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by James Larrick on May 22nd, 2004

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I was very close with a female friend of mine, and it got to the point where I thought she and her boyfriend would break up, and I would have my chance, but they fixed everything and now she practically ignores me. What do I do?

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  • by MikeD81 on June 27th, 2004

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    Ok...people obviously do not understand this question. Based on his comments and other people's answers, let me paraphrase what he is asking:

    "A close female friend of mine was on the verge of break up with her boyfriend, and she came to me. Now that they have fixed everything, she isn't being my friend anymore. What should I do?'

    The question does not ask 'How can I take my revenge' or 'How badly should I yell at her' or 'Why did I miss my chance.' Being that as it is, I would suggest that you try to continue being her friend. If she continues to ignore you, then you don't need her. Its as simple as that. Stick it out...if she remains your friend, then you've still got that and you'll find someone else...and who knows what will happen down the line? But if things continue the way you say they are...then forget her. Not to sound cruel, but girls are very prone to this...heck, we guys have ALL been through it: Girl loses boyfriend, Girl goes to guy friend, boyfriend comes back, Girl ditches guy friend and everything is lovey dovey with her again. If she decided to ignore you completely when her boyfriend came back, then you don't need her in your life, period.

    I've seen some of the comments people have left...the Sven guy left a rather idiotic remark saying 'stop complaining because he won' and Tweety goes on about 'you have no right to be angry because you're not her boyfriend'. These two obviously don't understand your question at all, so don't get worked up over them...they're completely clueless. You DO have every right to be angry, because she betrayed your friendship, and you are NOT complaining as mr. sven seems to think...you are simply asking us for advice on what to do with the situation. Ignore the people who have issues and need to force their opinions on you...the other people here understood your question, and have given you good advice...I suggest you heed it!

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    • THANK YOU!

      James Larrick

      by James Larrick on July 11th, 2004

    • good answer--women need to quit blaming guys for their problems & realize that they're just as guilty as men can be.

      Answers101

      by Answers101 on April 10th, 2006

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