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Do you consider yourself a voyeur? Do you enjoy watching or looking at pics etc. Is this considered bad, or normal? I like to look, men are voyeurs, women are exhibitionists.

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For men only: Have you ever worn a beard or a mustache? Are you thinking about growing one? Your age? I've had a beard and not had one. Right now I am bald and bearded. I am in my prime...55

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are you a librocubicularist ? do you do it on the bed ? Linda Kerby" Subject: FW: LIBROCUBICULARIST: Your word of the day from www.yourdictionary.com Date: Thu, 17 Aug 2006 14:09:26 -0500 -----Original Message----- From: Word of the Day [mailto:wotd@wotd-bounce.com] Sent: Thursday, August 17, 2006 4:40 AM Subject: LIBROCUBICULARIST: Your word of the day from www.yourdictionary.com Today's Word: Librocubicularist (Noun) Pronunciation:...

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Does anyone else hate using a urinal? (Naturally, this one's for guys) In the old days, before the fifties, urinals often started at the floor and went up about four or five feet. There are a several at PJ Clarks in NYC on 53rd St that are like that. By the way, in summer it's a good idea to toss a bucket of ice into the urinal. Prevents urine odor.

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Which television show do you wish would make a comeback? Provided the writers, producers and actors remain, DEADWOOD; the best show ever seen on TV. As good as reading Dickens.

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my ex has stopped me seeing my kids for 3 months now,she has lied in solicitors letters. So many women do this. I don;t know the answer. They put their own need for revenge ahead of the child's need for a Dad.

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Which of these four women received the most just sentence for murdering her husband and why was it the most just? Murder is no way justified or mitigated by the circumstance you describe. Life imprisonment

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What is the most important character trait or life skill? Knowing yourself, and remembering who you really are at all times. I wish that I could learn and behave thusly.

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What is the most important character trait or life skill? Knowing yourself, and remembering who you really are at all times. I wish that I could learn and behave thusly.

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What is the most important character trait or life skill? Knowing yourself, and remembering who you really are at all times. I wish that I could learn and behave thusly.

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What is the most important character trait or life skill? Knowing yourself, and remembering who you really are at all times. I wish that I could learn and behave thusly.

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What is the most important character trait or life skill? Knowing yourself, and remembering who you really are at all times. I wish that I could learn and behave thusly.

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What is the most important character trait or life skill? Knowing yourself, and remembering who you really are at all times. I wish that I could learn and behave thusly.

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most people are stupid. true or false? There's no other answer for the popularity of the top movies and television programs. People are just plain stupid.

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how do i get my man to want sex more? his sex drive is real low and mine is way high. Seriously: find a boyfriend. There's no way to increase a man's sex drive. You might be able to stimulate him temporarily. But if he's got little or no sex drive, forget it.

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Why are all of the oral questions about blow jobs? I like oral too! (I'm a woman). Don't WE count too? Yes! women and men are into oral sex. Giving and receiving. Women count. What else is new?

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Is having cyber sex considered unhealthy – and does it constitute “cheating” on a spouse, even if you never meet your cybersex or phone sex partner? There are many people who can;t cyber because they lack the writing skills. Too bad for them. Cybering is great -- and it's safe...

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Do you prefer cybersex with a partner who is older, younger, or about the same age as you? Why? When with a good cyber-er she can be of any age--but do you mean realtime or cyberage?

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Who do you think cheats most women or men and why? Men cheat more, but for the decade or so, the percentage of women cheating has increased. This is due to women understanding that they are the equals of men, more women in the workplace, more women rising to higher levels in business, and more opportunity than there was thirty or forty years ago. The women's movement has had a positive effect on the lives that women can lead. Infidelity is...

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People of all races What problems would you like to fix in your communities right now? I'd liketo get the oil out of the water.

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how many like a handjob As I get older I am liking it better and better.

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Whst is a good name for a boy that not many people use? Rocky, Montgomery (Monty), Toots, Blinky

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Do you know people who brag about their drinking habits? Yes, I like to brag that my capacity for martinis has dropped from three to one.

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I've been curious about this. Hey you MEN out there, what is the difference between attractiveness, pretty, cute, gorgeous, beautiful, sexy, and good looking?? What is better (least-best order) and why? What adds to these attributes and what do YOU prefer Brains! Humor!

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Cardigan or Pullover on a cold day? Pullover of coarse. course.

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Lets do a poll on Obama shall we, what do you think of the following Obama is on the way to being a great president. Give him time.

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Good Looking, Shallow Guys Only Please lol What do you prefer: A girl with all you want personality/s.o.h wise, with cute looks but an awful body, or a gorgeous body and fantastic looks, but average personality? Relationship OR Sex wise. Even in sex personality is very important. Intelligence is a big turn on for me. I have found that intelligent women are the best in bed, being experimental and much less inhibited. I am not impressed with big tits.

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Do you feel like you pay too much taxes? No. In fact, ordinary people, the blue collar class, and the middle class, have been conditioned by thirty years of propaganda from the billionaire class that taxes are evil, and that the individual American should stand on his own two feet, without a "safety net." This is why corporate America is controlling much of our lives, this is why we have no Single Payer Universal Health...

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Can you be "Good without God"? Many humanists are good people who do good works, who are never dishonest, and who always "do unto others..." Certainly, one can be "Good Without God."

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Can E.R. doctor report drug use if the patient has track marks? why would she?

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If i paint my tortoise shell will it damage it? is there a tortoise living in it?

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If you could rate answerbag on a scale of 1 to 10, 1 being the worst and 10 being the best what rating would you give it and why? The level of the questions and answers is, on average, lower than I would like. Sometimes, however, there are very interesting questions. But that's only sometimes. And then the answers rarely live up to the questions. So I would rate AB as a 5. I would comment, however, that it has potential. And I would add that I still go to AB almost every day, and spend too much time on it.

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Should Americans have a right to a guaranteed standard of living? This country could easily guarantee a minimum standard of living. That would mean bringing every American to a point somewhat above the poverty line. Rent, Food, Medical Care, and higher education would be accounted for. It's a disgrace that this country allows people to go hungry and without medical care. It's un-Christian, and we should stop calling ourselves a Christian country...

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An Arizona couple accused of sexual abuse after taking bath-time photos of their children and then trying to have them developed at Walmart are suing the state and the retail giant. Should Walmart have reported them? Should the state have prosecuted? If I were the lowliest clerk in the store or at the lab I would have known enough not to pass those pics to the "authorities." Holy cow, this isn't an authoritarian dictatorship and citizens are still allowed to make judgements. This isn't a police state. Don't be afraid to make decisions and to take responcibility for your own actions.

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I'm 21 and want to have a baby, my boyf sayes if it happens it happenes he thinks i'm still on the pill, which i'm not. I know if i fall preg my parents will be fine, but his wont. Do you think we are too young? I assume you have a trust fund with which you will support your child and yourself and that you will use it to send him/her to college.

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Do you have a job where you are available most of the day to sit on ab? Luckily I do not, otherwise I'd be on all day and then all night.

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"Jealousy is pointless." Do you agree or disagree? Why? Jealousy ruined my first marriage. and it was unwarranted. and it spoiled the lives of two set little children.

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What is the most beautiful song you've ever heard? Please include link? Fly Me To The Moon

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What's the dynamics/ personality of a woman who goes into another woman's marriage and cheats with her husband? She is currently married but seperated with four kids that she dosen't have custody of, she is high maintence.What type of woman dose this? What kind of woman allows her marriage to get to the point where her husband seeks an outside friend? The marriage must be looked into and examined before blame is so easily handed out.

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You've arrived at the ultimate Chinese Buffet. What will you have first? A little known delicacy often served in China before WW2, and, I am told, still served secretly. A live monkey is seated under a round table with the top of its skull protruding through a hole in the center of the table. The top of the monkey's skull is cut off (a full craniotomy) and the diners, four to six men or women, seated around the table, spoon out the brain and eat the...

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Why are people racist? What did someone do so wrong to make a human hate everyone in a particular race? Fear of the Stranger is in our genes. Only those of us who are lucky enough to have the right training, or parents, or education overcome innate fear of the stranger which becomes racism.

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Can you fill in the missing words? "How do you explain_____________________?" (+6 for all answers) the man in moon and the cow that jumped over the moon.

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If I throw a party and don't allow any alcohol, would you still come? like most I'd bring my own...

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Have you seen the new Tyson documentary? It is playing in NYC and LA and is said to be great... When I saw Tyson fight in his younger days, even before he became Heavyweight Champion of the World, when there was only one Heavyweight Champ, I thought that no one would beat him until he would be in his late thirties. I thought he was the only champ who would beat Joe Louis' record 12 year reign... To me he was furious, the fiercest, most fearsome boxer that I had ever seen. I wanted...

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What if your wife had a twin sister and did not know it. you see the twin with someone else, thinking its your wife. whats your reaction and how do you respond? John McCain's grandfather (an Admiral) was married to one of a pair of identical twins. When one of his fellow Admirals asked him how he could tell them apart he answered, "That's their problem."

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Does all interest have to be reported. idid not receive a 1099 from my bank Yes, report it. But first ask your bank what happened. They may have sent it to a wrong address, they may be late in sending it out--but you can be sure that if required a bank will report it. call your bank. Irwin Robert Stevenson

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Binghamton : 14 dead. Alabama 10 dead. West Va. 41 dead. How many more mass shootings before we have rational gun laws? Now add three policemen in Pittsburgh. And this by a certified gun nut, who told his friends he would go down fighting to protect his right to own a gun. Who was trying to take them from him? The policemen, at least six children, two wives, three mothers, three fathers, and how many bothers and sisters. When will this end?

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Who is the most famous person you have seen up close? What were the circumstances? Mayor of NYC John Lindsay During campaigning Mayor of New York Ed Koch During Campaigning Senator of NY Jacob Javits At a political dinner Atty General of NY Louis Lefkowitz (famous for never forgetting a face.) General MacArthur Stopped his car at a parade when I was a little boy President Harry S. Truman Often saw him walking early in the AM when he stayed at the Waldorf Atty...

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Im 5'2" ant 120.....if i eat 2 lean cuisines and one slimfast a day will i loose wieght? yes, you will. But ask your doctor how healthy that would be.

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Foster parents here in my state get $14.00 a day per child (about $400 a month). Can you raise a child on that? Would you be a foster parent for $400 a month? I guess you know that the $400 is to HELP raise a child that you love. You take in a foster child for love, not money.

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A jerk at a party called me a "Femi-nazi" because I asked him why he thought it was weird that women could be good golfers. Any ideas on how to punish the clown? Tell him that if he is intelligent enough, he should create his own ideas and use his own original language rather than slavishly follow the lead of Rush Limbo. Tell him that he's only thirty years behind the times. Ask him whether he still beats his wife.

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Where can i find an ancient israeli invention that says if it still exists today what its used for and what would happen if it didnt exist. or can you just tell me 4 at least with all that stuff. The Fully Fletched Arrow The Reciprocating Water Pump The Steam Engine Preserved eggs The Pine Tar Caulking Method (Noah) The Sand Clock The Balance (Solomon) The Shoe Muffle (Moses & Aaron) That's enough for you and your girlfriend to work on.

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I feel guilty to leave him because he takes care of the family even thogh he hits me he does everything for us. We never go without, he proposed with two diff rings i would feel like a user if i leave him now. Go for counseling. He sounds like a good man with anger problems. Try to get him into counseling; tell him to think of the kids who come first always. Unless things are proven to be unsolvable get into counseling. If he won't go with you then go alone. There is a thing that is called "Anger Management." Look into it. I have the feeling that he really loves you, wants a home,...

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Do you remember, own or collect Little Golden Books published for children? (started with 12 titles including "The Pokey Little Puppy" in 1942 for 25 cents)? Golden Books grew grew into the largest publisher in the world in the 1970s. They published more paper than any other publisher in the world.

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What % of police activity is spent on Marijuana related crimes. How much do all the interdiction operations cost? 20 Mar 2009 03:15 pm Ending Prohibition "The fact is, the marijuana law in the U.S. is a big lie. It's racist and classist. White rich people can smoke marijuana with impunity and poor black people get a record, can't get education, can't get a loan, and all of sudden go into a life of desperation and become hardened criminals. Why? Because we've got a racist law...

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My 32 year old boyfriend sits around and plays video games all day. That is after he gets off work. This bothers me and I have tried to talking to him about it except it does no good. Any suggestions? Oh, you want to tell him how to live his life., Make sure that you don't marry him because it will fail. You can't tell a man how to live his life.

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If prisons are more about rehabilitation than punishment as liberals suggest then why bother to capture criminals who have eluded the police for years but have been good and committed no more crime? First of all the idea that prisons should be for rehabilitation of criminals is a good idea--but not honored anywhere.

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Do you think Sherrif Joe Arpaio should be scrutinized for trying to enforce the law legally? Do you think they are too easy on the criminals and too hard on law enforcement? He's a total sadist with no sense of how to improve things and reduce crime. Has his recidivism rate been compared to others?

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I was left go at by my employer 2 months ago on suspision of theft . They where doing an internal investigation but i never herd anything. Do I need an attorney. Things where done under my log-in. It was not me. Should i be worried you ought to bring in a lawyer to defend your name. tell your lawyer the total truth.

