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Do you enjoy phone sex?
very nice!! i love hearing all the things he wants to do to me and telling him all about what i'm gonna do to him . . . makes for very nice orgasms!! XD
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HAVE YOU EVER HAD A GUY CUM ALL OVER YOUR FACE
i love it, so does my bf!!!
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What's your take on genital piercings?
i love mine and might get another!! my boyfriend may get something done, and i'm very excited . . . never been with a man with a genital piercing :)
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Teacher and Pupil sex fetish? Yes or No?
my boyfriend and i are itching to try this one out when we see each other next! i failed that exam and have to see the teacher after class *pouts* very hot!!
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What was the first thing you said today?
holy hopping hangovers, batman!!!
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What's the best thing about a hug?
a really good hugger who squeezes you tight and holds on for an extra second. especially when it's someone who helps to make sure you two have fit together just right :) i feel so snuggly and safe and warm in a good hug!!! i need one BAD!!!
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Just say you met someone on the weekend but you were going to be away for the next 2 weekends... would it just be easier to call them when you get back or go for it now?? live close by but work longish hours...
call now and explain the situation. you'll look rude if you don't call (he/she will think you are blowing them off) and there is a greater likelihood that he/she will forget who you are before then. call now, explain the situation and don't even make plans, that might out too much pressure on them bc they are so far away. just chat and wait to make plans until it's closer...
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Does anyone else get incredibly thirsty during sex? What's a way for me to say... hold on I need some water... without spoiling the mood?
i'm in a similar situation - sometimes we go for a few hours and a girl gets a little thirsty :) if we forget to bring water with us, i'll just wait until things are at a more relaxed, mellow point and say i'm gonna get us some water and run to the kitchen. also, remember that if you're thirsty, your lover is probably thirsty too! i usually bring back two glasses so we...
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Is there any side effects for over ejaculation if I have been doing it for a couple of years even though I'm still only 17? such as health problems or mental problems?
your body is made to produce sperm and ejaculate so there are no ill side effects! have fun!!
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Ladies: Do you ever finish yourselves in front of your man after he has already finished? Does he think it's rude?
we usually get me off together after he has cum. most often i stimulate my clit and he uses my vibrator on me. we both enjoy it and he finds it very sexy. i would take issue with any lover of mine who found this rude. sex should be about us both having a good time and there's nothing wrong with me taking matters into my own hands to get off!! if a guy were to find it rude, i think it...
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Where is one place you would rather be right now?
back home in California . . . only two more weeks!!
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What's the one thing your man can't resist in bed?
oral. he loves it!! thankfully, i do too and can give it as often as he wants. he has a very low "reload" period (sometimes none at all) and no matter how many times we've fucked, i can still get more out of him when i start licking and sucking his cock :) just thinking about it turns me on!!!
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What is your heart hiding now?
simultaneous fear of failure and fear of success. i'm torn in two directions and because of it never move from where i'm at, despite loathing it. thank god no one ever asks why a charismatic 21 year old with a degree from prestigious university makes minimum wage working at a pizza place or else i might have an episode. will that be for here or to go?
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Why are you up, at this time of day?
it's about 3:30am my time and i just got off work. i'll be up until around 6am, then wake up again around noon :)
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Okay this one is embaressing, but do men ever think that some Vaginas are more attractive than others? Is it gross or attractive if a woman's labia minora sticks out past the labia majora??? What is gross and what is not?
i'm a straight female, but have a lot of male friends who i talk to very openly about sex. the only complaints i've ever heard from my friends have been hygienic . . . ie: the woman hadn't showered in DAYS (literally days). bodies are different and you should try to love the vagina and vulva you have, and i promise, any man you are giving visitation rights to will be super...
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Do you like it when your man pushes your head while you are going down on him?
i like that he likes it, but personally don't usually have a real preference. i only tend to enjoy it when i'm tied up and it is more part of the dom/sub dynamic!!
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Theres this rumor that I keep hearing that if someone listens to music loud and frequently, if they abruptly began to listen to music quietly it would cause more damage to the ears than before because your ears are straining more to hear it, is this true?
this would be an urban legend of sorts. ears can't strain to hear things the way eyes can strain to see them. ears are passively stimulated by the vibrations of sound waves and therefore would be far more damaged by loud music. interesting idea though; i hadn't heard that one.
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Do you have sexual fantasies you wouldn't dare telling anyone?
actually, no. my boyfriend and i are very open about our sexualities and i've told him about all of my fantasies and he's told me his. it's nice this way, because then you can actually DO them ;)
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Are Obese people Visual Pollution?
a little judgmental, are we?
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What gets rid of headaches, when your at work and dont want to take pills?
it depends on the cause of the headache. many stem from stress, in which case, trying tpo relax will help. another common cause is tension in the back or neck. in this case, self-massage on the area can help. also, the nerve in the lower part of the webbing between the thumb and index finger can be pinched which helps ease headaches. your hand will hurt while you are doing it, but the...
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How dressed up do you get for a bootey call?
i would always try to look cute and be showered and everything, but always just wore regular clothes or work clothes if i had just left work. we both knew why we were there. besides, i'd leave and get on with my evening, so no use being all dressed up for the rest of the night.
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Guys, do u like 2 watch or even join in on ur girlfriends while they r playing with a dildo/vibrator?
my boyfriend is very into this. he will often use a vibrator on me while i give myself clitoral stimulation. he also likes to tease me with one while i'm tied up :) very nice!!!
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I love it when my girlfriend fingers me in my bum during oral sex or handjobs. it feels so good! i occaisonly slip in a finger when masturbating as well. is there something wrong with this?
not at all! the prostate is stimulated during anal penetration in men and is found by many men to be very sexually exciting. there are also sex toys made specifically to stimulate the prostate, or "p spot." explore this and have fun!!
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Why are you smiling right now?
bc the sex is that good ;)
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Who came first Jesus or Dinosaurs?
we have a lot of good evidence that dinosaurs existed. we have questionable hearsay that jesus did.
dinosaurs are estimated to have been on earth from around 245 mya until around 65 mya. jesus is estimated to have lived about 2 thousand years ago.
if jesus was a real person, dinosaurs came first. if not, the question is moot.
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What would you say if someone you didn't miss were to ask you if you missed him or her?
"i miss everyone back home" (if this is the circumstance. i know it is for me)
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Honestly, how many of you have an "adult novelty?"
yes, three :) they're niiiiiicceeee . . . .
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I am a male I have never had sex with a woman i am not gay i am big on absontence i reciently explored anal penetration with a vibrator and it was great am i still a virgin is it ok for me to enjoy this.
what you are describing is an extension of masturbation and, i believe, should be explored and enjoyed thoroughly. you are still a virgin and still straight :) have fun!!!
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What does BDSM do to or for a person(you) after the act is done and your back into civilzation with other people the aftermath?
i'm into very light BDSM and have found that it has no real effect on my life outside of the bedroom or my interactions with my partner or other people. my partner and i are very affectionate and loving and sweet to one another, only rough in the bedroom. one thing that's kinda hot though, is knowing you have a sexy secret that most people don't know about, like a pink tush or...
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To the girls really... do your men make sounds when your having sex?
depends on the guy. i'm very loud and no guy has been as loud as i am, but i love when they make some noise . . . just another indication that they are enjoying themselves!!
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What's your favorite part about sex?
i love being teased and then the satisfaction of finally getting what i want. i also LOVE getting my partner all hot and bothered and getting him off!! YAY SEX!!! :)
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Lets do a poll, how often do women masterbate compared to men. going by how many days in a week, or how many in a month if its not that often.
allso state if you are in a relation ship or not. would that make a difference?
female, in a relationship with AMAZING sex, i masturbate on average seven times per week, some weeks daily, other weeks 2 or 3 times per day but not every day . . . it varies with my cycle and stress levels. i've found i tend to have a higher sex drive than most. my relationship status does not seems to effect the frequency :)
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Since humans only use 10-20% of their brain, do you think things like the FORCE are real?
nevets is right on this one! the 10% myth is, in fact, a myth. cognition, emotion, locomotion, speech etc. . . . our whole brain is used.
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Is masturbation healthy?
yes!! :) it is great cardio exercise, it lowers blood pressure, exercises sexual and other muscles, relieves tension, leads to better understanding of your sexuality, releases hormones that have been found to help increases lifespan in higher doses . . . etc. MASTURBATE FOR HEALTH!!! -- a great new slogan!
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This may sound dumb but, if a gets cum on his hands and then fingers a girl can he get her pregant that way? I don't think he can but im not sure.
so, this is one of those "theoretically possible, but rather unlikely" circumstances. theoretically, yes, you could get a girl pregnant this way. obviously, the more ejaculate on the fingers, the higher the chances. be safe, wash your hands with hot soapy water before manual stimulation and you should be just fine :) have fun!
