If your having doubts then its probably not what you want to do. You can't let him make the choice for you because years down the road you might see a child walking down the street and say "hey my baby would have been the same age now" and have regrets...its not something easy to do...I think its the womens choice but I personally would never get an abortion with my first child because you never know if the procedure will go correctly. I have a friend that had an abortion a few years ago and it casued her to not be able to get pregnant and now that she wants kids she cant have them....Everything happens for a reason