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Legalize or not? There is growing recognition that criminalization hasn't worked and that the "war on drugs" is an abject failure. Is it time to legalize? Which drugs? be smart legalize

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Is the War on Drugs a failure? Yes. What a waste of manpower and money. Legalize now!

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Which is worse, always sad or always mad? how about always happy.

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I'm in my late thirties. Is it over? Am I done? you're just entering your power years. 35-55

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Are you shocked that there won't be wedding bells for Bristol Palin and her baby's daddy? S H O C K E D !!

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"I am actually grateful for this opportunity to publicly comment about my crimes, for which I am deeply sorry and ashamed," he said. ** **If Bernie Madoff apologizes & returns the money why should he go to jail? To be punished for what he did to the Jews!

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Do you wash your own car? Are you kidding? Most of my "nest egg" has been devoured by the stock market crash. Starting about six months ago I began washing my car for the first time since the invention of the car wash. I discovered, by the way, that I could do a better job than the car wash. And it doesn't take too much time. And I actually enjoy it. My wife gives me 8 dollars every time I wash...

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My dog is licking everything. every night she does . can,t figure out why She may need a little salt added to her diet. Notice I used the word, "may."

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Is there a song that mentions your city or state? What is it? Oh that's easy "I found my whale in Ft. Lauderdale"

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Are you the horny type? Who isn;t?

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Is the democrat party wasting their time trying to destroy a private citizen like Rush Limbaugh? Poor Rush lmbaugh. He spent the last 16 years trying to destroy every democrat in sight and now he's got to take some of his own medicine. I feel so sorry for his three wives (this is a man who tells us of the sanctity of marriage) and his drug dealers (now out of business since he's been caught.) And his black shirt which only reminds me of two things: his immense weight that...

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Has your life just not gone the way you had planned? The past 18 months have really been unplanned and miserable. I've lost more than half of my retirement savings. But, I'll press on. Life takes these unexpected turns--and new vistas can be found.

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Be honest, do you have a teddy bear? This is hard to believe: My grandaughter was coming for an overnight visit. We bought a teddy bear to put on the bed in the guest room. She left it here, and one night I noticed it and put it on our bed as sort of a lark. Or a joke. I came to like it so much that my wife is worried about my mental stability. She took it away from our bed and put it back in the guest room. After I...

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Is it appropriate to have your wedding reception be a "pot luck", like have all the guests bring a dish? (we're trying to save as much money as humanly possible) I think it's fine. Even in the best of times I always thought that the huge amounts of monies spend on weddings was silly and outrageous. Save the money for a house, save it for college debts--but spending large money on a wedding? Silly. My wife and I had a four person wedding plus the minister. With the money we saved we created a savings account for the future purchase of a house....

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What would you be doing right now if you had the money? I would be building a small house on a hilltop in the woods, facing southeast with every possible ecological improvement. The sun would heat and generate my electricity--I might have geothermal heating too. Every room would have natural light; there would be a raised vegetable garden at the side of the house...

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Who loved you when you most needed it? My mother. I guess that almost everyone had mother who would have walked through fire for you, but mine was absolutely the most daring and nothing could stop her from guiding me, teaching me, and evaluating each of my women. Had she been allowed she would have come on our honeymoon and given pointers. Thanks for everything Mom...

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What do you eat for breakfast Irish cut oatmeal cooked from scratch every morning with a few dried cranberries and broken almonds tossed in the water the night before. Strong black coffee, no sugar.

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Who is the biggest liar you know? Easy: My ex-daughter-in-law.

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Would you read a book if the last pages are missing? Wow, what an interesting question. There are so many possiblities. Let's say it was the only book I could get my hands on--say in a hotle room in the middle of the night. Yes. Say it was written by a great author, and the quality of the writing interested me. Yes. Or perhaps it would be a book of poetry or short stories where many of the poems or short stories were complete and I...

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Do you think men hurt more easily than women and take longer to get over things? The love of my life was in love with me last year but I hurt him and now doesn't have those feelings but still loves me, doesnt know if he can get them back. Is it possible? "You Can't Go Home Again" -- Thomas Wolfe said it and it has deep meanings. You dropped him His feelings for you immeadiately changed. He can never bring them back. Just as Humpty Dumpty can never be put back together.

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When I was in middle school girls used to call me ugly and hurt my feelings. Now people call me beautiful and men try to talk to me. I think I'm ugly. Did those girls ruin my self esteem and if so what can I do to get it back? I am certain that you have beauty with in and without. Trust yourself. Understand that true beauty comes from within. Who knows what motives those silly adolescent girls had when they called you ugly. they were too young to know what beauty really is. You can work on your self-esteem by reminding yourself that only you can determine your own beauty. No one can tell you what you are. ...

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40 year old guy is interested in me. I'm 19. He's a nice, respectful person and it's nice talking to him because he's very open minded; but that's it! Apparently his mind traveled far more because he told me he loves me now. I'm all panicked! Face the fact: He's 40, you're 20. There's nothing that a 40 year NORMAL man could see in a 20 year old. Run as fast you can, unless you like drama, pain, and BS. Have you seen his apartment? Does he live with his mother? Are there certain times that he can;t or won't see you? --Like weekends or holidays. Is he married or not? Does he have a job>? Face the facts!

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The Oscars will be on in about 2 hours. Will you be watching the Oscars tonight or do you not care in the least? I do care, and I will be watching, unless Hugh Downs turns out to be more boring than I except.

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What do you say to someone after they have hurt you by cheating? I really thought this girl was amazing, but she got drunk and had sex with some hopefully meaningless guy. I just don't know what to do right now. Help please? It doesn;t have to end the relationship, if you love her.

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If you s/o accused you of sleeping around what would you say or do? I would tell her truthfully whether or not I was. I would let it play out after that. The ball would be in her court. If I were innocent and she didn't believe then I would be on my way. If I were guilty as changed, either she would accept it or she wouldn't.

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What do you do when someone you know tells you, in sincerity, that they raped a girl? First: get his exact definition of a rape. Hemay not have raped the girl. He may be saying that they had aggressive, or hot sex and that she was never coerced.

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If you could get a PhD and be an expert in anything, what would you chose? History, I guess.

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When was the last time you gave to charity? how much & how often? Which charity? $250 to Diabetes Research in Miami. If things were better we'd give more. We have given as much as $1000.

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Why do I constantly see my ex-boyfriend face in mind? Does that mean he is thinking of me? No darling, it means that you are thinking of him.

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Do you consider a divorce, a bad thing? Very bad for the children no matter what rationalizations are given. Try, at all costs, to keep marriages together for the sake of the children. You owe it to them.They come first, you and your spouse come second. Way second.

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Are you a happy drunk or an angry drunk? I am a pretty good drunk. I enjoy myself and everyone around me. But I haven;t been really drunk in years. too old for that now.

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Are the majority of men complete and utter bastards? I have been at times--but I've been mr nice guy.

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Once you turn thirty, are you automatically considered old? A woman of thirty is just entering her prime. (30-55)

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What would you be nothing without? This question is difficult for me to answer. It requires prioritizing too many values. I will think on it. thanks for giving me something to work out.

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If each AB member had their own category, whose category would you be an expert in? The appreciation of the unexpected beauty and unassailable truth found every day.

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Are you having an affair with someone on AB? You know who, I think.

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What fashion Trend needs to be stopped immediately...? This may be an entrenched trend but it must be stopped to save our country: Baggy pants worn below the hips showing underwear.

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Does anyone have the neighborhood house that all the kids frequently come to like it's their own home? when we had kids it was our house that all the neighborhood kids came to--and it was great.

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Obama tried to enter the Oval Office through a window today. Why aren't the press and the pundits calling him stupid and an embarrassment to the Office? Give me a break. Already on the attack over nothing? Anyway, who are you attacking Obama or the press? When Bush did it, if you remember, he fought the door, didn't realize that it was locked, and he was caught on camera with that stupid smirk that he has trade-marked. Of course we laughed.

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Obama tried to enter the Oval Office through a window today. Why aren't the press and the pundits calling him stupid and an embarrassment to the Office? duplicate, sorry

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Would you marry someone who was blind or handicapped Of course, love is everything.

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Which is more important to you? Family or Friends. Please add your gender age, if you will, to your answer. Thanks! I agree about wife being best friend--but I have a group of great friends who I have known since high school days. We are really close. m 55

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Some guy just said to me that its okay to cheat only if your partner hasn't been giving you any lately,do you agree?Why or why not? Any woman who would do that to me would get what she deserves. Women who use sex as a method of getting what they want are the lowest.

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Would you sleep with your mother in law.??????. When we were younger--yes.

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Do you consider yourself to be a serious person? I am a light-hearted guy.

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What does Nazism actually teach as a philosophy? Is it really so wrong? (Aside from the obvious poor practices observed in the 30's and 40's of eliminating lesser races) This is really an insensitive and pretty stupid question.

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Who should pay for health insurance? The government must institute Universal Health Care. All medical care should be paid for by by taxes, thus reducing the burden on both employers and employees who presently pay more than the increase in taxes needed to fund UHC. For example: If the auto companies were relieved of their present costs for medical insurance on employees and retirees their cost per car would drop about...

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Any one agree with this joke? Worst LIFE 1.chinese salary 2.japanese house 3.English cook 4 american wife BEST LIFE 1. American salary 2. english house 3. chinese cook 4. Japanese wife. Some american women were ofended when told by my chinese guide... Sorry,. American Women...there's a lot of truth in this little joke. "Many a true word is said in jest."

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Did you send more, less or no Christmas or Holiday cards this year? None this year. Zero.

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1. Which vitamins do you take? 2. Do you know why? I take a lot of vitamins every day and some more at night. I no longer remember why I am taking some of them. Centrum Vit E (stopping E when the bottle runs out--I think) Vit C 500mg

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What % of the junk mail that you receive do you dump without opening the envelope? I don't know the percentage, but it's most of it.

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Why are so many important Republicans moving to Obama? Colin Powell, and Mass. Gov. William Weld, this week-end. Can you name others? They are disgusted with the Republican Party.

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When you plan functions/events in the US, is it ever a case where people tell you they will come out to help and you NEVER see them? Of course, and I am sure it happens wherever you are too. People are the same all over.

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Guys... wat do you find most attractive in girls? Brains come first for me. Brains over all!

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What is the most popular food in the world? rice

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War criminals? Bush, or Cheney? The group who forced us into this war, who lied and dissembled are moral cretins deserving of prison and the loss of all their money. They are in disgrace, and will never recover from it.

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How old does a baby have to be before you can hit it in the head when it cries? My little brother is 2 months now and I don't really want him to die or anything but I just want to hit him hard enough that he stops crying how old should I wait to do this I know you must think this is very funny question--but it's not.

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My boyfriend and I never talk anymore, we never do anything, and when we are alone together it's too serious. I feel like he's not trying anymore. What do I do? Is it over? To me it seems as though it's over.

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I think my G/F is brave, courageous, and wonderful. How do I show her that I feel so lucky, without words? what's wrong with words.?

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A good friend is dating a new man. He has a very close relationship with his ex-girlfriend. My friend has expressed that their closeness bothers her, although nothing has changed. What would you do in her situation? Until something is proven you shouldn't interfere.

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This is a standard deviation contest. you must choose four numbers from the whole numbers 0-10 with repeats allowed 2 1 1 9

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Constipation: is it a health problem of yours? How do you deal with it? drink lots of water

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I REALLY WANNA WORK FROM HOME AND PAY SMALL TAX BILL ANY IDEAS First thing to do is to buy a shift key.

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Do you own any gold as an investment? Two adages to keep in mind about gold: "Gold, gold, it's making me old." "There's no fever like gold fever."

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How important is energy security in choosing how you vote in November? Essential. I want alternatives now! Increases in mandated fuel economy.

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I collect interesting facts. Anybody got a good one? Broward County Florida, (Ft. Lauderdale, for example) has 958,000 registered voters. It has 270,000 more registered Democrats than registered Republicans. Out of the 958,000 registered voters there are 28 who were born on the same day in 1938.

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If you are kicking your s/o out of your house.. Do you wash their cloths and fold them, or do you just throw all of it in a garbage bag? I was the kind of husband who played around too much. I was making a lot of money and women were easy to come by. I came home from a business trip at dinner time. My wife made me a nice dinner and we went to bed. - In the morning I discovered that she had cut one sleeve off of each suit and sport jacket in the closet but had left them on the hangers so that from the front of the closet...

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If you were president how could you make your country a better place to live? ie taxes, drugs, welfare etc Legalize drugs. Save multi-billions every year on the whole drug enforcement establishment.Release all non-violent offenders. Save more money. Raise taxes on the rich --say incomes over $250,000K. Give tax credits for most alternative energy programs, including insulating homes, solar panels on roofs, etc. Establish single payer universal health plan. pull out of Iraq. Concentrate on catching...

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Trump is helping Ed McMahon save his six bedroom Beverly Hills mansion from foreclosure. McMahon has made a fortune during his career but took 1st & 2nd mortgages plus other liens on his home! Should Trump save his home- what about the rest of America? Maybe Ed could fill out one of those Publisher's Clearing House contest forms. I don't feel sorry for him. He squandered his money like so many of us (including me.)

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Why is child pornography illegal? Please read the my own answer... I needed detail space WARNING! It's clear to me that anyone who answers this question in a manner not to the exact liking of of this person who styles himself to be some sort of very smart person is declared to be a moron or a person who hasn't given his lengthy question a close reading. In order for CECSum to approve of your answer you must agree with his own conclusions.

