Answerbag: theceebs's answers http://www.answerbag.com/profile/168042 New Answerbag answers from theceebs Tue, 29 May 2012 08:01:07 -0700 Tue, 29 May 2012 08:01:07 -0700 Answer to I recently read a debate on Plan-B (morning-after pills). Now I'm curious: Do pro-lifers believe birth-control is the same as abortion ? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9159834 I recently read a debate on Plan-B (morning-after pills). Now I'm curious: Do pro-lifers believe birth-control is the same as abortion ?<br /><br />More information on my question: I read a debate during which a pro-lifer stated that Plan-B "kills" eggs and embyos. She also stated that the facts say it prevents implantation of an embryo (it does not kill it, as she previously stated), which is the same as abortion to her. Medically,... Tue, 08 Jun 2010 11:37:10 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9159834 Answer to Does the morning-after pill cause an abortion? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9159813 Does the morning-after pill cause an abortion?<br /><br />I'm suprised that Anjaleen can read the facts she's posted, but still have no understanding of what is happening with morning after pills. Essentially, she is saying that if a woman has sex, the sperm and egg meet, but do not implant (which happens often, or a lot less couples would need... Tue, 08 Jun 2010 11:30:26 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9159813 Answer to PLEASE HELP ME, if you have a big drop of semen on top of a spermicidal condom(Trojan-Enz Spermicidal) will the spermicide kill all of the sperm? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8185035 PLEASE HELP ME, if you have a big drop of semen on top of a spermicidal condom(Trojan-Enz Spermicidal) will the spermicide kill all of the sperm?<br /><br />Don&#039;t count on it. The majority of the spermacide is actually on the INSIDE of the condom. And once the penis makes contact with the vagina, it is going to get rubbed around and dispersed, not really giving the spermacide a chance to kill all the sperm. Read the directions on any box of... Wed, 04 Nov 2009 08:44:22 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8185035 Answer to PLEASE HELP ME, if you have a big drop of semen on top of a spermicidal condom(Trojan-Enz Spermicidal) will the spermicide kill all of the sperm? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8185027 PLEASE HELP ME, if you have a big drop of semen on top of a spermicidal condom(Trojan-Enz Spermicidal) will the spermicide kill all of the sperm?<br /><br />Don&#039;t count on it. The majority of the spermacide is actually on the INSIDE of the condom. And once the penis makes contact with the vagina, it is going to get rubbed around and dispersed, not really giving the spermacide a chance to kill all the sperm. Read the directions on any box of... Wed, 04 Nov 2009 08:43:45 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8185027 Answer to I would like to ask the women whom frequent this site, does penis size matter? And if so, how large/wide does a man's penis need to be in order to get you off? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8184997 I would like to ask the women whom frequent this site, does penis size matter? And if so, how large/wide does a man's penis need to be in order to get you off?<br /><br />I know you&#039;ll get a variety of answers on this one, but I can say from experience that size typically does not matter. I&#039;ve been with a guy who was hung like a horse (I&#039;m not kidding, it was as big around as a pop can !), and it sucked - it hurt, and we never really finished, as... Wed, 04 Nov 2009 08:40:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8184997 Answer to How can i make anal sex easier and less painful? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8184940 How can i make anal sex easier and less painful?<br /><br />If you check out any &quot;adult&quot; site (the kind that sell sex toys, etc.), you can easily find a numbing lube. They typically contain benzocaine, which causes a mild numbing. Start with that (apply it yourself ahead of time, if you want to be ready right away), making sure to use a... Wed, 04 Nov 2009 08:33:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8184940 Answer to If I dont have a suitable household with any of my family. How can the family (not my own) take me in legally? I have talked to CPS, but they did not help. Im 16 and I need some help. The people that want to take me in are the only people I feel safe with http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7860228 If I dont have a suitable household with any of my family. How can the family (not my own) take me in legally? I have talked to CPS, but they did not help. Im 16 and I need some help. The people that want to take me in are the only people I feel safe with<br /><br />There really is no one single legal process for this. You can go before a judge to emancipate yourself from your parents, using your past history as reason for this need. Bring the family with you that plans to take you in, so that you can show the judge you will have people to help you once... Tue, 29 Sep 2009 09:51:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7860228 Answer to What is the youngest that a baby can start #1 baby food? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7860190 What is the youngest that a baby can start #1 baby food?<br /><br />Most guidelines say babies are ready to start solids at 4 to 6 months of age. I waited until 6 months for both of my children, as recommended by my doctor (please ask yours for advice). Even at 6 months, babies aren&#039;t really &quot;ready&quot; to eat yet, because it&#039;s new to them.... Tue, 29 Sep 2009 09:46:13 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7860190 Answer to If you are pregnant will you be getting the H1N1 vaccine? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7860120 If you are pregnant will you be getting the H1N1 vaccine?<br /><br />Absolutely. I work in healthcare, putting me at an increased risk of exposure, so I always get the regular influenza vaccine. This year, I will also be getting the vaccine for H1N1. Pregnant women need to remember that the flu typically causes deydration, and dehydration can easily cause... Tue, 29 Sep 2009 09:36:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7860120 Answer to If you freeze breastmilk in the drop-in bags, how to do thaw it out? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7860068 If you freeze breastmilk in the drop-in bags, how to do thaw it out?<br /><br />It&#039;s best to plan ahead, so you&#039;re not trying to rush the thawing process. You should not try to thaw it in a microwave or using hot water, so it&#039;s not a quick process. You can thaw a bag in the refrigerator in about 12 hours, so once you know how much your baby typically eats... Tue, 29 Sep 2009 09:30:55 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7860068 Answer to How many people believe the chinese gender calender is correct? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7860018 How many people believe the chinese gender calender is correct?<br /><br />It was actually correct for both of my children (we&#039;ll soon see if it&#039;s right a 3rd time). Though it&#039;s a fun thing to try, I will say that I do NOT actually believe it could work. It&#039;s based on the mother&#039;s information; age, month of conception, etc. but we know that... Tue, 29 Sep 2009 09:18:34 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7860018 Answer to Do you think that women who are surrogates pine for their children? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6915056 Do you think that women who are surrogates pine for their children?<br /><br />The vast majority of surrogates are gestational surrogates, meaning it is a donor egg being used, NOT the surrogates egg. This means there is NO biological connection to the child. The biggest reason for this type of surrogacy, in my opinion, is to help prevent the surrogate from feeling the... Thu, 25 Jun 2009 07:57:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6915056 Answer to CSI, CSI Miami, CSI NY, NCIS, Law and Order, et. al.... Which is best? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6010765 CSI, CSI Miami, CSI NY, NCIS, Law and Order, et. al.... Which is best?