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Answer to Did you see the video of the Oklahoma police officer who shot a dog? What do you think? Was it justified?

Mon, 27 Oct 2008 19:00:47 -0700

Did you see the video of the Oklahoma police officer who shot a dog? What do you think? Was it justified?

Nope. Looked more like an Airdale Terrier.

Answer to Where do you keep your house keys at night?

Sun, 26 Oct 2008 20:03:35 -0700

Where do you keep your house keys at night?

In my purse also.

Answer to What Makes Your Mouth Water?

Sun, 26 Oct 2008 19:58:27 -0700

What Makes Your Mouth Water?

Pumpkin Pie

Answer to What is the Last personal luxury you are willing to give up when money gets tight?

Thu, 09 Oct 2008 20:14:11 -0700

What is the Last personal luxury you are willing to give up when money gets tight?

I suppose what is luxury to one person is a necessity to another. Little luxury...I wouldn't want to give up the internet or diet coke. Big luxury...I wouldn't want to give up electricity and indoor plumbing.

Answer to If your s/o went into a coma, how long would it be before you left them? Or would you ever? As in, if they didn't wake up.

Mon, 06 Oct 2008 19:35:21 -0700

If your s/o went into a coma, how long would it be before you left them? Or would you ever? As in, if they didn't wake up.

I would never leave him. Till death do we part. That's my promise and commitment.

Answer to Do you have emergency savings set aside or do you just take on financial problems as they come?

Sun, 05 Oct 2008 19:55:22 -0700

Do you have emergency savings set aside or do you just take on financial problems as they come?

I have an emergency savings, but who knows what enough really is. Also, natural disasters in recent years have prompted me to keep a stash of cash just in case.

Answer to Could someone please recommend me some good I-hate-him angry break up songs?

Sat, 04 Oct 2008 06:00:33 -0700

Could someone please recommend me some good I-hate-him angry break up songs?

Crazy Ex Girlfriend - Miranda Lambert Not Ready to Make Nice - Dixie Chicks

Answer to I am 26 and have 2 kids, do you think there is still a man out there for me? I am to my wits end with the man I have been with for 8 years. I think it is time to move on, just wondering if I'd ever find someone else

Thu, 02 Oct 2008 19:47:24 -0700

I am 26 and have 2 kids, do you think there is still a man out there for me? I am to my wits end with the man I have been with for 8 years. I think it is time to move on, just wondering if I'd ever find someone else

Can you not be happy by yourself? What's wrong with being happy and single? Are you married? If so, don't you think you can work on your marriage? Yes, I do believe that you'll find someone else...but not as long as your emotionally attached to the wrong man. I believe that...

Answer to I am in an exclusive relationship with a man for 2 months now and he has one flaw......he keeps talking about other women......those in the past and those he wants to meet in the future. Why does he do this? I'm ready to end it all.

Wed, 01 Oct 2008 17:52:32 -0700

I am in an exclusive relationship with a man for 2 months now and he has one flaw......he keeps talking about other women......those in the past and those he wants to meet in the future. Why does he do this? I'm ready to end it all.

Sounds to me like he's either insecure or trying to get a reaction out of you...or both. Either one is a good reason to move on. You have every right to confront him on this.

Answer to SHALL I GET A TATTOO OF STARS AROUNF MY NIPPLE?

Wed, 01 Oct 2008 17:47:53 -0700

SHALL I GET A TATTOO OF STARS AROUNF MY NIPPLE?

That actually sounds pretty cool.

Answer to When you read--or try anyway--some of the questions posted here on AB, do you sometimes feel as thought you need to learn a new language?

Wed, 01 Oct 2008 17:46:31 -0700

When you read--or try anyway--some of the questions posted here on AB, do you sometimes feel as thought you need to learn a new language?

Yes. I wonder if they still teach English and writing skills in school.

Answer to If you can be somewhere else by just closing and opening you eyes, where would you go?

Tue, 30 Sep 2008 20:24:48 -0700

If you can be somewhere else by just closing and opening you eyes, where would you go?

Heaven.

Answer to Do you believe it is wrong to date someone who is 15 when you are 18 years old?

Tue, 30 Sep 2008 20:07:05 -0700

Do you believe it is wrong to date someone who is 15 when you are 18 years old?

