http://www.answerbag.com/profile/110448 New Answerbag answers from Anonymous Mon, 28 May 2012 15:58:05 -0700 Mon, 28 May 2012 15:58:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5635122 What should I do about this sidewalk? (see picture below)<br /><br />My boyfriend and I just moved into his house that has been rented out for the past four years. There&#039;s a sidewalk that goes around the house and is terribly crooked. It angles down towards the house, which raises concerns about water running towards the foundation. I&#039;ve... Thu, 19 Feb 2009 16:04:01 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5635122 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3843082 How do I convince my boyfriend to stop smoking weed? he loves it, it makes him happy(he say) but I hate to see him destroying himself, but he don't see it that way. I don't want to be rude & I don't want to act like I'm his mom. Suggestions?<br /><br />You can&#039;t convince him, and you shouldn&#039;t even try. First of all, you sound like you know very little about marijuana. Plenty of people smoke pot and don&#039;t &quot;destroy&quot; themselves. Pot isn&#039;t illegal because it&#039;s dangerous (look at alcohol, we all know how... Mon, 25 Aug 2008 09:50:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3843082 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3756793 Has anyone had a relationship where they had a strong connection with partner and had telepathy with each other?if so what was it like?<br /><br />Not sure about telepathy, but my boyfriend and I always seem to know what the other is about to say before they say it. Maybe it&#039;s just because we think alike and have a lot of the same tastes or maybe it&#039;s ESP. Thu, 14 Aug 2008 19:27:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3756793 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3756750 Have you ever thought you were in love but then figured out maybe you hadn't been?<br /><br />I think about that every once in a while. I&#039;m not really sure if I&#039;ve come to a conclusion or not. I know that my early relationships weren&#039;t really loving relationships, even though we exchanged the words. Looking back on them now I realize there was never any real love in... Thu, 14 Aug 2008 19:20:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3756750 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3756683 I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months and he hasn't said "i love you" should i be worried?<br /><br />Maybe. I can understand not wanting to rush into anything like marriage, kids, etc. BUT... saying &quot;I love you&quot; doesn&#039;t set anything in stone. It could be that he&#039;s afraid of commitment. It could be some other factors. Who really knows? The point is, it doesn&#039;t... Thu, 14 Aug 2008 19:10:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3756683 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3505750 Is there something in your life that happened when you were a child if done differently would have caused you NOT to meet your s/o? What was it?<br /><br />If my mom hadn&#039;t gotten a job in another state when I was in junior high school and we hadn&#039;t moved from TN to VA (although he lived in TN around the time that I moved away from there, so it&#039;s unlikely but still remotely possible that we may have met there at some point). If I... Thu, 17 Jul 2008 10:07:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3505750 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3505701 I fell inlove with this guy on the plane and he responded to it but we didnft talk so i dont know anything about him and im like dying here because i want o see him again because i tghink i love him how do i find him please help me?<br /><br />You can&#039;t &quot;fall in love&quot; with someone to whom you&#039;ve never spoken. You can feel physical attraction for a person you&#039;ve never really met, but it&#039;s just lust. Falling in love takes two willing people, who actually KNOW each other and speak to each other. Thu, 17 Jul 2008 09:58:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3505701 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3160662 Why do you think the Hollywood elite are able to get away with the crimes we normal people wouldn't?<br /><br />Money buys power and freedom, that&#039;s why. Thu, 05 Jun 2008 06:07:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3160662 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3152593 My guy & I had plans for movies, my friend invited me to her bday dinner, I told her of plans with bf, she said to cancel & go with her, I called bf, he said I should not let her dictate to me, now he wants to talk to me, what do u think he will do?<br /><br />Why can&#039;t your boyfriend come along to dinner, and then the two of you head to the movies afterwards? Or, if it&#039;s a &quot;girl&#039;s night&quot; type of deal, why not meet up with your boyfriend after dinner and see a movie with him like you&#039;d planned? I think a compromise is... Wed, 04 Jun 2008 10:14:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3152593 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3152566 Sometime I wear underwear that hols my stomach in. Only problem is that the band of the underwear always rolls over which then defeats the purpose. Why does this happen. My regular underwear does not do this and I think I'm buying the right size.<br /><br />What you need is a restrictive top as well. You can buy a &quot;slimming&quot; camisole that you wear over your bra and under your shirt, or you can even get a girdle or something similar that will effectively &quot;slim&quot; your entire midsection without the annoyance of the waistband... Wed, 04 Jun 2008 10:08:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3152566 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3152296 If you smooch a guy and your going out with someone already is that cheating?<br /><br />Absolutely, yes. That&#039;s assuming that the person you&#039;re already seeing is under the impression that you&#039;re exclusive to each other. Wed, 04 Jun 2008 09:33:59 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3152296 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3142953 Do you support the law against using cell phone while driving?<br /><br />Completely. I know I can&#039;t drive while talking on my cell phone, so I generally don&#039;t do it. I&#039;m on the road an awful lot and I&#039;ve had narrow-misses with MANY a driver who couldn&#039;t be bothered to pay attention to where they are going because they were too busy talking... Tue, 03 Jun 2008 10:23:16 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3142953 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3142866 Do people believe when they get married that it will last forever or do you think they hope it will last for ever or do they not expect it to last. After all they only have to look around them to see the many failed relationships and marriages.