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When I mention the 1950s, what comes to mind first? Joe McCarthy, Memorial Day Parades that meant something to everyone, ditto July 4. Tiny 7 inch television sets with water filled magnifying glasses over the screen, Only your hairdresser knows for sure, Good Humor Ice Cream Truck.

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So, those of you who have seen it, what did you think of The Dark Knight? I like the important question posed by the script: Should we become Evil in order to fight Evil?

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What's your favorite sex position? and why? Standing up, pushing her up against the wall of partially lit hallway.

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Do you really give a f*ck? There are many things about which I do give a serious fuck.

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If you've done a good deed for a friend, for them to be able to go out with an ex of yours, give her #, call and ask her out, how come it goes unappreciated about what i did (hardest thing i ever had to do, all 3 of us of work 2gether), and it hurts me? No good deed goes unpunished. Meet me in the bar, you can cry in your beer with me.

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Do "No Junk Mail" signs on letterboxes work? Do you want your post man to decide whether a certain piece of mail is junk? Not a good idea.

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If you could make a cheesy, poorly-acted local TV commercial what business would it be for? E.g. cars, mattresses, rug doctoring, etc. Dentists can get very cheesy on TV.

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What would you think if the mother of the groom wore black at a wedding? Is she in mourning for her son? this bodes badly for the marriage . a mother in law problem in the future.

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What is a healthy sexual appitite to you? When you're in a relationship do expect it alot? What do you mean by "a lot." How long have you been in this relationship? Both questions must be answered before a reasonable answer can be given.

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I 've been married 5 yrs. but for the last year sex has become a problem for me. My husband is very sex active but we only have sex once a week because I just don't feel like doing it. I'm 26 yrs. old. Why is this happening to me, is this normal? try going to a counselor.

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Wil u answer my question? Not until u sk it.

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Husband whom id been with since i was 17 yrs. old left me n my 2 children 4 an older woman im 32, hes 32, and she is 39 yrs old. Shes never been married nor has children shes a kinder teacher . she buys him everything he wants could it b-cause if that??? You call him your ex-husband so I assume that you are already divorced or separated legally. Kinder teachers are very attractive to men, and the fact that she is only seven years older than he is means that she is not really an "older" woman. She has no children and at 39 she probably isn't planning on any. So your hubby has a honey with few if any strings. You have the...

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I don't believe that there has ever been a matriarchy - a society is which women ruled and men were ruled over - ever throughout history. Do you agree? In the American Ghetto many black families are ruled by a strong grandmother and mother.

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Should the police get free food or drink while on duty? I would say that it is a form of corruption. Officers should pay their own way. A smile from the public and their regular paycheck is reward enough for a tough job well done.

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My boyfriend, has a rash on his penis, and he says that it hurts when he pulls his skin back, after we have sex my vagina burns and it hurts, What could it be? What could it be" It could be that you both must hightail it down to the clinic or docs. NOW! that's what it could be.

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Have you ever wondered how much different or easier your life would be if you were born another species? I have a pretty easy life. But it sure would be different had I been born a dray horse.

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Why do we have to be black and white and men and women? Why can't we just be PEOPLE? I agree with Knock--things are so much better today than they were years ago. And, in the 18-25 age group it seems that race, ethnicity, religion and class mean almost nothing today.

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A girl I used to work with is being stalked. The guy is such a freak; he beeps at her and tells her to get in his car, he follows her everywhere, when she at work he watches her from outside the store. He harrasses all other girls too. What should she do? Do you think that speaking with him would help? Perhaps your father could. Or a very large friend might be better.

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Do you and your lover fit tightly together like a living puzzle? Very tightly. Great Question.

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Do you have conversations with yourself? yes, when I am depressed.

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Men, boys too: When you use a public bathroom to urinate do you use the urinal or do you enter the stalls to urinate? If you enter the stalls would you tell why you by-pass the urinals? When you walk into a stall and someone has "marked" it -- what kind of jerks do that. anyway?

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I had sex before two day's with prostitude with out condom and i wanna do a check up to make sure that am fine plz any body can help me plzzz If you could have sex with a prostitute you can go to a clinic. Just do it. Going to a doc or clinic for this is no big deal.

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Which of the following adjectives fit your personality. Be honest. Frenzied, possessive, maniacal, melancholic, anxious, delusional, passionate lover, passionate hater, sexual, visionary, hallucinatory, fearful, phobic, addictive, self-starving, depressed I can be delusional at times,which usually drives me into depression. I am definitely a passionate lover.

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What impact will rising fuel prices have on your family holiday? We already have Amtrak tickets to Washington and we'll spend a week there. We were going to a little Civil War Battlefield exploration in VA and MD, but that's off.

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When travelling, do you pack light or heavy? Very light. Then Violetta gets into the act. When I travel with her we need our own special pack-train.

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Don't you just hate it when a question asks "only men" or "only women" ? we all have opinions, do you answer them anyway? I answer when my answer might be relevant.

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After meeting a person, what is something you might learn about him/her that would automatically disqualify him/her as a potential GOOD friend for you? biased and prejudiced keeps anyone off my list. ,

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Governor Spitzer has been caught involved with a prostitute. Is it time to legalize prostitution? Yes it's about time.

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Do you think Governor Eliot Spitzer should step down? It's really time to stop the hypocrisy and move into the 19th Century. Here's a few historical personages who had their own good times: George Washington (Called Father of his country for more than one reason) Alexander Hamilton (not a President, but essential to American History) Ben Franklyn (Ditto) Thomas Jefferson James Monroe John Quincy Adams Andrew Jackson (shot &...

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Since when did Answerbag degenerate from a thoughtful website with people posting serious questions and helpful answers, to an unregulated bunch of rambling, mindless idiots akin to the worst internet message boards? As you expand the base you increase the number of idiots and jerks within your universe. Early televison is a prime example. When sets cost half the average man;s annual family only an elite group bought them. The AVERAGE quality of programs was much higher. As Joe six-pack came to be able to afford a tv, advertisers wanted to appeal to the lowest common denomiator -- and look what we've...

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I want Hillary to stay in this…this is too good a soap opera," Limbaugh told conservative Laura Ingraham on Fox News Friday. He reiterated the comments on his Monday show and replayed the exchange with Ingram. Question: Is Limbaugh a jerk or not? He is the consummate propagandist. He is a donkey for the Republican Propaganda Machine. -

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If you're at the hospital, and your friend visits, what one thing would you want them to bring you? The latest Paul Auster novel.

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If you could be stranded on an island with 4 people who would they be? I like this question: four? 1. friend Bob 2. friend Mike 3. wife 4. son 4. my other son.

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Do you like to give "rim jobs" and anal fingering? I crave it.

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My girlfriend said she only wants to have anal sex from now on, because its the only type she likes, I don't really like it as much, what should I do? Give her what she needs.

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Have you ever experience mutual masturbation? My wife introduced me to this delightful experience. In some ways more sharing than actual sex. Since then I have done it with a lover. It is enjoyable with either woman.

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The Chinese are "chipping" their children with GPS devices able to track where they are at every moment of every day...Europe has been considering doing something similar...And now it is being discussed in the US...Anybody else see this as incredibly bad? Excellent idea. I'm not worried about privacythe chips can be turned off, the receiving station can be unique. the most careful parent still loses his or her child. It's ugly, but it happens. I say, Sense over Hypothetical Philosophy.

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If you've ever been to Harlem, what's it like? Sorry, it's too late. It's building up, losing it's flavor, it's becoming just another neighborhood in NYC

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Have you seen the movie "Perfume" or read the novel? If so, what did you think of it? If not be warned it is filled with sexuality and gruesome scenes. Is it a true work of art? Does it have merit? Absolutely breathtaking!

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Have you seen the movie "Perfume" or read the novel? If so, what did you think of it? If not be warned it is filled with sexuality and gruesome scenes. Is it a true work of art? Does it have merit? Absolutely breathtaking!

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Got nipples pierced, told mom 2days later. Shes mad I didnt tell her before. Says Im poor role model (but Im straightedge, tutor kids, have a 4.0). Wants to kick me out, stop helping me pay college. Im 18. Which 1 of us is unreasonable, what should I do? You are 18. It's not your mother's business. And it was pretty dumb to tell her. (Or were you deliberately pushing buttons?) P.S. Did you ask your boyfriend before you did it?

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I'm a real bitch sometimes and I have a hard time saying sorry. How should I change myself? Real bitches are a real turn off. Drop the attitude. Realize that everyone has needs and that your need never takes precedence.

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Are shy girls cute? Always interesting and I am very attracted to them.

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What makes women who lack skills or the ability to make their own living think they deserve a a rich man? Beats me!

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My friends evil big sister used to torture him by resting the leg of a table on his stomach then sitting on the table. Could you be mean enough to do this to someone? If so, who to? How long would you sit there? And what would you do while sitting there? How old were they at the time. How much older was the big sister? Was the little sister injured?

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If you see a paper bag open somewhere with no one around do you go over and look at what's inside it? Always.

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Have you ever kissed someone from your sex? Sure.

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I don't want my boyfriend wasting a lot of money on a diamond (small!) white gold/silver/platinum engagement ring when we choose one. Where can we get a really cheap one so we can save money for something more important? Yea! Voodoo! Three cheers for a practical woman!

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Are there any statisticians out there? How much is the total present cost of health insurance in the United States today? How much of that is actually spent on care and how much goes to administrative costs and profit? Your next question should be: what are the administrative costs of Medicare? How much goes to administrative costs and how much goes to actual care? Answers should be in percentages as the dollar cost of seniors must far exceed that of the rest of the population. Break it down to per capita. Compare to private insurance.

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Is it moral or ethical or just plain right for churches to spend all that money on fancy church buildings and high salaries for ministers, when there are so many starving people in the world? Not in my bible.

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I'm making a Kananaskis Hotel survivor kit for guests at a wedding, what should I put in it? Long underwear and a satchel of cash.

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I made a big mistake last night. My girl is upset and won't even talk to me now. Is there anything I can do? Okay, here' the deal. I took my girlfriend to work this afternoon. We made plans to go out after she got off work. Just me and her. So to kill som She's trying to train you. She wants to control you. You were wrong, but her behavior is not warranted. Apologize once--if she continues to whine dump her. She could be dangerous to your ego. Don't let her "break" you. Be a man. She deserves an apology--you don't deserve to be sent to Siberia.

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My girlfriend and broke up about 3 weeks ago. We were together for a year. We were very in love with & talked about marriage often. She left me because of a drug problem. Knowing how she felt about me I am having trouble getting past this. Who has the drug problem? You or your GF? If it's you your problem is not about your GF. Your problem is the drug problem. Focus strictly on getting off drugs. Focus so hard that you forget about her. When you are clean & sober maybe she'll still be around. If it's your GF who has the problem then separating is also the right thing. Get her into a viable program. Support...

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Koyaanisqatsi : Have you seen it? Do you agree or disagree that it is a great work of art? GREAT! One of the few films I have seen more than once on purpose. I just saw it recently and it gets better every time. Sit back. Relax. Enjoy it. Netflix has it. Probably your local library does too.

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What do you say to a woman who tells you that all the other guys just want to get in her pants but she likes you because you're different? You don't want her to think you're a phony, so you must tell her immediately, and in no uncertain terms, that, indeed, you DO want to get into her pants, and as soon as possible. After all, you're a guy, and that's what normal guys want. She'll respect you for your honesty, and your relationship will start off on the right foot.

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If it meant helping more children get health care whose parents can't provide them with it, would you support a tax raise on cigarettes? (Someone proposed this in Bush's speech today, and I wondered what your guys thoughts were on it.) YES! But we really need total Universal Health Care, which would cost less than $4000 per capita. That number is the present cost per covered life of a well known union's benefit plan that covers 400,000 people.

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I will be 26 next month and I have never had a boyfriend. No man has ever saud those words all women want to here "I love You". I am so scared that I will spend the rest of my life alone. I feel very alone in the world. What do I do? Continue to be yourself."I am just me" is a perfect name and a perfect way to be. No phoniness, just plain honesty.

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Even if you were with an unloving spouse, is there ever a legitimate reason to have an affair while continuing with the marriage? Wouldn't it be more repectable to at least attempt to end the marriage first? I agree with the point that if there is a family everything should be done to keep it together. Children are destroyed in every divorce. There's nothing wrong with a little hypocrisy and everyone should have, and is entitled to have, a deep and loving relationship with someone. If one spouse can't offer a full loving relationship to the other then they can look elsewhere while...

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What song are you hearing right this moment? (the truth) "Anything Goes" vocalist Cole Porter, himself. If you know who I'm talking about make a comment please! "You're the Top!" ditto.

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Planning to travel to Dinan France , (it is in Brittany) would like avegage weather info for Sept and Oct. can we do outdoor painting? The weather will be fine for painting. I'll have the ladder in the garage and this year I want white paint, and green shutters. After work enjoy the seafood, and make sure you have some crepes for desert. You can have wine with dinner, but please not during the day while you are painting the house. There will be a barrel of cider for you in garage too. Feel free.

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"If you kept a private diary and if it were discovered after your death would (1) your family discover hidden aspects of your character? and/or (2) would your closest friends find such material? My Dad said "never put it in writing." I am sticking to his advice.