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Im thinking of having a tragus piercing, but do i have to have a ring in it or could they put a stud in straight away? Thanks
they should be able to put a piece of straight jewelry in right away. they would probably use a small barbell instead of a stud, but it'll have the same look. talk to the piercer before she/he does anything so that she/he knows what you want and can accommodate you. have fun :)
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Does ur whole ear normally hurt after you get your tragus pierced from the needle going through the cartilage or it might be just an ear infection from using rubbing alcohol to clean it. does anybody know?
the whole ear may be sore for a few days after the initial piercing bc of the trauma. if it lasts much longer than that, talk to your piercer. and, please, for the love of god, STOP USING ALCOHOL TO CLEAN YOU PIERCING!!!! it irritates the tissue more and dries the skin out, which may actually cause your piercing to take longer to heal and hurt more and be fussy. your piercer should have...
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What are your views on homeschooling?
i'm sure many. but i tried to befriend them. i really did. and i WAS weird, well, still am, and, yet, still: there was something dispersant between us. i dunno . . ..
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I was thinkin about getting a horizontal clit piercing...how bad will it hurt?
do you mean a horizontal hood piercing or a horizontal clitoral piercing? be specific!! of course it hurts!!!! why must people ask this? lol!! i have a vertical hood and in my experience, it was mildly uncomfortable for a few minutes while the piercer prepped. with mine, he had to insert sharp things (ie: a taper) under my hood a few times to get the placement right. then i experienced...
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Can a girl rape a guy if the guy is unconscious? And is it possible for her to get pregnant from it?
yes and yes. an erection can develop for many different reasons, and would be likely while passed out. if stimulated, the man could ejaculate, so pregnancy is certainly a possibility.
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I'm a male and I'm thinking about getting my tongue pierced. Do you people think it's okay and would it hurt a lot? I'm wondering would there be any chances of losing my taste buds because i hear a lot of rumors about that. Also, is it gay to do this?
i never liked tongue piercings much until i kissed a man with a lovely steel barbell through his tongue . . . all i want to do is kiss him now! very sexy!! some people will, of course, not like it, taste buds will regrow if "popped," yes it will hurt, but keep it clean and it will heal in only a few weeks!! if you want it, do it!!
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Like me, is anybody else that loner who, as a kid, was the only one never able to find Waldo?
that sounds about right!! lol!! embrace the introvert inside you and you can go far and go happily :)
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What good thing you didtoday that u have never done?
made $130 waitressing a lunch and drank frenet at 5:30am (well, maybe the second one wasn't so good; we'll see tomorrow)
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In your opinion, do you believe it is better to have a degree in anything than to wait until you have decided what you really want to do with your life?
depends on what degree you are talking about. a bachelor's degree is versatile enough to really have one in anything and do anything you'd like. the higher the degree, the more specific you should be in what you want to do and study.
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How much water do you drink per day?
enough to offset the alcohol to be consumed that evening!! usually about 4 pints, but i really should drink more.
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How much do you weigh?
1*0
i can never make out the second number :P
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What is on your Christmas wish list?
warm clothes so that when i move to boston in january i won't freeze to death :)
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How do i knock someones self esteem down without being too mean? He is so full of himself and needs to come back to planet earth...
leave it be. it will be knocked down someday by someone who isn't even trying. it always is at some point!
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Is there any good reason of any use of the pinkie as a finger on our hands?
i know my answer isn't funny, but the pinky probably doesn't have a specific purpose, but also never had a reason to be eliminated via evolution. most mammals are pentadactyl (have five digits) and when our hands developed for grasping, there was no reason for that digit to be lost, so it was kept. also, there was no reason for it to be very big and strong, so it's not. so far...
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Do people pierce their clitorises for just sexual pleasure, or are their cosmetic reasons involved, too?
i'm getting mine done next week. for me, it is primarily cosmetic and because i think it will be sexy, ie: i'll feel sexier with it. the increase in sensitivity is just an added bonus!! :)
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Do you like dick or pussy?
i like my pussy, but prefer a dick on others ;)
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Does anyone ever order cigarettes from overseas?
i used to get Russian Camels from allsmoke.com. it was $90 for six cartons (this includes shipping) and they took about 6 weeks to arrive (i live in California). they were excellent cigarettes, if not a bit stale by the time i got them :)
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Are you a hugger? What's your favorite kind of hug?
i'm definitely a hugger! i like the ones that are nice and tight and where the other person just wraps up all around and doesn't let go for a couple seconds. especially when it's such a good hug that you/they sigh a little :) right now i'm thinking of two excellent huggers in particular . . .
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Do women ever get erotic feelings when they are examined by a gynecologist?
not really. i do not feel stressed or embarrassed, but a speculum (even a warmed one) is not shaped in a way that would stimulate most women.
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I am a 30 year old female. I am embarrassed to say that I'm not positive I've ever had an orgasm. It sounds ridiculous, but I think I may be urinating instead of cumming. Is this possible?
possible, but VERY unlikely. in fact, not all women ejaculate when they orgasm, so it's likely you are orgasming and ejaculating. the fluid emitted from the vagina during orgasm shares some qualities with urine and can sometimes smell a little like urine and even be a little yellowish in color. this is a normal form of female ejaculate and does not come from the urethra. if you are...
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What can a guy do to make his semen taste better?
1) eat better - less fat and grease, more fruits, veggies and whole grains and drink more water
2) stop drinking alcohol
3) stop smoking cigarettes (some would add pot to that)
4) often the "fresher" it is, the better it tastes, so if you have plans that may involve oral sex, make sure to masturbate before hand (but not so late as to render you unable to get erect/ejaculate)...
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When talking about morality and ethics, which do you think is more important: The intent, the action itself, or the consequences of the action?
i always thought it was intent. we cannot always be sure that our actions will be perfectly as intended, nor can we always anticipate what will come of our actions. a wrong action/consequence with good intent is still wrong, but should not be considered a moral trespass.
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After becoming a vegetarian eating meat causes upset stomachs and other miseries. Is it possible to 'train' your body to accept meat as normal again?
i agree with everyone so far and just want to add that you've already trained your body to NOT tolerate meat, so you should, by the same logic, be able to train it back TO tolerating meat. good luck!!!
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Do you enjoy oral sex more?
more than what?
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How did you enjoy your last oral sex?
it's been a while, but VERY nice . . . he was a persistent giver!!! but alas, it didn't last (the relationship, not the oral, that lasted for hours!).
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Has anyone ever stole your virginity?
of course not. virginity cannot be stolen, only given. sex can be stolen, but if the victim was a virgin to begin with then he/she will remain one until he/she decides to give it away.
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If you can have one title of grandeur... what would it be?
doctor. i'm on my way!!!
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If you were a piercing, where would you be and why?
i think i'd be a rook. kinda sneaky and unexpected, a little tricky to successfully pierce, but playful and a little cute :)
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What is the worst contextual usage of the word "fiddling"? Please write a creative sentence or sentences. Example: The heart surgeon was fiddling with the man's insides.
jeremy, stop fiddling with your sister!!!
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What are good free porn sites
myfreepaysite.com
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Why is the sky blue?
the sky is blue because sunlight refracts through the atmosphere at the blue frequency. the ocean is blue because it reflects the sky.
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This is for the women. Do you find the word "HOT" to describe a woman to be degrading?
not at all. sometimes it can be a little tacky, but not degrading at all . . . i think most women would prefer being told they are beautiful though :)
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Tongue Rings.....Yes or No?
I was never a fan until i kissed Joe . . . mmmmmmm, pierced tongue ;)
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Is it true that if you pierce ur tounge by urslef that you can get parralized if you hit the worng nerve or loose feeling?
probably not paralysis. if you hit the nerve it will hurt. A LOT!!! LOTS OF PAIN!! and it could lead to desensitization (aka loss of feeling) of your tongue but probably not paralysis. this means not feeling when you kiss someone. also, you are at a high risk of infection which is super gross and potentially dangerous. also, you will likely pierce it wrong. it would probably be crooked...
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Can over-masturbating make you ill?
no. it can lead to exhaustion though ;)
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I'm not homosexual but I like porn especially women and it really turns me on but I don't want to have sex with the women. It just gets me very aroused.Why
i take it you are female?? and i take it you are referring to lesbian porn. a lot of women prefer porn that emphasizes the woman's role. a lot of women (me included) prefer lesbian porn over straight porn. this is common and makes a lot of sense when you break it down. what gets a woman off??? -when her clitoris/vagina are stimulated. lesbian porn focuses on this extensively....
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My girl likes sex but doesn't have a sex drive,like i do, I tried to tell her about anal and how some woman say that a anal orgasm is better then a vaginal orgasm,is this true?
i don't mean to sound rude, but if she has a low sex drive, leave her ass alone1!! if you want her to want to have sex with you, do what makes her feel good and sexy! pressuring her to let her you stick your cock in her ass won't help!!! do what she likes. maybe try oral . . . . A LOT of oral!! that tends to increase women's libido! don't worry about getting your...