<br /><br />I&#039;ve gone through phases of watching (and enjoying) most of these shows. For awhile, it was Law and Order - Criminal Intent. Vincent D&#039;Onofrio is a fantastic actor, and the part he plays on CI is brilliant and at the same time unstable. Of all the CSI&#039;s, I only watch the... Tue, 24 Mar 2009 13:36:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6010765 Answer to Is there nothing you can take to get the depo needle out of your system so you can concieve http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4608154 Is there nothing you can take to get the depo needle out of your system so you can concieve<br /><br />Umm...little confused here - If you have the Depo shot, there&#039;s no needle anywhere in your body. If you mean &quot;get the medication&quot; out of your system - then the answer is no. You just have to wait it out. From the time you get the shot, it&#039;s only 3 months until you are... Sun, 16 Nov 2008 12:42:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4608154 Answer to I found out after I had my son that my uterus has a wall down the center. Resulting, that i have two chambers. And my question is, is there a procedure that i could have done to have it removed? And does medicade cover it? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4608136 I found out after I had my son that my uterus has a wall down the center. Resulting, that i have two chambers. And my question is, is there a procedure that i could have done to have it removed? And does medicade cover it?<br /><br />I think what you&#039;re referring to is a bicornuate uterus, meaning two &quot;horns.&quot; It is not so much a wall, as it doesn&#039;t split it into two sides, as its more like a heart shape, with the top point of the &quot;heart&quot; coming quite far down. See the image here: ... Sun, 16 Nov 2008 12:40:02 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4608136 Answer to I have been told that there is not allot of fluid around my unborn baby, i have another scan tomorrow. What should i expect to happen? I am 38 weeks gone. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4608012 I have been told that there is not allot of fluid around my unborn baby, i have another scan tomorrow. What should i expect to happen? I am 38 weeks gone.<br /><br />If the scan shows a lack of adequate amniotic fluid, and you are term (38 weeks is term), you can expect that your doctor will want to induce your labor. Pack your bags ! Sun, 16 Nov 2008 12:25:02 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4608012 Answer to Has anyone actually had their husband prosecuted for rape and had him sentenced & incarcerated? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4293853 Has anyone actually had their husband prosecuted for rape and had him sentenced & incarcerated?<br /><br />Absolutely. Hence the expression &quot;No means NO.&quot; It applies to men AND women, married or not. If a woman does not want to have sex with her husband, and tells him no, and he forces himself on her, it IS rape. It&#039;s pretty rare for a woman to go through the legal system on that... Thu, 16 Oct 2008 08:56:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4293853 Answer to Why doesn't my boyfriend show affection and have sex with me if he loves me? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4293806 Why doesn't my boyfriend show affection and have sex with me if he loves me?<br /><br />First, and foremost: SEX does NOT equal LOVE. You need to work on improving your self-esteem if you think having sex means someone loves you. Some guys (particularly when they are still quite young) are not comfortable being affectionate. When you are alone together, just tell him that... Thu, 16 Oct 2008 08:50:14 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4293806 Answer to If a women has HPV it shows that she is sexually active at a young age so would that not help my case,, even when it happened at a party and we had been drinking? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4293780 If a women has HPV it shows that she is sexually active at a young age so would that not help my case,, even when it happened at a party and we had been drinking?<br /><br />Okay, what is the question here ? Having HPV does not indicate that someone has had sex at a young age. It shows you have HPV. Of course, if you ARE still young, and have HPV, then yes, you are correct. Though you didn&#039;t really ask a question, let&#039;s go over what we&#039;ve... Thu, 16 Oct 2008 08:47:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4293780 Answer to I am 23 yr old male.i do mastrubate too much.....almost 4 times in a week.i want to know will it effect on my future sex life and my health..... and does mastrubate can reduce or enlarge the size of penis? pz help me http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4293742 I am 23 yr old male.i do mastrubate too much.....almost 4 times in a week.i want to know will it effect on my future sex life and my health..... and does mastrubate can reduce or enlarge the size of penis? pz help me<br /><br />Well, in my experience, masturbation enlarges, then shrinks, the size of one&#039;s penis, typically in that order. Okay, jokes aside - &quot;Too much&quot; in terms of masturbation would typically mean hurting yourself - rubbing your penis raw, for example, or if you find you don&#039;t... Thu, 16 Oct 2008 08:42:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4293742 Answer to Who sings this song, with the lyrics " I bought you, I own the right/rights to let you go" "to destroy you"? it came on the radio station 98 KUPD in AZ on Saturday I think http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4293675 Who sings this song, with the lyrics " I bought you, I own the right/rights to let you go" "to destroy you"? it came on the radio station 98 KUPD in AZ on Saturday I think<br /><br />Innerpartysystem -The song is called &quot;Don&#039;t Stop&quot; The road I walk is paved in gold To glorify my platinum soul I&#039;ll buy my way to talk to God So he can live with what I&#039;m not. The selfish blood runs through my vains I gave up everything for fame I am the life... Thu, 16 Oct 2008 08:32:28 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4293675 Answer to I need serious help.. On my game Virtual Villagers; A new Home, I dragged a master builder to the spot were the treasure is supposed to be, and the screen said "is something buried here?'' How do I make my dude dig? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4249264 I need serious help.. On my game Virtual Villagers; A new Home, I dragged a master builder to the spot were the treasure is supposed to be, and the screen said "is something buried here?'' How do I make my dude dig?<br /><br />You need to have reached Level 3 in both Construction and Science (with Tech Points) before your master builder will dig. You&#039;ve found the right spot if you get that message, but you may have to drag him there many times before he begins to dig, do don&#039;t give up ! In one of my games... Sat, 11 Oct 2008 12:46:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4249264 Answer to What is the average weight of a thirteen year old girl that's height is 5'4? My child may be overweight and is constantly putting herself down about her weight, she wants ways to help her be healthier. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4249235 What is the average weight of a thirteen year old girl that's height is 5'4? My child may be overweight and is constantly putting herself down about her weight, she wants ways to help her be healthier.<br /><br />Approximately 90 to 130 pounds. Please see the link below for a BMI calculator for teens. http://kidshealth.org/teen/food_fitness/dieting/weight_height.html Obesity in children is on the rise, and most parents of overweight children think their children are at a healthy weight. There is a... Sat, 11 Oct 2008 12:42:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4249235 Answer to Does anyone know the name of a collection of bug books. it was a cute collection of books about the land of bugs and I am trying to find the name of it so I can order them for my son.?? they are 2 sided and it always started with a rhyme. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4167510 Does anyone know the name of a collection of bug books. it was a cute collection of books about the land of bugs and I am trying to find the name of it so I can order them for my son.?? they are 2 sided and it always started with a rhyme.<br /><br />There could be a lot of books that match that, but one that fits, and that I personally love, is a series by David Kirk, the Miss Spider series. Below is a link to a boxed set of books from the collection. They have gorgeous, brightly colored pictures, and are wonderful board books. ... Thu, 02 Oct 2008 06:44:10 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4167510 Answer to I need feedback from young ppl about what to do re: 18 y.o. freshman college daughter who seems to be turning to ice, acting in uncaring ways not calling, emailing, and being rude when we visit (she agreed we should come for a day!). http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4167444 I need feedback from young ppl about what to do re: 18 y.o. freshman college daughter who seems to be turning to ice, acting in uncaring ways not calling, emailing, and being rude when we visit (she agreed we should come for a day!).