A married men & strip clubs question..how many of you men can go to a strip club & just look?How many married men actually get lap dances or visit the private rooms.How honest are you with your wife?Do you consider lap dances cheating? touching? "extras"?

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• "no it's just for pleasure, not cheating." How does that statement make any sense? If you are getting "touchy feely" with someone other than your spouse or s/o "for pleasure" isn't that the definition of cheating? I love how so many people, men especially, delude themselves with an extremely narrow definition of cheating. It's as if the only thing that counts as infidelity is the act of penetration. Touching, rubbing, grinding, getting naked, talking dirty, etc. doesn't seem to 'count' as cheating. Knowing what you do/have done in private rooms with strippers "just for pleasure, not cheating", by that definition you would be totally cool with your wife/girlfriend getting naked in a private room with another man & her doing the same things to this other guy that those strippers did with you?

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  by honeybee33 on June 19th, 2010

• @roiboysatx: Of course it's cheating! What are you talking about? It sounds like you're just justifying yourself to feel better about yourself, but you are deluding yourself if you think that is not cheating. I really hope none of my ex-boyfriends ever did that to me. If they did, it's a good thing they broke up with me. What an attitude!

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  by A on November 10th, 2010

• Not cheating!? are you out of your freaking mind?! of course its cheating! letting some stupid whore get all touchy and feely with you

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  by Dawn on February 3rd, 2012