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What's one word, that does NOT describe you?
Short
I am a rather tall chick.
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What is a good diet /weight loss plan?
I'll tell you this.. the cabbage soup diet works. I do not care who you are, it works.
However, with other health issues.. you must find out if it is ok for you, specifically.
Oprah lost a lot of weight on it. My dad got chunky and lost it on it.. but it is a very HARD diet to stick with because you eat this stuff day in and out.
I have never heard of anyone not losing weight off...
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What breed was the smartest dog you've ever met?
Labs and Akitas
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How come everyone at my school hates me becuse i like nirvana?
they say that there over rated.
The thing is.. some are probably saying that because they have heard others say it.
Do not give them power.. if anything know that confidence is waaay more attractive than the weaklings who stick together saying this all the while going home and secretly listening to nirvana.. all to be "cool?" and to "Fit in".
Not everyone has the same tastes.. but some people just...
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What do you think of celebrities naming their offspring things like: Apple, Sparrow, Maddona named her daughter Bluebell. wtf?
I think it is retarded. Sad thing is.. it will set trends to do this.
A girl I know named her daughter "passion" and I could have kicked her in the head.
Pleasing others (getting attention from the choices to do these idiotic things) instead of looking out for the best interests of your children is a bit twisted if you ask me.
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On a Scale of 1 to 10, How Do You Feel About Your Body?
I have no clue.. I am a female gumby.. tall, lanky and so not curvy. Maybe a 5?
I am comfortable with it
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To all the old ABer's ( ya have to have been here at least 3 years to answer please). Do you miss the deluge of "what is this pill?" questions we used to get?
They never bothered me. Why would they? We choose what questions we participate in.
I saw a lot of parents asking the question because they wanted to see if they had reason for concern. I think they came here to see if they could find out fast and then decide whether to make a formal inquiry offline.
You'd see pill poppers asking to at least make sure of what they were taking.. you...
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Did you listen to the details of the execution by lethal injection of John Allen Muhammad, the Washington Sniper? I did and thought they were pretty horrific. Do you agree?
No, I do not.
Even in the link you listed.. there was nothing horrific about his death.
He was given a much better way out than his victims.
He was put to sleep while his body shut down.
His victims suffered pain, terror and God only knows what else.
There were no complications. Every station has stated this, including the video in the link you provided and witnesses who have given...
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Why do so many people use avatars insted of their own pics?
The questions, answers and comments here do not seem to be anything anyone would be ashamed of. Why are we afraid to be recognized?
I am not here to advertise my goofy mug. I am here to give answers, ask questions yadi yadi.
There are other places such as your profile where you can put a pic if you choose for those who wish to know who is behind their words.
I know the last thing I want to do is have to sit and look at a picture of myself everytime I sign in to ab.
I think our minds far outweigh our flesh in value....
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Do you wear slippers or are you barefoot in the house?
I love being barefoot but I LOVE big and fuzzy slippers!
I cannot own too many of them.. I adore em
Socks I am not big on unless in tennis shoes
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My boyfriend has been in jail for 9months.ive been faithful to him untill i met this girl ive been seeing her and im getting confused.ive been with my man for2years but i feel somthing else with her we've been getting to close how should i leave her?help
I think you would do better to figure this out before taking action.
Some things should just remain fantasies and hindsight can kick your butt if you find yourself in an emotional roller coaster all because you got the hot pants.
You better think girl before you cross them lines and have to carry that.
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If someone you considered family(ie:close friend) betrayed you completely what would you do?...(I chose to write him off and told him to stay away or I would"put him down like a rabid dog"...basically out of sight out of mind)
I have read you say that forgiveness is not an option.
I think every single person reading and answering you can relate to where you are albeit we all are different.
I was not going to answer because I know when hurt is still fresh and the anger still cold.. it is not the best time that we choose to listen but I will try.
Forgiveness is not just for the other person. You can forgive in...
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If you don`t answer this, your breasts will fall off, within the hour.
I sure enough had to hurry and answer this.. it is not like I could afford anything happening to the small hand I was dealt!
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If God really exists and faith is all you need,why are people of all or any religions so defensive,when asked simple questions.
God has nothing to do with religion.
Either you believe or you do not but I think most find discord in the company of those they do not agree with and it will always be that way.
Some can debate easily but there will be a point where it becomes moot. You disagree and do not see things the same.. so.. why bother? Why bother with sarcastic questions when you are not trying to become a...
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Does it make you kind of sad that this planet is the only one you will ever truly know?
I get kinda bummed thinking on how short life is and not being able to experience it ALL while I am here lol but I look forward to meeting our Creator much more.
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OJ Simpson or Phil Spector?
What about em?
Both are murderers
You mean.. which one would I spit on first? oj
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I am much more intelligent than you prove me wrong?
It wouldn't take much.. surely you can't be proud of that? =)
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What's the best thing and worst thing about the human mind?
It can be your best friend.. or your worst enemy.
Depending on what you feed it
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Do you touch hot things to see if they are hot?
Like a five year old.. I do.
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The last time you used flour, what were you making?
Fried chicken
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Do you care about hunger in third world countries?
I care about innocents who go hungry yes.
I am a little less enthused with those who ruin their countries and run them into the ground and then come over here trying to do the same.
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Is homosexuality a sin?
Yes, I believe it to be a sin.
Do I believe homosexuals are unloved by God?
No, I believe He loves them very much.
Hate the sin, love the sinner.. which I personally believe us all to be.
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On a scale of 1-10, how furry is your dog?
My oldest will be 14 in Jan.. he is getting to look like a bald monkey in his old age =X
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My husband has been acting very strange and emotionally abusive 2 me lately . so i call him on his lunch break and he says hes at beach looking at big tits and i am very angry what would you do? i feel like hes been cheating for months now
Well.. as a woman.. even I have trouble not looking at a great rack when they are strutting down the beach haha but I think his insensitivity is pointing at a greater issue and I would suggest not hounding because that pushes men farther away.. men truly seem to hate being questioned.
I would suggest counseling or asking him outright if his feelings have changed and it is over. Letting him...
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Why do adults think its wrong for teenagers to have sex?
Maybe adults are so desperate to reach teens and we lose the battle because we know that most teens think adults just want to control them and will do what they want anyways.
The thing is.. I think we come across so fanatical because we have been there.. and we see what the consequences are. Not just pregnancy.. stds.. and the like but the missed moments.. the missed youth teens do not get to...
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My wife talks to guys on Xbox live and they also call my house to talk to her as a friend when they need a shoulder to cry on. IS it normal for me to not like this and feel jelous of these guys?I trust her 100%!
I always get crap for my answers regarding this issue.
I am a working woman, independent to a point.. but I do not believe a woman should be making new male friendships while she is married that does not include her husband.
I believe that invites trouble. The only people she needs to be offering a shoulder to are you and close loved ones. Otherwise.. she is spending too much time on...
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Would you have liked to have known Jesus when he was on earth?
I am glad to know Him now.
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When it comes to online web-sites and their members, do you take the users with a grain of salt or do you begin to care and actually become true friends over time?
I almost envy those who have the time to balance relationships offline and online as well but I will be honest and tell you that offline comes first to me.
Back in the days about ten years ago.. I chatted a lot.. it was a new experience and I loved it.. but it also was not worth the time sitting at the pc. Not for me anyhow. It was fun but it grew old. I made great friends that to this day we...
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Lately I find people tedious and hardly see my friends at all: a good book just seems a better idea. Is it worth making more of an effort?
I think most people find as they get older.. life gets a bit more serious with responsibilities that there is not always enough left at the end of some days to give to others.
I think people need less friends in their immediate life because we all have our box in life.. those that mean the most and are actively in our lives.. We have to nuture those in our box and too many.. shortchanges...
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What is something romatic i can do for my boyfriend at home?? i don't have a job so please help with qoutes or sayings or a fun game etc... (2009-11-10)
My boyfriend has a hard edge to him but trust me when I tell you that a shower together and a good, long massage makes him purr everytime.
Some men really loved to be bathed. It makes them feel good when you give your time to do something without expecting something for it.
You can never lose with a good massage. I rub him down most nights at bedtime and he truly appreciates it.
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Is it just me or do people from england sound sexy?
I personally do not enjoy hearing an english accent.
Probably because I am not from there and use to it but I do not think it is sexy at all.
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Parts of my sago palm 8" are turning brownish yellow color dried. but the majority parts of the leaves looks really green and healthy. Is this a sign of something that I should do before it gets worst. Does it mean not enough water? Advise please befor
I may be able to help you depending on where you live.
I have sagos that are about six feet in height and they were so beautiful.. I let them grow wild except for cutting new growths underneathe to keep it healthy.
They relish attention and thrive on being fed and watered consistently.
I live in Florida and about four or five years ago I noticed they were getting small white areas on...
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What will you fight for?
Good against evil
My right to openly believe in Christ if asked
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If your friend was cheating on their lover, would you tell them to stop?
I think a cardinal rule to be followed is to mind one's own business in these situations.
Cheating is wrong and if people choose to do it.. that is their choice.
I would not hang out with the person they were cheating with and show support but I would keep my opinion to myself.
I do not condone cheating but then I do not have the right to dictate how another should conduct their...
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So now there are pictures all over the paper of nurses giving children the H1N1 vaccine....WITHOUT GLOVES! I am disgusted. What do you think?
As a nurse I would really like to know what the heck you are going through?
Shots are a very sterile procedure as it is. Gloves are added precaution. I use gloves at all times but are you for real? The needle itself is sterile and untouched until it pierces the skin so where is the need for disgust??
You wipe the area with an alcohol pad (skin to skin does not happen) and then you uncap the...
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Is reading for nerds?
I have been called goofy.. a dork..brat.. the list goes on.. but not a nerd and I read a lot.
I am currently reading John Grisham's The Chamber and enjoying it so.. imma nerd then?
I think it is a rather cute word.. =/
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Today is National Make A Difference Day. time to give a little money or time to make someones life a little better. why not give a homeless person a quarter today? so what if he wants a can of beer? let it be. or, be a mentor to a child. they need you.
I have given many homeless men/women money .. I am not the type to give something but dictate how it is used.. that to me, is not the meaning of giving.
Sometimes I drive on by.. and sometimes if I have a dollar or five dollars.. if it is in my heart to give it, I will.
If they do not want a hot meal and want a bottle.. I do not care.
I have given a bum a bottle of liquor to pass a cold...
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Was Jesus a Southern Baptist?
Religion is what we, man, use as a tool to seperate from one another.
Jesus is of no religion
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My female friends and I are always complaining that men are slow on the uptake in terms of understanding our needs. Is this a particularly male characteristic or are women guilty of it too?
My opinion is probably different from many but I think women and men are of a different makeup for good reason.. balance.
I rely on my man's strength and the things that make him a man. I have my girlfriends to get deep with.
Men are not always going to "get us" .. but then I do not think we make it all that easy. We are walking chemical imblances when compared to their...
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Is nuting a cat a good thing for his health?
I have had my cats altered, neutered.. whatever you want to call it.
One lasted 17 years and the other 19.
Many of the nighborhood strays get infections due from fighting and eating garbage so not only is altering your cat a good idea.. but keeping them inside prolongs their life significantly.
I will not lie.. all of mine have had access outside. Oscar, my six month old cat goes in...
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Can a Christian be trusted based solely on the reason they are Christian?
No man is without sin.. so just because people label themselves christian.. does not mean they are pure and without flaws.
Not every christian shares the same ideas either.. a lot of people get confused because they expect christians to not sin.. do wrong.. etc. .when it will happen.. they are just mere men.. not God.
God has nothing to do with religion
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I keep dreaming that my boyfriend gets with my cousin, we have both got kids but she still has a great body.i secretly do get jealous of her because i think my boyfriend might be attracted to her when she's around so i try to avoid her ..HELP ME!
You are going to make life very hard and miserable for yourself.
Your boyfriend may very well think your cousin is attractive.. there is nothing wrong with that.
Hell... if I sat and told my old man who I thought was attractive.. ahaaaaaa.. we are ALL individuals.. we can love.. be faithful and STILL be human.. especially men who like to look at pretty women.. THAT is natural.. Your...
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I went without sleep for now 8 days, i can't sleep no drugs involved, I'm not trying to brake no record I just want some shut eye. I'm allucinating, I'm mean very men and n pain all over,...can anyone help?
You need to see a doctor.. not get online for strangers' opinions on the internet.
Your brain/system needs shutdown time and you are depriving it. You will hallucinate and worse can happen. You can affect the heart/brain.. etc.
See a doctor and find out WHY you cannot sleep and get a medical diagnosis. DO NOT LOAD UP ON SLEEPING PILLS. Not sleeping for that long of a period of time is...
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How do I erase history on internet explorer via google
Go to toolbar above.. select Tools
Then Internet Options
Then delete cookie/history.. I think
Or Select Safety on above toolbar
then delete history
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Emigrating alone, good idea or not?
Definitely not alone.. hell, if I am going illegal, let me take as many homies as possible in hopes I can squeeze by why they get jacked =/
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When will right wing militia's in America be outlawed? How can successive governments let groups stockpile guns and explosives in their own country and not make it illegal to be a member of such an organisation?
When the thugs and punks turn in their guns.. expect the law abiding gun owners to turn in theirs.. so.. I guess never.
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When does loosing a pet stop hurting? . . . . (and where the hell is the 'pet' section?)
It has been twenty two years since I lost a pet who was a big part of my life. Danny was with us for about eight years.
We did not get him neutered which was a factor in resulting in his death.
He went chasing after a dog in heat who had a pack of bigger and badder dogs after her. Our neighbor's dog broke his chain and joined in trying to get her and attacked our dog.
I still see...
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Which bothers you more, to see an innocent person put to death or a guilty one set free?
An innocent person put to death.
We have MANY murderers out here who will never be caught. Those who wish to disagree.. I would love to live in your neck of the woods.
Watching a man spend twenty years of his life on death row just to be exonerated due to DNA technology that he was not able to afford.. really hurts us as a society. That man's life is forever changed, gone.
No money...
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Does jasons deli drug test?
I am sure there are some out there that may but most do not put their funds towards such tests so you are probably not going to get tested.
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♥ What comes to your mind when I say " shop "?
In and out.. get what I need and get out
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Im 14 and my boyfriend is 21 , is it wrong for me to date him ? the fact is he loves me and he siad he will do anything i wish , and i tolde him no sex, but the question is that is it wrong for me to date him cuzz his older than me?
I know at 14 .. I really did not listen to warnings from adults on things.. I thought I knew it all and felt they did not understand where I was coming from..
Now 33.. I have repeatedly told my parents I wish I had listened to them and really "Got it" but as teens.. we seem to lock our brains in the closet because we are caught up in the NOW.. and thinking no one else has ever been...
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Are red-headed kids really more mischievious?
Hair color doesn't matter.. my boyfriend has a nephew and two nieces with red hair and my God they are beautiful and very sweet.. not mean at all.
I always wanted a red haired little boy!
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Has morality decreased or increased with times?
Decreased.. and will continue to do so.
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Women: do cars impress you? What about them? They don't impress me, but I hear they can impress some.
Very rarely does a car turn my head.. now.. give me a guy with a pickup.. even an oldie.. and I might look twice.. three times..
Real men drive trucks. =X
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Hey ab people, would you rather have a romantic poem or a song dedicated to you?
Song.. but that is just because the poetry writing guys are not of my taste. I like em rugged not soft.
I think of the earliest poet days and the men who were not working men .. were men in tights and .. uh.. no.
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Why do people fight in the name of God?
Because man wants to be in control.. in charge.. rather than turning it over.
Greed.. power.. etc..
None of it has to do with God but mans' ego or fear.
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I am currently on probation in Tennessee for DUI.... I got arrested for shoplifting today (which honestly was a misunderstanding. Nobody believed me though...) How much trouble am I going to be in? I'm really scared. I definitely dont want to go to jail.
You will probably get a year and a day .. depending on your probi.
Good luck
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Why do people consider themselves Christian when they ignore most of the Bible's teachings (Obama, Clinton, Michael Moore, Bush, Cheney, every American politician ever)?
Because they believe the christian teachings.
I, personally believe the "christian" ways but do not call myself christian because it is to mean Christ-like and I fall way short of that title.. however, I think the biggest problem is not those who call themselves christian to symbolise their belief but others who expect them not to do wrong or sin just beacause they call themselves...
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Do you think David Letterman's partner of over 23 years will be able to forgive him for his sexual encounters with other women while they were together?
Yes, I do believe she could forgive him.. whether she chooses to or not I do not know but it is very much possible.
All that fame and the caughtup lifestyle he lives in.. while not making it RIGHT to cheat.. I am sure women threw themselves at him all the time seeing those dollar signs. Some men are just weak and he is one of them.
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When you play a Mario game who do you choose? Mario or Luigi?
I just want to say.. I have Super Mario reserved and get to pick it up Nov. 15th and I am very happy...
Yoshi is my homey
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Where do you Go when you need to be Alone?
If I really need to just get away because something is upsetting my mind.. I go and sit at the bench at my grandfather's grave.
It is not because I think he can hear me. I just enjoy the peace there.
If it is just a "I need me time" kinda thing.. I will usually grab a book and hop in the hammock or take the dogs to the lake.
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What's on top of yer car's dashboard?
Nothing.. I cannot stand cluttered dashboards.. unless it is a kick ass bobblehead.. but most are tacky =X
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What is the difference between a christian and a catholic?
My opinion on this matter and my opinion is biased based on my beliefs and not meant to belittle but they are my personal beliefs.
Catholics believe in Jesus but they also pray to mary and I think ask her to look after them whereas to a christian or a believer of Christ.. mary is not significant in a way that we should ever pray to her or seek her. She was chosen by God but she is not to be...
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The Statue of Liberty is inscribed with, "Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free." When did that change for the right wing? When did it become "your rich, your despots, your corporate leaders"?
OooOOOh! I understand where you are going now with your questions.. sorry about that!
Great question.. it became that way when people got too comfortable in trusting others to handle their business.
The gov. can only do so much without our cooperation.. somewhere along the way we stopped being a part of the decision making of our government.
We cannot blame the gov.. we need to put the...
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What is a talent you wished you had?
Play the piano
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Where is the best place for a 30 year old to meet a single woman?
Get involved in something in your community.
It was not until I was older that I got exactly what people meant when they said get involved in your community. I thought.. how corny .. lol but now.. I see how wonderful and beneficial it is.
You help others, yourself and get the chance to meet good people.
Meeting people at bars and such.. well, you get what you ask for there.
I am a...
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If you meet someone online can you have real feelings for that person without ever meeting them in person?
I think people become fond, sweet on and dependent on how they are feeling themselves at having a new person in their life.. but as far as the "love" thing.
sorry, but I will never be convinced that is found in text or just on the phone.
Eye contact.. seeing and feeling in person.. can never be replaced by the virtual world.
I think people build up the other person without...
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Recently I went out to lunch with 2 people I did not know very well. Both of them had at least 10 gold cards each and made sure I saw them. I laughed. I walk about with 2 at the most. How many do you walk about with?
Those are the types of people who if something happened in their lives.. all that material loss would undo them.
I carry my debit card and that is it. I do not do the plastic trip.
If I want it.. I will save to buy it.
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If someone knocked at your door at 3 a.m., who would you like it to be?
Probably my boyfriend's brother or brotherNlaw
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Are you a slave to make up?
No, I am not. I often wonder if it is my cooking that keeps the old man around because I am not high maintainence at all.
I have not worn foundation since I was er.. maybe 18? I cannot even remember.. sad haha.
I wear makeup occaisionally but usually just brush the hair and go.
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Who manages the money at your house?
I do.. I am good at saving and we have a good balance.
He has his pocket money each day and I keep up with the bills and whatnot.
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Do you like spontaneity, stability, or a healthy balance in between?
Stability
I like stability.. with stability you can plan to go do something crazy and wild and maintain your own personal comfort level.
That getting hit sideways with the unexpected is not my cup of tea. I like structure and if I get a hair up my butt to do some spontaneous.. then I do.
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When you do your laundry do you notice that you have more dark or light clothes?
Whites.. he wears the most dark clothes but the towels, dish towels.. socks.. etc accumulate much faster.
Like another poster.. I have white towels so that I can bleach them and they own the hampers.
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What to do?! You let your friend & her husband live in YOUR house,and while you're getting ready for work in the morning,they are locked in the only bathroon making love,and you need to get in there take a shower and get to work. What would you do?
I have rarely ever seen it work out letting others stay with you.
If you make it too comfortable for them, they will take their time leaving so it is your own fault if they feel comfortable enough to screw in the busy morning traffic hours in your home.
People tend to stop their routines and live around the people staying with them.. therefore enabling the comfort zone. I speak from...
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Ilegal immigrants. Who is the victim, you or them?
We are.
While I feel for the living conditions they have to endure in their own county.. the fact remains that they ruined their own country and now want to come over here.
They need to take back their country and fight the corruption, not come here, breed themselves into poverty and disobey our laws.
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Do you have pet names for your pets ? example i call binky, binky boy and oops oopsydoo.
For our parrot June - JuJu, Ju
Oscar the cat - Osky (we have no idea why we started it but we call him that all the time)
Foxy Roxy the chihuahua - Rox, Foxy, lil momma
Stash our thirteen yr old terr/dachshund - Stash, negro, old man
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What did you enjoy playing most as a kid?
We were country bumpkins.. always on the four wheelers and stuff and at 33 .. that is still my favorite thing to do lol
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If you could go back in time to your wedding day would you still say i do
I am getting old as crap but have never married.. I have to be honest and say that only once in a blue moon do I regret not having done so.
I am my mother's disappointment for the marriage and grandbabies lol .. nah she loves me no matter but I am the only one out of five not baby carrying and married.
She has grandkids by the others... I figure let them do all the work =X
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What is your full name?
Kellie Lynn H
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Should my husband go to the store wearing a neon orange engineering themed t-shirt and a pair of plaid pj pants? I vote 'probably not'.
I say go for it. He is spending his money there and that is all that matters to them.
As far as them pointing or talking about the way he dresses.. who cares what they think?
Just to get my old man to go to the store I wouldn't care what he wore.
He has went in with my white fluffy bedroom slippers and his baggy around the house jammy bottoms. I thought he looked rather adoreable...
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Could it be that some people are against Obama's health care reform because they see it as having a "colored" doctor [in chief]?
I cannot speak for everyone but I would be willing to bet that if there are people that racist.. then it is a very small percentage to vote against helping ALL of us.
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MY EX OF 15 YRS AGO IS LIVING WITH A GIRL AND HE CAME TO MY HOUSE AFTER TEXTING ME NAUGHTY STUFF AND CHEATED ON HER WITH ME. HE SAYS HE HAS A LOT GOING THROUGH HIS MIND BUT ALWAYS SAYING THAT HE WOULD MAKE A GREAT DAD, DOES HE STILL LOVE ME?
No, he does not love you. He just knew you were the type of woman who would open her legs with disregard to the woman he is with and would fall for that tired ole shit about how confused he is and how he still has feelings and blah blah blah. Loser guy, loser girl.. I hope the other woman gets away from this creep and he does get with you. Perfect match!
You are just a hole and until you...
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When during your growing-up years did you get into big trouble with your parents?
I put my parents through sheer hell from the time I was about 12-16.
I have truly kind and wonderful parents who brought me up much better than what I put them through.
We made it though and we laugh about a lot of the crazy crap I pulled.
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We all try to influence people in one way or another for one thing or another at one time or another. Do you use the "hammer-over-the-head" approach or the subtle "variations-on-a- theme" approach?
Depends on the circumstance but my mother's method has been the most effective.
When she wanted me to really "get it" and did not want to hammer it into me because I would do the opposite for sheer stubbornness.. she would just "plant" the idea.
In the end it would be "my idea" instead of hers because I would think on it later and decide it was the best...
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What are the causes of cheating?
Lack of communication. Some couples stop communicating their needs or their needs are ignored. While there is no valid reason for cheating because a relationship should be ended before another is began, even if just a sexual relationship.. some people cheat because their partner is not meeting their needs.
Lust, desire and passion of someone new making them feel above the level for the...
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What's the most shocking thing you've seen in the movies?
I cannot stand a rape scene.
I cannot remember the movie but the rape scene was very explicit and brutal.
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Our state had mandated that ALL public health care workers must get flu shots this year or they will lose their jobs. Good idea or bad?
I have never had a flu shot and I have worked in health care for seven years.
I worked in a facility and now as a home health wound care nurse.
Back when I worked in the facility they tried to push it but a few of us outright refused.
I find it to be a violation of our rights to dictate a mandated flu shot as it has been proven that many people who get this shot, do get the flu.
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Would you say you had once found your soulmate, but could not "connect" long-term because of circumstances?
I do not think there is just one person out there for us so since my first puppy love when I was younger did not work out, I was blessed with another love. =)
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Linkin Park or Nickelback?
Nickelback
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As an Englishman, it seems to me that a lot of people are anti Barack Obama.. Can you please explain to me what some people have against him..
You know.. it is funny that I found this question tonight of all nights. I was thinking about Obama a bit ago and it made me think back to election time.
I had this horribly heated argument with a man on here.
I do not care much for the guy but I have to say that he was right and I was wrong.
I said Obama would not get elected.. he did.
I did not support him and thought him too...
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Believers: Do you enjoy the prospect of non-believers burning in Hell?
No, I do not. I am not sure if this was a genuine question or another intolerant one aimed at us believers.
No matter.. if you choose to spend your time that way I feel badly for you.
I do not enjoy the thought of anyone suffering an eternal death. I think there are animals among us who are deserving but even then.. I wonder what happened to them to make them so removed from humanity so...
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My ex and I had a horrible break up. He was going through some things that were hard for me to empathize with because of drinking and drugs. He was raped. He contacted me recently and wants to meet up to call a truce. How should I handle this. I love him.
Look to your heart and not strangers on the net. Sorry, but you will get so many different answers on here.
All from experiences of us.. not you or the person you are asking about.
If you feel uncomfortable or unsure.. meet in public and keep it casual.
People make terrible mistakes.. knowing they can be better than past mistakes and receive forgiveness, validates their belief in...
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I just read an article about Iowa residents with 92% saying that gay marriage didn't affect their lives in any way. Is there any reason why gay marriage shouldn't be legal in every state?
As a person of faith who does not drink blood or any of the other nonsense I am reading.. I do not fight against gays getting married no matter what my personal opinion on the matter is.
I do not think the gov has a right to dicate who can marry who.
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Who do you think is the most evil man of all time, Adolf Hitler or Osama Bin Laden?
Hitler was a genious. He had an army on crack that would perform like machines if need be.
He lead brilliantly.
I do not respect what he did with his position and the horrors he was responsible for but the man was indeed a genious.
As far as evil? None of the above. Satan is wicked and evil.. those two men were greedy, sick minded and power mongers with no conscience.
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So, what are your thoughts on capital punishment? today in the news I heard about a man beating his 20 month son to death and this subject came to mind.
I think that it wastes tax payers dollars. Most on DR are indigent and unable to afford sufficient counsel therefore they sit there for years because the public defenders offices are maxed past a breaking point.
We have too many being cleared from DNA testing and too many unable to get DNA testing done on their cases due to the expense of the testing.
In cases where there is 100% guilt...
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Why do guys like asian women?
As an american woman I think it is because they are for the most part more submissive in temperment and also are very beautiful creatures.
I agree with another poster in that a lot of men like the petite stature.. it makes them feel protective and somewhat powerful in their sex.
I watch how hardened american women act and even I get too overly independent at times.
With women over...
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How exactly would you describe David Letterman's humor? Is there any formal word to describe it?
Dry, brittle and boring
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What pops into your mind when I say Arkansas?
The same thing I think when I wonder about Montana.. there are those few states in which they must be very happy living in those states because I never see their tags here in Florida or meet people from there.
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Can midgets go to Heaven? And if so, will they still be midgets when they get there?
I highly doubt "flesh" means half as much in heaven as we allow it to here. Same goes for height.. etc.
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Does access to condoms prevent teen pregnancy?
No.
They give them out like candy down here but unfortunately we have more young women with low self esteem issues who abuse their bodies by having sex to please others and in a twisted way they see this as acceptance/love. They are more interested in getting the attention, albeit negatively, and feeling wanted than worrying over their safety.
My boyfriend who is pretty open-minded, has...
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Who's smarter..You or your significant other?
My SO .. which shows that women are not smarter =/
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Do you prefer an electric toothbrush or a regular toothbrush for your teeth?
I prefer to use the regular one.. .. the electric one sits and collects dust.
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With 100 of billions of starts in the cosmos isn't thinking that life happened here and not there the same as thinking that only one person would win the Powerball and no one else? That the jackpot would just rollover in perpetuity
Well.. I can tell you having read other posts to this answer that I do not have a fear of other forms of life on other planets.
I do not think they exist with absolute certainty. You can't show it and "science" after all this time, cannot either.
My belief on this subject is exactly that.. my belief in the Creator's words.. not the words of whimsical man or his science....
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What does it mean when a girl tells you "you have sexual insecurity"?
It means she is loose and you aren't? iono
Like another poster stated.. it is a means of manipulation that she is using to make you feel less about yourself when really the issue is how she is feeling about herself.
She probably has had too much experience.. became too desensitized and no longer knows the difference between intimacy and sex.
You can have the biggest cock on earth and...
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What are the things that you love and hate about your family?
I hated growing up and having to face reality lol.. that they are not as perfect as I thought and that they do not all get along as I thought.
My family has the different groups.. the family is divided through squabbles and pettiness.
Each year brings more distance and unyielding pride.
It sucks because it hurts the innocents the most.. like the younger ones and my grandmother who wants...
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Do you keep stuff under your bed?
No, I cannot stand stuff under the bed.
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Have you ever been on the computer for 24 hours straight?
No.. I do not know how anyone's butt could sit that long without going numb?
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Which do you like, Pepsi or Coke?
coke
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Has society lost most of its moral fibre due to individualism?
Due to individualism? No
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Do you ever just want to start over?
No.. I want to get to where I am going and mercy.. starting over would be exhausting.. better to make NOW work.
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How many of you pick your nose when no one is around?
I have but I prefer Qtips.. I can't stand touchin the things =X
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Whats the name of your favorite supermarket?
I love Winn Dixie but he likes Walmart or Publix
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Is it possible to only be bi-sexual when you are drunk? :-)
Nah, it just means you hide being loose when you are sober.
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Is night shift a nightmare for you? Is there a way to overcome it?
I worked it for about five years and it was great for me the first couple of years.
I really enjoyed it.
It fit my lifestyle and I have always been a nightowl so it suited me.. however, it does wear the body down faster and unless you are very self disciplined and maintain a regular exercise program and healthy sleep habit, it can effect your health negatively over time.
Maintain a good...
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Is it true that men cheat more than women? Based on your answer Please tell why you think so.....
I do believe men cheat more. They are much more sexually driven than the majority of women however, there are more women cheating nowadays than there use to be.
The last time I read someone type this type of answer I watched a bunch of loosey goosey women jump up to defend their hot sex drives and advertise.. well rest assured, I am not suggesting there are not some women who have just as...
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If you have a TV turned on, whats on right now, as you answer this question?
It is 7:10 in the morning and Bay News 9 is on
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I WANNA know When I will DIE ! ?....But how? Can someone tell me?
This reminds me of that old saying "be careful what you ask for".
You may think you want to know but the psychological warfare your mind would endure would probably do you in before the allotted time.
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Would you date a lebanese girl, or are they considered ugly?
I'm not a guy but this question just caught my attention. Lebanese girls are very pretty and I hope they do not think otherwise.
