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Did you see the video of the Oklahoma police officer who shot a dog? What do you think? Was it justified?
Nope. Looked more like an Airdale Terrier.
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Where do you keep your house keys at night?
In my purse also.
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What Makes Your Mouth Water?
Pumpkin Pie
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What is the Last personal luxury you are willing to give up when money gets tight?
I suppose what is luxury to one person is a necessity to another.
Little luxury...I wouldn't want to give up the internet or diet coke.
Big luxury...I wouldn't want to give up electricity and indoor plumbing.
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If your s/o went into a coma, how long would it be before you left them? Or would you ever? As in, if they didn't wake up.
I would never leave him. Till death do we part. That's my promise and commitment.
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Do you have emergency savings set aside or do you just take on financial problems as they come?
I have an emergency savings, but who knows what enough really is.
Also, natural disasters in recent years have prompted me to keep a stash of cash just in case.
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Could someone please recommend me some good I-hate-him angry break up songs?
Crazy Ex Girlfriend - Miranda Lambert
Not Ready to Make Nice - Dixie Chicks
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I am 26 and have 2 kids, do you think there is still a man out there for me? I am to my wits end with the man I have been with for 8 years. I think it is time to move on, just wondering if I'd ever find someone else
Can you not be happy by yourself? What's wrong with being happy and single?
Are you married? If so, don't you think you can work on your marriage?
Yes, I do believe that you'll find someone else...but not as long as your emotionally attached to the wrong man. I believe that you need to be secure and happy being alone before your Mr. Wonderful will come along. Why...
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I am in an exclusive relationship with a man for 2 months now and he has one flaw......he keeps talking about other women......those in the past and those he wants to meet in the future. Why does he do this? I'm ready to end it all.
Sounds to me like he's either insecure or trying to get a reaction out of you...or both. Either one is a good reason to move on. You have every right to confront him on this.
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SHALL I GET A TATTOO OF STARS AROUNF MY NIPPLE?
That actually sounds pretty cool.
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When you read--or try anyway--some of the questions posted here on AB, do you sometimes feel as thought you need to learn a new language?
Yes. I wonder if they still teach English and writing skills in school.
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If you can be somewhere else by just closing and opening you eyes, where would you go?
Heaven.
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Do you believe it is wrong to date someone who is 15 when you are 18 years old?
I don't think it's wrong, but if you have sex it's illegal.
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What is a reasonable amount of time to wait in a relationship to move in? (1 child 14, dating for a year)
When you're married.
You mentioned that he's scared of marriage. It sounds to me like he's not willing to totally commit. Why would you want to move in with someone who wants anything less?
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When you state "I love you", is it heartfelt or routine? (Please be honest)
It's always heartfelt. I don't say those words to many people. When I do, I mean it.
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What are some foods with misleading names?
Jumbo shrimp...isn't that an oxymoron?
Elephant ears.
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Will you be carving a jack-o-lantern, or just buy one of those plastic ones?
I love carving pumpkins each year. I couldn't imagine getting a fake one.
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What made you end a close friendship?
One was gossip.
Another was alcoholism I could no longer tolerate.
And another was because we started sleeping together.
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Does sleeping in separated rooms mean the beginning of the end of a relation ship?
I don't think so. My parents have been married for over 40 years and have slept apart for probably the last 10. They sleep more restful that way.
Also, several people mentioned snoring. That could be another reason.
It totally depends on the situation.
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What would you rather choose, get divorced or paralyzed from the waist down?
Paralyzed. I've never been divorced, and I've never been married. But I'd rather be paralyzed that divorced.
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Yesterday in the health department office, my little girl was walking around while waiting to get the last round of shots before she is 5. While doing this, she took down a pamphlet from one of the things hanging on the wall there. She handed it to me....
I don't believe in coincidence. I believe that everything happens for a reason. It doesn't necessarily mean that she's seeing something....but do you believe in angels? Maybe your daughter just acted as one.
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I saw a report that showed that women who had a good relationship with their fathers, looked for a man with similar physical features. What are your thoughts?
I have heard that women either fall in love with someone just like their father (if they had a good relationship) or someone opposite (if they had a bad relationship). I believe that is more true.
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When you were a teenager, did your parents buy you a car or did you buy your own? what kind was it?
I bought my own. It was a beat up '84 camaro. I bought it in '94.
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Would you date someone that had been married before? What if they have or had a child with that person? And finally, when would be the best time to find out? First date? after couple months?
It depends upon the person, the circumstances of their divorce, how long they've been divorced, the kind of parent they are, the acceptance of their child/children, what kind of relationship they have with their ex, etc.
I do know for a fact that the more people involved in a relationship, the more difficult it becomes. That discourages me from dating someone divorced with children,...
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What someone calls you a 'bitch' what is your usual reaction?
"oh well"
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How do you define temptation?
The urge to do something that you know you shouldn't do.
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What is a good dry food to feed small dogs?
Science Diet
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What do you consider sexy & what do you consider trampy when it comes to a woman?
If I see them doing something kind for another person...that's sexy.
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For ladies: do you like pretty boys, or manly men?
Manly men. Someone well groomed....but can get dirty and uses less hair products than me.
My rule of thumb is that if a guy doesn't know how to use jumper cables on a car, then he's probably not manly enough for me. LOL
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Why do i always fall for the wrong men? i want to believe they are for real but their all players. please help.
Good for you for asking yourself this question. The pattern is within you, not the guys. There is something within your personality that is causing you to repeatedly pick the same type of man. You just need to figure out what that is.
Think about the similarities these guys have. What are they? What can you do next time to purposely stay away from that type of man?
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What were your favorite scenes or quotes from the movie: O Brother, Where Art Thou?
Everyone gets points from me! I love the movie and I loved reading everyone's answers. Most of them made me smile.
My favorite, which I don't think was posted yet, was "We thought you were a toad!".
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Anyone knows what causes bowel movements to slow down. I tried googling it no help. Ok I use to poop everyday now Its every two days. I'm eating the same its just taking longer to come out. Sorry if it's gross. It's been going on about a week and a half.
If you're going less often, but everything is still normal when you do go, then you're fine.
If you mean "slow down" as in constipated, then you likely need more fiber, water, or are eating or taking something that is making you constipated (as the previous person said).
You don't have to go every day to be normal. You just need to go normally.
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Is there anything, wherever you live, that is allowed or legal in law which you would want outlawed (don't mention alcohol...that's a tired old subject)?
Yes. My neighborhood allows people to burn the leaves they rake up in the fall. I hate the smoke.
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If you owned a small business, what would it be?
I'd love to own therapy dogs and take them to nursing homes to visit the elderly.
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The engagement ring I want is $15,000 with a real diamond and I am fine with a Cubic Zirconia which would only cost $1,300. My finace thinks it's dumb to do a fake stone. Would it matter to you if your engagement ring was a cubic zirconia?
It would absolutely not matter to me what kind of stone was in my ring. It could come from a bubble gum machine and I could care less. It's not the ring that makes the marriage!
After 50 years of marriage, or even 10, a ring would mean diddly squat compared to love, time, and memories.
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Love or money which is better?
Love.
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What's your favorite smell, or, What is an exotic thing you like the scent of that most others can't stand?
Spicy scents....liked spiced apple and spiced pumpkin.
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My fiance' is being charged with the following felony's... attempted rape, criminal deviant conduct, criminal confinement, battery and strangulation. What are the maximum sentence for these crimes?
I don't know, but please don't marry this guy.
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Do you regularly hold doors open for people, let others get ahead of you in traffic and try to generally give others a break?
Always.
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How do you need to be loved?
With touch and time.
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Are there any secrets you wish you didn't know?
Yea. There have been people who I've held in a high esteem, then later learned that they were a bit "shady" or involved in not-so-great-things. Maybe it's best that I know, but it definitely burst my bubble.
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1-10 Are you worried about how you look?
I'm not really that "worried", so I'd say I'm a 3. I care about how I look, and try to look good, but I can't say that I worry about it.
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Does anyone actually know when you should make the decision to put the pet you love down?
I think it's a quality of life issue. When your animal can no longer be managed medically and has a severely diminished quality of life, then I think it's time. (Not that it's going to be easy.)
