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by bere04 on January 25th, 2011

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im only 17

am only 17 im about to be 18 im getting married with my bf this yr in nov im still a junior ill be a senior in august u guys think is a good idea to get married with him or i should wait he tells me he will supporte me and also he will pay for me to go to college and to finish high school his in the army his 20 but another thing is that he wants me to have a bby what shoul i do?his kinda of jealous also idk what should i do any advice?

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  • by Pith-y on January 25th, 2011

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    MY advice is don't get married now.

    Even if his intention to see that you finish school is there...if his other intention to have you pregnant is also there you are not going to be able to go to school as you will have your hands full being a mom.

    You are setting yourself up to be in the powerless position with someone you admit already is "kinda" jealous.

    Marriage isn't a solution to anything, it's a whole new set of challenges. Ones that are best approached when both parties have a pretty good handle on their own lives.

    My advice is wait. But if you don't take that advice then take this: Do NOT allow yourself to become pregnant for at least 5 years. It's one thing for you to determine your future by marrying so young it's another thing all together to bring a baby or two into it.

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  • by dazed on January 25th, 2011

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    I'm worried about the jealous part.Is this something you want to live with/be married to him? He may get worse if you got married.There is no rush.

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