<br /><br />I think that if you go into a marriage convinced that it&#039;s not going to last... it probably won&#039;t. People get married because they truly want to be with that other person forever. And if not forever, then as long as humanly possible. Sometimes things get in the way of that and... Tue, 03 Jun 2008 10:12:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3142866 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3142293 OK. I Changed my picture and name.Do you have any idea who i am?<br /><br />Damn, someone beat me. I cheated anyhow. Tue, 03 Jun 2008 08:49:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3142293 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3142254 I have a Spanish ancestor who was from the 1500s, would I have some Spanish in me? I have a Spanish ancestor who was from the 1500s, would I have some Spanish in me? I know it would not be alot if I do, can I say I'm part Spanish?<br /><br />Not really, but you can say that your ancestors were Spanish. You are the nationality of whatever country you live in, and whatever race your parents are. Most of us here in the US have ancestors that came from different countries. I have some ancestors that were from Scotland. Does that... Tue, 03 Jun 2008 08:41:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3142254 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3142184 My best friend Emily has a boyfriend but she likes a guy named Billy that we hang out with every day. I like a guy named Tyler and he likes me too and we hang out all the time too. But Emily is always all over Tyler and it pisses me off. What do I do?<br /><br />Find a REAL friend who won&#039;t try to put her body all over the guy you&#039;re interested in. She&#039;s doing it for attention, and to make YOU jealous. Friends don&#039;t behave that way. This person is not your friend. Tue, 03 Jun 2008 08:29:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3142184 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141920 My husband is an alcoholic and I believe a coke addict. If I go out of town, he binges on Coke and normally takes $ 600 to $ 1000 out in cash. On a wkly basis, he spends $ 800 in cash, which he can not account for. Am I crazy to think he is an addict?<br /><br />No, but you&#039;re crazy to let him continue this downward spiral. Your husband needs HELP, and you need to restrict his access to the bank account until he straightens up - unless you want to wind up in the poorhouse because of his addiction. Tue, 03 Jun 2008 07:34:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141920 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141898 IF you had a choice between staying with someone for a childs sake or being a single parent what would u choose?<br /><br />I would choose to be a single parent. In fact, I&#039;ve made that choice TWICE in my life already. I refuse to stay in a miserable, dead-end relationship just so my kids can see their dad on a daily basis. I deserve to be happy, and my kids will benefit MORE from having ONE happy parent... Tue, 03 Jun 2008 07:28:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141898 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141890 I got an e-mail that says I won ALOT of money and it is from Microsoft Promotion Team London United Kingdom. It is a sweepstakes between Microsoft and AOL and a random drawing with e-mails. Is it for real?<br /><br />Nope, sorry. http://www.urgentmessage.org/highlyconfidential/_l56931.html http://lottoscams.blogspot.com/2007/05/microsoft-promotion-award-team.html Tue, 03 Jun 2008 07:26:57 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141890 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141884 Why was my question taken out of "Outside the Bag" and put in Books & Authors? If I had wanted it in that category I would of put in there in the first place? Jeez!!<br /><br />Well, it isn&#039;t really an &quot;outside the bag&quot; type question. Tue, 03 Jun 2008 07:25:57 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141884 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141870 I got an e-mail that says I won ALOT of money and it is from Microsoft Promotion Team London United Kingdom. It is a sweepstakes between Microsoft and AOL and a random drawing with e-mails. Is it for real?<br /><br />Nope, sorry. http://www.urgentmessage.org/highlyconfidential/_l56931.html http://lottoscams.blogspot.com/2007/05/microsoft-promotion-award-team.html Tue, 03 Jun 2008 07:23:21 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141870 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141855 What is age that a girl should start using tampons? Is a year and half after having your period an ok time to start?<br /><br />When she starts menstruating. Tue, 03 Jun 2008 07:20:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141855 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141847 I believe someone I know is addicted to coke. They spend alot of cash. I don't know alot about coke. How much does it cost? Could it be possible to do it everyday and still function? I need someone to educate me on coke.<br /><br />How much it costs depends on the quality and where you live. No, it&#039;s not really possible to use a drug like cocaine every day and still &quot;function&quot; (in the normal sense of the word, anyway). This person will soon be living only for the next high, which I wouldn&#039;t really... Tue, 03 Jun 2008 07:19:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141847 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141789 What percentage of strippers are also part time prostitutes?<br /><br />I would guess that in the United States the percentage is pretty low. Tue, 03 Jun 2008 07:07:12 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141789 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141770 I have the AVG free edition spyware, no matter how many times I try to delete the .bpx trojan it doesn't remove it from my memory. I have no idea what to do, the stupid windows defender didn't even pick up the trojan. Any help would be much appreciated<br /><br />Your antivirus may have mistaken a non-infected file for an infected file. I&#039;d suggest running another scan with a different antivirus progroam (Try spybot search &amp; destroy) in SAFE MODE (start your computer and hit F8 repeatedly while the machine boots up) and if the scan finds an... Tue, 03 Jun 2008 07:03:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141770 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141673 What kinds of vegetables are in your salad?