I don't think it's wrong, but if you have sex it's illegal.

Answer to What is a reasonable amount of time to wait in a relationship to move in? (1 child 14, dating for a year)

Tue, 30 Sep 2008 20:00:40 -0700

What is a reasonable amount of time to wait in a relationship to move in? (1 child 14, dating for a year)

When you're married. You mentioned that he's scared of marriage. It sounds to me like he's not willing to totally commit. Why would you want to move in with someone who wants anything less?

Answer to When you state "I love you", is it heartfelt or routine? (Please be honest)

Tue, 30 Sep 2008 19:55:19 -0700

When you state "I love you", is it heartfelt or routine? (Please be honest)

It's always heartfelt. I don't say those words to many people. When I do, I mean it.

Answer to What are some foods with misleading names?

Tue, 30 Sep 2008 19:49:50 -0700

What are some foods with misleading names?

Jumbo shrimp...isn't that an oxymoron? Elephant ears.

Answer to Will you be carving a jack-o-lantern, or just buy one of those plastic ones?

Tue, 30 Sep 2008 19:44:28 -0700

Will you be carving a jack-o-lantern, or just buy one of those plastic ones?

I love carving pumpkins each year. I couldn't imagine getting a fake one.

Answer to What made you end a close friendship?

Tue, 30 Sep 2008 17:14:56 -0700

What made you end a close friendship?

One was gossip. Another was alcoholism I could no longer tolerate. And another was because we started sleeping together.

Answer to Does sleeping in separated rooms mean the beginning of the end of a relation ship?

Tue, 30 Sep 2008 17:12:45 -0700

Does sleeping in separated rooms mean the beginning of the end of a relation ship?

I don't think so. My parents have been married for over 40 years and have slept apart for probably the last 10. They sleep more restful that way. Also, several people mentioned snoring. That could be another reason. It totally depends on the situation.

Answer to What would you rather choose, get divorced or paralyzed from the waist down?

Tue, 30 Sep 2008 17:10:49 -0700

What would you rather choose, get divorced or paralyzed from the waist down?

Paralyzed. I've never been divorced, and I've never been married. But I'd rather be paralyzed that divorced.

Answer to Yesterday in the health department office, my little girl was walking around while waiting to get the last round of shots before she is 5. While doing this, she took down a pamphlet from one of the things hanging on the wall there. She handed it to me....

Tue, 30 Sep 2008 17:08:03 -0700

Yesterday in the health department office, my little girl was walking around while waiting to get the last round of shots before she is 5. While doing this, she took down a pamphlet from one of the things hanging on the wall there. She handed it to me....

I don't believe in coincidence. I believe that everything happens for a reason. It doesn't necessarily mean that she's seeing something....but do you believe in angels? Maybe your daughter just acted as one.

Answer to I saw a report that showed that women who had a good relationship with their fathers, looked for a man with similar physical features. What are your thoughts?

Tue, 30 Sep 2008 17:03:24 -0700

I saw a report that showed that women who had a good relationship with their fathers, looked for a man with similar physical features. What are your thoughts?

I have heard that women either fall in love with someone just like their father (if they had a good relationship) or someone opposite (if they had a bad relationship). I believe that is more true.

Answer to When you were a teenager, did your parents buy you a car or did you buy your own? what kind was it?

Mon, 29 Sep 2008 20:06:25 -0700

When you were a teenager, did your parents buy you a car or did you buy your own? what kind was it?

I bought my own. It was a beat up '84 camaro. I bought it in '94.

Answer to Would you date someone that had been married before? What if they have or had a child with that person? And finally, when would be the best time to find out? First date? after couple months?

Mon, 29 Sep 2008 20:01:31 -0700

Would you date someone that had been married before? What if they have or had a child with that person? And finally, when would be the best time to find out? First date? after couple months?

It depends upon the person, the circumstances of their divorce, how long they've been divorced, the kind of parent they are, the acceptance of their child/children, what kind of relationship they have with their ex, etc. I do know for a fact that the more people involved in a...

Answer to What someone calls you a 'bitch' what is your usual reaction?

Mon, 29 Sep 2008 19:53:02 -0700

What someone calls you a 'bitch' what is your usual reaction?