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I am considered a legal midget, but when I asked my doctor to sign my form for a handicap placard, he said that my request was ridiculous. Is it common to have a disabled placard as a legal midget? How is the disability stated on the DMV form? It's obvious that many permits have been issued to non-handicapped people. There is also the problem of people who use someone else's permit. A crack-down is due with high fines for fakers.

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I am one of those women who can not orgasm. Not even with a Very giving partner we have tried everything and it seems I get to that point and then *poof* its gone. I am a 30 year old mother of three on my way through a Divorce and very sexually active wit the questioner's question is completed below in one of the answer boxes. What she asks is how to re-assure her partner that it is okay with her, that she is satisfied without orgasm? I would answer that you should embrace him, tell him how much you love him, do something more for him, even after he has orgasmed. Just be loving. Eventually he'll get the idea.

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Are today's students more or less concerned with the welfare of others who are less fortunate than themselves than were the students of twenty or thirty years ago? There were students many years ago who were progressive and less selfish than students of today. There's a lot of me-first people now. I think that this country has lost a lot of the spirit of doing what's best for everyone. There is even a certain fearfulness about getting close to a stranger and putting out your hand in friendship and helpfulness.

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What question(s) do you have can truly never be answered? The question that is not asked.

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Can we have a question where all the answers are questions themselves? Why not?

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A friend of mine is a size 10 (size 8 in usa terms) and she wants a gastric bypass and she has actually found a doctor willing to do it, how can i stop this, she is thin enough as it is this is just beyond ridiculous I guess you have already sent her al the warnings and negative news about gastric by-passes that you can find. If you haven't already done so, try ASK or GOOGLE. You are right to warn her, but sometimes people get an idea into their heads and then they cannot be disuaded. At some point, after you have sent her all the information you can, you will have to accept her decision.

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Why do women enjoy movies about interpersonal relations more than movies about things blowing up? Men like "action" because they don't like to think. Rather than being "problem solvers," when they go to the movies they like to turn off their brains. They would like to be able to act on instinct alone in life, like what they see on the screen. -- Thinking is too much work. -- If men would allow themselves to get involved in emotion and relationships in film they...

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What do you do if your friend is addicted to a stupid video game? What do you do if you are addicted to Answerbag?

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Last wknd my bf had 5 condoms in his bathroom. This past wknd there were 3 left. We made plans to get together one night but he never showed up, and I get the feeling that the condoms were used during this night. We never use condoms. Confront him? This is your BF; is he chained to you? Why should he be your exclusive toy? Unless you agree to some sort of exclusivity arrangement you have no right to expect him to be faithful to you. And vice versa/ these are not puritan or victorian days.

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I am currently dating a Mormon and she has talked about me going on a mission. I plan to marry her soon, but at my age (24) it is tough for me to go on a mission right now. What should I do? 24 is not too young or too old. Go. If you love her, and want to become or are a mormen--go!. Don't hesitate. Go!

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Should a bachelor do marriage with a widow women? Widows are great women to marry. They've been around, they know what's what, and they appreciate a man around the house. By all means, marry her.

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What do you think of pigtails on women? they are a turn on for me.

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What kind of human public social behavior can you tolerate the least? Littering, graffiti, and noise. Great question!

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I have a friend who is selling his art to americans, he wants them to pay me so i can transfer his money to him through my bank, because he cant cash money orders and such and such easily in britain, in exchange he wants to pay me a percentage of his chec Let's assume that it is not a scam. You and your friend may be naive when it comes to money. This is common among artists of all types. 1. When you receive the money and place it into your account it might appear that you have received income. You may be giving yourself a tax problem. 2. His clients can easily wire the money directly into his bank account in Britain. He will have no...

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How many Americans flew little American Flags out of their car windows prior to 911? I see that some folks are downgrading what is an interesting question. It would be better if the downgraders, trolls, would explain their reasons for downgrading the question. Is it that the answer is pretty obvious? Not many.

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I think that some user on Answerbag is a bit exaggerated, what I mean is the user who ask a question then comment thanks to everyone who answered it. I know it's good and polite but I think it's annoying, what do you think? I think it's fine, and sometimes the comments are interesting too. Why not be polite?

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Do you discuss politics with your friends? Your relatives? Most of my friends on all sides of the aisle are politically interesting and we talk politics a lot--but with my wife? Never! I can't take any chances on raising her ire. She's too good a cook.

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Did you see Amazing Grace? If so, what did you think of it? Before you saw it did you know anything about William Wilberforce? Really liked it. I knew nothing about Wilberforce before seeing the movie, but now I am doing some reading about him and William Pitt too. It was very exciting and had a little romance too.

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I just read that if you want to attract a man there are 4 simple things to do: Exercise,don't smoke, eat healthy and hearty, and laugh. Do you agree with this? Mostly I agree. But here's a few more attributes every woman should have: Be a good cook Have plenty of money Be ever willing Keep a clean home Be thrifty

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Is it just me, or have you noticed that when you meet someone going the opposite way in a narrow place and you move aside to let them pass first, they most often don't even look at you, never mind smile or say 'Thanks'? Yes, sadly, manners are slowly disappearing. It has to do with the "me first" society.

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How well do you tolerate people of diametrically opposed viewpoints? I am pretty tolerant of other people's viewpoints, but as soon as they start calling names or indulge in attacks ad hominum I am finished with them.

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How far are you willing to go to prove your love? "An absurd distance"

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Do you ever wish that you had done something differently when you were younger? My regret is not learning more Mathematics and being indecisive when I first started College. Everyday, every way. One mis-step after another. But, amazingly, I arrive at a fairly good place in life and find my self an 8 on the 1-10 happiness scale.

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Did you ever regret the major you chose to pursue in college? It wasn't spelling was it?

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Did you hear about the neighbor who shot & killed burglers that were breaking into his neighbors home? Would you like to have him as your neighbor or do you think crime would decrease alot if we were allowed to help our neighbors in a situation like that Here's the story -- it's out of Texas. Note that the burglars were unarmed. This man is a hero??? Neighbor who shot potential burglars 'petrified' POLL 04:51 PM CST on Friday, November 16, 2007 KHOU.com staff report 11 News reporter Kevin Reece talks to the shooter and his attorney The Pasadena homeowner who gunned down two alleged burglars Wednesday told 11...

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Is physical force a justifiable method of punishing children? Never! there are many other well known ways to discipline a child. Reserve spanking for your GF or wife.

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How often do you visit the graves of your lost loved ones? Whenever I go to the town where my family has a plot I try to get over. there are about thirty of us going back to 1910 or so. Unfortunately there's no more spaces so I am not sure what will be done with me.

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The man I love(who dumped me on my b-day)started talking to me again&we've seen each other a few times.The problem is I've been with someone for 3months who loves me but I can never love him because my heart is with the other guy. What should I do? It's amazing that you ask this Q. Do you want to go back to a man who is going to hurt you again? And, you should not be leading on the other man, the one who loves you, if you know you can never love him. You don't belong with either one. Be honest--

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Would you ever let your best friend date your little brother/sister? I love my sister dearly. I love my best friend like a brother. Nothing could make me happier than to see them as a married couple.

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If you had to name your child after an alcoholic drink, what would you choose? Remi,

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Best way to get rid of an irritating fly? Open the window, open the screen, and gently wave him out.

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Guys, can a bad personality make a girl less physically attractive? I'll take personality over good looks anytime. A bad personality? Who wants to waste the time?

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I'm a Christian and was raised believing sex before marriage is a sin. But what if I want it to happen now? Should I put my religious beliefs above what I want? I would ask Mr. Educated Philosopher Blaylock whether he has ever suffered 3rd degree burns caused by an Improvised Explosive Device and been unlucky enough to live? I would wonder whether he has ever seen or felt the emotions of a mother whose child has been torn apart by a grenade. - I would further ask, whether he has an answer to the "omnipotent-omnibenevolent" argument. Did...

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I let someone borrow my leopard print thongs and they have not given them back! What should I do? Change your spots!

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When your husband has touched other women inappropriately, goes to night clubs and tries to pickup other women, tells you your not what he wants anymore, goes to strip clubs on a reg. basis, drinks every nite excessively, is he cheating? Are you serious?

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My husband died 8 years ago. I have not taken up with a new man. My husband was my first and only, and I have strange feelings about being with another man. My pastors' wife died last year and he has asked me to dinner a few times. Can I be free with him? Duplicate, sorry again.

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My husband died 8 years ago. I have not taken up with a new man. My husband was my first and only, and I have strange feelings about being with another man. My pastors' wife died last year and he has asked me to dinner a few times. Can I be free with him? You are a fine woman. Feel free to be "free." No, you don't have to be married. (I assume you will have no children.) You can go to bed with each of these men, and decide how you feel about them. I say again, you are a fine woman.

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My husband died 8 years ago. I have not taken up with a new man. My husband was my first and only, and I have strange feelings about being with another man. My pastors' wife died last year and he has asked me to dinner a few times. Can I be free with him? duplicate, sorry

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Well its me again the only person in the world with more problems than u. So my took ur advice and touched my freind back, but i hav'nt heard back from anyone about my parents. Please some one tell me what i should do. yours truly Poop23. :) It's time for you to take things by the claw and hammer and send a signal that you won't take any more of this impolitic, impolite behavior and that you intend to take action on your own without regard to friend or foe, and without favoring either. Yes, it's time to gird yourself for the confict and to accept your fate as you make it yourself. There is little question that...

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Hypothetically (although it's been known to have happened), a gay man marries a straight woman, and they're married for five years before he can finally be honest. They have two toddlers. What do you think should happen? Here's the second part of your qestion answered. Sorry I took so long. Okay: I am a very liberal man. I count among my friends many people of many stripes. One would expect the woman to be accepting as my friend's wife was--but most women, I am afraid, are not like this. A woman must be sophisticated and compassionate to accept this situation. Remember, the woman deserves her...

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What would you do if you find women's underwear in your husband's briefcase and they are not yours? Take them out. Say nothing. Watch him go slowly crazy.

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I am an 18 year old girl and I have a crush on a 15 year old boy. What should I do? Give him what he dreams of.

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My boyfriend still haves picture of his exwife when they got married why doesnt he get rid of it He wants to remind himself of how lucky he is to be rid of her and how lucky he is to have you.

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If an artist wanted to sculpt your likeness out of any substance of your choosing, what would you choose for him/her to use? Bronze. It lasts longer than any other medium. thousands of years of immortality. then--nothing.

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What's your darkest secret? Two can keep a secret if one is dead.

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You've got an unexpected gift of three days absolutely free of duties, work and anything to do. You may use them to do something very romantic with your girlfriend/boyfriend. What will you do? Get in a canoe in the Adirondacks. Huddle up together in a lean-to at night in a double sleeping bag.

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Hypothetically (although it's been known to have happened), a gay man marries a straight woman, and they're married for five years before he can finally be honest. They have two toddlers. What do you think should happen? This is what happened to my friend X after thirty-five years of marriage. Something made him confess all. After some ruckus and a year or so of counseling they have stayed together. It's seems strange, I know. But they seem to love each other and they laugh and have good times. So?

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Who turns you on? Ugly Betty and my wife whose beauty makes up for Ugly Betty's.

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What does the term "vanilla" mean, when used in a sexual connotation? Yes, yes, I knw what vanilla sex refers to. But in defense of Vanila Ice Cream: Vanilla is a very subtle flavor with many interesting, if elusive overtones. No one should ever think of vanilla ice cream as "plain" or "boring." Vanilla doesn't come right out and ht you over the head with an on-rush of flavor, like chocolate, for instance. One must think while...

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When selecting your birthday in your profile the years go back untill 1894. is there anyone that old on AB? Although it is possible I doubt it.

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I am one of those women who can not orgasm. Not even with a Very giving partner we have tried everything and it seems I get to that point and then *poof* its gone. I am a 30 year old mother of three on my way through a Divorce and very sexually active wit Could you finish your question by using an answer box?

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My girlfriend said that her friend (mrs. n), can one time only for her birthday give me oral sex as long as nothing else happens and my gf is there to watch over us. does anybody think my gf is up to something or just being a great girl? Go for it. Have a ball. And don't forget to thank your GF in the best way you know how.

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Library or bookstore? Do you borrow books or do you buy them? I used to buy, then I sold my business. Now I am happy to borrow them from the libary. I have recently cataloged my books on the website that Sall the Redhead recommends in some of the comments. The website is great and I am very glad that I did it. The site tells you other people with the same book, how many people have it who are librarything members--it is just great. Buster

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I drink, smoke pot and do coke occasionally...my bf binges all the time...how do i make it clear it's a problem without seeming hypocritical? our intake levels are very different, though. There is a Puritan Fringe that lives on Answerbag. It is probably your admission that you "occasionally" use pot or coke that set them off. I'm glad you dumped Mr. BF Binger.

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If the story of the three little pigs was to be rewritten for children today, what would the big bad wolf be saying in place of "little pig, little pig let me in"? And what would the pigs respond instead of "not by the hair of my chinny chin chin"? The wolf would say "Pizza Delivery." The pigs would reply: "go away, we ordered Chinese food."

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What do you have trouble accepting? I am intolerant of fools and stupidity. Other than that I am a nice guy about everything and everyone.

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Why Does men Always think they are Correct? Correct Men Does think He is Correct Always. That is that way it is.