<br /><br />I&#039;m worried about this happening too (they get a little more distant as they go through the teen years, anyway) - if you find a solution, or even figure out what &quot;the problem&quot; is, let me know !!! Thu, 02 Oct 2008 06:31:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4167444 Answer to How do a doctor count the weeks you been pregnant, do the first week start one day after sex? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378829 How do a doctor count the weeks you been pregnant, do the first week start one day after sex?<br /><br />Doctors consider the first day AFTER the first day of your last period as the first day of pregnancy. The reasoning for this is that there is really no sure way to know exactly when you got pregnant, but the day you got your period you were obviously NOT pregnant, so that was the last day they... Wed, 02 Jul 2008 00:08:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378829 Answer to I am taking cleansing tea, can this affect pregnancy? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378820 I am taking cleansing tea, can this affect pregnancy?<br /><br />Yes. Herbs are not regulated by the FDA (Food and Drug Administration), therefore there is not adequate information on them for use during pregnancy. Therefore no herbal supplements should automatically be considered &quot;safe&quot; just because they are &quot;only herbs.&quot; Always check... Wed, 02 Jul 2008 00:06:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378820 Answer to I'm 9 weeks pregnant and i get sharp pains in my uterus when i sneeze or just because why is this? and i feel butterflys or movment but i cant feel kicks yet what is this? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378810 I'm 9 weeks pregnant and i get sharp pains in my uterus when i sneeze or just because why is this? and i feel butterflys or movment but i cant feel kicks yet what is this?<br /><br />Typically women do experience painful twinges in the abdominal area during pregnancy - it&#039;s usually your ligaments stretching to accomodate a growing uterus. As for the fluttering, it&#039;s not common this early in your pregnancy, but it IS possible. It&#039;s not actually... Wed, 02 Jul 2008 00:03:22 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378810 Answer to Can you get pregnant with the 3 year implant in your arm? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378790 Can you get pregnant with the 3 year implant in your arm?<br /><br />Yes. No method of birth control is 100% effective, except not having sex. With Implanon (the 3-year implant), it is 99% effective, which means that approximately 1 out of every 100 women using it for a year will get pregnant. Please see the Implanon website for more information: ... Tue, 01 Jul 2008 23:58:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378790 Answer to I just had a baby bout 6 wks ago... 5 days ago i had unprotected sex and just got the iud placed today wut r the chances that i will become pregnant http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378781 I just had a baby bout 6 wks ago... 5 days ago i had unprotected sex and just got the iud placed today wut r the chances that i will become pregnant<br /><br />The first thing you should do is call the clinic where you had the IUD put in, and ask if they did a pregnancy test BEFORE they inserted the IUD - that should be common practice. They usually do it because inserting an IUD would typically cause you to miscarry, because the IUD takes up most... Tue, 01 Jul 2008 23:55:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378781 Answer to I am 6 weeks post-partum and was just prescribed the pill.... my period has not started back up again but i wanted to know if it was ok to start my birth control before my period? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378755 I am 6 weeks post-partum and was just prescribed the pill.... my period has not started back up again but i wanted to know if it was ok to start my birth control before my period?<br /><br />Absolutely. When you would get your period post-partum varies a great deal from woman to woman. Starting the pill will basically force your body back into it&#039;s regular &quot;cycle.&quot; And since you don&#039;t have to have your period yet to get pregnant, it&#039;s a very good idea to... Tue, 01 Jul 2008 23:49:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378755 Answer to Is there a chance to get pregnant while im having sex in my 3rd day period, then my partner used a withdrawal method? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378719 Is there a chance to get pregnant while im having sex in my 3rd day period, then my partner used a withdrawal method?<br /><br />If you have sex, there is ALWAYS a possibility you can get pregnant. Withdrawal is not a method of birth control. Semen, and therefore sperm, leak out of the penis in small amounts long before ejaculation. And with millions of sperm in just a few drops, there&#039;s a huge chance of... Tue, 01 Jul 2008 23:40:11 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378719 Answer to Has anyone ever passed out when they were in labor? I'm talking about the woman, I know men pass out sometimes too! LOL But, if you did, what would happen? Do they have to put you in an emergency ceserian or do they let your body take it's time? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378710 Has anyone ever passed out when they were in labor? I'm talking about the woman, I know men pass out sometimes too! LOL But, if you did, what would happen? Do they have to put you in an emergency ceserian or do they let your body take it's time?<br /><br />I wouldn&#039;t say it&#039;s common, but it CAN happen. And when you faint, it&#039;s not typically a long-term thing. You aren&#039;t in a coma, so no, they wouldn&#039;t rush you off to surgery. Basically, the pain of labor would wake you right back up again. You do keep having... Tue, 01 Jul 2008 23:36:41 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378710 Answer to I started to have that cloudy, milky discharge on June 22nd. I had sex on June 23rd. And on the 24th I felt slight cramps.. Like a pinching in my lower abdomen.. I was told that feeling comes with ovulation. What are the chances of being pregnant? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378699 I started to have that cloudy, milky discharge on June 22nd. I had sex on June 23rd. And on the 24th I felt slight cramps.. Like a pinching in my lower abdomen.. I was told that feeling comes with ovulation. What are the chances of being pregnant?<br /><br />First, you shouldn&#039;t have cloudy, milky discharge at the time of ovulation. The discharge at that time should be &quot;egg white&quot; consistency - that is, clear, and stretchy - if you put a blob of it between two fingers, you should be able to stretch it a couple of inches before it... Tue, 01 Jul 2008 23:33:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378699 Answer to I was sterilised 9 days ago and i have now discovered im pregnant and would have been wen they sterilised me does anybody know what effect this would have on the baby considering i will only be about 4 weeks gone http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378691 I was sterilised 9 days ago and i have now discovered im pregnant and would have been wen they sterilised me does anybody know what effect this would have on the baby considering i will only be about 4 weeks gone<br /><br />I am wondering why you weren&#039;t tested for pregnancy before your procedure. Typically, you would be. In fact, I&#039;m shocked you weren&#039;t. Not really the point, but if you are still pregnant, than you shouldn&#039;t have any issues caused by the tubal ligation. The procedure is on... Tue, 01 Jul 2008 23:26:40 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378691 Answer to Two years ago I got a DNC and I went through a hard time suicidal thoughts and all. Now my boyfriend and I are going to get married in a year and he wants kids but, I don't. Now he's mad. What should i do? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378661 Two years ago I got a DNC and I went through a hard time suicidal thoughts and all. Now my boyfriend and I are going to get married in a year and he wants kids but, I don't. Now he's mad. What should i do?