by Dialogue on November 8th, 2009

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I have a friend who I really like her but she only sees me as her brother what should i do to tell her that I want her to know I love her what should I do or say?

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  • by milkhoney on November 8th, 2009

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    If she's said she feels like you're a brother, you need to consider the possibility she already has an idea of how you feel. This could be her way of letting you know she loves you but wants nothing more than friendship. If you are close friends and she's not totally ditzy, then she probably has at least suspected how you feel.

    But if you are good friends, you can let her know, provided you are willing to move on and seek romance elsewhere if she's not interested. And if you are nuts about her, that may be harder than you think. I once watched a couple of close friends go through this, and it wasn't pretty. When one loves the other but not romantically, and the other can't be friends without wanting more, both suffer.

    But hell, life is short and time heals all wounds, blah blah. Let her know how you feel. If you're heartbroken and you can't be friends, you will get over it. You'll find someone else, and you may reconnect with your friend when you've gotten over your other feelings for her. And that's better than always wondering if there was a chance she would say yes.

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