For example, I have a 15 year old dog with arthritis. He still eats well, runs, plays, wags his tail, wants to be petted, etc. If he ever got to the point where I could tell...
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Is it normal to have very morbid thoughts about the details of a car accident that had 6 of your friends and your sister? 2 died. i mean slow motion detailed images of what happened in the car...
I think it's normal to think about it, but if it continues to control your life then I suggest speaking with a counselor to learn how to get things back on track and prevent the thoughts from controlling you.
I'm sorry for your loss.
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On average how many times a month could a woman potentially get pregnant?
Most women ovulate once a month and have a span of 24 to 72 hours to conceive.
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Did you ever have a favorite piece of clothing or furniture or knickknack that your s/o couldn't stand? (or vice versa?) What was it?
I liked paisley and he hated it. I had paisley clothes, purses, etc. He hated anything paisley. LOL!
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The best music can be found______________
In Bean Blossom, Indiana.
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I have Plantar Fasciitis (pain in the heel of my foot. Advised to loose weight but, I can't walk because it's painful. I've cut back on meal portion. Can you think of exercises I can do to loose weight that does not involve the use of my feet?
Swimming or riding a bike.
Also, the doctor may have already told you, but be sure to stretch your calves.
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If you could attain any one of your life goals .. today .. which one would you wish it to be?
Retirement.
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Does it disturb you to think of what will happen to all your belongings or prized possessions when you die?
No, it really doesn't disturb me to think about it. It's just stuff. The material things in my life don't define who I am. I don't think there's anything I own that I couldn't part with.
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Which band had a drummer that lost an arm?
Def Leppard....I saw them in concert in 1988!
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Did you ever go to a slumber party in a church hall when you were a child?
Oh yes! I stayed up all night.
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If all the Christians suddenly died, what would happen to God?
Nothing, He'd still be God.
If everyone died but you, you'd still be you, right?
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How do you stop wanting?
Be content with what you have.
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When you see someone with a hickey what do you think?
trashy
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What is the funniest thing you have every seen the Muppets or a Muppet do?
Oh, I love the muppets!
When Animal chases a girl shouting "woman!" that cracks me up.
It's also great when Piggy gives Kermie the backhanded "hi-ya!".
And the Swedish Chef...he's funny too. And Gonzo....I love them all!
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What can you do better than the average person?
Public speaking
Ride a horse
....and sometimes I think drive!
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When I say push, what do you think of first?
A woman having a baby.
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How do you know if your ex still loves you?
Actions speak louder than words.
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Which dog makes the better police dog? A German Shepherd or a Rottweiler?
My first thought is a shepherd. They're much more agile. I've honestly never seen a Rott used for police work, but that doesn't mean they're not out there. I have seen Rotts used as rescue dogs.
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How many of you are looking forward to opening day of deer season? Ladies have you ever shot a deer? Would you ever try it?
I'm a lady. I've never deer hunted, but I pheasant hunt. Sure, I'd try it. I have girlfriends who look forward to opening day just as much as the guys do.
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Why would an ex boyfriend that ended a relationship with you insist that you two remain friends?
I've never been able to be friends with an ex, even when he insisted that that's what he wanted. Friendly, sure....but really good friends...no. I agree with the "back burner" comment. No thank you. You either want me or you don't.
If he thought of me as a friend, then he never should have dated me. If I'm his best friend, then how much better does it get...
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Do you take your shoes to be repaired, or just buy new ones?
If I'm really attached to a pair of shoes, then I'll get them repaired....I've done that a few times. However, most of the time I buy new.
(This question has reminded me of what a "throw away" society we have. I should try harder to just get them repaired.)
Good question. ++++
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Why do women cut off there long hair when its so beautiful when its long?
I have long hair, and always have had. I'd agree that most women over 50 have short hair. (I'm in my 30's.)
It does seem that long hair tends to "drag down" some women's facial features and make them look tired. I think that's why a lot of older women get their hair cut short.
Also, I know many women who cut their hair when they have children just...
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Did you ever dance to YMCA by the Village People, with all the actions?
Ohhhhh yea. I even have it on video.
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You’re at a dinner party and your hosts offer you an appetizer of frog’s legs. You _______.
Eat them. I like frog legs.
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When someone compliments you on something you're wearing, do you tell them where you got it and how much it cost?
If I got a really, really, really good deal then I might tell them.
Like once I was buying a suit and it rang up as $5, so that's what they had to sell it to me for. The price tag was over $150. I told people what I paid for that one and where I got it.
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Single _______
and happy.
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Am I the only one who hates the title and term an "EX". You are an ex-boyfriend or an ex-girlfriend. To me, I hate being entitled an ex to anyone.
I can't say that it really bothers me.
Out of curiosity, what would you rather be called? "Former", "old", "prior"....etc?
Maybe you could start a new trend.
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Hypothetically... As a gay person, if you first asked me, what I thought about your choices and sexual preferences and I told you my opinion, which turned out to be something you didn't want to hear, what would YOU then think of me? Remember HYPOTHETICAL
Regardless of the subject, when anyone directly asks for someone's opinion, they need to be prepared that they may not like what they hear.
So, if I directly asked you for your opinion, and you told me something that I didn't want to hear.....even if I didn't like your answer I'd still appreciate your honesty.
The only thing that may change my opinion about you is if I...
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When I was a little girl, one of my cats died and when I was in Sunday school I asked the teacher if I could ask God to watch her until I came to heaven with her; to which the teacher responded "Animals don't go to heaven, they just die". Your thoughts?
Their are several references in the book of Revelation that there are animals in Heaven.
I do not know if animals have souls, and I do not know if your cat is in Heaven, but I DO know that there are animals in Heaven according to specific scriptures in the Bible.
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What is the first thing you do when you get home from work/school?
look for my dogs
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I go to 3-5 churches nearly every Sunday,What do you think about that?
If that's something you enjoy, then I don't see anything wrong with it. People enjoy doing different things with their time. To each their own.
Does it really matter what other people think about it?
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When I say "take your medicine" what comes to mind immediately?
My Mom!
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How many people do you share your bathroom with?
Me, myself, and I. That's 2 bathrooms to myself. I love it.
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I'm a teen & selling drugs is the only way for me to make money. What will you say to convince me NOT to sell drugs?
Prison. Isn't that enough?
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Do any of the female mammals have horns?
Cattle and goats are the first that come to mind.
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How do I stop wanting him? I thought I was over him until he started talking to me again and making me smile...I can't let my heart break again...
Is this someone you've dated? If so, I'd suggest taking a break. A real break away from this person.
I suspect that he knows you are falling for him again, and it really strokes his ego. Take a step back and don't let him have that pleasure. Protect your heart.
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This girl like me, and I do not know why she likes me. We're a bit different. What should I think?
If you like her, get to know her. If you don't, be flattered and go on with life.
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Is there a lot of farm land near where you live?
Yes, tons of farmland. I live in the middle of a cornfield.
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What do woman like a metrosexual guy or a manly guy?
Manly for me.
My rule of thumb is that I don't want a guy who uses more hair products than I do, or takes longer to get ready than I do. (And I'm pretty low maintenance.)
Also, I don't think manly means not groomed. It really comes more from a mans personality and interests.
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Ladies: Which are you most attracted to the good guys or the BAD guys?
I like the good guys.
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Im 13 n ivenever hadsex but my bf wants me to i love him but i dont think im ready i dont wannasay no just in case he breaks up with me what should i do?
Don't do it. You've already said you're not ready. Wait for a man who loves you and completely respects your decision.
Losing your virginity is a much bigger deal than losing a boyfriend. If he doesn't like your answer, too bad. Let him break up with you.
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My ex-boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago. I have some of his things to give back. He knows I don't want to see him. I asked him to text me his address so I can send him these things. He won't respond. I'd like to know why. What do you think?
I was in a similar situation. I ended up leaving a box of things at his house when I knew he wasn't home.
The possible reason he's ignoring you?...
1. He's not ready to cut off all ties. If you have his stuff, then he still has a tie to you and a reason to contact you later.
