by Garima on November 25th, 2009

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I am 17 year old.I have a 5 year old daughter. Now the father of this child broke off me soon after the intimate day. Since14 I am in a relationship with my classmate. Now I have a baby son due to this relationship.When should I tell my parents about this

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  • by ninja man on November 25th, 2009

    ninja man

    Is this a joke?

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    • I sure hope so

      N I C K

      by N I C K on November 25th, 2009

    • I mean, I am not much of a mathematician. But 17-5=12. Now, that is possible. However, she also said she had been in a relationship since she was 14 and had a son due to this relationship. Also possible, if ill-explained. However, this raises the question of how on earth the parents don't know that she has two kids, five years ofter the fact. Or, if you take it less literally, that they don't know she has a second kid (here I presume she still lives with them, since most 17 year olds don't have the means to raise one, let alone two, children)

      ninja man

      by ninja man on November 25th, 2009

    • and wow she just put up a picture, I think this is for real. She's also from India where this might not be that uncommon.

      N I C K

      by N I C K on November 25th, 2009

    • Both of my children live in the outhouse. That is the same trouble that I am facing how to keep them a secret. Furthermore I have not met my parents for the last 2 months.

      Garima

      by Garima on November 26th, 2009

    • This has to be a troll....

      ninja man

      by ninja man on November 26th, 2009

    • Please believe me. I am speaking the truth.

      Garima

      by Garima on November 26th, 2009

    • If you are you should know that in my country you would be thrown in prison, and your children removed by the state. Furthermore, you would be considered worse than an animal, worthy only of pity at best and utter contempt at worse. Either way: SHAME ON YOU!!!! You bring dishonor on your family and yourself!

      ninja man

      by ninja man on November 26th, 2009

    • After seeing the question, ninja man's answer and all the comments under it, I checked and saw that the question has been posted by a new AB user from New Delhi, India.
      As I am a 57 year old man from India living in India, I can say with total certainty that this is an imaginary question made up by a fake member who has somehow got into the Answerbag just today.
      This sort of situation simply cannot arise in India where girls are guarded by their parents and watched by relatives and neighbors. She simply couln't have got pregnant and carried to forward till delivery of the baby without anyone noticing.
      Forget about this question. I am sorry this member is from India.

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on November 28th, 2009

    • Also if there is a way, it would be worthwhile checking if this user is really from India.
      This girl could be mentally ill. Possibly she has two dogs - 5 and 3 years old. She imagines they are her children. She is in need of urgent psychiatric help.
      +6 to Ninja Man.

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on November 28th, 2009

    • Hi Suby she may be from India..but fantasizing I think..if you see some of her answers she gloats about having sex at 12..
      see this comment from her..could this be correct?
      http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8394491

      CT

      by CT on November 28th, 2009

    • CT: Cheerleaders for cricket teams came to India only with the first IPL matches. Even in 2008 and 2009 all IPL teams had to import their cheerleaders as no trained cheerleaders were locally available. Then there was the complaint from 'moral policing' people who said cheerleading wearing skirts or bikinis should not be permitted. Then new dresses that cover whole bodies except the face and arms were designed and was worn by all cheerleaders while doing their acts.
      Local cricket teams simply have not had any cheerleaders during a game - A fact I am sure of. There is no possibility of her comment of her cheerleading a local team wearing a skirt being true. This girl is fantasizing I am sure.
      I sent her an email last night but there is no reply till now. If there was a reply I could have seen her IP address and made out if she was indeed from India. She is either fantasizing or hallucinating, we must think.
      A potential Major Tom in the making.

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on November 28th, 2009

    • Maybe she IS "Major Tom," with a new identity, Sahib. Here's how to definitively find out:
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      Ask her a question in a language OTHER than English, which she is probably likely to know, IF she is in fact in India (which I doubt).
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      If she doesn't respond, or refuses to answer the question in the language asked, then you can conclude that the only time she has seen India, is in the pages of a FODOR® guide book.

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on November 28th, 2009

    • The email I sent her was in English. I could have asked her in Hindi which she must know if she is from Delhi. No reply till now.
      I think she will go away after seeing how ABers respond to this kind of nonsense.
      I did not flag the question 'nonsense' as AB staff will surely reject the flag.