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My wife of 12yrs cheated on me twice. it's been 9 months since finding out and i still can't get over it. she has not tried to help me heal and she refuses counceling. she just wants to blame me for everything. what should i do? If there are no children, say goodbye. If there are children, then get serious about talking to her. Now when I say "talking" I really mean LISTENING. You must listen without answering, and without being defensive. She must talk while you listen. Don't get upset. Don't react. Just listen. Try to hear what she is saying and what she is not saying. Infidelity is not...

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When was the last time someone held you tight and told you, "Everything is going to be all right"? Who was it and why? Very good, if feminine oriented, question. My mother said it when I skinned my knee, about xxx years ago. And I have comforted women with that phrase on several occasions.

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How well do you tolerate people of diametrically opposed viewpoints? My problem is with fools. I do not suffer fools gladly. On the other hand, I crave and enjoy argument, but always respect and tolerate the other fellow's point of view.

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I moved from California to the midwest to seperate myself from a jazz man that I saw on business with my hubby once a week. There were intense sparks, he always asked for "his hug" & we ignored everyone else. My heart is broken now that I have moved. Call him up. Tell him where you are. Have fun with him. Your heart is broken and those "intense sparks" are hard to come by.

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My boyfriend broke up with me because i smoke. I have tried quitting but its hard. He said he cant be with a smoker. I dont want to lose him. I couldn't be with a woman who smokes. I can't stand the odor, sometimes I am allergic to it, I can smell it in the curtains, in the carpet, in her clothing, on her body, and in her mouth. Smoking would be a dealbreaker for me. Sorry.

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There is a guy at work who keeps flirting with me. How do I let him know I am interested. I am on the shy side and how only ever dated two people, both of which were long term relationships so I have very little experience. You might try telling him that you are interested. You might say--"How about a cup of coffee?" If you think you are too shy, then I suggest that you visualize yourself asking him. As part of the visualization you picture yourself asking him. Then picture him saying "Yes!, Geat Idea!" Do this a few times abefore you go to sleep. the next day, just walk right up to him and...

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So, is Senator Craig just another polititician who is a run-of-the-mill hypocrite? (this Question is an edited version of someone else's rejected question) Just another run of the mill hypocrite, that's all. there's plenty on both sides of the aisle.

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How come it isn't mandatory that all sex offenders get castrated? You mean castrate the boy whose 17 year old girl friend gives him head for his birthday? That's an actual case in Florida. the boy is now on the list of Sexual Offenders--for life. We need to be more sensible when dealing with sex. Why is it so hard for Americans to grow up?

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I found out that my 17 year old son was having an inappropriate relationship with his youth pastor's wife. Can we take legal action against her, the pastor and/or the church? Take action? Are you crazy? Congratulate your son on his initiative and good luck. Give him a prize. He'll learn more from your Pastor's Wife than he will in Sunday School. (After re-reading this answer some years later, I still think it's a good answer, in spite of a recent cowardly down-grader, who D/R'ed without comment.)

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I have rejoined a company. One girl, who was envious of me in the past, is doing it again. She is the reason I left. I am meticulous and constantly praised for my work. She says mean things about me to others behind my back. How do I deal with her? THE best way to deal with this type of person is to ignore what people tell you she said. When someone starts to tell you what she said, just smile, and explain that you are not interested. Just remember, you are better than she, and are above being affected by office poison.

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What if your mother was right?-----about everything? She was.

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I have rabbits and my girl and boy are in the same cage; they are both pretty young and i want breed them but not right now; i dont want any unexpected pregnansies and i only have one cage! and i cant get another one They must be kept apart. there is no other way... can you divide the cage?

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What if your husband is never in the mood call me.

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Before married my husband left me. I had a slit nervous breakdown & ended up in the hospital for 1 week he ended up in prison, I had a one night stand and he says Im a whore and was wrong because i should have known he didnt really leave me its been 1yr A one night stand doesn't make you a whore. Having fun in bed is fine. Just make sure that you talk this out with your hubby and you both agree.

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What is the point of dating a married man? 1. You don't have to wash his socks 2. you don't have to cook his dinner 3. you don't have to take care of him when he's sick 4. you don't have to clean the fish he catches 5. you don't have to worry about his pension investments 6. weekends and holidays are yours' to do as you please.

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If your partner had serious health problems that affected your sex life would you stay with them and take matters into your own hands so to speak or would you cheat with someone else? In my particular relationship either of us would do both. We'd take matters in our hand and, openly, find an obliging friend. We'd be open with each other.

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If you met someone of the opposite sex that you felt was perfect for you, but then found out they had a mental illness and was on antipsychotic meds, would you still want to date them? The meds change the personality. I would be wary of such a relationship.

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Have you seen "Death at a Funeral?" What did you think? Funniest movie in a long time. A packed theater was rolling in the aisles. I lost my breath laughing.

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Is it ok to use guilt to solicit money for terminal children? No. But I would use it. the goal is to raise money for terminal children. Not to have good form...

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Does Condoleezza Rice retain any credibility with Middle Eastern leaders? She's supposed to be a good ice skater and piano player. she'll do well in Vaudeville.

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Do you think that by coincidence , George W. Bush in one final act before leaving office, will pardon Lewis Libby? He let him off the Judge's sentence. He will pardon him before he leaves office. And his girls and the fiance will never serve.

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Do you think is dumb for a teenage girl who was raped to stay queit about the rape,when the suspect goes to the same school as her? Not dumb. Such a girl might be afraid or embarrassed. Of course she should report the rape--if it really was a rape and not merely two kids going too far. Never mind about the legalities of the age of consent. If she and her friend just went too far and she was willing at the time--she should keep quiet about it. If it was a genuine rape--which to this old fashioned guy, means force or...

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Let me ask again. I am a 4.0 student and have been for the past 2 years at the college. I know its wrong to crush on a prof (ruin his career), but I want to do some platonic flirting---I want only him to notice. Not fair to the professor. what you call flirting is what I call c--k teasing. And then when something happens you'll cry "Date Rape." Stay away from the professor.

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Which do you consider the worst form of cheating, a physical relationship with no emotions involved or an emotional relationship where there is no physical contact but falls in love with someone else? I don't consider "cheating" the end of a relationship. I don't call it cheating. I call it having a life. Others have pointed out that humankind isn't built for monogamy. It seems that the physical relationship would lead nowhere and should not imperial a marriage. But an emotional relationship? why should it? It's just like having a good friend.

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I had an affair with a married man. We both divorced and are now in a relationship. He has three daughters, 12, 9, and 2. His 12 year old knows about the affair and hates me. I want her acceptance and for her to see I'm a good person, what do I do? You are in a tough spot. Remember you're not her mom and really not her friend either. You have to be something in between. Even as Step-mom you won't be her mom. Stay away from any type of criticism. Leave that to Dad. Try always to take her side in any disputes with her Dad--but make sure that Dad knows your motive. Get him to support you in your efforts even when it costs him....

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Is the man you want for your daughter for her or what you want for yourself. In reverse. the woman I want for my son is the woman I would choose for myself. Luckily, I already caught her.

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Is the man you want for your daughter for her or what you want for yourself. In reverse. the woman I want for my son is the woman I would choose for myself. Luckily, I already caught her.

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I have to choose between two engagement rings that I like.Which one do you like better? pics in answer Take the best stone, regardless of size.

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Today I hung my laundry out to dry, when was the last time you did this? Besides in the field? A few days ago.

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Is anyone else ashamed to be human sometimes? The qualifier "sometimes" allows me to say yes -- sometimes-- but for the most part I like humanity, and try to understand and like other people. Yes, sometimes it's impossible, like radical Muslim movement. But, on the whole, I am not ashamed to be human.

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What does a guy think when he sees a tattoo on a girl. But a tattoo that is not where everyone can see. But not in an intmate place. I wonder where else she has a tattoo. then I wonder how she'll feel about the tattoo when she's sixty or seventy years old. And I want to see the other tattoo...

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Would you consider a physical relationship with someone you have met on the net? Why not?

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Can you describe your chilhood in 1 word? delightful

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What is the cutest dog breed? (You may post pics too) I had a Bullmastiff named Jupiter. He was the best. Smart, gentle, ferocious looking, but a gentle soul....Cute? When he perked his ears and cocked his massive head....

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Ever had sex in a public place - if so where? Subway car, stairwell at Carnegie Hall, Movie theater (I forgot the name, though I know the theater) Parking lot behind a synogogue--the only time we got caught--"KNOCK! KNOCK!" on the window, it was a cop. Luckily, and understanding one, who sent us on our way with a warning. Does in a canoe on a lake in the Adirondacks count?

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Have you ever had sex at you or your partners place of employment? Sure, in both our places of work. Before work, after work, and at lunch. Never during work hours!

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I am in a dating relationship where the guy keeps refering to his Ex-wife as his wife even though they have been divorced for 5 years . IS it silly of me to think there is a problem here? his ex will be a part of your relationship...not so bad if you accept it. She will always be a third person in the bedroom.

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How can you tell if a guy likes you? Has it worked for you... or if your a guy, did it get you anywhere? Make lime jello and cherry jello. Put them in separate bowls. Serve both to your guy. If he chooses the green one (lime) it's a go ahead signal. If he chooses the red one (cherry) it's a no-go situation. Look elsewhere. Good luck!

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Does anyoone know if Russians have a supposed custom in weddings? yes, the bride;s mother, if living, is doused with vodka. If she is not living, or not present, then the bride is to remove her veil and take the dousing herself.

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I have a friend who just permed her 8 year old daughter's hair yesterday. Can someone please shed some light on if I am right or wrong by telling her that she is going to ruin her daughter's hair and that she is too young for a perm. The child should be allowed to be a child. No perm. However, you should never criticise a parent in front of a child. Talk to mom in private.

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Judge forced to define difference between "sandwich" and Mexican sandwich, probably costing a small fortune in legal fees. Are there too many legal disputes and not enough common sense? Should never have been allowed past the steps of the courthouse. Whats the difference between a ham sandwich and a chicken sandwich?

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Is spandex a privilege or a right? Spandex? It should be outlawed for certain women--a requirement for others.

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Have you ever experienced forbidden love? Forbidden love implies a love with someone out of bounds, doesn't it? Incest, a married person, under age. In some families it could even include people of a different race, caste, class or religion. I think forbidden love is always hot. and, yes, I have indulged. I recommend it.

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Do you think that you can marry someone who is not very educated .in order to help him and devollope his level Long term very big mistake. Marry at your own level of intelligence and education. Over time he or she is going to become very boring to you, especially if education is important to you. Lawyers and plumbers don't work. You won't be able to culturalize your partner, nor will you be able to "educate" him or her. Don't try it.

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Are there any visually evident signs you can look for to see if someone is gay? One clue is overt hostility to gays. Men who profess hatred of homosexuality often harbor latent homosexuality themselves. And sometimes, it isn't even latent. Other than that there are no universal signs, no hairstyle, speech style, or clothing style.

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What's with all of these questions about virginity? Has somebody misplaced their hymen? Due to propaganda virginity has become popular once again. this is a fad, most likely, that will disappear in a few years. Girls are resorting to oral and anal six in order to "save" themselves for their wedding night. Oral sex isn't even considered an act of love anymore--have you heard of a "rainbow.?"

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Do you think if two people are in relationships when they meet, will ever get to be together if they really love each other? Why not? And they could stay in their relationship too if it is a loving one also.

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How will the people who seriously relish, even thrive on, thoughts of the Apocalypse, with all its assumed horror, bloodshed, chaos, turmoil, and destruction, ever really be happy in a peaceful, loving, place like Heaven? I think that you see something behind their "relishing" the Apocalypse. What a perfect choice of word. Their attitude is sadistical and hostile. They must be very angry people. I cannot see them in Heaven or Paradise without finding fault there.

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Are there any secrets you've kept from your partner - perhaps an odd lover you've not mentioned? No secrets on this end. I doubt that my dear wife has kept any. But why not? We are still individuals, you know.

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Weather wise, how hot is too hot? We can take a lot of heat but it's the humidity that is bothersome. Give me a cold shower or a jumn cool spring fed lake and I'll take any heat...

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I have read that womrn have had sex with a dog . Is that possible? Yes, and some like it too.

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Let's say you had to live on a magical stranded island with your favorite singer/band for one week..who would it be and how would you set your island up with them? :-).. Wow: this is a really hard question. Dinah Washington comes to mind. Billie Holiday, of course--but how would I live with either of them? they were both difficult women, but such great singers... Moving up a few decades, Karen Ackers or Loreena McKinnet, would be interesting to listen to. Let's see, how would I set the island up? I'd have a healthy cooking woman (I don't know...

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How do I get the courage to talk to a girl? Here's how to build up the courage to do anything: VISUALIZATION. Just look in the mirror or look in your mind and see yourself talking to this girl. Practice seeing yourself do this. Then, take a deep breath and go up to her and speak. Be yourself. Repeat: you must be yourself. Visualization is practiced by many famous athletes. Salesmen and even surgeons practice visualization. ...

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Do girls/or guys think boobs are a key factor in a relationship? what's the big attraction to them? if a girl has a nice slim body and small boobs, is she still attractive? are they any less "quality" if they're fake? Many men (like me) are put off by artificial breasts--just as many women are put off men who wear toupees. Huge heavy breasts, natural or not, just don't do it for me. Give me what you have any day.

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Of all the things you should not do, what do you find the hardest not to do? Flirt, watch tv, answer answerbag.

