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by pontoof on February 23rd, 2005

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I met a guy online, then we met and had sex on the first date. He left town and I haven't heard from him since. I feel bad for rushing things. Is there any way to let him know that I would like to go back and start over?

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  • by tearyeyedamerican on April 4th, 2006

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    My question is "Why would you want to?" It is a pity that people don't take their time getting to "know" someone before getting to KNOW someone. Sex on a first date sends mixed messages. It might indicate to your love interest that you are "easy" and if he can get you this easily, anyone can and he would never be able to trust you so the relationship is doomed from the beginning. Don't get me wrong, I'm not condeming you, I've made my share of mistakes. But, I'm older now and have learned a great deal from my past mistakes. People, especially men, always want what they can't have. If you give up your most prized possesion, your most preciouis gift to give, without a fight, it couldn't be worth much to you and thus he will find no value in it either. Respect yourself, hun, and the rest will fall into place. PS. Wait at least a good six months before getting to know someone in the carnal sense. It may sound like a long time to wait but until that ring is bought and sitting on your finger there is no guarantee that he is with you for any reason other than sex. If he is willing to wait six months then he is waiting for you, not your body. One more thing, holding out can be difficult. However, they make "toys" for such things.
    Much good luck to you, hun.

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    • Six months? What planet are you living on? Six months? How about what has become the traditional third date?

      centrator

      by centrator on June 22nd, 2007

    • SIX MONTHS!!!!!????
      The girls I usually date, I don't think I'd be physically able to resist for 6 months.

      Death-Oar-Glory

      by Death-Oar-Glory on April 2nd, 2008

    • There are men who have married strippers and prostitutes, so I am not sure about this stuff. If the only way a guy would consider me as a possible mate and I had to wait six months to have sex with him, It better be because he was fine as hell and packing and we were getting married and I was waiting for my wedding night; otherwise, he would be looking at my fine ass as I walked away, because I would think he was gay. (LOL)

      Danni

      by Danni on December 7th, 2008

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