by carphi on October 22nd, 2010

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Ok this may sound silly but my husband says I love you- which is great, but it seems its kinda repetitive several times in an half hour..

Its not that I dont like hearing it but he will go 20 minutes say I love you,, time goes by for about 20 minutes..he'll say it again.. to me its like space filler not really meaning it sometimes and if he doesnt want to talk about something anymore he will say it even if I need to talk. What to say? I love him too but saying 10 times in a hour or so seems excessive. This is just doing normal stuff too not intimate times or anything. I would rather he tell me about his day or something and reserve I love you for when he is paying attention to me, you see he often says it when playing a game, not looking at me at all- so at least to me, it looses its value a bit cuz he thinks its been too quiet or something and so he says it- let me make it clear the its not the fact he does say it which my concern, be most sad if he didnt its how he says it and when he thinks to say it, I guess you could say it begins to not feel special. I dont get the " Oh thanks honey I love you too feeling." Does that make sense?

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  • by Ms Pretty Eyes on October 22nd, 2010

    Ms Pretty Eyes

    Some woman would die to hear "I love you", and know that their man actually means it. I understand that it might not feel special anymore after hearing it so much, but how could you not be absolutely grateful? I don't hear it often enough, and it might bother me from time to time, but when I do hear it I appreciate it. And when I don't I wonder. So take the time to be gratified with the fact that he tells you, all of the time.

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    • I choose the answer for what I needed thanks and yes I do like it when he does its just when its every few hours daily sometimes it is overwhelming- for me, maybe its because I was given enough attention as a child and he wasnt which I happen to know is true, perhaps.. You dont know me, dont know him so dont tell me I am not grateful. I am. I only wondered if anyone else had someone who says the same thing to them alot- I mean alot to the point its as I said overwhelming. Everyone has their own level off affection comfort zone. Some like alot, need alot, some need some but not a ton constantly to be happy. I am not the only one in my family who is like that and my family are close.

      carphi

      by carphi on October 23rd, 2010

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