"oh well"

Answer to How do you define temptation?

Mon, 29 Sep 2008 19:50:14 -0700

How do you define temptation?

The urge to do something that you know you shouldn't do.

Answer to What is a good dry food to feed small dogs?

Mon, 29 Sep 2008 19:48:34 -0700

What is a good dry food to feed small dogs?

Science Diet

Answer to What do you consider sexy & what do you consider trampy when it comes to a woman?

Mon, 29 Sep 2008 19:35:49 -0700

What do you consider sexy & what do you consider trampy when it comes to a woman?

If I see them doing something kind for another person...that's sexy.

Answer to For ladies: do you like pretty boys, or manly men?

Sun, 28 Sep 2008 15:01:57 -0700

For ladies: do you like pretty boys, or manly men?

Manly men. Someone well groomed....but can get dirty and uses less hair products than me. My rule of thumb is that if a guy doesn't know how to use jumper cables on a car, then he's probably not manly enough for me. LOL

Answer to Why do i always fall for the wrong men? i want to believe they are for real but their all players. please help.

Sun, 28 Sep 2008 14:58:00 -0700

Why do i always fall for the wrong men? i want to believe they are for real but their all players. please help.

Good for you for asking yourself this question. The pattern is within you, not the guys. There is something within your personality that is causing you to repeatedly pick the same type of man. You just need to figure out what that is. Think about the similarities these guys have. What are...

Answer to What were your favorite scenes or quotes from the movie: O Brother, Where Art Thou?

Sat, 27 Sep 2008 06:54:52 -0700

What were your favorite scenes or quotes from the movie: O Brother, Where Art Thou?

Everyone gets points from me! I love the movie and I loved reading everyone's answers. Most of them made me smile. My favorite, which I don't think was posted yet, was "We thought you were a toad!".

Answer to Anyone knows what causes bowel movements to slow down. I tried googling it no help. Ok I use to poop everyday now Its every two days. I'm eating the same its just taking longer to come out. Sorry if it's gross. It's been going on about a week and a half.

Sat, 27 Sep 2008 06:50:04 -0700

Anyone knows what causes bowel movements to slow down. I tried googling it no help. Ok I use to poop everyday now Its every two days. I'm eating the same its just taking longer to come out. Sorry if it's gross. It's been going on about a week and a half.

If you're going less often, but everything is still normal when you do go, then you're fine. If you mean "slow down" as in constipated, then you likely need more fiber, water, or are eating or taking something that is making you constipated (as the previous person said). ...

Answer to Is there anything, wherever you live, that is allowed or legal in law which you would want outlawed (don't mention alcohol...that's a tired old subject)?

Sat, 27 Sep 2008 06:44:07 -0700

Is there anything, wherever you live, that is allowed or legal in law which you would want outlawed (don't mention alcohol...that's a tired old subject)?

Yes. My neighborhood allows people to burn the leaves they rake up in the fall. I hate the smoke.

Answer to If you owned a small business, what would it be?

Fri, 26 Sep 2008 20:05:01 -0700

If you owned a small business, what would it be?

I'd love to own therapy dogs and take them to nursing homes to visit the elderly.

Answer to The engagement ring I want is $15,000 with a real diamond and I am fine with a Cubic Zirconia which would only cost $1,300. My finace thinks it's dumb to do a fake stone. Would it matter to you if your engagement ring was a cubic zirconia?

Fri, 26 Sep 2008 19:58:47 -0700

The engagement ring I want is $15,000 with a real diamond and I am fine with a Cubic Zirconia which would only cost $1,300. My finace thinks it's dumb to do a fake stone. Would it matter to you if your engagement ring was a cubic zirconia?

It would absolutely not matter to me what kind of stone was in my ring. It could come from a bubble gum machine and I could care less. It's not the ring that makes the marriage! After 50 years of marriage, or even 10, a ring would mean diddly squat compared to love, time, and memories.

Answer to Love or money which is better?

Fri, 26 Sep 2008 19:55:03 -0700

Love or money which is better?

Love.

Answer to What's your favorite smell, or, What is an exotic thing you like the scent of that most others can't stand?

Fri, 26 Sep 2008 19:53:41 -0700

What's your favorite smell, or, What is an exotic thing you like the scent of that most others can't stand?