2. Some people's way of dealing with things is not dealing with them. He may be showing you...
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Who handles breakups better? Men or women?
I don't thin it's fair to say either way. Everyone deals with emotions differently.
However, it has been my observation that women tend to deal outwardly with their feelings while men seem to suppress them after a break up.
That makes me think that women deal with break ups better (very generally speaking). Choosing to suppress things only drags that much more baggage into the...
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What would you take from your house if it was on fire and you could only take one thing?
My 2 dogs.
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How many openly gay, lesbian, or bisexual Answerbaggers are there out there?
straight
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Naming a daughter after a car: classy or trashy?
Personally, I think trashy.
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Do you ever really forget your first love? Or do you carry a piece of them with you forever?
I'll never forget my first love. My theory is that if you really love someone, you always will...the love just changes and becomes perhaps more of a fondness.
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I need a guard dog. A big scary looking dog who will attack if he needed to. Money is no object. Any ideas?
If you TRULY want a dog that would attack someone, then get a chow. Any veterinarian will tell you that these are known to be one-person dogs who will be very protective of you.
Their big a fluffy, so they don't look intimidating, but they will definitely guard you.
On the other hand, if you want a big dog that looks scary but wouldn't hurt a flea, then get a mastiff.
Either...
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What artist/band has sold the most records in history?
I've heard Garth Brooks. Elvis and the Beatles both broke records, but by the time Garth came around more people were spending money on music.
However, if you literally mean records (as in 78's and 45's) then my guess would be Elvis.
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I've been on the pill for 6 days.. if i have unprotected sex, will that prevent my from getting pregnant?
At 6 days I wouldn't count on it. I doubt that after 6 days your pills would have you at the "99%" effective rate. However, I have no science to back this up. If you really don't want to get pregnant (and I'm assuming you don't) then I'd use back up if I were you.
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What's the first song that comes to your mind for Willie Nelson?
"Mamas don't let your babies grow up to be cowboys"
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I you had a Bull Mastiff, what would you name it?
Male or female?
Male - Atlas
Female - Barbie
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If it's not love, what is it? Can stop thinking about this woman, the way she acts, talks, looks, dresses, smiles, touches her hair, way her hair smells, color of her eyes, shape of face, neck, etc... She is driving me wild, and she's married. What to do?
It's not love, it's infatuation. BIG difference.
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Knives or Guns?
I like my guns. Shotguns. Remington and Benelli.
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What's worse: getting a splinter or a paper cut?
Paper cut. Unless it's a splinter under the fingernail...then that's worse!
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What's so appealing about grapefruit?
Grapefruit is appealing because it gives us something to compare the size of tumors to. :)
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For how long more am I going to be in love with my ex? It's been a year now and I just can't seem to get rid of these emotions. I don't even like the girl much anymore, but I still feel this way. What is wrong?
That's quite a contradiction. You are in love with your ex but you don't like her much. Hmmmmm.
Maybe you still love her but don't want to like her?
Have you considered getting back together?
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If Barack Obama is Half-White, why must he be referred to as the black man? Can't he be known as the white man?
I'm so happy you asked this. I was wondering the same thing! Although he is dark skinned, he is half white, and was raised by a white family.
I wish I had an answer for your question. I don't.
I do wish society could come up with a polite way to identify someone of mixed race....not that it really matters to me, but it seems as a country we're always referring to race....
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I have a new friend I am dating and I he has a chipped front teeth that has turned yellow how do I tell him in a a nice way that he needs to get his teeth fixed without hurting his feelings?
Ask, "have you thought about getting your teeth fixed"?
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Does anyone play a type of musical instrument and why did you choose that to play
I do. The mandolin.
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What was the last promise you broke?
"Don't worry, I'm not going anywhere. I'll be around for a long time."
That was three months before he dumped me....oh wait, he wanted to be my "friend".
I'll second the "fuck that". LOL
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When is a public display of affection unacceptable? What is the threshold from your perspective? Peck on the cheek? Tongue wrestling? Full on sex? Where is the line you draw? Does it depend on location?
Agreed...no tongue! Also no groping private parts.
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Let's make like a ____________ and head out?
Let's make like a tree and leaf. ;)
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Why do women dress in makeup, short skirts, bare midriffs, and low-cut blouses but complain about men that stare at them?
Great question. I'm a very nice 38D. If I don't want you to look, I'll cover them up. If I want you to look, I'll show a little cleavage.
If women want to show their boobs and then get mad at mean for looking, their either naive or dumb.
If a sexy man takes off his shirt do you think I'm going to look? Heck yea! Would I look at him the same if he were wearing a...
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My friends boyfriend come up her 6 times in a week without no protection or birth control could she be pregnant? shes saying she cant becase shes a heavy weed smoker and she said that decreases ur chances of gettin pregant
Anyone dumb enough to think that's true needs to quit smoking weed and having sex long enough to attend a sex ed class. Give me a break!
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If you make a promise and constantly break it (not on purpose) will God forgive you.
God knows that we are sinners. God hates the sin, but not the person who sins.
Repent and ask for forgiveness. Do your best not to do it again. God will forgive you.
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Let’s talk about love! Ethernal theme… Statistically, being in love can’t last more than 2 years and a half. I would like us to talk from our own experiences…What's to do when the 2 years are over???
I agree that at first in any romantic relationship you are "in love", i.e. "infatuated" with that person. There's nothing wrong with that! It's an important step to LOVE love...and commitment.
Hopefully by the end of the infatuation stage, you've learned to accept your partner with all of their imperfections and love them anyway. You've seen them...
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Do you have a higher chance of being pregnant if some one ejaculates inside of you when you are on your 7th day break (last day of the sugar pills) then when on the active pills?
If you have consistently been taking your pills every day and at the same time every day, you're chances of becoming pregnant in this scenario are as slim if you were on any other day taking the pill (correctly).
To answer your question, the chances are the same. You have a less than 1% chance in either scenario of becoming pregnant(if the pill has been taken correctly...that is key!)....
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What would you do if you cracked open an egg to eat and found a dead baby chick inside?
It would gross me out. It might be a while before I decided to eat eggs again.
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I want to pop the question to my girlfriend..I even went to pick out a ring..she found out and now she wants a better ring..that will take me a good year to get...I want to marry her but this ring thing is carzy, why do women care so much about the ring?
I don't think you're girlfriend realizes that it's NOT the ring that makes the marriage...or the wedding dress...or the reception...or the house you buy, etc., etc., etc.
On the flip side, there are women who get angry when their husbands don't wear their wedding ring. Again, it's NOT the ring that makes the marriage.
If my boyfriend bought me a ring out of a...
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My wife just asked me what a "dutch oven" is. Should I tell her, or should I show her?
Show her. LOL.
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It's been a while since___________.
Hmmmmmmm.........my mind is in the gutter!
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I am going to be 21 in a month, is it illegal for me to just date a 16 year old in Michigan?
I don't think it's illegal for you to date a minor in any state. However, it is VERY illegal to have sex with a minor.
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What color shoes with a sage green evening dress?
Silver
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What do you crave for?
affection and touch
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IS IT IMPORTANT TO HAVE A SPECIFIC RELIGION.
What do you mean by "important"?
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What area of the abdominal surface surrounds the belly button?
That's belly around the belly button. LOL
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What's the cutest/funniest thing your kid ever said?
My nephew was 4. My sister and I were referring to some people nearby who were "clowning around" as we were driving by. My nephew was frantically looking out the windows yelling "I don't see any clowns around here! Where are you seeing clowns?"
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Have you ever wet the bed as an adult?
Several years ago...I'd say I was 14, I had a dream I was sitting on the toilet going to the bathroom and I actually wet the bed!
I have a friend who wets the bed when he gets really drunk. Gross!
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What is the most famous carnivorous plant?
Venus fly trap.
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What is a good name for a female snake that is an escape artist?
I don't even know why, but I'm thinking "Cleopatra".
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Why are some people scared of ghosts when science tells us that they dont exist?
Because it completely defies our mind. It's the ultimate "not normal". I would be just as freaked out if suddenly my dog started talking to me.
