be angry about this scenario. It sounds like he may need an anger management course... I seem to remember a similar...

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Do women really want to be protected by their man or is it another crafty ploy to make us feel good? Partially to make you feel good, but mostly we really want to feel protected. If Mama Bear is protecting Baby Bear, we want Papa Bear to watch our back. :)

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If your partner quit wanting ANYTHING sexual from you out of the blue, what would you think and how would you feel? Cheating would be my first thought. Followed by the myriad of other reasons this could happen: stress and worry, medications, depression along with other mental and medical reasons. You just need to ask, then dig a little if you need to. I would certainly feel concerned and undesirable but hopefully resolving this issue would make you stronger as a couple.

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Would anyone like to go to my physics class for me?? It starts at 2pm I have my 8 credits in Physics already, tyvm. Have fun... learn lots! ;D

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Ladies: Will you/did you keep your last name after marriage? Both my sister and I had intended to keep our last name as we are the last of our line... but we both changed it. I actually thought about it a minute while filing out the documents for the license.

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Who here likes spam, egg, spam, spam, bacon and spam? I just like Spam, bacon, egg, Spam and rice... does that count? :)

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My computer does not recognize my camnex mp3 player in the USB port even though it is correctly placed in the USB port what am I doing wrong, and how do I fix it? Another problem might be the port. If you are plugging it into your monitor try in your tower, front and back. I've had to do this sometimes when restoring files.

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When was the last time you broke the law? I just smoked too close to an entryway to the building! Before that I drove over the speed limit on the way to work.. Man, I'm just trouble. Slap the cuffs on me now!

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How long does it take to finalize a divorce? It depends on your state and what kind of divorce you are filing. In Alabama from date of filing it only takes 30 days to finalize (with complete agreement between parties). Sometimes it can take months to be able to file depending on the current case load. If you have to mediate or are fighting over division of property or custody of course it can take years. For the actual laws in all...

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Is it true that every night you don't wash makeup off, you age your skin 18 days? No, in fact some make up helps protect your skin overnight. Many people actually strip protective oils from their skin when cleaning their faces. Remember makeup goes on the epidermis which is provided by diffusion from the dermis, the layers underneath. The top layers slough off naturally in about a month's time.

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If something is annoying you, what do you usually do? I usually try to fix it in some way, unless it's really minor or I realize I'm annoyed because I'm tired or stressed. Then I just get some crackers and cheese to eat with my whine.

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Has anyone here laughed so hard you cried? What was so funny? Yes, the last time to this video which I was watching with my Alabama born and bred country girl friend: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0lNFRLrP014 She started cackling and we were laughing at each other by the end. For those that don't know Sweet Home Alabama is the unofficial state song, so to see this performance cracked me up.

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Do you work with someone you wish would just stop showing up one day? No, I like the people I work with. There's one or two I wish would show up with laryngitis every once in a while though!

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Do you have someone that you just can't stop thinking about throughout your days? Always on your mind no matter what you do? I do... :o) Yes, him and us.

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Should old Nazis be pursued today? Yes, absolutely. You should pay for your actions. Are the people the Nazi war criminals killed any less dead today? We are to pity them because they are old? What about the people who did not get the chance to become old? They may have had time to regret what they had done but that doesn't change the facts.

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OKAY this is weird! I just got a email from a smoking hot blond, who's built like a brick sh**-house(it's lingerie pics) , and the text is all in a foreign language I can't make out. Can anyone even tell me what language this is? Subject: dis nou hoe 'n m Me thinks somebody needs to cut back on his rum intake.. to be taken in on this popular scam. Ah well, at least you got some eye candy out of the deal! ;)

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Which would be worse...the person you love arguing with you everyday or the person you love ignoring you everyday? I've lived both and it's worse to be ignored. Being ignored is living in an emotional wasteland.

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Do you prefer BBQ on a charcoal or a gas grill? You can't beat propane for ease of use, so that is what I'd rather cook on. I prefer the taste of food cooked on charcoal or wood. :)

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MY boyfriend loves surfing more than me, and hes always surfing instead of hanging out with me, what should i do? If that is a part of him then you need to accept it, as long as he does carve out some time exclusively for you. To spend some time with him you could: -hang out at the beach and watch him surf -learn to surf -hang out with your friends at the beach while he surfs Surfing for some people is a part of who they are. I once dated someone who was completely involved with his music and...

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Without looking her up, do you know who Annie Lennox is? Yes, she was in Eurythmics and also had a solo singing career. Incredible, distinctive voice. It was kind of a shame to hear her on her American Idol performance, it wasn't nearly as powerful as it once was.

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Will you congratulate me on my recently-discovered pregnancy? We'd been trying for over a year, and FINALLY, we're going to have another baby! Yay! Will you be happy with me? Congratulations!! Are you kinda hoping a boy or girl? I know either would be great but usually there's a slight preference. =)

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Would you know what was meant if someone said you were an otaku? Huh, interesting. I'd never heard that word usage before: Otaku is the honorific word of Taku (home). Otaku is extremely negative in meaning as it is used to refer to someone who stays at home all the time and doesn't have a life (no social life, no love life, etc) Usually an otaku person has nothing better to do with their life so they pass the time by watching anime,...

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Where do you NOT like to be touched by anybody? Up my nose. I remember waaaay back in summer camp we had a counselor who would grab your hand to 'read your palm' and the next thing you knew your finger was in his nose. I only fell for that one once! Ewww.

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Do you read other members profiles or stick mainly with the questions and answers? Profiles if I come across several answers/questions I really like of a person's. That's how I ran across you. :) Other times I'll check it out if someone seems to really be in pain or have a tough situation so I can get a better feel of how to answer. Many times they'll have asked the question in several different ways with more info each time.

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When visiting family and friends, Do you snoop through their bathroom medicine cabinet, or respect their privacy? No, I don't really care about the medicine cabinet. One thing I do check that's weird is their tub...shampoos, conditioners, body wash, soap, razors... for some reason what they use interests me. So make sure you clean your tub if I'm coming over. =D

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Do your dreams ever affect your moods? Yes, unfortunately so. I dreamed my honey got someone else pregnant. He rightly asked, "What's with you?" within the hour after we woke up!

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Do you like spiders and snakes? Neither, although I do have this fear I will be sleeping and a spider will land on my face and crawl up my nose.

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Are you a possessive person? Yes, I'm afraid I've become one about my significant over time. I've had reason. :( On a good note, I'm not possessive about other relationships. I'm usually the one who brings new friends together. =)

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Do you think people should have cosmetic surgery to enhance their looks? Sure. I do think it's funny when someone has kids and people ask 'Where did s/he get that honker?' Turns out someone had a little rhinoplasty, hehe. I think many people go too far. I also feel it's best when features are enhanced (as you said) rather than changed. Variety is the spice of life, there are many people who may not fit the 'conventional...

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What temperature would it need to be for you to say it's cold outside? Whenever I'd have to wear a jacket to go outside. I wanted a jacket this morning at it was 55 F. Brr.

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Do certain colors sexually turn you on, if so what colors and why(if you know)? I like red for it's vibrancy, it's a very sexy color. However if the hubby really wants to get me going he'll wear moss/sage green, the color of his eyes. :)

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I've been married for 11 years. We have been having problems. Last week we had a big fight. I went out with a male friend and we kissed. I feel horrible I have confessed to my husband. What can I do to get my husband to forgive me, I fe Your husband needs to choose to forgive you, there is nothing you can do except act trustworthy. If you are having so many problems he may choose to keep this over your head... in which case you have your answer. I have the opposite problem and I find it very difficult to feel forgiving it all the time but it's getting better. Only time can take away the hurt and feeling of betrayal....

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Ladies, which shade of rouge lipstick looks best on your man? Whatever shade I'm wearing, from my lips. ;)

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I have a boyfriend of 8 and a half months. another guy likes me. i know he's trying to break me and my boyfriend up. he hugs me ALL the time. and calims to be "cooler" than my boyfriend. and so on. advice? i really love justin (the boyfriend) though. ALOT What's the question? If you love your boyfriend tell the other guy you feel uncomfortable with him hugging you all the time and if he continues you will have to avoid his company. If he's really your friend and is into you he needs to know his boundries and not cross them. If he cannot respect your feelings then he doesn't respect YOU and is not worth your time. Enjoy...

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Bad things happen to everyone so why complain? do you think its part of human nature? Sometimes it's good to know you aren't the only one who has it rain on their wedding day, gets cut off while driving, has a crappy alarm clock and oversleeps, etc. etc. :)

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What freezes water faster, salt or sugar. As salt lowers the freezing temperature of water (hence why salt is used to melt ice in roads and walkways, etc) with all other factors being the same sugar water would freeze faster. Of course, plain/pure water would freeze faster than either, and water that has been heated first will freeze faster than cold water. :)

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If a "family member" hurts you repeatedly, for example, by saying hurtful, insulting things to you, is it wrong to not disclose any personal feelings and to have as little contact with them as possible? My own mother does this to me, she told me in order to keep my husband happy I need to lose weight among other things. I'm 5'8" and a size 12, so it's distributed- at least that's what I keep telling myself, lol. I have spoken to her once it the past 10 months, I'm under enough stress with my marriage to deal with her 'helpful' comments. So yes, I...

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Hey you guys! I just found out I won an International Award for some poetry I wrote and entered! Have you ever won something from your own writing? I'm with sweetcakes, post a link! Or put it on your profile, if you don't mind. Congratulations, M Moon. To answer your question: I did get some recognition for a short story in high school but that was a while ago. :)

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What are some good ways to prepare plantains (other than frying them)? I usually cook fully ripe ones in a touch of butter and lots of honey with cinnamon/pumpkin pie spice on the stove. I just found a recipe of what my friend used to make from cooks. com: MCHALARI 1 lg. onion 2 tomatoes (or 1 can of whole or crushed tomatoes) 5 plantains (ndizi) Garlic, as desired Pepper, salt & hot peppers (pilipili), as desired Flour Cooking oil Dredge the...

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How far do you live from your birthplace? 7000 miles, 11,280 km, 6090 nautical miles. Whew!

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Do you see it as thinly disguised bigotry when heterosexuals say: "Oh I have plenty of gay friends - AND they are all really nice!" What? Are Gays and Lesbians supposed to all be Criminials and this revelation of "nice" comes as a shock? No, it's not bigotry because it's not meant negatively. I think it shows there is still a lot of walls to be torn down with people of different sexual orientations/beliefs. I don't believe you can expect people who were raised that homosexuality was 'wrong' (or whatever negative skew was put on this - or even just never been around this subject) to be completely...

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Do you respect people who go to bed with you on the first date? I wish my hubby would give it up on date night, he always holds out... ;) If I were single it really wouldn't matter, I'd respect them or I wouldn't - it wouldn't be based on anything to do with sex. Unless of course it was really deviant/harmful in some way.

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What do you enjoy doing after you've had sex? Drinking a cool glass of water and taking a nap on his chest.

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Ragamuffin has just made Sage. Who would like to join me in congratulating the Muffin on his fine accomplishment? Congrats, Ragamuffin! Does that mean you'll finally take a break and give us that picture? ;)

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What is your FAVORITE breakfast? I have lots of favorites (strawberry blintzes, ham stuffed french toast, belgian waffles) but the one I will fix myself anytime day or night is butter fried eggs over easy, buttered toast and bacon/spam/or ham. Hot sauce on the egg whites of course. :)

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What would be a really bad name for a restaurant? Fu Ku. That was a real restaurant where I used to live...

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Who intimidated you more when you were a child (or even now) your mother or your father? Neither, however if I pushed my dad I would be more afraid of the consequences since he thought them out and always went through with them. It was no use being intimidated by my mom, you never knew when she was going to fly off the handle and I'm no shirking violet.

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Ladies: Do you cook because you like to or because you have to...or not at all? I like to cook but I dislike cleaning... so I don't cook but several times a week.

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How do you dress for work? First I put my right leg, then my left leg in my drawers, pull them up. Bend at the waist and adjust the girls in their cups, hook up the back. Then depending on... oh, what, TMI? Sorry! Ok then, business to business casual. Jeans on Friday. =)

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Would you die for your spouse? Yes, but I'd really hate to put it to the test. Sometimes when you look death full in the face it brings things out that you have never dreamed of existed in your soul, never thought to evaluate.

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Idol contestants are constructions of various commercial enterprises - they appear on stage wearing the latest fashion in hair gel, hair style, make up, clothing, shoes, etc. What do you think? The whole idea is to find the whole package, a voice, 'the look' and presence. Why wouldn't they use everything available to them? Originally they were out to find a pop prince/princess but they have actually managed to find some talent outside these parameters. Look at Bo Bice. http://www.bobice.com/

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Do you feel like you've ever been treated differently because of the way you look? (wearing glasses, visible disabilities, overweight, freckles, underweight etc?) Absolutely. It's natural to stereotype to a degree because everybody can't get to know everyone else, you do have to make judgments on the fly many times a day. And let's face it, most times extremely attractive people get a very different reaction from folks.

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Do you think it's bad manners and/or inconsiderate to visit friends without asking first if it's okay to? Yes, it's inconsiderate if you don't call. Of course, it depends on the person/family. I have a friend who has an open door policy but most folks would appreciate a call.

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Our ' babycakes ' is in the top 5 on the leader board , So don't you agree she needs her Gold Trophy , I don't see one there for her and shes great? Go, go gadget cup! Babycakes deserves every golden curve. =)

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Which movie or band or book or anything were you surprised that you began to like? The whole genre of country music... I grew up on classic rock, new wave and club/hip-hop music. Now I listen more to country than anything else.

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Alright, I am taking suggestions for my new avatar and user name... Any body got any ideas? Funion? Fear of Funing? Get your Fun on? =)

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If batman or supergirl were real, would you date a super hero? Yes, you have hit on my favorite. I had the biggest crush on Batman (Adam West) growing up. *drool* Hmm, maybe he would be too busy trying to pick me up from fainting to do his thing - it'd probably be best if I didn't date him!

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Have you ever walked out of a job? if so why and did your boss beg you to come back? No, I have never walked out of a job. I've worked roughly 15 different jobs, been at my current one for 3 years. :)

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My boyfriend has just dumped me for the 15th time this week and yet again took me back within the hour what would you do?Im confused? Can you say "Power Play"? Take a look at your future. No matter how much you love him, his idea of love seems skewed. Is this how you want your relationship to be another year from now? If you don't take a stand what's going to happen if he can't mentally dominate you anymore, try to do it physically? Sorry for so many questions but it seems you are focusing on...

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For the sake of my two kids, is it better to stay with their mother and be unhappy and depressed or choose to LEAVE the 10 year relationship and hopefully be happy but alone? I feel it is better to stay and see if you can be happy- try counseling, changing your attitudes, etc. If you and your partner are miserable and cannot see a way to be happy together then you need to leave the relationship. It does nobody any good to stay unhappy and depressed but still together 'as a family'. Do you want to teach your children it's ok to be in a bad...

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Do you like to drink beer out of the can or the bottle or poured into a glass? I generally don't like beer from a can whether poured in a bottle or straight from the can. Bottled beer can stay in it's bottle, I usually don't use a glass unless I'm out in a restaurant. But then I don't usually drink beer in a restaurant. :)

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Based on your life experiences thus far... who had the most influence on your definition and acquired primary beliefs about love? Walt Disney. Don't we all 'live happily ever after'?... Reality check: My sister about family/friends love, and I read a lot.

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Do you often get caught on the details of a situation and miss the whole picture? It used to be a lot. I'd have to tell myself to stop looking at the trees, look at the forest! These days I don't have the same patience, or maybe a better perspective? I'm more interested in the overview and what it means.

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Do your personal checks have a theme on them? If so what is the print? I got them when I worked for a bank in Florida: Embossed seashore theme with a saying over the signature line, "My reality check just bounced" Which sums it up perfectly. ;>

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What is the wildest article of clothing you own? I have a pair of black silk boxers with red hot peppers printed all over them i got as a gift. LOL can you beat that? That would have to be my black vinyl miniskirt with holographic spots all over (like stars in the night sky). It's been years since I wore it but I just can't seem to get rid of it!

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What's one thing you would never say "no" to? The question "Do you love your kids?"

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Is it unheard for a male to be a feminist. My social studies teacher changed the way I look at it now. He said, "When you look at your mother would you want her to be treated unfairly?" Thoughts? No, I've met many males who are feminists. Just because a person has never been an astronaut doesn't mean they don't support the space program and understand the goals. If men were smart more of them would realize it's a useful thing to understand women. ;P

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In your opinion who has the best web browser? Safari is pretty interesting, I like the 'private browser' feature. Unfortunately some sites will not work so for daily use it's Firefox for me.

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Do you find yourself looking for sexually arousing articles or scenes in newspapers, magazines, or other media? Sure, especially when the hubby leaves them up in the browser.