<br /><br />A nice romaine or green leaf lettuce, LOTS of tomatoes, onions, cucumbers, maybe some carrots, sprouts or broccoli. I really like a simple salad of just lettuce, tomato, cucumber and onion, though. Tue, 03 Jun 2008 06:43:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141673 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141575 Men get excited by Breasts but do they know that women get pleasure and sometimes orgasms when the Breasts are givin attention? The vagina gives us the most pleasure, breasts come 2nd.<br /><br />Actually, the clitoris is the main pleasure area for a woman. While it&#039;s located NEAR the vagina, it is NOT part of the vagina. Most women can&#039;t achieve orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, there must be some clitoral stimulation as well. Some women do not enjoy attention given... Tue, 03 Jun 2008 06:21:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141575 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141543 What is the running odds that your current partner will cheat on you?<br /><br />About 60%, according to the statistics. I&#039;d like to believe that my current partner is one of the 40% who WON&#039;T cheat, but I&#039;m not willing to bet the farm on it. Of course, I trust him, don&#039;t get me wrong - but those are some pretty tough odds to swallow. Tue, 03 Jun 2008 06:16:10 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141543 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141535 Is love supposed to be hard?<br /><br />I don&#039;t think so. It takes work to make a relationship last, but LOVE itself should come easily. I left my last relationship because it WAS hard. I found myself falling out of love because I was the only one working at the relationship. Now I&#039;m in a relationship that isn&#039;t... Tue, 03 Jun 2008 06:14:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141535 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141377 Can my employer force me to travel abroad?<br /><br />They can&#039;t FORCE you, but if you&#039;re required to travel and you refuse - they can fire you. Tue, 03 Jun 2008 05:43:44 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3141377 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3134053 Are red light cameras for saving lives or raising more money for cities?<br /><br />How on earth would a camera save someone&#039;s life? By taking a picture of a car running a red light and slamming head-on into an oncoming car? Doesn&#039;t seem like that&#039;s going to save anyone anything. Alternatively, red light cameras help law enforcement officers write more tickets... Mon, 02 Jun 2008 10:24:12 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3134053 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3133602 Is it a violation of the first amendment if a parent punishes their child for not conforming to their parents religious practices? (ie. praying before dinner)<br /><br />Um, no. First of all, your parents don&#039;t have any obligation to uphold the constitution. Our rights are guaranteed against GOVERNMENT entity violations ONLY. A private citizen cannot violate someone&#039;s constitutional rights unless they are acting &quot;under color of law&quot;,... Mon, 02 Jun 2008 09:13:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3133602 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3133084 Who is in favor of repealing all seat belt laws?<br /><br />I don&#039;t get the logic behind opposing seat belt laws. The reasoning behind the laws themselves is that if there is a penalty associated with NOT wearing a seat belt, then maybe more people will just buckle up. If more people buckle up, less people will die needlessly in automobile... Mon, 02 Jun 2008 07:59:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3133084 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3132885 Should marriage license have a experation date?<br /><br />They do. The license is usually only good for a few months, and will expire if the parties aren&#039;t legally married by the expiration date. Mon, 02 Jun 2008 07:30:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3132885 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3132595 This is for women: Wondering about why men don't like marriage? http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20080602/lf_nm_life/books_bachelors_dc This should provide a little insight, and I agree mostly.<br /><br />This article has nothing to do with men &quot;not liking&quot; marriage. It&#039;s simply explaining that more men are staying single because they are AFRAID of a BAD marriage. Mon, 02 Jun 2008 06:34:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3132595 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3128984 Isn't it amazing how your parents always seem to have your back, no matter what?<br /><br />My parents weren&#039;t ever really like that. They&#039;ve turned their backs on me quite a few times in my life when I needed them. Sun, 01 Jun 2008 19:05:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3128984 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3093614 Can EVERYONE only rate an answer or question only once and only one point?<br /><br />You can only give an answer one positive or one negative rating. When you start out as a new user on AnswerBag, you&#039;re able to rate one point per question or answer. As you move up in levels, the number of points per rating you can give increases. Wed, 28 May 2008 18:10:02 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3093614 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3092985 Can you remember a moment in time in your life when you experienced self actualization?<br /><br />Every time I&#039;ve eaten LSD or ecstacy, for starters. Aside from that, I can&#039;t recall an exact moment of self actualization. I&#039;d think of it more as a gradual process in most instances than something that just suddenly happens, like the flip of a switch (although that happens... Wed, 28 May 2008 16:51:37 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3092985 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3090376 I have been gf w/my bf for 9 months.I have been knowing him for over a year.For the past couple of months i been craving in wanting to have a baby with my bf that i love so much. How can i tell him?or should i wait a longer time.He is 35 and i am 26.Help!<br /><br />I would say hold off on the baby until the two of you are married. 