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by ssmith9115 on December 21st, 2011

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is there anyway i can make my first time trying anal not so painful but more pleasurable

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  • by Sphynx_Lady on December 21st, 2011
    voted: try lube and go easy

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    Anal should be very pleasurable not painful...it's only painful if forced...Start with lots of lube and just a finger or from your partner as they go down on you...the more you play the more your mind will associate it with the sensation of pleasure..then step it up3 finger the 4 before you know it you'll have a whole hand up there and loving it...

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  • by Anonymous on January 3rd, 2012
    voted: try lube and go easy

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    Anal sex shouldn't be "painful" - even the FIRST time ! Sex is SUPPOSED to be "pleasurable" and if your partner stays as focused on YOUR pleasure as he does his OWN anal sex can be VERY "pleasurable" for BOTH of you ! It's probably best to start OUT with fingers or "toys" just to SEE if it's something that turns you on - and "Anal Lube" is specifically designed to make you less sensitive ! It's probably something I'd reccomend for your FIRST time so you can get USED to the sensation of anal penetration and decide from there whether you WANT to be less sensitive in subsequent anal activities or not ! ( My ex-wife didn't WANT to be less sensitive because she wanted to be able to FEEL the sensation as much as possible ! ) Take it slow and work UP to it - once my ex-wife got USED to it she not only WANTED it she liked it hard and fast ! ( She really liked it as a part of being DOUBLE penetrated when another guy or other GUYS were joining us - I don't know if YOU'RE that adventurous ! ) Good luck to you ...

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  • by Animal Mother on December 22nd, 2011

    Animal Mother

    Kinda what Sphynx said, play alone for starters at your own pace, with fingers and toys. Find out if you even like it at all, without the pressure of a partner. Once you think your ready then have them join in.

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  • by reginad11 on December 22nd, 2011
    voted: try lube and go easy

    reginad11

    We use KY jel , I get on my knees and and I back on it till I'm conforable with it. Then he can go with it,, I still have to take it easy oh..

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