<br /><br />My first thought is that you should try to get some counseling - both by youself, and perhaps as a couple. The decision to have (or not have) kids is one of the biggest a couple can make, so that&#039;s something you both need to agree on long before you get married. Perhaps therapy can... Tue, 01 Jul 2008 23:17:44 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3378661 Answer to I am 42 and had a tubal 5 years ago what are the chances that I could become pregneant again at my age? I was ver fertile before I had it done. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3293685 I am 42 and had a tubal 5 years ago what are the chances that I could become pregneant again at my age? I was ver fertile before I had it done.<br /><br />The chances, I&#039;m sorry to tell you, are not very good. There are a number of factors that determine each woman&#039;s odds, but they vary from 20 to 70%. Age is a major factor, with women over 40 having the worst odds. Here is a good link with a lot of information on the subject: ... Sat, 21 Jun 2008 04:36:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3293685 Answer to I ran out of b/c pills for about a week,& my bf &I ended up having sex(like three days after my period)&now I am showing symptoms of implantation bleeding.At first I thot I was starting my period(two weeks early)but its2lite&is on&off.any thoughts? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2752773 I ran out of b/c pills for about a week,& my bf &I ended up having sex(like three days after my period)&now I am showing symptoms of implantation bleeding.At first I thot I was starting my period(two weeks early)but its2lite&is on&off.any thoughts?<br /><br />I am a little confused - if you &quot;ran out of pills,&quot; I would assume you&#039;d finished your pill pack, which would mean it was time for your period anyway. If you lost your pills before your pill pack was complete, then this makes a little more sense. However, ANY time you stop taking... Tue, 15 Apr 2008 06:44:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2752773 Answer to As children why do people fear the dark? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2752696 As children why do people fear the dark?<br /><br />When babies reach toddlerhood, they have developed enough experience to know that the dark covers up things that are still there, even though they can&#039;t see them. At the same time, they have NOT developed enough to understand object constancy, meaning they can imagine that monsters could be... Tue, 15 Apr 2008 06:32:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2752696 Answer to Can you get pregnat with out starting your period? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2752636 Can you get pregnat with out starting your period?<br /><br />Absolutely. Technically, females ovulate about 2 weeks before each period starts - so in theory, you could ovulate before you have your first period. In reality, early menstrual cycles are so sporadic, and not &quot;normal&quot; in the way we know them to be as adults, so you might actually... Tue, 15 Apr 2008 06:19:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2752636 Answer to Our 14 year old daughter keeps asking us to sleep at her boyfriends house. We are constantly saying no to this question and she continues to tell us that all of her friends get to stay at there boyfriends house. Have the times changed that much? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740980 Our 14 year old daughter keeps asking us to sleep at her boyfriends house. We are constantly saying no to this question and she continues to tell us that all of her friends get to stay at there boyfriends house. Have the times changed that much?<br /><br />I had my first daughter young - pregnant at 17, had her just after I turned 18. And I was an excellent student, straight A&#039;s, college scholarships that I didn&#039;t even know what to do with, I had so many - so I know from experience that even &quot;good, smart kids&quot; can get pregnant,... Sun, 13 Apr 2008 20:45:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740980 Answer to I need help to make a little fundraiser.I need it for UNICEF.Any good ideas? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740827 I need help to make a little fundraiser.I need it for UNICEF.Any good ideas?<br /><br />Try RealityCharity.com It is free to register for basically any charitible needs, including non-profits like UNICEF. For a little under $20, they can run a check on you to make sure you are who you say you are, so that people feel safer donating to you. You can run that once, and it&#039;s... Sun, 13 Apr 2008 20:27:26 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740827 Answer to Whose voice was used for the 'Speak & Spell' toy? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740786 Whose voice was used for the 'Speak & Spell' toy?<br /><br />It&#039;s been a long time since I&#039;ve even seen one of them ! If I&#039;m right, you&#039;re talking about the toy from the 80&#039;s...? My memory is fuzzy, but I thought it was a computer voice. Sun, 13 Apr 2008 20:23:39 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740786 Answer to I looked 6 toes up and i have not found what that means.and will she have to have them removed http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740774 I looked 6 toes up and i have not found what that means.and will she have to have them removed<br /><br />Do you mean your child has an extra toe on one foot ? Are you pregnant, or have you had the baby yet ? Since I don&#039;t know the answers, I will just generalize. Having an extra toe (Polydactyly) doesn&#039;t &quot;mean&quot; anything. Sometimes it just happens. If the extra toe is... Sun, 13 Apr 2008 20:21:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740774 Answer to I am 39 weeks,the baby is 4/5 engaged what does this mean and how long till labour starts? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740735 I am 39 weeks,the baby is 4/5 engaged what does this mean and how long till labour starts?<br /><br />The bad news is, regardless of how &quot;engaged&quot; the baby is, you never know when labor will start until it does. Clearly, since this post is a bit old, you&#039;ve already had the baby, but for future reference and other readers: the 4/5 that you mentioned is called &quot;station.&quot;... Sun, 13 Apr 2008 20:16:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740735 Answer to What does the abbreviation on AIM "mpts" mean? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740703 What does the abbreviation on AIM "mpts" mean?<br /><br />I&#039;m afraid that&#039;s one I can&#039;t figure out - perhaps it was a typo though ? For future reference, here is a link to really thorough list of abbreviations. http://www.missingkids.com/adcouncil/pdf/lingo/onlinelingo.pdf Sun, 13 Apr 2008 20:12:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740703 Answer to Does anybody have any positive comments about taking the pill clomid? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740670 Does anybody have any positive comments about taking the pill clomid?<br /><br />I wasn&#039;t really aware that there were any negative things about it, other than needing fertility drugs can make you feel a little sad. Clomid kind of has a reputation for causing multiple births, but more recent studies show that the number of multiples is actually 8-10% of patients that... Sun, 13 Apr 2008 20:08:20 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740670 Answer to My son turns 15 and he wants to change his first and last name should i let him? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740649 My son turns 15 and he wants to change his first and last name should i let him?<br /><br />Well, as far as I know, at 15 he can legally change his name (first and/or last) to whatever he chooses, with your consent. Not that I encourage you to tell him this, if he doesn&#039;t already know it ! Does he have logical reasons for wanting to change his names ? Does he have a name that... Sun, 13 Apr 2008 20:05:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740649 Answer to When was the last time you saw your dad? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740563 When was the last time you saw your dad?<br /><br />About 8 hours ago - I was home sick from work, and he brought me some Ny-Quil, Chloraseptic for my sore throat, and some Oreos, just because he loves me :) Sad to admit, but I&#039;m 32 !!! Sun, 13 Apr 2008 19:55:13 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2740563 Answer to I am trying to get pregant, but it seems that after intercourse I wait at least 20 minutes to get up and feel that my husbands sperm gets out. Would that be a problem to getting pregnant? