Do you get over break-ups fast ?

You have to. I'm not the type to get out of a relationship, and run to find the next dude to love and be with me. But, I can't talk to that person anymore. Even if I love them to itty-bitty pieces, I can't be friends with them, and I can't fantasize about "making up" with that person. If it's over, it's really over. And for me personally, no matter the love I have for that person, I have to cut them out of my life. Period.

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I hear you. it takes me years to be ale to maybe be distant friends.
I never stopped loving people. But sometimes I have to rip myself away. especially the last one. I really suffered. I still miss her on weekends, sigh... but I can't even imagine being in a new relationship yet... still healing. might take a year or more.
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by Shunyata on November 21st, 2010
I'm sorry to hear that, shun.

And Ms. Pretty Eyes, I could admire the strength you bring forward to do so. What I just wondered when commenting, what if people really change for the better? Would it still count more for you that they betrayed you by breaking up, no matter how valid their reasons could have been?
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by Foo on November 21st, 2010
Foo you know the statement " what if people really change to the better" is a DREAM. when one engages with people one has a form of dream picture of them. then reality sets in. and we try to work it out. when the dream pic and reality differ a lot, there is no re-concilliation. there is just struggle and hope. forget about expecting or hoping for " them to change". been there, done it. it is a huge mistake. people don't change in the basics. we live a " dream" hoping that. better to let go. when we hold on to that " hope" we are in real trouble for a lot of pain.
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by Shunyata on November 21st, 2010

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