Spicy scents....liked spiced apple and spiced pumpkin.

Answer to My fiance' is being charged with the following felony's... attempted rape, criminal deviant conduct, criminal confinement, battery and strangulation. What are the maximum sentence for these crimes?

Fri, 26 Sep 2008 19:51:56 -0700

My fiance' is being charged with the following felony's... attempted rape, criminal deviant conduct, criminal confinement, battery and strangulation. What are the maximum sentence for these crimes?

I don't know, but please don't marry this guy.

Answer to Do you regularly hold doors open for people, let others get ahead of you in traffic and try to generally give others a break?

Fri, 26 Sep 2008 19:50:42 -0700

Do you regularly hold doors open for people, let others get ahead of you in traffic and try to generally give others a break?

Always.

Answer to How do you need to be loved?

Fri, 26 Sep 2008 19:20:28 -0700

How do you need to be loved?

With touch and time.

Answer to Are there any secrets you wish you didn't know?

Fri, 26 Sep 2008 19:09:47 -0700

Are there any secrets you wish you didn't know?

Yea. There have been people who I've held in a high esteem, then later learned that they were a bit "shady" or involved in not-so-great-things. Maybe it's best that I know, but it definitely burst my bubble.

Answer to 1-10 Are you worried about how you look?

Fri, 26 Sep 2008 19:07:44 -0700

1-10 Are you worried about how you look?

I'm not really that "worried", so I'd say I'm a 3. I care about how I look, and try to look good, but I can't say that I worry about it.

Answer to Does anyone actually know when you should make the decision to put the pet you love down?

Tue, 23 Sep 2008 08:10:57 -0700

Does anyone actually know when you should make the decision to put the pet you love down?

I think it's a quality of life issue. When your animal can no longer be managed medically and has a severely diminished quality of life, then I think it's time. (Not that it's going to be easy.) For example, I have a 15 year old dog with arthritis. He still eats well, runs,...

Answer to Is it normal to have very morbid thoughts about the details of a car accident that had 6 of your friends and your sister? 2 died. i mean slow motion detailed images of what happened in the car...

Mon, 22 Sep 2008 19:00:13 -0700

Is it normal to have very morbid thoughts about the details of a car accident that had 6 of your friends and your sister? 2 died. i mean slow motion detailed images of what happened in the car...

I think it's normal to think about it, but if it continues to control your life then I suggest speaking with a counselor to learn how to get things back on track and prevent the thoughts from controlling you. I'm sorry for your loss.

Answer to On average how many times a month could a woman potentially get pregnant?

Mon, 22 Sep 2008 18:42:31 -0700

On average how many times a month could a woman potentially get pregnant?

Most women ovulate once a month and have a span of 24 to 72 hours to conceive.

Answer to Did you ever have a favorite piece of clothing or furniture or knickknack that your s/o couldn't stand? (or vice versa?) What was it?

Mon, 22 Sep 2008 18:37:58 -0700

Did you ever have a favorite piece of clothing or furniture or knickknack that your s/o couldn't stand? (or vice versa?) What was it?

I liked paisley and he hated it. I had paisley clothes, purses, etc. He hated anything paisley. LOL!

Answer to The best music can be found______________

Mon, 22 Sep 2008 18:35:17 -0700

The best music can be found______________

In Bean Blossom, Indiana.

Answer to I have Plantar Fasciitis (pain in the heel of my foot. Advised to loose weight but, I can't walk because it's painful. I've cut back on meal portion. Can you think of exercises I can do to loose weight that does not involve the use of my feet?

Mon, 22 Sep 2008 18:11:50 -0700

I have Plantar Fasciitis (pain in the heel of my foot. Advised to loose weight but, I can't walk because it's painful. I've cut back on meal portion. Can you think of exercises I can do to loose weight that does not involve the use of my feet?

Swimming or riding a bike. Also, the doctor may have already told you, but be sure to stretch your calves.

Answer to If you could attain any one of your life goals .. today .. which one would you wish it to be?

Sun, 21 Sep 2008 19:20:08 -0700

If you could attain any one of your life goals .. today .. which one would you wish it to be?

Retirement.

Answer to Does it disturb you to think of what will happen to all your belongings or prized possessions when you die?