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Can I wear shoes with robots on them to work? Not kidding. They are heels! (pic inside) With the classic shape it shouldn't be a problem no matter where you work. Of course, if they know anything about The Fun they wouldn't raise an eyebrow! Those are damn cute. I usually just go wild with my socks, my coffe cup ones are the current faves. :)

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Have you ever NOT wanted to be in a relationship? (it seems everyone always does...) No, can't say that I have specifically tried to stay out of a relationship. If I'm single, I'm single, I don't worry about finding someone or a relationship. Yes, I'm one of those people that don't worry about finding other people if I want to head off to a movie or restaurant, either. =)

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My doctor gave me a cortisone shot in my shoulder today to ease the pain of some muscle problem. It really hurt when he gave it to me and it hurts more now. Is this normal? Does anyone know how long cortisone is supposed to take to act? My friend has to get them sometimes and she avoids it like the plague. They are very painful and she does have soreness from it for a day or two afterward. It takes a couple of hours for the soreness to fully develop... on the other hand the pain is usually getting at least a little better by then. On one or two occasions she's had to go in for a second or third shot because the...

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Women: Has the idea that you could produce milk (and if you already have, think back to before that) ever seemed odd to you? Or at least it's a weird/interesting? I always took it for granted. It's a wonderful, natural process. The thing I thought was weird was when the hubby boasted of my lactating prowess. After I stopped breast feeding we were feeding my child over a month on frozen breast milk! We did mix it with some formula as we switched over but that is a whole heck of a lot. Moo.

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Why is everything so easy as a child. but as a teenager everything seems so difficult. For teenagers, besides hormones and all the pressures of going to high school, there is more of an awareness of the world. One of the things that you learn as a parent is that children think everything is about them. You get into a fight with the other parent about appropriate punishments? It's the child's fault for being 'bad'. The world to a child is a little...

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Do you regret losing your virginity so young? How much longer do you wish you had waited? I wish I had waited another year for the guy I started dating at that time. We could have been each other's first, and he was a far superior man than the jerk I ended up having sex with first. I still don't quite know what I was thinking. Er, ya, that was the problem. :( Either way was actually a little too young, but then again I was only 17 when I graduated.

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Why is it no big deal if my father brought in groceries last week and didn't bring them upstairs and today my mom found a frozen food item in the bag with the pasta sauce and when mom brings home strawberries and my dad yells because they are bruised? Double standard. No empathy. At least no one left lunch meat out in the car for a week, in the hot summer sun! That's an idea if someone is feeling vengeful.. *wink*

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Do you ever get on "food kicks"? You know, you can't get enough of avocados, so eat them until you can't stand to look at them? You love mushrooms and ingest every known variety, and then no mushrooms for six months? Yes, all the time. Usually it's because of the season - strawberries or squash or grapes are at their peak. Other times, I just don't know. The weirdest one, not including when I was pregnant, was beef jerky. For about 5 months I became a beef jerky connoisseur. I bought it 3-5 times a week, the big packages! Now I'm back to normal, every once in a while. I mind as well...

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I have seen, maybe you have too, ads for a dating service that matches people up for lunch dates. It sounds like a great idea to me. 'It's only lunch' is their logo, I think. I think it's a far better way to meet people than dinner dates. What about you? Other than the time restraints, which can actually be a good thing, 'just lunch' is a great idea. -Less overall pressure since it's not as 'romantic' a setting. Lunch is friendlier. -Less expensive meal so there isn't as much money invested. -Less pressure to look extra special since it's a more casual setting. -Less expectations since it's just...

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Were you in a Greek organization in college? Which one? Why did you join? Why didn't you join one? Nope, didn't join them. At my college they were full of snobs unless you pledged one of the academic/course of study sororities, which not a lot (or any?) freshmen did. When I went to college it was my first time back in the States and off a military base in 8 years, I had quite a culture shock. I only went full time for one year, got too busy with life afterward.

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My computer monitor keeps shutting off and then turning back on. Am I about to lose the monitor for good, or can I do something to keep it running? Hi Cyn! Looks like you already did most of what the hubby suggested to check: -loose cable -loose graphics card -possibly overheating? Try cooling it down with a fan. Good luck. We would offer you one of our CRT's (at least it would have been a 19") but it seems you are on the other side of the country from us! :( At least the price of the monitors has gone down, remember...

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Who was the last person you made cry? why? Within the last few days a couple of ABers made me tear up both in happy/connected moments or sad things... but actual tears down the face award is reserved to my lovely husband. I cried continually for weeks as we worked through a very rough time, made ultimately harder because of his actions. Which he says are my fault because of my inaction. Niiice. :(

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Post-it notes: Love them or hate them? Love to hate them! I lose them, they unstick from my monitor, stick to other papers...argh! But they are great to mark pages, make notes, colorful, etc, etc. Really handy. Did you hear about that guy who was in the Post It production line? He fell on the gumming roll, it ripped off his clothes and some of his skin. OUCH! He now suffers from Post-it Traumatic Stress Disorder. ...

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The subject of a new movie is vigilantism. If you were viciously attacked and painfully injured and you could find your attackers would you take justice into your own hands or would you turn your evidence over to the police? Ah, I'm looking forward to seeing Jodie Foster in that movie, she's incredible. I would turn the evidence over to the police, give them the opportunity to take care of them legally. That's my first reaction as long as there was no permanent damage though honestly, I don't know. If the system failed me I would take it into my own hands. If they had hurt my kids on...

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I love to make people feel dumb, do you think i'm a bad person for that? No, I don't think you area bad person for that. I do think it's a sign of an insecure person. If you're that intelligent I'd love to see you use it for positive things. Heck, even if you're not intelligent let go of the anger and enjoy life and people more. ;)

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What toy would you play with right now if nobody had to know about it? Since I have kids I can just get them anything I want to play with, lol. The hubby does that all the time! 3 of everything!!

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Of all of the tooth-rotting sugary breakfast cereals out there, which is your favorite? (i.e. Apple Jacks, Cinnamon Toast Crunch, Froot Loops) I could eat Cinnamon Toast Crunch, Super Sugar (Golden?) Crisp and Peanut Butter Capt'n Crunch all day long as a snack by itself. With milk it's Fruity Pebbles and Frosted Flakes. YUMM!

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What is your favorite flower and why? My favorite types are roses and daylilies. Here's some from my garden: http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1423790 =)

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Have you ever used the sad puppy dog eye look to get your way? did it work? I don't do sad, puppy dog eye look very well. I'm also not a pretty crier so it's usually the 'oh you lovely person would you be so kind as to help me ____' usually works much better. 100% sincerity helps :)

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You've just written your significant other a romantic love letter or poem. Based this person's habits... where would the best place be to hide it so that you can surprise him/her and still be sure that he/she would find it? I usually just tape it to the bathroom mirror on his side. Subtle doesn't work on him!

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What do you write in a birthday card for the person you love? I can't think.. I can't get past the address on the envelope... One weird thing that helps me sometimes when I'm blocked: get a pretty piece of paper and write your note on that instead. Sometimes the card is so beautiful and says everything and I don't want to mar it with some sloppy handwriting! (speaking of mine of course, but then I'm a bit of a perfectionist) How sweet you are, Fun. =)

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Do you think that humans are primarily selfish creatures? Primarily? No, I do not thing there humans as a whole are mainly selfish. Everyone's acted selfish from time to time however the great majority of people will more often act altruistically. Sometimes it's by social graces (giving up a seat for an older person for example) sometimes by a sense of duty (tithes or a United Way drive at work come to mind) and sometimes by a true...

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Is there one thing that's weighing heavily on your mind right now? What is it? Whether I made the right decision and if the relationship will work out the way I picture. So far, mostly good... =)

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Have you ever thought of something that seemed really funny and when you said it no one laughed? Sometimes I blurt out something without building it up.. I really have no sense of timing for humorous stories. Other than that, my mind takes some weird turns - sometimes people don't turn with me. I guess I need to put on the blinkers a little more in advance.

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I have recently been told that because of the computer amongst other things that many young people do not know how to read or write handwritten script. Is this true? I haven't noticed this is true. My children still do their work in handwritten script (they are not in high school). Script is one of the fonts. ;)

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What's your favorite "F" word alternative? Freakin'? Fricken'? Effin'? Other? Fridgerator or Fudgecicle. I like how it is drawn out.

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I'm so stressed out. My bf of 1 year OD'ed over a mistake he made, and he died. I cried every night and day since. I wanted to marry this man, he was special to me, he treated me better than anyone has. What can i do with myself? I feel your pain and confusion. First, do not blame yourself. He chose to cheat on you, and he chose to kill himself/take so many meds. If he cheated there were underlying issues of some sort, and if he decided to OD then there were other issues involved whether it was a chemical imbalance or some other reason for depression. Were there other cultural pressures (your profile says...

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Where has all the time gone? The office at work changed radio stations to a local oldies channel. And they were playing songs from Billy Joel, since when is his music classified as an oldie? It was pretty devastating. Lol, I was thinking about that the other day when I quoted some lyrics. I remember when the band I was quoting split up (I was devastated) and thought to my self, 'Self, that was 21 years ago, do you believe that?'

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Name someone you met that you think i know by name? Henry Winkler - The Fonz! Ron Howard and some of the other cast members from Happy Days. Sorry, I was most excited about Fonzie at the time, lol.

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What is the biggest boat you have ever been on? I wish I could say a cruise ship, but it would be a ferry. Other than that, just some glass bottom boats and catamarans. Oh wait, we did go on a cruise ship for a 4 hour gambling cruise. The seas were so rough we ended up throwing up our guts for 3 hours. The worst part was getting someone to check on my husband (he was worse off) because his name is the same as a porn star's. No...

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Have you ever test drove a car, just because you had a errand to run and you didn't want to walk? No, but someone I know picked up her boss at a meeting in a test drive car so she could help make a good impression on the people her boss had met. Heehee.

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If the going got tough, which A-Bagger would you want standing in your corner? Based on pure reasoning and cult of personality I would say StableBoy, looking at it objectively if I could only pick one. The 'reality' would be take a look at my friends list, all good people who are intelligent, funny, witty, sweet and all around great people. I would be proud to have any and all standing in my corner at any time, as I would stand in theirs. =)

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Why does Renee Zellweger always look like she has to poop? She's had some good roles, but I don't understand her popularity. She brought Chicago down a notch, Catherine Zeta-Jones was incredible.

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I never ask this, because I don't really care ever, but why was this rejected you think? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1431701 Maybe because you didn't clarify it was about age? It looks like everyone else knew it was about age...seemed to make more sense than 'turn to page 30 what is the second sentence'!

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What is a cycle service charge on my bank account and how can I end this vicious cycle? Hehe. Usually it's for not maintaining a certain minimum daily balance amount. If you don't want to stop by the bank the website should have a 'fee schedule' showing all the potential fees charged. You may be able to change the type of account at your financial institution in order to not get charged this fee. Otherwise, the only other way to end this vicious cycle...

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Have you ever decorated a cake? What did it look like? Yes, in a sedate way. I make a carrot cake which I usually cut orange zest and use walnuts and the cream cheese frosting to make it pretty. Of course, no one really cares because I soak the raisins and glaze the whole cake in Maker's Mark. :)

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Wel-come to IHOP, Are you ready to order? *Groan* It's been too long! Strawberry Blintzes with hashbrowns, crispy bacon and a carafe of OJ, please! (Pot of coffee is a given :>)

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Why do you say "hit" the gym? Because it's a powerful, active way to say it, for all the powerful, active people of the world. :)

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If you were to create your own videogame what would it be like? It'd probably be something geeky and a little odd like Viva Piñata.

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Dont you hate it when your question(s) gets deleted or points deducted by a person who just doesn't like you? If you could, how would you punish that person? Darn, are you still around MATT, that didn't run you off? ;P Hehe, jp. I don't like getting DR's, especially if there's no why about it. At least I'd like to get a nice debate out of the deal! But the bottom line is I just don't care. I put what I say out there, for the most part tactfully, and if someone wants to DR because they don't agree then...

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The time has come for cold, and overcoats... What does your winter coat look like? In the black: Did I mention it doesn't snow here? Hehe.

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Ladies: do you enjoy showing your cleavage or cover up when you are in public? I usually wear moderate necklines and shirts that aren't tight... but sometimes I like to get a little sizzle going. I have a favorite shirt that usually gets the hubby going hubba-hubba. ;)

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Are you a slave to fashion? What is the most uncomfortable thing you have worn to look good? No, I'm not a slave to fashion though I like to be fashionable. The most uncomfortable thing I have worn are the sticky bras for something which plunged deep front and back. I was worried about them coming off the whole evening, then they wouldn't come off when I wanted them to!

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So what have you learned about life so far? No matter how much I learn, I will never know half of what I need to make the best decisions about everything all the time. It's OK to need people and they can help bridge this gap. Love, acceptance and tolerance are great traits. Hate, rejection and closed minds will always manifest themselves. Most people have a blend of the two. There are many opportunities to learn, to touch...

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How do I sneakily tell my boss that my birthday is next Wednesday? Is this the way you sneakily tell the AB community it's your birthday next Wednesday? ;D

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Why do so many women, even older women, paint their toenails in those awful colours of dark red, bright red, blue, black(!), green, etc.? I realise this is very subjective, but I generally prefer a more natural look. Very subjective, lol. Mine are bright red right now. Why? I like to look down and see my feet are taken care of and the bright color cheers me up. I usually have a bright color on my toes. As a side note, my fingernails are usually just trimmed and buffed and I use only a touch of make-up on a daily basis. It really is just a toenail thing for me. =)

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Have you ever been scuba diving in the coral reef or know someone that has? I have only ever been snorkeling but have known plenty of people who dive. In my oceanography class one of my tank partners used to SCUBA dive and brought the most awesome stuff back. We had the most dangerous tank: stonefish, Portuguese man of war, lionfish -mind blank- well, we had some other stuff besides the porcupine fish, clown fish and sea anemone. Unfortunately we used to get...

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Which movies by Woody Allen did you enjoy watching? None. I don't find him very funny, just a nervous, creepy, unattractive geek. I could barely stand to listen to him in 'Antz'.

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Is "25" pushing thirty? No, I consider pushing 30 starting about 28. That's when you really need to start saving for a wheelchair... ;D

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If you had to choose only one thing... what would you say it the best thing about the opposite sex? I would have to choose the one thing about men different from my same sex.... the innate sense of direction which means men never have to ask for directions.

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If I was to make a formal apology to ALL the baggers I've confused the heck out of, would you forgive me? Would I EVER finish? What the H, E, double-hockey sticks are you talking about, Capt'n? No need for apologies, just throw me in the chain gang if I ever displease you. ;)

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When you trip or slip in public, do you look around while getting up to see if anyone had seen you? It depends on how spectacular the trip or fall was. If it was a slight stub then 'Oops' and I'm on my way without a glance. If it made a scene, then I'll look around and usually say, "I just knew I'd have a audience to that." That usually gives them the 'permission' to really start yukking it up.

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I always see these magazines on display with articles promising to improve your sex life. Do you ever these articles and have they ever helped put the "spark" back into your sex life? No, I usually just try the e-mailed ads. All I've had improved is my computer because I had to buy a new one, the old one stopped working for some reason... ;) (just kidding!!)

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Who was the last person you danced with? One of my sister's buddies Connie at her wedding. I wanted to dance at my sis' wedding and the hubby refused, so I found my own dance partner. So what it was one of the other bridesmaids, lol. =)

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When was the last time you where confused about your life? About 2 months ago everything was falling apart. I thought things would be much more settled at this point in my life!

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For the married women...Do you like your married name better than your maiden name? My maiden name was easy but mispelled constantly because it was almost like another much more common last name. I wanted to keep it because it dies in our branch of the family with my aunt, who hyphenated her name. :-| I do like my married name a little better though, the initials are cool.

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When was the last time you changed a dirty diaper? January, for my niece. =)

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How do you rate Pink Floyd's the Wall? Personally I am not a fan of most of Pink Floyd's music however there is no question it is a legendary, classic album. I would rate it highly based on what it means to people and the fact it is a standout album.

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If your job allowed you to live in either New York or D.C., which would you pick and why? I'm assuming you mean NYC not just the state of New York. I would choose NYC because it is so 'alive'! (lol, I just saw someone else used the same term) DC is great but I would argue there is as much history in Big Apple and an incredible cultural diversity. There are so many opportunities for entertainment, learning, shopping, etc, etc. In actuality I would probably...

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To those who advocate organized prayer is school: Would your opinion change if you discovered the teacher was a practicing Hindu, and was leading the class in a the only prayer she with which she was familiar? I do not advocate organized prayer in school however I do believe there should be a few minutes at some point during the day which a silent time for prayer or reflection should be given. This will give them the option to have a moment with God or Allah or Self or whatever they need to strengthen their core beliefs. Then it would not matter what the teacher believes as it will be a personal...

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Are there very many people that can drive a stick shift car anymore? I can drive stick however choose not to because I have 2 younger kids and want 1 less thing to think about while driving. My sister's car is manual, the hubby wants a manual, my dad prefers manual. The first car I drove was a manual transmission - the only problem is when we came Stateside the driver's seat was on the opposite side from what I learned. =0

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Why do people set a defined age for when you can and cannot have true love?(will comment to clarify if needed). It is a truth the younger you are the less your thoughts on the world have solidified. That doesn't mean you can't carry the same beliefs from childhood into adulthood and I think this includes 'true love'. A person changes throughout their lifetime, and if a couple continue to grow together it doesn't matter at what age they meet and decide they are in love. So, I...