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I am a mother of 5 kids. there are 3 differant fathers. all of the fathers were working until 2 weeks ago. they were all payin support but not to me and i as well have 2 court orders and judgement lien one the other. i have asked my case workes over sever
Get a couple jobs and provide for your children until support comes through.
Get your tubes tied. Please
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What article of clothing do you like to take off first?
Whatever bottoms I have on.. scrubs, pants, shorts etc.
I hate wearing bottoms around the house.
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What gets you out of bed in the morning? (please don't say "my alarm clock")
My paychecks.. gotta keep em coming -=)
Wanted something deeper? We aren't always in deep moods but
off the top of my head tonight.. er.. life in general. It's so unpredictable that you want to see what's next.
-=)
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Which AB member would you miss the most if they never posted on this site again?
PrettyPirate ... she is the only person I've ever asked to be "friends" with on here so I would take it hard since she is my first ><
Nitroduck because I can come on here all PMSy and see his mellow answers and it humble me haha!
I have a small friends' list but I would miss them all because they are remarkable people.
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Do you have an alter ego on AB....Or is this just you? Personally...This is the realist me you'll ever see
It's me.. the good, the bad and the ugly. I am too lazy, impatient and uninterested in taking the time to create a false image. =)
I like your profile. I rarely like anyone's profile cause I am too lazy or uninterested but you seem to be "just you" lol
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Why is it when you got to go somewhere, and have to take a dump, when you wipe its always messier than usually?
Because you are not as relaxed and patient as you normally would be.. so you are wiping while some is probably still left in there and the tissue is catching it each time.
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Have you ever burned microwave popcorn in your microwave?
Yes and the smell lasted sooo long. It was horrible =X
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Is it a big if your partner is 40 and your 24 and have a child together
Why would it matter what others think? Much less complete strangers?
Obviously it is a concern if you feel the need to question it but I would suggest talking with your SO about this.. communication with them is way more productive than here.
I am sincerely not trying to be rude but when it comes to questions like this on personal relationships.. you would do better to look to yourself or...
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I am going to Kentucky this weekend(for one day)and plan to visit the lake as well...who'd wanna go with me?
I'm in! My brother lives in KY
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Is anyone alarmed by FEMA?
I am very thankful for FEMA.
They were very helpful when the hurricanes came at us one after another.
Why would anyone be alarmed? Like any big coorp there are crooked people but trust me.. those of us down here appreciate their services.
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Did you like Clint Eastwood's new movie "Grand Torrino"?
I LOVE Clint Eastwood! Loved the movie as well =)
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For any of you that have been cheated on and were unsure of whether to stay or go, do you have any advice on how to get over it?
I have the same answer I always have on this question.. do not look to a bunch of people on the net for your personal relationships. Talk things out.. sure but do not take all this stuff to heart.
Get some counseling and yes, a couple can make it past this and deeper after infidelity irregardless of what others think.
Unless you have someone who has made a habit of being unfaithful.. try...
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Would you assume that a Satanist is evil?
Yes. They cannot plead ignorance even if their excuse was to "fit in" or "fit out" to seek attention.
They are an abomination and worthless in my opinion.
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Is it bad to live together before marriage?
Having lived with a couple guys in long term relationships, I will tell you that it is not healthy and statistics clearly show that the majority of people who live together without being married, do not get married. You may not like that fact but I didn't make it up.. look it up!
Most of the time people just spin their wheels with each other for a while and then move on to newer things...
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What's your favorite part of your S.O.'s body?
He has amazingly strong looking hands and when he is naked he looks sculpted, cut and defined.
His feet are adoreable and while I was always a dark eyed admirer, his blue eyes are rather piercing.
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Would you say that you wear alot of bling?
No, hardly ever. Usually on special occaisions when I dress up.
I own some beautiful pieces but I have little desire to wear it. I am usually in a tank top and shorts.
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Is it reasonable, and fair to the other to ask for three days space in the first couple of weeks of a new relationship if you have been sharing daily for hours at a time?
I think it is highly reasonable and probably more healthy than spending so much time together.
People sometimes get wrapped up in the newness and overkill..you kinjda get burnt out by trying to fit learning each other all in so soon.
Take it slow. .. spend time apart and miss each other, anticipate the next time you see each other.. this will keep things fresh.. relaxed and more comfortable...
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So Im upset with a friend because I lent her a purse that i fought with her tooth and nail with, and lent it to her anyway to be nice. Now she is fighting me on giving it back? Ugh, what would you do? And has it happened to you with anything?
I will tell you what I would do .. I would let her know that if she feels good basically taking from you to give to herself then she is not the type of friend you want in life.
I would tell her to keep the purse (yea, I can imagine what you are thinking but I would do this) that it is just a material thing and obviously means more to her to give up a friendship by stealing for.
That will...
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Why do humans seek a sense of love when it can lead to such heartache?
I do not think we seek a "sense" of love but that we crave acceptance and the ability to love and be loved lies within us.
Our whole basis is love or it very well should be.
Heartache is something that can be experienced without the elements of an intimate relationship.
The loss of one in our life that we are fond of, the desire to create a comfortable box in our world filled...
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Should a family doctor refuse to treat a patient who has chosen to make themselves sick with their actions(ie: obese person, smoker, drinker, etc). Mine will tell you upfront he has no sympathy!
The doctors I have respected the most are the ones who refuse to continue giving care to a patient in which the doctor has given the patient the tools they need to turn their health around and the patient refuses to stick to the plan.
The doctor would never be able to achieve his mission with such a patient and it would be an absolute waste of time.
Now, if it were a new patient getting...
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Who is in favor of repealing all seat belt laws?
I support the this law. Driving is not a right, it is a privilege.
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Would you eat a human placenta for Fifty Million dollars?
No, it is considered cannibalism in the Bible.
I have enough sins to answer to without adding one so unnecessary.
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Are you offended by the use of the word "retarded" as an insult?
Uh. no it does not offend me.
I use the word and I have to be honest and tell you that if it offends you then you are looking to get offended for no reason.
If a person makes a comment regarding a disabled person.. any type of disabled person.. in a degrading way.. that is offensive but not people using the word retarded who are not trying to offend the disabled. That is looking for...
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Whis is better comedys or horror movies?
Comedy
The older I get.. the less inclined I am to watch horrors at all.
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If someone was holding a gun to your head and told you to write on the computer that you hated AB - would you do it or just let them blow you away?
Uh.. if someone was holding a gun to my head over AB I would know right off they were one crazy fool and I couldn't type I hate AB fast enough.
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Why is stupidity so annoying?
I think we just do not like our own kind of "stupid".
None of us are without that flaw at one time or another.. or another... but we like our own kind. =)
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Being relativley new to (AB), why do people all of a sudden want to be your "friend"? Is it safe? I am finding that as soon as I start adding 'friends" I am getting DRed left and right in my Q&A.
I would hope your newfound "Friends" are not DRing you.
It does not seem likely.
Probably someone having a bad day and acting out.. trying to bring others down to the low level they are at. Ignore them and uncheck your ratings so you never see it.
I have been here a while and have very few "friends". I am rather proud of the ones I have and love their minds. There...
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Do you have one word to describe me? (You can try and offend me all you want but the word b***h will only be taken as a compliment.)
Don't know you. You could be a great person. I think any female who is ok with being called a bitch is probably on the hard side because it is ignorant to accept degrading names and be "ok" with it all because they want represented as a hardass.
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Does your dad wear an earring?
No, Thank God.
He does however, have a tat of a naked mermaid down the length of his arm in which he is not as impressed with having gotten now that he is a senior lol
For some reason.. earrings, necklaces and rings (unless a wedding or class) on men are a turn off to me.
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When are male kittens old enough to be neutered?
Oscar, our little furball of delight was just neutered at the local SPCA. They asked us to bring him in before his balls dropped.
He was three months old and he is doing beautifully.
It is much easier on the males than females and it was hard keeping him still.
They asked us to keep him quiet for ten days and sent us home with antibiotics and pain med in syringes.
Uh.. he was up and...
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How long will you wait for revenge?
I have always believed the best revenge is to forget.
There is nothing more insulting to someone who has deliberately wronged you than for you to completely act as if it was nothing and move on away from it.
Getting even is for the spiteful hearted.. the very type of people who you are supposedly offended by.
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Will you state two truths and 1 lie about yourself? Don't say which is the truth and which is the lie and I will try and guess. :)
I am a Guardian Ad Litem for abused and neglected children with the State of Florida
I am a Peer Counselor for teens at summer camp
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Does your mother have a tattoo?
No, it was done in her day but she wasn't into it.
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If a guy picks to be with another girl over you, does that mean she is prettier than you? My self-esteem is at an all time low. The guy I got involved with chose to be his ex gf who cheated on him while drunk cuz she got counselling over me.
It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with her and his unresolved feelings for her. Those feelings came before you and that is why she has a hold on him still, his heart is hers.
It hurts, it makes you question yourself but it really is more simple than you might be making it.
I am sure he cared for you and wanted it to work but his deeper feelings are for her.
Good luck...
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What's one sound that bothers you?
Train horns.. loud and annoying .. I associate them with bad things happening when their horn blows and no one can hear what else is going on.
Must have been a scary movie I watched when I was younger but I hate being stopped at the train tracks and that horn running right through me.
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Should i go to a Music Fest tonight to escape problems? Will they be as strong in the Am?
Yep, a much healthier thing to do is to stay active and give your mind a break from tormenting you.
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I'm back. Did you miss me?
Yep, we did
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Did you know that it is impossible to kill yourself by holding your breath?
Yep.. just like the old saying you can swallow your tongue.. no, you can't. You can suffocate if it has swollen or possibly not even swollen but the person is unconscious and not able to keep it moved from blocking the airway. Laying a person on their side so that their tongue is not blocking their airway is always the smart thing if a person is not with it.
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What questions are you most likely to skip over?
Questions in which I do not know the answer .. or at least cannot think of anything that seems like it will pass as a fitting answer lol
I totally ignore:
Finish this sentence kind of questions
What is on page such n such of the nearest book (are you freaking kidding me?)
I say ___you say ___ (again, are you kidding me?)
What is the nearest red (any color) item near you
I...
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My dog is bitting at his tail and hind legs often what coses this and what do I do?
Sounds like either allergies (they can be allergic to flea bites btw), skin irritations and/or mites because they usually effect primarily around the hind legs and tail.
They will gnaw themselves raw. It could be a breakdown in the immune system and is usually found in mixed bred dogs the most because their system is already compromised due to the mixed breeding.
My oldest dog is 13 and...
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Why do You think is that You are straight or gay ? What makes You the way You are?
Gotta disagree with you on the issue that you do not think I (we or whatever)was born straight.
I do not believe anyone is born gay. Sorry, but I do not. I am not anti-gay but I do not believe people are born homosexuals.
Yes, I do believe we are taught waaay more than people wish to accept in our early years but as a God loving woman, I do believe we are born straight and make the choice...
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If You would suddenly felt attraction to a human being of same gender how do you think would that make You feel?
The "suddenly" throws me off. It is like you are walking and all of a sudden you look down and see you have grown a third leg?
I do not feel "attracted" to the opposite sex as in I want them or feel any emotion towards them other than they appeal to the eye. I can admire perfect breasts on a chick and a perfect ass but want it or get hot over it? No.
I think all of us...
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Do you think our prayers gonna be answered....?
I have seen many prayers answered but I have to admit that I am more thankful for the ones that went unanswered.
Some of the things I have encountered or wanted in that moment.. while seeming important at that time.. came to be nothing later.
I see a lot of people thinking God will answer all prayers and make things all better.. I do not believe that is how it is supposed to be at all.
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Doctors recommend 30 minutes of exercise/activity a day. What exactly counts towards that goal?
Cardio is the most important. Over building muscle .. over any of it.
Do some power walking, inclined treadmill walking, regular biking or stationary biking.
Get that heart pumping and then work on the rest.
Habits are hard to break.. change is even harder but once you get yourself a routine.. you will not want to give it up.
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Child is 4mths old started having wierd thoughts the week that i started my period then came the cryin cause i was scared an now i'm having anxiety i think this is postpartum but i think the anxiety started first has this happened to anyone else........
It sounds very much like PP. A lot of women feel ashamed and unnatural when they start experiencing these types of symptoms and it prevents them from seeking help. That is the saddest part.. because it is a very natural thing to go through and yet some see it as a horrible thing like they are a bad person.. that is not true. What you are experiencing is NORMAL!
There is nothing wrong with...
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The Family / Children of God - International cult, or legitimate Christian Church?
Cult in itself means "system of religious beliefs" and some can be unorthodox but aren't many unorthodox to others who do not share those beliefs?
It is just another man-made word like "religion" to be used as a tool to poke and prod others who do not share our thoughts and beliefs - my opinion.
If you have a guy who gathers a group of people lost and seeking...
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Have you been a member on AB for more than 2 years?
Yea, I just looked and I joined at the end of 06'.
My badge is low because I just cannot see sitting at this pc all the time. My butt would hurt terribly.
I envy strong butters haha!
I am pretty lazy about coming online regularly. Down time is precious so when I have it, I am usually outside with the dogs, fishing or in the pool.
My friends' list is small and probably always...
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Pls help. I'm finding hard to live & work with my dad. He gets uptight pretty easy & every day ends with me crying. I want to quit badly but I want him 2 b proud of me. I'm trying. pls give me some tips on how 2 work faster. I'm his personal assistant.
I think he would respect that honesty you are showing us. Be honest.. make the change and it may very well strengthen your relationship after you have moved on away from the unhappy situation.
Best of luck
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What is your perspective on patriotism?
I am not very patriotic. I am grateful for my freedom and appreciate the way of life here but I am not anti another country. I guess I do not see judging people based off where they live.
I could have been born in some third world country where that way of life is all I knew and would not want people hating me for being who I would have been had I been born elsewhere.
I think patiotism is...
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Is it raining where you live right now? where is it?
I am in Florida and it is lightning outside and you can faintly here the thunder .. but no rain as of yet.
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Rush Limbaugh says, "Obama throws like a girl". Well I think Rush cries more then a little boy who just fell of his bike and scrapped his knee! What do you think?
I agree with Rush.. sorry, but I do. =)
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What topic are you tired of hearing about in the media?
Peoples personal lives.
It is in our face day after day because obviously that crap gets them ratings so obviously.. MANY people want to watch it.
It is sad that our entertainment is usually the misery of others and our enjoyment is in escaping our own personal lives into the lives of those on the tube.
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In regards to this question http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7120917
so all because I'm suicidal I'm a liar? I wont even begin to write a novel about how he/she twisted my commentary/question ...
I think putting out questions that pinpoint another poster or posters is childish and unnecessary.
I would think the better way to go about this is to address the person you are referring to in the comments section and if they do not respond, move on and stop beating the subject to death.
You may not agree with the answers you get but calling someone out or making a "scene" about...
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Make me feel better about this aging process, please! How much has YOUR body been creeking, cracking and crunching lately?
Aaah.. a question I can relate to.
I have.. let me count hold please..
six little bunches of wrinkles between my breasts. I mean GET FREAKING REAL! I have small breasts and they wrinkle in the middle of them? What a joke! Aren't you supposed to have like lots of loose skin to wrinkle? I have measle bumps for breasts..not full, richly skinned areas.. so whats the damn deal?
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What was your first real "desktop" computer?
It was a gateway and to this day I am still highly impressed with them.
When I received it.. it came with so much extra stuff.. goodies .. that I bought another two years later.
It did not come with even half the goodies but the quality was still very high.
Then I went to dell and I am less impressed.
Gateway might not have been "cool" to many people but I could not have...
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What angers you about other drivers the most? Have you ever shown them what a bird looks like?
I am not quick to anger anymore over rude drivers.
I use to be.. bigtime. I had someone cut me off once to the point that I slid all crazy in the grass.. they were young and stupid.. It scared me so bad that I saw red and wanted to kick ass.
I made sure to let them know about themselves and sure.. I probably scared them right back because I was freaking psycho over how they had scared me...
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What is the most ridiculous name that you've ever herd a child named?
Passion, luscious and Desire.
I am sorry but I think they are not only inappropriate names to stick on a child but it is ignorant for a person to think this loosely over their child's name.
If having a kid means them being the object of getting YOURSELF attention.. give the kid up to a better home. Giving them porn star names to represent yourself is downright trashy.
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How can you tell if your boyfriend finds another girl attractive?
If he is alive.. he will find other women attractive.
It is natural and healthy.
What is not healthy is to be threatened by this. If you are (not saying you are), there is either a trust issue or your self esteem is beating him up unnecessarily.
I know when I was younger I would allow my self esteem to beat others up haha. I laugh because looking back I feel silly because I would get all...
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What sounds speak to your soul?
Thunderstorms.. rainshowers... strong winds.. sounds of nature in general feel good to me
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Do you believe that people who are friends with benefits are really friends? Why or why not?
Before they have sex? Yes. Afterwards? No, I do not. I speak from personal experience.
Quite a long time ago, a friend and I who were roommates let a lonely night turn into something more.
On other occaisions this happened throughout our friendship so it may have been four or five times.
In the end.. sex did nothing more than ruin a perfectly good, healthy and great friendship.
Sex...
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What is the best breed of dog to have as a pet?
I am an avid dog lover and owner.
I have had dogs as pets all of my life and I can give you great advice on this I think..
I would refer you to do a little research at http://www.akc.org/index.cfm?nav_area=homepage
The American Kennel Club gives you great details about each breed to help you find a compatible canine pet for YOU..
You cannot just label one breed as the best pet...
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If you had to give up the most important thing in your life or die would you give it up
I guess I would have to die because what would be the point living without the most important thing to me?
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If you went camping with youre partner in the mountains, would you wear pajamas to bed or sleep naked in the cold?
We go camping a lot but moreso in the cooler weather.
We sleep the same whether at home, in the woods or on the water. Skin to skin.
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What was the first "naughty movie" you saw?
"My Tutor" was the first movie I saw that I considered naughty and snuck to watch behind my parent's backs.
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If you have the chance to be invisible, what will you do?
I cannot lie.. I would act childish and love it. I would not hurt anyone .. too bad haha or cause bad things.
I would go to public places and do crazy stuff..
Smack the back of someone's head when they were walking .. alone.. haha
Watch someone set their garbage container by the road and when they started walking away.. start walking it back with them.
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I have fallen in love with this girl but i am married ive told her how ive felt but i didnt go to well so when i spoke to her the next day i told her to forget about what i said should i have done this or should i tell her again?
KUDOS to the girl who wasn't having any of your shit!
It restores faith to see someone do the right thing and turn your ass away.
Now go home and tell your wife you are a weak and shallow man and let her find a strong man who can fight the weakness of flesh and be a good man to her.
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What are the dos and don'ts of an office romance?
Do decide that you don't want to do this.
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Would you consider buying into a mortgage with a friend?
No.
I have seen it about three times and it never worked out between those friends.
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Have you ever tried the UNFRIED of KFC yet? If yes what do you think of their new grilled rescipe?
Not as good as the original recipe in my opinion.
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Would you attend a Michael Jackson memorial if it was help close by?
Probably not. I enjoyed his music. Think him innocent of any indecent acts but was not into him or any other musician enough to go to a memorial.
Live concerts.. for sure but not memorials.
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How do you go from holding a grudge to not holding a grudge?
Holding a grudge only hurts you. It hurts you emotionally, mentally and can very well hurt you physically from the stress of it.
You are doing yourself no favors by holding that negative in.
The best gift you can give yourself is forgiveness to others.
We should all be more picky in deciding which rocks we want to pick up and carry.
We need to make sure we can carry what we put in and...
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I am a 23 year old woman. Should I move to Florida and get married to a 53 year old guy?
If you want to marry a man that you only have to put up with for about ten to fifteen years before you are either burying him or carting his ass off to a nursing home.. Go for it! but as for moving to Florida..
I advise against it.
I live here.. it sucks.
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Did you ever go to summer camp as a kid? Was it a pleasant experience? What was the attitude of the counselors?
I loved it. I went for a summer when I was young.
The counselors were very nice and a lot of fun.
It is funny that I see this question because not too long ago it was brought up and all I could think is.. I hope summer camp is still the same way it use to be.
Friendly, fun and carefree for all.
Sometimes a smell will remind me of summer camp and it takes me back to that time.
We did...
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Do you think there is going to be a war inside America any time soon againts our goverment and between all of us going at each other?
No, too many people are comfortable with those blinders on.
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I'm shocked by all the posts I see from people who are contemplating suicide and want to know the most painless way to go about it. Can anybody give me some good ideas of what is the best way to help somebody online who says they want to end their life?
Ignore them. They are wanting attention and have no problem bringing you down to achieve this.
Having you feeling sorry or even desperate for them makes them feel important and again, they have no problem with that.
It is sad because we truly have people out there who contemplate taking their own life but for the most part.. you have pathetic, lazy asses on here wanting attention regardless...
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How long should someone wait to "sleep" with someone, when each of the two people have had such a strong desire for each other upon meeting and continuously attraction ever since?
Sorry, but that is for you to decide and only you know what you feel.
If you do not feel in control of yourself, don't do it. If you want something to happen, do it.
Why "sleep" with someone with those issues between you unless you are wanting something to happen?
If you are not mature or of age to be making this decision then wait until you can.
I get needing help with...
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Are you a fan of George W. Bush?
I am not a fan nor am I anti-Bush.
We have had other presidents who did not do the job as well as people expected and they were gossiped about and trashed just like he is now but life goes on.
What we have on our hands now is way more severe. People just do not see it yet.
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Can or bottle?
I like coke in a can and the rest can be in bottles.
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What is one quality you wish you could possess?
More than anything I wish I were more humble. I am embarrassed that I fail so much in trying to be.
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What's the smallest yet annoying thing that made you realize you could not go on a second date with someone
I cannot stand to see men with long nails or bitten to the quick nails.
It turns my stomach.
My bf has working man's hands. You will find grease or some mystery under his nails sometimes. I love them but the long finger nails are nasty and the bitten to the crust nails are ick.
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What would you do if a fellow passenger started to get undressed on an airline flight?
I do not care if they were attractive or not I am going to sit right there and watch the show unfold without becoming part of it by getting involved.
The attendants will handle it I am sure but until they do it, imma watch.
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What is a no contact order?
It is an order from a judge not to contact the person listed in the order.
You are not to call them, visit them or send someone in your stead to visit them.
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When being seated at a restaurant should the man lead and the woman follow, or the woman lead and the man follow, or should the man take the woman's arm and escort her to the table?
I think the man should lead. He is able to choose where he will sit and pull out her chair for her.
Usually, when you see a woman leading, they often turn to seek out where their dinner mate would like to sit or seek for some confirmation.
A man's lead is usually more steady and sure.
I get slammed for this all the time but in this world I am not surprised, but I do not believe...
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A Christian friend of mine (over age 60) tells me that he's had a dream where he sees Jesus in his hallway with his arm extended (as if to take his hand) and he says, "Come with me; it's time to leave." Is this a foretelling of his own impending death?
I am not going to presume to know whether it has a spiritual meaning for him or not (meaning, who's to say it wasn't a communication with the Creator directly?).
I would guess that it could be from a moment in his thoughts when he contemplated his life or death and came out in his dreams.
Maybe his desire to meet the Creator?
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Is anyone else looking forward to the 'bruno' movie?
Not at all. I just made the comment to my boyfriend when I saw the advertisement about how ridiculous the guy seems and the fact that something like that sells for entertainment should embarrass the hell out of us.
I find him absurd and will not see it.
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Wife had affair but wants kids, alimony & child support, house, car & dog!. My friend wants advice, any ideas?
Lawyer up and he will be fine on the alimony I believe.
She forfeited her rights when she committed adultry.
As far as the house, kids and the dog.. women usually get all that but I would make a valiant effort for the dog.
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Do you know, or are you, a compulsive liar? What do you lie about? Big lies or small lies?
Yep.. a few.
One of my uncles is like that.. he will tell you he sent the first email back in the 70's. He will tell you that he invented spanish tile roofing.. he will tell you a story that you know he is lying about because you were there and can remember exactly what happened.
It is quite uncomfortable to stand there and have someone telling a story that you know is not true.
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Have you ever successfully communicated with a deaf person, in person, about anything?
Yes, my cousin is deaf and I have known sign language my entire life.
How could anyone be unsuccessful at it? People communicate less with words anyhow.
Body language, facial expressions etc.
My cousin was sent to a private school and there can be a big difference in those who were schooled by professionals than the ones left to wing it.
Irregardless, communication with a deaf person is...
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Anybody else having fun reviewing all the back-and-forth arguing about whether MJ has actually passed yet? I mean, it's sad, but people get pretty defensive.
I say let em have it but I am not going to pick on what is sensitive to others just because it is not to me.
I think every single one of us gets defensive over things that would allow others to poke fun at and I do not see the fun in picking on others.
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Can past abortion's prevent a young woman from having kids in the future?
Yes, there are some women who are not able to have children but before you pull up a fanatical site.. know that it is a small portion and usually do to some other condition the woman may devleope seperate from the abortion or in rare instances, botched abortions usually not done by professionals.
The majority of women do go on to have other children. That is a fact and can be looked up...
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I am dangerously underweight and am concerned because I was recently sick and lost 4 pounds. I don't want to visit my doctor, I don't want to go to a hospital. What should I do to regain some weight healthy and fast? I'm trying to avoid medical attention?
As a nurse I am going to tell you that you should see a doctor. You may want to avoid it but taking the low road is not always the safest way.
They may give you supplements that can help you if they find no underlying issues.
Good luck and please.. steer clear of the net for health related questions.
You can get lost in misguided advice. Unintentional but not wise.
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Ladies would you go bisexual for angelina jolie?
I am not kissing no woman on the mouth. It is unnatural in my opinion. For me anyhow.
I am not licking no chick's cooter. Sorry, but unlike the male population vaginas are just not appealing to me.
They pee, they bleed and it is just guts with hair around it.
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Is it wrong for me to consider myself more supreme to humanity?
I do not think it is wrong as much as inaccurate but
if you want to believe that.. that is your business.
It has nothing to do with me.
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Why do people refuse to accept that celebrities who lived lives of rebellion against God will end up in Hell? What would it say about the holiness of God if He made exception for them because of their earthly fame?
This right here pisses me off.
I am a believer in Christ and when I sit and watch so called "believers" tell others they are going to hell I just shake my head.
The bible teaches to witness in love. Not this frothing at the mouth type crap.
We are ALL sinners. Even you. How can you sit and point the sins in others???
Witness His love for us. Witness His ways without accusing....
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How do you really feel about Oprah?
I am not big on her at all. I do not watch her and probably never will.
I do have respect for what she does for children in other countries. I found it sad that she stated she would not start schools here because basically a lot of americans would not be as eager or desperate to make full use of the schools. I agree with her.
I think that as a black woman she has worked hard to be where...
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Ladies,...How do you feel when guys check out your boobs?
I am not top heavy but I do not like people staring at my personals. I like to be smiled at and flirted with but I do not like someone oogling me in places that are intimate.
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Does wearing sunglasses make you feel more self-confident?
I wear sunglasses almost everyday, weather permitting.
I never wear them over my eyes but on top of my head pulling my bangs out of my eyes.
My bf thinks I am retarded but I truly cannot stand tinted glasses over my eyes. I feel confined and do not feel like I am taking everything in.
Doesn't make sense to me either it just is that way.
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Name one positive trait of the person you like least that you know.
He has a great sense of humor
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Which boys' name is your favorite? Addison, Adam, Aidan, Alex, Andy, Andre, Anthony, Aries, Ash, Asher, Ashton, Ashby, Audric, Austin, Aaron, Avery, Adrian, or Allen?
Andy! My brother's name is Andrew and we call him Andy.. I love that name -)
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Do you or have you lived in a small town? How did you deal with the drama? Did you move away as soon as you could or do you still live in the small town?
Pilot, North Carolina.
We had two gas stations and the street I lived on was named after the family that took up most of the road.
Yes.. a lot of small town gossip but I miss that place still.
Carlise Road.. I miss it
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My girlfriend of 6 months has asked me if I would mind her meeting up with her ex. The answer is yes I do mind- She has betrayed my trust on 3 occasions with the same guy that she left to be with me! I'm totally confused- Do I let her?
It is not a matter of letting her. You should not control her. Not saying you do please understand that.. but a lot of times when we feel threatened and do not want something to come along and rip apart something special we have.. we tend to grab it tighter, choking it.
Do not do that. You owe it to yourself to sit back and watch the decisions she is making in the life you two share.
She...
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Women: would you divorce this guy? Good father, good provider, kind and loyal, but you feel neglected due to his working very long hours running a business.
Yes, I probably would and do not support divorcing.. but then I do not support infidelity either so.. the choice would be divorce.
Seems the man puts more faith into money and not his family.
We all have to work.. we all have to sacrifice .. but when you leave your woman lonely and fullfill other duties but the one that should come first.. ah.. I would have to be lonely without him than...
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I feel no sympathy to Michael Jackson because I find the out of court settlement dodgey. Am I bad?
I do feel sympathy for him. I believe he was a very sick man.
If you have been through the court systems as deeply as he and others, you will learn that it is not true that settling means guilt in many cases.
A lot of people say " I would never have settled if I was innocent". Easy to say when you are not being ball busted through that system.
I do not believe he molested kids...
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I think it is disgusting how people are already making jokes of Michael Jackson now he has passed, instead of mourning and recognising him as one of the greatest peformning artists of all time who set a standard for others to follow. What do you think?
People are going to be nasty about all sorts of things and against others. That is life.
I read some people who have training with pedophiles state they believe he was guilty, I, myself, have training in that area and can state that I do not believe that he did.
I believe the lifestyle he lead from a very young age, the pressure of being black, mental illness recognized but ignored...
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What makes Michael Jackson a true legend?
He was an amazing singer who crossed threshholds.
Black, white.. people all over loved to listen to him.
He was truly talented.
I am sure the newer generations are like "huh? him?" because they are growing up with their own different tastes and preferences but in my very early youth he was one of the greatest performers ever.
I hope he finds the comfort he so desperately...
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What would happen if separation or divorce were not allowed?
Less hasty and senseless marriages. Stronger families, less emotionally traumatized children.
Less money to be made in family counseling offices.
Less kids on the streets, being raised by the streets.
Will it eliminate all probs? Nope, but it would help more than hinder.
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What wouldn't sell on eBay?
You know.. I think another poster stated dirty socks but I can tell you that I was browsing eBay for something.. I cannot remember what now but indeed, they sell used socks!
It is crazy! I do not know if people desire used socks or for some type of kink or what but some even had holes in them! haha
I do not think there is much within the limits accessed by eBay, that would not sell.
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What's a word you pronounced wrong when you were a very little, and now, years later it's a big family joke?
I never could say beautiful so I would say bootiful.
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Have you ever gone tubing? Where was your favorite tubing experience?
We go tubing three or four times a month.. give or take at times when we either have things around the house to do or whatnot.
We absolutely love it! If this ? upgrades I will go take pics of our tubes when the rain dies down.
My bf tries to kill you when you are on so most people want me driving =)
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Could you share your husband/wife with another. trading off days living in the same house, just to be able to keep them in your life because they have fallen in love with another and still say they love you?
No, I could not.
I have watched very close friends bring in a third party and I have never seen it bring good results.
I have watched it lead to not only divorce but violence from otherwise mellow people.
As people look for new kinks and ways to keep that die hard passion they lock out the true value of intimacy and rob themselves.
In their later years when the libido dies down, the...
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In general, do you think stand-up comics have gotten better or worse over the years?