9 months isn&#039;t a very long time. You ought to know him intimately for at least a year before you even consider committing your life to him (with or without a baby). I had both of my children with men that I hadn&#039;t... Wed, 28 May 2008 11:56:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3090376 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3090356 Will an ex-girlfriend come back after a failed rebound? they are still dating but im hoping it wont work, i want her back...<br /><br />It&#039;s always possible, but not very likely. There&#039;s a reason she is your EX, and that&#039;s because there was some conflict between the two of you that couldn&#039;t be resolved within the relationship that caused someone to initiate the breakup. Even if you DID get back together, the... Wed, 28 May 2008 11:52:48 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3090356 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3090199 Will you still be putting your foot to the gas or will you stay home more when the gas prices go up to $5 a gallon?<br /><br />I&#039;m already staying home more and driving less. I had to cut back on the hours that I drive at work or else I&#039;d be spending over $100 per week on gas. I live about 25 miles from the nearest &quot;city&quot;, so I have to plan all my errands for the same day so I don&#039;t waste gas.... Wed, 28 May 2008 11:32:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3090199 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3088587 Why does he love me enough to live with me but not marry me?<br /><br />Maybe he&#039;s afraid of the commitment, or maybe he&#039;s just not ready yet. How long have you been together, and how long have you been living together? I&#039;ve been the live-in girlfriend pretty much all my life. My last relationship was 4 years, with no mention of marriage even... Wed, 28 May 2008 08:16:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3088587 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3015562 Wat is da best way too get rid of dat funk skunky smell in yo crib<br /><br />Open up some windows. Burn incense. Scented candles. Invest in some of the ones that come in a glass jar. It works well as a re-usable candleholder. You can drop a small pillar candle in it once the original candle has burned away. Or you can buy a few candleholders. Either way,... Mon, 19 May 2008 08:02:12 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3015562 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3015504 I have a question about when you are in a relationship with someone and they hold something in and then later bring it up. They bring it up from time to time when it has already been settled. Why? Does it still bother them or what?<br /><br />Obviously to them it hasn&#039;t been settled or they wouldn&#039;t keep bringing it up. Either that or they are using it as a means to manipulate all further disagreements in their favor by making you feel guilty about some past event that has no bearing on the current event. This is selfish... Mon, 19 May 2008 07:48:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3015504 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3015392 Have you ever told someone you loved them and realised later that you didn't mean it?<br /><br />I have told someone I loved them and later realized that maybe I didn&#039;t really know what it meant. I&#039;m still not sure I really know, but I think I&#039;m learning. Mon, 19 May 2008 07:33:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3015392 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2985045 My boyfriend of 2 years is the only person I've had sex with. He's worried that eventually I'll want to experience someone else or leave him cause having sex with one person all your life is "against human nature" I disagree, But is there logic behind it?<br /><br />I think that if the sex is satisfying physically and emotionally, then why would you need to experience other partners - regardless of what is or isn&#039;t &quot;against human nature&quot;. It&#039;s our INDIVIDUAL nature to want to be satisfied in our relationships. Naturally, if you... Thu, 15 May 2008 08:15:17 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2985045 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2980071 Thanks for ur answers, this is beth my baby does not like to sleep in tha day well he takes 5 mins nap, then in tha nite he goes to sleep at 6.30 and don't wake up until 5.30 in tha morning he don't wake to feed so i pick him up an feed him is that bad<br /><br />Vellygirl is right. Consider yourself lucky. How old is the baby? If he doesn&#039;t get hungry enough in the night to wake up and want to feed, then don&#039;t wake him. As long as he&#039;s eating normally during his waking hours and isn&#039;t lethargic or unresponsive then I wouldn&#039;t... Wed, 14 May 2008 15:05:01 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2980071 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2980048 Is it just me, or does there seem to be an accelerating number of natural (or man-made) disasters on Earth?<br /><br />I can tell you from personal experience that here in Virginia the number of tornadoes has increased dramatically in the past ten years. Between 1980 and 1989 we had approximately 63 tornadoes in Virginia. That number grew to 125 for the period between 1990-1999, and so far we&#039;re up to... Wed, 14 May 2008 15:01:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2980048 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2978563 What key do you press 5 times to turn StickyKeys on or off?<br /><br />Shift is the default key. Wed, 14 May 2008 12:05:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2978563 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2978371 Okay, if you have sex a lot... and cant start to feel it after 10 minutes... are you loose?<br /><br />I don&#039;t think it has anything to do with how often you have sex. A penis isn&#039;t large enough to stretch out a woman&#039;s vagina to the point where it won&#039;t contract back to it&#039;s normal size (sorry, men. A baby&#039;s head is much larger than any of your penises and most... Wed, 14 May 2008 11:38:13 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2978371 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2971000 Could someone show me a couple of verses that tells us that we have free will?<br /><br />I don&#039;t think we need to quote bible verses to prove to you that people have free will. I could have skipped right over this question and not answered it, but I exercised my free will by stopping by to answer. Every time you make a conscious decision in your life, you&#039;re... Tue, 13 May 2008 13:28:06 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2971000 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2970879 If you were an animal, what would you be?