by Anonymous on April 18th, 2008

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I am in love with my brother-in-law. I am married but am in love with the brother-in-law. What do I do?

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  • by CluedOut on January 14th, 2009

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    Wow, 6 billion people on the planet and it just so happens "the one" for you is taken, and by your own sister at that. What are the chances?

    It may feel as if you cannot choose who you love, but actually, we make these choices on a subconscious level. People want what they cannot have simply because difficulty makes achievement so much sweeter psychologically. This man would not be nearly as interesting or amazing to you if he were divorced and living alone.

    You realize you are intentionally creating suffering in the life of your husband and in the life of your sister. Is that the best you've got? If you are a religious person, you are breaking a commandment. If you are not a religious person, you might want to talk to a shrink about your deep-seated sibling rivalry.

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    • Very, very good answer! +3

      JND...IsHappy

      by JND...IsHappy on January 14th, 2009

    • Thank you. I sometimes wonder if people are making this stuff up. Is it really that difficult not to screw over your own family?

      CluedOut

      by CluedOut on January 14th, 2009

    • Trust me, it's difficult for some people. My brother started dating my ex when I was trying to get back with her.

      Sanguine Visions is wearing ninja garbs

      by Sanguine Visions is wearing ninja garbs on January 24th, 2009

    • It looks like people are just desperate.

      JND...IsHappy

      by JND...IsHappy on January 26th, 2009

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