by hacyonrain on January 17th, 2010

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Why should it NOT bother me when my boyfriend looks at porn? I have researched and tried to accept it, but every time it kills me inside.

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  • by julie_johnson on February 17th, 2010

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    I think it depends on the circumstances. It is a fact that men are more visually stimulated than women so they are more likely to enjoy looking at porn. If he is looking at porn occasionally then this is probably normal. There may be some aspects of porn you might enjoy yourself in moderation and if so then why not do it together? If you really think it is wrong and disgusting then it is understandable why you feel the way you do. If he is looking at porn instead of being with you then there is a problem and he needs to change or things won't work out in your relationship. If he is keen to involve you in it and it is just an occasional fantasy then I wouldn't let it affect you too much. Why not ask him what he really enjoys about porn and see if you can't do something with him that is raunchy occasionally so he is not feeling the need to look at porn. If it really bothers you that much though just tell him how you feel. If he won't respect you and refuses to stop looking at porn then you might have to consider how you feel about that and if you think your relationship has a future.

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