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by thisshitgetzold on March 18th, 2011

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should i try to rekindle my friendships?

we've been friends for 3 years but for the past 6 months i don't enjoy spending time with them. they always talk and i find that i can't say anything so i just listen. sometimes i can't wait for lunch break to end just so i don't have to force myself to pretend that i enjoy hanging out with them. they've also started branching out and i was okay with that but that's one of the reasons that we drifted apart. i felt that they didn't enjoy hanging out with me and vice versa.

recently we stopped talking to each other because they left me and i felt so alone. i didn't try to talk to them and they didn't try to talk to me either. after a month they did start saying hi and i would say hi back but nothing more. they also told someone that they didn't want to be friends with me anymore because i'm such an unforgiving person and that i hold grudges. i can't even imagine what else they said because they always trash talk people.

i don't think it's a good idea to be friends again because it hurts me and probably them too. i know things wont be back to normal.

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  • by ShannonL on April 2nd, 2011
    voted: Yes

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    Alot can be said and learned about broken friendships. First - realize that everyone is different.. we all have different opinions, different tastes and backgrounds. What we need to realize is to respect and accept that. Respect that person for who he/she is. Treat them like you'd want to be treated
    Second - as the saying goes "you don't know what you got until it's gone". All of us at some point in time have taken friendship for granted. Have had arguments and fights so bad that have broken friendships and caused each other to go separate ways. Then , after a while we start missing them. We realize that thru the stupid bickering and ridicules fighting it all comes down to us needing each other.
    Of course it won't be back to normal.... but what exactly is "normal"... just forgive and forget.. because isn't that what you want them to to to you?

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