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What salutation do you use to start a letter to God? Dear God, Sorry to disturb you, But I feel that I should be heard loud and clear. We all need a big reduction in amount of tears, And all the people that you made in your image, See them fighting in the street, cause they cant make opinions meet, About God. -XTC

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If you could go back in time and choose to have more or less siblings, and pick their gender and ages, what would you do? I have one sister, 5 years younger. I would pick the same, she is my best friend.

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Why did you get married? I was (I thought) ready to settled down and he is a good guy, intelligent, funny and handsome, just like my dad! (lol) I told him within 3 months of dating I was going to marry him.

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Do you sometimes wonder, like I do, if you get points for good questions or if people just plain dig ya? Well, I dig ya but I still won't give you points for a whacked question (one with no redeeming values). That may not be how others do it, but for me that holds true for other people, too. Even if it was about Bacon, my favorite food group. ;D

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Is there something about the whole, human population that we can not escape? Free will, the ability to make a choice. The choices differ depending on citizenship, race, gender, economic standing, etc, but you will always have choices. Even if that choice is only to live or to die.

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What is your favorite shade of green? I like all the shades of green, from the pale sage in my kitchen to the olive just waiting to go up in my bedroom. I even like spring green and primary green, though in smaller doses.

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With halloween coming up do you plan to crave a pumpkin? Do you use a kit or freestyle it? Freestyle but I usually get ideas from magazines. The best part is roasting the seeds afterward. :)

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What's hurting you right now? Inability to forgive and forget, to let things go which I have decided to accept.

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Out of you and all the people you know, which person has the worst temper? I'm a Rat, too (like Kevisaurus) and I have a very bad temper. Thank goodness I don't lose it that often!

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Has anybody ever thrown a surprise party for you? What was the occasion? No. I have thrown one, it was for my friend's birthday. The best part was hanging outside her apartment waiting for her to get out the shower and listening to her sing 'Happy Birthday to me, too bad everyone forgot' with everyone there!

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...How much for a quick one in the park? I think the hot dog vendors sell them for $4. ..but I believe George Michaels paid $20 for his hot dog in the park? At least he got a picture out of the deal.

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What branch of service, were or are you? Did you retire or been discharged? None, but the hubby was in the AF and I'm an AF lifer brat.

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Do you think I'd make a good mom? From what I have seen, yes. You are energetic, creative, inquisitive and FUN! Plus you have a very caring side and can stand your ground. :D

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When sunbathing, Do you do it the old fashion way and lay out under the sun or use a tanning bed, or perhaps both? I've used a tanning bed twice in my life. I used to hang out in the sun but now just get it when gardening. I'm sure my neighbors 'appreciate' me gardening in a bikini top and shorts. I wonder why they got thicker curtains? o.O

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Is there anyone you would not rescue from a burning building? No, I find it very hard not to act especially if there might be others I don't realize are in there. Afterward if I found out it was certain people I would have to slip something in their IV. Ah-ha-ah!! (evil cackle)

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What fun things can you do with a pizza Hot Pocket to give it some spunk? Pour extra marinara sauce and hot sauce over it. Sprinkle herbed parm cheese. Dip it in vodka. ;>

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We want something, we get it, we get easily tire of it and want something else. Why don't we understand that material things don't satisfy us? That is one unfortunate by-product of capitalism from being bombarded with advertisements. If you are female take a look at this book: http://www.amazon.com/Deadly-Persuasion-Women-Addictive-Advertising/dp/0684865998 Men would get much out of it also however it is specifically targeted for women. I am very guilty of buying into the scenarios of new products, IE "get this new gizmo...

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Can anyone think of any beautiful love song for a wedding? Our Love Is Here To Stay (Frank Sinatra/Nat King Cole/my fave-Harry Connick, Jr.) It's Your Love (Tim McGraw and Faith Hill) Grow Old with Me (John Lennon) Always and Forever (Heatwave) I totally second Here and Now (Vandross) and Forever and Ever Amen (Travis) If you want something a little different: Ain't that a kick in the head (Dean Martin) =)

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Ladies, How do you feel when someone calls you “Ma’am”? I live in the South, it's a common occurrence for women and girls of all ages to be addressed as ma'am. It shows respect and good manners.

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Do you use red or black pepper or none at all on your food? More black pepper than red but I love to use them both.

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Do any AB'ers here understand why people commit suicide without actually calling people that do this cowards? I understand. Right or wrong there are many reasons why people would choose this option, from medical/chemical imbalances to feeling trapped and hopeless. Sometimes people think they are helping their loved ones because of medical reasons (cancer, Alzheimer's, etc.). There are as many reasons as there are people who attempt this course of action.

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Is your tongue the only muscle in your body that works harder than your heart? My heart has been put through a lot, I would say that has been working the hardest. My tongue definitely doesn't get enough of a workout. ;)

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Do you color your hair to hide the gray? No, I've had grey hairs since I was 16 so am very accepting of them. I still only have some streaks but they blend with the highlights, with no particular effort made to hide the grey. =)

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Ever gone a day without eating anything? Yes, usually from stress or illness. I will occasionally do a day or two on just liquids to help cleanse the body.

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Would songs sound very different if there was no bass guitar? Absolutely. Every song is a sum of it's parts.

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Do you think that pay should be based off experiance or education? Pay should be based off experience more than education. Sure, someone who's taken the classes may have a better overall view however depending on the job only certain aspects are usually used. Anyone who has worked the job is going to know the ins and outs along with the practical application, which is often of more use than theory. Example: Who would you rather have make your wedding...

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Would you pay more for a car to protect a GM worker's job? I wouldn't deliberately pay more for a car too protect a job, the end price would be part of the normal deliberations. Of course, out of the last 7 cars I bought 4 were Nissans and only 1 was a GM make. I should probably have a different answer since 3/4 of the company I work for depends with GM and my boss's husband works directly for them. However, as a consumer, I would not...

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Do you have a funny picture that you found on the internet that you'd like to share? My latest fave, Ahhhh!

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What does your inner child want to do right now? Go play in the dirt. My plants need a little TLC and it's gorgeous out. :)

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Do you believe in the saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater"? No, I don't. Unfortunately that does mean they would be more likely to in the future but depending on circumstance and the reasons the cheater want to change it could be successful. The ways to build trust depend on the person and circumstances. The main thing is to keep communication open and the person who cheated is very aware of how their actions appear to their partner. They...

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What kind of day do you think you're gonna have today? A busy, yet relaxed, productive day... as soon as I get off AB. ;)

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Have you ever tasted your pet's food? Sure, we make Salmon Goodies and liver treats for the dogs. Soy flour, real cheddar cheese, cream cheese, etc. :)

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Has your home ever been broken into? if yes did the police ever catch who did the crime? Me, luckily no. My co-worker's house has been broken into three times, the first time one of their guns was used in a shooting so that's how they found the burglers. The dumb-a--s still had pawn tickets and some of the items in their car from the string of houses they broke into. The second and third time my co-worker and her family tracked down the thieves! One time it was...

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What do you dip your fries in? Ketchup and black pepper, usually. Honey! Especially thick waffle fries, YUM! I really like chili cheese fries, also. Gaaaah, I'm hungry now!

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What is your definition of 'torture'? What my husband is doing to me right now. o.O

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I finally earned my AB cup. Who would like to congratulate me? Congrats Ryder!

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I've got a lot of work to do tonight, and I am not looking forward to it :( Please tell me a joke or something funny to cheer me up And another fave. Who's The Daddy? (Supposedly) The following are all replies that Oklahoma women have written on Child Support Agency forms in the section for listing "father's details". Or putting it another way...Who's yo Daddy? 1. Regarding the identity of the father of my twins, child A was fathered by Jim Munson. I am unsure as to the identity of the...

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I've got a lot of work to do tonight, and I am not looking forward to it :( Please tell me a joke or something funny to cheer me up I'll revive a couple favorites :-) Something for the ladies: Five tips for a woman.... 1. It is important that a man helps you around the house and has a job. 2. It is important that a man makes you laugh. 3. It is important to find a man you can count on and doesn't lie to You. 4. It is important that a man loves you and spoils you. 5. It is important that these four men...

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My girlfriend has "suicidal" symptoms. She's cut her wrist in the past, some at the correct angle for suicide. Recently after a conversation about our rocky relationship, she frantically took 6 pills. The relationship wont last, but any advice for now? I don't think suicidal needs to be in quotation marks, the pills pretty much qualify as suicidal even if she didn't really 'mean' it. There are many reasons she would do this. You do need to tell her she needs to get some help. Don't ask her, TELL her to get help, asking is starting an interaction with you which it sounds like is partially her motivation. ...

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My guy and i have been together for over 2 years. The first few months were rough. He cheated on me twice. I am trying my best to forgive, but I still haven't completely done so. Please don't reply with "leave him". I made my mind up to stay, I just Are you fully at peace with why he cheated on you? With what that means and did to you and your feelings toward him? Many times an affair will erode your self confidence, look at what it will take to get that back. Who knows, when feel really good about yourself you may decide this isn't the right relationship for you. Do you still not have ANY trust for him? You may not ever...

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What's something you haven't eaten in a while? My mom's cooking. :(

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Have you ever went and placed a bet on the horse or dog races? Did you win? OTB, baby! Yes, actually, most of the time I did win. For knowing very little about horses, I sure could handicap a race in 2 minutes flat. The trick was only take x amount of money, if I lost it all, that was it for the day. :)

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Does anyone have any cool pictures, either ones that you found online, or you took yourself?(See my answer for an example) Here are a few I will share with you, from my gardens: The first is 'Amy, striped' Azalea Then 'Double Delight' Rose 'Eenie Allegro' Daylily 'Tropicana' Glads 'Intrigue' Rose GA peach tree blossom 'H.J. Young' Clematis 'Sweet Iris' Varigated (one of the few scented iris) 'Lafter' Rose, the one that brings...

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Have you ever made a rushed choice that latter regretted? Goodness yes. That's when I make my worst choices with the biggest bad consequences.

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What food or beverage do you want right now? A local restaurant serves Kahlua chocolate flan with fruit... yummmm.

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What is the most beautiful thing in nature? The most beautiful thing is the cycles in nature: birth to death, the seasons, the water cycle (rain to bodies of water to evaporation/clouds), the volcanoes and birth of land mass to the mountains slowly crumbling, even waves are actually circular rotating masses of water. Rainbows are circles (haha on the pot at the end of them), rings of growth on a tree, all circles and cycles without end.

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Full breakfast or just toast and coffee? Ditto Cynstriss: http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1423524 Usually just coffee and maybe a piece of fruit, unless it is the weekend, which I usually try to cook at least one big breakfast with leftovers the other day. I also love breakfast for dinner every once in a while!

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My partners ex-wife is refusing to divorce him even though we have been together for more than 23 years. Can she do this? They have no dependents and we have one who is 12 years old. It depends on the state he and/or she resides. In our state there is 'no-fault' divorce and one of the reasons is 'due to irreconcilable differences'. If one party refuses to get a divorce that's a pretty big difference... so the petition would be granted. Of course in my state fault is also available and your partner's wife would be able to file fault under...

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What was the first question you ever answered on this site? It seems so long ago... it was a suicide question.

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Do you like hot weather? Love it, I actually went to Key West at the end of August once! Talk about hot. I haaaate to be cold. :( Although I do like to be warmed up. ;P

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Are there any circumstances in which you would revoke your citizenship? None that I could think of at this time. I am a US citizen. =)

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Do you believe in hope? I believe 'hope springs eternal': Hope springs eternal in the human breast; Man never Is, but always To be blest: The soul, uneasy and confin'd from home, Rests and expatiates in a life to come. -Alexander Pope, An Essay on Man, Epistle I, 1733 Hopes and aspirations help give me the energy and drive to reach my goals.

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When was the last time you said i love you and really felt it? Last night to the boys. :)

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Are there detailed instructions online to help me make a photo website I am putting together reject right clicks? Don't want people saving my images and stealing my photos. Have tried a utility but it confused me to no end. Yes, there are many out there. Here are some examples to insert into your code: http://www.brownielocks.com/stopcopying.html I haven't seen any that are 100% because of the all the different browsers and versions of each out there but at least you can make it more difficult. Of course using a 'copyright' mark also helps, especially if it's one of those flashing ones.

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Eat out, take out or cook? I used to love to cook but now I prefer to eat out.

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Do you believe that negative thinking is an unproductive habit that may be directed by a different personal awareness? If so, what types of techniques and/or methods have you employed to 're-script' these? I literally re-think them, halting in mid-stream or following it by a positive thought. IE: "Can't he leave this alone, I'm taking care of this project!" Followed by "It's good to know he cares enough about the customer to go over every detail." Usually right between the two thoughts is what makes the most sense but banning the wholly negative thought...

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What do you want for your birthday??? I would like an uninhibited, no strings or conditions tied to it 'I love you'.

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Whenever I see a Buick on the road it's an indication that the driver is over 50 and may have questionable driving skills. Do you profile other drivers like I do? Yes. Red convertible sportscar = speed demon Minivan = mama-mobile Aveo = cheap -wait- NO!! I mean eco conscience! Van with extra-dark tinted windows = kidnapper. Etc, etc, I guess I'm just a marketer's dream! hehe.

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Got fried chicken from a restaurant to go, the wings still had feathers on two wings sticking out of the coating, what is the strangest food related experience you had lately? I wish that was the strangest thing I've had happen to me! I once went with a friend who said they had fabulous eel at this restaurant. I thought, 'sure, I have eel roll at sushi places, I'll try it.' They neglected to tell me the restaurant brought it out live and cooked it all in front of us... oh, yum?

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If you are invited to a "dinner" and you get to the restaurant and everything is "a la carte" and the prices are crazy and people will be drinking like fishes and then will "split the check at the table", what is a graceful way of bowing out? If you have a friend or partner with you tell the group something came up that you need to speak with the other person about and you need to be seated separately. At that point it would only make sense you have a different check.

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Which of the following is true for your Family Dynamic...running smoothly, needs a tuneup, needs a complete overhaul? Needs a complete overhaul. We are in current negotiations for parts and are trying to use OEM. The shop tried to sneak in some after-market parts but there was a forcible ejection and friction when they tried to lube and mount...

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Have you ever been in a plane? Many times. My favorite trip was one we had a couple hour layover in Alaska, it was beautiful and peaceful. =)

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My spouse can never decide what to order at a restaurant. Lately, I pick something I know he will like and suggest it. He orders it and is happy. Do you have a problem making decisions when offered too many choices? At times, especially when I'm hungry. If I can't decide down to 2 or 3 items I usually just ask the waiter for a suggestion, especially if I haven't been to that restaurant before.

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Who wants to join me in a big Thank You to the women of the world for being so sweet, smiley, nice-smelling, smooth, huggable, and schmoochable? Yay, women!!! Thank you all, especially those contributing to the 'nice-smelling'! lol.

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If you had to decide what to eat for the rest of your life and you could only decide between fish or meat which would you chose? Meat. Although I enjoy sushi immensely and a nicely prepared salmon steak, I crave a good steak and mushrooms.

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Aren't teapots the coolest thing ever? Would you like to order one free from me? If so what colour would you like? I collect teapots. I'd like a nice smoky plum colored one =D. lol.

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Do you hold hands with your best friend or do you think it would be weird? I am more likely to hook arms with them but yes, I would and have held their hand. =)

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UPS, DHL, or FEDEX? It looks like UPS is still standing:

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Do you think that you have it all figured in? No. There's always something I leave out! ;)

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Do you think it's wrong to have kids and not ever want to get married? No. I think anyone who can provide a stable home with family/friend support should have children if they want them. There are many reasons people do not want to get married, and with how high the divorce rate is getting married shouldn't be a prerequisite. Love and quality of care is.

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Have you ever thought that the common name of a creature or a fruit or else a flower does justice to it? and would you like to call any of these with any other names? Double delight, named for it's beauty and fragrance. It is one of those roses that changes color with sunlight, from the cream to the flush of deep pink:

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Is there a song that holds a special place in your heart because it was the first song you remember hearing and loving? Mine is Rain Drops Keep Falling On My Head. I feel 4 years old every time I hear it. Thanks for sticking that song in my head! Pretty much anything from the Eagles brings me back to my childhood.

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Who is the worse comedian you have ever heard? Carrot Top is high up on that list for me. He is actually from the area in Florida we moved from, I don't think I ran into anyone who liked him.

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I really can't stand Katie Couric - to the point where I leap for the remote every time I see her face. Who makes you leap for the remote? Hillary Clinton. Since I TiVo just about everything I watch I get a good feeling from 'click, click, click' (fast forward) =)

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Do you fear that some sort of creature lives under your bed, just waiting to grab your foot as you are about to climb into bed? Not as I'm about to climb into bed but I don't like the 'naked' feeling of leaving my foot hanging over the side. That's whether the lights are on or off!