Better. They flow with how things our now and life as it is.
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To what degree (if at all) do you feel guilty about things in your life?
I do not know that it can be measured in degrees but I do know that if I allow myself to dwell on negative thoughts, I will feel negative and produce negative around me.
Everyone has made screw ups.. if you are continuing to do so, then you must want that in your life.
If it is in regards to past transgressions, looking backwards, truly keeps you from moving forward.
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Do you consider someone smoking in a public place assault?
I think that nonsmokers should be able to go into a public place and not have to inhale the ciggy smoke of others.
I think smoking outside (not right by an entrance door) is acceptable.
It is not just the harm of inhalation.. it stinks. Assault on the nose yes. lol
I do not allow smoking in my home but I smoke cigs.
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Im off out tonight for drinks with my friend, a guy i fancy will be there... what should i wear?? Cute and simple or sexy and boobs out?
Cute and simple. Not the boobs out gimmick.
Let his mind wonder about what lies beneathe .. while his eyes and ears take in getting to know who you are, not what your flesh looks like.
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What are your thoughts, regarding a police officer tasering a 72-year-old great-grandmother, and his superiors CONDONING such reprehensible action? He could have easily placed the cuffs on her without doing that, but was too lazy.
While some officers would have let her go and chose to put such effort into someone else.. I support this officer.
I am failing to understand what is reprehensible?
Being 72 years old does not make you exempt from the law much less make you exempt from following the orders of a LE officer.
He gave her many warnings and she continued to disobey and try and manipulate the officer by using...
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What country songs are good to listen to while making love?
Alabama "When we make love"
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Why would a guy come on strong and romantic for 3 weeks and then suddlenly without warning say, this isn't going to work?
You should really ask him and let him know you can deal with it but you are just curious about it and do not understand the mixed signals. Putting him at ease will help him not act a coward and avoid telling the truth. Just let him know that only he knows what went wrong and for future reference you would like to know to avoid the misunderstanding again with someone else.
It could be many...
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How to keep my cat clean??she's driving me crazy
They have wonderful products at the pet stores now that you can rub em down without water!
They still make a fuss but not near as badly as if you bring out the water!
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Are hairscarves sexy?
I remember quite a while back seeing this dark haired woman who had this beautiful scarf wrapped around her hair and she looked so soft and feminine.
I think it is sexy and envy women who can pull it off.
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Do you prefer to shop with someone or by yourself?
It depends.. if I am in the mood to make a day of it then I want a friend with me to chatter with and eat with.. if it is just a brief trip.. then I would rather go alone and get it over with quicker.
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When is the last time you walked your dog?
The doggie door was installed so that they could walk themselves in the back yard.
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Do you like goofy humor or witty humor? What about bodily function humor?
I like most all humor.. anything keeping people smiling and laughing is awesome.
I am not into bodily function humor outside of home or whathaveyou.
If I am going to drop ass.. it is not going to be in public.. that is not funny to me.
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Why do meat eaters always compare their act of killing a cow/pig/fish/chicken to the act of killing a carrot for justification of their actions?
I am a meat eater and have never felt the need to justify it to anyone much less compare it to uh killing a carrot? So that whole why do we ALWAYS.. well, all of us do not.
When I chomp down a burger, I do not have to justify it to anyone. I eat it and go about my business and expect others to do the same and not have to justify what we eat to each other.
What I eat, does not make you fat.
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Sexiest male accent? I think either Irish or Scottish...
A good ole country boy accent
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I 've a hard time building strng relationships with women. I am a woman. Over the yrs I've tried to get together with friends from work, but it seems I'm alwys the one suggesting we do something. Wht does that mean? Why dont they initiate gettng togethr
Life has gotten so busy that finding time to have get-to-gethers has diminished.
I would not take it personally. I am sure they are caught up in life and the free time that they do have is delegated out elsewhere.
You have to find women seeking the same as you.
Having girl time restores us. We learn from one another and teach one another. I think as we get older we value a close...
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Is it cheating to have conversation and coffee with a friend that you had a brief relationship with. My boyfriend broke up with me because I met this man for coffee and lied about it because he is so extremely jealous.
There is just no way to condone the lie.
You allowed that meeting to mean enough to lie to him and you cannot blame it on his jealousy/insecurity.
If you are with someone who has a jealous bone.. the best thing to do is to be honest and not allow them to control your life with their jealousy .. you should not feed it like you did.
You say friend but in reality it is an ex and you lied...
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More sisters sexually molest younger brothers than visa-versa. Why is this? Seeing male genitalia? Curiosity? Because female bodies are shown more in media and their need to see males? I think it is all of the above.
Could you please provide a link showing where you are getting this information?
Sorry, but I have always heard the opposite is true.
They are still reporting a way more percentage of males doing the molestations than female
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Need advice for neighbor etiquette and how to deal with unspoken problem. See inside question for explanation. Thank you
I have had the same neighbors for almost ten years behind me. Their back yard and mine meet at my chain linked fence.
He is about 60. I am friendly with his wife and family and we chat over the fence from time to time but not too much because it is at the back of our properties.
Twice in the past he has backed his farm equip or yard service trucks into the fence and I would make light...
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What scares you more--a hurricane, blizzard, tornado, or hailstorm (all on an equivalent scale)?
Since living in Florida.. Hurricanes have shown me that they are no joke and I WILL respect them.
They have something for your ass if they come.
Back home in North Carolina .. tornadoes showed you who was boss.
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Do you tip your trashman at Xmas? If so, how much?
I get so much enjoyment each big holiday when I give the mailman and garbage men their $5 dollar McDonald's gift cards haha.
If I am home I will peek through the blinds and I love to see them smile and look towards the house. It makes me feel good.
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Where would I most likely find you?
Fishing, riding the tube, planting flowers or romping with my pets in the yard.
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Should someone be forgiven if they are not sorry?
It took me a lot of growing up to do to learn this very valuable lesson.
Forgiveness is not just a gift you give another but yourself.
Yes, I believe we should forgive those who do us wrong.
Carrying the hardness in us about the issue drags us down and keeps negative feelings inside of us.
We move on much happier and content when we give forgiveness.
All of us fall short at times in...
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Why do all Popes,Bishiop's,and cardinal's all live like Kings?When Jesus came from His glory as a poor man,the pope is brought in on a throne,Jesus came in on a donkey.Jesus asked is the servant greater than his Lord?
Let me first say that I am not Catholic. I do not share their beliefs. However, that being said I was very much respectful of the late pope and had nothing but admiration for him.
I was very much in awe of his humility and love for mankind.
Aside from the beautiful robes and adornings they live more humbly than you obiously realize.
They dedicate their entire life to the Lord and that...
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Is gay marriage morally correct?
Even having read that anyone who shared with you guys that their belief is that it is immoral for two people of the same sex to marry, was either downrated or had unnecessary comments, I am still going to share my opinion because that is what this site is about.
Irregardless of the titty babies who cannot allow others their right to their own personal opinions without acting out but wants...
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Is it illegal to live together as a man and woman in the state of florida?
No, it is not.
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Is it better for me to be a "nice guy" or to just be a jerk(since it seems girls like them more anyway)?
The sentence "GIRLS like them more" said it all.
Girls like the bad boys.. the thrill and charge of a reckless man.
A woman wants a nice, confident and straight forward man, not a reckless bad boy.
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Do you ever do a "tune-up" on yourself? Check out your motives, attitudes, treatment of others to see if maybe you need a tweak here and there to be fair?
Yes, especially if I find my attitude has shifted.. whether by stress, laziness.. etc.
I work with people who are for the most part suffering in some way or degree.
I am a wound care nurse and the last thing my patients need is to feel my negativity in their own home.
I try to start out each day by =
choosing my attitude, not letting it choose me, making someone else's day and...
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Do you try to avoid confrontation/battles or do you say "bring it on"?
Offline, I could not tell you when the last confrontation I had was. It has definitely been years.
Not counting my boyfriend of course because that comes with the territory of cohabitating haha.
I can honestly say any confrontations I have had have been on AB haha so I suppose I will bring it on if I am in a pissy or spunky mood because the net is easier to vent within or the boundaries...
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Does anyone still use a clothes_line outdoors?would you put outdoors on a line panties or anything personal like that outdoors
Yes, I do and I love my line.
My house is down a dead-end country road and sets back off of the road so no one can see.
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What has been the key to making your relationship last?
Faith in God, lowering expectations of others and raising them for myself, finding my happiness in many things and not putting the burden on him to be the sole thing to make me happy.
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Are women more forgiving than men in their relationships?
I think some individuals are and not others.
I do not think you can pinpoint it down to the sex of people because we are all so unique.
I have seen it go both ways.
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What comes to mind when you think of " night crawler "
What I use to fish with sometimes ..biggo fat worms!
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In Bewitched who was hotter - Samantha or Serena?
Samantha was waaay hotter
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Driving along, it seems some people's houses are nicely landscaped, lawns mowed, exterior maintenance superb. Others look like Jed Clampetts' - lawn going to seed, paint peeling, junk cars here & there. Why don't some people take better care?
I do not think that all yards that are unkempt are due to them having lower standards.
Some people are struggling to put food on the table, some are handicapped and loved ones (or whoever) stopped offering them a hand to keep things up, some I am sure, get home late, rise early and barely have a life outside of work to provide for their family.
Some may have had to let the yard get the...
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Do you really believe that God cares if someone is gay?
Yes, I do. I do not agree with those who say He "Created" homosexuals.. well sure folks, He created us all but we choose how we live our lives.
I do believe homosexuality is a sin. I believe that it is wrong and immoral.
I do not believe God loves a gay person any more or less than He loves me. He loves us ALL because we ALL are sinners. Gay, straight, sideways. .. etc.
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Is today's music culture responsible for influencing young people to exhibit bad behaviour?
Soley responsible? No, but yes, it does play a huge part in contributing and continuing the downward spiral of morale. So does the t.v. shows now trying to outdo each other by pushing the limits on showing or allowing negative, sexual or innappropriate content.
Our news, radio programs etc.. all bottom feeders trying to rise to the top by crushing down our value as a society.
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Do you sleep in pyjamas or any nighty clothing? I don't.....I enjoy sleeping in my natural colour!
My skin
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What would you think if you found out your best guy triend was gay?
I do not think it is a healthy way of living but then I am not always right. haha.
I would love him no matter what as I would want him to love me no matter what I chose in life.
I could never imagine turning someone away because I do not agree with what they do if it is in regards to who they want to be with.
People may not always agree on who is right and who is wrong but it is not...
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Do you think Marijuana should be legal in the United States?
Yes
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Believers (any religion): What would it take for you to accept a prophecy of YOUR religion as false?
I have yet to see a prophecy of Christs' yet to come true.
I could predict it is going to rain three times in June and it rain more than three times.
Some will argue I was correct because it was at least three times, some would say I was wrong in that it did not rain only three times.
Anyone can predict and call themselves a prophet.
When they predict with 100% accuracy like...
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Do you sometimes have fires outside in your yard?
We have a burn ban going on so our pit has not been used in over a month but we usually do it about once a month.
Sometimes we skip a month but we enjoy sitting back there and goofing off late into the night .. mosquitoes permitting.
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Can you name two things you love that rhyme?
Stash and cash (stash is my oldest dog)
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Quick poll: How many of you believe a healthy woman carrying a healthy foetus at 8.5 months gestation should be allowed to electively abort it?
I am not sure where this is allowed but it is not allowed here in the states that I am aware of.
That is considered full-term.
I think it is heinous and sick to even contemplate doing such a thing.
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If you HAD to gain weight, what foods would eat the most of?
White foods cause weight gain.
Bread, potatoes .. starchy stuff.
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Which do you prefer Lemonade or Iced Tea?
I always have a pitcher of sweet tea in the fridge =)
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Between fully remembering and fully forgetting the Past, which ensures a better Future?
Forgetting the past. While our experiences help mold us into who we become.. we are here.. so live for now, not then.
Looking back keeps you stumbling forward.
Look forward and you actually get somewhere!
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Why won't my wife give me a BJ , yet she had no problem giving me friend one when I gave her a threesome?
Like Ec-nal is saying.. you should not be asking us this question but her.
Good luck.. usually couples who take their intimacy onto a playing field level.. things tend to go downhill. Not always (for the ones who will start their rants) but most do not make it.
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Do you believe in the healing power of the animals?
Yes, I do.
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What kind of car do you drive?
Nissan Altima
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Has your God in Childhood grew up with you or have you OUTGROWN him already?
He has been right there with me as I grow. He remains unchanged in that He has and always will be, my Father.
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Which names are gender neutral, can be either man or woman?
Ryan
I absolutely love it for a girl's name!
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Do you feel different about a 20 year age difference between a man & a woman depending on WHO is the older one?
What floats other peoples' boats is not my business.
As long as it is legal and consenting, to each their own.
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If a woman doesn't respect herself and throws herself at almost every man she sees, what does that mean?
I have a friend who is a loosey goosey. My bf cannot stand her and we have tiffs over his labels of her but you have to take a deeper look as to the reasonings why she is acting out sexually.
I see a low self esteem and the need for attention.
None of us are saints and while we may not sleep around we all have issues. I try not to judge people unless they are just jerks or cruel people.
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What popular phrases or words do you want to ban from existence?
Anything ebonics
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Which tees you off people who are fake or people who do not do what they say or the flat out liar ?? and why?
People who are fake do not bother me. I would rather someone be fake because most of the time they are acting in a way to convince you that they are sincere (when they are not).. so give me fake over rudeness any day.
People who do not follow through with what they say annoy me greatly. They are not reliable and it is a hassle trying to determine when and if they will do what they say. I...
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Do you have a particular thing that makes your day?
My pets! I am always in awe of how much love and joy they bring.
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Religious teachers, proselytisers, missionaries and church leaders should have police checks and psychological tests together with a required education standard before being allowed to deal with the young and the vulnerable. Do you agree?
No, I do not agree.
Those who are a threat to our children wear many coats and usually lead normal lives on the outside.
Tests such as lie detector tests are not always accurate, if even half the time. They are man-made and can be beaten by manipulative individuals.
You cannot judge one area of fields of employment.
We have had a couple cases within the past year of LE officers who...
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If you were offered a year supply of anything what would you want it to be?
Dog Food
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Do you like the sound of windchimes or find them annoying?
I love them. I like the bamboo ones.
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Are you picky with the perfumes you wear?
Yes, I am. I do not like overpowering smells. I like it to be faint but enticing. DKNY Be Delicious is my favorite!
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Do you prefer an ABer to use a personal photo or an icon or does it matter to you?
It does not matter to me. I tend to steer clear of those who show a bit too much (men or women).
I may be getting older and crotchedy but I never take them seriously.
I gravitate towards cute, comical or warm avs.
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What are some activities I can do with my boyfriend. We have really different interests and he's not into the usual, board game, cards, puzzle, dinner, things. He doesn't like to go out because he's a big germ-a-phobe so in home activites are the best.
I give my boyfriend pedicures. Mr macho would not be caught dead at a salon doing it but I have gotten him to start going for a massage but pedicure? No way.. unless he is at home where no one can see.
We do "projects". Whether it is planting stuff together or building stuff together in the garage.
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Is it racist if you say you feel more comfortable working with black children than white children? that you'd rather work with black kids than white kids?
I think people like bandwagons and soap boxes. All of us get on one at one time or another. However, on this topic you will have people screaming racist so loud.. just to gain popularity.
Racism is ugly and it is something someone is on the inside. Preference is preference.
I have to say though that I would work with any kid of any color because a kid is a kid.
I am not going to call...
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What is the best Nickelback song?
Savin Me
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Would you be okay with your (white)daughter comming home with a black man and introducing him as her boyfriend...???Please be honest...
If I had a daughter I would let her make her own choices regarding who she would like in her life.
I would never involve myself unless she dated someone who laid hands on her.
I do not have any desire to date outside of my race. I state this because I have read so many people tsk over the whole color of your skin issue and call people racist if they do not date outside their race.
I...
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What is your dads name?
Dallas
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What is the most difficult thing to find lately...?
Peace and quiet
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Seriously, who down-rates questions or answers, do you have enough guts to post your user name if you have done it, extra points to who fesses up to down-rating me? LOL.
I have never downrated you. If I did, I am sure I would have let you know. =)
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Negative tests, then i was bleeding for 4 days with bad pain and 3-4 weeks later i thought i had a pariod for 9 days it stoped today i seem bigger around the belly i should be 13 weeks if i am,i think i am pregnant tho, what do you guys think?
There is no way any person online can diagnose you online. No chance at all.
A guess may be right or it may be wrong but it is just that, a guess.
If you want to know what is going on go see a doctor and let them determine what needs to be done.
As a nurse I can tell you that many things have the same type of symptoms and your mind can trick you if you want it to. Notice, I typed if you...
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You sleep with you bestfriend. you are acting like a couple, doing things together, things for her, going out, going away for the weekend. but yet, you tell her you're not ready for a relationship and might never will. what is going on?
The person is being honest instead of leading you on.. They are telling you that even though you are spending a lot of time together, they are not ready for a committment.
Whether people see it as wrong or right getting the milk without the cow.. you have a choice in whether you can handle just this.
They have at least showed you respect in letting you know what they are willing to give and...
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My wife wants me to ask this question. Why do guys on My space or Face book or whatever not mention they have kids?
Some people do not want pictures of their children online for any reason. I do not have kids but my friend Melissa does not want her children's pictures online. She mentions them in her About Me but that is all she has.
Some do not do it for bad intentions I am sure but some do not do it because it is a place just for them.
Mothers and fathers are still people too and if they have a...
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What is your most favorite thing to do?
Relax with a good book on a beautiful day outside with the mutts curled up with me.
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Do you agree kids are ruder these days, and if so, what can be done about it?
Yes, I do and I doubt it will get turned around. I was reading the top 25 things that will no longer be around.. typewriters ..checks.. etc and customer service was on the list!!! No Lie!
http://tinyurl.com/dxxqrn
I think it will only get worse.. More and more women are working.. their kids are being raised by stressed out babysitters/friends/etc ..
More divorces.. more children going...
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Hmm, so somebody is going around, Marking EVERY single one of my answers down! Who would be so low as to do this? Has this been done to you?
Looking at your picture.. you are an adoreable looking chick. Very pretty. .. and I am a woman so feel safe in knowing I am not trying to pick you up ^^ but a lot of women hate instead of support other women due to their own insecurities and they are taking it out on you.
Do not sweat the pts. They do it enough and it will draw the right attention to get them in trouble with a mod.
You...
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Do you drink alcohol during the week or only during the week-end?
I rarely ever drink. I wanted to get started drinking a glass of wine here and there for relaxation but I cannot stand the stuff.
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Why do women close their eyes during sex?
So I do not have to see his cum face... it is horrible
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Which famous person, would you like to ask a question?
I would ask the Dog Whisperer how to train my hardheaded, stubborn and dominate chihuahua, Roxy.
=X
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What is your first name backwards? Mines giarc.
I'm Eillek, nice to meetcha ;)
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How do you deal with the uncomfortable,"What have you been up to" catching up conversation without depressing the other person when you are going throug a rough patch? Without telling lies.....
When that happens I just say something like "just living and doing the best I can. How about yourself?"
I do not want to bring anyone else down if I am going through something and usually the downers do not last as long as the uppers so why bring someone else down.
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I am a unhappily married, 48 year old male. Fell in love with a 21 year old woman who also loves me. Should I leave my wife, and take a chance on love even though the age difference is great.
You know what.. people sit and point fingers about the state of our world and you are probably one of them.
Marriage is not supposed to be what entertains you for life much less be responsible for your total happiness.
YOU are.
Your wife is not responsible for your unhappiness.
You are.
Seek out new experiences.. new hobbies..seek out positive friends who honor their marriages and...
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What kind of car do you drive?
Nissan Ultima and jeep wrangler
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Ladies, what would be the easiest thing a man could say to you to get at least a conversation with you? Guys if you want join in feel free.
Make me laugh.. that holds my attention.
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Why do people have to race to see who's car is better?
I think it's ego, along with a touch of fear and power. Straight up adrenaline.
An ex of mine use to love racing.. it gave him a rush.
Competing can get the best of us in different situations.
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Would you consider yourself prudish?
No I am not a prude. Insecure sometimes but that does not equate to being prudish.
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I think im falling in love with my boyfriend, and im scared if i tell him it might run him off. Should i just go ahead and tell him how i feel, because these feeling are driving me crazy being kept all inside.
I think you should tell him how you feel and if he does not return the feelings then it is better to know now instead of spinning wheels any longer.
Express your happiness in how you feel about him and hopefully he feels the same .. you never know unless you communicate, with him, not us.
Good luck!!
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Why do most men think they are never wrong about anything and say they never do any wrong
That sounds way more like me and I am a woman haha.
I think the shoe fits both sexes at times.
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Do you think answerbag sucks compared to Yahoo Answers?
No, I do not think AB sucks in comparison to YA.
I do not see how yahoo answers is user friendly. It is more of a hassle to use.
AB is user friendly and has a lot more features.
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What is your favorite all time movie and why is it your favorite?
E.T.
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If a guy puts his arm around your shoulder for 40 secs or so does he like you or is it just a friendly thing?
I would take it as a friendly thing unless he states otherwise.
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Do you believe we all have a soul?
Yes, I do and no, I do not believe in ghosts.
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I walk in on you showering ...what is the first thing likely to come out of your mouth?
The words I would say when I asked who you are are not appropriate to type.
I would not be pleased to have a stranger in my home uninvited while being caught vulnerable and unarmed in the shower.
A shampoo bottle would probably become a missle =X
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Do you think it would be helpful to have a separate AB (not just a category) for teens? I think it would be a great idea.
No, I do not think it would be more helpful.
I see more immature adults on here than I do teens and I welcome their refreshing ideas and opinions.
If Suzie online is really Frank offline can join and no one know.. then the same can be said for peoples' ages. We have no way of knowing who is honest or dishonest unless they are blatant about it.
This site is moderated and I think that...
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Does your significant other have to be attractive?
I have to find them attractive but that is definitely something that differs from person to person in regards to what we all find attractive.
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What's the most heartwarming word?
My name when spoken by someone in a way that is moving.
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Is it true that the US now have to call christmas "the holidays"?
No, we do not "have" to say one or the other.
Heaven help me if they try and run that one over like they did prayers in the schools.
It is quite simple folks.. if you do not celebrate/support it.. do not participate!
Stop trying to control those who do.
I say Merry Christmas and anyone offended by it .. well, they have a problem.
If someone celebrates a holiday I do not...
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How Would You Regard Your Him(husband) If He Told You to Abort A Pregnancy?
I would take time to sit down and talk with him because he is expressing to you that he does not have the desire to have the child.
I would be very badly hurt but I would give him an opportunity to talk about why he would want to take such an avenue and then discuss with him how I felt.
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My doctor told me this morning that "some Xanax dependency is better for your health than serious anxiety attacks". I find this advice disquieting, to say the least. Any opinions?
I do not find it disquieting and think your doctor gave you sound advice.
Those who find this advice disquieting or disagree may not be aware of the dangers of anxiety and they are quite high. The price to pay at times being death.
I am a LPN and I can tell you that knowledge truly is power when it comes to stress and how it effects the body.
A few years ago I was at work and blood...
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Do you think religious organizations should be required to pay taxes?
Why or why not?
They want seperation of church but then a lot of organized religions are becoming about greed and not spirituality.
Very good question.
I will have to say that at one point in time I would have said no..now.. I am uncertain but then I am not big on "religion".
I think I will still stick with no.
The corrupt.. that is between them and God... those who do His bidding and are for...
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Which Bible translation do you use? or prefer?
Any particular reason?
King James.
I believe it to be the word of God.. while touched by man over the years.. His word is clear to me.
I have read other books of worship. The new world translation, etc.. and never felt them to be the word.
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What does my avatar make you think?
You are handicapped and want to do a handicapped awareness thing on AB?
=P
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If you were involved with the death of a friend, would you truthfully turn yourself in, or would you try and cover it up and hide the body, or would you just act as if nothing happened and that you know nothing?
I would not cover up their death or hide the body. To do so would make me downright evil and inhumane.
If I gave my friend drugs and they overdosed I would notify the authorities at once and let them know that you suspect it is a drug overdose and refuse to answer any other questions until you obtain council, contact an attorney and go from there.
You are liable and while many people go out...
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Do you like your vegetables raw,steamed,boiled or grilled?
Raw
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Im 27, have been goin out w/ this guy for almost 3 months and I'm falling in love with him. Its to the point where I feel like I have to tell him but I dont know if I should. I also don't want to come off as though I'm moving to fast. What should I do?
Life is meant for living.
You have nothing to lose by telling him and possibly much to lose by not telling him.
If he has not told you he loves you then you have lost what by telling him? Nothing.
We should never be ashamed of love.. whether returned or not.
There is no rule of thumb or time restriction.
Your feelings are yours to share.. share them and if they are not returned...
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The Vatican has forgiven John Lennon saying the Beatles were more popular than they were.Does it normally take so long for a Christian org 2 forgive? I think that this label is in poor taste from a group that is supposedly all about forgiveness? you?c ans
This is a perfect example of why people really need to stop addressing one religion under the example of one setting. Lose the labels.
I do not see the catholics as following the Christian teachings.. obviously, some do.. just goes to show how man-made labels can seperate us and keep the ignorance alive. Christian is defined differently once it reaches the lips of man.
From my faith...
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I've just hired a housekeeper to clean my home 5 days a week, Monday-Friday. I offered her $50/day, or $250/wk. She says that's "underpaid" because of the size of my home. So what should I pay her?
Each person is different in what they want done irregardless of the size of the rooms.
If you are wanting detailed cleaning, maintainence .. deep cleaning.. a lot of detailed work.. this should be differentiated.
I agree with SaraMonster in that the hours and rate of pay should be fair.
I, personally believe it should be a higher rate of pay than just fifty bucks a day (who can live...
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At your current age: What are you starting to lose?
O God.. What am I not losing??
I am 32 years old and I am losing.. in no particular order..
My mind.. I cannot remember things long term or short term at times and it is frustrating.
My boobs.. They are leaving me.
I think they are having an affair with my knees because that is where they are headed.
My butt .. I believe it is having an affair with the backs of my knees because I...
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What percentage of AB'ers use the site mostly to help others?
I would say between 80% and 85%
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Who or what would you DELETE from your life if you had the choice..?
Satan and all his toys and ploys in life.. seriously. He pulls me down and I allow him to tempt me too much with things that really have no value in the end.
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In order from 1 to 4 prioritize things in your life?
My family
Pets
Friends
Job
I know for me.. I should put God first because without Him, I would not have any of the above but I struggle not with my faith but my flesh.
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My Girl is devoted & fantastic most of the time but looking at her history and messages, she's had many one night stands after large amounts of alcohol. This doesn't happen to me! i just fall asleep! Does Alcohol really have that affect on some people?
Alcohol loosens you up but it no excuse to be a loosey goosey.
She has done it more than once so that should tell you that she knows it can happen and just does not care.
If she has a continuing pattern of this then she is making the choice to lose control of herself and consequences be damned... she doesn't mind playing watering hole for the diggers if she is not looking out for...
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How can i hate my ex boyfriend
I never understood hating someone you once loved or was fond of. I do not hate anyone I have ever dated.. even if they hurt me.
I think all of us here on AB has been hurt by someone .. it happens, but you move on and away from the person so that they cannot continue hurting you.
Carry the good.. not the bad. The bad will just weigh you down and who wants to carry that around?
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When drunk, do you think it just loosens your tongue to what you really feel?
Someone once told me a drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts but that came from someone who loved drinking and being out of control.
I think it unleashes a part of us that we should keep under control.. it is our dignity we lose when we get loose lipped.
We tend not to care that some things should not be said or done when we lose ourselves in drink.
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If Hillary or McCain would have had a white church pastor that preached the kind of hate-speech Obama's pastor did, they would have been crucified... ....But the issue was almost completely avoided with Obama......Why?
I have to say that I did not vote for Obama. I was for McCain.
However, I am just so over reading the veiled hatefulness on here.
As a white woman I was very moved to look out and see so many people of different skin colors banned together in support of such a cause.
All races voted for Obama and made this about WE the people.. not those people and you people but WE. All of us.
Skin...
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Do you use the "F" word frequently or do you save it for a real good zinger?
I am not big on saying the F word at all.. much less seeing another woman saying it.
I think it makes us look ugly and manly.
I watch women say it all the time and it totally makes them look ugly.
I watch women justify saying it and realize how manly women have become.
I am not saying it is ok for a man to say it.. I am just addressing my gender. I think it is gross for a woman to talk...
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Do you think Religion is dangerous?
I think it is. I think religion is alike to communism.
Faith should be private, personal and individual. Like minded should be able to fellowship together but how or why we even debate or argue our own personal faiths, beats me.
Everytime I have tried.. you get those who tell you that you are wrong or that if you do not do this or that then you are not right.. who the heck are we to tell...
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Do you think Jennifer Hudson will take the time to vote today?
Who knows.. whatever she chooses to do.. let us hope that she is surrounded by those who love her and are offering support during this, what has to be, a horribly difficult time.
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Could you lie about something important and never tell anyone - ever?
Yes and I have never told anyone and those who say that a woman will end up telling. You're wrong.
I carry this rock myself and would never want to break off a piece for another to carry.
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Estranged friend did not come when my sister was sick in the hospital. the fall out was my fault. i was not being a good friend. i apologized a few times. she knows my sister is ill. my other friends came to help me through. what type of a person is she?
I would not judge them like that.
My closest friend did not make it to a very important event for me but we are still friends.
It hurt me a bit but life is busy and I am not going to throw down a friend easily.
Her not coming did not mean she loved or cared less about me. She just was not able to put it before other things in her life at the time.. other friends were able to.
We are...
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How much did it cost?
How much did what cost? Seriously the point of this is?
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Reality TV: Love it or Leave it?
Hate it.. cannot believe they stoop so low for ratings but then the ratings are sky high.. I almost envy those who have so much free time to spend watching other people's lives.
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Happy Halloween Everybody!!! How are you celebrating...??? =)
I am grabbing up my friend Sabrina'a two boys and taking them trick or treating when I get off of work.
Most people I know are headed to River Ranch but I have too much to do this weekend :(
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What is the greatest human need?
Forgiveness
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Can you sleep at night knowing you voted for a man who supports infanticide?
Considering neither of the men supports infanticide.. I feel just fine.
I am McCain all the way.
I want change .. but am not so desperate to think that putting a first time issue in is going to fix everything.
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Everytime I call my boyfriend to tell him about outings that *I* am invited to, he ALWAYS assumes that WE will be going together, even when I don't ask or consider him, am I selfish? Or is he just showing love? We will be getting married soon.
It is normal to want some space between you.
We ALL need our own individual space. It gives us a chance to miss each other and anticipate seeing each other again.
If it is a girls' outing.. do not tell him you do not want to go without him.. just say "hey.. we are having a girls' shopping day (or whatever kind of outing) so that us girls can hang out and do our girly upkeep.....
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Do you find it attractive when someone can play an instrument? Why or why not? Personally, I do! I love it when people can convey emotion through an instrument. How about you?
I cannot say that someone who is musically inclined floats my boat because of their talent but I can say that I am extremely moved by someone that when they play.. you are moved by the emotion and passion that they put into it.
When someone truly speaks through their playing and you can feel it.. it is wonderful.. but I am not necessarily attracted to Musicians.
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If you could create your perfect life, spouse, place to live..what would he/she be like? Where would you live and what would you do for a living?