<br /><br />I already am an animal. We all are. Tue, 13 May 2008 13:12:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2970879 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2969261 What are the pros and cons of dating a single parent?<br /><br />Like SaraMonster said, you get to see firsthand what kind of parent they are (which eliminates any surprises if the two of you plan to have children together, too). Cons, and I can speak from experience because I AM a single Mom of 2 dating a man without any kids of his own: Not always... Tue, 13 May 2008 09:27:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2969261 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2969033 Iv been with my bf for only 9mnths&i am madly in love with him but i can see our relationship comin to an end.he shouts,calls me names&stands me up but otherwise,he is perfect.i cnt bare knowin that everythin i had wil be gone.hes everything&i cnt let go!<br /><br />Okay, so he&#039;s verbally and emotionally abusive towards you - but other than that, he&#039;s perfect? That really doesn&#039;t leave a whole lot for him to be &quot;perfect&quot; at. He doesn&#039;t respect you, he breaks down your self-confidence to make himself feel superior, and he... Tue, 13 May 2008 08:46:21 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2969033 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2968995 Many women love going down on a man[BJ'S] but not many men will go down on women. Why? I guess we women like sex more.<br /><br />90% of the men I&#039;ve dated have LOVED performing oral sex on me. I think the problem most men have is that they aren&#039;t exactly sure how the female genitalia works, so they aren&#039;t sure they&#039;d be able to please the woman even if they tried. Pleasing a man is relatively simple.... Tue, 13 May 2008 08:39:40 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2968995 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2968881 Did you ever see your boss/superior doing something morally questionable? Did you say anything to them or to anyone at all?<br /><br />My boss is always groping and fondling me at work, staring at me inappropriately and making comments about my physique and attire. He&#039;s also my boyfriend, so I tell him to wait until we&#039;re off the clock (or at least until nobody else is looking/listening)!! Tue, 13 May 2008 08:17:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2968881 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2968873 Why is this AB user's avatar a PENIS, and is this okay with everyone?<br /><br />http://www.answerbag.com/profile/?id=310801 I&#039;m not sure how to go about alerting the moderators about this, or if this is even against the rules of the community. Personally, I think it has no place here - especially seeing as how this person&#039;s profile is being used to... Tue, 13 May 2008 08:16:12 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2968873 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2962065 Does locking a two-year-old girl out of a house for extended periods of time classify as abuse/neglect? Is the excuse that the child was on "bad behaviour" really acceptable here?<br /><br />Neglect most certainly, yes. No, the excuse is NOT acceptable. There is no acceptable excuse for locking a two year old child IN or OUT of any place. A two year old child needs constant parental supervision, which is impossible when the child is LOCKED OUT OF THE HOUSE and the parent is... Mon, 12 May 2008 10:06:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2962065 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2961853 I have a cable modem for my desktop and I need internet on my laptop. Do I need a SPECIFIC type of router or any would suffice?<br /><br />That depends on whether you want a wireless connection or a wired connection for your laptop. Most laptops now come with an ethernet card AND a wireless card. If your laptop doesn&#039;t have a wireless card, then you can either use the wired ethernet connection (which isn&#039;t as handy... Mon, 12 May 2008 09:28:41 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2961853 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2958899 Are you really scared of something, or have a phobia?<br /><br />Butterflies make me hysterical. I am absolutely petrified of them to the point where I&#039;ve narrowly escaped wrecking my car on NUMEROUS occasions when a butterfly has whooshed past my windshield while driving along the road. Sun, 11 May 2008 20:20:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2958899 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2958842 I have been paying 100 a week for two kids and medical and school close and supples for years. me and my ex had a falling out now she going to take me to court do i have to pay back child support for all those years?<br /><br />That depends on the laws where you live. It also depends on what the judge decides if you end up in court. Child support orders are designed to protect the interests of the noncustodial parent (the parent without physical custody of the child) as well as the custodial parent. Generally... Sun, 11 May 2008 20:14:28 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2958842 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2958667 I just found out that my girlfriend is bulimic. This really disturbs me and goes against some of my strongest values. I care about her and i want to be with her, but i cant accept the fact that shes bulimic. Should i end it or not? What do i do?<br /><br />Bulimia isn&#039;t a moral choice. It&#039;s a disease. Your girlfriend CAN&#039;T help being bulimic. It isn&#039;t something she chose for herself. If you can&#039;t accept that she is sick and needs HELP, then you should do HER a favor and leave her alone. She needs FRIENDS and people who... Sun, 11 May 2008 19:49:07 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2958667 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2958645 I stopped being on the pill because I think it was making me depressed. I know it's one of the side effects, has this happened to you?