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To folks attracted to women: if you saw a vertical clitoral hood piercing, would you be turned on, turned off, or neutral?? i'm getting it done soon and want to take a poll. thanks! (check comments for pic)
mine would be a smaller gauge and a metal barbell, thanks again!! :)
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If a labia majora is sagging or is loose what does it mean?
different women will have different anatomies and the size and relative "looseness" of the labia is a natural variation. unless it is getting more "loose" or causes discomfort, it's probably a natural feature of the vagina in question.
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I am taking a poll. Do you perfer the lights on or off during sex? please state if you are male or female with your answer.
i like mood lighting on. not so bright that we can see every blemish on each other's bodies, but i like to see my partner and what is happening. i am a female.
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How can i enjoy giving a blow job i dont like the way the semen feels in my mouth,but i want to please my man?
maybe try blowing him until just before he cums and then have him finish himself off somewhere fun (ie: your face or breasts). i've found that when i'm not in a cum-swallowing mood, this is both fun for me and him. most guys really seem to like the idea of cumming on their partner. good luck and have fun!! (ps: consistency and taste can vary with a lot of things, such as his diet,...
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Do women prefere a big penis
women will vary on this topic and no one can answer for all women; some believe size doesn't matter, others believe it does. for me, it does both aesthetically and physically. but, who knows, maybe i've just never had sex with a man who is on the smaller side but knows how to use it properly. that is entirely possible!!! :)
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Which celebrity have you got a massive crush on right now?
Paul Giamatti and Richard Dawkins. Swear to god!!
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Do you masterbate at least once per week? Plese try to be mature. I am trying to get an honest survey.
usually three to four times per week. less if i'm having sex; more if it's been while since i've had sex or if the sex i'm having is not so good. good question!!
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Why is it so hard to find a woman with a sex drive? Every woman I've ever met never wanted to discuss sex. They've all said that they never ever think about having sex, either. They only want love and romance from a relationship. Is this seriously true?
it can't be. i only want sex from a relationship and NOT love or romance :)
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Does any one another name for this sex position, it is called the screw here. Actual name or slang words either one is fine ??
http://www.sexpositionspics.com/Article82.html
i call it "fun" :)
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I'm a 6 foot tall female and I have extremely long legs. It makes it very difficult to maneuver when I'm ontop.My legs are all bunched up under me and any thrusting is uncomfortable because my legs are so long. Any suggestions?
i have a similar problem (i'm 5'10"). what helps for me is to do stretches often so that i am more flexible. this means i can be on top and have my knees out very far to each side which allows me to get lower down onto his body but leaves my legs enough room to not get bunched and cramp up (sorry about the run-on sentence). doing "butterflies" and sideways splits is...
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Is Sex in water overrated, like pools, spas, rivers, oceans, creeks, and ditches?
it's alright. however, water is not an especially good lubricant, so something like astroglide is very helpful. and i agree with Courtni on the importance of clean water :)
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What direction is the best way to get your nipples done? sideways, horizontally or vertically?
of courese, choose what you like, but personally, i think the cross is very sexy -- one vertical and one horizontal in each nipple.
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How can we know a woman is satisfied during sex?
ask her. if you earnestly want her to be satisfied, she will tell you how. don't assume that just because you are having a good time she is too. ASK HER!!! :)
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Why would God want to make us sick?
there is an interesting atheist/humanist website that asks the question "why won't god heal amputees?" it can be found at www.whydoesgodhateamputees.com/video2.htm (sorry i don't know how to make that a link).
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Can people all over the world go on answerbag, so the questions i ask are not only answered by the people in england?.....
I'm in California. Don't be scared :)
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The beginning of time is a grand scientific mystery. Is it possible that the concept of eternity is broader than we believe and that time has no beginning OR end?
i believe that is very possible. we are all forced to accept one of two possibilities for the beginning of everything: 1) at some point, something came from nothing, or 2) something has always been (be that time or other). personally, neither of these is easier to swallow and both are entirely possible. good question!!!
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I have a two year old child with my ex we both agree that it is important for us to do things together so he can experience things with both of us however, my current girlfriend can't see this and worrys that something is going on between us what do I do?
it may help fer her to meet your ex. this may make her feel better about the situation. however,this may not be enough and i hate to say it, but if she cannot see that your child is the most important thing in you life, then she is not worth keeping around, nor should she be a part of your daughter's life. she should respect and support the decisions you make about your daughter's...
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What's abnormal about you?
i suppose if i had to pick just ONE thing, it would be my fascination with needles. not with injections or anything, i just really enjoy the pain and feeling of a needle going through my skin. i have many piercings and a few tattoos, but also will soon be involving myself in "play piercing" which is (very safely and cleanly) putting needles through your skin just for the pleasure of...
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What is the most embarrassing time that you "got the uncontrollable giggles"?
i was with a friend who was casually introducing me to some of his work colleagues, in a field i was trying to get into at the time. one of the guys said that he had used to do some gardening/farming on the roof of his old apartment building. my friend asked what he grew and the "farmer" said, "oh, you know, carrots, tomatoes, zucchini; the usual . . . oh, yeah, and STUNT...
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Do men stick-up for women as much as they use to?
personally, i don't like being with a man who feels he has to defend me all the time. these tend to be men who believe they HAVE to defend me because i can not defend myself. with some men, politeness crosses a line into a need to take care of her, because she can't do it herself. not all the time, but often enough so that i've taken notice.
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When is a man to old to get his ear pierced, 30+ ? Or some other age?
i think any age is fine to get pierced, i think the key is making sure the jewelry you wear is not too young for you. piercing is a wonderful experience and a great form of decorating the body, there should be no upper age limit to it!!!
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Are shaved vagina's fantastic or sinister?
fantastic!! i can't let mine grow too long or else i feel not-quite-right. a feeling that reminds me of how my guy friends with facial hair describe feeling when they have to shave their faces, except i guess the other way around!
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Would you be offended if you saw someone wearing a T-Shirt that said: "Jesus Was Wrong"?
no. i do not believe that jesus was the son of god, merely a good philosopher with some good ideas about how he thought the world and society should be and would be successful. to me, it would be like saying descartes or buddha were wrong. in fact, the things jesus said and did have prompted such an intense following that many atrocities over the years have been committed on his behalf and i...
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Tori Spelling and her husband were interviewed on a talk show and she appreciated the host not judging them because they both left other marriage mates to be together. Why is everyone so soft on those that commit adultery and leave marriage mates?
whenever we see a new relationship forming, we never want to think about its end. if we care at all for people, we never want to think about how the kind of people they are is what will sabotage the relationship. also, when we see a relationship end, it is helpful to think of all the reasons it should have ended and why the couple was not right for each other. this helps us to rationalize...
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I am 14 and im planning on getting my bellybutton pierced.the problem is i have an outtie can i still get it pierced cuz i was plannin on getting the top but if i cant ill get the bottom is it possible?
thankzzzz :D
the belly button piercing was originally done through an outie. this should go all the way through the skin nub and can be either vertical or horizontal; "top" and "bottom" are irrelevant with an outie. however, in most places, one must be 18 years or older to be pierced in a professional setting. some places will let you be pierced if you have a parent with you and PROOF...
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Can you describe your lips in just one word.
pierced :)
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Why are some women unwilling to commit?
personally, i was in a long term relationship that lasted from my teenage years into my early twenties and became this house wife i never imagined i would. i didn't like her and it was so much a part of my early life that now that i am single, I LOVE IT!!! i do what i want when in want (and WHO i want). i will probably want to commit again one day and have met many men in my short time...
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Why do you sweat so much when you have a hangover? Isn't your body too dehydrated to sweat?
also, dehydration causes body temperature to rise which could lead to more-profuse-than-average sweating.
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Do you have your tongue "split"? If so, what are the benefits and drawbacks of this procedure?
i once dated a guy whose tongue was naturally slightly bifurcated and it was so cute and endearing!! i know i'm not really answering your question, but now every time i think about bifurcation, i have to think that i should have tried harder to make it work with ian.
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What Song has the Lyrics "plenty of fish in the sea"?
a lot of them i'm sure. i know the song "dry your eyes, mate" by the streets has that line in it.
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Are women envious that men can have orgasms so easily?
i'm not really envious per say, but i am slightly bummed about the fact that men coming is sort of the basis of sex, whereas my orgasm is far more optional and therefore happens much less frequently than my partner's. of course, this is in part due to the men i choose to sleep with not being as giving as they could be.
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Is it possible to get pregnant if a guy precums in you but does not come?
yes.