I do not think anything would be perfect.. we are always striving for things that are different than what we already have.. but if I could choose some different things in my life it would be ..
I would be a writer.. of fiction and nonfiction.
We would have a place in Vermont where we would spend our winters.. it would overlook a river that would ice over and inspire me.
We would spend...
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Do ferrets need to be caged, do ferrets stink?
Your pet stinks as much as you let them.
If you do not tend to their personal care.. they will stink.
Some pets require more care than others.. it is our responsibility as pet owners to discern the difference.
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Who just one the Final Debate? And why?
It is time for a dem in office. I think we all know that but I do not think Obama won this one.
McCain is not a people person.. he is all about getting things done. He is all business and like a doctor.. his mind is on the ball and not on showing the best bedside manner.
I think his impatience and abruptness is going to hurt him in the long run.. people are not relating to his stiffness....
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"Trouble with us black folk, we can’t tell the difference anymore between racism and everybody gets screwed." How much truth do you think there is in this quote?
Racism goes so many different ways not just white against blacks. I see so much black on black hate more than anything. Passing the buck is the biggest play in the game.
When people figure out that it truly is US and not Us and them.. that is when people find peace with not only others but themselves.
It is everyone gets screwed when it comes to any type of negativity such as racism, gender...
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Why does my dog roll in poop and how do I get her to stop?
They roll in it because the scent of another animal's business in their area is offensive and they roll on it to smother it with their scent.
It is a territorial thing. As far as getting her to stop.. it is something dogs just do so the key is to either walk her on a leash and avoid the droppings or keep her from places where other animals can go.
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What's the first name of the person or pet you want to see again, but has passed on to the other side?
My grandfather and my dogs Mollie & Danny.
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What is the Last personal luxury you are willing to give up when money gets tight?
Getting my hair done. It is a MUST in order for me to halfway resemble a decent look.
I have the most unmanageable hair and without my stylist, I would probably shave it bald.
..o! and honey nut cheerios.. I cannot live without em =X
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I am i girl.I have this bestfriend who ive known my whole life whos also a girl. Ive recently started to have sexual feelings with her. We madeout once but we were drunk.Icant see myself ina relationship emotionally,only sexually.normal?What should i do?
I am probably going to be the only dud answer but I cannot help but give it a try.
The fact is this.. you are going to do what you want to do and nothing much is going to stop you.
As a 32 yr old woman let me tell you that while you cannot even imagine being where I am.. you will get here honey and bless your heart my wish for you is to not carry so much heavy stuff getting here.
What...
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Would it bother you if you hurt me?
Yes, it would bother me greatly.
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Will state your age then tell us the age range of someone you would date and someone you would marry. Please be honest about your age or just don't answer, OK?
I am 32 and I would have listed 35-45 but I am dating a 26 yr old who made me drop my preconceived notions about dating younger. .. for now anyways haha.
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Which is worst: your bark or your bite?
Yea.. I am not much of a biter.
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What do you like most about Italians?
I like that the men lead, the women are big into family and their food.. oOoOoh lala!
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Whats most prevalent in your family history , heart disease, or cancer?
Heart disease
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My wife works in a business office and often wears neckties to work. She wears a tie with a button front shirt, buttoned to the top with the tie tied tight, and a menswear style suit. She also has very short hair.Is this fashionably acceptable?
Acceptable to who? The popular whole? Kudos to her for wearing what she wants and feels comfortable in.
I find women in suits to be confident and sexy.. to heck with what anyone else says.
It is not true that people will think she prefers women to men based off of this.. unless they are just judgemental idiots to begin with.
I think she wears this because it pleases her and she...
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I have realy bad spots on the tops of my arms they look disgusting do you know how to treat it and what it is?
The only way to know how to treat it, is to get it diagnosed.. what it looks like and what it really is could be totally different things.
SEE YOUR DOCTOR. NO ONE online can diagnose.
Good luck and please do it ASAP .. it could be something simple or something that needs attention immediately or it could get worse.
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Wanna rock? Can you think of a song with the word rock in it?
Twisted Sister "I wanna Rock"
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Do you think barack hussien obama is really a terriost waiting to do something in office?
Anything is possible but I do not think this is true.
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How many times have you been through surgery?
0 .. unless you count the oral surgeon who took my wisdom teeth.
I have only had to be sewn up and once had to have a tube put through my foot to drain infection from a rusty nail I stepped on when I was a kid.. no surgeries (knocks on wood)
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What smell would you love to wake up to?
Gardenias everywhere!~ I love the smell of gardenias.
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What is the most romantic sound?
The sound of my name.. being said in that certain kinda way.
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You have opened your home to a friend & her child who have been evicted don't charge rent, cook for them, all in an effort to help them get on their feet but they charge you gas money to take you somewhere is that right
I am a little confused as to how you are helping them by cooking for them. Sorry, but this is an adult who could be taking care of themself and their child in those ways, you are choosing to do this for them.. that is on you, not them.
They obviously fell on hard times so gas is even more precious.. so I guess I will be the odd man out and say that I can understand to a point, their need for...
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How old were you when you bought your first house?
I was 25 and I am still in it.
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Dementia: Who are at risk?
Every single one of us. I have many dementia patients.
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If your 12 year old wanted to go to an Elton John concert with friends accompanied by an adult, would you let them?
For most concerts, no.. but I would let them go to an Elton John concert.. He does not get trashy and if an adult supervised .. I would say ok.
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I want to _________ today,
go snorkling!!
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Why in this day and age do people still start smoking?
People truly do not realize the addiction that takes over you once you have started smoking.
For whatever reason/s they start smoking.. they think it is something they are just doing for that period of time.. not knowing it is not going to just let you throw it down easily.
As with many other negative habits.. you think you have control over it when you do not.
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When you see POW what comes to mind?
Prisoner/s Of War
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How do you put a picture in your profile?
Go to this site
http://tinypic.com/?t=postupload
Upload the pic of your choice and then C & P the first code for websites into your AB profile.
I truly wish I could remember the member's name who first offered this help so that I could pay them homage.
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How do you put a picture in your profile?
Duplicate. Please flag.
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How often do you go to the movies?
Not often anymore. I get them in the mail now and love it.
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What's your favorite form of physical activity?
Jet skiing, racquetball and late evening walks.
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Are you fat or skinny?
I am tall and lanky like Gumby. I am not a very curvy chick.. more like a telephone pole =X
I do have a bit of chunk in the thighs but that is about it.
I will say normal except I am taller than the average chick. 5'10.5
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Is it possible to have genital herpes without showing any signs? I always thought that if you had herpes, you'd obviously know...but I was told that you can have it and not have any visible signs. Is this true?
The growing number of people with this virus is astonishing. About 1 in 5 have herpes and an estimated 90% do not know they have it. Yes, you read correctly. 90% are unaware because people can go without outbreaks after the initial contact.
Some people usually show signs the first outbreak.. and then may never again.. some may not even know, ever.
You can go get tested but unless you are...
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What do you consider to be HOT ! in a person?
Confidence, a touch of cockiness without arrogance and a friendly attitude.
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Why do(us as females) continually keep running to the ones that hurt us, and the ones we know that can NEVER be the right one for us?
Do not get involved so heavily with someone. Let life be about more than the person you are seeing. Hang out with girlfriends more.. plan to do things away from whoever you are dating. Gain more independence and confidence in doing things seperately.
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Why do(us as females) continually keep running to the ones that hurt us, and the ones we know that can NEVER be the right one for us?
I think a lot of times we let another dictate our self-worth without realizing we are doing just that.
It is not that we say "let's go find Mr. Wrong today"
it usually is a reflection on how we feel about ourselves. I speak from my experience.
I am sorry but I see it a lot in the sexual/passionate relationships where needs and desires are met without really getting to...
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What (or who) did you stimulate with your 'stimulus check' yo?...
I paid off a bill.. what did YOU do with yours?
Hope it was something fun!
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How many times do you have to hear "I'm Sorry" before you accept it?
I have always been a firm believer that if someone says they are sorry .. the burden is out of their hands and into the hands of the other person to either forgive or not.
Once is enough. It is up to the other person to forgive or continue carrying that load.
If someone says they are sorry to me.. I forgive easily and move on from the negative.
I cannot hold a grudge.
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I love this girl and don't know how to get her to be my girlfriend by a text message. What should I do?
Do not do it by text. I cannot speak for all women but I personally am not into a guy who cannot speak up for what he wants.
Too shy or unsure is just not attractive to me.
Some women find it sexy and of strong character when a guy is direct, confident and sincere.. not hiding behind a phone in case of rejection.
That is not giving it your all.. that is giving some in case it backfires...
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I have a 5 yr old sheltie who has been loseing her hair for months. She breaks out with sore sometimes rashes that turn scabby and smelly. She does not scratch and has no loss of appettie. I have changed her food and wash her bedding in allergic free dete
This could be a number of things.. the longer it goes without being properly treated by a Vet, the longer and possibly worse the suffering for your pet.
Also, the steeper it hits your pocketbook.
My dog went through something similiar and oh my.. the SMELL. It was HIDEOUS!
He would get sores all over and they would stink to high heaven. The vet would put him on a steroid and antibiotic...
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You're in the shower and you're out body wash. You substitute with ______.
Shampoo =/
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Your neighbor shoots your only pet because it trespassed on their property. You react by _________?
Well, I live in Florida and I hate to tell you but if your neighbor shoots your pet because it was on their property, there is nothing the police are going to do about it.
All that neighbor has to say is it feared the animal and/or it was attacking something of theirs. True or not, they will not get in trouble because your pet has no business on someone else's property.
End of story....
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First thing that comes to mind when I say.....Pillow?
hump it!
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What is a good way to keep your son from telling his mom that you took him to Hooters for lunch?
Promise to take him again if he keeps it all mum. =)
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Okay, I found two dresses that I really, really love!!! But I need help deciding which one??? I'll post small pics, and the links!
I like the white dress best.
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Is it emotional abuse to be acused of always cheating when you r nothing but loyal to someone?
I think it is.
They are punishing the other person for their own insecurities and/or fears.
Carrying baggage over that there is no room or desire for.
I would tell them to deal with that issue before trying to get serious because it is in the way.
It beats you down to be accused of doing something bad like that.. it can really put a dent in your self esteem to give your all and have...
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If your best friend told you that she was cheating on her boyfriend (who also happens to be one of your good, close friends) and tells you not to tell him do you?
I would let the friend know that she needed to come clean and stop placing others in such a position.
If she chose not to then she does not care about me to put her own selfishness above doing right.
I would back off from talking to anyone involved so as not to become party to the game.
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Girls, would you, or have you ever forced your male partner to wear womens panties? Why or why not?
No.. anything feminine on a guy turns me off.
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Who likes Adam Sandlers' acting?
I like him!
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Which of you does NOT have a tattoo?
No tats here. No desire to have any.
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Do get the flu shot every year? Is it worth it?
No, I do not and our company offers the shot free of charge to all of the nurses.
I have never had the flu and I am 32 y/o yet almost more than half the nurses I have worked with have gotten the flu, who have taken the flu shot.
They go every year religiously and every year we joke about the who is going to get the flu lol
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Is there a phobia of life
I do not know if there is a phobia of it but I know that the more I read, see and hear in the world, I have definitely become more scared of the world.
I stick closer to home and to those who are in my box in life;loved ones, friends etc.
It may be that I am getting older that has done it to me but I am either out on the lake, at home or with close friends or family when I am out and...
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If you are on a date, what is the most attractive thing that you can do?
Listen, make eye contact and give only him my attention.
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What is the sexiest item you own?
My push-up bra .. =(
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What does your daily "fix" involve?
Honey nut Cheerios .. they will be the death of me.
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If you worked for Lehman Brothers and this week you received your lay-off notice with your check and found that they overpaid you by 50%, would you give it back?
Yes, because they will find the error.
Better to not keep it and possibly spend it, then have to pay it back and not be able to.
Just like a bank.. if you are given more money than is owed to you, you are still responsible for not spending money not owed to you and reporting it.
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Do you think people are truthful or not when they say "I don't hate anyone"?
I think people are truthful about it.
I do not hate anyone. I hate how someone can act but I do not have any hatred for anyone in my heart.
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Why do people get so annoyed by effeminate men?
It is not that they annoy me because they do not effect me but I am a bit turned off by them and would never date a guy like that.
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What foods go best with mayonnaise?
Roasted corn
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Do you think its wrong to not give your heart to someone because your scared they may break it, because of your always getting your stepped on all the time?
If you are seeing someone then yes, I do think it is wrong.
We should not get involved with someone until we are ready to give it our all.. otherwise we cheat not only ourselves but the other person.
They cannot be expected to spend their time trying to jump the walls the other has created to protect themselves.
If you are on your own.. I would suggest not getting involved until some...
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What was the first screensaver you used on your computer?
I think it was the aquarium scene.
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I have head aches every day, there's just a lot of pressure in my head. Certain lights bother my eyes, sharp corners bother my eyes. And I have to sleep with my arm over my eyes just because I feel like I need the pressure on them. What's wrong with me?
It could be so very many different things that it is impossible for anyone online to tell you exactly what it is.
I will tell you firsthand that it can be something very serious.
A very close friend of mine who was also a nurse (being a nurse, we tend to self diagnose a lot and it can bite us in the butt time and time again.. sometimes it can be deadly) had headaches that started to happen...
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Why does my boyfriend look at other girls and denies it?
Probably because when you catch him.. he can tell by your tone that his best bet is to say he was not looking.
Jumping him for looking at pretty girls is your insecurity coming out onto him.
Guys are going to look. It is a part of life.
ALL of us.. men or women, appreciate good looking people and we look. .. guys are just more visual and I see no harm in it.
Looking and gawking in...
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I am really truly deeply in love with my boyfriend, but he's cheated on me plenty of times and i always take him back. this last time he cheated on me, i asked him not to talk to the girl that he cheated on me with and he refused. what should i do?
My first response was.. Are you kidding me? How can you not know the answer to this question... but then I realize you are wrapped up in this guy and blinding yourself. It is still on you and not him and that is something you will realize, hopefully soon while you have any of YOU left.
Of course he keeps coming back to you! You are the welcome mat, always there, always his home and he does...
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Does anyone actually know when you should make the decision to put the pet you love down?
My oldest dog is hitting 12. He is part weenie and his back is weak and gives him trouble at times. Our vet medicates him through it so I have to watch him with that. WHen it gets to the point that his life becomes pain and suffering and meds can only do so much.. I will put him down. He deserves to not live in pain after having had a wonderful life. I owe it to him to give him peace and not...
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What size penis do most girls like?
Sorry.. but I think it is what two people bring together that makes the sex hot.
If there is no chemistry between them.. then he could have a platinum penis and have no effect.
I, personally, would not want some monster penis stretching my cooter into some monster hole but whatever floats chicks boats. Everyone likes something different.
I want to be into the person that I am with and...
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In God's eyes: Are non-believers Atheists or loyal opposition?
The bible says He will leave His faithful flock to look for just one who is lost and not with Him.
So, in my opinion, they are His beloved just as believers are.
We cannot even begin to speak for Him.. just know what is right and just, that is Him.
Someone never taught His word or who He is.. I can only imagine how those of us who believe sound to them.
Like we believe in puff the...
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Do you plan your life or just live it day by day?
Day by day. I have seen too many times that in the blink of an eye.. all your planning can get flushed down the toilet.
It is more exhilarating and less stress for me to just take it as it comes.
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In order of Best to Worst, how do you like the following: The Simpsons, King of the Hill, Family Guy, American Dad, and Futurama?
King Of The Hill
Family Guy
The Simpsons
American Dad
Futurama
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How do you respond when someone who you do not know, after a brief unpleasant interaction, resorts to character assassination (nb: either on AB or elsewhere)?
I can get pigheaded. I try working on it and shoving it down into the hole it should stay in but it can come out. I am so far away from perfection that I am amazed I can still accurately spell it lol!
You find people accusing you of things that are not true all because they do not agree with your way of thinking or you have stated something against what they have said and instead of bending,...
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Do you mourn the passing of Summer or do you celebrate the arrival of Autumn?
I LOVE autumn! I love this time of year dearly. It seems to make life slow down a bit more. I am not quite sure why that is but it is a much more mellow time to me.
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Which insect do you think is in your back yard right now?
I KNOW there are mounds of red, fire ants that will tear you up! The little communists!
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Do you ever use AB as a way to distract yourself from your own problems?
Definitely. I use AB as a tool to take a break from the hussle and bussle of life.
I learn a lot and can avoid doing the laundry for a while =)
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Is it morally wrong to snitch, why or why not?
If you are snitching to make yourself look better .. snitching to watch another fall and gaining enjoyment from it.. yes, that is wrong.
Snitching to prevent grave danger, no.
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Why don't social networking sites allow us to create an "enemies" list?
I think we tend to become what we focus on.
Why focus on something so negative?
An ignore list would be more suitable but why create a list that will single people out and cause embarrassment or hurt feelings?
It is better to ignore those you do not click with and spend more time on the ones you like.
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Should the u.s.troops pull out of Iraq?
I do not like wars, fighting or violence but I have family over there who truly believes in what they are doing.
They see firsthand the reason why they are there.
They have lost buddies who served with them due to suicide, murder and other heinous ways yet still choose to serve. I say choose because they want to be there still.
They see their comrades struggle daily with their own minds...
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Can a relationship survive if one person has 'fallen' out of love?
Yes, it most definitely can.
Those relationships that only last while in the "in love" stage are not strong because long after the fire fizzles and the friction eases some.. the love that follows is waaay deeper than the passionate and lustful buzz that hits us first when "in love" with the new and exciting.
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Do you think it is possible to be in love 2 people at the same time?
No, I do not.
I believe you can like two different people.. I believe you can love them but be in love with two? No.
Being in love with someone knocks you sideways and is a bit consuming I think. There is no room for more than one.
Lust after two? Want your cake and eat it too? Sure.. but that has nothing to do with love.
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Who would like to join me in congratulating Tomsims on becoming a Maestro?
Congrats to one of my favorite Abers!!
You are truly a great asset to AB !!
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Who introduced you to smoking?
When I was young some older girls at the skating rink in the bathroom.
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What would this world be like if all laughter ceased to exist?
I would probably die from loneliness.
I would feel alone without my laughter and the laughter of others.
I spend about 70% of my time laughing and would be lost without the feeling of it and the sound of it.
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Someone I know is dating three guys at once. One of them I know from school. Should I give hints to the guy that she's with other people, or should I let the guy figure that out by himself?
I would not tell him. Sometimes doing the right thing with the best of intentions.. can lead to negative things for you.
I would let her know that it bothers you to know she is playing someone you know and you feel uncomfortable knowing and he does not and let her make up her mind whether to be decent or trifling.
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When you log on to AB what excites you the most: more points, comments on your answers, or answers to your questions?
Comments from buddies =)
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WHen someone leaves u a comment & they are basically saying to u "I am better than you r", do u reply to their comment or ignore it.
I have to be honest and say I have never had anyone on AB leave one where I got that impression.
I have had emails and comments that let me know without hesitation that they did not agree with me but never that they thought they were better than me.
If I did, it would probably depend on my mood how I woudl respond.
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You have bad service or very very bad food at a restaurant, what are your rights?
You have the right to make the manager/owner aware of your unpleasant experience and you also have the right not to eat there again.
You have no legal leg to stand on as far as taking any action against the place.
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Would you say you have more of the personality of an elephant or donkey?
Donkey
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Have you ever made straight A's in school?
Yea, I think I was in second grade.
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What is a skill that most people do not have but could benefit from mastering?
Listening
Never saying something you would want to take back later. .. think before you speak.
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What do you think is the reason why people committ acts of religious extremism? Is it the fact that some religious text is vague or that they are told at an early age that everything in the book is right? Should children be taught to question the text?
As a person of faith it is my personal opinion that those who go to the extreme are not right in the mind.
Not that they were born with mental challenges or anything but that they are so scared of their own doubt and the unknown, that they hide in a belief and overdo it to try and not only hide behind that belief but focus on it and not their own struggle.
I believe once you have found...
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If you had an afternoon alone. Independent of everyone else and could do anything you wanted, no limitations...what would you do?
I would putter around with the flowers, romp in the pool and probably nap on a float.
Towards the end of the afternoon I would grab a book, one of the mutts and hop in the hammock for reading and relaxation.
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John McCain believes in UFOs. Do You? http://io9.com/5052098/mccain-acknowledges-the-lights-over-arizona-were-ufos
No, I do not.
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I am an RN, I work night shift. There is a day shift RN who comes and moves others personal belongings. Despite my notes, she continues to feel she has the right move others (including mine) belongings and place them where she feels
I feel you on this. I am a LPN and when the new shift would come on at a facility I worked for before I went to home health.. there was this older RN who would come in and basically do away with our shift's stuff instead of just waiting til count and letting us get our stuff and then putting her stuff where it would be comfy for her.
I had a stressful time one shift and when she moved my...
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Who is the worst person you could run into at an orgy?
My Pastor
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How can American christians (not all!) believe that the invasion of Iraq brings the profecies of Ezekiel closer? I don't think any other nation in the world believes this.
I do not know of one person who believes the christian faith to believe this garbage. Not one.
I believe what the christian faith believes for the most part and have never heard of this way of thinking.
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Ok guys im an 18 year old male my question is i want to get my tounge done yay or nay? and then also how long does it take for the swelling go down?im a smoker does that affect it any?and does it hurt?
I had it done in my early twenties and smoked. There were no complications. The swelling lasted a couple of days and I was eating the very same day just not getting down with food like normal.
If you want it, go for it.
I did not have mine long. It just was not me.
Try it.. if you do not want it.. just take it out after you have worn it a bit.
Good luck
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Ladies: What is the longest time you've gone between sexual encounters with a man?
A year.
I had gotten out of a relationship and just did not feel like getting involved so I dated and played but kept it straight.
Much better than banging just to bang. Better to do it myself, right and not add notches.
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My ex mom does not like me because I have a close friendship with her young husband(she's old) she thinks we had sex. I have told her nothing is going on we are just good friends that hangout time to time. Am I wrong for hanging out with him?
I believe you mean ex mother-n-law?
You obviously do not care what she thinks or how she feels or you would stop hanging out with him.
If some young thing was hanging out with my husband.. guaranteed I would address the issue with him first but if she has or hasn't yet you know she does not approve, you are in the wrong.
Yes, I do believe you are wrong for hanging out with a married...
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I just took some photos of Arnold Schwarzenegger and Alan Autry at a Budget Rally. I think some of them are pretty good. What is my best option for using the photos? Any chance to sell to a newspaper, etc.?
Call your local newspapers possibly? I really am not sure.
Maybe call your local radio stations because they have websites.. or just ask them what you could do.
They deal with media issues and would be able to at least steer you in the right direction.
Good luck!
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What noise is worst from next door,mad kids or barking dog?
I have had the same neighbors for years and I know all the noises. None ever bothered me UNTIL .......
neighbors down the road a bit got a duck or something that sounds like something is killing it.
It happens during the day and omg.. when I first started hearing it.. I was freaking out.. til I figured nothing could be getting attacked for days and live haha.
Hideous sounding thing!
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First thing that comes to mind when you hear Pamela Anderson?
I saw the video and all I can think is .. holy cow she took it all.
She was pretty before all she did to herself. I wish someone had told her more often before she became the hole of hollywood.
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I MET A GREAT GUY WHILE I WAS GOING THREW MY DIVORCE,HE STOOD BY ME, GREAT WITH MY KIDS.HE TOLD ME THAT HE HAS STARTED DRINKING AND SMOKING POT I BELIVE HE IS BACK WITH HIS X GIRLFRIEND THAT CHEATED ON HIM TWICE WITH HIS FRIEND.WILL HE COME BACK TO ME?
Ask him?
Why would you want him back if he went back to someone else?
Seems he made the choice already.
Go find a guy that is for you. All yours and not caught up in things that are not positive.
He was there in your life at a time when you needed someone .. be thankful and treasure the memories.. but move on and be happy.
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Why does a good and godly man die in the prime of his life from an awful disease like cancer, while other evil men live and continue to prosper.
People have different beliefs.
Mine is that this is our world. He does not promise us a safe passage.. but a safe landing.
His word says we will die of disease, famine etc.
It is like when someone loses a child.. they ask how could He allow that to happen..
Well, there is no free will if He comes to the rescue.
This is the world of man, our world. What you do between the dash of...
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Are you more inclined to believe that psychics are speaking to the dead or reading your memories from your head?
I do not believe they have any special abilities but for kicks.. I would say they go off memories.. not in your head but the ones they milk from you.
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I'm not in a relationship with this guy but we both like eachother. right now i'm away from him in a different state. he says relationships are labels and he even mentioned he wouldn't care if i "cheated" on him. am I getting played? Should I even care?
I do not see how you are getting played when he is keeping his cards on the table.. or at least attempting to see if you two are playing the same way.
I think it is honorable for a man to voice his desire for an open relationship and giving you a choice in whether you still want to see him.. rather than do it behind your back.
I think like another poster stated.. he is testing the...
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Has anyone else noticed the meanies are on AB again?
No, not really.
One person might think someone is mean yet another not think so at all.
Not everyone clicks. Personalities clash.
Some people have a rougher edge than others.
It is just a part of life.
I think AB is filled with waaay more positive than negative.
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Can charisma be developed or is it something you're born with?
I believe it is something you have all on your own.. either you have it or you do not... so, I DO believe you are born to be charismatic but things along the way can dim it if life is not so kind or you are not so kind.
ie:
I believe you can lose it.
I do not believe it can be faked.
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Is forgiveness yours to give to another?
Forgiveness is something that if you give another, you receive the benefits as well.
To forgive is not only a gift to others but yourself when you give it.
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Nobody puts baby in the "______"?
Corner =)
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Who's Answerbag name makes you laugh the most?
Nitroduck
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Is your moderation percentage higher than, equal to, or lower than 99%?
Lower than.
I do not moderate much.
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Ladies: How would you handle things if your husband was a gynocologist or a breast implant surgeon?
I would be fine with it.
It takes a unique person to become a doctor of any kind and in my opinion, they are way beyond the immaturity and lack of development that can be found in someone who only uses the weaker side of the brain.
Doctors are gifted and as another poster stated.. they learn so much that while I am sure they do appreciate as a man, they have learned enough to see it for...
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How many of you are sick of this election and all it has shown?
I am sick of this one but not ready for it to be over with because either way.. we are up a creek without a paddle in my opinion.
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Believers, do you really need a god to give your life purpose? Do you honestly, think you could Not find a life's purpose without a god?
Do I need Him? Yes! Does He give me purpose? Yes!
Do I think I could have purpose without Him? No
Without Him, I am nothing.
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Do you give money to the homeless people on the streets?
Yes, I do and what they spend it on is their business.
I do not dictate how a gift should be used.. I feel good giving it.
I take some food and one time when I did try to give a homeless guy food he told me outright that he wanted a bottle. I went and got him one. If it kept him warm or helped him pass the night.. who was I to judge him?
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What is your favorite scent of flower?
Gardenias
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Is it true that every Christian denomination besides Catholicism was started by some angry guy?
I do not believe that to be true whatsoever. Just passed on rumors that keep on floating. Hogwash.
People can at any moment create another denomination to identify their beliefs and attract the like-minded.
Usually it is not about anger but being part of a group who is of the same beliefs.
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How old were you when you learned how to use a washing machine?
10 yrs old.
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I have been downrated 4 times in the last 6 hours. I think my answers are fine. What is going on? Does someone not want me to answer? Are they Rotton? or what?
I would turn off your ratings notifications. Unless points are important to you.
People are going to downrate you for many different reasons. Bad days.. bad moods.. they just do not like you.. they have no clue who you are or if they would like you or not but just feel like being a butt.
It is not worth worrying over in my opinion and that is why I have my ratings turned off. I just do...
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How diverse are the people on your friends list? Diverse = Republicans, Democrats, Americans, non-Americans, different races, different languages spoken, different sexual orientations, etc...
I have to be honest and say that I am not completely sure of all the details of my friends on my friend's list as far as their politcal parties.. etc.
I CAN tell you that in my time here.. I have about ten people on my friend's list and while that is a small number .. they are all very special and unique.
I am truly privileged to have them on there.
They are very honest,...
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Linen or Cotton?
Linen for sheets and cotton for clothes
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This world does not need another__________?
Jesse Jackson
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Whats your favorite thing to do when you 1st wake up?
Go back to sleep a bit more
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Why are people so hard on those who don't want to get married or have children? ex: Oprah
I have known at least six or seven couples who have chosen to do this and neither of them regretted their decision.
I see nothing wrong with it. I see more wrong with those who have children and did not want them or those who had children because they hooked up with someone who wanted kids, but they did not.
There is nothing wrong with not having children and it is a blessing in my...
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I want to make shirts for everyone to wear at my best friend's 21st birthday but I don't know what to put on them?
Well.. I am probably the wrong person to respond because I am a prankster at heart.
For my friend's birthday party year before last I had a picture of her put on t-shirts that we all wore at her party and it was a snapshot I had taken with my phone of her on the throne.
I held the phone over the stall and caught her in one shot blowing her nose on the throne (the one used on...
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Do you think its wrong to have one night stands?
Yes, I do.
They desensitize us in my opinion.
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If you could sing, who would you like to sound like?
I loved the 80's and sorry, but I will always think Whitney Houston had an astounding voice.
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Is a girl on a Harley cool?
I think chicks on bikes are sexy as all.
I feel sexy when I ride
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Hi, i am my husbands second wife, this is third year after marriage, but my husband is still in relation withhis first wife, he does not pay attention towards me, believe me since beginning till now we never had kissing between us, he does not love me, hd
I am not really sure what your question could be.
You are tolerating what has been going therefore he has continued doing as he pleases.
He is not putting you or your relationship together first and you have allowed this.
If you have found that this is not the life you wanted with someone then it is up to you to find your strength to get out of it.
I wish you luck and next time make...
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Can witch hazel kill you if you use to much of it and if so how can it kill you? cause i use it to close my pores and someone told me it can kill you
Unless you plan on consuming it or using it in any other way than the directions tell you then no, it will not kill you.
Witch hazel has been around for years and years. My mother, grandmother and myself have always used it on our faces.
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Do girls find it sexy if a man wears a thong?
Four words:
A big turn off
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To tell or not to tell - if you are certain that your sibling cheats on their partner, would you tell the partner?
I do not get involved in other people's relationships.
I give advice if asked but when it comes to things like this.. I just stay out of it.
I would let my sibling know I do not approve of what they are doing but it is their life to lead.
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For straight people: If someone nice, rich and gorgeous from the same sex asks to have a romantic relationship with you, would you?
No, never.
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What is your belief in "waiting until your married"?
I wish I had waited til marriage.
We DO become desensitized being out there and over-exposing ourselves to things over and over.
It takes the value away from what things should mean and what they become.
It puts up walls inbetween romances, buries distrust and lack of faith.
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Who lights up your life?
My family, very close friends and my beloved pets.
Without God, none of them would be in my life so the glory goes to Him first.. even when I forget.
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Are people born gay?
I don't know.
They have not proven that people are born that way. They have many things out there that suggest their readings lean towards but nothing concrete. Sorry, but they do not.
They have not proven why people are born straight.
I, personally, think people have the right to be with whomever they choose but why some people are gay and some are not.. I am clueless.
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What's the best household cleaning tip or advice you have?
Coffe filters to clean windows and not leave streaks
Vinegar and water as the solution used on the glass
edit- I really CAN spell coffee! =X
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What is Women's greatest weakness or weakness's
Letting others dictate her self-worth
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Ladies - If you kept a diary as a teenager, what kinds of things did you put into it - who liked who, whether a guy liked you, stuff like that? When you read it, is it funny or does it just make you cringe?
