by dannie730 on May 5th, 2011

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if you've been with someone for almost two years, and they've already cheated and lied (a lot) but you love them, is it worth it?

i've been cheated on, and hurt more then i thought was possible. most girls try to act like they're stronger from it, learned from whatever mistakes they've made, and say they're capable of obtaining a better relationship from the past experience. Me, on the other hand, i feel weaker because of all of it. I sincerely believe that i base my everyday heart on my heart and the emotion i bring fourth. Although i'm smart; I don't let my head think for me, i'm a very spiritual person. So, all of my actions are done so using my heart :) When i engage myself in a relationship; i try my best to satisfy the other person. I make it so that he is always happy and he can always count on me to be there and care when nobody else does. I don't just go out with someone to go out with them. I choose my partners carefully, according to who i think is best for me and who will put in the same amount of effort. But it seems that im always left doing all of the work. I'm always the one who's hurt in the end. I'm always the one who has to hurt and cry. I've been told i'm too good to my boyfriends; and that I try to understand people when sometimes their just is no understanding.. ive been told i put up with too much because im trying to show the person i wont walk away and that i can work at things. I've also been told that because of this, boys think i'll always be there.. and that this is why they cheat and yell and curse and hurt me :[ i dont really know what it is. what should i do?

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  • by thomasbailey on April 10th, 2012
    voted: Your a nice person, ditch all the jerks and keep being you. Wait for someone who'll do for you what you do for others.

    thomasbailey

    Everybody makes such mistakes, i think you need to take sometime away from relationships until to relearn yourself and your wishes. Then only you would be aware of how you WANT your partner to treat you.

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  • by Emp Demp-EMONEY-The Supreme (to) All on May 9th, 2011
    voted: I think you sound crazy, take a break for a while.

    Emp Demp-EMONEY-The Supreme (to) All

    If you want to see what life is like without air? Stop breathing? That's not what this is! If you can write a book on it, you probably know the answer. Take a time out. Think a little with the Big head!

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