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I read that 63% of Americans have worked either part time or full time for McDonalds. Are you or have you ever been an employee? Not Micky D's but I did work for BK for several years, from part time to manager. No, I didn't have zits at the time ;)

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Do you sleep good or do you take meds? I have some backup meds but end up taking a full day or two to recover so I usually deal with my lack of sleep. The last ones I had were Sonata which are more of a sedative anyway.

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How often are the questions that you ask are based on stuff thats happened to you? All are from actual happenings or articles I've read or conversations I've had. I don't sit here and think of random questions to ask...which is evidenced by the whole 15 questions I've asked. :D

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What is your favorite movie you watched when you were little? Xanadu is the first one I can remember watching over and over. If you count young teens then Labyrinth. =)

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What is more important to you; your education or your health? My health. I've known many wise people who can do very well for themselves without an education.

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What's more important to you: the person you love, or your career? The person I love. I've been with him through 3 careers...

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How would you describe your driving? "Elaine" Any Seinfeld fans? Season 7 "The Wait Out" Bahaha.

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Back in the 70's I had a pair of jeans(bull-denims)with button up front(6 of them) and I used to have to lay on the bed and suck my belly in to get them done up ...anyone else remember having to do this? 'Remember having to do this'? Sure, my memory does go back to Friday, lol. Much fewer buttons than back in the day due to low rise... but back then I was a twig, not a spare centimeter so didn't have to use gravity to help. Still did the good ole jean loosening squat!

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Did you ever have a tree house or knew someone who did? No, palm trees aren't very conducive to tree houses. :)

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Long winter nights or sultry summer nights? Which is more romantic to you and why? Sultry summer nights. If I could have 3 weeks of cold and snow then the rest be summer, spring or fall I would be happy. I hate trying to live in cold weather! Shoveling, melting snow, freezing your fingertips, thick coats... argh. Summer nights let you enjoy the outdoors and have an extended evening. Flowers, trees and bushes would be blooming to add their fragrance... wonderful!

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Who has hurt you the most? What did they do? Cheated and lied continuously. Withheld love. He knows who he is.

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What makes your blood boil with anger? Injustice, irrational hatred. I just watched something which involved white supremacists. I understand they are doing what they think is 'right' but I completely can't rationalize or empathize with what would make someone so hate-filled. This would go for any type of group or person who behaves in this manner. Examples include right to lifers who feel like they need to...

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Is love supposed to be easy and require little maintenance, or difficult and require constant maintenance? Love goes through periods of each however I would hope for most people the majority of time it would be the former.

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What is the best wine you have ever had? San Sebastian Vintner's Red is my absolute favorite table red. It's lightly sweet and tastes good chilled or mulled. San Sebastian winery is in St. Augustine, FL: http://www.sansebastianwinery.com/cart/display.php?pid=11212&detail=true&hits_seen= I just wish they delivered to the state we moved to. :(

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Have you ever said I'm sorry when you're not.? I have but I try not to. If I don't really feel sorry for my actions I usually tell someone, 'I'm sorry you feel that way.' It's exceedingly rare I enjoy to see someone hurting. I guess seeing Paris cry crocodile tears isn't really someone hurting though, is it?

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Is your life on the right track now? There are many tracks diverging currently but I believe I have chosen the correct exchanges... just one flip of a switch can derail me at this time though. *sigh*

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Is it possible to get a nipple hickey? Yes, it is just more difficult to see because of the pigmentation.

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Have you ever used nunchaku's? And if so, have you ever hurt yourself with them? Yes I've tried them but always practice ones so never hurt myself. I like to try out some of the kid's karate equipment.. don't ask about the kamas!

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Do you enjoy riding horses? how often do you ride? I've tried it. The last time was when I went to camp when I was 10. I proudly told them I had ridden before (I didn't add it was the pony at the carnival!) and they put me on the biggest horse they had...my poor parents were horrified when they found out what happened. I had fun though, lol. It's a shame I don't go again, there's a horse farm which gives lessons...

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Do you like playing darts? are you any good at it, or do you poke a lot of holes in the wall around the board? I really like to play darts, I used to do very well. Or at least I thought I did until on our first 'non-date' the right-handed hubby beat me with his left hand! I don't poke too many holes in the wall, unless it's later in night and 'L's got her beer goggles on'.

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Blank Savage not only has a brain ...he just leveled up to Brain! Can he have a shout out from those who want to congratulate him? Thanks:) Congrats Blank Savage! =)

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Have you ever been so hurt by somebody so badly that you wince when you meet somebody else with the same name? Yes. There were a couple baby names we didn't dream of using because of the negative connotations.

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What would happen if make-up was banned? There would be a sudden interesting in fire-making (soot for the eyes), cheek pinching, pestle and mortar for grinding rice... etc. etc.

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Have you ever been slightly overweight or slightly under weight....say about ten pounds. If so, which bothered you more? Overweight because it's uncomfortable. If you become slightly underweight you can always cinch in a belt. It's been awhile since I've been slightly underweight.. probably since college!

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When you get mad are you a destroyer? Usually not... but with recent happenings at my house I'm down 2 phones. And I don't know how that hole in the wall got there, oh, there's the missing battery! :(

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I am having a REALLY bad day...is anyone else in the same boat? Awww, sorry to hear about your day. I had a good one. We had a company gathering. You have to love it when it's over and the company VP brings in a 12 pack and says, "Who wants a beer?"

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Who would win in a fight with Hillary and Monica? Hillary. She's one cold-hearted broad.

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At this moment can you reach out and touch the one you love? That's assuming there's only one I love. I can reach out and touch my doggie, who's been with me 14 years. I love the bitch dearly.

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Do you want it all ? or you are happy with what you have.? Yes, I want it all, but I am happy with what I have. =)

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How much money do u spend on gas a week? About $45. Roughly one tank a week.

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Have you ever sayed you loved someone and didnt mean it? Not that I can remember. I had my friend say 'I love you' then 'Ooops, I was just talking to my parents, sorry about that.' Ouch. I told her that was OK, I still loved her as a friend. =)

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Have you ever bitten someone? It's more of a nibble... ;)

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Are you a self-proclaimed wierdo? (I am) If so, What off-beat things do you do?..Yes, I will give you....3 POINTS!! There are some very weird mannerisms I have. I like to play Age of Mythology with my children. I repeatedly words switch around. I make lame jokes when I'm very stressed. I guess I'm stressed all the time. ;) Gimme my 3 points!! I gave you yours, lol.

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Do you go for a can't take anything seriously but very funny guy or a serious i'm not ever going to laugh guy? I seem to have married a can't take anything seriously guy... although there are certain issues he takes very seriously. Then we watch The Colbert Report and all's right with the world. ;D

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'A Rose by any other name" - how about 'Babycakes by any other name"? - Do I hear a cheer? : ) CHEER! Although I don't know how she smells... What IS your perfume beautifulpastry?

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Have you ever fallen on your face? Did anyone witness it? Yes, the last time I was walking down a fairly steep hill... now picture this, I was in a polka dotted dress with about 3 1/2" heels, completely spiffied up... I start walking down this hill then suddenly completely dropped from view. My friend was catching up to me and still laughing as she made sure I was all right. I was still lieing down out of view, lol.

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Have you ever flashed someone? Yes, most times unintentionally. Don't ask me about the night my pantyhose ripped... *red face*

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Has being a member of AB made you more aware and concerned about events in other parts of the world, where your AB friends live? I always find it interesting to see an international viewpoint. A few times it has made me look up an area on a map (my geography rots) and other times it just stops me in my tracks to take in the viewpoint, sometimes to research it. Of course, the folks in the US do that for me, too. :)

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Have you ever had a week like mine?Ok I'll just mention the highlights: my professor let me know, in front of the class, that I had done my assignment wrong, the day before that a car hit my car, and my dad is in the er with a possible heart attack (sigh) I was wondering where you'd been! Ugh, another week is coming up so a chance to have some wonderful things happen. Best wishes for a speedy recovery to your dad.

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Do a lot of men fear feminism? If so, why? I don't think a lot of men fear feminism. Sometimes men feel uncomfortable on the boundries being changed. How many guys were raised with such values as 'Don't hit girls' 'Ladies first' 'Open doors for women' etc, etc. Quite frankly, I think some women fear feminism also. Many people fear change. Men do fear a militant feminist. After...

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As a professional Artist, I am always interested and fascinated about other people's perception of color. So, in your view, what two colors should never 'go together?' None. There's always shades of each color that can go together. The other part is, even if they don't harmoniously pair that could be the effect you are trying to create thereby making it a good match up.

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Are you REALLY comfortable with 'exposing' your views and life on AnswerBag? If so, why? If not, why? Yes, overall. There is a lot of anonymity plus I first came on here for some help and hope I am performing the same service to others. Other times I hope to have some fun and spread the joy, odd though my humor is and sometimes a little raunchy. Either way I can't help but show the facets of me.

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Generally, do you enjoy being human? Sure beats being the bacteria in my children's shoes. Eww!

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Do you feel like you need to do something to improve your life ? if so why don't you? Yes. I'm actually working on the biggest item (my marriage) which I should have done long ago..

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Have you ever denied that you need someone? if so why? Yes, a habit which has been hard for me to break. Growing up I denied I needed anyone, because I'm stupidly stubborn that way. Sometimes I feel like I'm 'emotionally challenged'. Sometimes it's ok to need somebody, to need everyone you love around you. And so I keep telling myself.

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Do you sometimes hold up something in your bathroom like a microphone and sing along with the music while looking at yourself in the bathroom mirror? Lol, no. I just belt it out in the car. How soundproof are cars anyway? o.O

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Hubby lies,goes to stripbars,puts strippers #s in his phone,takes off for hours or overnight without calling or answering his cell,he's unreliable,just got DUI and is 5mo behind on mortgage.He's done this off&on for 15yrs We I feel for you, Anon. Don't feel powerless, find out what you can do. There's shelters and organizations to help women who feel trapped in a marriage because of the situation you describe. What you are describing makes me think he is putting your health at risk, not to mention not providing a stable home for your family. Let me ask you this: Do you want your children to...

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Is thinking too much bad? [especially when in relationship 'situations' ? ] Yes. It can bring in a third entity into the couple: The Relationship. Sometimes it's bigger than the actual interaction and feelings which flow between the people in the relationship!

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When is the happiest you've ever been? I have many happy moments but the one moment I felt like everything was right in the world was when they laid my first baby boy across my stomach after birth. If I feel that way on my deathbed I would die a very content person. I wish I could say I had the same experience with my second boy but I was hallucinating from the pain meds. :-/

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Wherever you are in your life, is it where you want to be..or are there miles to go to achieve your goal? There are leagues and leagues to go for me to be in a happy spot. Eventually when I achieve my goal I'll be on to the next, life is about challenges.

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Why are humans so obsessed with the idea of romantic love? One item: arranged marriages. I don't think all cultures are obsessed with the idea of romantic love. For those that are, how many times have we heard 'Love conquers all'? 'Love is a many splendored thing'? The idea of romantic love has been so idealized and commercialized (St. Valentines Day) I don't think many people know what love entails anymore. We all...

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Would you ever date someone covered in tattoos? Yes, if were I on the dating scene. I know you don't judge a book by it's cover but the tatts would give clues on that person's interests and personality.

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What(or who) is your biggest strength? Tenacity. Every once in a while I need to know when to let things go...

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"Whoa. TMI!" When was the last time you used the phrase, "Too Much Info"? And describe the situation (if you dare). Someone was telling me about a rash they had on a certain part of their body... which was borderline until they said, 'Here let me show you'. I was not interested in seeing her stuff! Especially rashed!! o.O

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Would you rather talk to a live telephone operator or use an automated system for customer service? For most items an automated system. I hate it when you have to go through more than one menu to reach a live person, though. Sometimes there is no substitute. Or when the automated system is set up to go through more than 2 menus to get what you need. Insanity. That's why I prefer to use the internet overall. =)

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Who was the last person to make you mad? The hubby. I got over it..

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When was the last time you woke up on the floor? The last time I recall was when I fell asleep in front of the fireplace. Ahhh, toasty!

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Have you ever faked being sick? Yes I have. Not that often, especially at my current job, but some days I just could not bear to go into work. Then I would feel guilty and go in later that afternoon, anyway. :S

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Do you find it comfortable to sleep in the nude? No, I rarely do because I know that's when there will be a fire or home invasion. Sounds paranoid, I know... lol.

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Whats something you wish you had but can't have it? A pure soul.

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I know a person who is sixteen, and wants to get married is this right? It's a very difficult relationship to make work however I know somebody who got married at 16 and has been happily married for 28 years. Yes, they have had rough patches but overall it has worked for them. No, it wasn't a shotgun wedding. It depends on how mature they are, how they grow together and the reasons why they want to get hitched. At that age many people are...

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Do you honestly believe songs that include sex/drugs/violence in them influence their listeners to partake in these activities? (sex only applies to those who would be under the age of conset legally) Or is this all a bunch of bull? Mostly bull. I say 'mostly' because it can color the world of a person. For those easily influenced who only listen to this type of music (in whatever format) they could be influenced *if they were already interested.* Most people I know listen to different types of music, able to see different viewpoints and connect with whatever feeling the music is evoking. Many people like...

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What do you think of this billboard/slogan and what it means to current day society? Their slogan: Life's short. Get a divorce. (see picture in answer section) From what I can find this is a real deal, or an extremely elaborate hoax! By the way, this is for a law firm, it appears to be located in Chicago. I can't believe my eyes.. :

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Have you engaged in sexual activities while driving in your car (or with the driver of a car you were in)? Did anyone else on the road see? Yes. I don't think people noticed even the daytime episodes.

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If you were offered $50,000 to appear in an underwear ad, this very minute, would you do it? Yes. There would be lots of airbrushing involved, but I'd do it. ;>

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Will you try anything once? Is there anything that you will NEVER give a chance? I'll try just about anything once. However I don't think I'll try eating live monkey brains for example. =O

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Have you ever been attracted to someone's attraction? Ahh, interesting way of putting it. Yes, I have been attracted to the attentions of someone who sees me with starry eyes. That was my younger days, no starry eyes in any recent times.

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What do you drink the most? Coffee. Then it's usually Diet Dew and water. Yes, I am very glad our bathroom is close to my desk.. :P

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Have you ever heard a song that you related to so much, you get emotional when you hear it? There is always songs that speaks to me in whatever the current life situation. If it's a bad situation unfortunately I think about it every time I hear it again. Most recently it's 'Angry all the time'.

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How many pictures do you carry with you? The picture on my driver's license, that's it. On my phone, just basically the 'myfaves' pictures.

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My best looking features are my feet and earlobes, you? These days it's my hair. =]

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Are you a 'cuddler' in bed? Absolutely! I like the sensation of touch, I cuddle with the kids on the couch when we're watching a movie, too. :)

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Do you buy running shoes based on quality or price? Neither. I don't buy running shoes... but I usually choose my shoes based on trusted name brands (I guess that would be quality) then price. =)

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What color house do you live in? The outside is a tan/grey brick mix with deep blue shutters and front door. The inside... I don't think any walls are purple or black but all other colors are covered. =D

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Ladies what is wrong with us? see my answer to see my point. I can appreciate Pict 1, it takes work and dedication to look aesthetically pleasing. But pining and drooling? Never. I've also never dated anyone that looks like Pict 2, I think my man is handsome. Who knows, if I met the guy in pict 2, maybe I'd think he looked nice, most people usually have at least 1 nice/pleasing feature. :)

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Do you own any band t–shirts? Yes, The Dead Milkmen, Jane's Addiction and Rush. It's been a while since I've actually been to a concert.

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Are you currently wanting any piercings or tattoos? Yes, I want a dragon tattooed across my lower back.

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Who would like to join me in saying well done to OceansEasyRiderAddiction for reaching the elevated status of Brain level? Well done Oceans! Congrats Oceans! I enjoy your posts.

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I just found out I'm an expert on the suicide category don't you think that is just sad? Maybe a little sad anyone has to be an expert in that category but personally I'm glad. {{hugs}}

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Whats your favorite nonalcoholic drink? Water, straight up! Southern sweet tea with lemon is a close second. :)

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Want to congratulate me? I'm getting married next Friday, just found out LOL. CONGRATULATIONS cj! Don't forget about us... too much. :D

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Have you ever had to hide anything from your partner? and if so what was it. eg something you bought that was really expensive 'Had to' no... 'chose to' yes. Unfortunately it was a credit card bill, not a good idea. :(

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Advice needed plz. as anyone here stayed in a relationship after an affair and did it all turn out ok in the end. No, it hasn't. I have seen it work, if both parties are honest and a counselor is involved. It took many years and much commitment. Most times, though, it doesn't turn out ok in the end. Sometimes it ends up worse when it's over because there is additional hurt and bitterness so search your hearts honestly.

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Do you think being a model is hard work? It's extremely hard work. Photo shoots and commercials are draining because you sit around getting primped forever then waiting for everyone else, then you have to be 'on' whenever the photographer is ready. It's the same with runway shows, except you have the additional stress of performing perfectly with all eyes on you. You know the joke where people are laughing...