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Atheists, in a WORK environment where you have customers, if a born again Christian started telling you what you need to do in life to be saved, what would be the best way to handle it? I'm a Christian but this b*tch still insists I'm not saved yet?
I'm also a Christian. First of all, this is definitely not an appropriate work conversation. If this individual persists, then I really think you should discuss this with HR, your manager, etc. If you've told her that you don't want to talk about this, and she persists, then she is harassing you.
Other than that, I find that Christians who have conflicting views with other...
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What is something you find soothing?
Many things...and all very different from each other.
Going hiking, a back massage, petting my dogs, cool air blowing in my window as I fall asleep, snuggling.
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How long did it take for you to forget your first love, if ever?
It was 7 years ago. I'm over him, but I will always love him. My theory is that true love changes, but it never dies.
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Do you still talk to the person you lost your virginity to?
We were both 20.
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Would you eat dog meat?
Only if I were really, really, really hungry.
However, I can't condemn anyone who does. Look at the amount of dogs and cats we Americans destroy every year due to overpopulation. I think that's more gross that eating them.
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Female friend- late 40's/early 50's- quite attractive and well built. Started seeing guys half her age or less. Questioned her-she said "Nothing serious-just catch and release". Is implication she's using them sexually? Is this nice? Would a man do this?
"Would a man do this?"
Was that a serious question? Hell yes, a man would do that.
And yes, she is implying that she is using them sexually.
It is nice? I don't know. It depends on if the guy is serious about her, or also just having fun.
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What street sign best descibes you?
Probably "yield".
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I'm an unattractive teenage girl (not lying - I know I am not nice to look at, mostly because I am obese) If my looks changed, do you think a guy would show interest? They never have. Honesty please? I'm a big girl I can handle it. What can I do?
Sure, a guy might show interest if you lost weight. As a nation we are obsesses with "skinny" but most of us are overweight. I'm 30 pounds overweight and single. I have people tell me I'm pretty (even this morning), but often wonder if men aren't asking me out due to my being a little plump. I can understand where you're coming from.
However, YOU just said...
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I'm looking for a lightweight tent with 2 doors for 2 people, any recommendations?
I have a small 2 person Kelty that I really like. You might want to check them out.
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Where is your favorite place to go backpacking and why is it your favorite?
Great question. I love to hike!
I live in Illinois (very flat land) and spend many evenings and weekends hiking state and regional parks. Sometimes I head over to Indiana to a few spots with more rugged trails.
My goal is to hike and backpack part of the Appalachian trail someday.
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How do you feel about the retail giant, Wal-Mart? Would you welcome a brand new superstore in your community?
I really don't like Wal-Mart, and very rarely shop there. I've seen too many small town businesses "go under" when Wal-Mart moved in. I really do try to shop in more locally owned stored when I can. That's not saying that I never go to Wal-Mart...just rarely (maybe 5 times a year).
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Little Black Dress or Skinny Black Jeans?
Little black dress....much more classy.
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How often do you date outside your race?
I never have, but that doesn't mean that I wouldn't. I wouldn't be opposed to it. I'm more concerned about the type of person they are on the inside than the color of their skin.
I think that has a lot to do with where I've grown up. It's really not that diverse and I don't know that many single people my age of another race.
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Are your friends your age, older or younger? Do you feel that age matters in friendship? I recently met a couple that are 15 years older than my husband and I. They have children the same age, and similiar interests. Can the friendship work?
I am 33 and my friends range in age from 20 to 62. These are close friends who I spend time with often.
Your friendship with this couple can absolutely work!
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What is the best legal way to make around 2000$/month by working for around 100 hours every month? please tell me about any freelance programs! i'm not looking for free money or easy money & only truly earned money.
1. Strip
2. Waiter/Waitress or bartend in a very high end restaurant.
3. Deal drugs (but I'm assuming you want to do something legal).
4. Any industry that typically tips very well.
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Where do you see yourself in 2010?
Hmmmm, good question.
Hopefully...
Healthy and happy.
With my present job and furthering my career.
No debt.
Over my ex and in a great relationship with someone new.
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Is a fuddy-duddy a bad person?
Not a bad person, just a boring person.
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Who would win in a fight... Marie Osmond or Bette Midler?
My bets are on Bette.
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What is the first thing that comes to mind upon hearing "civil war"?
Lots and lots of death.
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Was your childhood dysfunctional ? Honest answers are humbly welcome.
I am extremely grateful that mine was not. My parents have been married for 45 years. My Dad worked and my Mom stayed home. I have three great sisters. We ate meals together and went to church together. There was never any abuse or addictions of any kind. We weren't wealthy, but we were rich with a sense of family.
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How many people have you fell in love with, like really fell in love with them?
Twice in 33 years. I'm not with either.....ohhhhh, the heartbreak. (sigh)
Some people have said 3. I sure hope 3rd time is a charm for me!
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What do you do to build up your own confidence?
Meeting new people, public speaking, learning to tell a good joke, and finding something I'm good at.
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Who wouldn't you want to pick a fight with?
Chuck Norris! LOL!
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Does God use the Toilet
I'm not sure what plumbing is like in Heaven, so I don't know.
However, if He created man in his image, then I think that means he has the same bodily functions. (So I'm sure he "goes" somewhere!)
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What are your thoughts and feelings when you see a rebel flag?
Since you're asking for my opinion...
Unless it's in a civil war reenactment or museum, I view it as trashy and hillbilly. That opinion is likely formed by how I've seen it flown and displayed. (For example, flying from a muddy rusted out 4-wheel drive pick-up, with a gun rack, no exhaust, and a "Don't Tailgate, I chew Redman" bumper sticker.)
However, I will...
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Mark my words, you will______?
want me back someday.
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If you met a kid who believed anyone who got cremated went to Hell, what would you have to tell him?
If you and the boy are both Christian, you could explain this according to scripture.
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What is the best rivalry in sports?
The Chicago Bears and the Green Bay Packers.
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Over the past few days I have had pain starting in my left ear, going all the way down to my side under my left rib cage. The pain is really sharp and it intensifies when I breathe in. I'm only 20 years old. Anyone know why or what this might be?
See a doctor. It could be nothing, or it could be anything from an ear infection to a cardiac problem.
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Can we find another, less pejorative word than "cheater" to define men and women who have relationships outside their marriages?
Adulterous.
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What makes you do the happy dance?
When I catch a big fish!
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Do you remember when "dialing" a telephone actually involved a dial?
Yes, my parents have one at their house. I love it!
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My husband has been hurting in the crease well I guess it would be call the groin of his left leg for about 6 days now. It is sharp pain when he walks. Dull pain when he's sitting. Do you know what could be wrong?
Agreed that he needs to see a doctor. The first thing that came to mind is a possible blood clot.
It may be something minor, but better safe than sorry!
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Ive lost a few of my teenage girlfriends because they said i didnt talk enough. What do u teenage chicks like to talk about alot?
Interesting. I think most teenage girls want you to ask them questions....and then listen to THEM talk. Next time think of good open ended questions to ask.
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Apostolics? I have spoke in tongues at home but not at the church. Is that the same thing or Do I have to speak in toungues at the church to make it to heaven?
I don't believe that you need to speak in tongues at all to make it to Heaven.
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How do you begin to get over losing your dog?
You're welcome and I'm sorry for your loss.
This link contains some great info as well.
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/grieving_pets.htm
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What did the first person to eat chicken say it tasted like?
Probably "it tastes like people".
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Does a male ejaculation drip out of a female after sex?
I am female. Yes. It's not a controllable thing...some of it just does.
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What does it mean when you're told. "You wear your heart out on your sleeve."
You don't hide your feelings.
And by the way, there's nothing wrong with that! Sometimes people say it like it's a criticism. What's wrong with letting people know how you feel? I'd personally rather "wear my feelings on my sleeve" that be fake!
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Can you ever be friends with an ex b/f or g/f who broke your heart?
I've never been able to do it. Especially if I really loved them.
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Where I work there is a lady who eats her lunch in the BATHROOM occassionally, only Heaven knows why, I told her that it is gross, there are urine and poop germs floating all over the place, do you think this is WEIRD & gross, when we have a kitchen?
