How do i tell my two best friends that i feel like they are using me for my money, just bc they think ill say yes, or just bc i have it?

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• thank you so much. the way you worded everything was like you were there thru out my child hood. my parents divorced when i was two..and my mother was never there AT ALL for me or my older brother. she even told me, that i was a "fifth wheel" when i was eleven yrs old. my mother still treats as if im an outcast to this day. My two freinds that i was speaking of, have two kids (a piece) of their own, and have no jobs. One of them has said that she doesnt wanna stoop low enough to work in a fast food place...i work at mcdonalds. and im paying rent bills. they expect everything to be handed to them and i dont understand that. bc their parents (whom are still together) didnt spoil them, and didnt have alot of money.(these two girls are sisters by the way lol) iv known them for years i cant even begin to say how much i have spent not only on their children but on them as well..andf the sad thing is..i think they are using they kids as an excuse to get money from me. bc im not so sure that what they say they need the money for is really true or not. But i will take you advice. you seem very wise in this subject :) thank you so much again

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  by MagicalMystery08 on March 4th, 2011

• magical been there done it. takes one to know one. I am a wiser today, and still I have a VERY hard time still to say no when people come for money.
  I used to ( as a friend said ) (excuse the language) piss it away.
  now I live like buddha taught:" don't be a fool in giving. give wisely"
  darn hard it was to learn to discern.

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  by Shunyata on March 5th, 2011