by AmberM88 on February 7th, 2011

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Is this date rape? Would it stand in court?

This guy came over, he asked if I wanted him to bring any alcohol, I said yes. He brought two Four Lokos with him. We started drinking, eventually we both finished our cans. He wanted to have sex, I didn't really want to. I never said yes or no. He started kissing me, then carried me to my bed. He started taking off my clothes and ate me out. He took off his pants and was about to enter me without a condom. I immediately sat up and told him absolutely not, get a condom on first. He resisted for like 5 minutes, promising he would pull out. I wouldn't budge though, so he went to his car to get a condom. While he was gone, I got dressed and went to sit on my couch since I didn't want to have sex. He came back and was a bit annoyed that I was dressed, so he took me back to my room, undressed me again, took off his pants and put the condom on. He was on top for about five minutes, then he turned me around because he wanted to do doggie style. He started thrusting, and then that's when I blacked out... I can recall very little past this point.

The next thing I remember, I was still on all fours (or on my stomach, not sure which), and I heard him say, "See, I told you I would pull out." I was so angry inside... but sadly I was too wasted to do anything. I just threw up and passed out instead. The next day, I asked him what happened, he said the condom broke, but he was way too horny so he just finished with out one and came on my back and butt. He promised I wasn't pregnant, but I got mad and said I wasn't just scared of getting pregnant, I was also scared to death of getting an STD. (And to make matters worse, he said he was a "pro" at pulling out, he's been doing it since he was 19... he's 23 now. I don't even want to know how many girls he's had sex with) He says he gets tested and is clean, but I don't trust him. I know for sure now that I'm not pregnant, and so far I haven't had any signs of STDs. I am getting tested this week to know for sure though. If I took this

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  • by Benjamin_P on June 12th, 2011
    voted: No, it is not date rape. No you do not have legal grounds.

    Benjamin_P

    This is a really sad story, and I feel sorry for you. I really hope that you get better and that the tests come back okay. That guy in my opinion is a total creep, and totaly unsympathetic. Any fool knows that pulling out does not stop STD's, and it doesn't even stop a pregnancy... To be frank, he didn't care about you at all and was just getting off.

    Sadly, being a jerk is not a criminal offence. From a legal perspective, there was implied consent because your actions were compliant. His intentions were clear and no objection was made. This therefore is not rape.

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  • by crosado on February 9th, 2011
    voted: No, it is not date rape. No you do not have legal grounds.

    crosado

    you never stoped him and told him no. Even after he came back from the store you still didn't tell him no.He took edvantage of you with the alcohol

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