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Does anyone have any experience with getting the "rook" of your ear pierced? Is it especially painful or does it get easily infected? (picture attached if you don't know which part the "rook" is.)
i don't remember mine be particularly more painful than any other cartilage piercings i have. make sure to keep it very clean though. since it sort of sits in folds of the skin, gunk builds up easily there. mine is very healed (i've had it for over six years) and i still have to use a q-tip to clean out the crease. i love it though!! still to this day one of my favorites!! have...
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Does going from a 7/16 gauge to a 1/2 inch hurt? I'm a little scared i'll admit, but i really want it. I'm scared my lobe might rip in two or something stupid like that.
when you are at that size, you should be using the teflon tape method and not a taper. go to the hardware store and get some teflon tape from the plumbing section. start with a single wrap around the jewelry and each week wrap another time. this takes a long-ish time but is much safer than tapers at that size. you will risk a blow out if you keep tapering and you REALLY don't want...
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Is the weather outside frightful?
not at all: it's 75, sunny and there's not a cloud in the sky. thank god i live by the ocean!!!
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In Office Space, Peter says if he didn't have to worry about money, his dream would be to "do nothing". Do you share this dream, and would you not work if you didn't have to?
nope. i'd go babck to school and get my phD in evolutionary biology and then get my masters in anything and everything that interests me. that sounds wonderful!!! :)
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Is there other ways to have sex without birth control and without getting pregnant (DONT SAY ABSTINENCE)
well, if you aren't worried about STDs (and you should be), unprotected oral is a possibility, as is mutual masturbation and anal sex. rhythm method is shit and will, i repeat WILL, fail eventually.
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Who would YOU perfer to be in charge while in the bedroom?
i take control during foreplay, but LOVE to be dominated during sex!! :)
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I got my nose pierced years ago and cannot remember what gauge that it was done in, either a 18 or 20. Does it really matter? I want to buy more (bones)but am unsure as to what size I need
if you go to a good shop to buy your jewelry, they will be able to tell you. i'd advise against bones though, they can be very difficult to get out (that's the point, right??) but if it really is a good shop, they'll probably tell you that anyway :)
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Here's my question, why when you use the public restroom, is everything wet?
i don't know, but i like old dane cook stand-up too!! :)
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Should women have sex when they don't feel like it to keep their partner happy?
i always thought sex was supposed to be for both people, not just one. if i'm not in the mood but my partner is, i tell him nicely (or show him in another way) to get me in the mood. but i'm almost always in the mood!!
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What recent fads have you had enough of?
skinny legged pants for women. your butt and hips will invariably look HUGE unless you have the body of a 10 year old boy. makes those of us with curves outcasted and it's not so cute anyway!!!
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Where can i find a print of two famous photographs: one being the navy man returning from war kissing the girl in times square.. and one being the (steel?) workers sitting atop the beam over the city?
those are both very popular prints, so an arts store that sells prints (like an Aaron Brothers) will probably have them. if not, try art.com or allposters.com. good luck :)
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What's the strangest/funniest place name you have ever been to?
beckett's. a bar in berkeley named after the poet/writer samuel becketts. i love it there!!!
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Tell me what you know about POT brownies.
i used to live across the street from a college co-op and some kids got really sick off bake-ables. i think they weren't expecting it, though. made with butter bc THC mixes well with lipids. have fun!!!
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I am looking on getting a large tattoo on the side of my torso in a tribal design. Does any1 have a good site to direct me with pics for some more ideas?
BMEzine (bmezine.com) has fantastic galleries and wonderful resources from some of the most experienced and knowledgeable professionals in modification.
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How accurate do you feel this statement is : "People with above average intelligence tend to discuss new theories, ideas & concepts, average people discuss recent events, while dumb people dicuss other people." ...?
i diasagree with this quite a bit. perhaps more intelligent people do discuss new theories, ideas and concepts more, but this may be only because they have more exposure to them. also, current events and especially interpersonal relationships are important to all people. we depend on society abd our interactions with others more than most creatures (not all, of course, ie: ants) and it is...
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When you feel attracted to another person is it because of their eyes, smile, hands or something else? Are you male or female?
purely talking physical attraction: tattoos and piercings, esp neck tattoos and sleeves and facial piercings and stretched lobes. yummy!!!! i'm a straight female :)
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How long have you felt like that?
about two years. but i have good days and bad. today is a bad day. tomorrow will be better i hope. you?
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What was the craziest foturne cookie you got?
"a smile is like a rainbow for your face" i guess because rainbows are happy?? lol!
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Got my nose peirced 2-3weeks ago.it was healling pretty well then this little bump appered. ive seen it happen to other people who have got it done but ive heared that its just apart of the healing process or it may mean its infected.
it may be the beginnings of a keloid. don't ignore it; go see your piercer ASAP.
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What do u do?
i wait tables. looking forward to getting out of the food industry and going to grad school :)
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Why are there a good many people who beleive the U.S. is founded on Christanity, when the Treaty of Tripoli (Written in 1796) clearly states that it is not?
don't forget that most of the "founding fathers" were deists or atheists and NOT christian. i think it is because since the majority of the US today is christian, it is nicer for many people to believe that the US is a christian nation. perhaps it helps them to rationalize why one religion is given so much free reign and is valued as greater than all the others. it's ego...
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Do you think your beautiful?
i'm getting there. i think it's a lifelong journey to think you're beautiful, whether we're talking from the inside or the outside. but i think they're related, don't you?
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I'm an undergrad psychology major planning to become a psychologist specializing in behavioral abnormalities, but I'm also really interested in holistic health. Are there many occupations or work environments that integrate the two things?
i don't know, but you know specifically what you want to do, so do it! create it if you must :)
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Could I be prego?Had sex 3 out of 4 days of ovulation. Had all symptoms (excepct tender breast). Had a light spotting 4 days b/c my period was to start. lasts 2 days. Usually last 4-6. Took a HPT and was neg. What do you think?
go see your doctor or go to a public clinic to get a test. their's will be more accurate and uses a different means of testing. good luck, whichever way you wish it to go!!
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Are you a loner?
i prefer to say i'm an introvert. it more accurately captures that i may enjoy the company of others, but at the end of the day, i get my peace and sense of self from being alone. but, yeah, basically kind of a loner, lol!!
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What's your favourite sandwich recipe?
avocado, mayo and bacon on toasted multigrain bread . . . YUMMY!!!
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DO PIECINGS HURT?
almost inevitably. however, it depends on what you are getting pierced and your outlook on the pain, ie: if you can embrace it as part of the experience, it hurts less, but if you try to fight the pain, it will hurt more. some of us can truly embrace it and see it as a beautiful and somewhat cathartic experience. lovely!!
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What lessons have you learned the hard way?
don't compromise yourself on the important stuff; someone will inevitably end up miserable.
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If you have one ticket to heaven, who will you give to and why? be honest
cody. he is the only person i know who wants to go but believes he won't.
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The air conditioner in the apartment that I rent is old and inefficient and doesn't even cool the room that it is in, what should I do? The landlord won't provide a new one, I've asked before.
depending on where you live, he HAS to provide another one to maintain a livable residence. check your local rental laws and good luck :)
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What book or manuscript do you feel should be listed among the world's greatest pieces of wisdom literature?
scepticism inc. by bo fowler
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So your walking down the street and you find a car made of cookies what do you do?
i eat that shit!!!
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What "classic" (movie, book, etc.) do you hate?
the great gatsby. i mean seriously, what the fuck!?
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What do you believe is the most important event of all time?
the big bang - creating usable matter rocks!!!
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I took my belly buttong ring out years ago, and the hole is still there. Sometimes a white puss, I suppose you would call it, with an odor will come out if I squeeze the hole. Does my constant nausea have anything to do w/this?
what you are talking about is not puss and not an infection (that is of course, unless you are leaving out that it is painful and red and swollen). when you have a fully formed fistula and then remove the jewelry, your body tries to "plug" the fistula with that kinda stinky white stuff even if part of the fistula has reclosed. if you can still squeeze some of that out, then the...
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What is your sexual prefence?
often ;)
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What is the oddest fetish you know of?
sweater/knitting fetish . . . wearing sweaters; who knew?
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How do i make my wife to squirt during sex?
i've only been able to have them while masturbating and i have them every time i do unless i try not to. i've had some very intense orgasms while not alone, but none that i've ejaculated from. also, some women just ejaculate more readily than others. it may be a comfortability issue. it is with me. i'm not super comfortable with the idea of ejaculating with my partner,...
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I have a high heel, and dominatrix fetish and my girlfriend is hesitant about being dominant, How can I get her to explore?
start simple and safe abd take baby steps. she probably feels uncomfortable in part because she is worried she will cross some boundary and embarrass herself. make sure that she always feels as comfortable and loved as possible. reassure her that it doesn't change your relationship outside the bedroom. also, let her know that you will make sure that this won't become an ALL THE...