Sun, 21 Sep 2008 19:15:56 -0700

Does it disturb you to think of what will happen to all your belongings or prized possessions when you die?

No, it really doesn't disturb me to think about it. It's just stuff. The material things in my life don't define who I am. I don't think there's anything I own that I couldn't part with.

Answer to Which band had a drummer that lost an arm?

Sun, 21 Sep 2008 19:10:33 -0700

Which band had a drummer that lost an arm?

Def Leppard....I saw them in concert in 1988!

Answer to Did you ever go to a slumber party in a church hall when you were a child?

Fri, 19 Sep 2008 16:50:59 -0700

Did you ever go to a slumber party in a church hall when you were a child?

Oh yes! I stayed up all night.

Answer to If all the Christians suddenly died, what would happen to God?

Tue, 16 Sep 2008 18:42:15 -0700

If all the Christians suddenly died, what would happen to God?

Nothing, He'd still be God. If everyone died but you, you'd still be you, right?

Answer to How do you stop wanting?

Tue, 16 Sep 2008 18:32:16 -0700

How do you stop wanting?

Be content with what you have.

Answer to When you see someone with a hickey what do you think?

Tue, 16 Sep 2008 18:11:32 -0700

When you see someone with a hickey what do you think?

trashy

Answer to What is the funniest thing you have every seen the Muppets or a Muppet do?

Tue, 16 Sep 2008 18:09:24 -0700

What is the funniest thing you have every seen the Muppets or a Muppet do?

Oh, I love the muppets! When Animal chases a girl shouting "woman!" that cracks me up. It's also great when Piggy gives Kermie the backhanded "hi-ya!". And the Swedish Chef...he's funny too. And Gonzo....I love them all!

Answer to What can you do better than the average person?

Tue, 16 Sep 2008 18:06:51 -0700

What can you do better than the average person?

Public speaking Ride a horse ....and sometimes I think drive!

Answer to When I say push, what do you think of first?

Tue, 16 Sep 2008 18:02:30 -0700

When I say push, what do you think of first?

A woman having a baby.

Answer to How do you know if your ex still loves you?

Tue, 16 Sep 2008 15:26:09 -0700

How do you know if your ex still loves you?

Actions speak louder than words.

Answer to Which dog makes the better police dog? A German Shepherd or a Rottweiler?

Tue, 16 Sep 2008 15:24:16 -0700

Which dog makes the better police dog? A German Shepherd or a Rottweiler?

My first thought is a shepherd. They're much more agile. I've honestly never seen a Rott used for police work, but that doesn't mean they're not out there. I have seen Rotts used as rescue dogs.

Answer to How many of you are looking forward to opening day of deer season? Ladies have you ever shot a deer? Would you ever try it?

Tue, 16 Sep 2008 15:20:22 -0700

How many of you are looking forward to opening day of deer season? Ladies have you ever shot a deer? Would you ever try it?

I'm a lady. I've never deer hunted, but I pheasant hunt. Sure, I'd try it. I have girlfriends who look forward to opening day just as much as the guys do.

Answer to Why would an ex boyfriend that ended a relationship with you insist that you two remain friends?

Tue, 16 Sep 2008 15:18:31 -0700

Why would an ex boyfriend that ended a relationship with you insist that you two remain friends?

I've never been able to be friends with an ex, even when he insisted that that's what he wanted. Friendly, sure....but really good friends...no. I agree with the "back burner" comment. No thank you. You either want me or you don't. If he thought of me as a friend,...

Answer to Do you take your shoes to be repaired, or just buy new ones?

Tue, 16 Sep 2008 15:10:02 -0700

Do you take your shoes to be repaired, or just buy new ones?

If I'm really attached to a pair of shoes, then I'll get them repaired....I've done that a few times. However, most of the time I buy new. (This question has reminded me of what a "throw away" society we have. I should try harder to just get them repaired.) Good...

Answer to Why do women cut off there long hair when its so beautiful when its long?

Tue, 16 Sep 2008 15:07:17 -0700

Why do women cut off there long hair when its so beautiful when its long?

I have long hair, and always have had. I'd agree that most women over 50 have short hair. (I'm in my 30's.) It does seem that long hair tends to "drag down" some women's facial features and make them look tired. I think that's why a lot of older women get...

