Im fed up with single life, Anybody else feel this way? All my friends are now in relationships, im the only single female left out of them all, why is it so hard for me to find somebody?

I can understand that's frustrating. But I can't help wondering, based only on what's evident in your question, what is driving your quest for a relationship?

You're fed up with "the single life", whatever that is... is there a Single Lifestyle Council which declares what a single life is? You mention that your friends are in relationships -- are you feeling like they're leaving you out now, or is there some envy of them?

And why are you trying to "find somebody"? What does "somebody" have that you need?

Here's my suspicion: you have a lot of ideas about what a relationship is, you think you're incomplete or can't be happy without that, so you want one. It's sort of like that you have a job opening, and you've put up ads, but aren't getting qualified resumes or something. What does any of that have to do with connecting with a specific person?

Love is what happens when there is a mutual experience of knowing and appreciating another very specific person at an extraordinary level. It isn't the solution for a job opening. A generic "search for mate" is like scanning the horizon for a ship of appropriate dimensions, rather than actually relating to a specific human being authentically.

You have to stop treating it like some sort of factory order you're trying to fill. Live your life, and enjoy your freedom. If you aren't fulfilled by that, find out why. Then, if you happen to discover someone whom you really connect with, let that connection grow. There's no schedule that needs to be met.

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