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My belly button looks nasty and crusty! was done about a month ago, and is cleaned daily. Is it growing out?? is my body rejecting it? should i take it out completely and give up? b/c it seems to not be getting better at all. Please help! =(
"crusties" as they are called, are a normal part of healing a piercing. they are not indicative of an infection or of rejection AT ALL. healthily healing piercings should have them. continue cleaning it and leave it in. start doing salt soaks 5-10 minutes 2-3 times per day. this will urge out the white blood cells and you can wash them away before they turn into crusties. if you...
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Will two gallons of water clean my urine from cocain in two days?
no. you'll just pee a lot of water. the cocaine will naturally leave your system over a set period of time and simply drinking water will not speed this up. i know some head shops sell kits that are supposed to get cannabis toxins out of your system more quickly, but i don't know if they actually work or if they have kits for cocaine. good luck!!
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Did you ever have a friend with benifits? how long did the "relationship" last and did you stay friends afterwards?
had one for about a year, ended the relationship because we were long distance but developed feelings for each other. recently became friends again, but even farther apart and so don't talk a whole lot. another i'm in the middle of now, been going on about 3/4 months and things are great! get the feeling that when/if the benefits end, we will either be great friends or actually a...
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Is the Evolutionism religion stupid?
what do you mean evolutionism religion?? if you mean people who believe in evolution, then that's not a religion per se.
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Ok my tongue wasnt too bad eariler.. but i woke up and it as stinging.. so i went to the bathroom to use mouthwash.. and stuff.. and it was like white and goopy around the ring top and bottom.. is that bad? is it infected? i dont no what to do.. help
when you got it pierced is important information to know if you ant to know if stinging is okay. if you got it done recently (last month or so), then OF COURSE it's going to hurt. if it's been longer, than could be an indication of a problem. either way, keep caring for it the way you were told to after first getting it done. white goopy stuff is usually just white blood cells....
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Im on the Mini Pill and have missed about a weeks worth, and had unprotected sex. and now my nipples are really tender and a little bigger, i've done a test and it was negiatave, is this correct? As i dont ever have peroids.
go to your doctor or a public health clinic and have them administer a pregnancy test. theirs are much more accurate than the ones you buy at the store.
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Do you fear Ann Coulter?
i fear that her use of distorted logic will corrupt not only the opinions of the masses, but their understanding of logic.
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What's better: poems about sex or poems about love?
poems about sex. if done well, they can accurately capture some of what you feel when you have sex. a poem about love has never captured love to me in such a way that i felt a little like i was in love.
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Do you have voyeurist tendencies?
no, but i like when who i'm with is enjoying watching what i'm doing. not really the same thing though. you?
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What changes have had to occur to the rest of the skeleton for the modern skull to have evolved to its present form?Explain your answer
this is a big and controversial question. i will provide a simplified answer that covers most of the bases in a way that most evolutionary theorists should agree with (i think, lol). brain size is the primary difference between modern homo sapians and past and present relatives. brain size is invariably linked to bipedality. we developed large brains in order to better survive in our past...
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Which hominid has a chin?Explain why the chin has evolved.
only homo sapians has a chin. there is much debate over why we have it. some say it has evolved for a purpose (i'm not very versed in the reasons people give for why it would have evolved, sorry), while others (and i agree with this view) say that it was either random or, more likely, came along as a "bundle" of sorts with some other evolutionarily beneficial feature. it is in...
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How do I cope with a clingy boyfriend?
if the relationship is good otherwise, talk to him about it. tell him that you are feeling overwhelmed by his attention and that it would be beneficial to the relationship if he relaxed and gave you a bit more space. if the relationship is not good, then it may be time to reassess why you are in it.
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During those writing sessions in which you manage to churn out page after page do you ever imagine them ending?
depends on who i am writing for. if it is for myself, then no. if it is for a class then i see the end from the beginning; i see where i want to be after writing all i need to write. how about you??
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Why do i like him so much?
maybe because he is one of the few who is worth really liking. enjoy and embrace it, even if that's all it ever becomes, because when it's been 2 years since you have felt that way, you find you really miss it. good luck :)
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Who loves you, and who do you love?
mom, dad, tommy, nicki, rae, john, and grace. maybe more, but they're all i need and all i need to be needed by.
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Evolution?
yes! yes! yes! natural selection brings me joy!!!
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I went and got a tattoo from a professional and he really did a bad job is their anyway i can get a refund?
i would go in and talk to him/her and say you are not happy and ask what he/she can do. if he/she is really a professional, he/she will be concerned about your happiness and with what you tell people about his/her work.
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On my care card for my tat they said no swimming, saunas or soaking but no time when i can start again. You have any ideas how long? I also dont know what will happen to it when i start to lose my lovehandles?
ten pounds should not be a big deal depending on placement. i've always understood 2 weeks to be a good time to resume life as normal with new ink, but i only have three. once it has stopped pealing and itching is probably about right. good luck :)
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What's in the Magic Eraser?
magic.
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Ok, is it true that after you have your navel pierced for like maybe almost a month now and it starts itching, that it's healing?
some people will experience itching when a new piercing is healing. if it is swollen/pussy/red/sore too, then go see your piercer. if not, it's probably fine :) just don't itch it.
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Do catholics disapprove of birth control?
the religion dictates that birth control should not be used, but of course, each person's individual opinion can vary.
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If you could know something then that you know now, what would it be?
stay true to myself and if others can't handle it, then they can't handle me and that's okay
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I may not be perfect, but I am.......?
a work in progress
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Why are women so incredibly ugly?
probably because you have baggage.
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What is the name of the person you are thinking of the most now?
blake
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I have a boil on the area where i got my ear picered a year ago and i just started growing what is it and how can i make it better?
go see a good, trusted piercer and ask what he/she suggests you do to take care of it. leave the jewelry in until then and DON'T pierce it!!
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Im wanting to get my tragus pierced, do you get a ring or a barbell thingy, does it hurt very much and will it get infected most likely? ( im getting it done with a needle my last piercing with
you can have either a ring or a barbell put in at first, so long as your anatomy with support it. also, research your piercer and the shop you are going to. he/she should probably be using a curved hollow needle on a tragus, probably a 16ga at the smallest. because you are going through some cartilage, it will, for most people, hurt more than a standard lobe piercing. mine felt like a lobe...
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I got my tongue pierced about 6 months ago and it healed fine. just a few days ago I hit it with my tooth brush and now it is swollen and it hurts on the bottom of my tongue round the bar and also there is puss there. i thought about takin it out...?
DO NOT TAKE IT OUT!!!!!!!!!!! the jewelry keeps the hole open which allows the pus and other fluids a way to leave the wound. taking it out could stop this escape route and lead to an abscess or other serious problem. what likely happened was that when you bumped your piercing, you caused a tiny rip in your tongue and because you (probably) didn't start a more intense cleaning regimine,...
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What is in the Chinese alcohol called bijun or baichung or something that gives such a unique high?
thanks whoever down-rated me apparently for not knowing the spelling of a foreign word i've only ever heard spoken by non-native speakers while we were all drunk. i appreciate it . . .
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Are you secretly gay?
yup. pretty damn sure!! i like the way it feels when my breasts are scratched by BEARD STUBBLE!! get me?? lol!
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oop!! that was supposed to be a comment, not an answer!! lol!! sorry! :)
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When you have a cold, why does only one nostril get clogged at a time?
just an idea: during normal (unclogged) breathing, one of your nostrils is "dominant" over the other -- that is, it is responsible for taking in much more air than the other. perhaps when you get sick and your nose is clogged, you only really notice that the dominant nostril is clogged because the other was not doing much before it got clogged anyway.
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I know it is a touchy subject, but what are your views on abortion?
it is unfortunate but necessary. the needs of an individual already established in the world and society (the mother) outweigh the needs of an individual who may not even be developed enough to survive in it for more than a few moments. women are more than baby-carriers.
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Soylent Green, best with a red or white wine?
i like it with a nice pale ale personally :)
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I love my bf aged 25 and im 17 he lives miles away and i see him alot hes recently asked me to marry him after knowing him 2-3 days im a guy hes a guy i dont wanna let him down wat should i do?
tell him that you really care about him and are very excited for your future together, but that you are not ready to rush into marriage. one that worked for me with a marriage-happy ex was "i have the rest of my life to be your wife, and i think it'd be nice to be your girlfriend for a little longer" *cute grin and kiss on the cheek and he's smitten* be honest and...
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How do I dry microwaves with herbs?
when the planets align in the northern sky, ask the herbs politely to dry your microwaves. preferably oregano or thyme. rosemary can sometimes help to dry those nasty wet microwaves, but it's not optimal when the others are available.
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What is the prime directive?
isn't it not to interfere with cultures who are pre-warp and not to expose them to the warp technology?
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When milk goes bad, it's said to go "sour". What do you call it when sour cream goes bad?