Answer to Did you ever dance to YMCA by the Village People, with all the actions?

Sun, 14 Sep 2008 11:40:33 -0700

Did you ever dance to YMCA by the Village People, with all the actions?

Ohhhhh yea. I even have it on video.

Answer to You’re at a dinner party and your hosts offer you an appetizer of frog’s legs. You _______.

Sat, 13 Sep 2008 18:19:13 -0700

You’re at a dinner party and your hosts offer you an appetizer of frog’s legs. You _______.

Eat them. I like frog legs.

Answer to When someone compliments you on something you're wearing, do you tell them where you got it and how much it cost?

Sat, 13 Sep 2008 18:16:53 -0700

When someone compliments you on something you're wearing, do you tell them where you got it and how much it cost?

If I got a really, really, really good deal then I might tell them. Like once I was buying a suit and it rang up as $5, so that's what they had to sell it to me for. The price tag was over $150. I told people what I paid for that one and where I got it.

Answer to Single _______

Sat, 13 Sep 2008 15:11:37 -0700

Single _______

and happy.

Answer to Am I the only one who hates the title and term an "EX". You are an ex-boyfriend or an ex-girlfriend. To me, I hate being entitled an ex to anyone.

Sat, 06 Sep 2008 12:25:13 -0700

Am I the only one who hates the title and term an "EX". You are an ex-boyfriend or an ex-girlfriend. To me, I hate being entitled an ex to anyone.

I can't say that it really bothers me. Out of curiosity, what would you rather be called? "Former", "old", "prior"....etc? Maybe you could start a new trend.

Answer to Hypothetically... As a gay person, if you first asked me, what I thought about your choices and sexual preferences and I told you my opinion, which turned out to be something you didn't want to hear, what would YOU then think of me? Remember HYPOTHETICAL

Sat, 06 Sep 2008 12:20:04 -0700

Hypothetically... As a gay person, if you first asked me, what I thought about your choices and sexual preferences and I told you my opinion, which turned out to be something you didn't want to hear, what would YOU then think of me? Remember HYPOTHETICAL

Regardless of the subject, when anyone directly asks for someone's opinion, they need to be prepared that they may not like what they hear. So, if I directly asked you for your opinion, and you told me something that I didn't want to hear.....even if I didn't like your answer...

Answer to When I was a little girl, one of my cats died and when I was in Sunday school I asked the teacher if I could ask God to watch her until I came to heaven with her; to which the teacher responded "Animals don't go to heaven, they just die". Your thoughts?

Thu, 04 Sep 2008 16:06:49 -0700

When I was a little girl, one of my cats died and when I was in Sunday school I asked the teacher if I could ask God to watch her until I came to heaven with her; to which the teacher responded "Animals don't go to heaven, they just die". Your thoughts?

Their are several references in the book of Revelation that there are animals in Heaven. I do not know if animals have souls, and I do not know if your cat is in Heaven, but I DO know that there are animals in Heaven according to specific scriptures in the Bible.

Answer to What is the first thing you do when you get home from work/school?

Thu, 04 Sep 2008 15:42:12 -0700

What is the first thing you do when you get home from work/school?

look for my dogs

Answer to I go to 3-5 churches nearly every Sunday,What do you think about that?

Thu, 04 Sep 2008 15:38:49 -0700

I go to 3-5 churches nearly every Sunday,What do you think about that?

If that's something you enjoy, then I don't see anything wrong with it. People enjoy doing different things with their time. To each their own. Does it really matter what other people think about it?

Answer to When I say "take your medicine" what comes to mind immediately?

Thu, 04 Sep 2008 06:21:05 -0700

When I say "take your medicine" what comes to mind immediately?

My Mom!

Answer to How many people do you share your bathroom with?

Thu, 04 Sep 2008 06:18:59 -0700

How many people do you share your bathroom with?

Me, myself, and I. That's 2 bathrooms to myself. I love it.

Answer to I'm a teen & selling drugs is the only way for me to make money. What will you say to convince me NOT to sell drugs?

Thu, 04 Sep 2008 06:15:14 -0700

I'm a teen & selling drugs is the only way for me to make money. What will you say to convince me NOT to sell drugs?

