How do you turn a guy on?

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• Why do you assume that the couple wouldn't already be married? This doesn't answer the question at all.

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  by AntigoneRising on April 26th, 2007

• She said A GUY, i wouldn't think A GUY refere's to her husband and either way respect lasts longer than turning someone on and please take time to read the other comments, i think my was the safest advice and the most decent.

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  by Charmaine Jay on May 4th, 2007

• Since she's actively trying to have sex with this guy, this advice makes no sense and does not answer the question. If she followed it and told the guy no sex until marriage, she would be lying and playing games with him - not very nice.

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  by lizvelrene on May 8th, 2007

• You have no idea what a guy refers to, or what the nature of the relationship is. Heck, you don't even know she has a relationship, as she may be asking out of curiosity. She wants an answer to how to erotically stimulate a man, not how to cultivate chastity for the sake of others' morality. Safest advice? She didn't ask for advice on whether or not to have sex, she asked for advice on how to turn a guy on. Are you that dense? If it isn't information you feel comfortable giving, by all means feel free to skip the question.

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  by AntigoneRising on May 8th, 2007

• Agh, this is just frustrating... If we simplify this down, we get this: "How do you sexually arouse a man?", "Tell him he can't have sex until you both enter into a binding legal and moral contract to spend the rest of your lives together, sharing all of your property, quite likely having children which you will then devote large portions of your time and money to raising, for decades to come." ... I can't explain just how utterly meaningless this answer is, aside from a somewhat obvious push of religiously held beliefs of the sanctity of marriage, and denial of pre-marital sex on someone who is seeking helpful advice from people... *sigh*

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  by Twhupfold on May 8th, 2007

• Without knowing that Charmaine answers all questions in the interest of pushing religion, I would be totally lost trying to decipher this answer.. it's kind of like answering "what time is it?" with "BUNNIES!!!!" Some people just can't imagine a woman who would be interested in having sex, or whose ultimate goal isn't to manipulate some man into marriage.. In which case she would be projecting onto the asker an alternate means of hooking a husband without having to have sex with him. That's the only explanation I can come up with for such a non sequitur.

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  by lizvelrene on May 8th, 2007

• thats a buncha crap you dont wanna lie to him thats a shitty way to start things off haha

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  by synnthia on March 13th, 2011