http://www.answerbag.com/profile/165611 New Answerbag questions from Anonymous Tue, 29 May 2012 07:50:08 -0700 Tue, 29 May 2012 07:50:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2618145 at child support court the judge ask noncust.dad if he worked he said no.I found later he does.What will happen when court find out he lied? Mon, 21 Nov 2011 09:46:51 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2618145 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2371719 childs dad missed a 11/2years of his tues. visits.hes not working has no school this month hewants his tues.i have made plans for the month Tue, 14 Dec 2010 06:32:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2371719 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2286842 Im hurting financially.Paying for childcare& bills. The father wont pay the child support,that would help out so much. what can i do? Mon, 16 Aug 2010 15:30:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2286842 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2266498 My 4 yr old throws a fit & hits when she doesnt get her way.Then is sweet. She acts like jekyl & hyde. Fri, 30 Jul 2010 22:13:34 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2266498 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2261026 My childs dad has been to be court 3 times this past year for contempt. Go back in Nov. hes still not paying full amount. What will happen? Wed, 28 Jul 2010 06:46:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2261026 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2253286 been to court three times in a year for my childs father not paying child support. when does the court do something? Sun, 25 Jul 2010 23:54:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2253286 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2253282 was wondering if my daughters dad gets married and isnt working will they attach his wife's wages.Please let me know what you think Sun, 25 Jul 2010 23:50:41 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2253282 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1770672 My childs dad is suppose to pay 620.00 a month for child support that includes daycare. hes already gone to court for contempt and back again. He has two jobs , and still only 10.00 dollars this month. What can i do? Sun, 25 Oct 2009 00:06:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1770672 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1757318 My 3 year olds dad brought her back home today without a carseat. He said that is was in his moms car and she was gone. What do i do with someone so stupid. He puts his own daughter in harms way. WHat do you think. Sat, 17 Oct 2009 20:18:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1757318 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1732378 If the dad doesn't follow the court order for child support to pay a certain amount of money for a couple of months in full amount, and the judge tells him that he will go to jail for 5 days of each month he didn't pay, does that really happen in Ca Sun, 04 Oct 2009 16:44:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1732378 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1730314 What happens if my childs dad goes to jail for not paying child support. Will they still try to collect child support from him while hes in there or will they forget about it. Sat, 03 Oct 2009 11:15:44 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1730314 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1729753 Do they really put people in jail if they don't pay child support? I was wondering if they do that in ca. Sat, 03 Oct 2009 00:18:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1729753 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1729745 I have court this week cause my childs dad was held in contempt of court for not paying child support in april. The judge said that he had to pay the full amount for 6months or he goes to jail. Will that happen.We live in Ca. September he paid nothing. Sat, 03 Oct 2009 00:11:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1729745 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1705205 What do you do when your childs father has a scheduled visit, but doesn't call to let you know hes not coming. I take off work and keep my daughter home from daycare thinking hes coming. He hasnt shown up or called the last 5 visits that he has missed. Sat, 19 Sep 2009 00:15:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1705205 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1669245 If you have gone to court for contempt charges of not paying child support & the judge tells you that you pay a certain amount for 6 months & if you don't you go to jail 5days per month you dont pay the full amount. Will that really happen. Im in CA. Sun, 30 Aug 2009 00:10:20 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1669245 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1660698 My childs dad has a tuesday visit every other week. he hasnt shown up for them in two months, he doesnt call to let me know hes not coming. he still comes for his weekend visits. I change my schedule for the tuesdays at work. What should i do? Tue, 25 Aug 2009 17:26:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1660698 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1648227 What can you do with $10.00? Thats what i got in child support this month. He's suppose to pay 580.00.Part for child support & the other for daycare. he's paid 150.00 total 4 3months Already went to court for contempt go back in oct. too see if hes paying Wed, 19 Aug 2009 08:08:48 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1648227 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1643931 Do you think its appropriate for a three year old to watch a person having brain surgery? My child was with her dad yesterday and when she got home she told me in detail what happened and was disgusted. Mon, 17 Aug 2009 06:40:14 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1643931 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1642731 My childs father hasn't paid his court ordered child support even after his court hearing for his contempt charges on that. the past 3 months i have gotten 140.00. He is suppose to pay 576.00 a month. Whats going to happen to him when we go back to court? Sun, 16 Aug 2009 13:20:22 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1642731 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1598855 If my daughters father is not on the birth certificate and we were never married, and she has my last name, when i get married (not to him) can i change her last name to the guy i get married to? Sun, 26 Jul 2009 00:16:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1598855 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1598850 If my daughters fathers name is not on the birth certificate and she has my last name. WHen i get married can i legally change her last name? Sun, 26 Jul 2009 00:11:40 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1598850 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1598476 