by amcfan101 on December 15th, 2011

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So I'm gay. Everyone knows it but I've not come out of the closet cuz I don't feel comfortable. I don't think it's right. Am I wrong?

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  • by GoldenGateGirl415 on December 16th, 2011
    voted: Undecided

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    It all depends on your situation. Have you fully accepted that you are gay? Are you comfortable in your own skin? If your not then you probably won't be ready to come out of the closet. I'll be frank, fuck what anyone else wants or expects from you. When you're ready, you'll be ready. If you do want to come out of the closet I have a couple of suggestions that might help.

    1) Make sure you have a support system. Friends, some family, something.

    2) If there is an LGBT center near you they have counselors that can help with your situation. It doesn't hurt to call.

    3) Your safety is the #1 priority, when coming out make sure you are in a safe environment. Each person will take this differently. Knowing is different from actually hearing a person saying that they are gay.

    4) Learn how to embrace your sexuality.

    I've been volunteering at the LGBT center in the city and have listened to different coming out stories.

    Coming out is a "landmark" type of experience in one's life. So come out on your terms.

    Good luck to you and I wish you the very best! =)

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