by venus6921 on July 11th, 2011

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what to do when you love him, agreed to marry, but just can't? to stay or to go?

I love my fiance, very much. he's been with me thru good and bad, thick and thin... but at the same time, i just can't see spending the rest of my life with him! i'm in my thirties, so i'm not some young kid who doesn't know which way is up.... i had a few relationships, even engagements, before meeting him... but before i met him, i was blissfully, happily, ecstatically single, and thought i'd stay that way for good, and was happy at the prospect. it's not that i want someone else, i don't have feelings for anyone.... honestly, i just want to be selfishly alone again.... but i do love him... i don't want to hurt him... he is a good man, and handsome, and i'm attracted to him.... but i just can't shake the daily wish and dream of being alone again.... what is the opinion of the world at large? and please, be well spoken... i do not wish to read some text-ese lingo. ust the language as you were taught, please.

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  • by xxrenegadexx on July 19th, 2011
    voted: long term engagement to allow more time to think

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    I was recently in a situation like this, not an engagement, just our relationship. She had all the same feelings as you, she loved me and didn't want anyone else, but she just couldn't see us together for a long time. After a while she realized that she didn't love me and she broke up with me. It was hard for both of us, especially myself, but eventually I got over it and I'm looking to date other girls.
    Sit down with him and tell him how you are feeling about your relationship. I hope you figure out what is best for the both of you.

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