Prison. Isn't that enough?

Answer to Do any of the female mammals have horns?

Tue, 02 Sep 2008 19:12:17 -0700

Do any of the female mammals have horns?

Cattle and goats are the first that come to mind.

Answer to How do I stop wanting him? I thought I was over him until he started talking to me again and making me smile...I can't let my heart break again...

Tue, 02 Sep 2008 19:01:21 -0700

How do I stop wanting him? I thought I was over him until he started talking to me again and making me smile...I can't let my heart break again...

Is this someone you've dated? If so, I'd suggest taking a break. A real break away from this person. I suspect that he knows you are falling for him again, and it really strokes his ego. Take a step back and don't let him have that pleasure. Protect your heart.

Answer to This girl like me, and I do not know why she likes me. We're a bit different. What should I think?

Tue, 02 Sep 2008 16:59:40 -0700

This girl like me, and I do not know why she likes me. We're a bit different. What should I think?

If you like her, get to know her. If you don't, be flattered and go on with life.

Answer to Is there a lot of farm land near where you live?

Tue, 02 Sep 2008 16:37:24 -0700

Is there a lot of farm land near where you live?

Yes, tons of farmland. I live in the middle of a cornfield.

Answer to What do woman like a metrosexual guy or a manly guy?

Tue, 02 Sep 2008 06:59:19 -0700

What do woman like a metrosexual guy or a manly guy?

Manly for me. My rule of thumb is that I don't want a guy who uses more hair products than I do, or takes longer to get ready than I do. (And I'm pretty low maintenance.) Also, I don't think manly means not groomed. It really comes more from a mans personality and interests.

Answer to Ladies: Which are you most attracted to the good guys or the BAD guys?

Tue, 02 Sep 2008 06:56:38 -0700

Ladies: Which are you most attracted to the good guys or the BAD guys?

I like the good guys.

Answer to Im 13 n ivenever hadsex but my bf wants me to i love him but i dont think im ready i dont wannasay no just in case he breaks up with me what should i do?

Tue, 02 Sep 2008 06:55:32 -0700

Im 13 n ivenever hadsex but my bf wants me to i love him but i dont think im ready i dont wannasay no just in case he breaks up with me what should i do?

Don't do it. You've already said you're not ready. Wait for a man who loves you and completely respects your decision. Losing your virginity is a much bigger deal than losing a boyfriend. If he doesn't like your answer, too bad. Let him break up with you.

Answer to My ex-boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago. I have some of his things to give back. He knows I don't want to see him. I asked him to text me his address so I can send him these things. He won't respond. I'd like to know why. What do you think?

Tue, 02 Sep 2008 06:52:08 -0700

My ex-boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago. I have some of his things to give back. He knows I don't want to see him. I asked him to text me his address so I can send him these things. He won't respond. I'd like to know why. What do you think?

I was in a similar situation. I ended up leaving a box of things at his house when I knew he wasn't home. The possible reason he's ignoring you?... 1. He's not ready to cut off all ties. If you have his stuff, then he still has a tie to you and a reason to contact you later. ...

Answer to Who handles breakups better? Men or women?

Sun, 31 Aug 2008 22:33:05 -0700

Who handles breakups better? Men or women?

I don't thin it's fair to say either way. Everyone deals with emotions differently. However, it has been my observation that women tend to deal outwardly with their feelings while men seem to suppress them after a break up. That makes me think that women deal with break ups better...

Answer to What would you take from your house if it was on fire and you could only take one thing?

Sun, 31 Aug 2008 22:22:34 -0700

What would you take from your house if it was on fire and you could only take one thing?

My 2 dogs.

Answer to How many openly gay, lesbian, or bisexual Answerbaggers are there out there?

Sun, 31 Aug 2008 22:19:17 -0700

How many openly gay, lesbian, or bisexual Answerbaggers are there out there?

straight

Answer to Naming a daughter after a car: classy or trashy?

Sun, 31 Aug 2008 22:16:58 -0700

Naming a daughter after a car: classy or trashy?

Personally, I think trashy.

Answer to Do you ever really forget your first love? Or do you carry a piece of them with you forever?

