http://www.answerbag.com/profile/1143960 New Answerbag answers from Anonymous Mon, 28 May 2012 20:31:18 -0700 Mon, 28 May 2012 20:31:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8380573 Is it OK to playfully hit a guy on his shoulder when your boyfriend is right next to him?<br /><br />NEVER! Wed, 25 Nov 2009 11:25:59 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8380573 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8372260 I have a wonderful girlfriend of five weeks, and when we go out I pay for the dates. I don't mind paying, but I can't really afford it. How do I let her know that I can't keep paying for all of our dates?<br /><br />Don&#039;t make a big deal out of it, just casually add it into your conversation. Also, girls much perfer to spend time sight seeing and being outdoors, like walking around and having ice-cream for example. Or going to a coffee/tea shop, sitting and chating, so depending on the weather, take her... Tue, 24 Nov 2009 13:04:07 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8372260 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8372180 Why is it that when i first start dating someone, the guy is completely into me for the first two weeks, texting/calling, planning dates, and I am playing it cool, but when I decide to let the person in, this stops and I wind up having to do all the work?<br /><br />Wow, that sounds familiar to me too. If you don&#039;t want to get hurt, just keep doing what your doing (the first couple of weeks kinda thing), they like knowing that they can&#039;t read you like a book and that they have to try, it&#039;s their nature unfortunately. Guys get bored easily, so... Tue, 24 Nov 2009 12:57:16 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8372180 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8372144 I need to get my girlfriend a few gifts for the season. We have a anniversary coming up, and christmas. She's 22 and we've been dating 2 years. Any ideas on what to get?<br /><br />Make sure it&#039;s nothing cheesy, girls hate faking it and it even makes them feel uncomfortable. If you know something she likes like tickets to a concert, play, plain tickets to visit somewhere. Another option(s) is something she mentioned she liked when the two of you were out and about... Tue, 24 Nov 2009 12:52:46 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8372144 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8371990 Why do men want to jump into bed with you but make you wait for years until they are 'ready' for marriage?I've been with my b/f three years and I'm fed up of waiting for the ring.Will he ever ask?<br /><br />They want to know if your easy. When you get what they want, they either keep talking to you for a little bit not to be rude, but eventually leave. They think you do this with all if not most guys. Be careful, guys like a little challenge sometimes. Speaking from past expericence. Tue, 24 Nov 2009 12:35:17 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8371990 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8371907 I've been with my bf for 4 years - dated 1, lived 3. Why hasn't he proposed yet?<br /><br />Change, people don&#039;t like change. It takes them out of their comfort zone, but sometimes, if you really want something, then you not only have to speak your mind, but also act upon it. Assure him that things will only get better from there and that the both of you will feel more connected.... Tue, 24 Nov 2009 12:20:51 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8371907