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by Blissful on April 2nd, 2009

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My husband tells me that he wants me in better shape, he pulls my boobs up more (and they are already very perky) he shows me pictures of 'friends' who have 'hott' bodies and how he wants me to look. How should I feel? I'm 5'2 105 pds not fat at all.

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  • by Empress of Everything Ever on August 31st, 2009

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    I would seriously tell him to f**k off and if he doesn't like what you have then leave and don't look back.

    You do not need to have someone who supposedly loves you above all others and whom you are supposed to trust with your lovely self tell you that the 'girls' are not good enough and the rest could be better.

    Everytime he tells you that about yourself, tell him something similar about himself and if he doesn't like it then very gently and in words of one syllable or less and easy to understand baby language (he apparently is not very bright!), that if it makes him feel bad then think how it made you feel. If he wants better commentary then he had better start offering it! And some diamonds to boot. (Never lest a chance for diamonds pass by!).
    Good luck.

    And remember, if YOU are happy with who and how you are, then what ANTONE else thinks (even him) is irrelevant. Don't forget that!

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