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What is the worst contextual usage of the word "fiddling"? Please write a creative sentence or sentences. Example: The heart surgeon was fiddling with the man's insides. Killdrphil took his favorite out and started fiddling with it. (his favorite fiddle of course!) ;)

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Has a stranger ever bought you a drink at a bar? It's been awhile but yes. I always got the drink straight from the bartender or server, then usually had a short conversation with the buyer. Every once in a while it was a long conversation :)

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Do you think about the one your having sex with, or is someone else on your mind? I am all there with my lover. I may have flashes of an erotic image or a side thought to something else but I like to concentrate on the person I'm having sex with. Otherwise, I mind as well bust out a Mr. Rabbit and fresh batteries, what would be the point? Someone has something on their mind today ;)

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Whats the worst thing you can say to newlyweds? Do you want me to wash the G-string you left in my car last night or just give it right back? =0

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Who are you closer to...your mom or your dad & why? My dad, he's always been the rock in the parental relationship, in a good way. =)

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What's the most lame excuse you've ever heard? "It didn't mean anything." }:-[

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Do you watch T.V ?if so what kind of shows? We TiVo Grey's anatomy, Law and Order, The Daily Show and The Colbert Report. On the times I'm just switching channels it's usually TLC, HGTV and TNT during basketball season. :)

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Would you marry someone that you didn't really love if you were lonely and thought you'd never find someone better? No, I think I like myself better than to get married to ease loneliness. I am content with my own company and my family and friends.

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Do you ever feel sick with jealousy? Yes I have. :( Most times I was given reason and was proven right.

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If a man has worked for the same company for 10 years is that a sign that he'd be a good bf? I think it shows he's dependable and stable. Yes, it could show a dependable and stable person, or it could show someone who is stagnated with no ambition or drive. A lot of it has to do with the field and job, for example what if this 10 years was spent being the greeter at Wal-Mart? Not exactly the same picture as a CEO of a fortune 500 in the same circumstances. Of course, that still has nothing to do with being a good boyfriend. :)

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Will you do me a favor?... Will you call up someone you LOVE right now and tell them that you love them?... Please... pretty please... with a cherry on top? I would but it's 4:30AM right now.. I'll call my sis in the morning. Thanks for the suggestion! =)

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Do you believe that you can't love someone else if you don't love yourself? No, I believe you can love someone else even if you don't love yourself. It's extremely difficult to have a good relationship if that is the case. Often those are the ones you see self destruct because one person doesn't feel worthy of the other or even one person is contemptuous of the other because 'something must be wrong with them if they love me'. So, you...

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How do you keep a conversation going on the phone? I have such a hard time coming up with things to say! If you know you will be very nervous... make a list before you get on the phone. Wow that sounds geeky as I write it, but that is something I used to do when younger. I think I still mentally do it when I call my grandmother, the conversation doesn't flow as freely as with the rest of the family. I usually think about some recent events, movies I've seen, books/articles I've...

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Do you think that you can be too young to be depressed ? (i think its not a matter of age) Unfortunately not, there is no 'too young to be depressed'. Many times this can be caused by chemical imbalances, other times from the rootlessness of the modern day society. Most children need to know where they belong in the world and sometimes their parents are unable/unwilling to give them this security. Previously there was more family support to help create a sense of...

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If you were stranded on a desert island, and you had a choice to be stranded alone, or with your worst enemy, what would you choose? I really can't think of who my worst enemy is but regardless a hardship would bring any two people together. So I say enemy, most times 2 heads are better than one. And if the ho got in my face I could always whack her with a coconut. Muahmuahmuah!

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I miss my friends!! Do you miss yours? We have moved around so much I have friends all over the place. Yes, I miss those who were closest to me, some of whom I don't know where they are. :( *pity party invites have been issued, all are welcome* I have some wonderful new friends, too. :) Plus I can always distract myself on AB!

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While driving, do you clutch the steering wheel tightly or have a more relaxed grip? Are you supposed to grip the steering wheel? I'm usually using my knee while on my cell phone with my left hand and changing the radio with my right.... Was that you honking at me today?? ;) Unless I'm in a terrible rush I usually have a relaxed grip, generally in the 11 and 2 o'clock positions. I go white knuckled and back up out of the seat when I'm making...

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Which two AB'ers do you think might make a good couple? Midnighttoker and babycakes, two true souls. :)

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Can someone console me on my burrito not staying in burrito form while I was eating it, and now I have to use a fork, which defeats the whole purpose of the initial burrito? Aww, poor Fun. *grabs burrito while Fun is getting a fork and dashes away* Hehe, now you have NO BURRITO! ;>

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Oatmeal or Cream of Wheat? How about grits? Ok, ok, Oatmeal. The traditional kind with fried apples and brown sugar, I greatly prefer it over instant. =)

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Why should one NOT eat silica gel? Is it really poisonous or dangerous like the packets say? Since they are used to absorb moisture I would be afraid I'd dry up like a prude.. I mean prune. It looks like the real chemical chemical answers have been done. ;D

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Has 'being flirty' ever ruined one of your relationships? Ruined? No. Caused some friction, yes. I can't imagine why... Mild flirting is a form of compliment. :)

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Who wants to go skinnydipping? I would love to. Olly olly oxen free!

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Black or white? Which do you prefer? Black since it absorbs all the colors. =) That and 'I wear black on the outside 'cause black is how I feel on the inside'. (sometimes)

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How often do you text message people? Rarely, maybe once or twice a month. It takes me forever since I don't use it which in turn causes me to use it less which means I'll never learn... it's a vicious cycle I tell ya.

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What does your mother say when you tell her that you have a new bf/gf? Have you told your husband yet?

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Do you lick the lid from your yogurt pot before you throw it away? It's the first thing I do, like an appetizer!

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Can the foods you eat affect the way your body smells? (not talking about your breath here!) Absolutely, certain food smells will be excreted through your pores. Spices and garlic are a few people have mentioned but also things like eating bananas and drinking beer actually attract mosquitoes.

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How do I put off procrastinating to another day? That's some task you are putting before you. Let's think about what that would entail, but first let's grab a beer. Hmm, this one's not cold enough so let's put it in the freezer for about 10 minutes (darned cheap beer). OK, it's good now. Hmm, well for starters... let's put another beer in the freezer for when I'm finished with this one. All...

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Do you know people like this...they go out into the world and plant flowers constantly..but they never tend the garden..they never spend time watering, or getting rid of the weeds..and then they complain because their flowers always die..? Nice allegory. I love my gardens....but they haven't been tended well this year. I didn't even plant vegetables, not a single tomato plant. :( I'm not complaining, I know the 'root' source.

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I would listen to 2 people re: the upcoming presidential election.....my son & my "second' son..we are of like mind, they wouldn't lie , they are smarter than me. But I would make up my own mind.Would you vote for Obama just because Oprah likes him? I would if Stephen Colbert liked him. Kidding! No, I wouldn't vote for someone due to an endorsement. I'll listen to the view points of people I respect however ultimately it's all on me and my magic 8 ball. :P

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What do you think is needed in life in order to preserve the sanctity of marriage for as long as possible? What is needed to preserve the sanctity of marriage: Respect and a mutual admiration, that way you don't take each other for granted. Love to temper your thoughts and actions. Maturity in each partner to deal with life's ups and downs and grow as humans together. In the rest of the relationship you need to be able to compromise, consideration for each other, chemistry and...

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Have you ever paid for something using only pennies? Yes, the poor KFC by my apartment out of college received a lot of pennies for chicken legs. I actually was thankful to get a job at BK so I could eat on a regular basis!

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Do you enjoy man-made sounds or nature sounds more? I enjoy the sounds my man makes the most. Nature is a close second...

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Have you ever sold anything on ebay? Sure tons of stuff, it's fun! :) They are becoming more difficult to work with and are charging more to list stuff, though. I haven't done it in a couple of months.

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If a cashier gives you too much change back, do you tell them? If they were rude to you would you not return the money? It doesn't matter who it is, I always correct them just as I would if it were the other way. And yes, if I walk out and realize something wasn't rung up I walk back in and pay for it. Money's money, it's not worth my sense of integrity for $20.

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What dessert can put a smile on your face when you're having a bad day? Canollis or Italian cheesecake tarts from a certain bakery in NY. Thank goodness I don't live there right now because lately I'd probably have to hand in my paycheck. :(

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When it comes to relationships do you ever have days where you just don't get along? Seems like me and my bf have these days where I'm just all together kinda mean to him. Is this normal or is there something wrong with me? When you say you are 'mean' to him, what do you mean? What is the source of the anger? How often is this happening? These are the questions you need to ask yourself. Everyone has an off day or just feels restless. If you are happy with the answers you give yourself you are fine. If not, then address it now before it becomes a detrimental relationship habit.

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In terms of jewelery: what is the difference between "certified" and not certified. I've noticed that a certified 1/2 KT TW princess cut white gold engagement ring is about $1499 whereas the same ring, not certified, is about $999. So...what's "certified" Diamonds receive a certificate (or "cert") issued by a 3rd party laboratory grading the diamond's specifications. Sometimes, the certification number is actually laser inscribed in tiny letters on the diamond itself (not visible to the human eye). The most recognized laboratories which provide reports are: * G.I.A. - Gemological Institute Of America * A.G.S. -...

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Women: Do you prefer gold jewelry, silver jewelry, or those multi colored plastic/funky jewelry? I wear it all. My jewelry tastes are as eclectic as my wardrobe and music tastes. My most often worn items are a pair of white and yellow gold earrings, a giant green bloodstone and antique siver ring and a silver and gold with a blue bezel watch. I change it up regularly, though. :)

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How much do men like bigger breasts compared to smaller ones? I've heard some men say small breasts are cute, and it doesn't matter how big they are, but I've heard other men say that big breasts are "sooo hot" and they would prefer a woman with big boobs I think visually men like bigger breasts, however when they get into a relationship it doesn't matter as much. I have an 'average' C cup chest which most of the time is under wraps, but when I bring them out in a low cut top and a push up bra they get a lot of attention. It's just a matter of a big chest brings sex immediately to most men's minds.

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How much do men like bigger breasts compared to smaller ones? I've heard some men say small breasts are cute, and it doesn't matter how big they are, but I've heard other men say that big breasts are "sooo hot" and they would prefer a woman with big boobs I think visually men like bigger breasts, however when they get into a relationship it doesn't matter as much. I have an 'average' C cup chest which most of the time is under wraps, but when I bring them out in a low cut top and a push up bra they get a lot of attention. It's just a matter of a big chest brings sex immediately to most men's minds.

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I have a fly in my appartment and don't have a fly swatter. How do I kill him? Chopsticks?

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Do you get on better with members of the same sex or oppsite sex to yourself? When I was younger I got along with the opposite sex better. Now it's both equally for different reasons. For some reason men don't want to discuss childbirth with me. Not many women want to talk about riding. So different friends to talk with about the many sides of me. And another 2 sets of friends for the other 2 personalities inside me.. ;D

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Have you ever thought that we are not real?We just feel that we are real,but maybe we are just dreaming? I usually ponder that after a bottle of Kajmir.. But seriously, I had a moment when reading that. Oft times I wonder what 'reality' is and how the pulses in our brain translate into our thoughts and... I'm going to take a Goody powder now for the headache I just got. Man, next time I wait for help to mind expand!

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What was the last thing you sucked on? popsicle for me last night. I thought this was going to be one of Jay's questions, lol. I sucked down my coffee this morning :)

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When was the last time you told a friend you loved them? (and meant it like family love) It's been a week or two. Yvonne, te quiero. :)

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Do you think people talk about you behind your back? Sure, some of it because of concern or happiness for me, other times being pure gossips or judgmental. It reminds me of a saying: Small people talk about other people (what they look like, what they wear, what they did, what they said) Average people talk about events Wiser people talk about ideas.

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Do you find eternally cheerful, optimistic people who always look on the bright side, no matter how bad the situation, to be refreshing, or unbelievably irritating? Every once in a while I want to hide out on the dark side of the moon! Usually I appreciate the positive, optimistic person's view point but honestly, every once in a while I just don't want to hear it. Sometimes I want to feel not alone.

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How many times do you normally orgasm during one sex session? 0-3 so 'normally' would be 1-2. :) I can't even imagine any more than that, if there's a 3rd one it usually takes a long time...

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How many times a week do you have sex? Honestly how many? Are you one of the statitics? 3-4 times a month. If I had it my way it'd be 3-4 times a week. It's good for the health! :D I need a man who can keep up with me...

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Do you chat with any baggers on the phone? Were you nervous to do so at first? If you haven't would you? Who? No, I haven't chatted with any baggers. I would, and as relationships develop I am looking forward to it. :) I tend not to be nervous. I am who I am and although I'm not a chatterbox I'm usually pretty comfortable on the phone. Plus I can always blame the kids to get off if there isn't the same chemistry on the phone. Hehe.

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If you could choose anybody, who would you pick as your "sidekick"? Why? Sorry for answering one question twice but I wanted to put a more serious answer also. My sister is my best friend and will always be my 'sidekick' as I am hers. We have lived far apart from each other for 13 years and are still a driving force in each other's lives. <3

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If you could choose anybody, who would you pick as your "sidekick"? Why? KDP Sometimes I get caught up in the day-to-day hum drum parts of life. I like what I see of his basic philosophies of life and I think he'd keep me on my toes and always thinking. Humor, playfulness and a disregard for conventions are some of the qualities I like. Plus I'd have fun fighting off the rest of the fan club. ;D

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Women who "only" like tall, dark and handsome.. preference or prejudice? Preference. I'm 5'8" so that is why the tall, handsome is relative and I usually go for dark hair/eyes/skin. I have dated some blond-haired people. =)

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Is wearing fur immoral? I choose not to support the fur industry however I do wear sheepskin. Mmmmm, soft! Fur itself is not immoral, we have worn it as a necessity waaay back in the day. I don't agree with most of the current practices to produce them, especially as there are many alternatives.

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Do you shake what your mama gave ya? Every chance I get.

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A little black dress or a little red dress for a cocktail party? If it's for work, black. I work for a pretty conservative company. Red would be my preference for anything else, it's one of my favorite colors.

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Married people- How long did it take for you to realize that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with your spouse? Within 3 months I told him I wanted to marry him. It's been 13 years however I may have made a mistake..

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You are given a chance to meet either Bill Clinton or the Pope, which one would you choose and why? Clinton, he has interesting views and a lot of experience. Plus I have a nice Padron cigar waiting for a good use...

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What is your favorite Ron Howard movie? A Beautiful Mind. Incredible movie and I adore Jennifer Connelly. Russell Crowe's not bad either, hehe.

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When was the last time you flew on a plane? Where did you go? The last time I was on a plane it was several years ago to NY to visit family. The time before that it was back to Japan, where we were stationed. Whew, that was a flight! Had a layover in Alaska, that was pretty awesome.

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Can you sense the kind of personality from an ABer from the way that individual writes here on AB? What's your best guess from how an individual WRITES their answer and not just their opinion and viewpoint? Most times you have an idea of how clear a person is in their thoughts. Sometimes someone types on and on and you don't know when they're going to stop and you can just feel they have jumbled thoughts and it's running nonstop then they don't use punctuation and you just wonder how the heck they are still writing and then you just lose interest.... *whew!* jk. Sense of...

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Have you ever looked at the price of something you knew you couldn't afford, and been completely shocked at how expensive it really was? What was it & how much was it? Yes, I walked into a store in South Beach (Miami) and saw a beautiful designer scarf. I knew it was going to be expensive but it still shocked me to see the $988 price tag. I think I paid less for my first car!

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Do you have a personal picture you would like to share of the World Trade Center buildings/site either before or after 9/11? Would you comment about the photo? Here is a picture from October 2006. The ground zero area was both bigger and smaller than I expected.

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When writing a letter to someone who does not have email, do you still write it out or type it out? Longhand. I actually have real notecards and all. =)

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Have you ever had the Urge to speak up at someones wedding when the preacher says " Does anyone have any objections to this Wedding " ( why if yes )? Yes, because I'm ornery like that. I've always want to stand up and say, "Yes, I object there's no fried chicken on the menu" or something of the sort. What's wrong with me? lol

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What sound makes you cringe with agony? Currently, it's my breaks. Dang breaks, whine and squeal!!

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What is the oldest dated coin in your pocket? My robe doesn't have any pockets. If I had money stuffed in my undies it wouldn't be coins... ;>

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Do you ever look at your watch and immediately forget the time, so you look again? And it still doesn't register, so you look again? And then someone asks you what time it is, and you actually have to look at your watch for the fourth time in one minute? Tali, this is a wacked question and could only come from your mind. ;) It's crazy but I do indeed do this. We are not alone! =D

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Do you spend more time on AB when you are happy or when you are down? Both, I was in a foul mood this morning. Still out of sorts but doing better. :) There are some verry funny threads and especially commentaries going on around here!