That is definitely not a sanitary place to eat. It makes me suspect that she has some type of eating disorder that causes a phobia of eating in front of people. Or, she may be bulimic.
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How do you begin to get over losing your dog?
Allow yourself plenty of time to grieve. Realize that grieving is a normal, although painful, process.
Talk to and spend time with friends or family who understand how much your dog meant to you. Avoid the "it's just a dog" people.
There are generally 5 stages to grieving...denial, sadness, depression, anger, and acceptance. It's normal to feel all of these...
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How would you feel about your 23/24 year old daughter bringing home an 18 year old boy and introduced him as her boyfriend?
I'll preface this by saying that I don't have a daughter.
I really don't think I'd think much of it. Or at least I would be very slow to judge. He may be a great guy...even better than some guys her age. Or, they may have a lot in common. I would trust your daughter to pick good men until she proves to you otherwise.
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Why do some girls fall in love so easily?
There is a difference between love and infatuation.
Many girls (and guys) become infatuated and think they're in love because they're either afraid to be alone or aren't strong enough to have their own identity.
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If your childhood had a taste, what would it be?
Watermelon Bubblicious Gum.
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This question is just for the children of the eighties: Does the new JC Penny's adverts tick you off the way they steal imagery from the Breakfast Club?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CWFsOkvGAug
I just think it's annoying.
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What's the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear "predator"
The NBC Primetime Live show, "To Catch a Predator".
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What do you think is America's favorite pasttime?
Eating.
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Been thinking about becomming a stalker could anyone give me any tips?
Make sure she doesn't own a gun.
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What's the name of the doctor that delivered you?
Dr. George Elfers
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What brand sunglasses you like(own)?
I LOVE my Maui Jims. They're the best polarized lenses on the market.
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If you had an intruder in your home, would you warn him to leave or just shoot him with no warning?
I'd say "I have a gun" and if he didn't take off, then I'd shoot him.
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Fox hunting is banned in the UK so why are they letting equestrians to wear foxhunting clothes in the Olympic show jumping....would that infuriate wildlfe supporters.
It's considered traditional "English" riding apparel. Many equestrian sports wear the same style of clothing. The clothing itself has nothing to do with fox hunting...other than the fact that they wore something similar when they hunted foxes. (It's not like they're wearing fox pelts.)
For example, if you wear cowboy boots that wouldn't make you a cowboy.
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What have you caught lately?
a fish on a hook
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I had a first date last night . We but had fun, but she fell asleep in my car on the way home. What should I think about this?
I wouldn't think too much of it. She may have been really tired, and felt comfortable enough to fall asleep.
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How often do you get your a haircut? At what price?
I have long hair, and get my hair cut 2 to 3 times a year.
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Are you on your own, without a significant other and ok with that?
I'm in my 30's, on my own, and totally fine with that. I'd rather be happy and alone than with someone and (possibly) miserable. I'm hoping the right one comes along, but if not - that's ok too.
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What is bad but so good?
I'll second "chocolate".
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Anger is represented by the colour red, the colour blue represents sad.What colour do you feel represents happy?
I think yellow.
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How do you know if you love your boyfriend?
First of all, there is a huge difference between love and infatuation.
Infatuation is being "in love". I'm willing to bet that most couples who have been married for over 25 years haven't always felt "in love". Everyone goes through "in love" to get to "love"....that's a good thing.
Love stands the test of time, and it includes...
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Do you love with your entire heart, or do you hold back a little to help you recover if your heart should become broken?
Although I don't fall in love easily, when I do I love with all my heart. It's not easy for me to hold back when I'm really in love.
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What do you spell when you take your moms last 2 letters from her first name and the last 2 letters from your first name?
Cyie
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If you've been married four times, are you qualified or unqualified to advise on marriage?
No, I don't think you're qualified to advise on marriage. Especially if that equates to over three divorces.
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Do you think that someone who can gets violent online, is violent in real life to?
Yes!
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Does a controlling boyfriend avoid socializing with your friends? could that be a characteristic?
I don't think it's necessarily controlling. However, if he tried to prevent you from socializing with your friends, then that is controlling.
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If someone told you the word,"Robert", what comes to your mind instantly?
Robert Frost, the poet.
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If a guy tries to get a girl in bed the same day they met, should the girl take this as a compliment?
I would absolutely not take it as a compliment, and would be quite offended.
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Ladies, if you were going to kick a man in the balls, what kind of shoes would you like to do it with?
Cowboy boots.
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Do you feel that marriage is an out grown concept?
I still believe in marriage. Who knows, maybe I'm naive? (In my 30's and never married.)
However, I do believe that marriage is not taken nearly as seriously as it used to be.
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Have you ever floated down a river on an inner tube?
Oh yes, the Current River in Missouri and it is FUN FUN FUN.
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Do you believe the bigfoot photo in Georgia is a fake?
I don't think it's real. I read that they (the guys who found "bigfoot") have changed their story three times.
And what if bigfoot are real? If so, they obviously want nothing to do with us or we'd see them more often.
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What warning sign should be hanging above your bed?
"farts while sleeping"
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One gun and one bullet...who would it be?
Osama Bin Laden.
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Who came first Adam and Eve or, cavemen?
Adam came first.
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What do you think is the most common motivation for people to lie?
To avoid getting into trouble.
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What will my husbands name be
Mark
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Okay there's this guy that is attracted to me. I think it's kind of strange because I'm overweight,whereas he's used to be chubby but lost the weight and now works out and stuff. If we hook up will he expect me to do the same?
He probably likes you just the way you are. I wouldn't assume that he expects you to do the same. Don't you think you can be overweight and attractive??
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Have you ever thought of god as a made up character like santa clause,the tooth fairy and the easter bunny? well thats what god is to me!
No, I've never thought that.
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Are you better at singing or dancing?
dancing
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What is the first thing that comes to mind when I say Bad
Michael Jackson! (I'm a child of the 80's)....LOL
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What is your accent?
I suppose we all have some form of an accent, even if we don't think we do. It all depends on who's listening and what their perception is.
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My 3 yr old was attacked by a dog 2 weeks ago, she's healing and ok physically, but her personality has changed. She doesn't sleep and has violent temper tantrums. Should i take her to a Psychologist ? Should I sue the owners of the dog?
Yes, you should take your child to see a counselor. I doubt that your child has been "scarred for life", but it does sound like she has some form of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
PTSD is not uncommon in any person who has suffered a traumatic event....and I think being attacked by a dog would be very tramuatic, no matter what the age.
As far as suing the dog owner,...
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Do you think at some point in every person's life, one should try to make amends for things one regrets having done or not done with respect to others?
The world would be a better place if everyone tried to make amends. Heaven knows I'd love to hear a few "I'm sorry's" from people.
But, the truth is, not everyone is willing to attempt to make amends...even when they know for a fact that they've hurt someone. It seems that some people deal with things by NOT dealing with them at all.
I do make every attempt if...
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Why do I constantly analyze everything I think or do?
You're either obsessive or have a low self esteem.
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Why cant girls be more spontanious like guys? even though guys spontanious moments consist of cheating on their hott GF with a ugly girl. Dont get that either. So why are girls so predictable?
If girls are so predictable then why are you asking this question? You should be able to predict why they're less spontanious. You're making yourself sound extremely immature.
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Is my friend gay?
One of my gay friends sucked off another guy who claims to be straight and im the only person who knows this happend.
If a guy lets you suck them and they claim to be straight, are they actually gay?
He may not necessarily be gay. He may have just been really horny. I think I know men who would be ok with getting sucked off by anyone or anything.
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So when your looking for that someone you want to be with, what do you look for? what features and qualities turn you on/off?
Kindness is #1 for me. Not only to me, but to everyone.
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Is it normal for your spouse to have profiles of him/herself on the internet without the other knowing?
I don't know if it's normal, but I don't think it's right.
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Do you see anything wrong with letting my 14 yr old get her belly pierced? I have a great and open relationship with my daughter. I have my belly pierced and some other piercings and tatoos and my daughter is basically saying that if its good enough for m
If you'd let her get her ears pierced, then why not let her get her belly button pierced? People are more likely to see her ears than her belly anyway.