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When is the best time to take that "grand adventure"? Youth, retirement, before/after children, when? Youth. When you're young you can take the cheaper hotels, hostels, sleep in tents, your need for the high end hotels is non-existant, you can bicycle, hike, sleep in the rain, find girls or guys as the case may be. You've got the energy to keep on going when you need to. You'll see more and and then have the experience for the rest of your life--which will make you a smarter,...

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My fiance is very involved in planning our wedding so I asked my maid of honor to turn my shower into a co-ed couple shower. He doesn't want to go now and wonders why women consider the shower SO important. I can't find info. Any ideas to convince him? What is he doing getting so involved in the wedding plans? Is this the way the marriage is going to play out? Unless you have no family the wedding is your domaine--and certainly the shower is all yours. Is he going to be the type of man who has to know everything that you are doing at all times? Is you going to check on the dinner while you are cooking it? don't let him smother...

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Please help. Serious question. I started talking to an amazing guy. He has a serious heart condition and doctors give him less than a year to live. Should I end it now before it gets serious or hope for the best? For both of you: Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Go to him with all of your heart, open arms, have a good year while you both can.

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Do you think that white should NOT be worn before Easter/Memorial day? White after Memorial Day is right. See MaineMoody's answer. Add to it: buttonaires, colorful handkerchiefs folded in jacket pocket. Hip flasks. Spats if walking on country roads. Big toothy smiles always! Sporty bamboo cane.

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Should our tax dollars be used to pay for children of illegal immigrants, to attend public schools in the united states? These immigrant children are the ones who, when they become citiizens, are going to pay the social security taxes that will guarantee the Social Security checks that Anonymous aka Scifisuz will be receiving when he's old enough to collect. Immigration to the US is one of the ways that Social Security is going to be saved. It is necessary.

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Shushi anyone? Shashimi for me. But I could live on it, providing I could afford the best.

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Are loving relationships created on the basis that the woman wants to be comfortably supported and is willing to love a man who provides a good home and and a wealthy life style? Does it work? There are marriages that work very well on the basis described in the question. After all, for many years marriages were "arranged" by parents and most of them worked out over time. Probably better than marriages based on "chemistry" or "romantic love" today. Most likely trust and respect evolve into love over time. I think that these marriages do work. Go to...

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Who do you like in the Republican race for nominee to the Presidency of the US? Romney changes his mind too often, but seems okay. Ron Paul would be my first choice if he could get elected.

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Who do you like in the Democract race for nominee to the Presidency of the US? Edwards by a mile.

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My grandmother is on life support ,unfortunately pulling the plug was put on my head should i pull the plug? Circumstances must be examined. Doctors consulted with discretion. Her age, her chances of coming off life support. Remember that being on life support is not the same as being dead--pulling the plug will, in most cases, make her actually dead with no hope of recovery. Were her wishes ever expressed? For instance, my mother demanded "No extra-ordinary means of maintaining life should...

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What is the percentage of women attracted to married men More han 50%. And that's only "attracted." How many act on their attraction? Maybe 25%.

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Is there anyone you'd like to see launched into space with a one way ticket? CEO's at Wal-Mart; inventor of the Telephone Tree and anyone who has one installed at his company; stupid drivers; dangerous drivers; people who make unnessary noise; most hypocrites (you & me excepted); George Steinbrener; and last but not least, even though he's dead, the most evil American ever, Walter O'Malley.

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Why is it ok for a wife to masterbate by herself but if the husband does it he is wrong and its not ok? It's fine for both. Have fun. Try to do it together--more fun.

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Are loving relationships created on the basis that the woman wants to be comfortably supported and is willing to love a man who provides a good home and and a wealthy life style? Does it work? In cave man days what did women need? A man who could bring home the bacon and protect them. Yes, I think that the relationship described in the question could work--in fact, I would gues that a large fraction of successful marriages in the middle, and upper middle class work that way.

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If I am convicted of a felony allude charge can i still go to college? What troll is downgrading Hobbitt's questions? on what grounds? It seems to me that they are sincere Q's seeking answers.

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If I am convicted of a felony allude charge can i still go to college? Absolutely! Most colleges will want to talk about felony conviction, but will be happy to take a man who is willing to to clean up his act. Apply.

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If I am charged with a felony allude in virginia can I still go to college? Many schools would accept you. Due to a felony convivtion getting a nursing license might be problematical. You should look into that. Have you learned your lesson? What exactly did you do to earn your felony allude conviction?

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Do you think it would be better if illegal drugs were sold over the counter at the pharmacy and other places like that? The anti-drug program has cost this country (minicipalities, states, & federal) almost one trillion dollars since the Eisenhower Administration. It has not succeeded. In fact, it has caused doctors and pharmacists to fear giving legitimately needed pain meds to patients in dire need. It is my fervent wish that some of these holier-than-thou politicians and bureaucrats feel what is like...

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Do we need more than ten commandments? No, the Golden Rule is enough -- but I challenge you to name the Ten Commandments without looking them up. Be honest. Can you?

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Will i be penalized if i am 10 days late for quarterly taxes? Don't make a habit of it.

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How many hours a day do you spend on answerbag? H.... o.... u..... r...... s

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My husband is always a cheater and i cant leave because i have nowhere to take our four kids (boys) plis help He says that he loves me and that he will never leave me..Plis can i leave him with his children Auntie 'Em's answer is typical of women who think of themselves first, children second, and the man who was once loved last. "The father will be ORDERED", "half the marital assets" that (usually) he earned by his sweat and toil and brains; get her "mitts"; "fight"... These are all hostile and angry words. Fighting words. They do not move...

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Do you think that the Muslim terrorists at Ft. Dix were playing a game that they couldn't stop? Perhaps--but that shouldn't absolve them of guilt. They don't appreciate what they have--did you see pictures of one of their homes? And they wanted, or thought that they wanted to kill soldiers. they probably know that few soldiers at Ft. Dix have rounds for the weapons--so they were going to shoot fish in barrel. Toss the key away..

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I broke up with my girl in a rude harsh way about 4 months ago..i am starting to have feelings for her now....do you think she should take me back :( You were rude, you were harsh. And you expect her to take you back? If she does she is a floor mat. Do you like floor mats? Come off it.

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How would you feel, lets say after 5yrs you found out that your child wasn't yours. ie mix up at the hospital or infeldelity I'd love the child that I took home and love the child that was taken from me. Equally. Hope i could get mine back, and bring them both up. I understand about the other biological parents, so maybe we could make visiting arrangements so that my wife and I could continue our relation with the child we have learnd to call our own.

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Would you invite your co-workers to Jello wrestle? Yes! Good idea, thanks! Let me get Tiffany on the phone.

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A woman who ran an up-scale brothel in Washington, having already forced the resignation of one top bureaucrat, says she will reveal all her client records unless a court case against her is dropped. Should authorities give in or call her bluff? I demand confidentiality from all prostitutes, massage girls, and libraians. Something must be done!

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What would you consider to be the greatest hoax of all time? (e.g. Amityville horror etc) election of George Bush

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Ugly Betty do you watch it? Find it funny? I am a secret Ugly Betty watcher.I watch on my wife's set so that the Cable Big Brother won't know its me. I crave the program alomost as much as Deadwood or The Wire. It's witty, bright, and even inspiring. I wish, however, that HBO had bought it so that there were fewer commercials. I watch almost no commercial t.v. with this exception. That's how much I love it.

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How many cable channels do you have? If i could choose my channels I would pay more for each, but have far fewer. How does the package system improve the cable system as a whole?

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Do you believe the school board was right in saying my school couldn't do a play about teen bullying?? They shot it down mainly because the guy who got bullied and then killed was gay. Your school board was completely wrong. Watchning the play should be required for the school and for the board as well. they might learn something.

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Read any good books lately? The Road, Cormac McCarthy--dystopic end of the world novel, great writing. No, I mean it. Great Writing.

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What are your thoughts on polyamoury? Unless you're hung up in religious mumbo-jumbo polyamory is great. The big trick is figuring out what you should do, when she does that, and the other she does this.

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My 25 year class reunion is coming up. I have gone to the previous two reunions we have had and really enjoyed seeing old classmates. My husband now say he will not go with me because he does not want to I feel so angry..what do I do?? stay home or go? When I went to my 25th reunion at high school without the wife, it was easier to move around the room, see everyone, remember old times, see how much weight everyone had gained, see how the class beauties had fallen on hard times, and, in general, have fun. If she had insisted I would have have brought her--but I was just as happy to go alone. It's MY reunion, not hers'.

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So I'm 19 and my mom openly admitted to me yesterday that she's been having an affair for the past year. She also said she and my dad are divorcing .She and my father have been together for 20yrs as of January 1st. Do I tell my Dad? Or do I keep quiet? Tell us why your mom felt the need to blab (brag?) to you about her affair. Although I do not look down on any persons who have affairs, I do not approve of taking their children to the hotel. Minus points for mom.

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Would you say that someone who is in their third marriage may have relationship issues or were the first two wives just "bad choices"? Like wine, good marriages improve with age; like wine bad marriages spoil quickly. In cultures where marriages are arranged it seems that they work as well, or even better than here. Hot passion usually disipates quickly, (not always) and it is love that works to keep the marriage together. To feel passion turn to love takes maturity.

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Is the character limit lower than what it was on AB4.0? It seems that I cannot write a quite as long question. it may be slightly less; but how long a question do you need to write? The essence of a good question is clarity.

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I mean really, why are you here? I like answering baggy Q's/

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Would you look down upon a person who had an extra-marital affair? Marriage doesn't end one's curiousity about humanity and the world in general. Being with other people on an intimate basis is okay with me, for me, and for my wife. And I don't mean one night stands. It's the relationship that counts. As to the point that the "whole purpose of marriage is fidelity to one person" I take issue with that too. What about forming a...

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What do you call someone who is a compulsive lier, thief, cheater, psyco, abusive, fugitive, airhead, heartless bitch, mooch, whore, hypocondreac, and would rob a blind orphin for her last $1.00 is there 1 word to discribe this person? If it's you I would call you, in one word--abadspeller.

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Would you consider yourself a label whore? meaning you only buy things wit labels such as hollister american eagle or juicy couture b.c i absolutely love co co Chanel and i wear alot of it and kids at school r labeling me as a label whore Just the reverese. I avoid all labeled goods. why should I wear someone else's logo or name on my jacket. It's stupid, really. There is a problem though. If you wear very good clothing, it is sometimes impossible to get unlabeled goods--unless you purchase the very top goods--which are stratospheric in price. However, I can say that 99% of my clothing iss unlabeled. Exceptions?...

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If there were two of you, but you were complete strangers, and you met yourself, what kind of relationship do you think you would have (i.e: friends, enemies, lovers hehe)? GREAT QUESTION. IMAGINITIVE; I would fall in love with myself. I would be very interested in what I thought, in what I was saying. I wouldn't be able to keep my hands off myself. I would find myself very hot.

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Do you think that it was just that Don Imus was fired? Yes, he should have been fired a long time ago. Yes, he has the right of free speech,, just like you and me. But CBS also has the right not to use him on their programs. It is not okay to insult defenseless people--in this case hard working students who worked their asses off to get into Rutgers and then who maintaied grades ranging from good to excellent. What makes a man toss insults at...

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What is the hottest thing someone you weren't involved with did to you? A very good looking and smart woman asked for a pen, then a piece of paper, then wrote her name and number on it and tucked it in my shirt pocket. .

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What's your favorite book that you think I've never heard of? Islanda.

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What is your favorite band that you think I have never heard of? Montana Blazers, Poldark, Rashoman, Chomitz, Dusty Crumbs. there;s some free names for you. If you want more let me know.

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My husband stole naked pictures of my sister from her home. Is this considered cheating? Kool it. make up with him. get him out of the sex addiction class. Have some fun with him. Give him so much of what he wants that he'll get sick. Get into it. We're all human. Try it. Smile.

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Which news source do you trust the most? PBS, NPR, BBC, then CNN, CBS, NBC, ABC, I like to watch Fox until their commentators come on, like O'Reilly and Bush's pratboy, Hannity. then it's off with Fox. New York Times, Wall Street Journal -- except for the editorial page.

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What is one big lesson you have learned in life? That people are not as smart as they think, and that includes me.

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How can I prevent my eyes from watering when I chop onions? Whenever yore cuttin onions or peelin potatoes, try holdin a piece of ice between yore lips.

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What was the least appropriate place you've ever gone to the bathroom at? In my underwear.

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I been w/my bf 4 over 2 yrs now. we share a phone bill account and lately i found out he's been talking to dis grl daily & barely calls me...(he sed he needs space)wen i ask him if he's flirtin w/some1 he get defensive and says im insecure..is he cheating Drop him. I hope by now that you have dropped him. Drop the telephone arrangement too. Let us know what you've done in the past month.

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How late is too late to call someone on their house phone? I would say nine PM. anything after that is okay if it is urgent, and if the recepient of the call would agree that it is urgent. After ten pm is reserved for announcements of engagements, births or deaths.

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If Webster wrote the first dictonary, where did he find the correct spelling of the words? Webster did not write the first dictionary. Many dictionaries of various types were written ever since Roman times. The Webster that you refer to was an American, Noah Webster, who published grammars and his first dictionary in the early 1800's. The writers of early dictionaries attempted to find generally acceptable spellings that were current in their time. English is notorious...

