How many of you married men, would seriously ask your wife to have sex with your friend while you watch? I'm not talking about swingers.

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• Yes, Shania, I would certainly still ask.
  
  Why? Because your leaving would free me to find a woman who would love me and accept me for who I am, sexual proclivities and all.
  
  Been there, done that, found her.
  
  From the time I began to have experience in dating I always made it known to my g/f's early on that I was a fairly kinky puppy. Most stayed, some didn't. The vast majority of women took my revelations in stride. Some totally freaked out. *grin*
  
  In retrospect, the sound in my head of last time I heard the door swing shut behind the sound of clicking heels down the walkway is sweetest music to my ears now, as her departure paved the way for life to lead me to meet and marry my sweet Goddess.
  
  My motto in such cases has always been: "Ok, bye. And don't let the door hit ya on the butt on the way out."

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  by GaiasPet on May 7th, 2010

• You wouldn't get the chance. I do not date losers or users. "Kinky puppy" is an excuse to mistreat women. In fact, their pain brings a smile to your face. You're sick, not kinky.

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  by Shania on May 8th, 2010

• Would not want the chance, Babe. Thanks anyway.
  
  Gee...not married yet, huh? I can really understand why. Lots of looser out there, eh? Some people are just magnets for that type, ya know?
  
  ANYwayyy:
  Hey, I do admit that I was - in a past life - a very expert and experienced Dom. (But with heavy "switch" tendencies and that is why I am where I am today).
  
  I do admit to sporting massive erections as with glee I put my collection of nipple clamps to good use. I have enjoyed applying my trusty cat-o-nine on many a chica's bare butt as she lay tied face down whimpering into the sheets, or she loudly invoked assistance from ancestors and the Deity. And I do admit to licking my share of tears off their face before the endorphins kick in and savoring their warm saltiness.
  
  It wasn't "sick' as you put it as they were freaky chicas and actually sought out my services. They were carefully screened and the level and intensity of the play was carefully matched to their preferences. A safeword was always used and their limits and tolerances always respected.
  
  But since I met my Goddess, I am a changed man and now actually I am more the submissive in our sexual relationship. I have never seen pain on my wife's face that was any fault of mine in the bedroom. (Although I have seen her grimace when a penis was too large to readily accomodate) I have never twisted her nipples or whipped her. (HOLY GEEZUS, NO! GOD FORBID! She would FREAK!)
  
  Nowadays, if a paddle or belt or whip is used, I am the one face down on the bed and the marked and bruised butt forthe next week or so is mine. LOL Golly, since you seem to know a whole lot about stuff, how could you not know that?
  
  It seem like you do not know a lot about alternative sexuality and B/D or S/M and stuff like that, but you do have some pretty strong opinions about things you no nothing about.
  
  Tell ya what: If you would like to get some first-hand knowledge - like a taste of the sting of the paddle on wet bare flesh - why not find a Dom guy on the Net and go for it? Who knows, you might like it!
  
  Don't worry, it would not be a "date" per se, so you could keep your "looser-less" reputation intact. But I promise it would be an experience you would not soon forget!
  
  In other words: "Hey, don't knock it until you have tried it." *grin*
  
  PS: With my Goddess's permission, I would love to be there to watch and I promise not to smile!

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  by GaiasPet on May 8th, 2010

• Yawn .. mute

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  by Shania on May 8th, 2010

• The desired result! Gee, that was easy. (And quite predictable).
  
  Wow. Nice to know that I still have at least some skills as a Dom. This little exercise was a nice illustration that one does not always have to wield a whip or use nipple clamps to have a woman bend to one's will.
  
  If I had ordered you to silence or dismissed your comments as unworthy, it would not have worked and we would still be in opposition and snipping at each other. Now the Yin and Yang has been placed in balance again.
  
  A good Dom works within the context of the will of his subject at that time, working with that will to achieve the desired result while initially not directly contending with her will. The "bending" of her will comes later, once the relationship and some rapport has been established. And actually, unlike the impression that the vanilla world places on it, this so called "bending is not bending or breaking at all, it is merely "allowing" her to go where she already has a deep desire to go in the first place.
  
  Just as it may sometimes take a nudge to get the fledgling out of the nest, it may take a little tweak on the butt to nudge her into the forbidden world of fulfilling her deepest desires.
  (Said to the sound of the door swinging shut...for now)
  
  We shall meet again soon here on AB I would hope. Until then, Shania, I wish you:
  Good luck and good fun!

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  by GaiasPet on May 13th, 2010

• I like when my boyfriend dominates me but neither one of us would want a third party

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  by rebellious angel on May 22nd, 2011