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2366786 I am trying to get pregant, but it seems that after intercourse I wait at least 20 minutes to get up and feel that my husbands sperm gets out. Would that be a problem to getting pregnant?<br /><br />Nope. If it were, there would be a lot less babies in the world, because that happens to every woman. The sperm themselves are swimming a mad dash to and through the cervix the instant they get set free, so a 20 minute wait is very adequate for them to do their thing. If you DO have a... Tue, 26 Feb 2008 22:51:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2366786 Answer to Was it strange the first time you ever tried to get pregnant? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2366772 Was it strange the first time you ever tried to get pregnant?<br /><br />When you spend years and years doing everything you can to PREVENT pregnancy, it is a bit of an odd thing to suddenly be doing the opposite. We wanted a baby, but not desperately at that point, as we just started thinking about it. So no more birth control - it was a free-for-all, so to speak,... Tue, 26 Feb 2008 22:48:04 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2366772 Answer to What would your porn star name be? (It's the name of your first pet + the street you grew up on.) http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108417 What would your porn star name be? (It's the name of your first pet + the street you grew up on.)<br /><br />Puffy Virginia Oh My God. How did I not know about the &quot;porn name&quot; thing before this moment ?? I would have been going by Puffy Virginia for YEARS... It sounds soooo bad ! Either someone that&#039;s been gettin&#039; hit a little too often, OR a porn star that smokes slim... Tue, 22 Jan 2008 01:14:58 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108417 Answer to What would your Pirate name be? (It's the name of your middle name + your favorite color and your favorite fish) http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108382 What would your Pirate name be? (It's the name of your middle name + your favorite color and your favorite fish)<br /><br />Bella BlueSnapper Though in my opinion, it sounds more like an 80 year old woman that hasn&#039;t done the nasty in a really long time... Tue, 22 Jan 2008 01:06:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108382 Answer to What age will you die, according to this quiz? http://www.findyourfate.com/deathmeter/deathmtr.html http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108357 What age will you die, according to this quiz? http://www.findyourfate.com/deathmeter/deathmtr.html<br /><br />Holy longevity, Batman ! That thing says I&#039;ll live to be 97 !!! Wow, now I can rest easy... Tue, 22 Jan 2008 00:57:15 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108357 Answer to Do you move over for emergency vehicles? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108279 Do you move over for emergency vehicles?<br /><br />I was (pleasantly) suprised to see all &quot;Yes&quot; answers (thank goodness !). I was fearing the worst, I guess. I always move over and stop when I see one coming towards me OR from behind. You never know if someone is NOT going to, and I don&#039;t want to be in their way when... Tue, 22 Jan 2008 00:29:12 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108279 Answer to Does a person's name come off a sex offender's registry after a certain amount of time has passed if the offender maintains a clean record? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108223 Does a person's name come off a sex offender's registry after a certain amount of time has passed if the offender maintains a clean record?<br /><br />I can&#039;t answer for all states, but I can offer you a little knowledge that will probably cover most states. When you are convicted of a sex crime, you are also given a time on the registry. If your crime is of a certain nature (for example with a weapon, against a child, violent, etc.),... Tue, 22 Jan 2008 00:11:28 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108223 Answer to How come it isn't mandatory that all sex offenders get castrated? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108169 How come it isn't mandatory that all sex offenders get castrated?<br /><br />There are so many crimes that &quot;earn&quot; you the title of Sex Offender. Among them is public urination (in some places). Yes, pulling over and peeing in the ditch can make you a sex offender. So lumping all SO&#039;s together, and saying they should be castrated is a bit ridiculous. Mon, 21 Jan 2008 23:58:24 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108169 Answer to My fiance and I stay together he has 2 small dogs and I have three kids he wants his pets to eat in our kitchen. We eat in the dining room and I would prefer for them to eat in the utility room. Am I being selfish or is he for not wanting to compromise? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108150 My fiance and I stay together he has 2 small dogs and I have three kids he wants his pets to eat in our kitchen. We eat in the dining room and I would prefer for them to eat in the utility room. Am I being selfish or is he for not wanting to compromise?<br /><br />Even if you don&#039;t eat in the kitchen, you COOK there. Kitchens need to be sanitary, and I don&#039;t think pets eating there is the most sanitary thing. It won&#039;t KILL you or your family to have pet germs in there, necessarily, but I don&#039;t think it&#039;s selfish of you. If... Mon, 21 Jan 2008 23:54:25 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108150 Answer to What age is considered "advanced maternal age"? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108128 What age is considered "advanced maternal age"?<br /><br />Most doctors consider 35 and older to be advanced maternal age. Scary, considering I am 32 and thinking (ok, very slightly considering) about having one more baby at some point in the (not so distant) future. If I wait &quot;too long,&quot; I&#039;ll have that stamped in red ink all over my... Mon, 21 Jan 2008 23:51:08 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108128 Answer to I'm 13. I'm bulimic. I'm not one of those extremely skinny bulimic girls. I'm big. Is anyone else bulimic? Are you proud of it or ashamed of it? I myself am in between. Does you know any tricks to make it easier to puke? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108097 I'm 13. I'm bulimic. I'm not one of those extremely skinny bulimic girls. I'm big. Is anyone else bulimic? Are you proud of it or ashamed of it? I myself am in between. Does you know any tricks to make it easier to puke?<br /><br />Yes, other people are bulimic. My sister used to be bulimic. Now she&#039;s dead. (And no, I am not kidding.) An eating disorder is not something anyone should be proud of. It&#039;s something you&#039;ve already acknowledged, so the next step is getting help. You need to tell a parent or... Mon, 21 Jan 2008 23:43:54 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2108097 Answer to I'm a new student in the nursing program, can any nurses tell me how to survive it? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2071064 I'm a new student in the nursing program, can any nurses tell me how to survive it?<br /><br />Coffee, p.o. TID, STAT !!! Thu, 17 Jan 2008 05:12:48 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2071064 Answer to Can you change your eye color without contacts or surgery? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2068834 Can you change your eye color without contacts or surgery?<br /><br />You can&#039;t. You can temorarily change them with contacts, but that&#039;s it. Wed, 16 Jan 2008 19:30:34 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2068834 Answer to Y is it that a woman can skip out on child support and her children for years at a time and still be given chance after chance by the courts, but if a man does it he is quick to end up in jail or lose all rights to the children? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2068729 Y is it that a woman can skip out on child support and her children for years at a time and still be given chance after chance by the courts, but if a man does it he is quick to end up in jail or lose all rights to the children?