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by Ramboling on December 1st, 2011

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My MIL new hubby says a lot of uncomfortable things including sexual innuendos about my 4 year old daughter and two teenage nieces. Should I

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  • by ! on December 14th, 2011
    voted: Only allow supervised time with them

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    If you and your family have a good relationship with your mother-in-law then it's a shame to keep away from them completely, although in the interest of your children it does seem to be the best option. This man needs to be made aware that he's over stepped his mark and MIL needs to know that if he continues to make remarks of this nature then you will have no choice but to cut her off.

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  • by GoldenGateGirl415 on December 17th, 2011
    voted: Stay away from them completely

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    Don't EVER put your children at risk! Why even take that chance are you insane? Who cares what they think? These are YOUR children you're talking about. Keeping them safe should be your number one priority BOTTOM LINE. I mean let me put it like this you're willing to give two people peace of mind at the risk of your daughter's potentially being sexually molested by a grown man??? They should not be near either of them. If the MIL is aware of this behavior and minimizes the situation your childrens' safety is on the bottom of her priority list. You need to be honest with yourself about how dangerous this situation is and realize the weight of the issue. I hope you make the right decision for your girls sake as well as your own. Because if you allow him to be anywhere near you children and something does end up happening, even though you knew about the risk you will regret it for the rest of your life and you will have to live knowing you could have kept them safe.

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  • by Ramboling on December 2nd, 2011

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    He's had therapy and was molested as a child, so dunno what else can be done for him. MIL= mother in law. My husband's family all say I need to just get over it. It's creepy but as long as he doesn't touch them then it doesn't matter. Even my parents say I shouldn't keep the kids away from their grandma.

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  • by Pablo_P7065 on December 1st, 2011

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    dont risk it. tell him why though he needs to know thats wrong and he needs to get help from proffessionals.

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  • by just_livin on December 1st, 2011
    voted: Stay away from them completely

    just_livin

    stay away that is just completely wrong! what is MIL by the way?

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  • by Gingerminx on December 1st, 2011

    Gingerminx

    If he is making sexual innuendos about a 4 year, stay away form him completely, and your MIL if she accepts it.

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