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Guys - if you were blind and couldn't see a woman, what would make her attractive? Beyond physical attraction, what is most attractive?
thanks
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What's the first thing that comes to your mind for Montreal?
Canada.
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If all my friends are train wrecks, does that make me a train wreck because I hang out with them?
I do believe that birds of a feather flock together.
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When you here educated ladies with degrees say they want to marry a rich man because they are tired of working, do you think they are gold diggers? Do you think marriage will last if it is for this purpose?
Maybe they're a gold digger, maybe they're not. Either way, it's a very shallow comment and disrespectful to men.
I am an educated woman who makes good money. If the tables were turned and I knew a man said this about me, I'd be gone.
I don't think a marriage based on income would last.
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Why do thaw and unthaw mean the same thing?
I agree that "unthaw" is not a word. Ironic...I was just making fun of someone for saying this a few days ago.
Personally, I think if you "unthaw" something then you must be freezing it again. The correct term is thaw.
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Would you rather be known for your wealth, kindness, attractiveness or trustworthiness?
Kindness. But, kindness is a type of attractiveness isn't it?
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My boyfriend won't let me go to his house. We've been going out for more than a year now and I still haven't seen where he lives. What do you think about that?
He's being deceptive. You deserve some answers.
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A question for the guys, Would you seriously date a stripper? I have worked as a stripper for over 12 years and have dated alot. Now I would like to have just a few steady BFs. But it seems like after I date a guy a couple of times he loses interest.
If they know you're a stripper, then they may see you as "entertainment" rather than a "real" person. With all due respect, your profession objectifies women.
My guess is that many men think it's cool to date a good looking girl who strips......then the new wears off, and he's off to another woman with a little less taboo of a career. But, he then can...
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Were you there when they nailed him to the cross?
Yes, I was there.
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What was the nicest thing you ever did for another person?
Very thought provoking question! It makes me think I haven't done nearly enough!
At Christmas I make monetary donations to organizations in honor of different people that I know. I volunteer at a local mission. I send flowers to people when their pet dies.
Also, I spend a lot of time listening to my friends when they need to get something off their chest.
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Who is more likely to live A person that has a gun pointed at them and does nothing or A person that pulls a gun and fights back?
I think the person who fights back. I think most criminals are cowards.
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What kinds of things can you get addicted to?
for me, caffeine.
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If a guy has a knife and tries to force you into your car in the middle of the day in a Blockbuster Video parking lot, what do you do?
I'd quickly let him know that I'm going to kill him and he's just messed with the wrong B!tch.
Never in a million years would I let him get me into that car. Location #2 is always worse than location #1. If he wanted me that bad, he'd just have to try to cut me up right there at Blockbuster.
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Who are the greatest people in the world?
Jesus Christ and my parents.
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What is a good weight for a girl who is slender and 5'8? and medium size boobs. from a guys point of view!
For that height easily 150 or 160 if she's athletic with boobs.
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My friend believes that relationships have the possibility to destroy friendships, so you should never date a close friend, in fear that you may lose them as a friend later. Would you say this is true?
I would absolutely say this is true.
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I was raped the other week and now is pregnant. I haven't been home since. What should I do?
You need to talk to an adult that you trust.
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Do you remember Rod Stewart? What was your favorite song by him?
His hair!
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Whats the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the word "Bed"?
sleep
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Why would a guy you are dating keep bringing up marriage? It seems like the guys I go out with are always mentioning getting married. Is this just a line that they use?
They may be trying to find out if you have the same goals in life.
If you've been dating for quite a while, then he may really be fishing to find out if you want to marry him someday.
But if a guy brought this up and we weren't serious, I'd run!
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They say words is one thing you can't take back. Have you ever wished you could?
Oh yes. I once told someone that I never wanted to talk to them again, and we haven't talked since. Now that time has passed, I would like to speak to them again.
On the flip side, I once was called a name by a family member that no matter what good things happen in the future, I don't think I'll ever forget. I wish I had never heard those hurtful words.
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What do you feel is one thing that words cannot adequately describe?
Faith.
True Love.
Absolute grief.
A broken heart.
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I have been married twice and I will never get married again. I want to know what women think of being friend with benefits. I am not looking for just a sex partner. I would like to have someone to do things with without the seriousness of a relationship.
Then that's called a friend. Not a friend with benefits. No kissy, no huggy, no snuggling, no holding hands. That is a friend. You don't have sex with your friends.
You said you didn't want to get married. You didn't say you didn't want a girlfriend. What's wrong with just having a girlfriend as opposed to FWB? There are plenty of women in your same...
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What is the highest populated city you have lived in or visited?
NYC visited, live in...pop 450
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How do you forget about your ex?
I believe that if it was truly love then you will never forget about them. However, if you're still hurting then only time will heal your wounds and help you forget.
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My hubby thinks I should stop dancing. I work at a club and dance in basically a bikini. I make great money and get to do a few jobs on the side. This job has allowed me to spend time with my kids and still make great money and helped put my hubby thru
How old are your kids? Also, which would you rather have, your hubby or your job dancing?
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My ex wants to get back together with me, but i honestly want nothing more to do with her. how can i get her to move on?
Have you very directly told her that you want nothing to do with her?
Do you know for sure that she wants to get back together with you (has she said that)? Or is she perhaps just trying to be nice and you're taking it out of context?
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If you go to a funeral and you don't share the same faith as the service is in do you: Open the hymnal? Sing the songs? Bow your head for the prayers? Say the prayers?
Out of respect for the family and others who have arranged the funeral, I say yes. You can bow your head without praying or open an hymnal without singing. You could simply not speak the prayers. For example, if I'm Christian and attend a Muslim funeral, then I would either "go through the motions" or not attend.
If you're really opposed to the things done at the...
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What is something that makes you feel happy when it's over?
An OB-GYN check up.
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At what age were you able to distinguish infatuation from love?
I was at least in my mid-twenties. I think this varies from person to person though based on maturity.
For example, if you're interested in someone based on looks and what kind of car they drive, then that's infatuation. When the first thing I hear out of a girl's mouth is "he's so cute", then that's infatuation too.
When you like someone based on...
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I was never spanked as a kid, but i have three kids, and sometimes i think they really need to get a spanking. my daughter lacy told my mom that i spanked her last night, and now my moms giving me a hard time about it. should i stop spanking them?
I have read that spanking (one swat only, on the behind) is an effective discipline for toddlers. Any younger or older, then you're teaching your children to deal with their problems by hitting.
Children older than toddler-age do best with time outs or having special toys taken away because they have better reasoning skills and can then learn to make better choices based on this...
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How do you plan to spend the last years of your life?
Since I have no idea when the last year of my life will be (I could already be in it!)....hopefully just living life to the fullest and being with people who I love.
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Is Bigfoot real?
I think fake.
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Do you think ring-back tones are tacky?
Yes, they are tacky. I don't like them.
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If you know/knew CPR, would you do the "mouth to mouth" part on a complete stranger or just take the hands-only approach the American Heart Association just started recommending?
I would have no qualms about doing mouth to mouth.
I have not yet been trained on the new technique, so mouth to mouth, along with compressions (if necessary) is what I'd do.
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What is the earliest game show you can remember? Who was the host?
The Price is Right
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Does he like me if he accepts an invitation to a party of mine where he knows he won't know anyone but me?
Thanks for the feedback. Also, he paid for his own food and drinks, ticket to the show, and gas to get there...so there weren't even any freebies! It was a get-together for my birthday, if that makes any difference.
Also, are you a guy or a girl? Just curious to know what point of view I'm getting here.
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Would you rather spend a month on vacation with your parents or put in overtime at your current job for four weeks without extra compensation?
Easy. Vacation with my parents. We'd have a lot of fun!
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If cheaters are brave enough to cheat, why can't they be brave enough to admit it as well?
Cheating is cowardly. They're not brave at all.
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What is your first reaction when a guy or a girl tells you that he or she has been thinking about you?
It's flattering. Then I wonder...when talking to the guy I like...does that mean he likes me?
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WOMEN! How come every woman besides the woman I am dating now stops dating me after we have sex, I have a fairly large penis does that scare them away? They all like me until we have sex and they seem to enjoy it, they just don't speak to me anymore?