I was a coniving teenaged chick.
I never wrote anything down that could leave a paper trail back to me.
I always figured those who did, wanted people to see and I was always into some type of trouble and did not need to up the odds in getting caught =X
I envy those sweet girls who joted their hopes, dreams and secrets in their sweet ways.
I did not. I was all about sneaking and being...
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Whose your favorite tough guy, past or present?
Clint Eastwood or Tommy Lee Jones.. I always thought they were just the damn men =X
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Have you ever had to run from any animal?
I about about 17 and had my dog (black lab) tied outside to a concrete block to relieve herself and I heard her barking farther off than the apartment so I ran out and there she was on the other side of the fence that was behind the apartment.. chasing all the cows.. dragging that heavy, concrete block.
I got through the fence and ran after her when the cows all stopped.. turned around and...
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What would you do if you found out your partner has been folling around with 4 girls at the same time?
I would get an STD check-up ASAP and then repeat the process in six months.
I would make plans to stay elsewhere and I would never allow him to touch my body again.
Fighting about it would do no good.. he chose to do it not with one but four. There is your sign. He WANTS variety.
You are not going to change him and you are not less of a person because he is not being who you want him...
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Who does the police force work for?
The city they police .. the people within that city.
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What Perception Personality do you have? This test will measure 4 variables that reflect the way you perceive the world.
NFPS - The Guru
Nature, Foreground, Big Picture, and Shape
You perceive the world with particular attention to nature. You focus on what's in front of you (the foreground) and how that fits into the larger picture. You are also particularly drawn towards the shapes around you. Because of the value you place on nature, you tend to find comfort in more subdued settings and find...
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What was the last ice cream treat you had?
I stopped by Brusters today and got a cookie dough bowl of ice cream. It has really soft ice cream with BIGGO chunks of cookie dough.. ogod.. I was in heaven
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Why do I still try to understand people who are not in my life anymore?
It is hard to get past things that we have no control over.
When others make decisions that cause us to either have to be or choose to be without them in our lives.
We want to know why.. what happened.. etc.
Unresolved emotions. Maybe you were not ready to say goodbye or expecting to say goodbye to them being in your life but something happened that you could not control and prevent.
...
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What does it mean when your boyfriend says I love you and miss you to his ex? He says he only means it in a friendship way.
You can talk yourself out of the sky being blue if you want to but it is, what it is.
He sounds unsure and he is not wanting to let go and saying things to her so she will not let go and move on.
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I know that 31 is young & lots of people start over at this age and older with new relationships. But for some reason I feel like I'm old and that men my age will be interested in younger women. I'm scared I'll run out of time. How do I change my attitude
I will be 32 in Sept. I have just ended a very long relationship and I have never been hit on more than I have lately, in my life. I AM thankful lol because sure, my self esteem was a bit lower being back out here in this dog eat dog world.
My neighbor's son was visiting and I had him at my fence numerous times trying to talk to me earlier on today.
I have known him ten years but was...
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Will Jerry Seinfeld's ad for Microsoft help sales?
Jerry who?
I do not think so
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What food reminds you of going to your grandparents to visit?
Fried potatoes, homemade biscuits...sausage and gravy..
My grandmother (on my dad's side) made the biggest and best breakfast ever.
The one thing I miss the most is these tin cups she would serve milk in.. the milk would be so cold.
God, I miss her.
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I'm back with my ex and I don't know how to tell my new "friend" about it.
Be straight forward and honest. It will hurt less in the long run.
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Sadly, LeRoi Moore died yesterday at the age of 46. I'm going to see the DMB this Saturday (08.23) and am in shock...who do you think will replace one of the most influential founding members of the band? Can he even be "replaced"?
I was touched by this as well. Sad loss for all of us who are fans.
He cannot be replaced.. his position can but not him.. just like any of us.
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How old were you in 1991?
I was 14
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Does anyone in your family not have a middle name?
My dad's first name is Dallas.. he does not have a middle name.
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What does it say about a man who calls a woman's breasts, "boobies"?
Um.. doesn't bother me at all.
I've called em boobies so I suppose I am immature and childish ;)
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On a scale of 1 - 10 rate your sarcastic personality?
5
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Do you have an answering machine or voice mail?
I only use a cell phone so I have voicemail only.
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80s flashback time! What is your favorite Roxette tune? (videos welcome!)
Listen to your heart
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Is it possible not to love someone anymore in a matter of minutes or hours?
I do not know that it is that you stop loving them but more that it is possible that some other strong emotion has overridden the feelings of love for them.
You can love someone but not choose to be with them any longer.
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Has anyone ever got mad at a person on answerbag and typed mean comments back and forth to each other for having opinions they don't like?That happened to me.
Yep.. and a couple of emails that rocked my box =)
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Where did you get your avatar from?
Stationary that a friend of mine from New York sent me.
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What is the smallest, most random, inconsequential thing that you just happen to know about your best friend?
She loves Pizza Hut's manicotti
She loves Led Zeppelin's "Stairway to Heaven"
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What is your spirit animal?
Panther
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Do you wear camouflage?
Yes! I have cutoff camo shorts that I wear to the mudhole.
They are old, worn out looking but soooo comfy.
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What's not to like about you?
I am VERY, VERY, very indecisive.
I have always had a bit of the "scared of the world" mentality so I am not that exciting.
If you hurt me or I get embarrassed I get a razor sharp tongue sometimes.
I have mad PMS. A week before I flow, I can go from 0-180 in .2 seconds.
I am hard to get to know. I play harder than I am. I have a defensive nature at times.
If I get...
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Could the world use more like you?
Not at all. I can barely handle myself.. much less have to deal with more like me.
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How many people have you fell in love with, like really fell in love with them?
Two people in thirty one years.
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Husband is a recovering addict for over 3 yrs. I want a divorce, I've discovered, even though I thought we could work things out after a 2.5 yr separation. I thought if the addiction went away, so would all of the problems. Am I wrong to want out?
You are more wrong to not end it and let him go on to find someone who does want to be with him.
You are holding not only yourself back but him.
It is very simple. You do not want to be with him.
Let him go.
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What really really pisses you off big time?
Animal abuse
Arrogant people
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After 1-1/2 years, my soon to be ex is asking for the wedding ring back-not engagement ring it is beautiful, diamonds all around. He didn't buy it, it was his great Aunt's-don't mean to be nasty, but it's just bringing up uncomfortable feelings I guess..
Woman to woman.. give the ring back.
It was given to you under the assumption that you two would be spending your life together.. not that he was parting with such a precious heirloom.
It does not matter who has decided to call off the engagement/wedding.. He brought it.. he should take it.
Play fair so that you may hold your head up.. play dirty and get what you ask for in life.
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My husband is retired and I am still working, I feel so unfair that he enjoys his life while I am working hard to make income to pay the bill. Any advise?
He did his time.. and hopefully provided for you..
You are doing your time.. and contributing to your home.. he is a part of your home.. hopefully a very big and loved part of your home.
I mean .. I can see getting frustrated at having to work but not at him.
But.. if this makes things any better (I hope not)
Chances are.. he will die before you says the statistics and you can sit back...
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Have you got a name you call your car? What is it?
Isabella but I call her Izzy
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How to deal with a cranky husband?
If he is not wanting to talk about anything and just seems stressed, push him out of the henhouse to hang around other species like him.
Let him go have guy time or time to himself to rejuvenate.
He may be under a lot of stress and it is getting to him. Low on cash? Still make it possible for him to do something he enjoys.
We all go through things and sometimes it lasts longer than even...
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First date: Should I pick her up in my '96 Altima or borrow my friend's Jag? I want her to know that if she sticks with me it'll be champagne and diamonds.
I would pick her up in the Altima. Mine is an 05' but I love it and have no shame in her.. but then I am the type of chick that likes men with trucks.. old ones even.. so the jag and diamonds would do nothing for me.
Take your old girl the altima and let her get to know YOU, not what you can offer her.
Good luck
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Who would win, The internet, or Tv?
Internet
I could not name one t.v. program that I keep up with.
There is hardly anything good on anymore in my opinion.
I get movies all the time or browse the net.
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I speak to a guy most days on the phone who works for the same company as me but away on site. We do sometimes text each other. When we text it's pretty flirty and when we talk we have a laugh. I'd like to ask him out but he has a girlfriend!! Help?
He has a girlfriend.. end of story.
Have respect for yourself and the innocent girlfriend and find a guy who is not involved.
If you were flirting around with my old man trying to shake up them hot pants.. you and I would tie up honey.
You get what you ask for and I have no sympathy for women who work through back doors.
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Where do you run when there's no place to hide?
I stop running, turn and face it.
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Who is your favourite comedian?
At the moment it is Ron White .. I am loving his comedy.
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How can i take revenge on a lying boyfriend
The best revenge is to forget and move on to healthier and better things for yourself.
Leave the baggage of garbage on the curb.
Feel it.. go through it and get past it.
Do not become what you do not support others doing.
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Is it true that nice guys finish last? If so, why?
As a woman.. I like nice guys but I am not attracted to men who do not lead or who let women walk all over them.. I am not attracted to bad boys.. I outgrew that years ago.
I am attracted to someone who is comfortable and confident with themselves.
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What kind of touch best says ”I love you” to you?
A hug where I can feel how they feel about me by the way they hug me.
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How old were you when you first went fishing? Did you catch anything?
I cannot remember if I caught anything and I am not sure of the exact age.. maybe 6 or 7?
I have been fishing ever since is all I know.
I love to go fishing.
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Whats your favourite pudding?
Vanilla .. mmmMMMm
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Is it easy for you to control your mouth?
Sometimes.. but then there are those moments where I totally make myself look ignorant and pop off at the mouth.
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What was E.T.'s favorite kind of candy?
Reeses!!! mmmmhmmmm
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Stevie Nicks has been called the most compelling woman in rock and roll. Do you agree?
I do not share the opinion that she rated number one in compelling but I LOVE her music and that raspy voice.
Silver Springs is on my playlist now
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My 6 yr old shep/rott mix & the 1 1/2 year old pit keep fighting. we have been getting it broke up except this last time. It is getting worse this time bood. if we let them fight the pit will prob. kill other dog. is it hope less
I have been there.. and all I can tell you is that your Shep/Rott mix is getting the raw end of the deal.
He is too old to have to fight over territory he had already became secure in thinking was his.
If you cannot keep them seperated.. you should do something because the dog you have had should not have to prove himself, its been his.
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Is there a song that you just cannot listen to? Which one and why?
Reba's "If I had only known"
It will have me all blubbery and missing people. My grandfather, my old dog.. . etc.
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Are you an asker, answerer or both?
Answerer
I cannot think up good questions. I just suck at it.
I am one over opinionated brat so I love to answer questions! =P
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Do you lose points if you answer your own question?
No.. some people may raise their fur about it.. it is all about wanting to control each other I think lol
But.. many of us like seeing what the questioner thinks on a topic as well.
Go for it!
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Can a controlling b/f really change if he says he is willing?
I believe anyone is capable of making positive changes in their life.
If they have the desire to improve.. meaning they acknowledge that they need to .. sure
The tricky part is the relationship.
Relationships are a heavy priority and your guy may need more time into working on himself.
Trying to balance keeping you happy and going through whatever he will need to go through.. will be...
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Why are there so many negative people on AB?
I see waaay more positive than negative.
You get people here and there who pop off but we all have bad days and it passes.
There are some miserable people whose misery seeks company but for the most part I do not feel they damage the site much because people usually move on from them.
I am trying to sit and think of someone who is negative a lot and cannot. I can only think of the...
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Thinking about supper' maybe chicken an dumplings what do you think?
That sounds delicious!!! I love dumplings
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If you could be anywhere in the world right now, where would you like to be?
Right where I am.. waiting for Fay to show us her stuff.
I love hurricanes .. well.. I love hurricanes that do not bring devastation and heartache.
I am hoping she is aggressive but not cruel to us.
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Do you think my girl would like the nickname "love clumb?"
It does not seem all that cute to me but then you could have a personal reason for calling her that..
Maybe it makes sense to you two and would be intimate and personal between the two of you?
Just to think up a name and come up with that though?
Nah
Let it be something that fits her because of her.. not something pulled out of air.
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Do you answer you phone during dinner?
No.. I love to eat and I get down with it.. there is no room to yap =)
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Has anyone here ever come across a person who professes to be a Christian, yet is extremely judgemental and unyielding to human error? Isn't that very hypocritical? The Bible says not to judge others.
I get that people call themselves "christians" to describe their faith but no one is Christ-like.
People would call me a christian based off of my beliefs but I do not like titles.
They are just using a title to identify themselves to others but that does not mean they are perfect.
None of us are perfect.
I think the error is in those who expect people of ANY faith to not...
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When I say who is NOT a warm and fuzzy person, who do you think of first?
Rosie O'donnell
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American girls, does it bother you that more and more of us American guys are preferring Asian girls over American girls?
No, it doesn't.
I think asian women are beautiful and can see why ANY man would be attracted to them but I disagree with your outlook.
I believe it is about individuality, not race.
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Does living alone mean being lonely?
It is an adjustment that's for sure.
I am getting use to it and I have to say that my mind must be set right because I take pleasure in small things.
Being able to take a bath as long as I want. Blasting the stereo to what I want to listen to.
I get a hair up my butt or get lonely and head out to friends to keep from going stir crazy inside my mind.
I have those moments where I...
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If you was a meal, which meal woud you be?
Mac and cheese.. so durn cheesy
=)~~
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If you could choose only one music CD to ever listen to again, what would it be?
My favorite CCR songs
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Should good deeds go un-recognized?
That is one of those .. aaah.. what is the saying.. catch 22?
People who do good deeds should do so because they feel it in them to do it.. not for the praise they may get.
If you do a good deed and it gets noticed.. great.. if it doesn't.. the same feeling should be there in feeling good about what you have done.
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Depressed for a while, and then reached an enormous feeling of ecstasy. Still glowing from it, is this... normal (at least a little)?
Could be that you have went through whatever you needed to go through to get past something that hurt you or brought you down and you are now tired of hurting and being depressed.. ready to take on the world again.
Good luck with that.
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What would you take from your house if it was on fire and you could only take one thing?
A jewelry box my dad made 50 years ago when he was in school.
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Is there a particular type of movie you have more of in your DVD collection?
Action and Comedy
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Who do you prefer; Angelina or Jennifer Aniston?
They are both very beautiful and have great acting talent.
I have even had shameful and frisky thoughts about Angelina and I am pretty much hetero.
I pick Angelina because she is a better actress in my opinion.
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What does your screen name hint about you?
I have a big nose =(
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I am black and had a relationship with a turkish guy we broke up because his family would not approve of the relationship and he listened to them.why
That has to be tough to go through. I am sorry you are hurting.
I am very close to my family. I love to see them happy and always want them to be proud of me and if I made choices that they would not approve of.. I have the type of family who would support me even through their disproval.
Not all are so lucky and it is a hard bond to go against.. however.. he should have never started...
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Would you rather watch basketball or hockey in winter?
Basketball
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I jst broke up with my girlfriend this morning. It sux cuz i thot we would last. Didnt turn out that way. What do i do now?
I feel you.
I ended my relationship recently and everything seems surreal but there is a reason we ended our relationships.. lets not lose sight of that just because of moments of loneliness and lack of familiarity in our comfort zones.
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If you're on msn instant messenger and your boyfriend logs on...is it rude to block him because you don't feel like talking to him at the moment?
I think it is rude and immature.
If you do not want to chat with him, say so.
Games and crap are for kids.
Be direct and do what you want to do but be honest.
There is no honor in deceiving people.
If I do not feel like chatting with someone, I say so. Blocking someone is taking an action against them for something YOU are going through.
Play fair
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Have you ever thought of hanging yourself?
No, I haven't.
I have been emotionally beat down tired.
I have questioned my purpose. I have questioned if I have been stretched past my point of tolerance but I am not one to think about taking my own life.
It was given to me and I do not feel I have the right to take it. I have yet to see what else is in store.
I want to see.
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So what do i need to do to make the pain go away
Face it now, head on.
Go through the horrible sadness, hurt and rough moments. Feel it. .. but work towards putting it behind you.
Do not put it off and hide from it.. leaving yourself to carry baggage that is not going to do you any good.
Become more active outside your mind. Make yourself go do things instead of locking yourself up in your head with the target of your pain.
Good...
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What is your favorite feature in your car?
The radio/cd player
No matter what is happening outside the car.. I can be in my own little world inside it with songs taking me to places I like to think on.
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What are two animals that you would love to encounter, and two animals that you wouldn't?
I would love to encounter:
A whale in its natural habitat
A panther
I would not like to encounter:
A rabid bull mastiff
A monkey with poop in its hands and a michievious grin
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If you had Betty Davis eyes, what would they look like?
I absolutely love that song. I have it burned on a cd I play all the time in the car.
Alluring eyes
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Smokie and the Bandit 2009? Will this be a good movie, or a great movie?
I do not think anything could beat the original but I'd watch it.
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How many times have you been warned?
Numerous times
Mea Culpa
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Would it be good to know what you are doing right now?
Half baked, cleaning house and listening to Enigma's older cd
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Does it drive you crazy when people misspell your first name or could you care less?
Many people spell my name Kelly instead of the way it is spelled for me.
Does not bother me. I have gotten use to it.
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Ladies, when you see an attractive man walking in your direction, do you look at his "package?"
No.. I never really think about looking at their crotch. For what?
I go for eyes and smile.. but something about nice legs rock my boat ;)
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My friend keeps telling hoew well i look,giving me loads of eye contact,keeps winking at me when he thinks no one is looking.also he keeps texting me to tell me he is looking foward to seeing me.does he like me or am i reading too much into it?
Sounds like he wants go ahead and hit it.
If he wants something more serious, wait and let him say so and not just do these things when no one is looking.
Unless of course.. you want him to go ahead and hit it without there being more .. then.. by all means.
We get what we ask for in most cases.
Good luck and I hope it turns out the way you want it to.
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What are some things that men are better than women in? what are somethings that women are better than men in?
Ask for directions.
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Do you have a particular phobia?
I always check behind the shower curtain when I visit the throne. I am a freaking weirdo, I know.
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I live in Ft Myers Florida, does anyone know if Jim Cantori is here?
No, sorry I do not know but I am in central Florida so hello from one Floridian to another =)
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On a scale of 1-10 how HOTT is Sheryl Crow?
6
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Do u have to go to the same place u first got ur eyebrows done of u can go to another place
You can go anywhere where they offer the service.
When I am out and about I just pop in whatever place I see.
I do prefer one certain place but if I am in need of it and a place catches my eye I may hop in to get it done then, not later.
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Whats the best sex?
Sex between two people who love each other and express it by touch
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When it comes to foreplay, what do you prefer?
Being bitten .. minus a lot of pain.. just strong enough to run through me.
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Why do guys want to touch your clit while making out?
It feels good?
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What are you SHAMELESS about?
Playing in the rain
I think I will always be a kid at heart because when the skies open up.. I cannot seem to bring myself in out of it.
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What are some good ways for a girl to masturbate?
Get a massager with heat and press it against your button. I do better pressing down on it instead of being on my back.
That vibration will rock your world.
Play out a fantasy and that is all she wrote.
You will be left a puddle of satisfied delight.
If driving.. this is going to freak you out but get a toothbrush with batteries and turn it on.. .. Varoom baby ;)
I could never...
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Is it a good idea to go on AB drunk?
I did it about a week ago and I doubt anyone could tell the difference so I do not see it as a problem unless you turn into an obnoxious turd.
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Would you think less of me if I lost my 100% + ratings given because I downrated stuff that was hateful, hurtful, or just downright mean?
The only time I comment on another's ratings is when I see people insulting others for the very same thing they do themselves.
I also will point it out if someone is being nasty to others a lot to point out their intolerance of diversity.
I have downrated over cruel posts and things that are just sick to me. So, I guess I would have nothing to say to you because I have done it as well.
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On a scale of 1-10, how much do you care about the British Royal Family?
0
I once saw someone say that if anyone insulted the queen that they would flip out .. they would have to flip out on me because she is no one to me.
Just an old lady who is no better than the old lady down the street from me in my opinion.
Giving people more value or prestige is retarded - IMO
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What's the first song that comes to mind for Aretha Franklin?
RESPECT
I always hear my best friend Heidi singing this at the top of her lungs and she did a FANTASTIC job.
She rocked my world the first time she busted out singing it when it came on one day years ago.
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What happened to Flight 19? Do you believe in the mystery of the Bermuda Triange?
I do believe the stories about the Bermuda Triangle.
I do not know about anything supernatural.. that is not what I believe it to be. I believe it is the rapid change in the temp and weather that brew up deadly storms in much of the undiscovered lands.
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What's the first song that comes to mind for Foreigner?
Head Games
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Would it bother you to have a pet watching while you're on the toilet?
My old inside dog does not come near the bathroom unless I am on the throne and it is thundering outside. .. otherwise he pretends that room does not exist.. or he is hoping I forget it exists lol. It represents bath-time for him
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Do you get wrapped up in the AB drama or do you just pop in to ask/answer questions?
I just follow around cleaning up pumpkin vomit
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How many times have you laid your heart on the line?
I have been in love twice
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Are you ever frustrated that you can't ask a repeat question? I understand why the rule is in place, but feel that asking it again will produce new answers, from new people.
Yes.
Especially when I see the questioner get answers that tell them off and rudely tell them to make use of the site better and search for the question.
Sometimes people come here in need and they do not think to search. They want to participate right now.
AB allows people to instantly get involved with each other.
I hate seeing people cut down over it.
I, myself, would want...
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Did you know that you could be sent to the penalty box here at AB for a whole week for allegedly referring to another member as a prick in the comment thread?
I have more pity for the Admin staff than anything.
You have members who suck up to them so hard there is a wonder they will ever have to use the bathroom again.
I bet their emails get burned up with whining and crying over who typed what to them.
This is their site. How they run it is their business.
Who they choose to mod.. who they choose to PB.. etc.
Also, there are many times...
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Do you like George Strait? What is your favorite George song?
HUBBA HUBBA!
I love this man =)~~
I cannot name just one of his songs.
"If you're thinking.. you want a stranger"
"Write this down"
"You look so good in love"
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Ive got a friend who sleeps with her ex constantly.she knows its degrading her because he is only using her for one thing,but she still does it.im worried bcus he's a jerk.anything i can do to help her out of it?or tell her to help?
Thats a bad spot to be in. However, when it comes to the issues of others personal lives.. stay out of it.
Chances are, she is aware of everything you have stated and does not need to be called on it because she is humiliated by her actions but is choosing to do this for whatever reasons.
Either the need to soothe her ego, the need to feel wanted by him because she has let him dictate her...
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Troll roll call or are you scared?
I think people would be amazed who the trolls turned out to be.
Doubtful there will be any admittance.
The hit and run ones that find the site and take a joyride of being the site butthole will happen off and on all the time but I think most of the trolls are regs incognito.
Pay them no mind.
Can't you read the sign
"Don't Feed The Animals"
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Would you please help me wish "Wild One" a Happy Birthday?
Happy Birthday !!
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Please help me congratulate Sweet T, for being #4 on the leaderboard! You go girl!
I really do not get into these types of questions..
I am just too lazy but when you see her name.. it just makes you smile. So.. any opportunity I can toss back something good to her is great.
Congrats!
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When your scared, where do you hide?
When I get overwhelmed.. scared.. I either pray (ironic how I turn to Him in need yet shun Him a lot of other times) or I go sit on the bench at my grandfather's grave.
I know he isn't there but it is where I go.
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Tonight my dad wanted to use my computer to "get music" but when he left the room I looked in his usb pen and he had got a load of pictures of my cousin who's in her late 20s. I don't know what to think or who to tell or what to do. Help :(
Give the benefit of the doubt in all situations unless something causes that doubt to be removed.
I do realize things that should never happen, do indeed happen but do not let negative thoughts linger in your head with unsurety. Ask him.
While having dinner..make a comment that you saw the pictures and make a comment on how good your cousin looked or how happy she looked.
You went snooping...
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Is it acceptable for a parent to vent to their kids about the other parent?
No, it is not acceptable.
Parents who do this are selfish and cause more damage than they ever thought.
Children look to their parents to guide them through life. If they see no stability or security in their own home.. they have nothing of strength and value to base their own paths on.
It creates distrust not only with the parents but with the world. Some distrust is ok..we all learn...
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If somebody finds an abandoned baby, is it legal to keep it, or do they have to call the police?
You must report it to the local authorities.
They will investigate and most likely place the child in a home/place designated for such situations.
You will then have to file for temporary custody to keep the child until they have finished their investigation and all things included. Ie: Parents found and write the child off.. etc.
Procedures differ from state to state but the basics are...
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I want to know how someone can call themselves a Christian and lie about being pregnant and having a miscarriage? I know everyone lies but is it just me that thinks that is taking it too far.
Why do people assume that people of faith MUST be perfect, never lie, never sin..
Your expectations are letting you down, not a "christian". Whether the self righteous want to admit it or not.. NO ONE goes without sinning.. EVERY DAY. Not even a preacher, pastor.. etc.
I, personally do not believe anyone is a christian. It means Christ-Like and we ALL fall short of that glorious...
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Does it take alot to make you cry?
Yes, it does.
I will cry when I am PMSing over a silly commercial but then any other time I pretty much suck it up.
I will cry if I see someone or something hurting or in pain. I cannot handle to watch anything suffer.
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How many people do you know that would never ever for any reason do you any harm?
God, my parents and my dog.
Four people
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Do you think at some point in every person's life, one should try to make amends for things one regrets having done or not done with respect to others?
Rosie, what a great question. It made me think for a moment and the first thing I thought.. I will stick with. It feels right.
I think that sometimes you have moved past whatever wrong you have done. Whether it is just too late in regards to time, distance or life has just moved way past that moment.
The person(s) you have wronged is no longer around to talk to and all you have is the...
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My boyfriend says I am, " to kinky". What do I do?
I would ask him if he is who you want to be with.
Otherwise you will just get a bunch of answers from guys telling you to go ahead and hit it and get with them .. whether your intent or not.
If you care about him.. both of your sexual needs should be met and communicated.
Two people who are intimate should have a goal of finding out what pleases the other so.. work more on what turns...
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What musical instrument would you listen to all day?
Harmonica.. I Love to hear someone who can get down with one. It really moves me.
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Can constant losing of items (phone, wallets) be a symptom of schizophrenia?
It could be a sign of stress.. you cannot pin it to schizo without a doctor's diagnosis.
Too many things on your mind to focus on what you are doing.
It could be lack of organization and when things are not organized, they tend to get lost in the shuffle.
I had such a stressful week last week that I lost my keys for hours even though I had just come in the house to pick up a few...
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If a guy told you he had a 15" cock, would you want it or not?
No thanks. I do not want some monster hole.
I will take average anyday.
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Have you ever done Drugs? if so what Kind? And when you think back on it, was it a good thing or bad thing for you?
I only smoked weed.
I was never curious or anything about trying another one. I was too chicken.
Thank God
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How old were you when you first masturbate
I have no clue. It was before I was ten.. I can think back that far and bits and pieces here and there at younger ages but I cannot pinpoint that.
I know I humped a pillow like a pro.
I just put this out on the internet for all the world to call me a freakin pillow humper but it is, what it is.
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I am trying to locate someone I lost track of about 5 years ago. Does anyone out there know of someway I can locate this person without paying for it? We both moved suddenly so ...anyone got a clue how ..like on the net somehow?
I went through this.. someone told me to try my space.
It may work for you as many people are on it.
Good luck
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If your personality could be described by a noise, what noise would that be?
Ice Cream truck. Retarded but .. there
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Don't you find it's hard to fumble along like a turkey when you're surrounded by soaring eagles?
Sometimes but .. then I can always exceed expectations whereas those of eagles are already set and easily met.
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My wife is having an romantic emotional relationship online with anouther man that lives across the country. It has been going on for 8 months and she knows that i know i have asked her to stop but she won't is this cheating? What should i do?
Old question but I think it is easy to see what we want or need to see in someone at the moment when online.
The anonymity is misleading with its seductive secrets.
The grass appears waaay greener when we cannot see the whole picture to tell us that it is not.
The moments in pause of not being face to face.. allows us to build it up to be whatever we feel the need of or desire of.
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Why do girls give guys hickeys?
No idea.. I think they are tacky looking.. unless on the thigh. Then.. there is something about being owned in secret places that is pretty hot... but not places for all to see.
A reminder of a moment gone to passion is nice if done in the throes of it.. not a reminder with the intention of advertising.
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If you went to sleep tonight, woke up the next morning and were strapped to a chair with various torture devices around you (ie. knives, drills, saws, rods, chemicals)...how would you feel?
I would probably pee my pants and go straight into a panic attack.. all the while wondering where my dignity went.
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I heard that the government was giving out another stimulus check, is that true?
It is just rumors for now.
Obama wants it to happen. Bush says no.
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Do you sin more than you should?
Yes, I do.
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I know some of y'all hate it when people ask you to pray for someone, but I am going to do it anyway. Will you please be praying for some friends of mine, the chamberlains, their house burnt down this morning.
Whoever has a problem with this question, is a problem and I hope they can be mature enough to stay away from it.
Your friends are in my prayers.
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Why is it okay to thank god but it isn't okay to blame him?
Why would you blame God? Exactly whas has He done?
Nothing.
This is our world.. you either seek Him or you do not.
His desires for us are good and pure but we obviously see no fun in living for Him and not getting caught up in the bad stuff..
Blame Him for death? It is what it is.. we will live and die.. famine, disease.. etc. We are JUST flesh and bones.
God does not punish or cause...
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Is being civil easy for you?
Yes
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Are you bi-curious?
The thought of a woman putting her lips on mine turns me off.
I can appreciate them but that is it.
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In your opinion, what is the proper way to act/behave when you don't like someone?
When I was younger.. I thought my mom the biggest fake ever.. To know my mother.. anyone who would call her fake would be out of their mind but when you are in your teens and think your parents are stupid.. it happens.
She was nice to everyone.. even those who were not nice to others. I thought.. how could she be nice to someone if no one else liked them and maybe they were rude or whatever....
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Green Day or The Offspring?
Green Day
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Which religions morals do you really like and appreciate apart from your own?
I have a true respect for those of the Pentecostal faith
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Scientology, cult or religion?
Cult
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George Bush now admits that he cries all the time and sees Lincoln's ghost in the white house."I've got God's shoulder to cry on. And I cry a lot". Is this the sign of a man on the verge of emotional collapse? Is this stability?
I think his words have been twisted a bit but the man has the weight of the world on his shoulders and this is not a sign of weakness to me.
He is human.. whether you love him or hate him.. he is flesh and bones just like us and any mistakes he has made.. none on this site would have had that job and not made mistakes.
I am not a Bush fan but I am not anti-Bush.
The comment about...
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Do you wash your hair every day?
Unless I do something strenuous to sweat, I wash my hair every two days.
I rub a leave-in conditioner each morning and night but my hair needs its natural oils.. not the shampoos that put that wax sheen over it and strip it.
It is not healthy to wash your hair daily but I go every two because I have out of control, natural wavy hair and the longer I go without washing it.. the better it is...
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How do you feel about dudes with long hair? i cant stand it, but im curious what others think
I find it extremely unattractive and punk looking.
I realize some guys can pull it off.. let me see one of those older biker dudes with a braid and I think look at hot pops but I gotta be honest.. I believe it is unmanly looking.