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Have you ever met someone who was absolutely insane? What kind of experiences did you share? No one who was consistently insane, most of the folks I've met have had episodes or breaks. I went with my friend to an anger management course. Most of the stories were run of the mill loss of temper but a few were, 'Whoa, you completely lost it there for a few minutes.' One had stabbed her boyfriend. Yah, I was there for my friend, ya....you didn't see her? She...

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How far would you travel to meet somebody you have never met before except online? Maybe an hour? I don't think I ever have specifically gone to meet someone before. If I happened to be traveling close to them I have met up with 2 or 3 people just to say 'hi'. They have been good experiences. :)

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Why does, and how can, sadness cause a physical ache inside one's chest? The brain is a powerful thing! Just as people who medical science had given up can heal, sadness can cause certain muscles to tighten and ache including your heart. Shock and pain can completely interfere with your regular body functions - with sadness taking over to cause a literal heartache.

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If you were a movie which one would you be? I would be Apocalype Now. Take the short test and post your results. http://similarminds.com/movie.html Long test, Wuthering Heights. Geez, here I thought I was a closet romantic.. I'm ousted! Short test was Apocalypse Now. :)

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What’s your favorite kind of wood? I have some rosewood pieces I absolutely adore but I overall cherrywood is my favorite tree wood. :) That's not my actual favorite wood...

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If choosing one meant you never have the other would you choose sex or love? Love. Goodness, I'd miss sex but I wouldn't want to live my life without love.

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How often do you get involved in seemingly innocent AB comment threads that eventually become sexual? Sometimes people say stuff that I wonder about, they must not know I'm a Virginian...

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Hell's bells, I just turned 50, how cool is that? I never thought i would see 21. Did you ever think you would reach the age you are? Happy Birthday to you! When I was younger I never thought I'd make it past 26... I've made it and then some. Funny, isn't it when you look back.

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How many rings do you normally wear? Where are these worn? (include ring piercings) 2-3 pair in my ears, 1-2 on my hands, 2 on other parts of my body. Whew, it's a miracle I don't set off airport sensors!

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Why do some people including me find it hard to get rid of things? i keep everything in boxes from old birthday and christmas cards to keyrings etc etc. is anyone on AB like me Absolutely I'm a packrat. I know too much stuff can be overwhelming but I know I'll need it all eventually. Being able to find it when I do need it will be a different story =0

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My son is being bullied at school, I have taught my kids to be kind and respectful to all. Now I am wondering if I am teaching them the right things because the other kids see them as weak and easy targets. What should I do? What are they being bullied about? That might give you a clue on what to work on or strengthen in your children. I wouldn't worry that you are teaching them the right things. Kind and respectful are wonderful traits! Just make sure they know when something is worth standing up to a person, you can put your foot down with respect. Then if you need to lift it to give someone a swift...

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What state within The United States that you never have been but would love to visit one day? I have at least driven through or stopped at the airport at almost every state. I've never been to the Grand Canyon so I would say Arizona. :)

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Have you ever felt like you were run over by a steamroller? Yes, this morning it felt like the weight of the world was holding me down. It would be nice to have someone blow me back up like one of those cartoons. Picking yourself up by the bootstraps is not fun.

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Who's got the perfect body? Nobody. The illusion of a 'perfect body' is usually created with makeup and angles. The other part to this answer is everyone's idea of a 'perfect body' is different. The main thing is The Perfect Body for me is the one I hold and love as a part of my life.

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I did it! It took me 2 months, 2 weeks, and 2 days to become a Maestro. I just wanted to thank everyone!! Oh ya, I need a question... Do you enjoy my questions or should I keep quiet from now on? Congrats! Keep the questions coming. :)

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What event (historical or personal) has most affected you emotionally? My husband's infidelities. It has made me question everything about myself and my decisions along with what almost my entire adult life has been about.

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If i decide to leave for a while(not divorce) just get away to clear my head and see what i really want out of life how do i go about it? i don't want her to hate me for it but i want her to take time to consider what shes done(2 Affairs). please help. Don't let her control you. Be empathetic to her feelings but be firm... not only does she need to consider her actions but you need to make sure how you feel and let the pain heal a little. If you can do this you can be a better parent to your child no matter what the outcome. What to say to your child? That Mommie and Daddy love him very much but need to think about some things....

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Do you plan on "gettin' any" tonight? I can plan all I want to but it has to be a good one for success. I think I'll try drugging his drink tonight. Anyone have suggestions what to drug it with??

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You are on a commercial flight when the flight crew are stricken with food poisoning and fall unconscious. Nobody else can fly the plane - do you take the controls? Yes, if nobody else has a clue and someone will help with radio. I actually flew a Cessna for a little while once. My best friend had his license and took me up as a graduation present. :) I didn't do very well, lol, there's a lot of dang controls. Watched Airplane lately? :D

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Does your partner have any phobias that your aware of? Snakes. He hates snakes and was completely weirded out by SOAP ('Snakes on a plane'-movie). Oh- and eye drops, he has this complete inability to put eye drops in his eyes because it freaks him out. I'm not sure that counts as a phobia but I do categorize it as 'weird', lol.

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What eye colour turns u on most They are all wonderful. What turns me on the most is what's behind those eyes since they are the window to your soul..

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Do you have a certain song that never fails to make you feel good no matter your mood? if so what is it? 'You ain't much fun' by Toby Keith LYRICS: I used to come home late and not a minute too soon Barking like a dog, howling at the moon You'd be mad as an ol' red hen Up all night wonderin' where I been I'd fall down and say come help me honey You laughed out loud I guess you thought it was funny I sobered up and I got to thinkin' Girl you...

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What do you have trouble accepting? That sometimes you just have to take things day by day on the hope of a better tomorrow.

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I feel that my g/f's ex is conniving, and was upset that he sent her a msg saying "I had a dream about you, i hope all is well" and she hid it from me til she could figure out a way to handle it. Was that right for her to do? I had the exact thing happen to me. When I first got married my ex sent a letter to me, not wishing my marriage well but saying he'd be there for me and wished things were different between us. My husband was very angry when he came across this letter and felt if I was unsure what to do with it I should have talked it over with him (at that point it had been a month since I received the...

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The first ever question on answerbag was 'What is the meaning of life?" posted by the staff. Do you think Answerbag itself -with it's wealth of knowledge - has added anything new or of value tangible to that ages-old quest? No, the great philosopher Douglas Adams already gave the a simple, easy to understand answer: 42 I don't think the majority of us really know what to ask. ;) Nice question. + Note: please reference author Douglas Adam's series 'The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy'. Fun books. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Answer_to_Life,_the_Universe,_and_Everything

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Have you ever tried a polyphasic sleep pattern? I love the 'Seinfeld' episode about polyphasic sleep. They showed the character (Kramer) acting goofy and sleep deprived plus clueless about how to use the additional time. I looked into it recently because of an emotionally trying time. I slept for about 2-4 hours a night at most in 2 hour intervals. I really did have a lot of extra time but it made work seem so dull and the day...

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Have you ever fallen asleep during a film? In the theatre, once that I remember (The Fugitive). At home, all the time! We start our movies way too late and watch way too many of them.

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Have you ever fallen asleep in the bathtub? Absolutely. I do tend to take long soaks. :)

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How many sexual partners have you had? I've had a few which were mistakes, so I would say too many.

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Overall, what do you think is wrong with MOST people? Wrong with whom? *looks away innocently* EDIT: I think what's wrong with most people is they don't take the time to look at what they're doing. For example, checking if the box you are writing in says 'Answer' or 'comment'....

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What is the longest amount of time you went without sleeping? Why? About 72 hours. I did get a nap or two of about an hour each time... then the rest of the week didn't sleep for more than 2-3 hours. I had a traumatic life event happen and I was under extreme emotional duress.

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What's the longest amount of time that you've quit smoking... and then went back? I quit for about 18 months once, although I went out about every other week and smoked while out. I also quit smoking while I was pregnant and nursing, both times. Still smoking, max since has been a week or so. :(

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What was the longest amount of time you went without being intimate including sex, foreplay and kissing? Since I first had started having sex the max is about 4 months dry. Maybe? That feels like a loooong time ago since it was between bf #1 and bf#2. *thinking* OMGoodness, it was about 20 years ago!! GL.

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What do you have in your closet that you really should get rid of? My Polaroid camera, those are ancient. Well, some things it might still be good for.. teeheehee.

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Would you be paranoid about dating someone in the FBI...considering they can pretty much find out everything about you even before your first date. Not as all as one job I've had required a background check. If they didn't find anything I guess that means they don't know about the time I... oh, darn, shhhhh....

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Why is it people who are so interested in getting to know you and ask you questions but then they always forget what you tell them? Or is it that they aren't really interested in getting to know you and are just making conversation? I have a very compartmental memory... sometimes it takes me a minute to find your 'box' (memory box!!). I usually don't forget things more than once, except for names :(. I do know people who have diarrhea of the mouth and just make conversations without paying any heed to whom they are speaking. I feel kind of sad for them not really getting to know people.

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Someone say something to cheer me up! a joke or anything! :( Who's The Daddy? (Supposedly) The following are all replies that Oklahoma women have written on Child Support Agency forms in the section for listing "father's details". Or putting it another way...Who's yo Daddy? 1. Regarding the identity of the father of my twins, child A was fathered by Jim Munson. I am unsure as to the identity of the father of...

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Someone say something to cheer me up! a joke or anything! :( Something for the ladies: Five tips for a woman.... 1. It is important that a man helps you around the house and has a job. 2. It is important that a man makes you laugh. 3. It is important to find a man you can count on and doesn't lie to You. 4. It is important that a man loves you and spoils you. 5. It is important that these four men don't know each other. ...

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Overall, what do you think is wrong with MOST people? Most people do not know what is important to them. They spend too much time spinning their wheels and getting aggravated at everyone else when they don't go anywhere... when really all most people need to do is point themselves in a good direction and head that way. Live life with laughter, consideration and love. =)

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What part of your body screams the loudest? My back. I keep doing things to aggravate it! No comments from the peanut gallery...

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Have you ever fantasized about another Bagger? Yes I have. I have fantasized about sitting under a tree and meditating with Stableboy.. (haha, he is going to be so confused!) =D Actually I have had some minor daydreams involving certain Abers. The people and fantasies will remain currently unnamed.

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What is the difference between kissing with tongue and kissing without tongue? Which one feels better ? Why? Kissing without tongue is usually closed mouth while with tongue is open using.. yup, your/their tongue! They both can feel good. 'French kissing' (with tongue) is more intimate and is much more sexual in feel. Sometimes I enjoy good closed mouth kisses, sometimes I prefer a more intimate kiss. It's all a matter of where your relationship is heading and with what you feel...

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Have you ever been to Tennessee? Yes, we go all the time. I love Nashville but Memphis is gorgeous. I've been other places as one of my job territories is Tennessee but those are my two favorite cities. :)

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What is your favorite thing that you own? I would have to say my computer, lol.

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Have u ever felt that ur in love at first sight?how did it feel? Never. Attracted, lust, aversion but never love.

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Can you name just one pet peeve that you have? When people don't close the pizza box after taking a slice. Not my biggest pet peeve, lol.

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Who has the most adorable avatar? Yours is adorable babyr. but it might run a close second to KDP's.. ;D

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Is there someone you have been constantly thinking about? If yes, who? Yes, John. I come on here to focus on something else for awhile. I've had a lot of help from certain ABers to make it successful! :D

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Have you ever had a secret admirer? Have you been someone's secret admirer? If I've ever had a secret admirer they've done such a good job I still don't know about them! I'm usually pretty approachable. Ditto on the flip side, I tend to admire openly. :)

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Can You Unwrap A Starburst W/ Your Tongue? Yes, tongue and teeth. I prefer to keep my tongue in shape with cherry stems though. Yum, cherries!

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What was the last card game you played? UNO in person, it's something we play regularly with the kids. If you are including computer card games, Texas Hold 'Em. I like to play on XBox Live :)

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Whats the worse thing an ex has doen to you I guess I've been lucky ex-wise. The worst thing was borrowing my luggage supposedly for a gig... and he was visiting a ho. No, no, I'm sure she was a nice gal. :-S Now my current 'love' is a whole other story...

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Do you prefer clutter in your surroundings or do you prefer everything perfectly organized? I like certain areas perfectly organized like the living room, bathrooms. Anywhere I actively do things is usually cluttered as I am an 'out of sight, out of mind' person.

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What (genuine) advice would you give to someone who is extremely upset and angry and about to lose control? Assuming they are not angry with me... I would ask, "What can I do for you?" That usually takes the edge off the building anger. If that doesn't redirect their thoughts I usually grab a pillow or other soft, thick object and say, "Here, punch this." Then brace myself. If they are mad at me I usually tell them I would like to talk about this, but it looks like both...

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Are you more or less outgoing online than you are in the real world? More outgoing simply because I only communicate online when I'm feeling social. I'm thrust out in the Real World whether I'm in the mood or not!

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If I were to use the first speed dial setting on your phone, who would answer my call? I.C.E. Whoever is my current 'in case of emergency' number. This would be my cell as we don't use a regular house phone with any regularity.

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Who curses more, men or women? Men do. When I am aggravated I have an extremely dirty mouth but overall I hear men let loose with the swearing more than women. In fact I was being teased today about my usual curseword: sh*tmuffins.

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Have you ever been so cold that you start hurting as you begin to warm up? Yes, but that was when we lived in NY. I had to put my car in the shop during winter and waited for buses to get to work... one time difference was 15 mins. Froze my toes for almost a week. I live in the southeastern US now, much warmer! Snow? What's snow? =]

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Is sex over-rated? Sex in general is over-rated. 'Buy this sports car and you will have people fawn all over you.' Watch my video, look at me I'm hot/have all the babes.. etc. It's under-rated as part of a relationship. When you feel comfortable and can explore is the best part of sex and making love.

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Has anyone googled there own name, and what results did you get? Interesting. My married name: 11,100 My maiden name: 692 :)

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Do you sing along with the radio in your automobile? and if someone pulls up along side of you do you stop singing or just carry on? I sing along with the radio all the time. I just sing more softly when someone pulls along side of me, I don't want to break any eardrums but I'm not going to stop what I enjoy. :)

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Do you have a "If we're not married when we're both 35" type of deal with anyone? Yes, but #1 I'm married, #2 we've lost touch. Jesse, Eleza and I are still looking for you! I may be divorced by 35 and need you!! ACK.

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Which three adjectives best describes you? Caring, inquisitive, excitable.

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What color are your nipples? Relaxed or at attention? I think I'll go and double check both ways...

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Who the nicest person in your household? My older son. He's very empathetic and aware of the thoughts and feelings of those around him. In fact, the last time he got into trouble and was sent to his room he texted me 'Sorry, Mom'. I don't go back on punishments so he knew that wouldn't help him!

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If my ex-boy friend was horribly drunk and tried to force a less-drunk me to have sex with him... and succeeded for a couple of seconds, does that make me a rapist? Indigo, Technically, he's the rapist. I don't think that makes things any clearer for you, though. I think you were going with "I was less drunk and knew more of what I was doing".. but that isn't the case especially if you still feel for the guy. He'd still be taking advantage of your feelings for him. It's normal with any breakup to be ambivalent at...

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My hair is super long and I need it cut really bad. What style do you think it should be? I don't really have a preference, which is why I'm asking. Congratulations on your hair! I've been growing mine for 3 years and it's just gotten past my shoulder blades. Yeay! I would layer it around your face a bit, long layers which work their way longer as you go back. Here's a good pict of what I am talking about, sorry that it's Lindsay Lohan! http://www.beautyriot.com/article.php?id=4257&c_id=60

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Hi! I have waist length wavy hair with what i think is an oval face? And i want a new cut. I don't want to go much shorter cos its taken soo long to grow! But i do want a more updated look. I'm 19 and need a low hassle do, preferably more curly. Thanks :D Congrats on growing your hair that long! I've been growing mine for 3 years and now it's just below my shoulder blades. Yeay! Have you tried layering it around your face? Here's a pict of what I am talking about (sorry, it's a Lindsay Lohan pict!): http://www.beautyriot.com/article.php?id=4257&c_id=60

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My girlfriend is amazing and there's no way I'd break up with her for this, but she always cuts her hair really short. She knows I strongly prefer long hair, but she says it's too much of a hassle. Is this something I'll just have to suffer through? Well, if she's that amazing maybe sometime in the future she will grow it out and you will be around to see it. :) I do actually grow my hair long because it's my partner's preference however I like to the look of it also. That and I discovered it just as easy to braid or twist the junk back as it is to style short hair. The important part is a relationship is compromise...

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What kind of questions can i ask my fiance to assure me he hasnt cheated on me or lied to me about doing drugs or drinking alchol behind my back? You should be able to ask him straight and trust in his answer. I know it's not that simple though- how I wish it was! First, take a look at why you are asking this question. Do you feel insecure with him, is there something he's done that has made you question him or are you just having jealousy/control issues? If you do not have peace within yourself and trust *you* there is...

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Cookies or brownies? Most times I would choose cookies. Snickerdoodles are my favorite. *hint hint* lol.

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Tattoos - hot or gross? Hott. Done right even the all over ones can be awesome. What can I say? I like a little rough and tumble kind of guy, tatts are nice as is a little stubble..

