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by nikkieanne on November 24th, 2011

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My boyfriend watches porn and lies about it. If he would be honest, I wouldn't mind as much, I'm sure it may make me uncomfortable

sometimes, but I would get into to it also. So my question is, why is it ok for him to watch porn, but I'm a terrible person for wanting to upload pictures of me or videos of us/me and get turned on by knowing people get turned on to me/us? I mean he has explained to me why he watched porn and what it means to him, and I think the same way of what I like. I would do it to be turned on, and it wouldn't effect the way I feel about him at all. The exact same thing he says about porn. I wouldn't interact with my "fans", and they would be using my media like he uses other girls. Some please explain..

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  • by rebellious angel on March 8th, 2012

    rebellious angel

    Why don't you just find your own porn to watch? I don't think he wants yours and his personal life out there for everyone

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  • by Cat1864 on November 25th, 2011

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    I don't see the 'lie' you are accusing him of since the main part of your question seems to be about you performing instead of watching.

    Are you perhaps thinking of the hypocrisy of him watching other people but not wanting others to watch him or you?

    I don't think either of you are fully right or wrong. However, there may be some factors he is taking into consideration that you might not be. Do you want to make a career out of being in adult entertainment? If you have other career goals then you might want to think about what would happen if your future/current employers 'found' your pictures/videos. In the past few months there have been several cases in the news of people being fired because of their adult-natured pictures and videos. What was a job in some cases or a 'turn-on' is causing them issues in their present life.

    Remember that what goes on the internet is there to stay. You have absolutely no control over what happens to any pictures or videos you post. You may post it in one place but it could end up everywhere else being viewed by everyone from your boss to a family member as well as strangers.

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  • by onewizeman1957 on November 24th, 2011
    voted: He's right, it's wrong

    onewizeman1957

    A lie in a relationship distroys trust.
    You my want to rethink you relationship.

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