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Display name: FineBalance .
Gender: female
Location: Toronto Ontario Canada
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Date joined: November 29th, 2006
Last seen: September 29th, 2009
About me: God bless you for checking me out! Who am I, what am I about? What's important to me?



Well, I'm trying to find a FINE BALANCE in life to choose Life, Growth, Peace and Joy. Trying to reject the Rejection, Rage, Pettiness, Hatred and Stagnation. How does that work? Quite often it doesn't! I am trying my best though to live out the Sermon on the Mount, practicing mindfulness, forgiveness, not being quite so reactive, so judgmental (pure death), sowing seeds of loving-kindness often and everywhere. A good dose of humour too. Using words to build up and encourage rather than destroy and criticize. A bit of input, but megawatts of blissful output!




I am trying to find the FINE BALANCE between Ayn Rands philosphy of self-dependence to the dependence on Gods power and mercy. It does not work all the time, I fall and rise up again and always find new meanings to the life.




I want to be in the will of God for my life.



Thats what makes all of us humans.



At personal level, I am a single mom of two grown-up doting kids. Medical Professional (Medical Technologist), currently working as Health Facility Planner. I was born and brought in New Delhi, India. Lived in Dubai for 20 yrs, and I am now settled in Toronto for last 6 yrs.




With my prayers for all of you to remain in blessings and joy!






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A lesson of my life was taught to me by a 15 yr old girl called BAM on AB. I initially joined this site on November 17, 2006 accidentally and left the site on November 26, 2006 because of multiple controversies. The major issue was my faith in God. I was judging one and all on this site with my faith and beliefs, until I had head-on-collision with Boardasmustard and Teknimage. I was hurt and angry and left the site by leaving a message on my profile ID # http://www.answerbag.com/profile?id=99314 on November 26, 2006. The question was What answerbag is all about (http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/92096).



I left the site, but was not at peace with myself as I felt I could have helped many and I acted on impulse and created war with others which was not justified. I came back after few days on November 29, 2006 with new ID http://www.answerbag.com/profile?id=102234.



This time I had only one mission is to create peace, help, contribute, and encourage new comers to take advantage of this site.



I changed my strategy and I tried to not to get involve in serious issue with certain religious groups, gays movements, or any controversial issued and maintained positive attitude on the site.



I learnt from BAM and Teknimage, that ppl those dont believe in God has equal right to live and should not be condemned by believers.



Another bagger who contributed to change my belief was Bow2thelord who posted very offensive questions and one of them was condemning the whole human race, this would include my kids as well (as they do not believe in God). This is when I started to wonder if my ideology was wrong and if I am judging others. I realized my mistake and tried to create peace with all the baggers regardless of their lifestyle, faith, or attitude.



OFFERING HOPE TO OTHERS
THROUGH A LOVING WORD,
A THOUGHTFUL ACT,
OR A SIMPLE SMILE
IS THE SUREST WAY
TO LIFT YOUR OWN SPIIRIT.

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