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Why do you think Highlander is such a great guy? I definitely value Highlander as an ABer because he asks interesting questions and is very courteous in his transactions. He is consistent in his replies and personality. And because he still seems human by not minding a little ego stroking. ;-)

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If someone gave you a good amount of cocaine and all you could do with it is either use it for only yourself or flush it...what would you do? Flush it. That stuff for me is inciduous.

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What temperature do you keep your house at? 78F in the summer and around 65 in the winter. Thank goodness for fireplaces!

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If there was a sudden ban on coffee, would you be able to cope? How would you deal with the sudden loss of coffee? Would it be a big impact? First of all, thank you for the nightmares. I would probably have to move to Columbia. At least if the ban on coffee reached to there I would have a ready supply of Coke.. (kidding! I think)

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Can I use the flowers from my Jasmine plant to make tea? Yes. For the richest scent and flavor mix some flowers in with the dry tea and let it infuse overnight. You can put some fresh flowers in after brewing. If you wish to store the tea for longer than a day or two then you would want to take the flowers out.

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Sweet basil-where should I put it? Lots of sun or not so much? I'm potting it, should I make it a houseplant or put it outside? Outside is best. At one point I did have to keep a plant inside and it produced fine in the window but I find outside with plenty of sunlight makes them happier.

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If you could hire one of the following, which would it be Driver, Chef, Maid, or Stylist? It's a bit of a toss up... I would say maid however for the family's sake I would want a driver! Just call me Elaine! (Seinfeld reference :))

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What is the furthest you have been from any other person? I have never really been out of civilization completely by myself before. Gee, I thought I was pretty independent because I will go to movies and restaurants by myself if I'm in the mood. Let's put this on a list of things to do before I die! :)

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If you had to tatoo a message on your head what would you put? You worry too damn much!

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What one thing would you never want your mother to tell you? That she read something on this site called 'Answerbag' to a question "What one thing would you never want your mother to tell you?" and they were all true...

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What do you look like? Well, since I don't seem to know the difference between 'comment' and 'answer' I guess I have to post something. Here's one half of my gene pool: More later, maybe. ;>

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What is an area of your home that desperately needs to be organized? The kitchen. Somehow there's crayons in the pantry, candles by the pots and cookbooks in random places. It's in a very sad state...

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Are you thankful to the stores for their displays and the greeting card industry for reminding you of all the holidays? This thought crossed my mind because I was in the store last night and... OH NO!! September 9th Grandparent's day (in the US)! And my Gram isn't feeling well right now, I would have felt like a heel for forgetting. So this time I was extremely thankful for those big displays. :)

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In one word, what is the biggest lie someone could ever use to desecribe you? Nice. No, not really...short? No, I'm tall but not that tall... Thoughtless? No, I try to be thoughtful but get caught up in my thoughts sometimes. Hmmm... Decisive? Yah, maybe decisive is the answer. ;)

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Have you ever experienced jealousy in any way that involved someone you knew only from online? No, it's all in fun. I prefer to flirt and run... ;)

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Would you eat bamboo? Yes I eat the shoots. They have a nice texture.

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Why is it, some men are more keen on a " no strings attached", instead of a meaningful relationship? 1) 'Free' sex (no emotional issues or ties) 2) No cash outlay for meals and gifts 3) Afraid of commitment 4) Waiting for something better 5) They do not want to 'name' their relationship I think that covers most of the reasons I've heard. I've seen relationships which were monogamous with regular outings where neither person wanted to officially...

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Have you ever had a crush on someone 25 years your senior? Yes, still do. Sir Sean Connery, the man with the sexiest voice and accent on the planet. He was smokin' hott when he was younger and even without his piece I think he's hot now. *drool* :P'''

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One of my former friends called me today and asked me to do her boyfriend! She offered me $250 and I am so happy I turned it down! But what would you have done? That really blows my mind! I would not prostitute my self for a former friend. For a current friend and if I knew the bf was good in bed... maybe... just kidding! Maybe she was recording you and hoping to use it in some twisted way in the future, who knows?

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My bank called today, and before they would tell me what the call was about, the representative asked me to verify my information. What would you have done? They are not supposed to do that for the very fact it opens the door to scammers, encouraging their customers to freely give out their information. They should have been able to give you a general idea about why they were calling ie. calling about your loan/a bank draft/to verify an electronic debit. NEVER give out any of your information over the phone, I don't care who is calling...

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Is it wrong to flirt shamelessly with several different ABers? *hangs head* I've been a very, very badd girl... *grins wickedly under her curtain of hair* ;-)

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Do you ever regret showing your picture on AB? Do you think you were treated differently after it? I'm not out of the bag yet... so it will be interesting to see if people thought I was different. Of course, that's assuming anyone's even wondered, lol. Do you regret posting your picture now that everyone knows you wear overalls? ;) (just kidding to ppl who didn't see it)

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Remember the "telephone game"? I'll start, and you create the next sentence based on what you think you would have heard . . "I like to dance while juggling with chainsaws on a balance beam" "You look at pants while chugging white chocolate on Baily's beemer?"

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When technically does an affair "begin"? When you start "talking", when you start kissing or when you "do it"? Technically an affair (if you are using that word in place of adultery) is 'sexual intercourse with a person not your spouse' as defined in states in which this against the law (a class B misdemeanor in my state). In real life terms as they apply to relationships I believe you can have an emotional affair with no contact. How? When you talk to another person outside of your...

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How do i find my g-spot? ...between the f- and h- spots? (sorry, couldn't resist the bad joke) It should be on the side closest to your front. Rub gently inside your vagina, it shouldn't be more than a finger-length inside. You will know when you feel a lot more intense sensations, I've heard some people describe it almost as a pressure to pee. It's not like that for me, more as a...

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I felt up a girl at a party, when my girlfriend was in the other room, now we are broken up because i told her about it, i don't know what to do, from my understanding the girl that i felt up doesnt even remember, what went on, w I really don't think it matters if the girl remembers, I don't think your girlfriend is going to forget. If she doesn't want to try to rebuild trust with you there is nothing you can do. Take this as a lesson learned and move on. If both of you decide to give your relationship another try you need to realize it will take time to earn her trust, which may take many different...

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If you could have one luxury item under $1000 what would it be? A cashmere throw. I hang out under a blanket when watching TV or playing games so I could use it all the time. Ahhhhh, soft!

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How many days in a year are you sick? I generally get sick once a year, in bed a day or two. Last year none. :) I'm usually down 2-3 times more (a day each) for migraines.

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Do you look your age? Could you pass for someone much younger or older? Well, I'm in my 30's and got carded for cigarettes the other day. Of course, the person's boss might have been looking, lol. I choose to believe it was because of my youthful looks. :)

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Do you feel younger or older than your age? I've been going on a day-by-day strategy for the past few months, I actually don't think about my age. Now that I have, I feel younger. I thought I'd be in a different place when this birthday came around. I guess your life can go topsy-turvy at any age.

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How kind and consciencious are you? Do you smile and open doors and let others go first without thinking or do you have to think about it? I have to be completely absorbed in what I'm thinking to not hold the door open for someone, which unfortunately does happen on a regular basis. I was raised military so it's ingrained in me.

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Who has hurt your feelings recently? What happened? My husband. He recently told me the 'good' news that the 'friend' he was talking to when we were talking about a divorce is leaving her job (they work together). He didn't understand why it hurt me they were having a personal conversation.

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Where is the strangest place you have seen a cell phone stored? (on a person's body) In a gun holster.. people around were a little concerned when the person reached in to answer it.

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What colour ink in your pen do you prefer to use? Does it make a difference? for instance, why dont we write letters in red or green ink? Black and blue are traditional colors because they are easier to read on a white background. With some folk's handwriting you need all the help you can get for clarity... I currently use purple because it's one of my favorite colors and still easy to read. Red ink has a negative connotation and orange is too light. :)

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What would you do if a stranger came up behind you and pinched your bottom? If it was a man I would do the same thing I did last time it happened, smack them in the chest (not as aggressive as a punch, still a clear message). They put their hands on me, I'll put one right back on them. If it was a female I'd snarl, "What the h--- do you think you are doing?" Hmm, that's never happened now that I think about it, and I've been to mixed...

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What would you do if a stranger came up to you and said he wanted you to be the mother of his children? I would laugh and laugh... Then either smile and thank him or stop and slap him, depending on how the offer was said. =) (the answer would be no either way)

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How do you deal with a child that is in late 20`s , and always asking for money to help them pay there bills, after quiting a job of 2 yrs, and then to boot married a guy with out a job, and then when no one gives anymore the child turns cold towards us I know that must be heartbreaking, we only want the best for our children. In this case the best may be to let her deal with the money issues on her own. I believe it will make her stronger. What's going to happen if/when she has children of her own? The hardest part will be to deal with any ill-will she may temporarily bear you however if she grows as a person she will respect you...

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Do you think that our darker skinned brothers using the N word will not let us advance past the narrowmindedness of our ancestors? (People are now all shades and mixes, isnt that saying a bit played out?) That lovely word has been expanded to mean much more. Personally I think within the culture it was originally used to thicken skin so when other races used it in a negative manner it wouldn't be such a shock and so hurtful. These days some people use it like they would 'bro'. Our planet is becoming way too populated for the races to stay 'pure' so a global...

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If someone asked you to lie in order to live would you lie or die? Lie unless it would cause someone else to die. Hopefully in the darkest parts of me the answer would be no different.

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Do you use pro and con lists to make choices? If it's a biggie, yes, especially if I'm emotionally involved. I do include 'I just want to/don't want to, that's why' in the list, lol.

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Do you have any babies in your family right now ? if so can you post a photograph? Here's my niece at 7 months (look at those eyes!) and my son who's 6 (almost a toddler still? I wish!) in this picture. My other son is older.

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What kind of cook are you? Do you religiously follow a recipe or do you just throw ingredients together until it looks/tastes right? How does it turn out? Do you even cook at all? I love to cook. I usually follow a recipe the first time exactly and may continue to do so if it's easy and is a 'Wow!' recipe. Most times I take the taste and adapt it to my lifestyle and what is usually in the pantry. Most times I am literally throwing ingredients together based on what is in the fridge/freezer, I don't plan my menus in advance.

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Seriously, what do you think about having sex with a person who has a piercing in their genital area? I'd hope it wouldn't get caught with mine! >_< lol, actually, never thought about it. I think I'd find it interesting. Most people do it for the sensations so I'd be interested in finding out if it was true..

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How do you get legal revenge on someone who abused you? The best revenge you can get on an abuser? Heal and be happy. Let them know by example they have no power over you. Most abusers like the control, to make another person feel powerless. If you want to explore all your options consult a lawyer (all states have slightly different laws) however I would suggest you use your funds and energy on leaving the abuse/abuser behind. Best wishes.

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Do You ever capitilize things for dramatic effect? ABSOLUTELY! =) I try to keep it at a minimum (thereby making it more effective) as I can't control how it's perceived in electronic land. If I were speaking I could control how it was presented.

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Do you get angry often? No, not truly angry. I get irritated often, especially when driving, but overall I try to be positive.

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Your greatest lover - were you in love with them or was it just phenomenal sex? My greatest lover I am in love with and we overall have phenomenal sex. The greatest sex session was with someone I verbally sparred with all the time. One night it just happened and I could barely walk from the trembling in my legs right afterward - it was so intense. Of course, I was a lot younger then...

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What would you do if your partner dumped you just because they told you that you're bad in bed? That would hurt my feelings/pride for a bit. But then I would be thankful that the stupid, shallow B*****rd was out of my life before I wasted anymore time on him! I could never imagine telling someone that, much less as a reason for breaking up a relationship.

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Where do you go to when you're really upset? To the library. I can't scream too loudly no matter how much I want to, I can hide in a corner if I need to cry, and there are lots of lovely books I can escape into to get my mind off things. Then I can just step outside to call my sis or have a smoke.

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How would you react if your partner suggest a threesome,swinging, or group sex? What would you do?Would you do it? My partner knows better than to suggest something like that, we are not in a place which our relationship would be able to handle it. Back in the day I would have been very receptive of a threesome. Group sex doesn't allow savoring of the sensations, too much going on. As a side note I knew someone who got picked up by a couple in a fast food drive-thru. They picked him up after...

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Who was your first rock star crush? Jim Morrison. Wow, intensity. Val Kilmer was an awesome choice to play him in The Doors movie.

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Who was your very first celebrity crush? Batman (Adam West). Yes, as an adult I was a little horrified to hear about what used to happen on that set. Wonder Woman (Lynda Carter). I just thought she was lovely, I had a non-sexual crush on her. And those eyes, incredible!

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Why is it that every time someone gets abducted by aliens they get their anus probed? Do you think dogs have the same thoughts about going to the vets?

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While out for a walk I found some lily of the valleys. They had clusters of balls on them dangling from a spike. I brought about 25 of the balls home and threw them in my garden. Will these "balls" produce lilies in the spring? You have a good chance the seeds will germinate. The most common method of propagation is by separating the rhizomes or cuttings, although once they become established you may have the opposite problem- keeping them under control! Lovely, sweet smelling flowers.

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Do you wash dishes by hand or do you use a dishwasher? Dishwasher all the way, unless it's the biggest pots, cast iron pans, baking stones or other things which cannot be thrown in the blessed box of cleanliness.

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Do you use a wash clothe, a squishy, a sponge, your hands or someone elses? All of the above? Hehe.

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Would you prefer your parnter to be over sensitive or rigid? Oh, rigid; I like my man rigid.

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When was the last time you got a hair cut? October 2006 was the last time I got a my head of hair cut and highlighted. I trimmed my nose hairs this past weekend... ;D

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Have you ever been summoned for jury duty? Were you picked to serve on the jury? Any interesting cases? I was on the list to be called once however my number never came up. My friend was called and he was chosen for some type of home builder's lawsuit. They ended up settling out of court after 2 days. My sis was called for an attempted murder. She was actually chosen and let them know she is a high school teacher which didn't conflict with the high schooler on trial... however...

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What if you woke up one day with all your bills completely paid? I'd click my Ruby heels and say, "There's no place like home, there's no place like home..."

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Are fact and truth the same thing or does the truth depend upon perspective? Facts are supposed to an objective actual occurrence, existence or 'a piece of information presented as having objective reality'. Of course, it used to be a fact that the Earth was flat... Truth is more subjective and can be more of a spiritual reality along with judgments, propositions or ideas that are true/accepted as true. It can also be defined as 'sincerity in action,...

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What is the customer/borrower's right to cancel? It is a Federal guideline under Truth In Lending Act. You have the 'right to rescind', or cancel, within 3 business days of signing any loan using your primary residence as collateral. You have until midnight on the 3rd business day after receiving a signed credit contract, the TILA cancellation form and the full disclosure of the loan including the annual percentage rate, total...

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I am not divorced yet and I was denied a mortgage loan because we put our house on the market and I decided to buy it from my husband. Can I resubmit the loan another way? I would try different lenders. From my experiences each lender is going to approach it differently, from issues because you are not divorced yet to showing proof of child support (if applicable), etc. Also, check if you are not officially divorced if his name still has to appear on the deed (it does in my state :( ). Not only does each lender have different guidelines and ways to submit a...

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How often do you take a minute of your time to appreciate nature? Every day. In the morning when I drink my coffee on the patio, after work when I walk around the yard looking at my plants and flowers and in the evening when the sun is setting. Plus other assorted times, full moon, botanical gardens, it really helps to keep my sanity. Enjoy a pict from my garden:

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What is the worst thing you could say to a judge during your court case? Do you think you could get an autograph from Judge Judy for me??

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Does the news make anyone else feel depressed? I don't watch news television shows because they sensationalize it and skew it to sell commercials. I skip much of a newspaper for the same reasons. If I believed everything in the headlines that I read or heard I would think everyone around me is a murdering, lawless, no moral, crazy a** pedophile. In that respect the news does make me feel depressed. That's why I skip...

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Why do women get turned off by Asian men? I am not turned off by Asian men. I am in fact a percentage Asian myself. My biggest issue with Asian men is the majority are short and I like tall men as I am 5'8". Tall, dark and good looking is my usual type, no particular race. :)

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Would you stay with someone if you absolutely love them but you think that things may not work in the future (i.e. what you want in a relationship in the future... for example, do not want to work opposite shifts and want to see each other more). Stay with them. Work shifts change, the future is not set in stone. I would change that statement if the future item is a complete deal-breaker, and one person will not change. For example, I have a friend who became a missionary and moved to Japan. That was his goal, nothing was going to change his mind. If his girlfriend wanted to stay Stateside, that would have been a deal-breaker. ...

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Have you ever lent money to a friend or family member and never got it back,how did this affect your relationship with them? Yes, my sister in law. We sold my car to her and gave it to her when she had only paid half. She ended up not paying us the rest because the psycho father of her child ruined the engine and poured paint all over the seats. Well, she did just pay us the rest but it took her 7 years. It didn't really affect our day to day interactions with her however she knew not to ask us for anything,...

