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by Anonymous on March 17th, 2009

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Personally, I see viewing porn (alone) as cheating. You're lusting after other men/women, and claiming that you're not actually with them seems like a poor justification. If you don't agree, will you please explain to me your point of view on this?

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  • by Chanel0500 on March 17th, 2009

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    Let me say that I don't like porn. I'm not too fond of my boyfriend watching it, and I don't like the fact that the industry is here to stay.

    However, I don't consider it cheating when he watches it alone (even though I don't like it). I guess it depends on what your definition of cheating is. In my opinion "lusting" is not cheating. It's human. I have heard from many guys that when they watch porn they don't necessarily stare at the female in the movie, and wish they were acting it out with specifically her. They enjoy watching the *act*, and basically just imagine that they're having sex. Men are visual. I mean, for all you know he could be watching it and imagining himself having intercourse with you. Then that wouldn't be lusting after another woman, right? Guys...feel free to correct me if I'm wrong on this it's just what I've heard from a few different men.

    I just thought I would share that with you. I used to think about it the same way as you, but after hearing the above from different men I've changed the way I think about it.

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    • That's pretty much what I was going to put into an answer. Well said, and spot on!

      Dugald

      by Dugald on July 22nd, 2009

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