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by PeeNut62 on September 15th, 2008

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My wife and I would like to have anal sex (her idea), but we are both afraid of the pain it might cause. How can we properly lubricate or otherwise prepare for first time anal sex ? What is the best way to enter her?

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  • by PuffinPig on July 19th, 2010

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    Yes it will hurt the first time and probably many more times after that.
    The crucial thing is that you must learn to totally relax. Use fingers or a dildo first to get yourself used to something going in. Lie on your side, the upper knee pulled up partially. Get him to insert one then two then three lubricated fingers and work the lubrication well in. Then grasp the well-lubricated shaft of his cock and insert it yourself very slowly. You need to control the pressure, not him. Once your sphincter tenses up then you're into the pain zone.
    Don't worry if you can't take it the whole way the first time, try again after 4 or 5 days when any soreness has subsided.
    Enjoy the fantastic pleasure you'll get!

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