If I want to run my hands through someone's long hair.. it better be mine.
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Have you become more tolerant of others opinions or more intolerant since discovering Answerbag?
I learned to be more patient years ago but learn and improve on things everyday so yes, I am sure that I have.
I slip up but for the most part I get over myself =P
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What if the boyfriends friend doesnt like you? He is just very quiet around me and doesnt talk to me. Anything I can do to make him like me a little better?
Stop caring about what his friend thinks as far as being threatened by his acceptance. Not saying you are but just in case.
The friend probably is like most friends .. he wants your bf to be happy but still wants their time together as friends.
Their friendship is theirs and you really do not need involved in it.
They need that seperate from the relationship he has with you. The friend...
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What's your favorite David Bowie song?
"Let's dance"
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What's your most favorite bumper sticker you've ever seen?
I have seen so many that I have forgotten all that had me rolling.
I like it where a parent has one that will say my kid beat up your honor student.. etc.
I had the "bad cop, no donut" one and I loved it. I would have cops shaking their heads or telling me at stop lights that it wasn't true or some other funny stuff.
I like the one with the cop car and it said "...
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Why are women sometimes so mean to each other?
I do not believe women are any more competitive than men so that excuse does not get it for me.
If any, I do find men to be more competitive.. it is the whole rawr rawr.. I am man kind of thing.
I believe it is insecurities and the desire to be wanted and not rejected with women.
Trying to live up to standards set by others instead of ourselves.
Letting others dictate our self worth and...
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Are you cold?
No, Florida is miserably hot .. We might get "cold" once every few years for a week.
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I had plans to go out yesterday with a guy ive been seeing but he cancelled plans with me last minute saying he had a 'personal situation' & he can't explain right now. I dont want to be mad at him but he wont talk. Should i call him or let him call me?
Let him call you.
It will show consideration for whatever problem he is needing to attend and shows respect for his wishes.
He explained to you something was going on instead of standing you up which is a good thing.
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What is your favorite song by Matchbox 20?
Push
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Anyone have any good psycho ex stories? Been sitting here getting texts from mine all day.
I did not think he was psycho but I have turned my phone off.
No stories to share. Endings are never easy and it makes people crazy. I just choose to go through it in solitude. He wants to call and text to ease him.
It will pass.
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Did you want to move out of your parent's house as soon as you could?
Yea.. I was out before I should have been... but self inflicted and I am very close to my parents.
I just wanted to be way more grown than I was back in the days.
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Were/Are you a mama's child or a daddy's child?
I am a daddy's girl but my mother is my world.
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What kind of jelly do you like on your PB & J sandwiches?
Grape
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Should I get a six pack or twelve pack tonight..I am not driving?
Skip the bud.. or whatever.. Im serious.. listen to me.. go cheap. Go with Natural Ice. It is no joke. Get about eight. Cheers
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Are u single or taken?
Single for the very first time in years. I am still adjusting to this.
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If you put your head out of the window now what do you see
I feel bad .. no, not really because it is what it is.. but reading all these sweet answers.. bless all your hearts but when I look out my window I look to a garage empty of my boyfriend's tools, boat.. etc.
I look past it to the yard and see the mud trucks gone and any sign he was ever here with me.
I see the garden we planted with my dad.. our dogs trying to gain attention to get...
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Doesn't it seem like gay people are smarter than thier heterosexual counterparts?
I think this is an absurd question. You can downrate all you want.
This question is just feeding an already hateful debate.
Gay, straight.. people are people. Stop the crap of trying to make one label out to be any better than another.
This is like asking.. is a straight person smarter than a gay person.
Give me a break. Seriously
My patience is low today and I will admit my mind has...
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When was the last time someone pissed you off?
Last Sunday
My bf left with his brother and a few others to the mudhole and came home a complete stranger. I found out he had taken Xanax while drinking.
I have been confused about his choice to do so ever since but the anger has dissipated to confusion.
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Why do some consider Archie Bunker a bigot? Doesn't a man have a right to express his own opinion in his home?
Yes, he does have the right to be a bigot in his own home. That was proven.
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I have a great guy friend and we share everything with each other. Recently, we met up together for what we thought would be the last time and in the mood of the moment had oral sex. He started ignoring me afterwards. Why would this ruin our friendship?
It really does ruin friendships when it turns sexual.
He probably knows things will change and feels helpless because there is no going back now.
Friendship is way more important than getting your rocks off in my opinion.
Sometimes we have to learn the hard way but I have never heard of people not losing something in the friendship when that line has been crossed.
He needed your...
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Can you cry if you're requested to?
On command? No
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If a portal to hell ripped open before your eyes and hordes of demonic apparitions poured out, eviscerating everyone around you, what would you do?
Nothing, it is not in my hands. All I could do is pray and trust in the Lord.
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What is the strongest human emotion?
Love
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If you could have one of three things...100,000,000.00 dollars , x-ray vision, or telekenisis, what would you chose?
Give me the money and keep something I will have to have and not know if once I have it.. I may not want it.
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Is online flirting ok if your married?
It amazes me how time continues to bring changes into my life.
I am pretty sure a few years ago I would have saw this question and defended a married person's right to flirt.
Never having been married but saw things as harmless whereas now I see them as windows left open in a home..
allowing room for intruders to come in and rob the security that was once there.
We get weak...
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"If you're not willing to let people criticize your personal beliefs, you are only revealing your own insecurities" - Deepak Chopra...Agree of Disagree?
I agree.. but that does not mean that if I pop off at some jerk bent on trying to insult my faith, that my faith is not absolute.
Blame the hothead (whichever side they may be on), not the faith.
Give negative and you may get it back. Being of faith does not make you perfect and while it is more wise to remain quiet than argue, we sometimes fall short of our own expectations.
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Has anyone been busted for weed possession by the police, and if so, how much was it and what was the punishment?
Someone.. we shall name him "john", got pulled over.. he tried to swallow a small baggie of weed before the cop got to the window..
He nodded through the license and registration info.. all the while the bag had gotten stuck in his throat.. his face started turning red and everything.. when the cop walked back to his car John's girlfriend "jane" tried to help him get...
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Would you like to tell us about some of your favorite "Baggers" that aren't here anymore?
Lambchop & Bookdoc
I miss Nelson who is away for a bit and hope all is well with them.
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Who is Jesus Christ? Is he the son of God? If so, than why are the Christians saying that Jesus is God? And if Jesus is God, than what does John 3:16 says "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten son"....
I was raised Baptist and while I do not label myself any religion.. I do believe Jesus IS God.
I do not get into the whole christian thing because while people will label my beliefs christian, I think that is a title we all fall short on.
He is almighty.. and to understand how He could be in flesh among man, sacrificed yet still be the God over us all.. is to read His word and understand the...
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If God is all-loving with endless mercy, why does he cast souls into Hell for endless punishment and pain?
We are so caught up in this world we have created that it breaks my heart that people are looking to learn about God through others who do not even know Him themselves that are giving Him false references.
I have seen reference to God being cruel and unjust in the posts on this page and it is just sad.
People who skim and skip in the Bible to learn of Him are not looking to know Him or...
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Should personality tests be legal when considering an applicant for employment? Why or why not?
No, I do not think this should be legal at all.
That is judging us based on our different personalities and while some may not fit into a certain setting.. it takes away the chance for self growth.
I think it also shuts down acceptance of diversity.
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What do Jehovah's Witnesses belive that is different from other Christian religions?
I think that if another JW tells me that I cannot have a personal relationship with my Father in heaven if I do not call Him by "Jehovah" I might very well lose my temper.
That is the most asinine thing I have ever heard and for them to assume to know anything about my personal relationship is wrong.
They have all but belittled Jesus to a mere "good man" and the New...
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P Ahow come guys take a break up so easily?
I wish I could find the post I ran across where some ABer was saying it is not that men get over a relationship easier or faster but that they do tend to need a woman in their lives and move on quicker for that reason.. not that their heart still is not a bit torn.
Women tend to threaten to end the relationship a lot more than men throughout the relationship whereas with men.. it seems to me...
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Do you tend to 'dress up' to go to the supermarket, put on nice clothes, jewelry, etc. ? Or do you brush off the dandruff, tuck in a few things here and there, put on your shoes and go?
I have went to the grocery store with dried mud all over me.
I am spending my money there.. enough said.
My grandmother always told us the old saying of looking nice because you never knew what would happen while you were out.. well here is the thing.. under it all.. I am just flesh and bones.. so if I am not up to par.. I am still me.
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Do you ever wonder what some of the people on AB are thinking?
There are times when I read something touching that an Aber has shared and I wonder how they are faring.
Sometimes I will read something an ABer has shared and wondered what happened to make them lose their mind =X
As far as sitting and going "hey.. I wonder what (insert Aber name) is thinking right now".. no, never done it.
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Why is it that some people (not just theists) claim that atheism is a form of faith? What's the logic?
Atheists don't assert a god's non-existence, they just don't buy it so any ideas?
I do not see it as a form of faith but I am not an atheist so my understanding is limited.
I can only compare it to when I was in moments of doubt in life and on shaky ground with my own personal faith but I am no longer there.
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What are two main things a person does that demonstrates that he/she really loves you?
Listens to you
Stands by you
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Do i look better with my earrings in or out? like 10 really hot girls said i look like a drag queen do ihttp://img514.imageshack.us/my.php?image=nigganutzyh7.jpg
I could not get the picture.. it just sends you to sign up and I am just not going through all that.
I do not think men who wear earrings are attractive.. I think it makes em look like a punk.
I watched that fad go crazy in the early and mid 90's while people jumped on the fad wagons but see it less now.. Thank God.
Necklaces on men .. especially the thick ones with the open...
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What would you do if someone knocked on your door and said 'I've killed someone and i need you to drive me out of the country'? This hasn't / isn't happened / happening just a random question!
Close the door and go back to eating my bon bons.
Sorry.. but I am in Florida and anyone who lives here can tell you that drugs are rampant and with hard times hitting.. people are getting desperate.
They cannot sell .. whatever it is they sell.. to feed their habits as easily and we see chickenheads walking the streets mad crazy now.
There is a reason we have "No Standing"...
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{I'm a guy} Ladies what attracts you, sense of humor, confindince, athletic, rich, ect?
Sense of humor out of the four you listed.
Looks fade so who you are counts more.
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What, if anything, does Barack Obama have in common with Paris Hilton and Britney Spears?
They have all been on t.v. ?
I do not see Barack as a celebrity so the only thing I can think of is they have been on the boobtube.
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Which band do you prefer, O.A.R. or R.E.M. ?
R. E. M.
No contest
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Why do people unsubscribe from comments ? Are they afraid of peoples opinion other than their own?
I unsubscribe to keep from showing my tail. Either I am having a bad day and being childish and letting it come out negatively on here when someone tries to spark me up or heck.. maybe I just feel sparky
Either way.. I have FINALLY learned to pull the plug and unsubscribe.
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What is the capitol of West Virginia?
Charleston
I was born there and raised in North Carolina
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How many people knows Who is Jesus?
I know Him personally.
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OK, I am sitting at the bar. "My boyfriend left me!" Crying my heart out to you. What would you do to try to cheer me up? (Come on guys! Let's see them answers...lol) Ladies, feel free to join in as well!
Tell you to get out of the bar and go some place more healthy to start healing.
Going to a bar just preys on the weak state your heart is in and there are no good intentions there.
You will not find me in a bar but if I were in one and found someone hurting, I would take them to a place for coffe and let them talk some hurt out.
Not a prude at all but you get what you ask for in those...
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Have you ever worn yellow pants ? I have a pair of yellow wind pants but I dont know if I would look rediculous wearing them
I cannot do yellow. I am a tall chick and it just makes me look like a large banana.
I have scrubs that someone gave me as a gift at christmas and I have never worn them.
I think dark haired people with pretty dark skin can pull it off but not me.
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Do you look good for your age?
People tell me I look in my late twenties but I have crow's feet now and well, it is what it is.
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Is it proper to leave the religion of one's parents?
Your parents taught you what they believed.. which is not selfish because how would they teach you something they were not familiar with.. .. at least they wanted you to have some type of faith and I am sure it will hurt them if you find another path but you have to choose your own.
Faith is personal for each and every one of us.. you cannot fall into a group because that is where they are.....
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When you put your groceries on the belt for the casher, do you organize them or just put them up there?
I find myself sorting boxes with boxes, frozen or refridgerated stuff together.. cans with the cans.
It is more so that my lazy tail has an easier time unpacking it at home.
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If you are unhappy with yourself or just your life in general is going to a psychiatrist really going to help?
I think some people really need one but then my opinion is a friend is a poor man's psychiatrist.
Talking to someone without boundaries is healing no matter what title falls behind their name.
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Do you love or are you mostly afraid of cops?
I am not afraid of them. I respect them unless I meet one who is just a total nutbag with a uniform but for the most part, they are good.
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What would you rather eat? A Rattle Snake or your shoes in a survival situation?
Rattle snake.. hands down
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Whats most attractive a pretty boy, bad boy, rich guy or nice guy?
I have never been attracted to pretty boys but I cannot predict who I am going to be attracted to until I meet them.
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What would God say if he sees you right now?
He would hug me.
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Are you strong and independent?
People have always thought me to be stronger than I am but I am now learning that I am stronger than I thought.
I am pretty well independent.
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Which movies make you cry everytime even though you have seen them before? what about them makes you cry? does this make you love or hate them?
Passion Of The Christ
Steel Magnolias
E.T.
Schindler's List
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Do you feel constricted by society?
Not really. I cannot think of any time except when I was young and thought I knew everything in which I felt like there was constriction.
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Would you bow/curtsey before royalty?
Never. I know there is a chick on here that spazzes if you say anything against the "royalty" or queen but I got three words for her. Piss On Them.
They are no one to me and I am not bowing before anyone but my Creator. No man or woman is royalty to me.
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If you were to have a painting done of you alone, what would you want the background to be?
Sunset and horses
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When you were a kid What was your favorite snack after school?
peanut butter and jelly sammies, animal crackers (I so loved them) with milk
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Do you usually take care of your own problems or let others take care of them for you?
I take care of the majority of problems that come up but I have learned to seek help if it is too much.
Even if it is just to talk it out.
Handling things alone all the time just causes more problems in the long run. I learned that the hard way.
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Is there anybody out there that accepts jury duty as part of their civic responsibility?
Yes, I do.
I hate it when my number is called up and the aggravation of sitting around but I do respect this system.
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Do you get high or drink alcohol with your parents
I am turning 32 and it is very hard for me to crack open a beer around my parents.. even at a Bar-B-Q
I will drink tea or something around them.
They have never seen me intoxicated and I doubt I would ever let them.
Neither of them are into drugs.
Dad has a couple mixed drinks in the evenings and drank beer when we would go fishing. Mom has never been a drinker.
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What was your favorite toy growing up that you wish you still had? Mine was either Creepy Crawlers or my BB gun.
I miss my glow worm and Big Wheel. =(
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I just read this quote from Sigmund Freud: "The more the fruits of knowledge become accessible to men, the more widespread is the decline of religious belief". Do you agree with it?
No, I do not agree.
There is nothing that has come out that can disprove God... in saying that.. I want to say that I do not believe they ever could.
It is a catch 22 in the mind of scientists and atheists. They say we cannot prove Him but they have yet to disprove Him.
My faith is strong and nothing that has been said or has came out has even shaken it.. if anything I shake my head...
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Are you paying your rent with money you made from selling pot?
No, but if I sold it, I would.
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At what point does being dressed become being "scantily clad"?
When her dress is so short.. she should be sporting a hair net.
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Would like to hear peoples opinions on crossdressing. I am a life long crossdresser, I am not a pervert nor do I dress for sexual gratification. I usually gout in public fully presenting myself as a woman about twice a week, I
I think it is weird and creepy.
I do not understand it but I would not talk down on someone doing it.
The only time I have enjoyed being anywhere near someone doing it was at a costume party.
What you eat doesn't make me fat so do what you like.
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Is it true that rather we admit it or not, that we(ladies) have had at least ONE sexual fantasy about being with another woman?? Or at least wondered what the experience would be like, at least??..BE TRUTHFUL!!!
Yea but the reality is not as good as the fantasy in my opinion.
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Any idea why a mother would wait 5 weeks to report a child missing and expect anyone to believe that she's been looking for her on her own? This one has me speechless!
This is over here in my side of town and the dogs alerted to a scent of decomposition in the mother's car.
I believe she killed her daughter.
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I have never been to Florida...have you not been there either?
I live here and I will give you good advice.. visit but do not move here.
The air is bad, the water and the humidity is horrible.
When you see brochures of beautiful oceans and women in bikinis.. we got that but trust me.. there is more negative than positive to living in Florida.
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When people kill because they’re betrayed (or angry at them for whatever reason), why not just shoot them in an arm/leg so they could live on to think about what they did that caused them hurt? (Killing would just relieve the victim of all pain, right?)
I think that sometimes people who do not have control over their emotions can cross a line that we are not meant to cross.
They lose all control in an area where we have never been and all reasoning ceases to exist.
I do believe people black out in rage or trauma and they do things they probably never thought themselves capable of but they get caught up in the moment and normal is not...
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Why are there so many gullible people who actually believe Barack Obama is a Muslim? Or do they just hope everyone believes it so that people won't vote for him?
They hope to keep others from voting for him.
He will not get my vote but not because I fell for the ignorant gossip.
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When it comes to secrets... are you "locked lips", "sometimes safe", or "loose lips"?
Sometimes safe
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Which arcade game(the real full size stand-up ones) do you most want to have at your house?
Mortal Kombat
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I live with my dad, so whenever my boyfriend and I get into an argument, my boyfriend immediately tells my dad about the argument, in addition to making derogatory comments about me and calling me names. How should I handle this?
My dad has told guys I have dated.. she is a pain in the butt and you get what you ask for. I have heard him do it! lol but he loves me beyond this world and if a man badmouthed me, my dad would probably tell him to shut up in a not-so-polite way.
I do not think my dad would respect a man who came whining to him and would tell him so.
Any man who even badmouths you.. is not for you.
He...
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Do you remember your childhood home? What still really stands out for you about it?
It was a two story white house with a huge front yard and set back off the road.
I remember the stove in the winter. It was in the living room and could make it nice and warm fast.
It was down an old dirt road and I use to walk to the end to church on Sundays.
My best friend Stacy lived a few houses down. Her brother Tommy was my first kiss. I chased him around forever to get it.
Their...
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Where in the world would you like to spend your lifetime aside from the country where you presently live?
Australia
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What kind of woman/man would you like to marry?
If a man makes me feel the desire to marry.. he is the one for me.
Kind, loving, compassionate, funny, laid-back, loyal and of faith.
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What is the most death defying act you've ever done?
I recently was involved in something crazy but I was not the driver, I was in the middle.
We had taken his little mazda (not one of the mud trucks that would have been more suitable!)into the orange groves by the house to test out the new tires and out deep in the grove is this drop off into this little bowl-like thing there ..it looks like someone did circles over and over to create it (it is...
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Have you ever wondered if your mate sees you the same way you see yourself in the morning? cause sometimes i look a mess.
I KNOW he does not see what I see.. there is no way lol
I have unmanageable hair as it is so in the morning it is even more crazy.
He has to love me.
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What's your favorite personality?
Friendly, laid back with a mischievious side.
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Valarie Quiz!!!1. If you were a Hippo and you had one wish it would be? 2. Would you live in an underwater colony, underground colony, or a cloud colony? 3. If you could have any person/band/(dead or alive) Perform for you who and what song would it be?
People not to exist and take all my land
Cloud
Vince Gill - Go Rest High On That Mountain
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VQ cont.. 4. Your life is not complete with out ___? 5. One thing you want to accomplish before you die? 6. Would you like to live till 1000 years old with me? 7.Your favorite bedtime story when you were a kid? 8.Can you count/how many freckles(do)you hav
pets
Go to Alaska
No.. that is waaay too long to live
Bedtime prayer .. not because I was a good kid but it was something my mother did with me
Numerous
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VQ cont.. 9. if you could broadcast a seven word message to the world and universe it would be? 10. The last time you got laid was? 11. If you died today, your only regret if any would be? 12. Whats Your middle name? 13. (your own question for all of us)
Get your goat out of my yard
Around 6ish am 7-23-08.
No regrets.. God saved me
Lynn
I have no question sorry. I am too sleepy to think on one
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Valarie quiz:part4: 14. Whats your favorite word? 15. Your secret? 16. How many days till your birthday? 17. Favorite month, why? 18. Favorite food dish? 19. Morning person, or Night owl? 20. Your favorite question You've asked or answered on AB?
Yes
I'll never tell
I'm lazy so Sept. 8th
Nov. I like the weather
Spaghetti & meatballs
Night owl
Pet question.. cannot remember the specifics
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If you had an Arch Enemy on AB, who would it be?
I do not like questions like this that ask to call out other members in any type of negative way.
It is mean and jr highish.
Not that you intended that but it is how I feel.
People conflict over misunderstood text.. personality conflicts.. bad days.. bad moods.. etc..
We do not need yet another reasoning to conflict.
My arch enemy would be myself.. on PMS days.. inconsiderate days or...
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Answer in 4 words: eye colour, a like, a dislike, what is the last thing to pass your lips?
Blue, thunderstorms, lobster, sweet tea
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Do u agree that this is the craziest year for preidential elections I mean u have obama and McCain running so who doesn't agree.
I agree!
I do not want either of them as president!!!
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If you are not engaged or married to someone, can sex with a third party really be considered "cheating"? There has been no promise or vow taken.
If you are in a relationship and you know the other person would not want you seeing anyone else.. then yes, it is cheating.
You cannot pretend to not know.
If you cheat, you take the right of choice away from the person you are in a relationship with to decide whether they want with someone who will see others.
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AnDo you think thats is un natural to wear (me MALE) panties,garter belt and hose. Serious replys only
thanks
I do not know whether it is natural or unnatural.. I only know what I prefer.
Speedos on men turn me off.. quick.. and I find it highly unattractive to see men in women's garments unless they are playing a practical joke.
I could never get into a guy who had a kink for women's personals.
However, what you eat does not make others fat so do what you like.
You choose your own...
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Why is it that just when your getting one step ahead in life something knocks you back to square one again?
To show you that we are not in control like we think..
To help us appreciate the times when we are on top.
The down moments are what help make it possible for us to ever go up
Live and learn
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How much a month do you pay for internet connection.
$31.00 for DSL
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I'm afraid of getting seasick. Is there a "best" time of year for calmer seas? And, any great remedies for getting seasick? Thanks.
You could take some over the counter pills for motion sickness or ask your doctor if he will prescribe Phenergan for you.
It is a great pill to take for nausea if there are no health concerns for YOU taking it.
Speak with your doctor.
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Until what time do you have free minutes after nine?
I have unimited calling and texting nationwide with MetroPCS.
I had Alltel for years and loved them but I do not miss the bill!
I had free minutes after nine until 6 am I believe.
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What is the most effective way to let a judge and the public know that you disapprove of a decision he has made?
Appeal the decision.
I just watched a trial where.. yea, you pretty much thought it could be the guy but I did not get that they proved the case.
Word of mouth goes a long way.
I read in our newspaper here in Florida about how doctors were getting hurt by Internet BLOGS!!!
People were posting their experiences online and sharing positive and negative experiences.
They tried to make...
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Poll: If there was a vote on legalizing marijuana Yes or No
Yes
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I have been thinking I may be bisexual, but am in a committed relationship with a man. (I am female) How do I find out if I am or not, without hurting him?
I would really take more time to think on it.
If it is not causing you any emotional harm by not doing it.. then why do it?
I think people get way too caught up in what kink to ride on rather than what is better for their mental and emotional well being.
Unless you are feeling discontent being with a man, take time and make sure this is not just something that seems exciting to you for the...
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Do you go to bed with or without s/o if you both are at home?
My boyfriend has a thing about going to bed together.. Do not get me wrong.. there is no greater feeling than being wrapped up with him.
If you were to meet him you may never guess what a snuggler he is but once I get home.. I do laundry, play with the furry babies, straighten up the house.. cook .. yadi yadi and late at night is when I get "my time".
Ten minutes ago.. before I...
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Do you consider your life to be full...or empty?
Full and I am very thankful
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My life is full because I turned it all over to God and stopped thinking me, we or anyone else was in control but Him. I stopped turning away from Him because I could not stop sinning because I realized.. I will always be a sinner here. I can only do my best and trust in Him.
Both of my parents have failing health and dad is facing bypass (just...
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Share with us one of the most memorable moments of your life that brings a smile on your face whenever you think of it.
When I got to see a whale close up. Not out in its natural habitat .. that is a dream of mine but I was close enough to touch one and it was amazing.
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Dose size mater or what techniques they use?
I think it is what two people bring together.. if it is passion.. good stuff..
love.. perfection
I will go with technique because as a woman.. I can honestly say I do not ever sit and wish my guy was hung like some horse and my private part equal to bottomless quicksand.
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What exactly is a "Life Penguin"? I've noticed at least 3 AB users with that phrase in their name.
There is different research studies out there.. some studies have shown that penguins mate for life..
Some studies show that they resemble us in that they do for different periods some short.. some fleeting.. some long term and some for life.
I think it is a beautiful how gtravels and others have that description.
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When you were growing up, did you ever think you would be were you are today?
No, I did not.
I participated in a lot of self destructive behavior and got into a lot of mishief.
Never did a drug but pot but I did not have much fear of anything and thought I could do whatever I wanted.
I am thankful for being here today and past a troubled youth.
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If you're having a meal with somebody and they have food on their face, do you politely point it out to them or pretend it isn't there?
Instead of staring at it and wondering if other people are staring at you sitting with someone with food on their face.. I would just say "you have something on your lip/face or wherever and go right back into talking on whatever we were talking about to get past it and not make it a big deal.
I would want to be told instead of looking like my food was trying to eat my face.
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When you tell peope about your profession, what do they automatically assume about you?
They assume I am more serious than I am.. then they figure out I am a Goof Troop and probably think anyone can pass nursing school if I can =X
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Mr./Ms Lonely or Mr./Ms. Lucky in Love? Which are you?
Ms. Lucky because I am very blessed with my boyfriend and however far it goes, I have no doubts I will never regret the walk together.
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(For Girls) What is a more attractive language for a guy to know French or Italian?
Italian
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What disease will concern you most as you get older?
Cancer and HIV patients have always been one of the hardest..
Arthritis.. very painful and crippling..Chronic pain of any kind .. hard stuff.
Dementia.. harder on loved ones but many elderly get dementia.. it is all a part of aging.
Alzheimer's is frightening for the person.. it seems like an endless maze of being lost and confused, ending in oblivion at times. Very hard on loved...
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What is one thing in life that would shatter your heart into milions of peices?
God to give up on me
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My husband had a vasectomy eight months ago now i want another baby
Take another eight months and think about it before you put him on an emotional roller coaster.
Hopefully you both discussed his vasectomy and agreed upon it when it was done. Thought it out and both parties were ok with it.. so it is highly unfair of you to turn around so soon and say "undo it!"
You need to see if you truly want another baby or are just suffering from a very...
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Do you think your S/O is the most beautiful person in the world?
He has a beautiful spirit and a rockin body.
How I got so lucky.. I have no clue lol
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What do you think, Would be beneficial to add to the AB experience?
Ignore feature, private messaging or inboxes for messages.
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Why do old people think because they're old they know better? Intelligence does not change with age. The only difference between two equally intelligent younger and older people in wisdom is the amount of time spent creating insights on a topic.
Intelligence DOES change with age.
The more experiences you go through, the more you learn.
Whether you learn from lessons or not is up to each of us but we are meant to.
How can intelligence not grow with age?
You are not born knowing what you do now. Life has taught you.
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Without repeating another's answer, can you say one nice thing about another Answerbagger?
Sm00z has a nice hat =)
Otherwise I am not that familiar with them lol
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Who do you think the top 3 dirtiest rudest ABers are?
I think questions like this calling out other posters is rude itself and puts you no higher than the standard you have set the ones you are asking to be called out at.
People know who they like or do not like.
Don't like em? Avoid em. This is hurtful with intention to have people sit and name off people, even if some of the people listed are deliberate instigators.. this is not...
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What do you think of first when I say "boondocks"?
An old song I loved when I was a little girl and still.
Down in the boondocks, down in the boondocks
People put me down 'cause that's the side of town I was born in
I love her and she loves me
But I don't fit in her society
Lord have mercy, I'm a boy from down in the boondocks
Now, every night I watch the lights from the house upon the hill
Well, I love a...
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I have a question for all music lovers. Who is the better singer Nickelback or Miley Cyrus.
Nickelback
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I never been Castrated at birth, Should, I make appointment with a doctor?
You cannot mean castrated.. you must mean circumsized ?
Castrated is to not have it at ALL.
=X
Am I missing something or is this something over my head lol ?
Is there a new hip thing out there called castration that does not mean what it is supposed to mean?
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What if a huge spaceship hovered over Jeruselum and a man looking like Jesus appeared and said "I have returned to take all believers to the new earth to live in eternal peace, this earth is doomed, come now!" You have 24 hours. Would you go or stay?
He would just take me I hope. There would be no choice in my heart and He knows that. I am His.
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Do you wish you was taller or shorter than you are why or why not?
I wish I was shorter. I want to be petite but no.. I am a tall, pole-like, lanky chick.
I think a lot of us want the opposite of what we are and if we were the opposite.. we would want something else lol
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Do you change your own oil? ... OR, do you use: ... a quick-lube place? ... a dealer? ... a service station? ... a department store's auto shop? something else?
Quick lube
I put about a thousand miles a month on my car and it gets changed a lot.. I do not want to do it that much =X
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If i was your friend an just out of friendship i said i love you would you say it back, or just smile
If we were friends I would tell you I loved you right back.
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When your pet hurts do you hurt?
Yes, very much.
My pets are my children.
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Beer vs. weed... which wins?
Weed .. alcohol is something that when taken too far.. is liquid satan.
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When's the last time you thought about ending someone's life?
My bf is a beautiful man but he is the first guy I have been with that is an alcoholic.
He fights it.. or rather we fight it but it is what it is.
He has drank since very young.
He was brought up in a different type of family. Mine was loving and close..I never went without. My parents worked hard always..
He was brought up with people who showed him things in life.. we should never see...
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What time does it get dark where you live these days?
About 9ish here in Florida
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Should road rage have legal repurcussions before someone gets killed or has an accident?
Road rage would be hard to prove .. usually it is in the heat of the moment when their anger gets out of control..
Not planned or predicted.
Wish there were ways to tell but then the profiling would be unfair, biased and gads.. nah.. it is what it is and we just have to be on guard to those who seem aggressive and not let ourselves get worked up with them and become their target.
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What are good cat names?
Mary Jane
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Is anyone else craving lemons?
No.. pickles.. I love pickles =X
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How do you deal with annoying people at work/school that you have to interact with each and every day?
When I was younger.. I thought it my job to let anyone who I did not like, know it.
If someone was annoying.. I would let em know and I regret being such a brat.
I guess you grow up and realize.. it does not matter if you do not like some people.. some do not like you either but it is far worse to act on negative things against others just for being who they are than to simply accept that...
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Do you wish more of your dreams were about sex?
Not really. I can get down with sleeping.. I love naps and to curl up at night with the house cold and just go into sweet oblivion..
I do not want to get all worked up, frisky and getting into action while I am sleeping. I want to be peaceful and left the heck alone.
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Do your neighbors hate animals?
Every neighbor that connects with my yard.. front, back and sides, have pets.