<br /><br />Actually visitation and custody are technically not to be linked with child support. That means even if you don&#039;t pay support, the main custodial parent (nor the courts) cannot withold visitation priveledges. However, if you are legally required to pay support, and you don&#039;t, at... Wed, 16 Jan 2008 19:17:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2068729 Answer to Do you think its more likely i will go into labor on the full moon today as i am almost 29 weeks pregnant http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062641 Do you think its more likely i will go into labor on the full moon today as i am almost 29 weeks pregnant<br /><br />I sure as heck hope not, because the odds of your baby survivng being born 11 weeks early (with no helth issues) are pretty slim. Wed, 16 Jan 2008 00:59:02 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062641 Answer to How much do you know about birthing babies? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062638 How much do you know about birthing babies?<br /><br />Awww...come on - the correct answer is: &quot;I don&#039;t know nothin&#039; &#039;bout birthin&#039; no babies, Miss Scarlett !!&quot; In REAL life, more than I wish I did ! Wed, 16 Jan 2008 00:57:21 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062638 Answer to Is giving birth to your third child much easier then the first and second child or would you say it is just as painful? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062623 Is giving birth to your third child much easier then the first and second child or would you say it is just as painful?<br /><br />I think that the pain tends to be about the same. What changes is a couple of things: You know what to expect, basically - taking away your fear of the unknown can really make childbirth less daunting, and therefore it seems easier. Also, the more babies you have, the shorter your labor and... Wed, 16 Jan 2008 00:52:29 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062623 Answer to I am planning for my second kid. I would like to have a boy. Any methods to make sure that, it will be a boy? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062617 I am planning for my second kid. I would like to have a boy. Any methods to make sure that, it will be a boy?<br /><br />Actually there is ONLY one way to guarantee the baby&#039;s sex. It&#039;s called preimplantation genetic diagnosis, or PGD. And it&#039;s not used in &quot;natural conception,&quot; only in IVF. To keep it simple, a woman&#039;s eggs are removed from her ovaries, fertilized with the sperm... Wed, 16 Jan 2008 00:49:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062617 Answer to My waters broke in a trickle last time I went into labour. Does this mean that when they go this time, they are more likely to go in a trickle than a gush or is there no way of telling? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062229 My waters broke in a trickle last time I went into labour. Does this mean that when they go this time, they are more likely to go in a trickle than a gush or is there no way of telling?<br /><br />The movie-idea of your water breaking in a gush is usually not typical. The majority of the time, it trickles out. The exception is if you are in bed when it breaks. The reason is, when you are upright, the baby&#039;s head is pressed down farther, acting as a &quot;stopper&quot; of sorts.... Tue, 15 Jan 2008 23:00:09 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062229 Answer to So, my wife and I are expecting our first son... She is scared about the circumsision.... She does want it done but doesnt want to be the one to change diapers until healed... Any advice? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062211 So, my wife and I are expecting our first son... She is scared about the circumsision.... She does want it done but doesnt want to be the one to change diapers until healed... Any advice?<br /><br />I understand this one ! In our rural area, virtually all babies are circumsized (I work in the hospital, so I know this as a fact). It was one factor I considered if I were to have a boy (if I thought my child could handle. My husband was 100% in favor of it, so that was another factor. My... Tue, 15 Jan 2008 22:55:53 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062211 Answer to Who did you have in the delivery room when you had your children? I want my mom there, I don't want my mother in law there, but my husband does.... ITS NOT HIS BUISNESS GOING TO BE SHOWN OFF! http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062122 Who did you have in the delivery room when you had your children? I want my mom there, I don't want my mother in law there, but my husband does.... ITS NOT HIS BUISNESS GOING TO BE SHOWN OFF!<br /><br />I just wanted to add that if you can&#039;t get your husband to agree with you on this matter, PLEASE tell your nurses immediately when you arrive to the hospital about your preferences. Let them be the &quot;bad guys&quot; and tell your mother-in-law that she needs to wait in the waiting room... Tue, 15 Jan 2008 22:30:01 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062122 Answer to Not that long, I think that women were given enemas before giving birth. Can you still opt for one if you want, to avoid accidents during labour? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062110 Not that long, I think that women were given enemas before giving birth. Can you still opt for one if you want, to avoid accidents during labour?<br /><br />I think that in larger areas, you&#039;ll have more &quot;forward thinking&quot; doctors - ones that know you don&#039;t &quot;need&quot; an enema or an episiotomy as a routine part of birth. In smaller areas, doctors prefer to use &quot;tried and true&quot; methods - if it&#039;s worked in the... Tue, 15 Jan 2008 22:26:59 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062110 Answer to Is it true that once you have given birth you forget the pain because you are so elated by your newborn baby? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062083 Is it true that once you have given birth you forget the pain because you are so elated by your newborn baby?<br /><br />Well, birth hurts, because you have something the size of a watermelon passing through a tube the size of a toilet paper roll. So when the baby is OUT, you don&#039;t have that pain anymore. You will still be sore - but it&#039;s more like &quot;tender&quot; rather than horrific pain. I... Tue, 15 Jan 2008 22:18:08 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062083 Answer to My new born baby was born with 6 toes on his left foot. Doctors suggest that everyting is ok, but I want it removed. Any thoughts? BTW it is a second big toe. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062050 My new born baby was born with 6 toes on his left foot. Doctors suggest that everyting is ok, but I want it removed. Any thoughts? BTW it is a second big toe.<br /><br />Well, in my opinion, the body is made the way it is for functionality. If you add or subtract basic parts, it functions at a different level than it typically does (usually at a lesser level). Over time, you can acclimate to these changes - if you lose a finger, you learn to write a different... Tue, 15 Jan 2008 22:10:13 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062050 Answer to Women,if you were pregnant,and about to give birth,would you rather give birth naturally,or have a c-section? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062005 Women,if you were pregnant,and about to give birth,would you rather give birth naturally,or have a c-section?<br /><br />I have had two babies - and I know in the middle of pushing, when the pain was so overwhelming I thought &quot;I just can&#039;t DO this !!&quot; - it&#039;s easy to just say, Oh my GOD, just CUT IT OUT OF ME !! And believe me, I said it ! But I knew in my SANE mind that c-sections should... Tue, 15 Jan 2008 22:00:23 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2062005 Answer to For Moms planning not to have more kids... do you really not want another child, or can't stand the thought of enduring another pregnancy? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2061972 For Moms planning not to have more kids... do you really not want another child, or can't stand the thought of enduring another pregnancy?<br /><br />I actually LOVED being pregnant. While nobody is going to be thrilled at the idea of gaining weight, I truly enjoyed pregnancy. I am not a religious person, but I feel that creating life is really miraculous. I mean, two invisible to the eye CELLS join, and voila, you have a baby 9 months... Tue, 15 Jan 2008 21:51:11 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2061972 Answer to Can birthcontol throw off a pregnancy test, like make it say your pregnant if your not? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2061942 Can birthcontol throw off a pregnancy test, like make it say your pregnant if your not?