<br /><br />Sort of. I was using the NuvaRing for about a year and never had any problems until the past few months. I always have pretty bad PMS (or PMDD, not sure if it&#039;s either or if my cycle just exacerbates the depression I already have). Anyway, I also struggle with undiagnosed, untreated... Sun, 11 May 2008 19:45:44 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2958645 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2939131 Is it to early to have a kid im 22 and my boyfriend is 23 we have been together for 4 years and he still says no, does he love me<br /><br />You&#039;re questioning whether or not your boyfriend loves you because he won&#039;t give you what you want? What about what HE wants? You need to understand that relationships are about compromise, not &quot;if you love me you&#039;ll do things MY way&quot;. There is plenty of time to have... Thu, 08 May 2008 22:26:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2939131 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2939111 Does anybody else think they should outlaw those quarter machines you see everywhere you go? i just went to the bank and there is a big bubble gum machine, why?<br /><br />I think they should outlaw parents who can&#039;t say no to their children. Kids are tempted by all sorts of things everywhere you go. The candy at the checkout aisle in the grocery store, the toy section in the department store, every fast food restaurant along the road with a playground, etc.... Thu, 08 May 2008 22:20:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2939111 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2933710 My husband was ordered to take his check stubs to court to up his child support from 650+.His stubs are simple and I photoshopped them and made it look like he made less(which would lower it).The judge goes by the stubs so could we get away with this?<br /><br />Pay stubs are printed on paper with watermarks in order to prevent people from tampering with them. Not only will the court be able to tell (just from looking) that your pay stubs aren&#039;t &quot;real&quot;, but they will likely order the employer to provide some sort of income verification.... Thu, 08 May 2008 09:20:37 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2933710 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2933371 There's this guy who likes me and he has for a long time. But he always had a girlfriend. Now he's single because his girlfriend cheated on him. He knows I like him too, but he hasnt made a move. So whats the problem?<br /><br />Maybe he isn&#039;t over the pain of the last relationship yet. Not everyone is willing to jump right into a new relationship immediately after ending one. Give him some time. Let him know you&#039;re there for him, but don&#039;t pressure him to make any commitments that he&#039;s not... Thu, 08 May 2008 08:28:04 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2933371 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2933361 Women 21+ if you had been dating a guy for almost 6 months, and he seemed hesitant/or he just hadnt introduced you to his family yet, what would you think? and does introducing you to his family, is that the biggest sign to you that hes interested?<br /><br />I&#039;ve been with my boyfriend for six months, and I haven&#039;t met his parents and he hasn&#039;t met mine. We&#039;ve met each other&#039;s siblings just not the parental units. We are both private people who don&#039;t like to involve our families in our personal lives. I know it will... Thu, 08 May 2008 08:26:40 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2933361 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2933298 What determines a serious relationship vs just dateing?<br /><br />Dating is what you do while you&#039;re getting to know someone. Going out to dinner, movies, etc. Once you&#039;ve gotten to know each other and mutually decide that you want to see each other exclusively and make plans for a future together, then the relationship has become... Thu, 08 May 2008 08:15:30 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2933298 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2932753 How often do you compliment your significant other? What do you like to say?<br /><br />I try to compliment him every day, even if it&#039;s just a text message when we aren&#039;t together to remind him that I love him and think he&#039;s absolutely wonderful. A few of the other compliments I try and give him on a regular basis: You&#039;re SO handsome. I&#039;m lucky to... Thu, 08 May 2008 06:18:54 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2932753 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2930868 Do you think that will power can get you out of depression?<br /><br />If antidepressants made you feel WORSE, than either they weren&#039;t the right type of antidepressant for your particular disorder OR you&#039;ve been misdiagnosed with depression when what you have is something else entirely. If the meds don&#039;t work, you tell your doctor and you try... Wed, 07 May 2008 21:38:01 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2930868 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2930697 Hi, I have virtually no friends and some serious depression issues; I snap at everyone around me and I'm constantly getting into arguments with family. I have no one to talk to, and let's say that getting a therapist isn't an option. What should I do?<br /><br />Sounds like it could be more than just depression. Sometimes depression is a symptom of a much larger problem. Therapy would help, why isn&#039;t it an option? Even your family doctor can evaluate you and recommend a course of treatment (which will likely include therapy). Read this link and... Wed, 07 May 2008 21:16:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2930697 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2930603 Is there a post-abortion syndrome?<br /><br />I&#039;m going to say no. A woman who has an abortion does so because she doesn&#039;t want a child at that point in her life, or under the circumstance she may be in, etc. A woman who WANTS a child typically is not going to have an abortion. It&#039;s far more common for a woman to feel... Wed, 07 May 2008 21:03:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2930603 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2930497 Why why why did he do that? It never ended!<br /><br />Who is &quot;he&quot; and what did he do? Wed, 07 May 2008 20:50:55 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2930497 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2930493 If you had only met a man a month ago and already felt strong feelings for him, do you think it would be wise to leave everything and everyone you know for the oppurtunity of perfect happiness?