I am thankful for that because I am an avid animal lover and never have to hear the bickering about animals around the neighborhood.
My female is aggressive and I have to have the mandatory signs on all sides of the chain link fence but no one gives me grief. I do not have barking or obnoxious pets.
One...
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I bought an alarm clock last week that has a kangaroo punching a bell as the alarm, Do you own any unusual alarm clocks?
A friend of mine made me an alarm clock program about five or six years ago.
You can use it like most pc alarm clocks.. choose your own sound, cds, etc.
Mine is of a rooster crowing and Led Zep ..
It does not stop unless I get my tail out of bed and turn it off. I have it set hideously loud.
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What is your favorite fancy olive?
Filled with almond .. mMmm
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A married woman tells me i'm nice and horny what should i do she's also a workmate!!
What do you mean what should you do? Ignore the loosey goosey and thank God you are not her husband.
Hopefully you just want to know how to avoid problems turning her down.. simple. Ignore her unless it comes to work related things.
Rolling her around for a bit just makes you seconds if you two act on anything. Why settle for that?
If you are getting any type of worked up like you are...
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Would you say your moods tend more toward the happy or the sad?
Happy .. I am almost always smiling and cutting up.. unless pmsing.. that is just bad stuff mkaay.
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What do you consider sweet, as in a person?
Someone with empathy
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DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY TIPS ON HOW TO HAND TRAIN YOUR PARAKEETS(OR ANY TYPE OF BIRD)?
Patience and repetitiveness.
Follow every good deed with a treat.
Treats will help them in a BIG way because they will have a tendency to want to repeat whatever it is for the treat.
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Comfort or style?
Comfort
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Which song do you like better, 'Under Pressure' by Bowie & Queen or 'Ice Ice Baby' by Vanilla Ice?
Bowie & Queen all the way
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What would you do if you found out your wife use to be a man or your husband use to be a woman?
I have to be honest.. I can only speculate on how I may feel or what I would do. It would be awful I am sure.
The trust broken would probably be a little too overwhelming but unless it happens.. there is no way I can know how I will respond.
I would never willingly seek out a transgendered partner be it my hangup about it or not.
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What hour of the day are you almost never awake for?
4:30 - 5:30 am
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Barenaked Ladies frontman Steven Page was caught recently with a small amount of cocaine in New York and is facing 15 years in prison. Does anyone listen to this band and what are your thoughts?
I like em.
They have always appeared pretty clean cut in lyrics and how they represent themselves.. so this was like omy! .. but everyone has their battle.
I do not think he will get a stiff sentence.
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What are 5 signs that your relationship with someone is over?
Lack of affection
They start spending more and more time away from you
Lies start getting told
Suspicious and unexplained absences, phone calls, locked cell phones
Lack of interest in what is going on in the other's life. It will feel as if you are no longer a unit or working together towards the future.
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In January my boyfriend of five years started seeing another woman. No explanation to me other than later he said we were not getting along. They broke up and now he is calling again. I really care but an very leary of him. What do you think?
People make mistakes. It does not make it right but it does not mean there is a 100% chance he will repeat it.
You know him better than us. Take it slow and give both of you time to make sure this is not just a comfort zone type thing that he is falling back into.
Go out on dates and do not rush back into how things were. Rekindle the passion and faith in each other.
There is this...
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Which presidential candidate has the most enthuastic supporters: Barack Obama or John McCain?
I believe Obama does. He is stepping over mountains and making history in his goal to override the blockage racism has made.
His movement to recognize all people, not just some is inspiring.
He is passionate and steadfast in his conviction to get people off their couches and work towards making a difference. In this, I admire him but I will not vote for him.
McCain is superficial in my...
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Between a cop who dies in the line of duty, and a scaffolder who accidentally falls off the scaffold and dies, which was the hero and why?
I would say the cop because dying in the line of duty for a cop is dying while protecting and serving US.. but that scaffolder was a hero to someone I am sure.
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My neighbors have continued to feed my cats despite requests that they stop. They are getting obese and have health issues. They are all fixed and licensed to me - in other words - not strays. Do I have any legal
No, you do not have a legal leg to stand on.
If anything, count yourself lucky.. the neighbors could be the type who complain about the cats coming in their yard and your cats could be trapped and taken to the local animal shelter.
Later on down the road.. they could become these types of neighbors when it is no longer cute or convenient for your cats to go there.
You would be fined and...
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When someone says the name Jehovah's Witnesses, what is the first word that pops into your head?
I do not think of just one word. I think of a group of people who follow a different Bible than the one that I do.
Jesus is my Savior. Jehovah is theirs.
I am friends with quite a few and we respect each others' different faiths.
I would never become a JW but respect freedom of religion greatly.
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You know for a fact that your dog licks its balls. does it bother you when he licks your face?
I have to be honest and say that I have never been big on dogs who lick your face and stuff.
None of my dogs do it but they get biggo kisses on their noses all the time.. I have seen them burrow their noses in the dirt and God only knows what I am kissing off their noses but.. I just cannot help myself.
They are my babies.
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Why do female entertainers, pop stars, strippers etc like touching themselves?
Sex sells .. images, sensuality, erotica,
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Does a woman insult the man she loves by seeking help from another man?
Not too long ago I asked my dad to fix me up a bar over my washer and dryer to hang the clothes up after I took them out.
He tells me to ask Wayne (my bf) because it might hurt his feelings that I came to my dad.
I was not trying to insult my guy.. dad has just always been a great handyguy.
My dad was right.. Wayne wanted to be the man of the house and do things I wanted done.
I think...
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I just got served my divorce papers and i don't know if i should cry or dance for joy or what ... what should i do? you know, i've been married to her for 13 years and i don't want to lose her ...
I am not going to say you have lost her. No one here can know that at all.
I have seen people actually go through with the divorce and get back together.
I would just take some time to spend with friends to get away from the turmoil in your mind. Keep busy and do things you enjoy doing.
Be productive and work on getting back to being happy.
If she offers ways to communicate with...
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As a wife and a mother I have a partime job I cook a hot meal everynight..Is that fair to do? Are there women out there who do the same.
Before my boyfriend and I decided to live together.. I did basic meals and never was pressed for anything..
since living together.. I cook every week night of the week and keep up with both our laundry, the bills and appointments. He goes through clothes like I have never seen. I do laundry almost daily ..the little stinker!
He grills out or takes me out on weekends. So.. he gives back but...
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Now that our gas prices are high how many women went back to work and do you resent your husband for going back to work.
The company that I work for increased our mileage pay and if I were married or my boyfriend and I started to struggle, I would have no problems working more to keep things comfortable for us.
It takes two and male or female.. it should not matter if you are in a relationship.. you are a team that works together.
There should not be one person having to pull all of the weight.
I love my...
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If someone dials *67 before dialing someone, can the person being called unblock the call to reveal the caller?
Not that I know of and phone companies are never supposed to give out phone records.
They can get into trouble with that so the chances of the person getting anonymous calls knowing who is doing it, is slim.
Unless.. you are doing it a lot then they can have their phone company log the calls and they can file a complaint in which the number's identify may come out due to harrassment.
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If your best friend started dating your ex, what is the appropriate protocal?
I do not know what it is .. the only comparison I can make and while it seems a little sick.. it is the best I can do.. an ex to me is like a fire hydrant I have already peed on.. there is no need for any friend of mine to go near it.. I made it mine.
While it may no longer be mine.. respect should keep any friends I know, away from it.
However, it happens.
My best friend did start...
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Do you think that cheating is in our genes?
No, I do not.
We were made to be monogomous. History shows us that.
Just as it shows there have been weak among the strong all along, those who cheat.
If a person cannot be faithful, there is a weakness in them, not strength. There is no loyalty and without loyalty, they are no good to you or themselves.
It is only now that the times show less marriages etc.. thanks to our wanting...
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Does the chirstian religon fall under or above the catholic reilgon?
Neither one of them are on any type of rating scale.
They are labels that we made up to seperate us by different faiths/beliefs.
Those who judge others their religions have no good intentions. We can think our faiths are right but to insult another's is wrong. Judgement should not come from us against each other on something so personal.
I do not believe the Catholic beliefs but I...
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Are you a Democrat, a Republican, or neither? If you arent either,...what are you?
I am Independent which if you know anything about Florida elections.. I am basically allowed to do squat when it comes to voting.. hence my lack of faith in it all.
Having to vote republican if you are republican.. I mean that is asinine.
I love burgers but that does not mean I like every burger out there!
It is all hogwash and that sucks for those of us with voices not being heard.
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Do u think undocumented children who were brought to the US when they were young kids...should be entitled to become US citizens and be granted the same rights and privileges as their US born peers. what do u think should be done to this response.
This is a very tough question but then all you have to do is visit these places they escape from and no, breaking the law is not right nor should it be acceptable but if you have ever been a part of the process, they get raped in their quest to get here legally.
I saw it with a friend's friend and always he had to pay this fine $300 here or $600 there.. and for what? Filing or other lame...
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Why are people so obsessed with drinking alcohol?
Alcoholism is a disease. Reading that people think that they like to vomit or enjoy its negative effects makes me realize how uneducated the world is on alcohlism.
It CAN be fun but that is how it starts.. then you do it when you are stressed and escape for just a moment from life's pressures.. baby steps to a very big problem.
I use to ask why would anyone waste so much money on...
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What do you think happened to natalie holloway?
I think Joran (spelled?) might have either tried to take advantage of her once his friends dropped them off and she either tried to fight him and who knows.. fell? Hit her head? I do believe he was with her when she died as he was the last one to see her alive.
I think he is despicable for not giving her family closure.
The guy who owned the boat that Joran was said to have called should...
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What's the BEST bottled bbq sauce?
Sweet Baby Rays Honey bbq sauce
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If your boyfriends brother asked you to do something would you tell your boyfriend?
The first time.. I would tell him that his disrepect of his brother is disgusting and if he does it again you will let your boyfriend know.
There is a fine line.. he could see your not telling as a sign that you WANT to do whatever it is.. or you tell him very firmly that you will not put up with that crap.
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Which city do you think is the craziest to drive in?
Jacksonville, Florida.
They WILL run you out of their path if you get in their way!
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My ex had all the actions of a man who loves his wife and kids but I was wrong he left me and my kids for a woman he met the same night, what do you think was it love he felt for us or not?
Yes, I do believe he loved his family and still possibly does.
He has made a bad decision that has not caught up with him yet maybe?
He will probably regret it and families are often torn apart because of actions like this in which they wish they could take back but got caught up in the moment.. that caused a lot of hurt to many.
Good luck
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Is it acceptable to tuck your jeans into your cowboy boots?
Acceptable ?? Yes.
If you want to wear it that way then do it!
I think it looks better with the jeans over the tops of the boots but it is what YOU like that matters.
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Do you talk with your AB friends frequently via email?
Not every day and sometimes not every week. From time to time.
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What do you think about a woman 70 years old dating man 26 years old
I think she wants him to just go ahead and hit it.. and he wants to go ahead and hit it for the dough or gifts she is willing to come off with.
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If you were on American Idol, what would Simon say about your voice?
He would stand and take off his microphone saying "now this is just downright ridiculous having to listen to this crap.. If that is called singing.. I am getting out of the field."
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My dad and i have never had a close relationship. now that im a adult he's tryning to run my life, he never did it when i needed his help, so why now..What should i do? He's hurt me alot over the years but i still want a relationship with him..help.
He is probably trying to figure out a way to get in your life and that is what he came up with.. trying to be the dad now that he should have then.
There is no handbook to tell us how to fix our screwups .. so go easy on him.
Yea.. he is floundering and probably getting on your last nerve but he is trying.
I do believe in the whole "better late than never".
You both hurt...
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What is the hardest thing you had to deal with in life so far?
Reality.
The bad stuff in life
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What first comes to mind when you hear the word: exotic?
Plants/Flowers
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What's the purpose of making your bed if your just going to lay in it again?
When I was younger.. I NEVER thought the day would come when I actually HAD to make my bed in order to be comfortable getting back in it .. but those days are here.
Who wants to be short-sheeted..grrrr.. nothing like sleeping peaceful and then the sheet is all jacked up around your neck and your legs are freezing!
I keep my house 66-68 degrees at night because I sleep better when it is...
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I am 40% gross. How gross are you?
www.blogthings.com/howgrossareyouquiz/
40%
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Where's the hottest place you have been?
Here in Florida.. where we hardly ever get a breeze unless a hurricane hits us and the humidity makes it hard to breathe outside.
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16 years old and engaged. What are your thoughts?
Too young but you have to make your own decisions and I wish you the best no matter what you choose.
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All me an my fiance do anymore is fight, im a pretty jealous person an he knows that little things bother me an hurt me so much an says that hes going to change but never does, does he really love me?
Someone .. Nitroduck I think? responded to a question and I wish you could read his answer. It is so true and amazing.
You are not only doing your relationship, but yourself harm worrying over him cheating and being jealous.
You will become less and less attractive to him with that jealous attitude and the hassle of that baggage.
You may want to be the one to "change" since...
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Considering all that has been going on in the world in the last couple of years, what is your outlook for the future of the united states of America?
More will be in poverty and the recession will last quite a while.
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How would you handle the unsavory attitude of a sibling regarding the care and well being of your parents?
I am the baby out of five children. I am 31 now.. turning 32 in Sept.
My siblings stopped coming down to Florida much when mom and dad's health started failing and their money went to their healthcare.
At 27 I took care of them. When the hurricanes tore apart Vero Beach where they lived, I moved them into my house and turned the garage into an apartment.
It was hard getting dad to...
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Can you sleep with open lights?
I cannot stand any light when I sleep.
I even have the alarm clock on dim and facing the wall.
I had worked night shift for years and had to have heavy, dark drapes to block out lights.
When I go to bed at night..I have to have the t.v. off and the room pitch black.
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Its Friday night and your on Answerbag, does that mean A. your a loser, B. you just dont like going out to clubs, C. you love these kinds of things, D. your date didnt show up, E. you really want to help people F. you didnt get a babysitter for tonight
My guy is passed out in the recliner and I am trying to make myself sleepy.
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If you can make 60,000 in 2 years for working in a Chinese restaurant 12 hours a day, 6 days a week, free food and free place to live, no bills to pay so it averages about 2,500 a month, would you do it?
If it takes two years to make 60k. No thanks.
Also, they work their butts off and the pay does not compensate.
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Could you love someone you never met?
I have internet friends that I have kept in touch with for ten years. After a few years of chatting I had met a few back in the days, we went out and had good times (as friends.. chicks and dudes).
I had grown fond of them and love them in that I care about them like I do my offline friends.. but not romantically.
As far as the whole love thing..sure, we can love things about them and I...
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How do you prefer your steak?
Rare, MR Medium, MW, or Well Done?
Medium rare with Smoke sauce
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How are the gas prices effecting you? What have you had to give up?
We still take the trucks out to the mudhole but loading them up on the trailer and hauling them is getting rough.
We still take the boat out but I mean it is like you drive for thirty minutes and have to refuel.
We have spoiled ourselves. Kudos to those who have taken to alternative transportation.. riding bikes and whatnot. Saving your money and your lives. Wish I wasn't so durn lazy.
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Guys: Do you believe in PMS or do you think its just an excuse for us ladies to get away with being b*tchy?
I am not a guy but I want in on this one.
PMS is very real.
I swear I can do the whole headspin like in the Exorcist during this time. I think we feel so ugly inside and the body goes through so many changes that we just get miserable and vent it out.
We want away from everyone and everything which is hard while trying to maintain relationships but it just is overwhelming at times.
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For male animals, what is a bigger motivator food or sex?
Survival, as is for most all living creatures.
Food definitely over sex
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I have had a rescue dog for about a month now, he is around one years old and every time i leave him in the house alone he always does a wee or poo.He never does it when im in.why is this,and how can i prevent it?
It sounds like seperation anxiety.
The worst thing you can do is hit him. I am sure you know this but for those out there who do not know.. hitting allows for distrust to grow inbetween you and your pet. Same as it does with people.
The crate idea is good or allow him access to one room and put a puppy pad down (him being one does not matter).
Place the pad away from where your dog will...
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What's your greek name? just replace the first letter of your name with a Y and at the end add "us" Mark = Yarkus :)
Yellieus LOL!
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My eyes go red hurt in bright lights, eg (supermarket lights) and I have to squint in natural sunlight, is this normal?
You need to get your eyes checked ASAP.
I am not being overly dramatic. I am being very serious.
Your sensitivity to light is a sign .. either that light tires the eyes or some other issue that could be more serious.
Do not risk your sight by procrastinating on this one.
Good luck.
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If a driver is from NY and they get a ticket in Richmond, VA while doing 100 mph on the highway, would that driver still get points on their license issued by NY state?
Your MVR (Motor Vehicle Report) follows you everywhere.
If you get ten tickets in VA and move to NY, all tickets (points) will still count against you on your MVR.
The MVR is what the insurance agencies look up to see your driving activity in regards to pts and violations.
Your MVR is unique and yours alone. (Based off your driving license number which has identifying numbers in it.....
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My boyfriend seems to be loosing his interest in me.. and when I confront him on it. It's.. i'm sorry ! you know I wouldn't ever mean to disapoint you, tomorrow we'll spend the entire day together ! ..It's 8:30 pm.. and I haven't seen him. What shouldIdo?
Louisa is telling you straight when she says to leave him be and let him do his own thing for a while.
Go out with girlfriends and find other ways to occupy your time.
The more you pull at him.. the farther he will pull from you.
I cannot say whether he wants out of the relationship but just cannot come out and do it for whatever reasons ie: knowing you will not handle it well etc.
or
he...
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Have you ever received an explanation (comment threads) for the downrates you've received? If you haven't yet, how would you react to such an explanation?
I cannot remember to be honest.
They might have.
Most of the time it was when a user would get mad and if we bickered.. low and behold I would have answers downrated back to back to back. Some even months ago.. they just went through my info and went to town lol
I am not one of those who thinks they should HAVE to leave a comment in order to downrate. It would just lead to more hen...
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Would you ever steal from a blind man on the street asking for spare change?
No. Never, ever.
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For the past week a large male cat has been breaking into my house via my back door screen (he's been basically clawing it out) in an attempt to violate my 6 month old kitten. Talked to the owner, he won't do anything. Is it legal to take it to the pound?
You have the right to take it to the pound because it is on your property and destroying said property.
The owner will get fined when they go to get their animal and they may be liable for damages.
Keep receipts for the screens.
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What do you think is the most important airplane safety feature? Your seatbelt, the drink cart, a sleep mask or?
The seatbelt to keep me from flopping all over the people, drinkcart and seats.
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In what areas of your life will increased patience serve you well?
Patience with myself.
Not expecting so much and allowing room for error so that I do not give up when I fail at something.
When things go so nice and then a blunder.. I will have the patience to try again and not stay down.
If I have it for myself .. I can most definitely have it for others lol
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Who do you respect the most?
My dad.
He does not lie, cheat or steal and always gave to others.
He treats people with kindness and respect.
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What do you think when you hear the term "God bless America". Wouldn't God bless everyone? Isn't it being self-centred to ask God to bless America instead of the world?
Because we sing it here in America.
Many of us do love our country and pray for God to bless it. It does not mean we do not care about other countries but every country has things they do as a country.. so let's not find fault just with America.
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Would you like to receive a postcard from a fellow ABer? :o)
Not unless I had gotten extremely close to them.
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Do you forget things you are supposed to do if you do not write them down?
I write everything down. From movies I see that are going to be on, to errands.. household chores.. etc.
I would be lost without my list.
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Would you remain friends with someone who badmouths one of your closest friends?
I would not throw down a friend because they did not like one of my other friends. That is grade school.
I would tell them that I do not want to listen to any negative stuff about my other friend and to keep it to themself or talk to someone who is not friends with that person who will take it to heart.
Everyone has bad mouthed someone at some point in life. I do not care who you are.....
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Dont you hate having a friend that always just talks about themselves all the time?
I do have a friend like that and it annoys me but I love them to pieces.
They obviously need that for whatever reason.. to feel wanted, desired or more than they think that they are.. so if it is not harmful to others.. I let em have it. Who cares? We all have personality flaws.
If they knew how silly they looked.. they probably would not do it but something inside tells them they are...
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What is your way to help cease migraines?
I had my wisdom teeth removed and ended the two year battle with migraines.
Finding ways to deal with stress can help ease them as well.
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Do you have friends here on AB that are as good as your friends in real life?
One of my r/l friends visits AB from time to time.
I do not really get close to people on here. I chat with a few in email from time to time but life is so busy there is just not enough hours in the week to keep up with more people or things.
AB is my place to go to get away from r/l things and take a break.
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Im 14 and is it normal for me to watch porn every day cos I can't stop like right now im watching porn?
No, it is not. Not everyday.
You are going to become desensitized in different ways towards women and life in general.
I, personally, would not want a man who watches porn all the time.
It is just like the midleading commercials that tell you that if you use their product your balding head will start sprouting new hair. Lies and deception.
Porn is selling deception. There is nothing...
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Do you think I am good looking, judging by my dp on AB?
You are absolutely adoreable. Your face and eyes are gorgeous without having to show skin to get attention or noticed. You have it going on without all that.
You are probably going to rob men's hearts whether you mean to or not.
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If your entire family was going to be sentenced to hell for all eternity & you had a choice to either burn with them or to pass through the pearly gates on your own, what would you do?
I am not choosing hell - eternal seperation from God for nobody.
My parents have a reservation in heaven so this really is not a serious question to me but no matter, I would choose eternity with God. He is first because without Him, I have no family.
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What were you afraid of when you were a little kid?
Slow motion dreams, hanging my feet off the bed and clowns scared me.
I still despise clowns.
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Can you name a physical trait you got from your parents?
I got my dad's biggo, german nose and my mother's blue eyes.
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If you wrote a letter to an old flame after five years and they took forever to write you back ( like months) though nothing "earth-shattering" was written, should you expect any response to your reply and if so what?
I would not expect a reply. They have probably moved on with their life.
If they have taken months.. well, that speaks for itself. Whether they are happy or not with their life right now.. it does not show any interest in starting up communication.
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What is the worst thing you could do to your enemy?
Ignore them
The best revenge, is to forget.
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What is your opinion of men seeing strippers at their bachelor parties? Is it different if it's only for ten minutes or the whole time?
I don't mind. I, personally, would not want kept up-to-date on the activities of the party to cause myself probably needless worry. .. so I would not want to know until afterwards lol
Guys just seem to get dumber the more there are in the pack so.. a bachelor party is not something I would want anything to do with.
It is not as if my guy does not get to look at hot chicks at any...
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How would you feel if the Catholic Church no longer existed?
It would not bother me personally. I do not support the church or their beliefs but I would feel horrible for the many people who need or are part of the church.
I loved the previous Pope and miss him even though I am not Catholic. I do not have to support that church but I would never want it taken from those who do.
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When the game is LIFE aren't all participants?
Yes, I believe so.
Until death. Whether eternally or earthly.
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What do you do, when your best friend won't believe you that her brother is showing and asking innappropriate things. She won't even take it into consideration.
Honestly? If it were that important to me? I would record it.
It takes a lot of people to believe it when they see it.. some people KNOW it is happening but will not accept it.
If it comes down to her not trusting you.. show her and let her know how her dishonesty feels.
Let her know you can imagine it is hard to find something out that hurts you but it is hurtful to be distrusted as...
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I was in a relat.ship for 3 years, by BF dumped me bcause he was "depressed", we got back together but i've learned he's been lying to me, it's small dumb things but i bothers me, what if he lies about other major things? i don't know what to do.
Dishonesty is never good.. if you allow it to happen.. you allow it to continue.. however, addressing it in an accusing or angry way will just lead to more dishonesty because you are not creating an atmosphere where someone will open up.
Sit him down.. tell him that you are hurting and stressed over the the little things and tell him how it makes you feel.
Ask him to help you understand...
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What is your name?? & why?
Kellie
My mom liked the name I guess.
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Why do women prefer the jerk over the nice guy?
My guy is nice. He stops to help people broke down on the side of the road ALL of the time. We could be going somewhere and he cannot help himself.
He goes out of his way to help others but he is not the nice and shy type of guy.
He has a bit of roughness to him that I like.
He is nice as in he does nice things but he will not let you walk all over him.
He is bold, aggressive and a bit...
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My 9 year old daughter was playing out back at the playground. Her and an 8 yr old got in an argument. The girl's sister, 17 yrs old, threatened to beat up my daughter and also started insulting her, humiliating her. What should I do?
I definitely would not lay my hands on the 17 yr old and teach my kid that way of handling things.
I would go to the parents and see if they were approachable. If not, I would call the authorities to show the 17 yr old that her age is a factor and that it is against the law to threaten anyone, any age.
Hopefully to prevent her from continuing this bad habit.
I would not think my own...
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My b/f of 1/2 yr hasn't let me meet his child due to fears of how his ex might react. How do I convice him to let me?
Let it go at his pace.
It has to be frustrating and you are looking for signs that this may last but just let it go at his own pace.
Look at it from this point of view.. it was my first thought. He wants involved in his 6 yr old's life and he does not want anything to happen that will effect his seeing his child. THIS IS A GREAT SIGN of a man being a good dad.
Keep your patience...
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Do you need to be forgiven to move on?
I use to. It would bother me a lot.
I got older and realized.. if you say you are sorry to someone and you truly mean it.. it is out of your hands. You have done what you can to rectify and they have a choice whether to forgive you or not.
I move on because nothing good tries to hold you back and I will not keep putting my head under someone else's boot if I was truly remorseful.
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What is a daily struggle for you?
Not giving in to negative thoughts to bring myself down. Stress, worry etc.
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I had this debate with my friends tonight over dinner. If you found something of value (money, jewelry) but it had the person's phone number with it as well, would you return it or go by the "finder keeper" rule?
Having lost something and had it returned .. I can tell you the feeling is unreal. You want to do almost anything you can for that person because it means so much.
Even before that.. I would return it.
I have enough to answer to when my time comes.. I do not need to add anymore.
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What do you think when you see a cop?
Hubba Hubba! =)
Unless I am speeding.. then there is nothing sexy about him jammed up in his uniform =(
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Ism Is it racist to say you want to marry only somebody of your own ethnicity or religion?
Not in my opinion.
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Men, is it possible for a guy to NOT look. Is it possible for a man to be so wrapped up in their partner that no other woman matters? That they literally lose interest and start thinking all other women are ugly?
My guy is healthy in spirit, mind and appetite.
If he stopped looking.. I would be worried.
He loves me but he loves the beauty of women to eye them. I am ok with it.
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If I put female rabbit with my male would she get pregnant when she shows redness in her area
You will have babies period.
Anytime I have owned them.. I NEVER had a problem with them having babies.. the problem was TOO MANY.
They never seemed to stop.
Give it a bit of time.. this is one animal that breeds and breeds and breeds.
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Does your online personality match who you are in person? Are you just as honest and bold, or are you a little more conservative?
I was told I come across more serious on here. I am kind of flattered because I am the ultimate goof troop lol
I think I am the same. It is easier to express yourself without being face to face I think.
You have a bit too much more freedom.. but it is just like offline.. you either are the type of person to take advantage of the anonymity or you stay along the same lines whether off or on.
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Can a guy know if you're faking it?
They will say they can but they cannot.
More cannot than can and any gyno will tell you the same thing.. at least the ones my friends and I have known.
They can tell when you are faking passion. ie: your mind is elsewhere.. your body is not responding to them and you are not into the moment.
As far as orgasms.. many will say "oh, I can tell trust me.." but the thing is we can...
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Cheating: I am a married man, and i am seeing another married woman whom i've known for years. I've realized she is the one i love for all these years. What's the chance of me and her getting together eventually. PS. she's confused with who to choose.
You know.. I cannot be anything other than honest when I answer this question.
You get what you ask for in life and you have yet to get yours if you are only at this problem of the situation.
If you think it will get better..even if you two get together.. you are fooling yourself. Making these hurtful and selfish decisions in life and looking out for yourselves instead of others.. will...
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I have a toenail that instead of growing straight out it curves back into my toe (not on the sides across the front) must i go to a doc for a fix or is there a home fix? I tried cutting it as short as possible, straight across, and curved w/no success
You should go to a Podiatrist but you can first try and soak your foot and get everything soft.. then cut the nail out from under the skin.
The best way to prevent further growth inward like that is to cut your nails straight across.
I went to a Podiatrist and this was his advice and it was worked for me.
Good luck.
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My husband and I have been sorta trying to get pregnant, for about 5 months we have been having unprotected intercourse with hopes me might get pregnant. Well Anyways, My question.. I had my period last month, it was regular as always. Well its been 2 wee
This could be due to any number of reasons and without a check-up by your doctor, none can be confirmed.
It could be residue, the result of things getting stirred up from sex, too rough of sex or from where your husband has hit a tender spot.
It could be a sign of infection or other serious issues.
It could be anything from nothing at all.
A pregnancy cannot be confirmed online and...
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Which is better, a plastic shower curtain or a glass shower door?
Give me a pretty shower curtain any day over the glass.
Mine are very cute with violets and vines on the inside and outside curtains.
I AM too durn lazy to spend my time cleaning a glass shower door.. I would rather be doing something else.
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Who is funnier... Will Ferrel, Ben Stiller or Steve Carrell?
Ben Stiller
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In your mind, what is your personal hell like? Hot, Cold, Dark, Sunny, only fish to eat...etc.
Eternal seperation from God, your loved ones and the living.
Eternal death of the soul. You cease to exist.
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How do you get your feelings back for someone? I completely love a man and he was in love with me (we had an affair for about 2.5yrs) cos I hurt him we split & his wife took him back we started again now he is confused & says he loves us both. Wot do I do
I guess there are just some topics that I cannot give a sympathetic answer to. This is one of them.
Lay in the bed you have made.
You went messing with another woman's man. They are married and how you can not have respect for the sanctity of marriage astounds me.
There is no excuse for messing with a married person.
If their marriage is in such bad shape that he no longer feels...
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Do women find men with confidence attractive even if they might not be the best looking guy out there?
Confidence goes waaaay farther than looks in my book.
Looks, age with time. Who he is.. is who he is.
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In the 80s, did you wear tight jeans, jelly shoes, neon colors, or a mullet?
I sported the jellies =)
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His blackberry got broke so when he finally gets on the computer, he emails his girlfriend on his wifes birthday at 7:30 in the morning..He hasn't spoken to his friend in over a week but emails on wifes birthday. He really loves his wife.
Ana you have asked all kinds of questions regarding this issue. Are you the "girlfriend" or what?
In one question.. he hasn't touched the chick.. but in another she is his girlfriend and he is talking to her while his wife recovers from back surgery.
In another question you say the wife does not cook for him yadi yadi.. what is it ? She in your way?
Are you ok?
I...
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I am getting a Chihuahua later, what do you think will be a good name for him or her?
I SO know what it is like trying to come up with a name for a new pet.. just went through it with "Gooch", my new puppy.
I will just toss some names out but it will take you a bit to figure one out I am sure. Good luck!
Sasha
Vida
Biscuit
Carmella
Kerma
Lacy
Kimber
P.S.
Welcome to AB ;)
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What is the worst thing about where you live?
I will go with the humidity because just breathing in Florida can cause you respiratory distress.
The air is dry and thick. A breeze is a coveted thing.
Some of us look FORWARD to hurricane season not only in hope of raising up our lakes but for the WIND to actually BLOW!
You can leave your house looking good but then thirty minutes later you look like you never even attempted to get it...
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Who flirts more, Men or Women?
I think it has become more even on the playing field.
I think men use to own it but now women have stepped up to the plate.