"more sour than usual"
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Just read about a dog in New Jersey that won the "ugliest Dog" contest. That is very mean, I think. How would the owners of that dog like to be entered in an "ugliest Owners" contest? What do you think about that?
it's just a dog. i don't think he minds. in fact, he is probably stoked to be getting more treats and attention than usual. for the family, HE IS JUST A DOG. it's cute and fun to make fun of an animal you love to death but is really ugly. i used to have a one eyed dog with benign tumors all over her body and she was my little baby . . . and ugly as sin :)
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What do you think about muslim people when you see them in public places?
"hey, look, there's a guy there. alright."
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Has your dog/cat ever smiled or seemed to smile at you?
anamorphizing is fun!
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Why dont you take a hike, buddy?
i'm kinda lazy and i have to work in a couple hours, then after that i REALLY need to do laundry. i hate doing laundry. i have to haul me and all my sh*t to the laundromat up the street, dodging the crack head on the corner and then sit in that overly hot, humid building for an hour with a bunch of people i don't know. then, i get to fold all my underwear in front of them, and...
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What's a hip car to buy for under $3000?
a bike. okay, maybe a mid 80s BMW: they are a classic and because of it, people tend to keep good care of them which is why one from the mid 80s can still go for 3G. good luck :)
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I'm thinking of going to get my belly button pierced, but don't know of an area around where i live. If anyone lives in Gaithersburg, MD, please answer back.
try yelp.com they have always done well for me in california. if not, visit different shops and see where you feel comfortable and who has portfolios of piercings they've done (healed) that looked nice. ask around. people will tell you if they've had a good or bad experience and that is what it is all about :)
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If someone doesn't like themselves, how can they be so self-centered?
some people feign confidence to mask all the insecurities. it is a defense mechanism.
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What is your Questions:Answers:Comments ratio?
bout 1:10:7
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What are you doing up so late dont you have to work tommorow?
up and drunk bc no work tomorrow!! WOOHOO!!! it's 2:45 :)
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Would you try suicide if there was an UNDO button?
it could be interesting to reflect on an experience so few have ever been able to reflect on (namely death). maybe. by what means though???
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Have you ever put on your shoes before your pants?
haven't we all made that mistake once or twice?? and then without fail i always try to get the pants on over them. unless you mean metaphorically, like cart before the horse?? then, also, yes . . . except the pants are harder to get over the shoes in that case.
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Are you secretly gay?
no . . . i REALLY like boys!!! in fact, i have a silly grin on my face right now just thinking about them . . . all shapes and sizes, colors and accents, different clothes, opinions and senses of humor :)
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I have taken the pill regularly for the last 2 and 1/2 years. I haven't missed a pill in a long time and I take them at the same time everyday. I recently started a new pack and on the 4th day had unprotected sex. Is there a chance I am pregnant?
of course there is a chance. however, you're on the pill and take it regularly. this is about 96% effective. also, being that it was on the fourth day of your cycle, if the pills were not working well for whatever reason, you probably wouldn't be ovulating so soon anyway. and, in many circumstances, being on the pill when a sperm and ova meet creates a hormonal environment that is...
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Have you ever ridden on something ... if so what? No "nasty" answers please lol.
horse, my dog once when i was a little kid, a lot of other things . . . odd question. my dad and uncles used to ride sheep when they were kids, like a bucking bronco, but for 6 year olds!! the times, they are a'changing!!
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Which language would you like to learn?
german!!! such a silly, happy language :)
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What do you think about models?
they have the bodies of prepubescent boys and don't menstruate. how is this supposed to be the ideal of female beauty??? i'm sure personally, they are just like most people, if not a little caught up in their work (but aren't most people?).
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What's the closest you've been to being knocked over by a vehicle and did your life pass before you?
crossing the street in a crosswalk of a slow intersection, and homeboy wasn't paying attention and i had to kind of runjumpskipglide out of the way to avoid his fender. no life flashing, just adrenaline and a volvo. sorry :(
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The city of Seattle could ban microwave popcorn. Thoughts?
any city COULD ban microwave popcorn. it's a matter of if they WILL, and, honestly, they won't. your orville redenbocker is safe another day ;)
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Do you have any good sex tips?
vary the "angle of approach" . . . it's niiiiiiiiice!!
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What is your favorite thing to order in McDonalds?
no, fast food makes me all stomach-achey!! i wish it didn't, but the grease kicks my GI track's ass!!!
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How can I solve a Rubik's Cube?
there are a few algorithms that you can use. some are fast and complex and others are slow and easy. google it. once you understand the logic of the cube it becomes easier :) good luck!!!
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Should I go to sleep or stay on Answerbag?
i don't know if you should . . . but i sure as hell am!!! :)
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Is it possible to sweat blood?
no, sweat and blood are parts of separate systems and will leave your body for different reasons.
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Do you apologize for things that are not your fault? Is that wrong?
i'm in food service and i do it ALL the time. even away from work, when it will make someone feel better, why not?? i don't think it's wrong because you aren't necessarily taking blame, just apologizing for the circumstance. just like you say your sorry if someone has an ill family member. often an "i'm sorry" just expresses some kind of condolence.
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What is petting in sexual terms?
i thought it was something along the lines of general groping??
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Why does my TV keep turning off when my brother is in the room?
maybe it just doesn't like him :(
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I don't live in the US, so the only thing i know about the president are that his name are George Walker Bush. Do you like him? if you don't like him, why?
no, i shave. HAHAHAHAHA!!!!! i HAD to! lol! no to him, either!!
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What weird thing attracts you to someone else?
facial scars, tattoos, piercings (those two aren't really weird though), a nice pot belly, poorly groomed facial hair . . .
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Do you change when you're drunk, do you get less defensive/more honest? Or more guarded?
i get SUPER honest!! and f you're ,y friend, get ready to hear e.v.e.r.y.t.h.i.n.g!!!!! lol!!
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Do you agree with the statement that when a person is angry and says something hurtful he has meant to always say it.
i agree with medeous :)
i'll edit then :) people are definitely just mean sometimes for the sake of being mean. when my ex and i used to fight, we'd often apologize for mean things we said because "we were just angry and in the heat of the moment and didn't mean it." certainly sometimes and with some people the truth is more likely to slip out, but i think usually...
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If you see a dog inside of a locked car on a hot day and you break the window to free it and prevent its death, are you going to get arrested for "criminal behavior"?
probably, yes.
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Http://www.thesurrealist.co.uk/slogan.cgi...
go to this site, type in your name what was the FIRST slogan that came uP?
the loudest noise comes from the electric shelli . . . what??? hehe!!
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So how are you today?
a little hungover, but WELL worth it :) such is life!!
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Name a word with a silent letter?
pseudonym
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What is the last thing you won?
a room in the apartment i wanted to get a room in :) YAY!
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Now what do females feel deflowering a virgin, and why they do it (considering they won't marry the guy). Do they feel respect for guys after the act?
maybe dude just wants to have sex and the chick he wants to have sex with has had sex before. they like each other, or whatever, and may not get married, but whatever. why does losing one's virginity have this negative connotation of having something stolen from you and the dirty thief responsible is some kind of bad person? it's just sex, people, chill!
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What's your favorite sex position? and why?
they are all wonderful and beautiful in their own way :) *sighs and grins like an idiot*
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If lightning hit the sea, would the strength go through the whole area of water, and would all the fish die?
no.
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My girlfriend always checking on my email
get new girlfriend
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Do pizza delivery guys really get laid a lot?
probably no more than any other food servers . . . except probably less than most bartenders!!
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MTV just called your house to pimp your ride. You have to get your car fitted with hydrolics and spinning rims. Do you accept the free upgrade?
can you even pimp a kia hatchback??? me thinks not!!
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What crosses your mind when you look at pictures of yourself as a young child?
i dressed WAY cooler back then!!! lol!! i have one pick where i'm about 3 and am wearing blue cotton pants, a pink shirt, gray moon boots and a brown and tan "fur" coat. i was such a badass!!!
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AAAaargh I have just found some grey hair on my head! Im only 32 ! Im devastated please console me... Have you got any?
my 23 year old roommate has many and must redye her roots every few weeks. don't stress :)
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Are women always really bitchy and say really hurtful things at the end of long relationships?
wow, bitter much? i'm sure most women try not to be, but then again, your perception of all of her actions is skewed by the fact the relationship is over, and maybe that causes you to see her actions as more bitchy than usual. or maybe she is just a bitch. i ended a long term relationship not so long ago and did my best to be as nice and helpful as possible. things were hard enough on...
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What's with all of these questions about virginity? Has somebody misplaced their hymen?
people always want to know about sex, and the first time is even more intriguing . . . we are a nosy primate :)
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You have to choose one as a pet -- rat, snake or hedgehog -- which one would you choose? Are you male or female?
rats. i've had them before and they are GREAT! i'm female. and soooooo cute!! lol!