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on November 28th, 2009

    • If their covered - how could she lose her skirt?
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      http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8394491
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      This could be anyone - however, I smell a troll
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      Be careful if she does e-mail you - you never know what your opening, Suby
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      Lets not forget, you can translate any language online

      Lonely - Rebel - AYPWIP

      by Lonely - Rebel - AYPWIP on November 28th, 2009

    • I use Linux. No worry about virus. But she must reply first!
      Left a comment under the other answer.

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on November 28th, 2009

    • Suby --> you amaze me
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      Good nite

      Lonely - Rebel - AYPWIP

      by Lonely - Rebel - AYPWIP on November 28th, 2009

    • Yeah, she ran away quick after being confronted here. This reeks of troll.

      ninja man

      by ninja man on November 28th, 2009

    • Lonely: I am 57 years old. You must consider my age.
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      ninja man:More of a fake than a troll.

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on November 28th, 2009

    • Whats the point? Why fake?

      ninja man

      by ninja man on November 28th, 2009

    • This point I had discussed with Mensan. I copy and paste one comment I made to him in another comments thread. You will find it self explanatory.
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      'I see she has not been active in the AB for over 24 hours. She must have lost her nerves and left AB after seeing the reaction of ABers to her question on Teenage Pregnancy.
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      You could see the Major Tom syndrome explained in these questions and the answers to them. It is called the "M�nchausen by Internet". You will find the wiki link to the first question revealing in Major Tom's as well as this girl's case.
      http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1810093
      http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1813222
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      Please post your comments after going through all the links, ninja man.

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on November 28th, 2009

    • Last Seen:
      Nov 29, 2009
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      http://www.answerbag.com/profile/?id=1146068
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      I have an idea - lets unsub

      Lonely - Rebel - AYPWIP

      by Lonely - Rebel - AYPWIP on November 29th, 2009

    • I am not unsubscribing. I want to know when she posts her next comment.
      Did you read the links I gave ninja man? The "M�nchausen by Internet"?
      Same as Mensan, I too feel she is an old hand at AB. She has been putting her questions in the right categories which takes some experience as there are so many categories and sub-categories which a beginner at level 1 could not be aware of!

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on November 29th, 2009

    • Comments gave birth to unsub - we are feeding her hunger

      Lonely - Rebel - AYPWIP

      by Lonely - Rebel - AYPWIP on November 29th, 2009

    • Yes - she's been here before
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      Right categories, careful selection on who she comments
      too, the choosing of India, logs-in but nothing posted
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      Its like feeding a troll, Suby
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      One more reason to unsub

      Lonely - Rebel - AYPWIP

      by Lonely - Rebel - AYPWIP on November 29th, 2009

    • No point. She will only create another AB account. Let her watch all the action she wants without participating. She will learn her tricks won't work here. Thats the way to get the trolls and the fakes out of AB.

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on November 29th, 2009

    • I know the best AB detective
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      I noticed something odd
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      I will shoot them an email

      Lonely - Rebel - AYPWIP

      by Lonely - Rebel - AYPWIP on November 29th, 2009

    • Thanks for the feedback Suby..I found some of the things she wrote quite unsettling..especially as she stated she was a young girl from India..I knew from her writings that half the things she wrote couldn't be true as Indian girls don't behave in this way..so I wanted to be certain about the crickey reference..
      actually the way she was writing I got the impression it was a male using a false id..

      CT

      by CT on November 29th, 2009

    • As Mensan suspected it could very well be Major Tom in a new Avatar. I am sure whosoever this person is has no idea about cricket as it is played in India or the IPL. Wonder why so many answers to questions on 'cheerleaders' category. Some obsession. Has very little idea about how things work in India.

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on November 29th, 2009

    • Thats what I thought Suby..no idea at all!!

      CT

      by CT on November 29th, 2009

    • I know nothing =P
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      However, something seemed odd
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      So, I asked Suby

      Lonely - Rebel - AYPWIP

      by Lonely - Rebel - AYPWIP on November 29th, 2009

    • I will forever be thankful to you for pointing this question to me, Lonely.
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      CT: Has Mensan posted a friendship request to you, yet?

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on November 29th, 2009

    • Suby I sent him the invite to show there was no hard feelings..things got a little out of hand on that thread..I never expected that..though you are a popular man!!
      I'm glad the air is cleared now and Mensan should know I would of defended him also..anyway its in the past!!

      CT

      by CT on November 29th, 2009

    • Nice you did that, CT. We can't go about with hard feelings all the time. That thread got out of hand because an Anonymous user started doing some psycho analysis of all people on the thread.