I think it is so unfair that even though my childs father is court ordered to pay child support he pays less then what he owes. I need help w/ daycare expenses & for her in general. he decides he doesn't want to pay then i get no help. What do u think? Sat, 25 Jul 2009 19:33:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1598476 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1585308 My 3 year old told me today while she was with her dad that in the pool she fell in. She can't swim. I asked her where he was and she said in the pool holding Jen (his gf), He left an 8 year old watching her. What can i do, im scared when shes with him. Sun, 19 Jul 2009 20:53:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1585308 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1582727 The dad of my child already has been to court for contempt of not paying child support. The judge told him for the next 6 months he has to pay the full 576.00 a month. This started in may, so far hes paid a total of 220.00 thats for 3mths what will happen Sat, 18 Jul 2009 13:57:02 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1582727 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1576685 I have my daughter in daycare where the lady does some preschool. I am really thinking about taking her out and putting her in a preschool. Should i or just leave her where she is at. I just want the best for her. Wed, 15 Jul 2009 15:01:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1576685 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1548706 Its the dads visit.Our papers say that holidays take precedence over scheduled visits.instead of 9-5 it is 3-6.i made plans to take my her to the circus that morning.He called today wanting to have his whole day.The tickets arent refundable,what do i do? Wed, 01 Jul 2009 15:56:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1548706 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1544607 Our court papers states the father gets the child 3pm-6pm on 4th of july, we have been doing for 2 yrs.This year it falls on his scheduled visiting day.The papers states that holidays take precedence over scheduled visits.What do i do if he gets mad atme Mon, 29 Jun 2009 16:29:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1544607 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1513140 My childs dad 4got that last weekend was his visit & he showed up today. my daughter & I were out to breakfast so we werent home. He now is threatening to have the visitation modified because he 4got and i didn't remind him of his visit. What do u think? Sat, 13 Jun 2009 10:38:01 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1513140 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1474227 If you get the noncustodail parents tax refund does that count as child support that month or does it go towards the arrears he may owe? Fri, 22 May 2009 23:30:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1474227 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1397140 My childs dad hates the fact he has to pay child support, he went as much to say, "I never told you to have her, i didn't make you have her." I went on to say he should sign over legal rights (we have joint legal) and he wont have to pay a dime. Fair? Sat, 11 Apr 2009 01:04:07 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1397140 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1397134 Do you think its pathetic that a noncustodial parent complains about having to pay child support, while the custodial parent pays for everything when the noncustodial parent can't or wont pay? Sat, 11 Apr 2009 01:00:37 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1397134 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1393904 My childs dad wascharged with contempt of not paying child support.He tried to onlyhave to pay 275. instead of his 576..He didn't tell the judge he had another job. He let the judge think he only had a part time jobWas it wrong for me to tell the truth? Thu, 09 Apr 2009 08:49:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1393904 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1384613 If the noncustodial parent has to work on his visitation day, should his parents (grandparents) be able to come and get the child and keep her til the parent gets off work. Or should the parent wait til he gets off work? Sat, 04 Apr 2009 09:09:34 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1384613 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1384611 Just wondering.... Is it ok for the noncustodials(father) parents (grandparents) to pick up my daughter when the father didn't tell me he wasn't going to be able to pick her up because hes at work. Sat, 04 Apr 2009 09:07:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1384611 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1374544 What can happen if the noncustodial parent has to go to court for contempt charges of not paying child support? Sun, 29 Mar 2009 21:44:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1374544 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1373057 My daughters dad owes 7,000 dollars in back child support. He is able to work but chooses to work only a few hours. He goes to college and believes that is more important. he has a court date for contempt of non payment, what could happen to him Sun, 29 Mar 2009 00:38:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1373057 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1373047 If a noncustodial parent doesn't pay child support they usually get their license suspended. How can the custodial parent find that out? Sun, 29 Mar 2009 00:19:55 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1373047 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1334299 If the noncustodial parent is over an hour late for picking up his child, and i had other things planned today, so i take my daughter with me after waiting over an hour. Then he blames me for not telling him it was daylight savings time. So is it my fault Sun, 08 Mar 2009 19:05:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1334299 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1317564 If a noncustodial parent gets papers to go to court on contempt charges for not paying child support, what could happen to him. We live in California. Could someone let me know. Thank you!!!chil Sun, 01 Mar 2009 19:33:31 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1317564 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1315515 How do i get motivated to lose weight? I hate being overweight, but i just now shrug it off as oh well. Thats not how i really feel, i just don't know what to do. Can ANYONE help me? Thank you!!! Sun, 01 Mar 2009 00:24:14 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1315515 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1313679 In California what can happen if you are served with papers for contempt charges of not paying child support. Sat, 28 Feb 2009 08:02:15 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1313679 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1296160 