<br /><br />I&#039;m not clear on WHY you&#039;d have to leave everything and everyone you know behind in order to be with this man. When I start a new relationship I include my new partner into my CURRENT life (introduce them to friends, family, etc), I don&#039;t run out and start a whole new life that... Wed, 07 May 2008 20:50:39 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2930493 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2929060 Ladies would you date a guy with a small, thin penis. about 4 inches and thin. Also small balls too! could drugs or alcohol affect the size on the night? everything else about his is good so far.. but i am turned off..<br /><br />I probably wouldn&#039;t be too put off by it, as long as he can satisfy me sexually. Size really doesn&#039;t matter all that much to me (I have a shorter vagina than most women and sex is uncomfortable if the man is too large). I also have a hard time reaching orgasm during sex (it takes me a... Wed, 07 May 2008 17:31:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2929060 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2929028 I share a bathroom with my brother, who is 18. This morning, I found a container of chewing tobbacco in a top drawer. What should I do?<br /><br />Well, he isn&#039;t breaking the law but he is slowly killing himself so I can see how you&#039;d be concerned. Teenagers will usually do anything their friends are doing in an attempt to look &quot;cool&quot;. I would recommend showing him the picture that someone else posted here and ask him... Wed, 07 May 2008 17:24:22 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2929028 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2928867 Women 20+ if you keep hinting at your boyfriend, of 6 months, about something serious to you in the relationship, and he doesnt pick up on it, will you begin to lose interest in the relationship, and start feeling differently about him?<br /><br />No, I wouldn&#039;t feel any differently about him. Nobody can read your mind. &quot;Hints&quot; aren&#039;t going to get you what you&#039;re after. If you want something, then come right out and say it. If you feel like you aren&#039;t as interested in the relationship because your... Wed, 07 May 2008 17:02:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2928867 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2928808 Am i being too obsessed with my ex? he ignores my text and calls. i don't know what to do i feel like i never mattered to him. he seemed to get over me fast. i went to his house today and no one answered the door and i left him a note ouside<br /><br />It&#039;s not his responsibility to make you feel better about yourself. You aren&#039;t his girlfriend anymore, remember? If he doesn&#039;t want to talk to you or see you (which obviously he DOESN&#039;T, or else he would take your calls and return your text messages), then that&#039;s his... Wed, 07 May 2008 16:56:13 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2928808 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2928724 Why do some people hide their friendships with those of the opposite sex at work?<br /><br />Some workplaces have fraternization policies, meaning coworkers aren&#039;t allowed to have relationships with each other outside of work. That may be the reason. Another reason may be that they don&#039;t want the workplace gossip mill churning at their expense - especially if their... Wed, 07 May 2008 16:45:14 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2928724 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2928566 Girls: do you find a guy who drinks and possibly smokes pot attractive?<br /><br />Depends on what he looks like and his personality. As long as he isn&#039;t an alcoholic, I don&#039;t see a problem with drinking or smoking pot. Wed, 07 May 2008 16:19:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2928566 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2928181 My grandson has been given a dell inspiron 400 laptop running windows 2000 but dosent know the password the last owner is deceased and there is no instruction books with it any ideas please.<br /><br />Reinstall the operating system. There is probably a &quot;recovery&quot; partition on the hard disk, or you can call dell and request a recovery disc. At any rate, you don&#039;t want a used computer that hasn&#039;t even been wiped clean. Lord knows what kind of junk the previous owner had... Wed, 07 May 2008 15:26:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2928181 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2925450 When a woman cheats on you and she says she "accidentally fell in love with another man". She said "I got attached to him, but not intentionally." Do you believe this? How does this happen? How does she accidentally fall in love with someone? Get attachd?<br /><br />People never fall in love &quot;on purpose&quot;! It&#039;s always accidental. I totally believe this happens all the time. It happened to me recently. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years because I had fallen out of love with him (if I ever was truly in love in the first place, which... Wed, 07 May 2008 09:06:11 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2925450 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2925043 My gf of 8 mnths dumped me bcuz my divorce isnt final (2 more wks & she nos it). She will not say she doesnt luv me & tells me there is no1 else, but will not wait nemore. 4 the past 2 mnths she has been out evry nite with "friends" & has chtd on me b4.<br /><br />I&#039;d say it&#039;s because she never thought you were actually going to get a divorce. She probably felt safer in the relationship when she didn&#039;t have to FULLY commit to you (because you were married to someone else) and now that you&#039;re about to be FREE and able to commit to her,... Wed, 07 May 2008 07:58:01 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2925043 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2924939 I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. We don't go out, just hang out at his or my place, watch a movie and have sex on a regular basis. I haven't met his friends or family. Can somebody tell what kind of relationship this is?<br /><br />A new one. My boyfriend and I are the same way (except we have met and hung out with each other&#039;s friends, and I&#039;ve met his brother but not his parents). We hang out on the weekends, mainly at his place. Sometimes we go out, but we generally have more fun (for less money!) when we... Wed, 07 May 2008 07:37:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2924939 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2924902 Where is the worst place to run into your crush?