At what age did you lose your virginity or haven't you yet? And what age are you now?

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• The deciding factor in whether or not i was going to lose it was that if i really loved the guy. You have to decide whether or not the guy is worth it and then stick to it. It is a big decision that requires a lot of thought. In my opinion, i think your a bit young to be having sex but its not up to me.

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  by girliegirl86 on January 2nd, 2009

• It sounds to me that what you are really saying yaoifangirl, is that you really don't want to lose your virginity, but are afraid disappointing your boyfriend by not having sex with him. So it is very clear what you should do: wait. If you have sex with him, you will regret it. Don't let anyone try to take your virginity away from you--it is a precious thing that you have. Personally, I believe that the wedding night is when you should lose your virginity. On a very practical level, waiting takes all the awkward pressure out of trying to decide whether or not to have sex with someone--you know exactly when it will happen. And this whole notion of waiting until you "find somebody you love" is really hard to gauge. For all the people who say they are happy with the person they chose to lose their virginity to there are just as many who "thought they loved the person," but ended up regretting it in the end. Marriage is best time to do it--it is the best wedding gift you can give.

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  by capstone on January 3rd, 2009

• Thanks :)

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  by yaoifangirl on January 21st, 2009