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What's more important - the economy or the environment? Long term thinkers have always known that it's the environment.

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If you were recuperating in a hospital, who would you want in the bed next to you, excluding relatives? Someone who could carry on a conversation on any number of topics, but who would know when to be quiet. He or she should be a non-complainer, and of a cheerful disposition no matter what his or her condition. The person should have the proverbial British 'stiff upper lip."

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Would you buy american cars if they designed better than the japanese cars and would you stop buying the japanese cars? Design ain't everything. I buy Avalons, since 1995, because they are medium priced, get fair gas economy 27-29 MPG, use regualr gas, and are still a large, very comfortable car.

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This is for everyone: If your partner was raped, would you feel that they were somehow "tainted" and you would have a hard time being physical with them? Absolutely not! she would need me to be accepting, loving, compassionate, patient, and understanding. Anything else that she needed from me she would get. You did not mention if the hypothetical rapist would be known. If so, he would get what is coming to him, before the morgue wagon picked him up.

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Is okey to have sex with my first cousin? http://www.washington.edu/newsroom/news/2002archive/04-02archive/k040302a.html First cousins face lower risk of having children with genetic conditions than is widely perceived Cousins contemplating marriage or concerned about a pregnancy arising from their union have often found it difficult to get accurate information about risks to their offspring. In a paper published in the...

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How do you change the picture icon to make it a picture on your computer Yes! How?

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Is the "Thank you for posting an answer" starting to drive you crazy after every time you click submit? Yes! and sometimes I don't answer Q's out of fear of the Thank you! Thank you for asking.

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Is the "Thank you for posting an answer" starting to drive you crazy after every time you click submit? yes, yes, it is driving me away from AB and into the arms of other websites.

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Is the "Thank you for posting an answer" starting to drive you crazy after every time you click submit? yes, yes, it is driving me away from AB and into the arms of other websites.

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I cook fajitas at home periodically and have them at restaurants. Delicious. Being in Texas this is a very popular dish. If you are in the Northern U.S. or another part of the world can you tell me if you have ever heard of fajitas? Fajitas have traveled all over the US. As Mexicanos, legal or not, spread through the United States, one of the benefits to Americans is the introduction of still another cuisine. In the same manner that Chinese food was introduced to America by immigrants, and the great Italian cook book made its way through our country, Mexican cuisine has made inroads and we can expect that it has further to...

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Why haven't you made the move to Gmail (Google Mail)? I use gmail and like it a lot. But it's not a perfect spam blocker. AOL is better.

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What do you think of people that ride motocycles? there are many reasons for riding motorcycles: 1. It's fun. 2. A sense of freedom 3. A sense of power. (see reason 7) 4. It's cheaper than a car. 5. Parking is less of a problem 6. It makes women excited. 7. It enhances the egos of men who need their egos enhanced. Exception: Men who ride very powerful motorcycles with proper muffling. 8. It's a way of showing...

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What is the movie you were unable to watch in only one viewing? Apocolypse Now. I knew it was a great film, but I also knew that it was violent. I prepared by visualizing myself sitting in the theater and watching the movie. It didn't work. I left after the first forty minutes, and returned the next day. Since then I have seen it in one sitting. Nevertheless, It is a great work of art.

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LEMON-AID,OR ICED-TEA? Lemonade this way: Quart of water. Juice of eight lemons, pulp is opitional, two tablespoons of honey, several slices of ginger. Boil it. Let cool in ice box. Okay, I mean refridgerator. Serve with or without ice. Adjust honey and ginger to your mood or taste.

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Hypothetically speaking, if there was some type of solid undeniable proof presented in front of you proving that religion is a complete non-sense, would you give up ur religion, or just ignore it, block it out, and keep believing in it anyways? Easily give it up. A final answer? Of course.

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Is it possible to have an orgasm without touching, just by heated conversation? Of course. Most great sex occurs in the brain anyway, why shoouldn't orgasm occur as a resultof intellectual stimulation. What about eye contact, phone sex, x-rated movies. Each can cause an orgasm. Oh, yes, reiki too.

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Why are so many atheists so disrespectful towards religion? Aren't they supposed to be "all accepting"? Some Atheists are, indeed, disrespectful of religion. I think that they are insecure. But other atheists and agnostics, like me, respect religions and spirtuality in others. But, Atheists are not "supposed to be 'all accepting.'" Where did you get that idea?

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In protest againts the superficial nature of the points system, I've decided that I will no longer make use of it, or pay any attention whatsoever to it, who's with me? I like superficial and I have no other way of building my ego.

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Humans by nature spread and destroy land we live on through pollution and waste then move on and repeat this on the next plot of land to better only human existance but we have prehensile thumbs and hair so what does that make humans? Mammels or viruses? The humans that you describe are viruses. You are right about them...But not all humans are despoilers--take, for instance the American Indian, the Mongolian Herders... And now, many Americans and Europeans have learned that protection of the environment and land is of the utmost importance. And even in the early days of the twentieth century there were movements to protect the land. ...

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Are you constructive or destructive in your relationships and friendships - What good advice do you have I think that I am very constructive. I rarely lose friends, though the one that I did was my fault. I keep friends for lifetimes. I like friends and they mean a lot to me. More than most relatives, though the relationship is different. I would guess that I have four real friends, and dozens of other friends, and still more hundreds of acquaintances. I dont give up on friends, and never get...

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How long did you and your spouse date before you got married? Two dates a week apart. A proposal. A marriage a month later. 43 years ago.

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Should women propose to men? Why not? Some men are shy and would be delighted to be asked.

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My hub tells me that I shouldnt get mad when he goes out to bars, but he goes out 4-6 nights out of the week until 2-6 in the morning.I'm always at home w/our 21month old child and I'm also pregnant. He's the only one who works.Am I over reacting? Hub is screwing you. And someone else too in those bars. Cut off the sleeves of every one of his suits. If he has no suits, then cut off one leg from every pair of pants he owns. Send him on his alcoholic way. And maybe you should take the baby and go to a few bars too. You are allowing a man who pays the bills to use you. Forget about that. Get your own job. Drop him.

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Oreo Os or Cookie Crisps? Hydrox, if they are still around. Less sweet.

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In a marriage breakup who is more devastated the man/woman or children? This so obvious. THE CHILDREN.

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Should immigrants that are trying to obtain US citizenship be required to learn English? Yes! Learn English and American History too. And learn the simple philosophy behind democracy also.

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Is Wal-mart good for your town? Pepe06 tells us that 5 of the 21 richest people in the world come from Sam Walton's family. How about this factoid? Two years ago Walmart paid a special dividend to all shareholders. Sam's widow got $900,000,000. Yes, nine-hundred million dollars. There are about 1,000,000 Walmart employees. If Mrs. Walton had foregone only her share of the dividend every Walmart employee...

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What do you think can be done to combat the "ice" epidemic? What can be done about any of the illegal drugs that are used in our society and also in many other societies? Drugs and alcohol are probably an inherent part of our nature and a place should be found for them. The drug war is a proven failure and has wasted billions of dollars. Decriminalize or legalize all drugs. Spend some of the money saved on programs that might (yes, might) reduce the...

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I just found out my boyfriend sells drugs, should i break it off or try to get him to stop? Drop in. Run as far as you as fast as you can. You're not equipped to stop him.

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What is the most insulting gift a woman can recieve from her mother-in-law? Cookbook, How to keep your house clean book.

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What do you think of the new look of answerbag? Spellchek is a nessitie. Why don't we hab it? Is that too mush to aske?

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What was your first job and how much did it pay? Mine was working in a bookstore for $3.85/hour 60 cents per hour sweeping the floor in an old fashioned drug store. (one cent per minute and I thought it was good money! --at 12 years)

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How do Index Options differ from other options? You are buying or selling an option on the entire S & P 500, or any of a couple of hundred or so other index options.

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Do you re-read books? Don Quijote; Moby Dick. Besides having re-read each I also look into these two books every once in a while. I get to Moby Dick almost every summer. I have seen Apocalypse Now twice. It is the only film I have ever seen twice. In order to prepare myself I re-read heart of Darkness. Eliot's poetry, A.E. Houseman are on my night table for a few years. Job. I think that's about it....

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I've been curious about this. Hey you MEN out there, what is the difference between attractiveness, pretty, cute, gorgeous, beautiful, sexy, and good looking?? What is better (least-best order) and why? What adds to these attributes and what do YOU prefer "Hot" implies a strong sexual, sensual attraction. "beautiful" can be applied to a woman who looks great, or even has a wonderful personality. "cute" girls would usually be younger and, perhaps perky. "pretty" also would be used with a younger girl, perhaps even with a pre-teen. When used to describe an adult, it would usually be a younger woman.

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I've been curious about this. Hey you MEN out there, what is the difference between attractiveness, pretty, cute, gorgeous, beautiful, sexy, and good looking?? What is better (least-best order) and why? What adds to these attributes and what do YOU prefer I think you mean the "horse's mouth" This is derived from getting a tip on a horserace that is so good that it came from the "horse's mouth."

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My husband is missing in the middle of a divorce how can i locate him? I think hes in california Your position is difficult. For reasons that are impossible to know he doesn't want to pay or he can't pay. His reasons don't matter. You are eating your heart out and it is possible that you will (or have) become obsessed with squeezing money from him. I know you probably need it. The money would make your life more comfortable. But, in the end, the process will cost you...

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Customers of some suburban pizzerias in Cincinatti will have posters of parents derelict in child support on their boxes. Do you agree or not? No. There are circumstances that cause some Dad's to be unable to pay--and their ex-wives are often unwilling to understand the problems. This brings up the issue of fairness in divorce decrees. For the most part, in NY, anyway, they are rarely fair to both parties. It's a mystery. I don't know why there can't be justice. I guess I am naive. Never divorced Dad of...

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I have recently become engaged to my boyfriend, from England, who has been living illegaly in New York for several years. How can we legally get married, and what can we do to speed up the process of getting him legal (to get under my insurance, etc.)? You can get married anytime, anywhere. But there are immigration implications. See a GOOD, honest immigration lawyer quickly. There are important steps that must be carefully taken.

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What's your favorite word? Lolly

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A cameraman with strange video of women's feet was caught in Santa Cruz California. He was let go because there is no law against videoing women's feet. How would you feel if someone with a strange fetish secretly filmed your feet? the foot fetich is more common than you might think. I don't think that I would mind my feet being videoed, provided I could choose the shoes and socks.

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There is now an Arab owned global news network aimed at English speakers in all countries. No cable operator in the US has agreed to put in on. ...>Would you be interested in watching it? ...> http://english.aljazeera.net/English Absolutely! Freedom of information is one of the basic parts of democracy. We get to thnk about other points of view and can make objective decisions based on a wide selection of views.

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Would it be feasible to live in a totally anarchic society? Only in a very small community with no communication with any other society. It might work.

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I have a problem with grandson’s school visit to a museum about the holocaust. Would you have a problem with it or not? Every single American child and adult, too, should visit one of the Holocaust Museums. I am constantly astounded by the number of people who know nothing about it, in fact who know nothing about history.

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What's your darkest secret? "Only two can keep a secret and that's if one is dead. " (Another saying of my dear mother.)

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What's the most you should have in checking before transfering to cd s or savings? In checking? No more than 6 weeks expenses. In money markets or savings? No more than 6 months expenses.

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I am 15 i would like to go out with a 13 yr old and i wouldnt do any thing to her is that bad What's your definition of "anything?"

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Who is in Germany? Do you mean besides Elvis?

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Is okey to have sex with my first cousin? Absolutely okay. Have fun. Recent science says thre is little or no difference in birth defects between cousins and non-relatives. As for morals: It's all relative anyway.

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What's a good comeback when someone says to you "Why are you so fat"? Why do you ask?

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Would you date a person who's 5ft tall? Yes, give me her number. No, not if it's a guy.

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I have a daughter that is 14 and she has been asked out by a 18 year old senior.I think this is a very bad idea and wrong and think that it would be better to nip this relationship in the bud. Is that wrong? You are not wrong. 14 to 18 is a big spread. It's not 24 to 28. He is defiitely too old. what's wrong with him? That's what I'd like to know.

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If you like short girls, does it mean you're a pervert? Short, petite, tall, well packed. I like all of you. "Big girl big time, small girl all the time." (My dear mother told me this on my sixteenth birhday.)

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Does anyone get tired of being politically correct? Yes. Although I am of the left I think that PC often goes too far--as in matters of language, dress, even jokes.

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Do you trust your doctor? Some yes, some no. In NY I trusted most, if not all. In Florida I am often doubtful.

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How important is art to you? for this Question I mean painting, drawing, sculpture. Is music important in your life? If so, what type of music? for example: hip hop, R&B, classical, jazz, Rock & roll, folk, country, --you name it.

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What decade has provided the world with the best music? Come off it. The greatest decade was the the forties, followed by the thirties. The Great American Song Book was written from as early as 1910 until sometime in the sixties. Some great songs are still being written, especially for the caberet singers we have left, but nothig compares to the Great American Songbook.

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With the world the way it is today, would you encourage or discourage your son or daughter from joining the military? Although I think mostly from the left I would (and have) encouraged my children to serve what remains the greatest country on earth even counting the depredations of the current mis-administration. A draft makes a lot of sense at this time.

