Morals matter. America is judged by what we do or don’t stand for. The pornography industry is not regulated in proportion to the profits it produces with relatively no regulations.
I am a heterosexual Christian. I believe pornography to be against God’s desire for man and that it is a black mark against us as a Nation, not to set a higher standard, for a country who is supposed to be the inspiration of the World under God. That is my personal view.
Now to address a general view that many of my friends, who are from all walks of life and all religious backgrounds express…
Look at Tiger Woods. Who, if the news media is accurate in so reporting, won't publicly admit an addiction to pornography and acting out what he sees thereon. Two or more women at a time? I will give him this much, he did go to a clinic and is putting recovery first and profession second.
Look at Ted Bundy who clearly admitted prior to death that there are men everywhere, totally addicted to pornography and, acting out what they see”. Full knowing he was going to die basically concluded that this is a subject he regretted not being alive to reveal more about.
Let’s look at David Carradine, dangling from a rope, in female underwear and obviously, from those women who had known him, hooked on the bizarre. I am sure he would never admit any wrong in pornography. He should have heeded his own image on Kung Fu: Grasshopper; “Be careful, for there are those who will try to obtain your powers and give you the wrong direction”. That was a very popular family show. Yet, if American families knew that David Carrodine was into asphyxiation sex, female role playing and the like, most children would not have been allowed to view the show and may adults would have watched something else. Proof of the pudding, he’s dead, under suspicious circumstances which at the very least indicates that he solicited sex and might have been snuffed because of his preferences.
This brings me to the reality of things told to me in detail by an associate. My friend is not Christian nor does he have any religious ties. He does respect women and think they are ‘special’. He drove for many male and female escorts, including porn-stars. He engaged in extensive conversations with them. He was told repeatedly that 80% of the escorts, hookers, and porn stars were really doing it for the money... looking to the day to get out and retire. They all admit an addiction to their trade and doing whatever it takes to 'get the job done'. He commented that he had never seen a really ‘happy’ porn star.
One such star, well known, stated: "When I went into the Porn industry I felt dirty. I cried for three months". Then I started enjoying the money and saw it as a means to an end. He was driven to his last 'shooting' after which he said he was going to retire... at 35 years of age. He stated flatly: "If the public could see how many times we 'cut' and 'break' in-between shots and how hard it is, especially for men to maintain an erection on and off and on and off".... "Nobody would find the movies exciting". He also spoke of how many of the women really suffer in the end. He also admitted that the porn industry is degrading to women, many of whom experience pain, bleeding and injuries while having deep or anal sex, or sex where one man is embedded in their anus and another into their vagina at the same time.
He told of how the business sickens him. He stated that many young girls who are 'auditioned' are deliberately subjected to very large males and expected to 'take it all' no matter the pain. One such girl told him, "I hated the pain"... but now says, "I can't get aroused unless I have pain, normal sex turns me off". She and many of the other girls who were dropped as major porn potentials then slip to the next step down, bondage movies, pain for pleasure and rape videos. I won't go into what he said about 'snuff' porn where women are killed as the man ravages their bodies".
He stated that 95 percent of his fellow ‘actors’ tire of the business and most of them are incapable of having normal relationships… abortive at best. He also told of how bisexuality and homosexuality was rampant and spoke of John Holmes dying of aids and the probably thousands of people he had infected, an end which many of the stars meet and due to their multiple contacts could spread at an above-average rate.
I notice that people who uphold porn do so vigorously. In fact they can’t seem to admit there is anything harmful about it, or that it is demeaning to women. If this is so, how come so many female escorts, porn stars and people involved freely admit; they are in it for the money and want to retire and ‘disappear’ into a normal life? Do we have statistics on STD’s and the industry?
Being Objective and looking at the ‘degrees’ of pornography
• CHILD Pornography
• Rape videos, Kidnap videos, etc.