Sun, 31 Aug 2008 22:16:01 -0700

Do you ever really forget your first love? Or do you carry a piece of them with you forever?

I'll never forget my first love. My theory is that if you really love someone, you always will...the love just changes and becomes perhaps more of a fondness.

Answer to I need a guard dog. A big scary looking dog who will attack if he needed to. Money is no object. Any ideas?

Sat, 30 Aug 2008 20:25:13 -0700

I need a guard dog. A big scary looking dog who will attack if he needed to. Money is no object. Any ideas?

If you TRULY want a dog that would attack someone, then get a chow. Any veterinarian will tell you that these are known to be one-person dogs who will be very protective of you. Their big a fluffy, so they don't look intimidating, but they will definitely guard you. On the other hand,...

Answer to What artist/band has sold the most records in history?

Sat, 30 Aug 2008 20:19:57 -0700

What artist/band has sold the most records in history?

I've heard Garth Brooks. Elvis and the Beatles both broke records, but by the time Garth came around more people were spending money on music. However, if you literally mean records (as in 78's and 45's) then my guess would be Elvis.

Answer to I've been on the pill for 6 days.. if i have unprotected sex, will that prevent my from getting pregnant?

Sat, 30 Aug 2008 20:16:08 -0700

I've been on the pill for 6 days.. if i have unprotected sex, will that prevent my from getting pregnant?

At 6 days I wouldn't count on it. I doubt that after 6 days your pills would have you at the "99%" effective rate. However, I have no science to back this up. If you really don't want to get pregnant (and I'm assuming you don't) then I'd use back up if I were...

Answer to What's the first song that comes to your mind for Willie Nelson?

Sat, 30 Aug 2008 20:12:03 -0700

What's the first song that comes to your mind for Willie Nelson?

"Mamas don't let your babies grow up to be cowboys"

Answer to I you had a Bull Mastiff, what would you name it?

Sat, 30 Aug 2008 20:10:30 -0700

I you had a Bull Mastiff, what would you name it?

Male or female? Male - Atlas Female - Barbie

Answer to If it's not love, what is it? Can stop thinking about this woman, the way she acts, talks, looks, dresses, smiles, touches her hair, way her hair smells, color of her eyes, shape of face, neck, etc... She is driving me wild, and she's married. What to do?

Sat, 30 Aug 2008 20:07:59 -0700

If it's not love, what is it? Can stop thinking about this woman, the way she acts, talks, looks, dresses, smiles, touches her hair, way her hair smells, color of her eyes, shape of face, neck, etc... She is driving me wild, and she's married. What to do?

It's not love, it's infatuation. BIG difference.

Answer to Knives or Guns?

Sat, 30 Aug 2008 20:06:34 -0700

Knives or Guns?

I like my guns. Shotguns. Remington and Benelli.

Answer to What's worse: getting a splinter or a paper cut?

Sat, 30 Aug 2008 19:51:12 -0700

What's worse: getting a splinter or a paper cut?

Paper cut. Unless it's a splinter under the fingernail...then that's worse!

Answer to What's so appealing about grapefruit?

Sat, 30 Aug 2008 19:48:41 -0700

What's so appealing about grapefruit?

Grapefruit is appealing because it gives us something to compare the size of tumors to. :)

Answer to For how long more am I going to be in love with my ex? It's been a year now and I just can't seem to get rid of these emotions. I don't even like the girl much anymore, but I still feel this way. What is wrong?

Sat, 30 Aug 2008 19:45:37 -0700

For how long more am I going to be in love with my ex? It's been a year now and I just can't seem to get rid of these emotions. I don't even like the girl much anymore, but I still feel this way. What is wrong?

That's quite a contradiction. You are in love with your ex but you don't like her much. Hmmmmm. Maybe you still love her but don't want to like her? Have you considered getting back together?

Answer to If Barack Obama is Half-White, why must he be referred to as the black man? Can't he be known as the white man?

Thu, 28 Aug 2008 20:40:19 -0700

If Barack Obama is Half-White, why must he be referred to as the black man? Can't he be known as the white man?

I'm so happy you asked this. I was wondering the same thing! Although he is dark skinned, he is half white, and was raised by a white family. I wish I had an answer for your question. I don't. I do wish society could come up with a polite way to identify someone of mixed...