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When you lost your virginity, How did you feel?
beautiful. as it should be. wait until it is beautiful :)
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How would i know if my male friends masturbate?
simple answer: they have genitalia :)
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How many different ways can you spell your name?
shelley
shelly
shellie
chelley
shelli
those are the most common i've seen (in order)
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Bob Barker just handed me the deed to 'The Price is Right' .... do you want to Come On Down?
oh, i'm coming on down alright!! i'm coming on down in a huge way!! lol!
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Can anybody help me know what the background song is for this vid "http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_xSJG1pZrc&NR=1? "Thank you!
no, but i wish i could, it's a great song!! lol! sorry!
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What are your views on homeschooling?
i think that academically, it is usually wonderful, but i think that it is usually quite isolating and may cause problems in social skill development. the lacking social skills do more harm than the better education does good. social skills are more important to living a normal and successful life than stuff learned in grade school.
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In one word, how would you describe your sex life?
lacking . . . i have a great partner but our schedules don't mesh, so i'm barely getting it once a week :(
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Bone, Bong, Blunt, or Bowl?
pint :)
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What are the key differences between a polygamist, a polyamorous person and a swinger?
from what i know:
polygamist - man with multiple women/wives; focus on the romantic relationship
polyamorous - a person who believes that we can be in love with multiple people at the same time (often males and females) and can be in happy, healthy relationship with all of them at the same time; focus in the romantic relationship
swinger - usually a couple who both "swing," or...
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How many tattoos do have on your body? If so would you do more than what you have?
i have three and plan on having many more. i plan to get a half or three quarter sleeve on my right arm, lettering on my side, a chest piece, an inner ankle, possibly finish my current wrists and eventually get some leg work done. it's addictive but i am poor :( how about you?
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What is your favorite flavor of Doritos?
classic nacho cheese . . . yum!
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Do I look like Tom Cruise?
no, but you're handsome :)
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What food could you live on for the rest of your life? If you Had to..
duh? chocolate . . . okay, really, potatoes. you can make them a MILLION different ways and they are always good!!! and healthy, too!
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Can anyone disprove God or disprove that he created everything?
it is a logical impossibility to prove the non-existence of anything. this, however, should not be thought of as evidence PROVING there is a god, it merely means his existence cannot be disproven.
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In many states, teachers are banned from using red pen to grade tests, are you afraid of red ink?
i'm not. the rule seems a little weird, but i guess it really bothers some people. i suppose it's an easy change to make some kids less uncomfortable about receiving criticism. that's good, right??
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What is the biggest nonsexual turnoff?
pushy guys . . . so irritating!!
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What is the best kind of cookie?
one in my mouth!!! YAY, COOKIES!!!!
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What does an average waitress make?
hourly varies by state, but in california is minimum wage. then it varies by amount of business, quality/atmosphere of the restaurant (ie: denney's vs a five star french restaurant), how much alcohol is served (average tips are higher for alcohol), shift worked, night worked, location, etc. i work at a casual, family restaurant with wine and beer, weekday lunches and weekend dinners...
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Is it ok to ask a question on AB just because it is funny?
it's okay, but i've found that a lot of people are butt heads and down-rate you for it :(
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When is a good time to stop breast feeding?
2 years is the average in non-US countries, through the first year offers the most nutrition and protection, after the first year, it's still good, but most of the help has already been given to the baby!! really, it's personal preference and lifestyle :)
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Where does a parent draw the line between child abuse and child discipline?
maybe when the intent switches from disciplinary to aggressive??
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Whats the first thing you say when you wake up?
uuuggggggghhhhh . . . .
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You've just died. Write your Own Epitah(Mesage on your headstone) Or Eulogy.
dead not sleeping
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Is 1 year old corona bear drinkable?
if it's not had a lot of sun/light exposure, probably. sun/light exposure (especially in green bottles) (and, yes, i know corona has a clear bottle) causes that "skunky" aftertaste. yuck!!!
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How many people do you think would answer a question about nothing?
you're downrating this??? lol!!! some people have no (bad) sense of humor, hehehe!!
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How will you be defined in the dictionary? http://www.quizgalaxy.com/quiz_83.html
oh, yeah, mine was
Shelli [adj]: extremely extreme
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My mom said she dreamed that I was pregnant or that I told her that I was pregnant? But I thought that when someone is pregnant, you dream of fish. What could this mean? And also could my boyfriend's mom dream of fish instead of my mom?
as far as the superstition goes, i would say it HAS to be your mom and it HAS to be about fish. whether you choose to believe the superstition is up to you, but i would say it has to be VERY specific.
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How many ear piercings do you have?
i have about 15 holes, but only 6 have jewelry in now: my stretched lobes, tragus, helix, rook and inner conch. my ears are probably not going to get any more holes, but the lobe stretching shall continue to about an ought (exciting!!!!).
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What is my relationship to my cousin's children?
i think they are your "cousins once removed" and your kids will be their second cousins. yeah, bc generation differences are the "removed" part.
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Do you find it annoying when people spell things wrong?
it bothers me when it is excessive and to the point where what they have written is hard to read and requires interpretation. other than that, i don't really care.
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What place have you been to where people are just so friendly and they welcome you with open arms?
my bar :)
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What can I put in my Cup-O-Noodle to make it less boring?
if you boil the water then pour it into the cup, you can put a raw scrambled egg in first on top of the noodles, and the hot water cooks the egg making yumminess spontaneously occur in your cup (i do this with top ramen all the time, but have tried it with cup of noodles and it works)!!!
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Can you get a tattoo over scars? I have a lot of scars on my arms that raise up above the rest of my skin... can that be tattooed over?
you can tattoo over scars. staffie is right, the longer you wait for the scar to fully heal the better. however, you should go into your tattoos with the knowledge that they may not be perfect due to the underlying imperfections of the skin they rest on. talk to the artist you want to work on you and find out if he/she has experience tattooing over scar tissue. get pictures of the healed...
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What kind of gases is used in the soda (pop / soft drinks) ....?
carbon, right? as in "carbonation"? guinness and boddingtons beers use nitrogen . . . yummy :)
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Where can you get contraception from?
grocery store, pharmacy, gas station. if there is a public clinic in your area, they will probably give you some for free :) be safe!!!
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What is hanging from your rearview mirror?
a bumblebee stuffed animal, a little crystal my mom gave me, a bracelet from a friend who is in iraq right now :(, a parking permit from my old junior college and a vanilla air freshener. i have a happy rearview =P
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Have you experienced infidelity? What are the signs of Cheating? How did you deal/cope with it?
also, go with your gut. if you really feel like something weird is happening, it probably is.
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When you have a headache, what do you do about it?
i used to get migraines a lot and my rule was: whenever i felt a headache coming on, i'd take meds (like ibuprofen or excedrin) and lay down in a cool, dark place ASAP!!! this always helped to limit the headache and stave off a migraine. a cool towel on the head and limited movement and noise were always SUPER beneficial. for migraines, paying attention to my breathing and how my body...
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Uh-oh, your epidermis is showing--what do you do?
hopefully have a good time ;)
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Where did you lose your virginity?
futon mattress on his bedroom floor . . . sounds lame, but actually quite WONDERFUL!!
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Do you or would you have your nipples pierced? Why or why not?
getting mine done soon :) YAY!!!
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Where can I get a Muslim's harp?
oddly enough, also ebay :)
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Where can I get a Jew's harp?
i always thought it was "juice" harp?? no? or is it like the card sharp/card shark controversy (ie they are both correct, it's merely personal preference)?
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I found out that my husband kissed another woman years ago before we were married but in a committed relationship. At the time we were in different countries for several months. since I found out, I feel both hurt and forgiving.Is what he
those are questions only you can answer, unfortunately. really, what it boils down to is 1) can you really, truly forgive him? and 2) do you trust that he won't ever do anything like this again? these are both important. if you cannot forgive him, it will hugely sour your relationship. if he'll do it again, well, that just sucks. but if you can forgive him and move on from it...
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WHY oh WHY do most women travel to the washroom in packs?
i tend to go alone. that may mean i have a problem :P
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Http://www.thesurrealist.co.uk/slogan.cgi...
go to this site, type in your name what was the FIRST slogan that came uP?
welcome to shelli country . . . i like it :)
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Name 1 thing that puts you in a good mood and 1 thing thats puts you in a bad mood
thinking critically about my life. this answers both questions.
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On Deadlist Catch *(discovery channel) Who do you think is the Hottest Captian?
sig hanson . . . what can i say, i have a thing for swedes!!!
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Why is it the female with the 'plumage' in some species and the male in others?
aw, the beauty of evolution :) the technical term for the "plumage" you speak of is display behaviors. these range from marked differences in the physical appearance of males and females of a species (like the feather differences of peacocks or the size differences of orangutans (differences in body type is called sexual dimorphism)) to variance in behavior (like the mating dance of...