Sounds to me like this could just be your perception.
Did you start treating the women different after sex? Also, it's not necessarily the size, but what you're like overall in bed. Maybe you should ask your partner(s) what they like instead of assuming it's just size?
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How is my body warm and my feet are ice cold?
possibly poor circulation
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Bottled water is bad for the environment, so do you think that they will ever just stop making them and force people to use a reusable water bottle?
This question is all about supply and demand. If the demand for bottled water goes down due to people using reusable bottles, then the supply will go down also. Vote with your dollars.
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The situation: I love my boyfriend but I am no longer sexually attracted to him. We have been together for 4 years and for the last 2 or so things have been bad. He still wants to make love all the time and still is attracted to me, but I am not.
Do you think that after being married to someone for 10...15...50 years that you'll still be sexually attracted to them??
If you're basing a long term relationship on sexual attraction then you're headed down a very, very long road if you ever plan on being married. You didn't mention anything else wrong with this relationship other than your lack of sexual attraction...
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Have you ever slept in a cave?
No, but I'd like to!
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Have you ever done a late night “drive-by” of an ex’s home to see if somebody else’s car was in the driveway?
Oh yes, I couldn't help it. Darn curiosity.
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I'm a girl. 17. And honestly, I cannot see myself getting married, ever. It not that I don't think I could handle it, but I just don't want it. Do you think I'm going to change my mind later? Did any of you change your mind?
There's nothing wrong with not wanted to get married...especially if you feel that way at 17. If you chance your mind later, then that's fine too.
My sister said she'd never get married. She and her boyfriend dated for 10 years. Finally, they tied the knot, have two children (she also said she'd never have kids) and they're living happily ever after. I guess she...
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What comes to your mind when you hear this word Blackie?
my sister's old dog she had when she was little
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Do you ever feel like you were born in the wrong era? i always feel that i should have been born in the late 1800's or 1930-40's!!!
Great question! There are era's I'd like to visit, but ultimately I'm glad I was born when I was. We have great healthcare and don't even have to worry about some diseases like polio...women have the right to vote, work outside the home, etc. if they choose to...if we want to vacation somewhere we can get there by plane or car much more quickly than in the past...there are...
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Is there a word you find totally "funny"?
"bonafide"
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Is a "Friend with benefits..." any different from a "F*** Buddy" or have I got the meanings wrong?
It's the same thing.
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If you have one/some, does your crush/do your crushes only like you as a friend?
Yep....the friend thing. Ugh! I confessed my feelings to a great guy a few months ago, and of course he likes me, but only as a friend.
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Is there any way to forget someone that we love but don't love u in the same way as u are?
Give yourself time. Time does heal. You may always love them, but I promise it will get better with time. I speak from personal experience.
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Why am i always the best friend? I want to be thought of as a girl again. How do i change my image?
Ohhhhh, sweetie....I feel your pain. I am 33 years old, and I'm still the "best friend"....the dreaded "F" word! What a great question! Guy's think I'm so great, but that sure doesn't keep me warm at night, does it?
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Other than raising you, of course (=P), what do you think is your parent('(s)') most amazing accomplishment?
They've been married for over 45 years now, and I'm very proud of them for that accomplishment.
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What type of people are the happiest?
Optimists, and also people who have the ability to form and maintain relationships...not romantic relationships, but just meaningful, close relationships.
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We have heard that optimistic, positive people do much better when facing traumatic situations than pessimists ..they have easier surgeries,fewer complications, shorter recuperation time & better prognosis . Shouldn't we all try to be optimists?
We should absolutely all try to be optimists. I think it just comes much, much easier for some people.
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Do you wish you were a little more mysterious?
Yes. I'm a very transparent person. A little mystery might be good for me.
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Do you remember someone's kindness toward you longer than you remember someone's rudeness or unkindness?
Ultimately it depends on the offense. For example, if someone did something extremely, extremely horrific to you or your family, you'd probably remember.
But, for me, I'm much likely more apt to remember kindness.
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Do you know when you are flirting? i don't think i know when/if i do!
I'm not a natural flirt, so I think 90% of the time that I'm flirting, I know it.
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I received this email from a commitment phobe I've been seeing. "I need some time (my name)...I will call you in the near future...I am sorry in the meantime" Was this a polite way of breaking up with me?? Or part of the game?
Let this person go. Breaking up over an email is cowardly, and shows little respect for you. However, I do agree that this is better than not hearing anything and. Just let him go.
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What is an unquestionable deal breaker for you in a relationship?
cheating, abuse, and addictions
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What attributes do you look for in a person while deciding if they are good person to know?
Their behavior, speech, actions, and who they spend their time with.
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Would you date a 40 year old virgin and why or why not?
Absolutely. Perhaps this is a man of high moral standards who wants to wait until he's married. Whats wrong with that? And, I'd much rather marry a 40 year old virgin than a much younger man who has had sex many women. Let's face it, anyone can find sex. He's only a virgin at 40 because he's chosen to abstain.
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On a first date, what's one thing the other person could say that would make you bolt for the door?
If he starts discussing marriage, what he wants to name his children, etc., then I'm gone. For goodness sakes, it's a first date!
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What's your favoite way of preparing and eating eggs? Scrambled, poached, hard boiled, fried, or "other?"
scrambled
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He's been spending time with me and talking on the phone with me for the past few months, Have dirty little thoughts crossed his mind?...even if we're just friends? We're both single.
So true. And if he's a good guy, then being friends isn't that bad, right?
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Do you think that death is a permanent sleep?
No. I believe in a soul's afterlife. But I also believe that death is death...dead. No life. You're body is dead.
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Would you date someone who couldn't read? Why/ Why not?
I doubt it, but never say never. More so it depends on the person's willingness to learn how to read.
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He's been spending time with me and talking on the phone with me for the past few months, Have dirty little thoughts crossed his mind?...even if we're just friends? We're both single and in our 30's.
Hmmm. I'll have to think about that. He knows that I sort of like him. So maybe he's putting the ball in my court? Or maybe he just likes the attention when we talk?
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Is it true that everyone here on AB is a teenager or a young adult?
I'm 33
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Are there any black country western singers?
Charlie Pride. He has a great voice.
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Where can I get a road map for the soul?
any bookstore...The Bible.
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Whats the strangest smell that you like?
dill pickles
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Have you ever wished you were the opposite sex? When and why?
Honestly, yes, I've wondered what a male orgasm feels like.
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What is the only fish with two knees?
a two-knee fish. get it?...tuna fish.
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Is 15 too young to be getting engaged..i love him and he loves me..is it really so damn wrong?
Please don't get engaged at 15. If it's truly love, then you don't need a ring to confirm it. It's not wrong unless it's illegal. I don't think it's morally wrong. I just think you should wait a few more years. Also, I'm 33 and never married. I saved myself from a lot of grief by not marrying a man or two who I really thought was the "one"....
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Can you name a well known person named Sam?
Sammy Hagar
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Can you name a well known person named Sam?
Samuel Clemens (Mark Twain)
Samson from the Bible
Sam Adams?
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Would you keep dating a guy (or girl) after 2 months of dating, that says, when asked how he feels about you: "No other girl compares to you, and i see myself dating you for awhile, but I don't see myself marrying you; however that could change. "
I really think this depends upon your age, his age, and your expectations of dating. Are you dating to find a husband, or just get to know someone? Sounds like he, in this case, wants to get to know someone and then go from there. It also sounds like he doesn't want you to invest too much into the relationship quite yet. If it were me, I'd keep dating him. 2 months is nothing. 6...
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My ex-husband and I get along just great! I hate referring to him as the "ex" have any suggestions?
Just call him by his name.
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Is it worth making her mad just so she will leave me because I cant say the words?
To do that would make you a coward.
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Are there any women here who are 35 single and bummed about it?
I'm a 33 year old single female. Never married. No, I'm not bummed. I'd rather be single and happy than with someone and miserable. If my Mr. Wonderful comes along someday then that's great. If not, I'll be happy being single.