I live in California, and i was wondering what happens to the non custodial parent if he is served with contempt charges of not paying child support. Sat, 21 Feb 2009 09:26:00 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1296160 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1292981 I received a letter saying the noncustodial parent was being taken to court for contempt, he hasn't paid the whole amount of child support in about 7 months. Its suppose to be 620.00 a month but its been 90.00 and this next one is 10.00. What will happen Thu, 19 Feb 2009 19:47:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1292981 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1281504 I work the night shift 10pm til 6am. I also have a 3 year old. I need to exercise and lose some weight. I am just always tired. Any suggestions? Sun, 15 Feb 2009 00:10:48 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1281504 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1264026 My daughters dad is court ordered to pay 620.00 a month in support. This only started in jan. 2008. She is 3. Since then i have only received 4 checks that were the full amount. The last 5 months i have only gotten 90.00 a month. WHat can i do? Sat, 07 Feb 2009 13:06:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1264026 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1264016 I am the custodial parent of my daughter. My family all lives in Missouri. I would love to move there. Right now its cheaper out there and the father even though court ordered to pay child support doesnt . What are my chances of being able to move. Sat, 07 Feb 2009 12:58:59 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1264016 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1264009 In a child custody case do you think its a conflict of interest if the mother of the non custodial parent is his lawyer? Sat, 07 Feb 2009 12:55:54 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1264009 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/682189 I was just looking at my child support status online because i didn't receive any support in March . On the case status it said that it is on locate activity because as of march 28th they don't know where he works. What will happen if he doesnt pay? Thu, 03 Apr 2008 21:07:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/682189 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/674083 What happens when the father is late paying child support. His work is suppose to take the money from his check,but for the month of March i didn't receive any support. How do I make sure he pays on time. Sun, 30 Mar 2008 07:51:26 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/674083 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/665458 I have sole physical custody of my daughter and joint legal with supervised visits. I am wanting to relocate out of state because i would have a good job and all of my family and support is out there. Would i be allowed? Mon, 24 Mar 2008 18:54:55 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/665458 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/643542 I went to mediation today and for the second time the father didn't do his court ordered parenting class. Should that make a difference . He has had almost a year to complete it, his excuse was that he didn't have time. Wed, 12 Mar 2008 20:50:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/643542 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/627753 At my last mediation the father of my daughter didn't do the court ordered parenting class, so the mediator prolonged the mediation. Question is , he thinks he can take an online parenting class. Wouldn't that have to be cleared by the judge first? Wed, 05 Mar 2008 08:20:31 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/627753 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/465038 If both parents dont agree in mediation, how long before you get a court date. Mon, 05 Nov 2007 22:46:48 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/465038 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/459903 What happens after mediation if you don't agree? The father wants every weekend, but i don't think the judge would grant that, seeing as i work to and i like the weekends spending time with my daughter Sat, 03 Nov 2007 22:17:34 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/459903 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/459355 Is there anyway the father can get every weekend just because he works during the week. The mother also works. So it doesn't seem fair Sat, 03 Nov 2007 17:09:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/459355 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/459353 If the child goes to daycare does the non custodial parent have to pay half? Sat, 03 Nov 2007 17:09:02 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/459353 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/457541 Should a parent who is a recovering addict and also has a roommate that is a recovering addict be allowed to have his child who is only 2 for overnight visits. Fri, 02 Nov 2007 23:03:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/457541 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/457537 What happens if one parent is court ordered to do a parenting class and they don't go by the next court date. Will that look bad to the mediator and or the judge? Fri, 02 Nov 2007 22:58:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/457537 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/454882 The father of my daughter was given supervised visits for 6 months out the 26 visits he has missed 11, 5 of them he just didn't show, no call. Mediation is coming up, will that look bad on his part, and should i ask for 6 more months of supervised visits Thu, 01 Nov 2007 21:43:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/454882 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/395686 I go back to mediation in November. Right now the father has supervised visits once a week. We talked today and he said that he is going to ask for every weekend overnight from Sat 8am til Sun 7pm. My ? is would a judge give him every weekend. Sun, 09 Sep 2007 22:33:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/395686 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/323762 The father of my child decided instead of seeing his daughter on fathers day he would go to the coast. Then later informed me that he wants to make up his hours (3) this week for missing fathers day. Are there makeup holiday hours, if he chose to miss it. Sat, 16 Jun 2007 22:45:40 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/323762 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/323746 The father of my child decided to go out of town for fathers day instead of coming over to see his daughter. I know for regular visits he is allowed make up hours. But if he chose to go out of town instead, does he get to make up his Fathers day hrs? Sat, 16 Jun 2007 22:03:22 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/323746