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What methods of discipline would people born in 1967, 1975, and 1993 have experienced?
by gypsy2008 on February 11th, 2012
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"If your son fails to keep the door locked one more time I am taking his stuff and trashing it!. "What's wrong with this pic?"
by TimPorari on January 26th, 2012
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How many minutes of continuous all-out lashing with a belt do you think would be a reasonable punishment for a child who downloaded a game?
by NotSuspiciousAtAll on November 6th, 2011
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My boy is constantly distracting his classmates any suggestions on how to get him to behave, without using physical force?
by majon on January 13th, 2012
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1) Were you spanked as a child? 2) How fearful of a person are you today?
by A on February 9th, 2012
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You're reading What is worse - spanking or yelling? Why?
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I understand, depending on how they are used. I noticed that there are a lot of spanking questions. I wondered how many people who don't spank do yell. I wondered how they felt about yelling.
by A on February 10th, 2011
its better to explain to kids what they did wrong>>>there both bad!
by lili on May 13th, 2011
I think there's a time and a place for them, but both should be used very very sparingly. If a young child ran onto the road despite the parents calling for him not too, and was too young to understand what you were trying to tell him, then maybe a spanking _is_ a good idea so that he associates running onto the road with pain. Better than having a dead child. Or if a young child takes off her seatbelt in the car and ignores all requests to put it back on.
The options of yelling and spanking are best used for special situations. Too many parents will yell at or spank or beat their kids at the slightest provocation, and it can damage a kid for life as they feel they have to step on eggshells to avoid one or both of their parents going off.
by Unicorn Man on May 13th, 2011
But having said that Lizzie you are quite right - it is far better to explain to the kids what they did wrong - spanking and yelling should be reserved for extreme situations only and used extremely rarely.
by Unicorn Man on May 14th, 2011