<br /><br />No. The only medication that would do that is one that contains hCG (the pregnancy hormone), which is used for such things as fertility treatment, or something such as phenothiazine (used in anti-psychotic medications). The following link has some information on other possible causes of a... Tue, 15 Jan 2008 21:42:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2061942 Answer to I had unprotected sex right before i was supposed to get my period. i was late but i got it, but i heard you could bleed while your pregnant. should i take a test or am i just being paranoid? is it possible i had a miscarriage because i have been having s http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2061867 I had unprotected sex right before i was supposed to get my period. i was late but i got it, but i heard you could bleed while your pregnant. should i take a test or am i just being paranoid? is it possible i had a miscarriage because i have been having s<br /><br />Theoretically, it&#039;s not possible to have a period while you&#039;re pregnant - the cervix is &quot;sealed shut&quot; with a mucous plug (to prevent bacteria from entering and harming the baby) very early in pregnancy. However, you can &quot;spot&quot; - that can be caused by implantation of... Tue, 15 Jan 2008 21:28:54 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2061867 Answer to Why do every parent think, even the worst, that they like their child? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1650368 Why do every parent think, even the worst, that they like their child?<br /><br />They don&#039;t. But as a parent, one NEEDS to tell their children that, no matter what, they are loved. I have a 14 year old daughter, and at this point in her life, I DO NOT LIKE HER about 90% of the time. But I always love her. Think of it like this - if you&#039;re... Mon, 05 Nov 2007 04:24:26 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1650368 Answer to On pill for a month, started 3 days after my period.Had unprotected sex with BF 2 pills before pack was done. Could i be pregant? Didnt miss any pills on the pack. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1650346 On pill for a month, started 3 days after my period.Had unprotected sex with BF 2 pills before pack was done. Could i be pregant? Didnt miss any pills on the pack.<br /><br />The answer to this is the same as the answer to EVERY question regarding sex and possibility of pregnancy. IF YOU HAVE SEX, YOU CAN GET PREGNANT. Period. Whether you&#039;re on the Pill, the shot, the patch, using condoms or a combination of these items, YOU CAN STILL GET PREGNANT. Other... Mon, 05 Nov 2007 04:14:45 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1650346 Answer to With my last (3rd) birth the nurses checked me WAY to much! Can I refuse it sometimes? I was thinking of just having them check when I get to the hospital and then when I feel the urge to push- this is my 4th live birth...what do you think? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1616209 With my last (3rd) birth the nurses checked me WAY to much! Can I refuse it sometimes? I was thinking of just having them check when I get to the hospital and then when I feel the urge to push- this is my 4th live birth...what do you think?<br /><br />I have to discuss both sides of this situation to give you a better idea of what you can and should do. Since you have a fair amount of experience here, don&#039;t take this the wrong way - I think more information is better than less, that&#039;s just me ! If you are comfortable talking to... Wed, 31 Oct 2007 02:17:13 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1616209 Answer to What woluld be your first thought if you crashed your Ferrari into your dad's Lamborghini? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1616179 What woluld be your first thought if you crashed your Ferrari into your dad's Lamborghini?<br /><br />If my family could afford those cars, I somehow doubt I would give a crap that I&#039;d crashed one into the other. I&#039;d get my drunk @ss out of the wreck, go grab the keys to the Bentley, and tell my bad I was headed to &quot;rehab.&quot; It worked for Lindsay Lohan, right ? Wed, 31 Oct 2007 01:56:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1616179 Answer to 7 and a bit weeks till xmas ...are you excited? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1616168 7 and a bit weeks till xmas ...are you excited?<br /><br />I am soooo glad that I am not the only one that starts the &quot;countdown to Christmas&quot; this early ! I love Christmas and everything that goes along with the season, especially the whole &quot;holiday spirit&quot; thing. So it&#039;s more than easy for me to say &quot;Yes ! I am... Wed, 31 Oct 2007 01:48:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1616168 Answer to I have supported my daughter & her 2 kids 85% of the time for the last 9 years (they live with me). She hasn't worked & now she is trying to find work. I have claimed her 2 kids for the last 9 years, so if she does start working NOW will she be able to? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1587519 I have supported my daughter & her 2 kids 85% of the time for the last 9 years (they live with me). She hasn't worked & now she is trying to find work. I have claimed her 2 kids for the last 9 years, so if she does start working NOW will she be able to?<br /><br />Definitely give an IRS representative a call. This is something tax prepaparers can advise you on, but they can also form opinions about it, and may not be accurate, so I&#039;d definitely call the IRS. However, it&#039;s my instinct to think that a parent most likely will have the right to... Thu, 25 Oct 2007 23:43:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1587519 Answer to Upon arriving late for work, i was told that i must work the late closing shift or i "might as well go home". now they said i can keep my job if i take a pay cut. is this legal? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1587452 Upon arriving late for work, i was told that i must work the late closing shift or i "might as well go home". now they said i can keep my job if i take a pay cut. is this legal?<br /><br />In most states, it&#039;s not legal to cut an employers rate of pay to penalize them for anything they&#039;ve done. However, do consider that when you are late for work, you are inconveniencing others, and hurting their business. So they are probably pretty pissed off at you, and this may be... Thu, 25 Oct 2007 23:35:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1587452 Answer to If you get arrested for the night for protesting, do you have to report it when applying for jobs? This didn't happen to me, it happened to a friend of mine btw. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1587444 If you get arrested for the night for protesting, do you have to report it when applying for jobs? This didn't happen to me, it happened to a friend of mine btw.<br /><br />It depends on how the question is phrased. If they ask &quot;have you ever been arrested ?&quot; then you would need to answer honestly. But I would definitely put right there on the application that it was for protesting, so they don&#039;t immediately disregard you. If they asked &quot;Have... Thu, 25 Oct 2007 23:27:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1587444 Answer to What are the laws about an employer firing me before returning from maternity leave http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1587417 What are the laws about an employer firing me before returning from maternity leave<br /><br />Unless you commited whatever your employer deems &quot;gross misconduct,&quot; it&#039;s typically illegal to fire someone while they are on a legitimate leave of absence. If your employer has paid maternity leave, it will be a different course of action than if you are using Family Medical... Thu, 25 Oct 2007 23:20:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1587417 Answer to Do you thik stacy and cliton are having a secret relationship http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1587252 Do you thik stacy and cliton are having a secret relationship<br /><br />No. Last time I checked, gay men do not sleep with women. A pity though, because he&#039;s adorable. Thu, 25 Oct 2007 22:32:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1587252 Answer to What was Donald Trump's Mother's maiden name http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1587211 What was Donald Trump's Mother's maiden name<br /><br />McLeod. Thu, 25 Oct 2007 22:18:39 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1587211 Answer to Did Rock Hudson and Sidney Poitier ever make a film together? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1587202 Did Rock Hudson and Sidney Poitier ever make a film together?