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by MIA on May 12th, 2007

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Recently my 13 year old step daughter asked me to take her to get on the pill. Her dad is against it but I am worried she is wanting to have sex. She likes a 16 year old. Help what do I say to my husband to make him wake up?

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  • by Anonymous on May 12th, 2007

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    First, I think you should think about what you are doing! Do you think she should be thinking about sex at 13? Don't you think you should sit her down and really discuss the consequences, even with birth control, it isn't always full proof. I know a many of girls and women who got pregnant on the pill and using condoms on top of that!

    Also the diseases out there! Aides kills! Even with protection she could still get the virus! She needs to know these facts! Also at age 13, she doesn't need to be thinking about sex! My God, she's a child! You need to be the adult here and explain the facts of life to this girl! She's a child for God's sake! I have an 11 year old, a 16 year old, and a 3 year old and I tell you this much, if My spouse knew my 11 year old was thinking of having sex and didn't tell me, I'd divorce his butt! You need to be talking to your husband about this too!

    Putting her on the pill just to give her full access to sex is wrong of you! I understand a many of girls need to be on the pill to regulate their mentrual periods and such, but to give her the pill to go ahead and have sex is WRONG of you! You should be a parent and stand up for what is right and a 13 year old having sex is VERY WRONG! If her Father finds out about you doing this behind his back you'll probably end up divorced if you go through with this!

    If my 11 year old came to me right now and said she was thinking of having sex, I'd have a serious talk with her! First, she'd not be put on the pill, she's way too young to experience an adult sexual experience. There's no way I'd give her the right by putting her on something that gave her a false sense of "safety" and that's exactly what it is! Being on the pill is not a full proof way to prevent anything! Many women still get pregnant and many women end up with life threatening diseases from having one sexual encounter, and that's with a rubber, rubbers can have microscopic holes from the factory and fluids can still get through!

    This is stupid and dangerous! She's only 13 years old! My God, what is this world coming to? Put a child on the pill so she'll feel safe enough to have sex, and geeze the father is blind to it all!!! You're going to end up in divorce court my dear and probably still with a grandchild and maybe even a youngster with a VD!

    I seriously hope you sit her down and have long talk with her about the dangers of sex! By the way, how old are you???? You seem like you could be a young one yourself?? maybe in your early twenties???

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    • Ok you need to read all my comments...I DO NOT WANT HER ON THE PILL...I AM THE ONE SCREAMING AT THE TOP OF MY LUNGS TO HER, HER DAD AND ANYONE WHO WILL LISTEN THAT SHE IS TO YOUNG. I agree with you that she should be enjoying being young instead of being in these adult situations but my husband pretty much lets her go and do what she wants. She is my step daughter so I do include my husband on everything since this is his daughter but he is still allowing her to "date" a 16 year old boy. I am so upset and frustrated with the whole situation I just wanted to scream. How I make him see this is so wrong I do not know. Oh and btw I am a 42 year old grandmother...

      MIA

      by MIA on May 12th, 2007

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