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Why do women wear sweatpants in public? it looks stupid Look it all depends on how you look in sweats. some women should look carefully in the mirror before they go out in them. And make sure that you look at your bottom (your buttucks) when you do so. You don't want that look do you?

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Why do women wear sweatpants in public? it looks stupid Look it all depends on how you look in sweats. some women should look carefully in the mirror before they go out in them. And make sure that you look at your bottom (your buttucks) when you do so. ( ) ( ) X X x x You don't want that look do you?

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Have you ever collected unclaimed funds from your state's Unclaimed Funds account? These are forgotten bank accounts, stock certificates, insurance payments due, and many other sources of funds or even the funds of people who may have you money. Yes, and also for my Dad (though I had trouble collecting it from Florida, though eventually I think I will get it.)

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If you do not give your child any base, religiuosly, do you feel that leaves them unprepared to make an informed decision about which path they wish to follow? I would speak to them often and from the earliest age about morals, ethics, the law, and the differences between them. I would ask them to learn the golden rule and to stick to it. Without the guidance of both parents or grandparents a child will become lost.

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What do you use most frequently to alter your mood? My 5:00 O'clock perfectly made, ice cold Martini. sometimes Gin, sometimes Vodka. Lately I've been enjoying Hendricks Gin. Give it a try if you are a Martini person.

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Should I have to pay my parents the money I make from a part-time job? Only if there is financial difficulty at home.

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Is racism more fear, ignorance, hatred, or all? Or other? Instictive fear of the stranger. Basically you have all the ingredients in your question. Except that hatred and racism are almost the same. It takes a certain amount of courage to meet the Stranger with open hands and an open mind.

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What do you do when you don't really feel like working at work? (Yes, I am looking for suggestions) Do the tough stuff first thing in the morning. Prioritze so that you go from Tough-unpleasant to Easy-pleasant. Use a timer, give yourself 10 minutes to do this job, then 20 to that job. And so forth. Start the timer, work furiously till it rings. go to the next job. Have fun!

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Do you fill parking meters if they're expired and not yours? Once in a while.

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What is the greatest gift you've been given in this world? The night my GF (now wife) gave me the key to her apartment.

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Sggggggggggggg Write a letter to the school newspaper. Explain why you think he committed suicide. If there is no school paper then write it to the school principal and ask him/her to read it at assembly. Or, write directly to the school bullies. They may laugh at you but you'll know you did the right thing. You should also write to his parents and tell them what a great guy he was. DO NOT MENTION...

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Why is the cost of living increasing so much? what do you think would help with keeping it low? such as rent/morgages, cars, etc... If you look at government stats you would see that inflation has been less than 3% for many years. If your income isn't keeping up with the three per cent over time you will feel inflation's efect. Of course, youshould ask what and how they are measuring when they show you the stats.

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Can you love one of your children more than the other? Both are different and I love each absolutely equally except when.....

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Is it appropriate to breastfeed in public? Are there some places where it is more/less acceptable than others? It's okay with me, but I know that some folks are offended or embarrassed by openly breastfeeding children. therefore, in deference to their feelings, most well-mannered people would cover. As for going into the bathroom. Not the place for feeding.

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DId you wait till marriage? Are you kidding?

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If what you know now you knew 8 years ago, would President Bush still be your guy? You should see my list of politicians and pundits who did not serve and who found the Great American Flag only after they were too old to actually have to serve. Rush Limbo and Dick Chaney are only two on a list of hundreds.

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If you were raped and your accused rapist was out on bail would you have second thoughts about tesifying if he was making threats against you? I would testify. I must testify. And the accused rapist had better stay out of my sight. Because if he comes close enough to me he would regret it.

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If you could live your life over again would you ,and what would you change? I would study harder while in school, save more money as I made it, be nicer to my wife and family, go to schul a little, never watch television, buy a house in the country, learn to fly an airplane, travel a lot more, attend more theater and concerts, learn piano, and allow myself fewer regrets. Other than the changes above I wouldn't change a thing.

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Should Answerbag install SpelCheck? Absolutely! An impertant idear whose dime has com. Breng in SpelChek, Spellchek or both!

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If you were raped and your accused rapist was out on bail would you have second thoughts about tesifying if he was making threats against you? I am the stubborn type. Yes, I would understand the risks, but I would testify. Otherwise, I couldn't live with myself. In fact, while he was out on bail he would be in extreme danger.

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In your experience, do women who dislike sexist behavior also dislike all men? although I am a man I detest sexist behavior and I do not dislike all men. I may destest the behavior, but I may still like the man..

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We can't prove evolution to be true or false. Would believing in it and teaching it to our children be making science a religion? If yes, the (US)gov't demands it to b in our schools, would that be violating our constitional rights, freedom of religion? Good gosh, who instructed you that we can't prove evolution to be true or false. It has been proven by the scientific method to be true. what cannot be proven is the existence of God. When we "believe" in God we have "faith" that He exists. When it comes to evolution it is not a matter of faith, it is merely grasping the science behind it. If you don't want...

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How do you feel about self-righteous enthusiasm? Do you disrespect people who have inflated views of their opinions and beliefs? Self-righteous? A pain to put up with, holier-than-thou? who can live with people like that? Know-it-alls? Ouch, get them away from me! I cross them off my list pronto--

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When *will* US troops be able to leave Iraq without the country descending into chaos and civil war? Never in our life times.

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I am 21, living with and engaged to an older guy. We have been dating for almost 2.5 years, and living together for about 1.5yrs. I care deeply for him, but over the past 2 months we have argued constantly about trivial issues...what should i do? Arguments mean that there is a lack of respect on one side or another. Not worth it. Bail out now.

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What would you do if a hijacker tried to hijack the plane your on? Would you take action or just sit there? When my chance would come I would take it. If no chance came my way, I'd make my own chance. I woould never die passively...

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Does your spouse ever check Answerbag to see if you are doing what you are supposed to be doing? "One never knows, do one? " Fats Waller

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Would you date a married man/women? YES> Marriage is not the end of exploration. No one can eat the same food every day, read the same book over and over, nor should anyone, my wife included, be expected to do so.

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Can you really go blind from maturbating? Blind from maturbating? No. But from misspelling? Yes.

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Did you konw taht tehre was a sutdy to povre taht you can raed as lnog as the frsit and lsat ltetres in the wrod are crrecot? The rset of the wdros can all be jbmueld tgeohter. Tihs is bacseue the hmaun mnid rdaes the wlohe wrod and not jsut the lteter. srgnate got me. wht wrd is it?

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Did you konw taht tehre was a sutdy to povre taht you can raed as lnog as the frsit and lsat ltetres in the wrod are crrecot? The rset of the wdros can all be jbmueld tgeohter. Tihs is bacseue the hmaun mnid rdaes the wlohe wrod and not jsut the lteter. althgh smne els sd it, I cn to.

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Complete: I have a ____ and I'm not afraid to use it! Actually, while sleeping in a ground floor bedroom in East Hampton, I heard a man trying to open a window from the deck. I shouted to my wife: "Get me the shotgun, honey, Im going to blast this bastard." He took off at a gallop and left a gunny sack with the proceeds of a previous burglary of the house next door. Of course, there was no gun.

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What is your favorite book series? (Title, Author) Jack Aubrey series -- Patrick O'Brian.

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Do you find that the mood of people around you seriously affects your mood? Absolutely, yes. If I come smiling into the office or a room, every smiles and feels better. When I walk in with a frown or looking gloomy the whole atmosphere mimics my feeling. I ry to paste a smile on no matter what the occasion. "Smile and the whole world smiles with you."

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Is urinating outside or "in public" illegal? If you urinate wheere someone can or might see you are in violation of laws against public exposure, and possibly lewd behavior. Try to find a public rest room--McDonalds,and other fast food places, hotels,many stores, supermarkets,hospitals, etc. As a man gets older he learns the whereabouts or restrooms in the areas in which he travels.

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Name some methods of relieving stress that has personally helped you. (Serious answers, please) Yoga, other forms of stretching combined with breathing exercises.

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What time do you quit Answerbagging and go to bed? NOW! Thanks for getting me off (answerbag, that is) Stop using your t.v. or computer at ten pm. You'll slip into sleep sooner than you think. Nite!

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My husband loves his cows. I swear he does. Birthing season is once again upon us and I've got long endless nights of "What should we name that new calf?" ahead of me. So help . . What should we name that new calf? naming animals is a special skill. The simple ones feel true to me-- like Fern, Fran, Louise, Susan, Sally, Minerva, Eneida, Corina, Dee, Virginia, Astrid, Olga, Judy, Jean, for the bull: Steve, Bob, Harold, Michael, Hal

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Would you betray your friends to gain an advantage? Are you kidding? what do you think a friend is? Never.

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How's the public transportation where you live? Public Transportation is one of the great things about NYC. In Ft. Lauderdale, however, it is B+ to C-.

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Given that fact that 99% of the economists in the United States feel that raising the minimum wage is bad for our economy, do you feel it is wise for our politicians to keep increasing the minimum wage? Good gosh, it's so obvious. Have some compassion. Raise the minimum wage. Let people make a living out of one job. Believe it or not it once was possible in America for one ordinary wage earner to make enough for a family to live. Now some families have a wife and husband each working two jobs. Not right. Raise the minimum. Oh, yes, I'd like to know who these 99% of economists...

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I found out that my 17 year old son was having an inappropriate relationship with his youth pastor's wife. Can we take legal action against her, the pastor and/or the church? Anyone who thinks that a 17 year old is a child where sex is concerned hasn't been in touch with teen-agers. And I don't mean in the year 2007. As far back as all time teen-agers were having sex, if not with their teachers, or pastor's wives, then with some other "older" woman. It happens, and a parent of a 17 year old should not be trying to control him or his actions....

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What does your sky look like? Brilliant deep blue, orange sunrise bursting into the Eastern horizon, puffs of clouds scudding on a high fast wind, the full, round moon still in the dawning sky. ...Sailors take warning.

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What sport requires the most athleticism on the part of its participants? Consider all sports. If you have a reason, please state it. Jockeys are sort of left out of the mix. Everything that centrator said is right--can you imagine their reflexes when the move a horse into a tiny hole in the pack. I like the Jockey answer.

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Do you read poetry? Poetry is a constant in my life. And the stars shone, and the earth unstoppered its perfumes, the garden gate scrinched open, footsteps lisped along the path And they were hers, and she was mine. And my hand shook the more slowly I unwrapped and dwadlier I kissed her, and her aromas rose, and the hour fled, which is they way it is with hours. And I’ve unveiled myself of...

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Is taking a bath with my dog morally wrong or just weird? Absolutely not! It's neither morally wrong nor is it weird. It's fun, you and your dog get closer, you love him (or her) and he loves you. But don't forget to wash behind his ears!

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How do you make someone go to sleep? Chloroform.

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Do you find it easy to forgive? Yes, everyone except my ex-daughter-in-law, the one who comes from Hell.

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Can a Christian be a humanist? Yes, in fact, except for the crazy ones, the fanatics, most Christians are also humanists. It's part of being as Christ wanted us to be.

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What are your favourite memories of London? (or what would you most like to see?) Claridges in the sixties when it cost 65 dollars a day.

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Do you have a tattoo, or want one? What is it/ would it be? One should earn a tatoo, like being in the navy or the marines. Possibly Hells Angels.

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What would you never tell your parents? That I was in money trouble. Or that I am sick. Or that my marriage was tough. Anything that would have made them worry. They did their share of worrying when I was in high school, and when I was in the Army. they are in another place now and I miss them...

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Ever get pulled over by the cops and get away without a ticket? Thse daysw it's tougher. In the old days cops could give you a warning if you behaved yourself and your violation wasn't outrageious. But now they are afraid of being thought corrupt if they stop someone without giving a ticket. In the meantime, my wife was driving when we were stopped for having an expired tag on the car. But the officer discovered that we had, indeed,...

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If you watch porn, are you automatically immoral? No. watching porn is very interesting, fun, and often a urn-on. Sometimes it is boring, silly, and uninteresting. So, it depends on which porn you are watching. doesn't it?

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Do you listen to the Great American Songbook? Do you know what it is? You bet, all the great songs of the twenties, thirties, forties, fifties, by George and Ira Gershwin, Noel coward, Learner and Lowe, e. y (yip)harburg, harold arlen, cole porter, Jerome Kern. Oscar Hammerstein, the list goes on and on...buddy de sylva, george and Ira Gershwin, it never stops. Of course, you know the songs, like, Starlight, I Got Rhythm, Over the Raonbow, Lover Come Back to Me,...

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Do I blow you away? Yep! send pics.

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What about all these guys who don't wear socks in their loafers? Is that cool? Or passe? These are wannabe cool gys or wannabe mafioso. Passe

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At what age is one considered a spinster? I am not sure whether I heard that term in years. Anyway, more and more women are opting for not getting married. I am very lucky that my wife allowed me to marry her in a moment of weakness. And, your mother sounds like fun.

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When do you know that its time to get a divorce.. I have lost track of where i am in my relationship.. I do not know if i am still in love or just staying cos i am afraid of what people will say.. Just leave. Forget about the money. Let him or her (as the case may be) have it all. Never say anything bad about him (or her) Just walk and be proud. No explanations are needed.

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When somebody says fu*k off, what can be the best reply be? or what would you say? Back away and say: I'm rubber you're glue An' whatever you say Bounces off of me An' sticks to you. then stick out your tongue....

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