<br /><br />Yes. It&#039;s called &quot;Something of Value,&quot; released in 1957. Hudson plays Peter, and Poitier plays Kimani. A plot summary can be found here: http://imdb.com/title/tt0050993/plotsummary Thu, 25 Oct 2007 22:16:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1587202 Answer to Is castration available for people who want to lose their sex drives and what are the side effects, both positive and negative? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1581648 Is castration available for people who want to lose their sex drives and what are the side effects, both positive and negative?<br /><br />Actually, what&#039;s more commonly done today is called chemical castration. As a previous poster mentioned, it&#039;s typically done to sexual predators to control sex drive. What is done is men are put on the Depo-Provera (birth control) shot - the female hormones decrease their sex drive.... Thu, 25 Oct 2007 02:41:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1581648 Answer to I am on The Pill, with my partner for 2 years, 100% sure of no STDs or STIs. Should we have 'unprotected' sex, although I am on The Pill? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1581634 I am on The Pill, with my partner for 2 years, 100% sure of no STDs or STIs. Should we have 'unprotected' sex, although I am on The Pill?<br /><br />This is a decision only you can make, because it&#039;s only YOUR life that depends on this decision. I&#039;ve lived with my fiance for 6 years - he&#039;s as clean as the driven snow, a very sweet, shy farm boy with less prior partners than I had before I was 18. I MADE him get tested for... Thu, 25 Oct 2007 02:34:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1581634 Answer to I am a single parent i dont understand when dating some men think i only want someone to help raise my kid why do they say that is it because they have a problem with me having a kid???? i just dont understand!!!! http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1581599 I am a single parent i dont understand when dating some men think i only want someone to help raise my kid why do they say that is it because they have a problem with me having a kid???? i just dont understand!!!!<br /><br />Been there, done that. How you handle this depends on your situation. Are you looking for a long-term partner ? Or are you just interested in dating right now, just having someone to spend time with, and have fun with ? If it&#039;s the second one, then I would say VERY early on (first or... Thu, 25 Oct 2007 02:04:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1581599 Answer to I had an affair with a married man. We both divorced and are now in a relationship. He has three daughters, 12, 9, and 2. His 12 year old knows about the affair and hates me. I want her acceptance and for her to see I'm a good person, what do I do? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1581591 I had an affair with a married man. We both divorced and are now in a relationship. He has three daughters, 12, 9, and 2. His 12 year old knows about the affair and hates me. I want her acceptance and for her to see I'm a good person, what do I do?<br /><br />Well, my fiance has a similar story that I thought I&#039;d share to tell you how badly this COULD go if NOT handled well. My fiance&#039;s father was having an affair for years, and when it came out, he was 13. And, as in your situation, he was very angry at the woman his father had the... Thu, 25 Oct 2007 01:52:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1581591 Answer to Is it ok that sometimes I feel disappointed when just the two of us have plans together and it doesn't work out because his ex needs him to watch his daughter when it is her weekend to have her? I love her very much and feel guilty that i feel this way. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1581554 Is it ok that sometimes I feel disappointed when just the two of us have plans together and it doesn't work out because his ex needs him to watch his daughter when it is her weekend to have her? I love her very much and feel guilty that i feel this way.<br /><br />First, it&#039;s good you can acknowledge that you feel this way - denying it can end up blowing up in your face. But asking for opinions on here is probably not your best solution - perhaps bringing this up with your boyfriend would be wise. However, I do want to say that it&#039;s very... Thu, 25 Oct 2007 01:16:36 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1581554 Answer to My son is one year old and my wife is pragnant week ago so my son is taking the her milk is there any harm to take this milk if yes what is that and if not then when we have to stop his milk from her mother breast. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1576175 My son is one year old and my wife is pragnant week ago so my son is taking the her milk is there any harm to take this milk if yes what is that and if not then when we have to stop his milk from her mother breast.<br /><br />No, there is no harm at any point in the pregnancy in a child still drinking breast milk. However, breastfeeding or pumping breastmilk does cause some wear on the body - it makes you a little tired, and so does pregnancy, so it&#039;s a double whopper on her body. As long as she has enough... Wed, 24 Oct 2007 04:30:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1576175 Answer to The have been alot of recalls on toys. Do you remember when Teletubbies had their dolls recall because of the foul and homosexual language a disgruntled employee inserted? I still have the Po doll in the plastic. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1575974 The have been alot of recalls on toys. Do you remember when Teletubbies had their dolls recall because of the foul and homosexual language a disgruntled employee inserted? I still have the Po doll in the plastic.<br /><br />You know, I was never sure that that whole thing wasn&#039;t just a hoax or urban legend. I still have all of the original Teletubbies my daughter played with (not sure WHY exactly, but still...), and I think now, as I thought then, that it was silly. The Po doll says phrases she was heard... Wed, 24 Oct 2007 02:31:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1575974 Answer to Where can i find moms group to chat on line http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1575963 Where can i find moms group to chat on line<br /><br />I am sure there are a ton of them, but one I like is www.babyfit.com You can choose a thread by your child&#039;s birth month and year, so you are chatting with moms of children the same age as your child (very helpful for age-related concerns), OR by state, so you can find local moms. ... Wed, 24 Oct 2007 02:20:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1575963 Answer to I just found out after 11 years who my daughters biological father is. I have been her sole provider for those 11 years. How far back would her biological father have to pay in support. I live in the state of Indiana. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1575959 I just found out after 11 years who my daughters biological father is. I have been her sole provider for those 11 years. How far back would her biological father have to pay in support. I live in the state of Indiana.<br /><br />I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but you&#039;re entitled to asolutely NO child support until a support order is enacted. You have to go through all the legal channels (paperwork, court orders, etc.), and once the father is served papers, THEN the ball starts rolling. He will be given an... Wed, 24 Oct 2007 02:17:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1575959 Answer to Why does your gynaecologist leave the room when you get undressed? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1259103 Why does your gynaecologist leave the room when you get undressed?<br /><br />Out of respect for your privacy, basically. Consider this: if you are changing in the locker room, and were given the choice of having everyone watch you, or to be able to do it privately (even though they&#039;d all see you in your swim suit soon enough), which would you choose ? Privately,... Wed, 22 Aug 2007 22:53:04 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1259103 Answer to Who is Gordon Bennett and why is his name used as an expression? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1259096 Who is Gordon Bennett and why is his name used as an expression?<br /><br />There is a really logn article here: http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/gordon-bennett.html It tells about James Gordon Bennett, whom it is thought this expression refers to, and why. Wed, 22 Aug 2007 22:50:16 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1259096