<br /><br />At the STD clinic. Wed, 07 May 2008 07:29:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2924902 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2924901 My bf receives txt msgs late at night, with his phone on vibrate. I checked, and he's chatting with an 18 yr old (he's 28)-not innocently, either. This led me to check his email-he asked his ex if she wanted to have sex one more time. Do I confront him?<br /><br />I wouldn&#039;t. I&#039;d just kick him to the curb. It doesn&#039;t matter if he actually cheated or not. He propositioned another woman for sex, which is just as bad as cheating if you ask me. Dump his sorry ass and move on. You deserve better. Wed, 07 May 2008 07:29:01 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2924901 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2922898 Women: If you make a flirtatious advance at a guy and he doesn't seem to notice it, what is your reaction (both emotionally and with respect to any subsequent actions)?<br /><br />Old School is right on the money. Men are clueless sometimes. They can&#039;t believe a woman is flirting with them, or they don&#039;t want to seem too forward by flirting BACK in the event that she wasn&#039;t actually flirting in the first place... or sometimes they just don&#039;t realize... Tue, 06 May 2008 21:41:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2922898 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2882142 Does it hurt when you talk to your ex'because it brings back feelings?<br /><br />Nope. It does bring back feelings, but only feelings of anger and frustration. I try not to talk to him more than I have to, which is hard because we have kids. Thu, 01 May 2008 16:43:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2882142 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2859197 How many times did you have an ultrasound during your pregnancy?<br /><br />I had three when I was pregnant with my daughter, and one when I was pregnant with my son. The doctor sent me in for the first one because he thought I might be having twins (fortunately, he thought wrong). It was too early for them to do all the routine measurements and checks they normally... Mon, 28 Apr 2008 20:28:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2859197 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2800297 Has anyone else thought about getting gas one gallon at a time, and paying in pennies? If we all started doing this, do you think they would drop gas prices ;)<br /><br />&quot;They&quot; (the folks who take your money at the gas station check-out counter) aren&#039;t the ones who determine gas prices, so making them count pennies isn&#039;t going to influence the price of gasoline one bit. Mon, 21 Apr 2008 06:37:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2800297 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2800261 My fellow students and I are having extreme difficulties with our schools new webfilter from 8e6. plz provide help! foxyproxy doesnt work nor does any other<br /><br />Maybe you should quit trying to get around the filter, and just accept that the school&#039;s computers are there for SCHOOL use, and not personal use. If you want to get on MySpace, wait until you get home. Mon, 21 Apr 2008 06:29:59 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2800261 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2768986 If a tubby lady is "Voluptuous", why is a tubby gentleman "Fat"?<br /><br />I agree with jcjuice. Voluptuous means curvy in all the right places. A tubby lady would typically have curves in the WRONG places. Thu, 17 Apr 2008 05:32:44 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2768986 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2768969 Do you think the State of Texas went overboard in the polygamist raid?<br /><br />Nope. Thu, 17 Apr 2008 05:29:41 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2768969 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2765949 Can you connect a internet router to another router<br /><br />Get a longer ethernet cord, or another extension. Wed, 16 Apr 2008 17:47:13 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2765949 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2765245 How many syllables does "night" have? How many syllables does "scars" have?<br /><br />The word &quot;night&quot; has one syllable. The word &quot;scars&quot; also has one syllable. Wed, 16 Apr 2008 16:05:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2765245 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2758415 Can I hide my ip address while on myspace, as not to be detected by tracking software?<br /><br />Why would you need to hide your ip address from MySpace? When you&#039;re logged into the myspace server, only the server can see where you&#039;re coming from. Other users can&#039;t obtain your ip address from the server, nor can they use tracking software to find you based on your ip... Tue, 15 Apr 2008 19:34:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2758415 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2758339 Could you trust the 1 you love when you know she has cheated on you and your moving 100 miles away from her even if she promised she will come see you atleast 3 times a week and isnt going to go out anymore because she doesnt want to chance losing you?<br /><br />Nope. First off, I don&#039;t believe shell drive 600 miles a week to see you once she realizes how much it&#039;s going to cost her in gas. Second, I don&#039;t believe she isn&#039;t going to go out anymore. If she has to use that as a means to reassure you that she&#039;s not going to... Tue, 15 Apr 2008 19:21:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2758339 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2748711 What are some tell tale signs that someone is cheating?<br /><br />Coming and going at strange times. &quot;Working late&quot;, without any increase in pay. Spending more money than usual with no explanation as to where it&#039;s going. Charges on credit cards for restaurants or events that YOU weren&#039;t invited to. Catching your partner in lies (even... Mon, 14 Apr 2008 17:12:48 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2748711 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2748682 My boyfriend and I recently got into an argument. He told his family things I didn't want anyone to know. Now he's mad because I told him I was angry about it, and he's mad at me and my best friend and is refusing to talk to me. What should I do?<br /><br />Singwell is right. First of all, he shouldn&#039;t have involved his family. What happens between the two of you should be private and there is no reason why he should tell his family things that you&#039;ve told HIM in confidence. Second, he has no reason to be angry at you for being... Mon, 14 Apr 2008 17:08:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2748682