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My girlfriend talked to me about her awful day. She was crying at first. I was shocked and didnt know how to handle it. I was just agreeing with her and trying to be supportive. How else can you deal with this?
Just LISTEN. Don't offer advice, don't try to fix things. Just listen, then give her a hug. Or ask, "is there anything I can do to make you feel better?"
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What do girls look for in a guy they want to date?
Honestly? Looks, popularity, athleticism, charm. Now, fast forward to about 25....Intelligence, education, manners, morals, values, relationships with family, common interests, honesty. By the way, I'm 32. ALWAYS be the best you can for YOU, and it's then that that awesome girl is going to want you.
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If a girl likes a guy more than a friend,but he doesn't like her that way back,and then the girls go out with another guy,and they become a couple,then the first guy who didn't like her more than a friend,likes her that way now,what does that mean?
It means the guy wasn't being honest with himself or with you from the very beginning. Or, a classic case of he doesn't want you....but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either.
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What's the best AND worst thing to do on your 21st birthday?
The Best: Have fun with your friends.
The Worst: Sit at home alone.
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How do you ask a guy where you stand in his life and what he expects out of you without making him feel suffocated?
I would ask, "what are your expectations for our friendship/relationship/marriage, etc. etc.?". "What makes your feel good?" "What would you like more of or less of in our relationship?" Be simple and to the point.
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Whould you perfer to be a hands on mom or hire a nanny?
Hands on Mom. There is no way in the world I'd give birth to a child, then ask someone else to raise him/her. I'll admit that I don't have children, so I haven't practiced this...but I won't have children until I know I can take care of them myself.
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Do you have divorced parents?
No. I'm 33, and my parents celebrated their 45th wedding anniversary this year. I have three sisters.
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Dog person or Cat person? and why?
I own two dogs and one cat. I'm definitely more of a dog lover.
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Why do some men's faces look like a females face?
Genetics and hormone levels of estrogen and testosterone. (Both males and females have both.)
If a man takes enough estrogen, or a female takes enough testosterone, they'll begin to resemble the opposite sex.
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What's the first word that comes to your mind when I say the word "Love"?
COMMITMENT
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What are some things in life that you wish people would just "get" already? (This could be on AB or in life in general)
The Golden Rule.
That we're all different.
Putting other's down is a poor way to build yourself up.
No matter how much money you make, what your job status is, where you came from, who your family is, or what kind of home you own.......you're not "better". And, you make yourself look like an idiot when you put yourself above someone.
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I am the seller of a home. I have a signed legal contract with the buyer that lists no contingencies. I'm afraid the buyers are going to try to back out. Can they legally back out?
I'd definitely consider a settlement, but I'd prefer they buy the house.
I spoke with a real estate agent today who had a client who attempted to break a contract. They ended up just buying the house because it was going to be less expensive and less time consuming than going through the court system and paying an attorney.
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I am the seller of a home. I have a signed legal contract with the buyer that lists no contingencies. I'm afraid the buyers are going to try to back out. Can they legally back out?
I talked to my attorney today, and it sounds like they've just bought a house...whether they want it or not.
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Who brings smile to your face or makes your heart happy just by simply thinking of that particular person? :-)
My dog.
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Ladies,how often do you think about your ex?
We broke up two months ago. He was my boyfried of 9 months.
I think about him every day. Some days I miss him...some days I hate him...but it seems that every day I still love him.
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How many of you women out there go hunting? I was told I have a lack of respect for animals for doing so- do they tell you men that?
I am a woman and I hunt pheasant and rabbits.
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How do you feel about Deer Hunting?
I think it's necessary to control the deer population.
I wonder how the deer feel about urban sprawl.
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What do you think when you see animal mounts on someones wall?
I think...
Hunting must be their hobby. Nothing more, nothing less.
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Have you ever killed an animal for your own consumption?
Yes. Rabbit, pheasant, and fish.
Oh, and I won't kill anything that I won't eat. I'm not a trophy hunter.
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Have you ever killed an animal for your own consumption?
Yes. Rabbit, pheasant, and fish.
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What are the best camping spots in Illinois?
What part of Illinois? Are you looking for state parks or off the beaten path? Tent camping or in a camper?
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Is it possible to get over your first TRUE love? I am married, he is dating..we talk every now and then. I thought I had loved others, but over time, I realize it was nothing. But with him..after 15 years..I stil feel the same for him. Do I tell him?
I think we will always love our first true love. I don't think there's anything wrong with still loving him.
However...
When deciding whether or not to tell him, first consider the damage it could cause to your marriage.
Secondly, are you prepared to hear what he might say back? It might not be what you want to hear.
Third, do you want to tell him because you simply want him...
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What's the difference between love and being IN love?
"IN love" is infatuation. It always fades or changes.
LOVE...like the kind you see between people who have had long relationships, is something that grows, must be tended to, doesn't keep score, and remains despite imperfections.
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Is it hard for you to tell someone that you love them?
Not really.
Before I say it for the first time, I think to myself...if this person died tomorrow would I regret that I never told them I loved them? If that answer is yes, then I absolutely tell them.
Love is an emotion. It doesn't mean commitment, marriage, etc., etc. All it means is "I love you". That's all.
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Why you love someone?
Because they meet an emotional need.
...plus lots of other things. But most deeply, I think it's because they fill a need.
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What gives you butterflies in your stomach?
Seeing someone from my past that I still love.
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Is it true that when you live alone all your bad habits go away?
If a tree falls in the forest and nobody is around to hear it, does it really make a sound?
Or
If nobody is around to observe a bad habit, is the habit really bad?
A "bad" habit is someone's perception of that habit.
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My ex just wont give up. What can i do?
Have you point blank said "I do not want to talk to you. Do not contact me via email, phone, text message etc."?
Even negative attention is attention. Say this to her and then cease all contact. Do not respond to her.
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What's a good gift for a boyfriend's father?
a pocketknife
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What is a good small sized gift to give a man you love, that he'd use daily and think of you?
I'm not a man, but the first thing I thought of was a nice electric razor?
I like the watch idea. I've done that.
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What would be a nice gift other than cash for a good freinds wedding?
Some good ideas on here!
This is my idea...
A "movie night" package. ...A popcorn popper with popcorn or microwave popcorn packages, a nice blanket, a few movies, gift certificates to the local movie rental place, some "movie theater" candy like Mild Duds, a bottle of wine,
Put it all in a nice basket that could double as a magazine basket.
Or, get a picnic basket...
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What should I get as a gift for my grandmother's 100th birthday?
A card with a letter telling her how much you appreciate her, feel about her, memories of her, etc. If her eyesight is not well then make sure you read it to her.
By the time most people are elderly they do not want knick-knacks. However, a heartfelt card and letter with kind words will never be forgotten.
I did this once for my Dad for his birthday and his eyes welled up with tears....
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When you buy a greeting card, do you choose it for the sentiment or do you pick it out for its appearance?
Sentiment. Just like relationships, appearance is secondary.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for 3 years. He say's he cares about me but he is not in love with me. When I ask, he says he does not want to break up with me. Should I break up with him.
There is a huge difference between being "in love" and "love".
"In love" is a phase that comes and goes. It's not constant.
Real "love" is constant and it grows.
Think about a couple who has been together 50 years. Do you really think they've always been "in love"?
I doubt it. There are probably times that they...
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Friends with benefits,is it right?
One person will always get hurt, because likely one person wants more than just "a friend with benefits".
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Is it possible to remain friends with your ex?
Nope. It is not possible.
Why? Because if you truly loved each other then one person will always want more than a friendship. One person will always be hanging on for more. It that really healthy a healthy friendship? I don't think so.
The same thing happens often in platonic male/female relationships. Many times, one person is hoping for more.
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What are the chances that he'll be back after a break-up?
I'm not asking if I should take him back.
I'm asking what are the chances that he'll be back.
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What are the chances that he'll be back after a break-up?
I am the poster...and this is my situation.
We dated for almost a year and very recently broke up. We are both adults in our 30's.
He is an absolutely wonderful man. We never fought. He was my best friend, and I was his.
We met 2 months after his divorce was final. All along the way I asked if he "was sure" that he wanted a girlfriend. He assured me he was.
Suddenly...