When one person thinks you said xxx and they are 100% sure and you think you said yyy. See description.

My boyfriend and I split up a little over a month ago. I am very upset as I feel the breakup was over a mis-communication. We had actually just got back together the night before however we had yet to discuss the previous issues due to a couple of parties we were planning on attending, he was also the one who broke it off during the prior week. I tried to tell him that I am just exhausted, sick, hurt by what had happened and I still want to go to the party with him however I want to make sure that he wants me to go (I think I said I am just really sick, tired, hurt by what happened I want to go but I just want to make sure you want me to go with you). I may have phrased it in an odd way I just wanted to know that he was going to be committed to working on our relationship and after the parties we would make time to talk. He however is 100% positive that I was trying to manipulate him and he "knows" that I had said "I don't want to go but you can go". As if I was trying to get a reaction out of him. I by know means was trying to do that, he says that is why he was so angry and if I said what I believe I said he wouldn't have been mad. I have told him that I honestly just wanted to make sure we were going to resolve our problems and he states why didn't you just say that, we already decided we were going together the night before so why ask. I let him know that I just wanted to confirm that we would work on things, sorry if I asked in a weird way. He just thinks that he is right and that I was trying to manipulate him end of story? I just don't understand how he isn't willing to listen to me and thinks that he is 100% right. I'm very frustrated as I know in my heart what my intentions were and don't understand why he would think I would want to trick him, what could I gain from that? I feel regardless of what was actually said it should matter that I was only trying to make sure we were going to work on things. I would never want to trick him as I don't see what could