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A married woman is drunk at a party. She ends up on a couch with another man, snuggles up (almost on top of him!) with him, then unbottons his shirt, puts her hand inside and and rubs his bare chest. Is that cheating? Would she be considered a slut?
No, I would not consider her a slut if this is not something she has made a habit of doing but I would say that she needs to watch her alcohol intake.
Have a couple drinks and then wait about thirty minutes to see the effect before having another.
After each drink.. wait thirty minutes and feel your body/mind out.
Drinking is not an excuse for bad judgement. We know what it can do to...
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Do you allow your looks to affect your self-esteem? Why do you suppose that is?
I use to.
I did not realize how stressful it was trying to keep up with what others thought I should look like.. or trying to always look good when there were other things pressing my attention.
It got hectic trying to do it all.
If I have a lot of housework and errands.. I want to jump in shorts and a t and go!
Not worry about looking my best.
Getting older and things happening you...
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As an Adult: Do you have Contact with any Childhood Friend's? What Grade Did you become Friends?
My best friend Heidi and I go back to jr high school but I have no friends from before those years.
I tried keeping in touch with one girl for so long but eventually lost contact.
We were friends back when I was like 5 and 6.
I will never forget her. Stacy Holbrook.
I miss her.
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On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being most, how annoyed do you get by people who can't be bothered to use decent grammar and spelling in their questions in order to make themselves understood? Does it make a difference if they're not native English speakers?
0 for how annoyed I get with those not good at grammar and spelling but I am a 10 when it comes to those who have such a problem with those who are not good at spelling and such.
If their meaning gets lost in their lack of spelling or grammar skills.. how about a little more patience in understanding?
Better yet.. how about moving on to a question you can understand without stopping to...
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Are you bothered by ABers who can't spell?
No, I am not. I am more bothered by those who have such a problem with it.
Instead of being a fault finder.. be a fault fixer.
The best way to help those who do not spell well is NOT to critisize but to lead by example and spell correctly.. showing them how things are spelled.
I do not like an entire question chopped up by net slang but honestly? It really does not matter to me enough...
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What's your favorite artificial sweetener?
Splenda
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What's your favorite Linda Ronstadt song?
"Roll em easy"
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Have you ever been called a brat? As a child, or how about now that you are "grown up"?
Yep. I was spoiled and my closest aunt and uncle would call me a brat because while my cousins were getting punished for the trouble we got into.. mostly instigated by me.. my mother was not quick to temper.
=X
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I am worried about wanting to drink alcohol, in mid july I am going into a prevention program to be safe. You have all been great friends, and I will talk to you all when I get back. Who will accept a hug?
Here is a biggo hug (((((((((((hugS)))))))))))))
We look forward to your return when you do leave.
Good luck. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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What is your favorite prison movie?
Animal Factory is my #1 choice but I loved Shawshank and American History X
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Knowing that Jesus was born, circumcised, walked the streets, talked, NEVER said he was God, ate and drank, and as a result must have answerrd many calls of nature, would you say he was human or God?
He was flesh like us with the spirit of God within Him.
Think of it as God in flesh
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Stableboy / Brand Y has stated that he has quit Answerbag. How do you feel about this terrible loss?
I do not care if one of his friends does not like my answer or ANY for that matter.
Downrate, moan and groan. My opinion stays the same.
The little control crap you all try to do on here does not work with me.
It is jr high to only get along with people who like the same people you do so grow up because the FACTS are.. Some of us just did not like him.
The world will not stop spinning...
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Who would like to join me in sending our best wishes to Pretty Pirate aka Pirathames on the prospective birth of her baby?
I'm late with my congrats but CONGRATS!
Warm wishes and blessings for you and yours.
Those who downrated.. well.. just hens in the henhouse with nothing better to do.
Be thankful your life is full and loving in comparison!
AB is lucky to have you!
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When you feel sorry for yourself do you sit at home and sulk or go out and distract yourself?
I like to take a nap when that mood hits.. because I usually wake up refreshed and in a different state of mind.
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Does anybody else get tired of religious discrimination? Well I think it is time Atheists fight back, don't you think?
You have got to be kidding me. I see so many posts from atheists attacking religion on this site that it is not even funny.
Heck, I see atheists post on "christian" questions knowing they are just not there for anything good .. I see "christians" do the same thing.
Why go where you do not want to be ?????
Because SOME people just like to start crap. Period.
Whether...
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Can you guess what i learned when i was in jail for a few days?
That toilet paper really does hold braids together?
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How old were you the last time you went thru that "i cant live one second without him/her " stage?
I was 17
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Jesus was a socialist. Jesus was not a concervative. Can yoiu handle the truth?
Jesus was no such thing. He was not any label that we, mere dust have made and given definition to.
There is not truth in speaking for Him or which label He falls under.
He is not of this world or our silly little label games.
He is love. That is His definition.
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A favorite relative of mine died 5 years ago today and I'm sad. I have to go to the cemetery this morning, so please answer with something to brighten up the rest of my day. Thank you.
This is a tricky type of question because if you are not of faith or like-minded faith.. some answers could inadvertantly offend you.. which would not be fair if there was no intention to so I hope you are open minded.
I miss my grandfather but I am so thankful he is at peace and not of this world struggling like the rest of us.
I envy his peace as much as your loved one. They are removed...
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As a man, i can go into a store, focused on what i am about to buy, and leave within 15 minutes or less. my wife, goes into a store and goes into la la land. looks at this and that goes bonkers. why is there such a big difference in the both of us?
Women shop to relieve stress.. not sure if you know that but it is true.
We like new and pretty things and many of us feel better when we can go shop for loved ones.
We like to improve things and "nest" .. so when we see things that will make our nests prettier or us.. we are on it.
It makes us feel good.
Yes, it costs money but it makes us feel good.
I have to be honest and...
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Does the color of different places effect your mood?
Yes, it does.
I cannot stand yellow or too many bright colors in one setting.
I like soft colors.
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I will make all 4th grade girls suck my cock. your daughters are doomed.
Your ways of getting attention are sick and I pity someone who has nothing better to do than to spend their time doing stuff like this.
It is pathetic and you could never convince me you are normal or anything short of a sociopath.
Normal people do not even think to do things like this whether they are hidden behind a computer screen or not.
Thinking "haha" watch how I can tick...
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Why are women of all types able to compliment other women so easily, but guys of most types could never compliment a guy?
Men and women are different.. I am sorry but if my guy started complimenting his guy friends on their hair or clothes all the time.. I might blink a bit more.
Not saying men do not compliment each other.. I have seen it done but I think it is rather fitting the way it is rather than guys becoming more like us.
What is important to us women is not always as important to a guy.
I do not...
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Can you name at least 3 things that really make you happy on a daily basis?
My pets
My boyfriend for the most part lol
My family and friends
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What strategies do you use in order to stop yourself from losing your temper for no apparent reason?
I think that there is a problem with losing your temper for no reason.
Hopefully, there is a stress factor at play not being dealt with or is too overwhelming to squash so I would find something to get aggression out.
When I am stressed.. I am quicker to temper than normal. I will sweat small stuff and just get caught up in being negative so I walk.
A lot ofo people exercise or put...
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What would you do, if you walked your bedroom and caught your S/O in the act of cheating on you?
You know.. whenever I would think about what I would do in such a situation, I would hold my dignity and walk away without looking back.
However, there is something about my bed. I cannot explain it but since I was a young girl I have always loved the bedroom and how pretty things can be made so my bed is special to me.
I have powedered my sheets since I was like 10 and I have always just...
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How do know if someone on AB might be god in another form?
I do not believe anyone on AB is God.
I believe like the other poster stated in that He is everything .. but not one person here.
I think our imaginations do Him a grave injustice but I believe His works are seen all over AB.
I believe He is not of this world as in He is not dwelling here with us in a physical body. His spirit however, lives in many of us.
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Ugh my girlfriend needs time away from everyone(including me) because shes so overwhelmed lately. I hate it, I can't stand not talking! Her voice is so comforting. Anyways, any ideas on how I can cope with this? And a healthy outlook?
Go hang out with a friend or something.
No offense but if she is feeling overwhelmed then she may have a lot going on.
Everyone is different.. some can handle whatever is thrown at them. .. their shoulders are wide and can take it.
Some people get smaller loads thrown at them and it weighs them down.
Feeling overwhelmed and boxed in is not a good feeling and I am sure she wants to just...
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If U could have anyboby sing u to sleep, who would it be?
My bf.
He is a bit rugged and yet has a soft side that blows my mind. He has never sang me to sleep .. but the thought of it warms me.
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Remember when Carmella got all pissy when she said others were attacking Stableboy when he wasn't here to defend himself?http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3293109 Carmella Candy Jun, 27 2008 at 01:48 PM And more alcoholics? Seems she changed her mind.
Questions calling out other posters is lame and immature.
If you have a problem with someone and the person does not have contact information in their profile.. suck it up or sign off until you can get your emotions under control.
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Say you're playing Spin the Bottle. The bottle lands on someone same sex. Do you spin again or do you go for it?
Spin again.
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Can salvation come only through the LDS Church?
Absolutely not.
Salvation does not come by being part of a religion.
Each and every one of us is responsible for our own fates and our personal relationship with Him.
Churches that tell you that only through their ways can you be saved are full of it.
Nothing against that particular church. I feel the same about any religion that thinks that only with them can you be saved.
Jesus...
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How old were you when you first tasted wine?
I think I was about 12. Hated it then, hate it now.
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According to some Christian beliefs, when the "saved" die they go to heaven. If thats true what is the point of a resurrection?
Different people believe different things.. even those using the same label to describe their faith such a "christians".
Not every person who calls themselves a christian believes the same thing.
I, personally believe that when you die you are at rest. An example is when He put Abraham to sleep.
Your soul is at rest.
There is ONE coming.
One judgement day for all. (My...
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Would you prefer a root beer float or a banana split?
Banana split yum!
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Is it normal for a 13 yr olds 'a' boobs to be pointy?
Yes, it is normal.
They come in different shapes/sizes and as we grow older, their forms shift some.
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I am going to be going on a 16 hour car ride, does anybody have any good ideas to make the time go by?
Stay up the night before so that you can sleep most of the ride away.
A cell to chat the time away or Ipod/dvds can help as well.
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How many of you believe in God?
I believe in God 100%
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What do you think about italian women?
I have had a diabetic patient for over a year now that I visit and she is VERY italian.
She has lived in the U.S. for over thirty years but she is italian to the bone.
I am so very fond of this family and have nothing but respect for them.
The women are strong, loving and loyal.
While I know this can be of any woman.. I see a strong unity of family within italian families and the core...
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Now that you're an adult, do your parents still treat you like a kid or are they more like your friends?
My mother is my best friend but still gives the best and most wise advice.
My dad has gotten more protective as HE has gotten older.
I love them both dearly.
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Are you the kind of person who will help someone up after they fall?
Yes, I am.
Even with someone I am not fond of.. I cannot stand to watch someone being alone or without help.
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If you could have lunch with anyone in the world for free, who would you choose?
Robin Williams
He is funny. I think it would be very entertaining and laid back.
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Would you rather have lunch with George W Bush or Bill Clinton?
I will eat with Bush because the first time Clinton asked me to puff his cigar I would put a choke hold on his big headed self =X
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What the number 1 priority in your life at the moment?
My family comes before anything. (my guy is included because he is my family toO)
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It usually takes me a while to name a pet. I have to watch them and get to know them but if you know of any unique or great names, please share in case one comes to fit my new puppy. Picture of him inside. Thanks so much!
The new addition
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Why would people admit that they have been drinking underage on AB? Are people really THAT stupid? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/153419
i bet im gonna get a DR for this :(
I think calling others out in question form is not only below the belt but bad taste and should not be done. Whether it be one person or a group who chose to particpate.
If a question/answer is offensive, AB has a way to flag without drawing it out in another form.
There ARE offensive questions asked and AB and its community knows how to deal with them effectively.
I do not find the...
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If someone said you looked like a food, what food is it that you look like most?
A cucumber.
No outrageous curves.. just long and lanky with a few bumps along the way that you have to look real hard at to see them.. to be reminded I am female =X
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If you love someone should you fight for them or just let them be and see if they come back?
I cannot see fighting to keep someone who wanted out.
They would have to let me know that they believe we have a chance otherwise, I would let them go find their happiness, even if it is without me.
I may love them but if they do not want to be with me I cannot hold them down and know they are not happy, just to soothe my own feelings.
To love someone is to want their happiness.
If...
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Is it OK to wear a plain white dress to a wedding? It's a sheath with a satin waist. I plan on accenting it with black shoes and jewelry.
I was a bridesmaid this past June 15th and let me tell you.. my friend knew what she was doing.
All of us in the line were dressed down and she shone in a beautiful off the shoulder white dress.
The wedding is for the bride and groom. It is their moment and all eyes should be upon them.
I know what it is like to find something just perfect for an occaision and then have to pick...
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Why does my ear wax smell like aged cheese?
Dark, moist places are a breeding ground for bacteria and such.
Have your doctor check you out and find a cleaning solution that helps keep your wax under control.
Some people have more, some less but everyone should keep their ears clean.
I am not saying you are dirty.. the ears get overlooked by many until something draws them to take notice.
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As a child, what was that one item your parents could not get you to eat? Do you eat that item now?
Lima beans and heated carrots.
I still do not eat either but I LOVE raw carrots.. once heated though.. ick
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Can stress and anxiety cause tension headaches?
Yes, it can.
It can lead to high blood pressure which can lead to s stroke.
Women especially, are at very high risk for stroke who do not practice ways of dealing with anxiety/stress.
Stress effects not only the mind but the heart from getting worked up and not working it out.
If you feel overwhelmed .. find ways of dealing with the stress.. each and every person is different and you...
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I am having pains in my lower abdomen and when i press on my abdomen the pain gets worsebut it feels like its more towards my uterus. what could this be?
Please do not get offended but gas is one of the most painful feelings you can experience.
You need to ask yourself when was the last time your bowels moved.
Gas can move around and make you tender to the touch in the upper/lower abdomen areas.
If it has been a bit then it could be hard in there and that crap hurts (pun intended lol).
It can hurt EVERYWHERE.. upper tummy.....
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I found out from my husbands friends that he keeps telling them that if we didn't have a child that he'd divorce me in a heartbeat. I'm not sure what to do with this new information. He doesn't know i know.. What should I do?
Not to disrespect the person telling you but I feel your husband, family member or someone who is also close to you should be telling you this.
A lot of times when someone tells you something like this, it was not FOR you but to appear like it was done for you all the while stirring things up.
What kind of friend betrays a confidence like that?
Not to take your husband's side if he...
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Should you obey your husband?
I do believe that when I get married I should obey my husband.
I would not marry a man that I did not truly love or trust to lead me but I will obey my husband as that is a sign of respect and great dignity in a marriage.
The term "obey" does not mean to me that we are not equals in intelligence.
Save your downrates, what I eat does not make you fat.
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I write to my bf in a love letter n it feels like its the only way to get to him.... but i also want to talk to him but he doesnt like talkin should i just stick with the letters?
Some people express themselves differently.
I am not trying to generalize but I know from my dad and my guy that there are just men who do not sit and talk about their feelings .. and guess what? I love them both deeply.
Oh, it CAN be frustrating believe me! If I am feeling needy.. lordy lordy would my guy get a big fat F in sensitivity LOL but my neediness is MY issue in those moments and...
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My (new) husband's ex just told her children that he will no longe be allowed to join them for birthdays because he has a new wife.
She will never change, but how does he let the children know he is not choosing me over them?
My first response was to say that this lady will probably one day regret her rash and immature decisions like this but the truth is.. there are many people out there who do have bitter and mean spirits and there will be no regret.
I was hoping to say that hurt can cause us to act stupid like this but the fact is.. some people are just plain ignorant and selfish.
It is hard to blend...
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Have you ever read and compared the new and the old testament? Whats the main difference's?
The New Testament brings the sacrifice of Jesus for our sins.
The Old Testament albeit not as often, tells of His promise of salvation but not through the blood of Christ.
It was easier for me to say that the old was of Moses' laws and the new is of Jesus' laws.
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Who are your three favorite author's?
John Katzenbach
James Patterson
Dean Koontz
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Earlier today, everyone at my school was told to shout out a word to describe God. I said 'non-existent'. What would you say?
Amazing
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I am completed frustrated of my life & doesnt want to live anymore.When I approach towards suicide, something supernatural drags me back.I am not able to speak my heart even to my love, who I know loves me more than anyone.. I'm frustrated & an introvert.
It sounds like you may be burned out or overwhelmed and I wish you could talk to your loved one.
I am going to assume you are male because I have found that men find it harder to open up not because they are weak but because they want to be strong for their love.
You should find someone to talk to and no, I do not mean a therapist.
Try a stranger online to unburden to.. getting it out feels...
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What are you dying to do right now?
Go swimming! but the thunder clouds are loomin.. bugger!
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Does a girl like you if she grabs your hand,squeezes it and smiles at you when her bf wasn't looking?They just started dating and he controls her and hits on other women.I care about her and I don't want to see her get hurt.Shld I tell her I like her?
Being the cause of a break-up will not feel good.
What would feel better is if you did not participate in anything happening when her guy is not looking and if she truly wants to be with you.. SHE makes the decision to end her relationship to be with you.
When she goes to grab your hand.. pull it back and say .. if you were single I would surely love to feel your hand on mine but it is not...
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Do you believe in the eternal security of the born-again believer?
Yes, I do.
I find that many born-agains are not from having stopped believing in Him but of themselves and their dedication to feed their relationship with Him.
Shame causes us to turn from Him.
Fear also causes us to doubt and if we let it rule us and not turn our lives over to Him, we tend to get lost.
We can get mislead by paper christians who tell us we must strive to be perfect...
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What comes to mind when you hear the name Kurt Cobain?
All we can ever do is guess about his torments/reasonings but he was a great singer in my opinion and may God rest his soul in peace.
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Do bald men wash their head with soap or shampoo?
My uncle says he washes the sidewalk and the grass because they both need to look clean. LOL!
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I think rap can be very demeaning to women, but why as a whitey tighty women do I love it so much?
I use to love anything with a beat that could make me wiggle it and move but I have gotten older and what they are saying matters.
Ignoring derogatory comments to listen to the beat is still supporting the message.
I thought things were tough when I was coming up but then I look to my nieces and see their battles.
It is not ok to degrade women. It is not ok to call them names and I do...
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Have you ever thought of becoming a nudist?
Yea.. I think I could.
The freedom to be natural and unburdened by society's standards would be breathtaking.
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If you found out that you bf impregnated another girl by mistake hat would you do
A mistake is dialing the wrong phone number or getting french fries instead of onion rings.
Cheating is a choice.
He not only made the choice to do it.. he did it unprotected. Putting not only himself but you at risk.
Now show some self respect and make the choice to get rid of him.
He does not dictate your self worth, you do.
I am sorry.. I do believe relationships can make it...
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What would you do if someone said something bad about you or someone you really care about?
You cannot stop others from running their mouths. It is going to happen. We all are guilty of it at one time or another.
The best thing to do is to say "I am sorry you feel that way" and let it go. It really is the best thing to do but I know if I am in a temper or someone is talking down about a loved one of mine.. I tend to get in pit bull mode but.. honestly? It has never done...
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Is your life exciting?
I am totally wrecked in the face from four wheeling in mud over the weekend, wrecking and kissing a huge root to an oak tree. I am smiling like a pig in .. well.. because it was the best time ever.
I am 31 and live like I am still a kid.
My life is blessed and full of moments that rock my world.
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It seems I have been going around AB for the last week or so acting like a fool and a lovesick teenage boy constantly rambling on about my feelings for a certain female bagger. I am sorry for that. Will you all forgive me for being such a fool?
Love makes us all fools at one time or another.. it is embarrassing, funny, overwhelming and so durn wonderful all at the same time!
I have no clue what you have rambled on about but
I am sure you will be like aaah! I cannot believe I did that.. but it is so very beautiful how love makes us just wanna fly with it and throw caution to the wind.
Hope it works out for you.. if it doesn't,...
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What is it that the fat girls always hating and picking on the slim girls
Why does anyone do anything that is hurtful or bad to another? Usually, it means something is wrong inside of our own emotions/minds that we are reflecting out onto others.
Instead of showing vulnerability or insecurity.. we put up a hard front that hurts us in the end but we are too stubborn or pig headed to stop ourselves at times of weakness.
It is no better than the one being picked on...
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I recently ran into a guy that I dated in highscool. I am 29 now and hadnt seen him for 10 years. He is married and so am I. he asked if we could meet for dinner another time to catch up, sticktly as friends. Is it wrong to go?
I do not think it would be wrong to go unless you went without notifying your spouse and asking their feelings on the matter.
I am not saying men and woman cannot be friends but I would ask to take the spouses and make it a group dinner.
Sometimes moments like that can make us nostalgic and we remember how sweet things use to be but time changes us and it is probably not going to be the...
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Is there something that you cant get enough of?
Love, forgiveness and acceptance.
Not to be corny but those things truly make life easier.
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What are your physical flaws?
I am tall and built like gumby. I am not curvy and sultry. I am more like a lanky telephone pole.
I have a gonzo nose and could probably sniff out what you will have for dinner tomorrow :p
I have toes that my fingers envy
I have sun freckles from too much time in the sun over the years. Just too damn sexy
Ah I do not want to think on anymore.. this day started out soo good LOL
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Can a relationship with an alcoholic who still drinks ever be good?
Alcoholism is a disease. This is not an excuse. It is a real life living creature that grabs our loved ones and tries to kill them.
It eats not only the alcoholic but the ones involved with them.
It can work but it takes strength, patience, determination and love.
There are some situations where it will not work but if you want to fight for it.. know that it is a fight with the devil...
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What do you think about a 48 year old man and a 22 year old woman?
I think people have problems when they let others into their relationships.
Do not care what others think.. look out for you and yours because most of the time, no one else will.
You are both consenting adults and only you two know your goals and if you are happy.
Looking to others gives them room to play in your life.
Do not do it.
I think that is a bit steep but it could be the...
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Has anyone ever accused you of getting greedy in here? (No names please!)
Not yet
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Do you love or despise perfection?
The only perfection I see is the perfect beauty that IS our world.
When I sit out on the lake with the wind blowing, the trees rustling and the world seems so peaceful.. it truly can take your breath away but as far as anything else.. none of us are perfect.
We are all flawed in our own ways and that to me is more perfect than being perfect.
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I'm laying in bed watching Geraldo Rivera & some pastor was just on saying that he is spreading the word that if you are a true Christian, you'll vote Republican. Am I the only 1 infuriated by having my faith questioned because I'm a Democrat?
I know I have a tendency to be pig headed but there are some things that I know beyond this world that I am absolutely right about and that is that faith is personal with each and every one of us and should never be exploited.
If people worship a taco, it should never be exploited by politics.
Anyone who uses faith, any faith, to exploit like that is doing themselves a great injustice, not...
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What do you think is the worst miscasting of an actor/actress in a movie ever?
Ok.. I will get slammed for this but no matter because I truly feel that the Titanic needed a stronger more rugged looking leading man.
Leonardo DiCaprio just did not fit the part to me. He was not passionate enough.
I have loved him in movies before and I realize it was a younger couple to be portrayed but he just did not do it for me in that movie.
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Why are MOST Christians debaters center around bad-mouthing me and attacking the wording of my statements? Their popular trick is to rant about the infinite and indefinite nature of god without answering questions. I repeat my question: Why do I need God?
I cannot tell you why you need God. I can only tell you why I think you need God and that is because without Him, you are lost in many ways.
I know I am lost when I am not close with Him but you have the free will to do and choose as you wish.
Good luck with that.
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Was there ever a time that the price of gas wasn't too high?
I remember back when I was 17 er this was um 1994 I think.. anyhow.. gas in Pilot, North Carolina was 99 cents a gallon.
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Would you rather be madly in love and have absolutely nothing, or kind of in like and be a millionaire?
Put me in a cardboard box with him and I promise you life would still be everything that it is right now to me, worthwhile.
I am very much in love with him.
Money is not soulful. Love is.
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Who was your favorite music performer when you were in high school? Still like them now?
Prince, Faster Pussycat, Elton John, NIN, Pearl Jam, Duran Duran, Mary J Blige
Yes, I still love them all now.
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Do you think it is wrong to be gay/ Bi/ Lesbian?
Back in the days I would have said yes, but having grown older and watching the struggle gay people have day in and day out.. being treated as less than human a lot.. you would wonder why anyone would CHOOSE such a lifestyle.. so to me.. it is no more a choice to be gay than it is to be straight.. so how are either immoral.. we are who we are.
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Do you accept gay,Dykes,lesbians to be together? Why or Why not?
Honestly? You can say do I accept Jane and Janet to be together and I really could care less if they are together.
If they are happy.. awesome! If not, sorry but I have my own life to live and worry over.
All the labels we create to seperate us brothers and sisters on this earth are selfish and cruel.
I may seem cruel in saying I just do not give a rat's butt who is together but it...
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Which name is better: Anna or Mary?
Anna
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WHAT IS BETTER TO MARRY THE GUY U LOVE OR MARRY THE GUY WHO LOVES U
My first thought was to answer that I would prefer to love the guy.. it is wonderful to love someone.. however, how someone makes us feel is imperative to our well being in many areas so this is a question that I would have to choose another answer
Stay single until you meet someone where it is mutual because any other way and someone or both are going to get hurt and will have wasted precious...
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Why is it hard for women over 40 to lose weight?
The metabolism starts crawling.. you are less active.. not less active as in the busy, every day motions of life.. I am sure that can be just as hectic, if not moreso but there is less room for repetitive exercising.
A lot of women are raising families with the stressful job of keeping the household going, some while working and there is just little time left for themselves.
Genetics and...
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My daughter has bow-legs she is almost 2 years old, the doctor told me that we should wait til she is 3 to do more research, what should I do?
A girl I know has a daughter who has Rickets (sp?)
but I looked up some information when I saw your question and it looks like this could last til your daughter is three or four with no need to be alarmed.
There is some really good information given in this and this appears to be very normal for her age.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genu_varus
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Would you place a parent in a nursing home, if they could no longer care for themselves or, would you care for them in your home?
I took care of both of them for four years.
When I was 27 they both went down within a couple months of each other so I moved them into my home and I remodeled the garage into an apartment.
They are back out and thankfully so.. not because of me but it was really hard on dad to live with his daughter.
I would move them in with me unless they suffered extreme dementia, alzheimer's...
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Two weeks ago i met a girl. i text her last week to see if she wanted to meet up and she said yes but when i try to arrange a time shes always doing something. so is she shy, not interested, busy etc. also can i text her without sounding clingy
I would text her that you have tried getting up with her but your schedules seem to conflict and for her to CALL you if she ever has free time and wants to hang out for a bit.
Put the ball in her court and see what she does.
I can say that I, personally, do not like a guy who bugs but then I am the type to let you know if I do not want to hang out.. maybe she is one of those that just...
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What kind of car did you drive in highschool?
Nissan Sentra .. I think it was like a 92 or something.
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Which of you does NOT have a tattoo?
No tats on this bod.
I love tats on men but never really got into them myself.
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If you could get rid of one of your emotions what would it be?
None. Like Jodi said.. fear and guilt are killers but they teach me too much to let them go.
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What would you choose : A lifetime of loveless marriage or a fulfilling extra- marital affair?
Loveless marriage
There are a lot of things I love to do .. lots of friends and family that I love.. so I would fill my time up with those things and never break my marriage vows.
I would seek a divorce and still be able to hold my head high.
Being weak and cheating for any reason.. is not justifiable in my book.
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If you have ever been heartbroken than just put your name down, you dont need to explain, just so i know im not the only one suffering
Kellie
Let me just say that while it seemed so heart breaking and soul breaking waaaaay back then.. it lead me to here and now with a man that I know was meant for me and we love much deeper.
Rascal Flatts song says it all
"God bless the broken road that lead me straight to you"
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Is talking to an ex considered cheating if you significant other doesn't know?
I do consider it cheating if you have to hide it from your partner. That is a form of lying no matter how you want to make it look.
It is not about what you talk about or what context.
It is about respect for the person you are currently with.
You do not have to ask permission but you could make them aware and at least give them some thought and significance in your life.
I know if...
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If you have a best friend of the opposite gender do you say "i love you" even though it's not "in love"?
I say it to all my close friends,male or female.
I tend to say it more when getting ready to hang up the phone after having talked to them.
I always say "love ya" before I hang up.
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Who do you think will win the U.S. Open playoff at Torrey Pines, Tiger or Rocco Mediate?
I am rooting for Rocco
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Which do you like, Pepsi or Coke?
Regular coke in a can or diet pepsi
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What is the city that you live in or close to noted for?
Orlando - Disney
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Do you like the place that you get up and go to every single day? Where?
I visit patients at their homes and provide wound care.
I LOVE my job and the freedom I have.
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What is the happiest song you have ever heard?
I am showing my age but gawd I love this song =X
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Why do women always have to have the last word?
I think we have more insecurities.. I often wonder about this because I do it and in my head I am like ugh enough already because I know how silly it makes me look!
Men are more easy going and easier content.. us women are more unsure and I think that unsurety leads us to wrap ourselves in false ways to hide it.
Too stubborn to show weakness lol
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I have one goal in life and thats to make my sons life the best it could be. whats your future goals?
Your goal is enviable and honorable.
My goal is to be a better person than I was yesterday, each day.
To show my parents what they have done with their lives.. being the most wonderful and loving parents, I want to be half the person either of them are.
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Girls: Is a guy being too shy to kiss you a turn off or do you think its cute? even after the third date?
Gotta be honest.. I like men who are confident and do not have to be lead .. so I would be turned off.
I like a bit of appropriate aggression.
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Do long nose hairs bother you?
Yes, beause it makes it easier to see when something is er.. stuck there. ew
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Answer to:
Are you crabby today?
No, not crabby but I think I am going through some chemical flux or something. Commercials are making me teary and I am feeling a bit needy which sucks.
Edits: My bf came for lunch while I was in PC room and I never heard him. .. he called to tell me he had been in and grabbed some things and I got off the phone and got all mopy because he did not acknowledge me when he was here.. yet had...
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Have you ever kicked a dog?
No, but I have kicked someone who has kicked a dog.
I have 0 tolerance for animal abuse and will spazz out on anyone harming an animal.
Of any kind.
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Answer to:
What is your favorite ice cream flavor?
First choice is butter pecan .. but I LOVE cookie dough in the waffle cones MmmMm.. omy I love ice cream!
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Have you denounced god for what's happened in your life?
He has never brought me anything negative in my life.
Circumstances and my own choices have brought things I rather not have gone through.
This is our world.. world of the flesh and the bad is not from Him.
We were not meant to live here forever.. the flesh is weak but without Him, so is the soul.
He has given me all that I have ever had or will have.
He makes us one promise and that...
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I am against gays getting married and adopting children and I want to know how many people here are okay with that?(Let's see your so called tolerance now).Anita Bryan = Heroic martyr.
I have every respect for you for speaking your opinion because many here will not.. whether they respond or not.
I know a great many people who feel the way you do and I felt the same when I was younger.
I have just grown to worry about me and mine and to open my mind and heart to accepting people as they are.. like I want to be.
With the differing sides.. I think we will see the word...
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Answer to:
Have you ever went camping?
Yes, many times.
It is one of my most absolute favorite things to do.
We go to Turkey Creek or River Ranch here in Florida.
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Answer to:
How old, and tall are you? Where are you from?
I am 31 and 5'10 1/2
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