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on November 29th, 2009

    • http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8425651
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      "She" admits it is all a fantasy.
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      I hope she does not bother staying. We really do not need people posting this garbage to upset people.

      Arisztid

      by Arisztid on November 30th, 2009

    • True true.

      ninja man

      by ninja man on November 30th, 2009

    • Sorry but I still believe thats an older male user..a 17 year old wouldn't of wrote in that way and the style of writing doesn't look like anyone who is Indian at all..anyway thats what happens on public sites..not much we can do..
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      Thanks Suby I agree :D

      CT

      by CT on December 1st, 2009

    • You may want t look at this as its getting out of hand..
      http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6409303

      CT

      by CT on December 1st, 2009

    • I have had trouble with these members earlier. They have something to do with the Taliban, I believe. Did not leave any comment there.
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      As Arisztid suggested it would be best for iamnotabadgirl to leave the Answerbag.

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on December 1st, 2009

    • I'm staying out of it Suby..I see most of it has been removed now anyway thankfully..

      CT

      by CT on December 1st, 2009

    • Other than my opinion that answerbag does not need users like this, I am not going to do anything to him/her.
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      As far as I am concerned, this user no further impacts me.

      Arisztid

      by Arisztid on December 1st, 2009

    • "You may want t look at this as its getting out of hand..
      http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6409303"
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      Apparently everton's comments have been removed.

      Brian

      by Brian on December 1st, 2009

    • Yes they have Brian..probably because the language used and his opinion of rahbar..if you read the thread you will understand why..
      Some of Rahbar's comments have also been removed..

      CT

      by CT on December 1st, 2009

    • Thanks CT.
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      I'm somewhat familiar with everton and he seems like a BNP supporter.

      Brian

      by Brian on December 1st, 2009

    • Oh god not one of those prats..well I don't know about that Brian..but I have to say Rahbar's comments would not of been favoured by anyone..extremism might be the word for it..

      CT

      by CT on December 1st, 2009

    • What is BNP? I am concerned because Rahbar is an Indian Muslim. And he seems mad about his religious dogmas. Almost like Taliban.

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on December 1st, 2009

    • BNP ("British National Party") is, basically, a far right group that is anti anything radically conservative and white. They want non whites out of Britain and fast. They do it out of desire to "protect traditional British ways of life."
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      They try to deny this but, if you go to their website and listen to their speeches, it is not possible. Non whites are not allowed in.
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      Basically, take the worst of our Republicans, make them as racist as some people claim, and you have the BNP.
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      The BNP is gaining alarming popularity.

      Arisztid

      by Arisztid on December 1st, 2009

    • The way some Muslims go about trying to popularize their fundamentalist extremist ideas I am alarmed. Taliban is not going to be limited to Afganistan and Pakistan. They are trying to popularize the fundamentalist Muslim dogmas all over the world. They have infiltrated the Answerbag too with the very same purpose in mind.
      No idea if BNP has infilterated the Ansewrbag.

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on December 1st, 2009

    • Suby basically most BNP members are throw-backs from the NF (national front) who are/were throw-backs from Nazi supporters (otherwise known as scum)..the trouble is BNP members try to *insist* they are not like the NF but they are..they use people, knock on doors and go on about imigration to get public support..they should NOT be allowed anywhere near Politics..
      Many BNP members now are just the average *joe Bloggs* working class man..but, the real BNP hardcore members are as I have mention previously NF without the skinhead!! hope that helps..
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      I assumed the person in question was against the attitude of marrying 9 year olds..but if he is BNP I see why he responded the way he did..

      CT

      by CT on December 2nd, 2009

    • Now that you mention the word 'scum' I have heard quite a lot about them. They can't be as much of a danger to the world as the Islamic Fundamentalist Taliban, in any case. Taliban's work is easier because every Muslim in the world must listen to whatever is said in the name of their Allah - or else the Taliban will name them Kafirs and issue a Fatwa!
      Terrible things are happening, CT.

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on December 2nd, 2009

    • You are right they are nowhere near as dangerous as Taliban..I despise extremism Suby it only leads to hatred..
      I can't say to much here because of my job but I do know the Muslim following is increasing and so is the Taliban..
      I don't like to discuss politics and religion publicly as someone always seems to be offended by it..

      CT

      by CT on December 2nd, 2009

    • Also this thread has run its course. Better we close it now, CT.

      Suby the Coat

      by Suby the Coat on December 2nd, 2009

    • Indeed!

      CT

      by CT on December 2nd, 2009

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