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What do you think of this "I believe the grass is no more greener on the other side"? agree? your experiances on this?
i believe that "the grass is greener on the other side" is false ad that people only believe it is. from my experience, it is often not greener . . . but sometimes believing that it is can be very fun and nice!! :) and then, again, sometimes (though rarely) it actually IS greener.
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Would you give up the other gender for life, if you found out being straight was a sin? (Christians only! since being gay is considered a sin…because that is basically what the church seems to expect gay people to do)?
i can't answer bc i'm not christian, but GREAT question!!!
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Do you believe life is about finding yourself or creating yourself?
aren't they one and the same?? because you are yourself, and only you can define yourself, the you you find is the you you have created. you find what you create in yourself. and i think that can be very hard!!
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Can somebody explain why some people are just naturally rude, genes or upbringing?
definitely genes and environment both. the two cannot be separated and understood independent of one another and while there may be no rudeness gene, there are genes that will code for some aspects of disposition. both, always both :)
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What are your thoughts on "freebirthing"? Is it selfish, or totally safe? BEFORE YOU ANSWER, read what it is...if you don't know....(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freebirthing) - and, for the record, it's not something I'm doing.....
i don't think it's selfish, at least not in a bad way. and of course, complications can occur during birth, but we have been around for a long time without medical equipment at our births and have fended fairly well. i think it could really enhance the birthing experience!!
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What does it mean when you have a dream and come to find out that it has came true
i think it means coincidences happen. we dream many times throughout the night and often about things that are relevant to our waking life, and it only makes sense that once in a while, a dream will resemble something that happens later in waking life. but i'm forever the skeptic :)
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Abstinence or not?
take your time with it . . . sex is a lot of fun if it's with the right person. there's something to be said for having your first time be really awesome bc your partner really means something to you!!! whether that's on your wedding night, or prom night . . . that's up to you and your partner!
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Is it possible to be chaste and psychologically balanced and healthy in the long run, or is sexual activity in some form essential to our wellbeing?
maybe just masturbate :)
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What is a song that would not be good to put on before putting the moves on your lover?
how about starting with never saying "putting the moves on" EVER AGAIN!!! lol!! oh, and get off by the dandy warhols, unless your partner has a sense of humor . . . but seriously, "putting the moves on???" no.
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What is your absolute lowest priority in life?
if it really is my absolute lowest, would i even know what it is?? wouldn't it be something completely inane, like, how many bacteria are on the bottom of my left tennis shoe??? lol!!
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Is oral sex really sex?
yes, but what that means will vary person-to-person. for instance, i gave oral sex before having actual intercourse, but don't consider that having lost my virginity. most people (in western culture at least) put so much importance into the actual penis-vagina thing that i think most people would agree that it is in a different realm of sex than oral.
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If it was the end of the world and you had a choice between staying on earth and (probably) dying or living in outer space and (hopefully) surviving, which would you do?
depends on where my loved ones are. surviving, but all alone, is merely surviving, not living. i would rather risk death to stay with the people i love than risk that yucky fate.
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If you had to, but you didn't want to, what would you do?
if you say you "have to," then there must be a really good reason to. if there wasn't a good reason, you'd have said "should." with such a good reason, who could not do it??
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If you have two kids, a daughter and a son, will you raise them with completely different ideas as to what roles they will fill in society? Will you treat them differently from a young age? What do you hope to acheive by doing this?
i'm sure that, for the most part, gender roles are reinforced subconsciously.
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Whats the last word that came out of your mouth?
"always" in response to my bartender telling me to get home safe :)
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Utqioerigoadfyuvjabnmbghjqhetjhiuoasdfhgjnduhqerwiujhntj?
yes. usually on saturdays.
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Is there anything that can be used to decrease irritation/razorburn from you bikini area? There is not discoloration, but it is sensivtive. I have tried baby powder, but it really didn't help much.
shave with a new razor, exfoliate gently about once a week, rinse with cold water after you shave and always follow up with a moisturizer. also, shaving everyday makes the irritation worse. and shave with the hair, not against . . . sideways may work too if your skin isn't too sensitive and gives a closer shave. mostly, just listen to your body . . . it is an art, not a science and your...
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If you are in a marriage with a ton of indifference and you meet this amazing woman who you share tons of common interests with and you make love, is it wrong?
you made a vow of faith to your wife and breaking that vow is wrong. be a big person and tell her what's up with all the problems and how you're feeling like acting (ie: cheating) you may be surprised at the outcome. even if you aren't, everything is on the table and it is better that way. good luck!!!
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We're thinking of names for our baby son, surname Ford. Which of these is your favourite and least favourite: Barnaby, Reuben, Ike, Phineas and Felix. Why?
i like rueben most and ike least . . . "ike ford" sounds like a suburb :)
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I'm feeling curious today..do you think moses really parted the seas?
probably not, but what a nice way to artistically illustrate the power we have . . . most bits of the bible are literary devices used to illustrate some moral someone thought was important.
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Do you still have your 'lovie' or security blanket/toy from when you were a child? I do. I'm 25.
i still have my bankie, but he lives in my closet now . . . perhaps i'll pull him out for a cuddle soon!
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Is the banana /really/ the atheist's worst nightmare? (Perfectly serious... I'll post a link explaining inside.)
i have seen that video and, unfortunately, i'm pretty it is for real. however, it is not an atheist's worst nightmare. the host mentioned a bunch of coincidental associations between bananas and how we eat them. in fact, the same points could be made (by someone a little kooky) to show how perfectly humans and bananas have coevolved (it would really be a ridiculous supposition, but...
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Should you stay in a marrage for the sake of the kids if your not in love anylonger?
i think if the divorce is handled with grace and the kids' needs and feelings are attended to, it is a far better option than staying with your spouse. my parents split but did so in a way that allowed me to see them both and not feel torn, nor was i exposed to their conflict and drama. it wasn't fun, but it was certainly preferable to having them together but miserable. sorry and...
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Do you think it should be legal to abort full grown adults?
definitely. what consenting adults do together privately is none of the government's business as long as all involved parties ARE consenting adults.
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Why is there a piano in the house from "Full House" if nobody there plays piano?
doesn't every "perfect family" have a piano??
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My wife has no sense of humor. She hates my jokes. SHe tells me how bad I am. She has hormone problems. Does she hate me? We have 4 kids and I can't put them through a divorce. What do I do?
try talking to your wife. maybe her negativity towards you and your humor stems from some other problem(s) she is having, that may not even relate to you. good luck!!
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Is there any way to make good cookies without sugar?
i know a lot of people who put apple sauce into cakes as a sugar substitute, maybe this would work for some kinds of cookies???
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What are some good ways to make exercising fun?
i like listening to really energizing music that i love!! this helps me feel mentally more active which helps make the physical activity more enjoyable :)
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Does every girl bleed when her hymen breaks?
as everyone has said so far, no. if bleeding and/or pain during her first time is a worry, a woman can spend a few weeks (i know this sounds weird) "stretching" her vaginal opening herself. this may hurt, but better in this context than during sex, right?? this can help alleviate bleeding or discomfort during sex.
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Question of the day: Where are all the good men?
in my local pub :) actually, they are. i've met a lot of really wonderful men there . . . don't give up and don't try to hard, they really do exist and sometimes in the oddest of places!!!
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I've been with my boyfriend for 3 amazing years. However, he recently confessed to cheating on me while drunk 1 year ago. He said he'd rather risk losing me by finally telling the truth than continuing to live a tainted relationship. Any advice?
i think it bodes well for him that he was up front with you, even though it was a year later. you really only need to decide two things: 1) can you forgive him? if the answer is 'no' then your relationship won't be successful because you will carry your anger/hurt with you the whole time. and 2) do you believe that he will not make the same mistake again? mistakes happen and...
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In your opinion, what is the most stupid question you have ever read on AB?
a guy friend (very seriously) once asked me why when women spill food/drinks on themselves, it lands on their chests, while men's spills land on their stomachs . . . that was pretty amazing!!!
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Is having someone to love the most important thing in life?
maybe loving yourself enough to deal in life???
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Can you really have guiltfree casual sex?
sex is such a weird thing for humans that the answer to this will vary person to person. i think 'yes, and it's my favorite type of sex right now' but i understand why many people (and possibly me at another point in my life) find it difficult to separate sex from emotions.
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Have you ever been caught picking your nose by a stranger, then called out on it?
no, i think most people are too polite to call a stranger out on something like that. most of us have the decency to recognize that someone else would be needlessly embarrassed so we refrain from causing that discomfort.
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When an Email is sent to the wrong person, and it contains a paragraph warning that the "transmission is attorney privileged & confidential," does the UNINTENDED recipient actually have any obligation to maintain confidentiality?
legally, i would think not, because the warning was intended for someone else and it's not like you signed anything. but, it's probably still nice to be confidential if no one could get hurt about it.
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