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You're reading My husband wants me to change. He doesn't like the way I look, the way I do the things. As I have been home maker since marriage. He doesn't even like the way I take care of house. He complaints more and appretiates less. How can I change myself?
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I did change myself, over and over and over again til i just couldn't do it anymore. I did finally leave, after 13 years of marriage, i did get a new model and upgraded. I'm happier now than i've ever been.
I'm done changing myself for other ppl. I HAVE changed alot since i left him, but i did it to better MYSELF.
You never change who you are for someone else, they won't do it for you.
Yeah you might need a change, and leaving him will definately wake him up to the reality that you are not always going to be around for him to push around.
If you aren't doing enough around the house for him, then he needs to be encouraging you, not berating. He needs to be concerned as to WHY you aren't doing things to take better care of him.
I cleaned my house for 4hours one day. When my hubby got home he took one look around and picked out something that i DIDN'T do to nag me about, rather than saying "wow baby, nice job".
I went OFF on him. and i didn't do it again.
by bludlettingudie on December 4th, 2009
When i left him, he went nuts trying to figure out how to get me to stay. By that time i had already found the man i'm with now and it was to late. There was nothing he could do.
He kept say "I'll change, we'll go to couseling" and i kept answering "i don't want you to change for me, change for yourself, that's what i'm doing"
I loved that man with everything i had, would have done anything for him, but i felt like crap about myself, let myself go and he wasn't a bit concerned about it until i left. He would have never been the man i needed him to be, even if he did change for me, he would have went right back to being his old controlling self again after he was sure that I was right where he wanted me.
Don't be fooled by the promises, you'll find out later that they are empty.
by bludlettingudie on December 4th, 2009