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by daletom on November 19th, 2011

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GUYS! AFTER she took your virginity, how long did you stay with your first sex partner in a relationship?

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  • by CaptainPlanet93 on November 23rd, 2011
    voted: At least several months but less than 3 years (including couples now married or living together 3 yrs or less)

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  • by glennyboy22 on November 21st, 2011

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    2 minutes!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • by daletom on November 21st, 2011
    voted: More than 3 years

    daletom

    Thanks for your comments.

    Yes, I appreciate that people sometimes make a distinction between "giving one's virginity" and "having one's virginity taken". In this context I consider the phrases as interchangeable. I wanted an easily understood phrase that was less sterile and clinical than, for example, "had your initial experience of penetrative vaginal intercourse".

    As an anonymous, self-reporting survey, respondents are certainly free to express any answer they wish. This Forum, by its nature, is not conducive to rigorously controlled surveys.

    The objective is to use the duration of the relationship after the addition of sexual intercourse as a gauge of the couple's mutual valuation of a sexual relationship. Given a continuum stretching from, e.g., "Sex is a sacred and very highly regarded activity, to be reserved only for the most tightly bonded and committed couples", to "Sex is an enjoyable but frivolous activity and lack of sexual experience is a nuisance that needs to be corrected.", individuals would be hard pressed to quantify their position. Duration of the relationship after first intercourse is a more tangible, easily measured way to gauge the perceived significance of sex at that point in a person's life.

    The measure is admittedly rather coarse, but this Forum allows only 5 responses. For example, the "single intercourse" case really should be broken into "rape or coercion", "a compensated partner", and "a mutual consenting random or anonymous seduction". Similarly the last two choices should probably be expanded to 3 categories, with demarcations at about 18 months, and somewhere in the 5 - 7 year range. A more significant shortcoming (but extremely difficult to address) is the convolution of both partners' attitudes and values: was the dissolution of the relationship largely attributable to one partner, or both?

    address) is the convolution of both partners' attitudes and values: was the dissolution of the relationship largely attributable to one partner, or both?

    For the girls' version, see: GIRLS! How long did you stay in a relationship with your first sex partner AFTER he took your virginity? | Answerbag http://www.answerbag.com/polls/girls-long-stay-relationship-sex-partner-virginity_2617193#ixzz1eNnMwf4F

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  • by gberbasada on November 20th, 2011

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    Both questions cannot be answered to anyones satisfaction..... Some will say a day or so while others will tell you they married him or her....
    What is the point of your questions?
    BTW.... in both cases you say "took your virginity" I think you mean "gave your virginity."

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