• Females having sex with dogs, horses, donkeys, Giraffes, snakes, goats.
• Torture films where pain, blood or terror is involved.
• Porn video’s where the woman is exposed to abuse by several men, against her will.
• Porn video’s featuring men of abnormally large size and women who can take it.
• Porn video’s of women having multiple men entering her or his body at the same time.
• Porn video’s displaying multiple-partner sex or same sex encounters.
• Home made movies by want to-be couples sold or viewed on the internet.
• Porn videos featuring heterosexual one-on-one sex. A loving gentle film.
What about videos made by men who cruise the streets in vans and pick up women on the dare to have any kind of sex, then film them having sex in the van or wherever they go. Isn’t that called solicitation? Aren’t there laws against it? So, if ‘porn’ takes the turn of engaging in actual acts which are against the law or considered by the laws we do have to be abusive or illegal, then that needs to be addressed. If drugs are illegal, then how does the porn industry get by with showing people taking them and then engaging in sex? Seems multiple laws are being violated.
What about laws that prohibit false advertising or ‘luring’ of innocent youths into illicit or immoral acts, with the promise of fame and fortune? What about the solicitations on the internet?
If those defending the industry want an anything goes policy, then this industry is absolutely harmful to our nation and potentially toxic. Yes, I do think pornography is harmful to America. I think, at all costs, our children should not be exposed and measures need to be taken to assure they are not. That means regulation and strong penalties for violators. It means that those who like and love porn will have to become responsible and accountable. It means that those who produce porn will be subject to evaluation and standards gauged to protect the innocent.
We have to start somewhere and start now. Regulations will not take away the profit from the business, but, hopefully will do away with certain aspects of it. In a society that regulates and taxes everything from potato chips to baby powder, I think the porn industry needs to meet the same scrutiny and prosecution where in violation of laws. I think our ‘laws’ should get up to speed with the new and unusual trend toward sensationalism and the macabre.
In closing I would like to state that I have not condemned anyone herein. I have reported the actual words of a friend I respect who is an objective and logical thinker. Nor have I stated that those in the industry will burn in Hell, or that they are any ‘name’ which is defamatory or insulting. I have not promoted the Bible or pushed its teachings which would condemn the Porn industry and abolish it forever.
Why? Because anyone who is opposed to Pornography are categorized by that industry as Bible thumping prudes, cramming our beliefs upon others. Or we have ‘psychological problems’. If we want ‘change’.. or if we believe that the ‘majority’ supports moral standards in America, we are labeled as being irrational, abnormal, extreme, paranoid and obsessive-compulsive.
If one takes into account cause and effect, laws, common-sense, and above all, protection of the innocent, how can the multi-billion dollar pornography industry suffer? Our National image and the movie or media industries which originated in America should have a standard of responsibility and accountability.
Comments
Porn is indeed disgusting!
by Robogirl_roboguy_robodog_robocat_in_2030 on March 1st, 2010
That's entirely relative. What is disgusting to one person isn't necessarily so to another person. If you find it disgusting, you are free not to watch.
by Gratis on March 2nd, 2010
I'm exposing myself to it and I don't feel any different. Well actually I do, but in a good way. :)
by Isaac on March 2nd, 2010
same
by learn124 on June 8th, 2010
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Porn will warp your perspective on women and make it hard to keep a girlfriend. Fine if you plan on staying single and eventually buying a robogirl.
by Robogirl_roboguy_robodog_robocat_in_2030 on June 9th, 2010
@sex_is_dirty_disgusting_dangerous
Your username is a strong indication that you're very misguided. Are you saying that 100% of the time porn will warp my perspective on women and make it hard to keep a girlfriend? Because from personal experience I know the number is a lot lower than that. Yes, there are some people who go a bit mental over porn, and being the misguided individual you are you blew this out of proportion to make porn look like the cause of some kind of mental illness, but this is not the case in most circumstances.
by Isaac on June 9th, 2010