I am getting serious with my girlfriend after a year, but I feel the need to get my sexual desire out before I make a lifelong commitment. Am I wrong for thinking or wanting to do that?

I am getting serious with my girlfriend after a year, but I feel the need to get my sexual desire out before I make a lifelong commitment.
Am I wrong for thinking or wanting to do that?

Um....yeah. If you want a serious relationship with your girlfriend, one that continues on longer then your proposed fling or flings, then yes. Cheating is cheating is cheating. If you are having these feelings of needing to "get your sexual desire out" then perhaps you aren't ready for a long term relationship and it would be kinder to your girlfriend to cut her loose and let her find someone who is willing to remain faithful to her. When you are ready to be an adult then you can find someone to be faithful to.

To: jwmbiz:re: "It's normal for guys to want "their fair share" of the female population"

Let's rephrase that....it's normal for some guys to think they are entitled to behave like neanderthals? Thanks goodness I didn't marry one of those!

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by Andy Is Wicked Married to Penal Colony on September 8th, 2004
It's normal for guys to want "their fair share" of the female population.
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by jwmbiz on July 23rd, 2005
One needn't act on all one's desires... that's what being an adult is about.
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by Merry Walker on April 11th, 2006

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