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When was the last time you had a bubble bath? This past weekend with spiced orange scented bubbles. I took 'Contact' in with me. I love my whirlpool tub =)

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When was the last time you gave? Blood? A month ago. Humane Society? Last week. Someone a hard time? Yesterday to KillDrPhil, lol. (Well he is cute, and too young for me to get into any serious trouble. Hehe.) I like it when people have something to say. =]

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Has anyone ever told you that your self image is distorted? It's not me, it's everyone else's perception that is distorted... ;)

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Forget what you think of her personality or demeanor, do you think Rosie O'Donnell is an attractive woman? Personality goes a long way toward who I think is attractive. In Rosie's case though it wouldn't help. No, I wouldn't say she's attractive. She's not ugly, but I find her unattractive.

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Has your mouth ever gotten you into trouble? Oh yes. Then it usually gets me out of trouble, too. =)

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I don't know who to paint next. I've done a Jim Morrison, John Lennon, Jimi Hendrix, Elvis, and Blondie. Who next? Keeping with the theme of icons, preferably a woman. I would suggest Billie Holiday. I think the imagery you could use would suit your painting style. Luv your avatar! =)

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It is said that Darjeeling is the champagne of teas do you agree? A good Darjeeling brewed well is a fantastic taste. It does rank high on my favorites. Just like anything else, it is a matter of taste preference and appreciation. Sometimes I just like some good 'ole Southern Sweet Tea. :)

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I hate the taste of coffee, but I am told that as people get older they start to like it. Is this true? I have always liked the taste of coffee although I first drank it with cream and sugar. These days I usually have the first cup with and just add coffee throughout the day and end up with black coffee by the end of the day. At night if I don't have a dessert coffee (Irish creme coffee- yum!) I'm usually drinking it with dessert and have it black. When younger, I never drank it...

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What is the greatest gift a child can give a parent? Love and respect. I am awed by those moments you realize the capacity of love we have as human beings. When they come from your children you can't help but feel you had something to do with it.

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Is really new technology slowing down while refinement of existing technology is increasing. I think the type of new technology is changing. What's being developed is more focused and could be termed refinement rather than something completely new. For example, look at all the cell phones out there. They went from bricks strictly to call people to something that will almost brush my teeth for me. Well, not really, but it can remind me. ;) Here's something that would...

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How many pairs of underwear should you take with you on a one week vacation? I would take 7 +2. 7 I expect to wear plus 2 pairs of bikini-style in case I get a 'surprise visitor' (the monthly :( ). I usually wear thongs in case you didn't gather. ;>

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What do you have on your nightstand right now? Too much junk! Alarm clock, coaster (usually with a drink), a roll-top drawer thing (for my change, jewelry, hubby's wallet), a lamp, some correspondence, a jar candle, pens, hair holders, the current book I'm reading along with anything I've had to confiscate from the kids, usually Yu-gi-oh cards. That's just what's on top, I have a drawer and bottom shelf too, lol.

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I love receiving a handwritten letter in the mail. Do you feel this is a thing of the past? I think it is much less common than in the past. It does look like I'm one of the lucky few who still receives handwritten notes in the mail? My whole family still sends and receives by snail-mail, as do my friends on a regular basis.

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I believe 13 is too young for sexual related activities. Do you believe this is correct? Why or why not? The way people are raised these days, yes it is too young. Teenagers are supposed to have 'fun' and having a child at that age is not fun - which can be the end result. Back in the day when children stopped going to school before they were aged double digits and only living to the ripe old average age of 45 then that might have been the norm. Now people are living much longer...

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What do you dislike about Canadians? I didn't DR you but I'm very surprised with this question as it asks for a negative answer. The Canadians I've met have been very international, much more so than most Americans. By international I mean speaking different languages, more aware and appreciative of cultural differences, etc. If you've seen 'Bowling for Columbine' or other (real?) documentaries...

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Do you lead, follow, or get out of the way? I tend to follow the leader closely. I am comfortable taking the responsibility for a group decision however I'm at my best when I get a chance to think things over. The most successful leaders can think on their feet, which is why I like to take a secondary position. I rarely get out of the way, I like to be in the thick of things. =)

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If you knew that your life was never going to change, that things would never get any better, or any worse for you, would you want to go on living? If you had asked me that a month ago I would have said, NO. Thank goodness for change, it is now a marginal Yes.

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Would you rather stay where you are in life, knowing you'd never get any better (in all facets: finance, health, relationships ... ) or go somewhere completely new, by yourself and start all over, if that meant you would have a chance to get ahead? As I recently went through almost this exact decision (except the main relationship in my life is supposed to improve) I would say stay where I am in life. If I didn't have children, or been able to take them with me, it would have gone the other way. I've moved many times in my life and enjoy the challenges and excitement of being somewhere new!

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Are you hard to please? Overall - no. There are many things I enjoy as they are. I used to be such a perfectionist, until I realized it was due to insecurity and came to peace with that part of me.

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Answeri this question. Look around and tell me the first thing that you see that is orange? Flowers in a vase. I like fresh flowers. :)

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One theory in relationships is you show and recognize love based on the following 4 areas: Time & Attention, Gifts, Actions/favors, Physical affection. What order would these be for you? Are any or all of them a must-have in your relationships? Mine would be: 1) Actions/favors 2) Time and Attention 3) Physical affection 4) Gifts I like it when I feel cared for, I'm an independent cuss and to be have something done for me without having to ask makes me appreciate a person more.

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Does anyone have any 'mom-isms'--things your mothers used to say that are typical of mothers? Like "I'll give you something to cry about".."one day you'll thank me for this", "think of all the starving children in China". Heheh, I just used the "I'll give you something to cry about" yesterday in the car. My favorite mom-ism is "This is going to hurt me more than it hurts you." It never made sense to me as it usually preceded me getting my booty whooped good.

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Is Auntie Em a unicorn? Auntie Em is the 'Big Mama' of AB. That's in a 'Soul Food' kind of way, she's one of my favorite movie characters. :)

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Do you feel any sense of entitlement to what your parents own, or do you think you should go make your own way in life? They gave me their jeans, what else could I ask for? Levi's are my favorite, too. ;) No I don't have a sense of entitlement, although it's funny because my Dad has already told us where his 'big stuff' was going. He didn't wanted to make sure we were ok with the division, lol. I'm just glad I get the '74 Norton (I think that's the right...

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Why do people make fun of you? Because I make fun of myself. =) I have a habit of making random comments if it's quiet. For example, on a road trip we had the sunroof open and I was laying back, admiring the view. I wanted to share the moment and told my friends, "Oh look, the blue is so sky." Or the time I was singing along to, "drink every morning and all night long." Until I was...

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What was one of the things you craved the most being pregnant? #1 was lemon wedges and peperoncini. May I say bless the folks at the Greek restaurant I went to everyday? With or without an order they always had 2 little to-go cups ready for me. :) #2 was FOOD, a lot of food from the restaurant next door to work. Lightly grilled ahi tuna on a bed of wilted arugula, 3-way wings (hot, teriyaki and garlic sauce all together), Maryland cream of crab...

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I’m very shy, don’t have a lot of friends, and don’t go out at all….but I don’t want people to know about my lonely life and I don’t like to lie. What is the best response to the question, “what are you doing this weekend?” Well, unless you wrap yourself up and stand yourself in a corner you must do something over the weekend? Whether it's just read a book or watch a movie, cook for yourself, watch TV, make it a point to remember something specific about what you are doing to talk to people about it. This will give you an opener in two ways: -it tells people a little about yourself, your interests -it...

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Why Is There So Much Evil Everywhere? There isn't. Thoughtlessness, anger, impatience, frustration, etc, etc are common as most people are a mix of good and bad feelings however, Evil is rare. Most of it is a matter of perception.

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I have read everything by King and everything by Koontz and i am looking for a new author. Who would you suggest? Based on those authors I would recommend Robert R. McCammon. 'Swan Song' is an incredible epic! Plus he does what King does so well, take a story line based on reality and twists it, making it surreal. Tell me how you like it, if you try one of his novels. :)

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How did you first learn about "pleasuring yourself" at what age? male or female? First I want to say I don't really remember much before 8-9-10 years of age, it's so fuzzy I don't even know when I began having memories. So, by 8ish I was aware and knew there were ways of 'pleasuring myself'. I'm female.

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Do you do things to make someone else proud? If I'm with my Gram yes, I do my best to reflect well on her. There may be a few other people and situations I stay very aware of what I am doing to do the family/work proud... but overall I try to live my life so *I* am satisfied with what I do. The hardest part for me is keeping a balance: work, family, family maintenance. I feel very good/proud when I've finished the day...

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Is it cheesy that I am going around making everyone my friend? I just am very friendly. does that bother you? Hi Red, lol. This reminds me of paintball: *SPLAT* (friend request) AH-HA, I got you! *SPLAT back* NO! I have you! (as a friend) :D

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Are diamonds really a girl's best friend? Pretty pretty... but very cold and lumpy bedfellows. Plus they never return my calls... Give me time with my sis or boys any day over all the blood diamonds in the world. Now my hubby on the other hand, let me think about that for a min. ;> just kidding (I think)

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Are you a one-finger typist or full on flying fingers? All my fingers are getting their exercise. =)

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Are you a big truck person or a sports car person? What type is your favorite? Sports car, there is something about being able to zip in and out (of traffic). Big trucks are very useful, however, as is my mama-mobile (minivan :)).

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What is something you can't do to save your life? This is going to fall under the 'bad women drivers' stereotype: I can't back up cars!! I can parallel park fairly well and my regular driving is ok however I cannot back up in a straight line. It's the dumbest thing! I'd better not get into any car chases. :)

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When people walk past you in the street or on the bus ect is it instinct to just have a passing browse?I dont think nothink of it,but my boyfriend recons i look purposely at other men,i dont notice im doing it.! I'm a people watcher in general but if a man is especially attractive I avoid eye contact, lol. My hubby will get a little flustered if we have an especially attractive server (for example), then he gets more flustered because he catches himself acting the fool and knows I'm watching. So I know he notices, too. As long as you are aware of what you are doing and are not...

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While on the Interstate I can not help but see folks hitch hiking with a sign that has a destination of 1000 or more miles away. If you were going that far would you pick up that stranger? Absolutely not, since I don't pick up hitchhikers. I know people who have hitchhiked (I still think they're batty) and I'm sure the majority are fine individuals however too much can go very wrong with the smaller percent who are whacked-out druggies, thieves, rapists and murderous psychos.

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If YOU came with Instructions what would they say? Handle with care. Some manual adjustments will need to be made on a regular basis to keep in prime operating condition. Use all available tools. If you do not take out regularly this model will tarnish and only gold polish will bring back the shine. (haha, not really :P) DO NOT ride hard and put away wet. DO NOT get another model until you are ready to relinquish this one. They...

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Women: What do you think about carrying a child for a friend or sister? Would you ever do it? Men: Would you mind if your wife was doing it for someone? For a close friend or sister, yes. I would not lightly take on the responsibility of nurturing a child through their development. Even if genetically the child were not mine I would feel so close to him/her I would want to be a part of their lives afterward.

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Women, if you were drafted into the military, would you mind sharing washroom or shower facilities with men? No. And if I got any disrespect the men would find they wouldn't have to drop soap to be in big trouble... Oh, and there would be the correct answer for trouble: Chain of Command.

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Women: Do you like wearing make-up or do you prefer the natural look? I like wearing make-up that looks natural. As I've gotten older my skin needs more evening-out. Other than foundation I only wear light color most of the time, lip gloss instead of lipstick. For formal occasions I go all out!

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Is coffee grounds good for my houseplants? It's good for addition of nitrogen, and is also a pest deterrent. Be careful of adding too much as it can make the soil acidic and there are salts in used coffee grounds. The salts are really only a concern since you are using them in a container.

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Do you have any fruit trees in your garden, and do you look forward each year to the time when you can pick them? Yes we have some however they are too young to produce. I am looking forward to eating my own Golden Delicious Apples and GA peaches!

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In three words describe your boss. Immediate boss: Caring, dedicated, GREAT! The VP: Chauvinistic, direct, fun-loving (especially his golf...)

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What do you like the most books or music? I would have to say books, although it’s a close call. Music is the background of my life but books are the tapestry that holds it all together. They take me outside of myself, introduce new ideas, new 'people' and show me whole other thought processes. Sometimes I need to be outside of myself to get a good perspective on life. Books take me there.

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When people meet you, what do they first think, before they get to know you? Reserved and proper. Which is quite hilarious because, although I am a little reserved and quiet, I am at heart a rebel and wild child. Well, maybe not so much a wild child any more. I'm almost respectable these days. ;)

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Do you think the majority of people you meet are fake or genuine? Genuine. I just keep in mind many people have different areas they will open up about themselves depending on comfort level and location. For example, I have a friend who is an 'exotic dancer'. For some reason she doesn't think it's a good idea to mention her night job at the PTA meetings. =0 Not many people can keep up a completely fake persona, but I have been...

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I HAD a friend with benefits who lived next to me (we do stuff sexual), we could talk about anything, now he has moved, he has my number, but has not called me since he moved. we always talked in person never over phone. why won't he call me now? What he had was easy. You lived right next door, got along great and had sex with no commitment. How much easier could that have been? Calling regularly is not only as easy but in his mind may seem like a relationship, more than he signed up for. Plus it seems overall guys are less comfortable on the phone and only use it when they have to, I know that's true of my honey. Who...

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If you had to spend 24 consecutive hours doing only one thing, what would it be? Being online. I could still play with the kids (having networked computers in the house rocks), order food, play other games, learn new things and Answerbag of course.

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Do you like to ask questions or answer questions better? Answer, it helps me to arrange my thoughts and in some cases challenges me to learn about something new. Plus I like to think I'm helping people in some way, either by saying something that rings true to them or with a laugh. =]

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Do you like to answer questions that ask for a specific, "correct" answer or do you prefer questions that bring forth a variety of answers because there is a lot of wiggle room? Sometimes I like to take it straight but I like to wiggle more. Not only do I like to answer the questions because sometimes they challenge me in my way of thinking, but I also like to read the variety of answers. There are many clever ABers I enjoy. =D (some are naughty, too, much fun)

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What is there an abundance of where you live? Red clay and Rednecks. I luv it here! =)

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What's the longest walk you've done in the dark? I just HAD to go to a concert while in college. We walked through some scary parts of the city... about 6 miles each way. The 'best' part was walking by a bench where a woman was talking to herself. All of a sudden she raised her voice and asked us, "You ain't gonna call the 5-0 are you?" After we assured her, "no" she kept muttering to herself,...

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What NOT to say to those recently married? What, you didn't get a prenup??

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Brain freeze. Who sang the song "Come on people now smile on your brother everybody get together..."? Can you name the group or singer? It was redone many times but the original was by The Youngbloods in 1967. "Get Together" Love is but a song we sing And fear's the way we die. You can make the mountains ring Or make the angels cry. Though the bird is on the wing And you may not know why. C'mon people now Smile on your brother Ev'rybody get together Try to love one another right now Some...

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Has anyone ever had a crush on there teacher? why? Yes, Mr. Davis, he was my PE and Volleyball coach. I have a group picture where we were all playing around and I'm piggy-back on him. It made it into our yearbook. =D

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I'm trying to become a nicer person. Can you give me some advice? My thoughts on being more Nice: When you start feeling defensive, let it go. Being on the defensive means taking offense at small things, getting angry easily, snapping back at people, etc. When you remove the defensive feeling of ‘It’s not me, it’s YOU’ that can open you up to empathy. Empathy makes it extremely difficult to be mean/angry/unkind because you...

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Are you with Mr. or Miss Right or Mr. or Miss "I Guess Will Do"? Mr. I did already so I'm going to keep doing. I used to think he was Mr. Right.

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Are you a good secret Keeper? As in can you keep a secret? My own - no. Others? Yes. I'm usually the one people go to and say, "Can I talk to you about something I don't want a lot of people knowing about?" =X Mum's the word!

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If you were a millionaire, would you still work or quit your job and live off the money? If you would quit, wouln't you get bored eventually of having no routine in your life? I have a little saying I tell my kids when they whine to me ‘I’m bored!’: “If you’re bored that must mean you are boring, don’t you have any thoughts in your head?” Yes, I would still work but I could choose what type of work or entrepreneur project I would devote my energies. That is a very liberating feeling!

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If you had not slept at all, would you still get up and go to work or would you phone in sick? For the past few months I’ve been getting 2-5 hours of sleep with some sleepless nights. I’ve gone in every day, except one where I was sick, my first sick day taken this year. I’m a machine, baby! ;)

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Can anyone name a really good song that tells someone "I forgive you"??? (If possible, please provide the lyrics!) Here is a slow R&B tune "I'll Forgive You" -Bobby Valentino Lyrics : [Verse 1] I might as well admit it That I still miss you I know what I said but it's Kind of hard for me And it's hurting me This is bigger than pride And I wanna give it another try I'm still torn in two But love made me make this decision so [Chorus] I'll forgive...

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What's a good nick name for someone named anne? What's your middle name? Many times you can use part of that to make a good nickname. My sis is Ann and she also goes by Annie and Annabella. :)

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